The body of Xie Yunhas the flavor that the richJiangnanwomenare in sole possession, in additionlivedin the scholarly family, ismanyyears of Professoruniversityto discipline for manyyearsin the market, has seenvariousgreat storms, therefore the exuviatehave turned into the woman who powerful, attended to every detailstep by step.谢芸的身上有浓郁的江南女人所独有的韵味,再加上生在书香门第、做了多年大学教授又在商场磨练多年,见过各种大风大浪,所以早就已经一步步蜕变成了一个实力强大、面面俱到的女人。Mother Liwas together for onehourwithXie Yunin the kitchen, smallone -year-old womanpraised without ceasetothisonlygenuinely.李妈只是在厨房里跟谢芸相处了一个多小时,就打心眼里对这个只比自己小了一岁的女人赞叹不已。Xie Yunis very attractive, the 40-year-oldage, seeming like is also 30over, in the outward appearance and makingstrulysurpassMother Lito be many . Moreover the brainis intelligent, will chatvery much, prepares foodhas the orderlinessspecially, when the ordinaryhousewifeprepares food the kitchenresemblesgoes to war, Xie Yunprepares food, allmethodical, wherewill not haveslightlydisorderly, is cleanandneat, moreoverobviouslycould see,shetopreparing foodhas the researchvery much, very muchhowunderstandsto process the food, howto control the crucial moment, many operationtechniques, in the commonsimple dishcannot use.谢芸很漂亮,40多岁的年纪,看起来也就是三十出头,外观与气质上确实超出李妈不少,而且脑子聪明,很会聊天,就连做饭都特别有条理,普通主妇做饭时厨房像打仗,谢芸做饭的时候,一切有条不紊,哪里都不会有丝毫凌乱,干净而又整齐,而且明显看得出,她对做饭是很有研究的,很懂怎么处理食材、怎么控制火候,有许多操作手法,一般的家常菜里根本就用不到。Mother Lilooks atXie Yunprepares food, whilestudiesherappearanceto overcome the handtoher, two peopleare also chattingsomedaily family activitieswith pauses, the Xie Yunaspects, makesMother Lienvy.李妈一边看着谢芸做饭,一边学着她的样子给她打下手,两人还有一搭没一搭的聊着一些家常,谢芸的方方面面,都让李妈心生羡慕。Chatted, Mother Liknows the Xie Yunfamily background and generallife path, have almost been studyingat age 30, mastergraduationmarriage and having childalsoobtained the doctorate, thentaughtinkeyuniversity, afterward the husbandcareerneed, resignedfrom the schoolresolutely, comes outto makehisleft and right arms, thismadeMother Lienvyincessantly, but also were many for severalpointsto admire.
聊天中,李妈知道了谢芸的家世以及大概的人生轨迹,30岁之前几乎一直在读书,硕士毕业结婚生子还又拿到了博士学位,然后在重点大学任教,后来丈夫事业需要,毅然从学校里辞职,出来做他的左膀右臂,这让李妈不止是羡慕,还多了几分敬佩。In front ofXie Yun, the Mother Liinnermost feelingsare base and low, shehas contactedinallsame agefemales, nocanhaveXie Yunsucheducation background and knowledgeexperience, had no wayto compareby the familybackground.
在谢芸面前,李妈的内心是卑微的,她所接触过的所有同龄女性里,没有一个能拥有谢芸这样的教育背景以及学识见识,论家庭底蕴就更没法比了。ToMother Li, Li Family, ishermaternal homeXiao Family, beforeLi Mugains fame and fortune, veryordinarysalariat, the backgroundis insufficient, therefore the energyis insufficient, althoughLi Muhas made a rapid career advanceat presentthoroughly, the worthcompared withwill not losewithChinaanyentrepreneur, butMother Lihas not establishedenoughself-confidenceat heart.
对李妈来说,无论是李家,还是她的娘家肖家,在李牧发迹之前,都只是非常普通的工薪阶层,底蕴不足所以底气就不够,虽说眼下李牧已经彻底飞黄腾达,身价跟华夏任何一个企业家比都不会输,但李妈心里还没建立起足够的自信心。ActuallytoXie Yun, shedo not createownperfectimagein front ofMother Li, evenhas not thoughtmustsurpassesMother Liin the makingsandotherlevels, shecomes outdevelopment of oneselfsuperiorleakproofdemeanor, energy that alsowantsmanypoint to supporttooneself.
