Fireworks in March/three months, weather return to warmer weather. 烟花三月,天气回暖。 Dahuaishu in community starts to extract the shoot, makes clear to the new year of spring to approach. 小区内的大槐树又开始抽出嫩芽,昭示着新一年的春天来临。 Had not realized that here Mother Qin of new friend, put in the family/home to refrain from speaking daily, does not have to have granddaughter's that to be excited and delighted from the beginning, although when saw that the He Fang mother and daughter are will be happy, but every day a person time is always somewhat lonely. 在这边没认识到新朋友的秦妈,天天搁家里闷着,没了一开始有了孙女的那种激动和欢喜,虽然在看到何妨母女的时候还是会开心,但每天一个人的时候总是有些孤独的。 Treats with their couple together, has not flown in north a group of comfortableness, that side neighbors are the talent, the speech are also all of pleasant to hear, will also dance the square dance...... 和他们两口子待一块儿,一点都没有在北飞路自在,那边的街坊个个都是人才,说话又好听,还会跳广场舞…… „Is our mother very...... Qin Guanglin accompanies He Fang to sun in the balcony here”, then sees Mother Qin to sit in the desolate silhouette of living room, felt not quite right. “咱妈在这儿是不是挺……”秦广林陪着何妨在阳台上晒太阳,回头看到秦妈坐在客厅的落寞侧影,感觉不太对劲。 „No one accompanies her to play, you too silly and you did not have the topic, chatted except for the little granddaughter and with me , without other matter to do, idle.” “没人陪她玩,你太傻了和你没话题,除了逗逗小孙女和跟我聊天,没别的事可做,闲的。” He Fang had seen the illness of Mother Qin, does not have the means opens the mouth, said that makes her go back...... seems like catching up with the person ; Let her remain, she idles feels nervous, is not comfortable, but also non- wants to take care of mother and child, He Fang did not endure to stroke her good intention, had not raised with Qin Guanglin. 何妨早就看出了秦妈的不适,却没办法开口,说让她回去吧……像是在赶人;让她留着吧,她又闲得发慌,一点都不自在,还非想照顾母子俩人,何妨不忍拂了她好意,一直没跟秦广林提。 Now sees Qin Guanglin also to detect, poured convenient, proposed simply toward him: „Here she lives is uncomfortable, but also no one comfortable, or you give to urge, north or we returned together fly group of that sides to live in some days.” 现在见秦广林也察觉出来,倒省事了,干脆朝他提议道:“这边她住的不舒服,还没一个人自在,要不你给劝回去,或者我们一起回北飞路那边住些日子得了。” The old person always likes the familiar environment, here waited for a long time her to fear that was stuffy to get sick to the old woman. 老人总喜欢熟悉的环境,在这里待久了她怕给老太太闷出病来。 „Ok, I looked that found an opportunity and she says, here truly very bored...... we liked this environment fortunately, otherwise must be stuffily bad.” “行,我看找个机会和她说说,这边确实挺无聊的……还好咱俩本来就喜欢这环境,不然非得闷坏了。” Qin Guanglin one understood, Mother Qin is not a peaceful person, initially outside had to go to take a stroll daily early in the morning, watches others dancing morning exercise, sometimes she also joins a section, strolls a great-circle to buy a breakfast again, can go home comfortably. 秦广林一下就理解了,秦妈本来就不是个安静的人,当初在家时就天天起个大早去外面溜达,看别人跳舞晨练,有时候她自己也加入进去来一段儿,逛一大圈再买个早餐,才能舒坦地回家。 How he ponders over is opening the mouth to send back Mother Qin, north bringing He Fang to return to the flying road together definitely is incorrect, that side wants anything to have nothing, even if stays a while some days still to move the lots troublesome- present this situation, is not suitable to run all over the place. 他琢磨着怎么开口把秦妈送回去,带何妨一起回北飞路肯定是不行的,那边要什么没什么,就算小住一些日子也得搬很多东西麻烦-现在这情况,也不适合乱跑。 By the dinner time, Qin Guanglin made the food not to take a seat, Mother Qin knit the brows suddenly, the look roved on the couple. 到晚饭时间,秦广林做好了饭还没落座,秦妈忽然皱眉,眼神在两口子身上转来转去。 „...... I discovered that you probably were how fat?” “诶……我发现你怎么好像胖了？” She compares for quite a while, looks from the cell phone the family photo of racket in the hospital, puts Qin Guanglin with the son previous gesture...... 她比较半天,从手机里找出来在医院时拍的全家福,放到秦广林跟儿前一比划…… ! 嗬,不得了！ On this day the day is constantly together not to have the feeling to have anything, takes a three months ago picture contrast, Qin Guanglin whole person fat, He Fang has no too sweeping change on the contrary. 这天天朝夕相处没感觉出什么,拿着三个月前的照片一对比,秦广林整个人胖了一圈儿,何妨反倒没什么太大变化。 „Probably fat many......” He Fang swallowed saliva, these months have thought had anything to be leaked by her were the same, now respond. “好像是胖了很多……”何妨吞了一口口水,这几个月一直觉得有什么事被她漏了一样,现在才反应过来。 