其实对谢芸来说,她也并非是要在李妈面前树立起自己的完美形象,甚至从来没想过要在气质和其他层面上超过李妈,她把自己的优势不漏声色的展现出来,也只是想给自己多一点可以支撑的底气。
When withMother LifacingXie Yun of innermost feelingsbase and low, Xie Yunalsohasto beher ownbase and lowat heart, becausesheknows, ifbyfamily property, in the face of the absolutestrength, otheralladvantagesbasicallycanignore, nowadays, „family property”twocharacters, ifregardlesspolitical background, compared withismany of asset, to put it bluntlyis richer than whom.
与李妈面对谢芸时内心的那份卑微一样,谢芸心里也有属于她自己的卑微,因为她知道,如果论家业,无论是在绝对的实力面前,其他的一切优势基本上都可以忽略不计,这年头,“家业”二字如果抛开政治背景的话,比的就是资产的多少,说白了就是比谁更有钱。Calculates the family propertytime, yourfamilyhasin the multi-families/hometo haveseveralgenerations of writerliteratisandseveraldoctoracademicians, deepfamily background and profound culture foundation, butyoublow the awesomecapitalwith the average person, reallymustdiscuss the family property, everyoneratioiswhosemoneyare more, when your familyQing dynasty when top scorerandRepublic of China after Grandmasterandliberation , the academiciansare little significance, it can only be used as the secondarycontrastrod, only then, in the corerodtiesorequally matchedis useful.
计算家业的时候,你的家族有多家里有几代文人墨客、几个博士院士、多深的家族背景以及文化底蕴,只是你跟普通人吹牛逼的资本,真要论家业,大家比的就是谁的钱更多,你家清朝时出状元、民国时出大师、解放后出院士都没有太大的意义,它只能作为次要的对比标尺,而且只有在核心标尺打平或者不相上下的时候才有用。
An asset1 billionYuanfamily, withassetninehundred million50 millionYuanfamiliescompared with the strength, the assetis equally matched, thencompared withbackground, if the assetninehundred million50 millionfamilyprofound culture foundationsare stronger, at this timecanpress the opposite partysomein the overall strengthslightly;
一个资产十亿元的家族,和一个资产九亿五千万元的家族比实力,资产不相上下,才会接着比底蕴,如果资产九亿五千万的家族文化底蕴更强,这时候才能在整体实力上稍稍压过对方一些;Ifthisassetninehundred million50 millionfamilies, mustgowithasset9.5 billionfamiliescompared with the strength, in the assetlevelbysecondto becomedust, had gonecompared with the so-calledfamilybackgroundat this timeagain, whoalsorespondsyou? Even ifin the formerfamily is the post-doctoratestillhas no eggto use, will be looked down uponandin front of the latternot can gain groundby the latteras beforeagain, becauseeveryonefrom the startnotonlevel.
如果这个资产九亿五千万的家族,要去跟一个资产九十五亿的家族比实力,资产层面上就已经被秒成灰了,这时候再去比所谓的家族底蕴,谁还搭理你?就算前者家族里全是博士后也没什么卵用,依旧会被后者瞧不起、再后者面前抬不起头来,因为大家压根就不在一个level上。Norththisfloatingmonthly salary5000Yuanuniversitylivesprobably, goesto have the car(riage)to have the person who inYanjingwith one roombuthigh schoolcannotgraduatecompared with the strength, absolutelydoes not have the significance.
这就好像一个北漂月薪五千元的大学生,去跟一个在燕京有车有房但高中都没能毕业的人比实力,完全没有意义。Xie Yunis facingat this time, is the twofamilies'in the capitallevelenormousdisparityin the pressure, disparityincessantlytentimes of 20times in twoasset, butis the minimum50times, in the futurethisdisparitywill be getting bigger and bigger, at this time, shedid not look forsomeenergytooneself, feared that is unable to maintain the normalcontactwithMother Li.谢芸此时面临着的,就是两个家庭在资本层面上极大差距所产生的压力,两家资产上的差距不止十倍二十倍,而是起码五十倍起,未来这个差距还会越来越大,这种时候,她再不给自己找些底气,怕是都无法与李妈维持正常的交往。Howeveris goodbecause, Mother Litrulyis a veryfriendlyperson, and has not undergone the long-timetemperance of thisso-calledrespected family, inher, had not thought that the sonrichis his advantage, thereforeis togetherwithXie Yun, two peopletacitis maintaining a modesty, isquiteharmonious.
不过好在,李妈确实是非常友善的一个人,而且没经过这种所谓大家族的长久锤炼,在她心里,也从来没觉得儿子有钱是自己的一个优势,所以与谢芸相处起来,两人都默契的保持着一份谦虚,也算是相当和谐。Mother Lipraised the Xie Yuncraftsmanship, to workwellexquisitely, Xie YunpraisedMother Lito be good, godchildin the right way, Mother LiboastsZhao Ziqiuwas good-lookingto inherit the Xie Yunmerit, Xie YunthenpraisedLi Mubighandsometo inherit the Mother Ligene, several that frequented each otherback and forth, two peopleeach otherhad the enormousfavorable impressionto the opposite parties.李妈夸赞谢芸手艺好、做事精巧,谢芸就夸李妈性格好、教子有方,李妈夸赵子秋长得漂亮是遗传了谢芸的优点,谢芸便夸李牧高大英俊是继承了李妈的基因,就这么你来我往的几个来回,两人彼此对对方都有了极大的好感。In the living room, Zhao Ziqiualsodisplayed the fullladypropermakingsin front ofFather Li, the speech and behavior and vividmakings made one unable to pick upwhatproblem.
客厅里,赵子秋在李爸面前也表现出了十足大家闺秀应有的气质,举止言谈、形象气质都让人挑不出什么毛病。Father Liis drinking tea, occasionallytakes a look atZhao Ziqiu and sonsecretly, morelooked that morethoughtthese twothatcalledoneto be a match, ifLi Mucanget such a wifeto go homein the future, thatmayreally beimpeccable.李爸喝着茶,偶尔偷偷打量赵子秋和自家儿子,越看越觉得这两人那叫一个般配,如果李牧将来能领个这样的媳妇儿回家,那可真是无可挑剔。ItsFather Liisthatinheritanceconsciousnessextremelystrongtraditionalman, neveropposes the sonpuppy love, moreoverhe of ruralfamily backgroundevenbelieves, the manafter age 18onmarriage and having child was also the way things should be . Moreover the rural areaattached great importance to the flourishing population, long agoinfamily/homeson many positionin the villagewas high, evenmet the nature and man-made disaster, suchfamilywas easierto pass, in the future after the sonswill grow up, bloomed a looseleafrespectively, threegenerations of canhave a respected family, reallymade people jealous.
本身李爸就是那种传承意识极强的传统男人,从不反对儿子早恋,而且农村出身的他甚至认为,男人在18岁之后就结婚生子也是人之常情,而且农村特别重视人丁兴旺,早些年家里儿子多的在村子里地位就高,甚至遇上天灾人祸,这样的家庭都更容易度过,将来儿子们长大后又分别开枝散叶,三代人就能出一个大家族,真是羡煞旁人。Arrivedeating mealtime, the Father LiMother Licouplesitsinwinking that on the dining tablenon-stop, particularlyMother Li, alwayspulls out the opportunityto stare atZhao Ziqiuleftto have a lookrightto have a look, howto seehowto like.
到了吃饭的时候,李爸李妈两口子坐在饭桌上不停的递眼色,尤其是李妈,总是抽着机会就盯着赵子秋左看看右看看,怎么看怎么喜欢。Li Muhad not saidtoFather LiMother LiextremelyZhao Ziqiusituation, Mother Lilooks forvariousopportunitytypesto inquireon the dining table,school, specialized, birthday, hobby, hasBoyfriend...... to askbasically asked that was inappropriateaskedalsoasked.李牧没跟李爸李妈说过太过赵子秋的情况,李妈就在饭桌上找着机会各种打听,学校啊、专业啊、生日啊、爱好啊,有没有男朋友啊……能问的基本上都问了,不合适问了也问了。