This goods in having the daughter later short some time put on weight, is out of control! 这货就是在有了女儿之后短短一段时间发胖,然后一发不可收拾的！ „Fears anything, this has not exercised, will then rest will rebound some time normally...... normal, waited for some days to exercise also to be thin again.” “怕什么,这不是一直锻炼,然后歇一段时间就会反弹嘛……正常正常,等过些日子再去锻炼就又瘦下来了。” Qin Guanglin .plus does not care, fat fat, currently the wife, the daughter also has in any case well, hasn't been able to let his fat point? 秦广林.plus一点也不在乎,胖就胖吧,反正现在老婆好好的,女儿也有了,还不能让他胖一点了？ „It is not good, today must start to exercise, towed for two months you unable to practice again!” He Fang shrivelled small mouth, a face does not want, she does not like being pressed by the fatty. “不行,今天就得开始锻炼,再拖两个月你就练不起来了！”何妨瘪了瘪小嘴,一脸不愿意,她才不喜欢被胖子压着。 Really taking a rash step. 真是失策。 Is pregnant the silly three years, originally had no way to exercise at home, she must give him to fill the soup, was too stupid. 一孕傻三年,本来就在家里没法出去锻炼了,她还非得给他灌汤,实在太蠢了。 „Right, exercise! He Fang did not have to be fat you to be first fat, that......” about Mother Qin had a look, to put out a hand a finger/refers of corner to install the big box of diaper, said: „Today starting from, you carry it to go downstairs to go upstairs daily five...... not, ten times, chapter of evening's, definitely reduced at noon.” “对,锻炼！何妨都没胖你先胖起来了,那个……”秦妈左右看看,伸手一指墙角装尿布的大箱子,道:“今天开始,你天天扛着它下楼上楼五……不,十次,中午一回晚上一回,肯定就减下来了。” „...... You, I can reduce leave alone in any case on the line, shoulders what box.” “……您就别管了,反正我能减下来就行,扛什么箱子。” Qin Guanglin will not accept this stupid proposition, holds the bowl to eat two vegetables/dishes, said: „Diets, the exercise, employs two methods to achieve one goal.- Actually fat point nothing is not good, has the deterrent force, I shave again baldly......” 秦广林才不会接受这种愚蠢的提议,捧着碗吃两口菜,道:“节食,锻炼,双管齐下。-其实胖点也没什么不好,更有威慑力,我再剃个光头……” „You want the deterrent force, fights with whom?” “你要个屁威慑力,和谁打架去？” „......” “……” The He City Qin Guanglin of matter to the impression that made was too initially deep, went to the wife's father family/home for the first time by the wooden scoop, several years have also recorded, this matter Mother Qin does not know, he does not want to say that smiles toward He Fang, turns the head to say to Mother Qin: „If later has the brat to dare to bully my daughter, looks at me not twisting his.” 当初河城的事对秦广林留下的印象太深,第一次去丈人家就被人开瓢,几年了还一直记着,这事秦妈不知道,他也不想说,朝何妨笑笑,转头对秦妈道:“以后要是有臭小子敢欺负我女儿,看我不把他头给拧下来。” The deterrent force is not used to threaten others, but is the protection cover, protecting oneself and family member is impassible. 威慑力不是用来恐吓别人的,而是保护壳,保护自己和家人不受伤害。 „......” “……” Mother Qin opens mouth, then remembers these news that watch to arrive, has not made noise again. 秦妈张了张嘴,转而想起来看到的那些新闻,没再出声。 Has seems like can the father who the head/number of people twists, after young Anya is truly good. 有个看起来能把人头拧下来的爸爸,对小安雅以后确实不错。 He Fang purses the lips to smile, „sends to there the week cedar to study her study, no one could bully her.” 何妨抿嘴笑,“把她送去周楠那儿学学,谁也欺负不了她。” „It is not good!” “不行！” Qin Guanglin opposed immediately, that side also has a brat, the extreme danger this is not. 秦广林立马反对,那边还有个臭小子呢,羊入虎口呢么这不是。 „First waited for her to grow up said again, now is big, just the learned turned over/stood up is thinking some did not have, ate meal.” “先等她长大再说,现在才多大,刚学会翻身就想着有的没的,吃饭吃饭。” In the television is broadcasting the ancient costume knight-errant flat and thin piece, the sound that flip-flop fights passes on, three people encircled in one table were saying the idle talk had the dinner, young Anya sat in the children's car(riage) bites the finger, the small bell on wrist is sending out a light sound once for a while. 电视里播放着古装武侠片子,劈劈啪啪打斗的声音传出来,三个人围在一桌说着闲话吃晚饭,小安雅坐在儿童车里啃着手指,腕上的小铃铛时不时发出一声轻响。 The food finishes, Qin Guanglin tidies up the tableware to wash to the kitchen, scratches the clean hand to come out, with matter that Mother Qin discussed. 饭毕,秦广林收拾好碗筷到厨房洗好,擦干净手出来,跟秦妈商量回去的事。 „Now their two good, how also does not need to look, I look at you here idle feeling nervous, or......” “现在她们两个挺好,也不用怎么照顾,我看您在这儿闲的发慌,要不……” „Can this catch up with me?!” “这就要赶我了？！” „Hi, which sits on the sofa with which...... you daily stares at the television to be in a daze, I as for-” “嗨,哪跟哪儿啊……要不是你天天在沙发上一坐就盯着电视发呆,我至于吗-” „You many and I spoke.” Mother Qin inexplicable does not want to acknowledge oneself want to go back to think was very long, bickers. “那你们多和我说说话啊。”秦妈莫名不想承认自己想回去想了很久了,就抬杠。 This is not the best processing place, He Fang wants to make her go back, feared that said oneself catch up with the person ; Mother Qin also want to go back, feared that He Fang thought was serves to be tired to hide. 这就是最不好处理的地方,何妨想让她回去,又怕说自己赶人;秦妈自己也想回去,怕何妨觉得是自己伺候烦了躲回去的。 Also acts on Qin Guanglin, by back is unjustly discredited- nominal being unjustly discredited. 还就得秦广林出面,背两边的黑锅-名义上的黑锅。 Everyone comfortable on the line, Qin Guanglin did not care in any case at sixes and sevens these, when originally the husband clamps between mother -in-law and wife is very difficult, particularly the mothers and daughters-in-law disagree/not with, his family/home is harmonious, this matter being is difficult, grins: „Initially I our in the same place had not crossed with mother and child of He Fang for more than 20 years, which also some that many words saying, I don't paint pictures in the studio?” 反正大家舒坦了就行,秦广林也不在乎那些乱七八糟的,本来当丈夫夹在婆婆和媳妇中间就很难,尤其是婆媳不和的时候,他家和和睦睦的,这点事都算不上难,咧嘴道:“当初我没跟何妨在一起的时候咱娘俩过了二十多年,哪还有那么多话说,我不都在画室画画吗？” Mother Qin sucked sucks the mouth not to have the words saying that of course, their mother and child lived in the home initially time, every day was eating meal time spoke several words. 秦妈咂吧咂吧嘴没话说了,本来就是,当初他们娘俩住自己家的时候,每天就是吃饭的时候说几句话。 „ Their mother and child I can look, you not the life that used to be busy at work...... should enjoy itself to enjoy, without money and I said,, we could visit you to cross do not have in that side family/home comfortably here not to have that side to be happy, did not have contemporaries to speak together anything- “她们娘俩我就能照顾好,您不用这么忙活……该享受自己想享受的生活了,没钱和我说,真的,我们都看得出来你在这儿过得没有那边家里舒坦没那边开心,也没个同龄人一起说话什么的- How now you want to cross how cross, does not need to worry so many, to be how happy how to come, does not need to tie up serves the daughter-in-law granddaughter...... to think that here she had a look, we are all right can also pass, does not need to boil here, when later which day you thought that does not want to live in that side, or was disinclined oneself to move, I received to enjoy happiness you again. 现在你想怎么过怎么过,不用顾虑那么多,怎么高兴怎么来,不用绑在这里伺候儿媳孙女……想她了就过来看看,我们没事也能过去,没必要在这儿熬,等以后哪天你觉得不想住那边了,或者懒得自己动了,我再把你接过来享福。 Now here their two also need the person to look, has me here enough...... ” 现在这边她们两个还需要人照顾,有我一个人在这里够了……” Qin Guanglin has not covered up, among mother and child does not need to do these discard head close to brains, if Mother Qin the present said that she must care for the aged, he can serve three women daily, after the daughter is big a point, He Fang will also take care of the old person with him together, but heart of obvious Mother Qin not here, but was being pulled by the granddaughter. 秦广林没有遮遮掩掩,母子之间没必要搞那些虚头巴脑的,秦妈要是现在说她要养老,他可以天天伺候三个女人,等女儿再大一点以后何妨也会跟他一起照顾老人,但明显秦妈的心没在这里,只是被孙女牵着。 Can cheerful the day, who has liked serving the daughter-in-law? 能乐乐呵呵的过自己日子,谁爱伺候儿媳？ „You......” “你们呀……” Mother Qin wonders, others family/home wishes one could the old person to look in side daily, if not come also to find fault by the back: The daughter-in-law has a child hides is not looking after...... 秦妈就纳了闷儿,别人家都恨不得老人天天在旁边照顾,要是不过来还会被背后挑刺:儿媳生了孩子都躲着不照顾…… This matter accounted for many proportions in the mothers and daughters-in-law contradiction, some pregnant women to the attitude that shows can record in the having a child mother-in-law of time for a lifetime. 这种事在婆媳矛盾中占了不少比例,有的孕妇在生孩子时候对婆婆表现出来的态度可以记一辈子。 How to come here completely to be different, was really the time changes? 怎么到这儿就完全不一样了,真的是时代变了？ „I, if goes back, you may probably look after my granddaughter.” “那我要是回去,你可得把我孙女照顾好了。” „Relax.” “放心吧。”