Zhao Ziqiuonceaskedunusualis anxious, cautiousandrespectfulreplying, butXie Yunactuallyfeelsmore and morewith ease, shecould see,Mother Lireallylikes the unmarried girl, thisis an extremelygoodsignal.赵子秋一度被问的非常紧张,小心翼翼、毕恭毕敬的对答,而谢芸却越来越感觉轻松,她看得出,李妈是真喜欢自家闺女,这是个极佳的信号。Mother LitrulylikesZhao Ziqiuvery much, althoughdoes not knowherrelationswithownson, butthinkssheisson'sfriend, twoliveis so near, she felt especially happy.李妈确实很喜欢赵子秋,虽说不知道她跟自己儿子的关系,但一想到她是儿子的朋友,两家又住的这么近,她就感觉格外高兴。Xie Yunbecame soberred, fivepersonmany that Li Mubroughtdranka little, thisred winethenbecameon the dining table the catalyst of atmosphere, quickmade the atmosphere on dining tablemore active.谢芸把李牧带来的红酒醒了,五个人多少都喝了一点儿,这点红酒便成了饭桌上气氛的催化剂,很快就使得饭桌上的气氛更加活跃。Mother Listartsto inquire how Li MuandZhao Ziqiuknew, Li Muthentoldhertruthfully: Two peopleknew that isbecauseintwo peoplebedroomshas a pair of Yanjinglover, therefore the young couplethenreconcileseveryoneto knowtogether.李妈开始询问李牧和赵子秋到底是怎么认识的,李牧便如实告诉她:两人认识是因为两人的寝室里有一对燕京的情侣,于是小两口便撮合大家一起认识认识。
The Mother Lihearnodsagain and again, a boyleadsoneselfroommate, goeswithown the roommatemeeting of girlfriendas well asgirlfriend, suchsocialwayalsoreallysuits the universityfreshactual situation, is fair, moreoveris also interesting.李妈听完连连点头,一个男孩带着自己的室友,去跟自己的女朋友以及女朋友的室友聚会,这样的社交方式还真是符合大学生的实际情况,合情合理,而且又非常有意思。Therefore, Mother Liaskedintentionally: „Theyhave not been thinkingreconcilesyourtwo sidesbedroomhasseveralpairs of youngloversagain?”
于是,李妈故意问:“那他们俩就没想着撮合你们两边寝室的再出几对小情侣?”Li Musaid: „Reconciled, from the beginningbecametwopairs, afterwarddispersedonepair, nowalsoremainsonepair.”李牧说:“撮合了,一开始成了两对,后来又散了一对,现在还剩一对。”Mother Lisaid with a smile: „Slightlyis in loveyoung, the analysis and synthesis are also occasionally normal.”李妈笑道:“小年轻谈恋爱,偶尔分分合合也正常。”Saying, Mother Liwas also asking: „Theyreconcileothers, hasn't reconciledyou?”
说着,李妈又问:“他们撮合别人,没撮合你俩?”Thedirectness that Li Mudidn't expectmotheraskedsuddenly, nearbyZhao Ziqiuhastilylowers the head, wished one couldto get buried into the bowl the face.李牧没想到老妈忽然问的这个直接,一旁的赵子秋急忙低下头去,恨不得把脸都埋进了碗里。looks at that Xie Yunhas a relish, howwantsto look atLi Mu should withhisMotherexplanation.谢芸饶有兴致的看着,想看李牧该怎么跟他的妈妈解释。Li Muhasto brace oneself saying: „Iam not busy, day in day outclassnoton, thereforetheyno onehave taken care ofmymatter.”李牧只好硬着头皮说:“我不是忙嘛,一天到晚连课都不上,所以他们就没人张罗过我的事情。”Made a primal chaos, althoughis not so wise, butgood and badalsosolvedMother Lithisissue.
打了一手太极,虽说不那么高明,但好赖也把李妈这个问题化解了一下。Mother Lialsofelt that at this timesomeLi Muavoidances, cannotfeel embarrassed the sonafter all, thereforesaid: „Busycareerisimportant, but the things in somepersonalaspectsare notcannotconsider.”李妈这时候也感觉到李牧有些躲避,毕竟不能为难自己儿子,于是就说:“忙事业是要紧,但有些私人方面的事情也不是不可以考虑。”
The Mother Liwords are also the point, lateragainhas not continuedonthistopicto extend.李妈的话也是点到为止,随后就没再继续就这个话题延伸下去。Xie YunsawMother Lito havetill the meaningat this time, then the shift of verysuitablematters concerned the topic, askedLi Mu: „RightLittle Mu, yourMuye Science and TechnologycooperateswithCCTV, information is quite definitely prompt, YanjingSARSnow? Does thatconfirmed case of discovery, following have otherviews?”谢芸这个时候见李妈已经有了点到为止的意思,便非常适事宜的转移了话题,问李牧:“对了小牧,你的牧野科技跟央视合作,资讯方面肯定比较及时,燕京的非典情况现在到底怎么样了?发现的那个确诊病例,后续还有其他的说法吗?”Li Musaid: „At presenthas not receivedotherinfectioncases the news, YanjingDisease Control Centerhas entered the highestprotectionconditionnow, believes that certainlycanplayverygoodprotective effect, at present what is most dangerousiswiththisconfirmed casehas contacted more than 200passengers, followingshouldpay close attention totheirsituationswith emphasis, oncediscovered that somepeopleinfect, isolatesimmediately.”李牧说:“目前还没收到有其他感染案例的消息,燕京疾控中心现在已经进入最高防护状态了,相信一定能够起到很好的防护效果,不过眼下最危险的是跟这个确诊病例接触过的二百多位乘客,接下来的重点应该是密切关注他们的情况,一旦发现有人感染,就立刻进行隔离。”Xie Yunnods, said: „Infectious diseasetypepassed ontenandtento pass onhundrednaturesreallynot to have the security sense, inZiyun Mountain Villafortunately, the outsidepublic areacame and wentevery dayso manypeople, was some are unsafe.”谢芸点点头,说:“传染病这种一传十、十传百的性质实在是太让人没有安全感了,紫云山庄里还好,外面公共场合每天来来往往那么多人,还是有些不安全。”Then, Xie Yunhas a look atZhao Ziqiu, said: „Iplanto startto giveYanjingto greettomorrow, makingZiqiustudy independentlyathometemporarily.”
说完,谢芸看看赵子秋,道:“我打算明天开始给燕大打个招呼,让子秋暂时在家自学。”Zhao Ziqiuhastilysaid: „Mother, youdid not say that temporarilydoesn't worryandfirsthave a look at the situation that the SARSdevelops?”赵子秋急忙说:“妈,你不是说暂时不着急、先看看非典发展的情况吗?”Xie Yunsay/wayrashly: „Mythatis the delaying tactics, did youalsoreallybelieve? Starting tomorrowyouare honestathomeare treating, Iwill contactyourprincipals, herelates the sworn friendwithyourgrandfather, thisconvenienceshouldbe ablegoodpassing.”谢芸不由分说的道:“我那是缓兵之计而已,你还真信了?明天起你就老老实实在家待着,我会跟你们校长联系的,他跟你外公关系莫逆,这点方便应该是能行的通的。”Actually before Xie Yun, has not been truly thinkingimmediatelymakesZhao Ziqiususpend classes, hernewsalthoughdoes not haveLi Mu is so prompt, but can also know that at leastseven7-8eight, at present the epidemic situationjuststartsto germinateinYanjing, has not infiltrated the university, in addition the husbandjustgivesguardandto control the rankto promote a bigtruncation the Yanjingillness/quicktoday, thereforerecently, Yanjingshouldbeverysafe, canletZhao Ziqiuagainlastsome timeclass that Yanjingcontributed5 millionto earmark a fund for a specific purposeactually.
其实谢芸之前确实没想着立刻就让赵子秋停课,她的消息虽然没有李牧那么及时,但起码也能知道个七七八八,眼下疫情在燕京刚开始萌芽,还没有渗透到高校,再加上自己老公今天刚给燕大捐了五百万专款专用的防疫款、把燕大的疾控等级提升了一大截,所以最近一段时间,燕大应该还是很安全的,倒是可以让赵子秋再上一段时间的课。However, ina moment ago, Xie Yunchanged the ideasuddenly, liking of Mother LitoZhao Ziqiu, is an excellentsignal, she must help the daughterseize the opportunity.
但是,就在刚才,谢芸忽然改了主意,李妈对赵子秋的喜欢,是一个绝佳的信号,她必须得帮女儿抓住机会。looks atpuzzled some daughters of would rather not, Xie Yunwere also sighingat heart: HowIlivedyoursuchpuresillymiss! The rareLi Muparentslikeyouso much, haven't yourselfhurriedto strike while the iron is hot? Thisthoughtsdo not have, actuallyalsokeeps thinkingis attending class? To you, wantsto makeLi MuMotherlikeaboutyoumore and more, the besttime windowisLi Muis not at the operating time of home!看着一脸不解又有些不太情愿的女儿,谢芸在心里感叹:我怎么生了你这么个单纯的傻姑娘!难得李牧爸妈这么喜欢你,你自己心里还不赶紧趁热打铁?这点心思都没有,竟然还惦记着去上课?对你来说,想让李牧妈妈对你越来越喜欢,最好的时间窗口就是李牧不在家的工作时间啊!
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