Refers to the abroad study experience, Qin Qiuxia like turning on a record player general, under once foreign trade elite Yang Guo induction in proper order, she more said is happier, has almost shaken own details. 谈及留学经历,秦秋霞就像打开了话匣子一般,在曾经的外贸精英杨果的循循诱导之下,她越说越开心,几乎把自己的底细都抖了出来。 Then, Qin Qiuxia really had the proud qualification: The status of returned person, the school record of master, the good appearance, before her work is also , that high monthly salary tall Fuli, one year that Yang Guo looks up to send over 15 months wage and operating locations in the CBD center and comfortable upscale working conditions. By her condition, truly can show disdain for the domestic most graduates. 说起来,秦秋霞确实有骄傲的本钱:海归的身份,硕士的学历,不俗的容貌,她的工作也是以前杨果仰望的那种高月薪高福利、一年发15个月以上的薪水、工作地点在CBD中心和舒适高档的工作环境。以她的条件,确实可以傲视国内绝大多数毕业生了。 But Qin Qiuxia said a word to express that to despising that the domestic school record and small company worked, making Yang Guo feel that somewhat was not feeling well. 只不过秦秋霞言语中表示出来对国内学历、小公司工作的蔑视,让杨果感觉到有些不爽。 Was the ink drinks probably, the home always had that some people, studied abroad from the overseas, bragged is a cut above other people, thinks that overseas anything was good, looked domestic anything was not pleasing to the eyes. They with were brainwashed to be the same by the multi-level marketing, thought that outside world is very happy, the freedom of thought that the sky is vast, but the home everywhere fetters, the system cannot withstand decayed. However is really this? 大概是洋墨水喝多了吧,国内总有那么一些人,从国外留学回来,自诩高人一等,认为国外什么都好,看国内什么都不顺眼。他们就跟被传销洗了脑一样,觉得外面的世界很美好,思想自由,天空辽阔,而国内处处都是束缚,体制腐朽不堪。但是真的是这样吗？ Under which system actually will have darkness side, these people look are the good matters that the overseas see, but has neglected not good side, but looked that the home actually inverts, the happy place was disregarded completely. 其实哪种制度之下都会有黑暗的一面,这一些人看国外看到的都是好的事情,而忽视了不好的一面,但看国内却颠倒过来,美好之处全部被无视了。 Yang Guo will not blindly believe in the home well, but he did not think that the overseas certainly is a heaven, every year that many people study abroad, they cannot judge the quality of goods, doesn't want to stay in the overseas? Has not stayed outside for a long time, instead thought that is not everywhere comfortable, moreover very easy bitter experience racial discrimination, to discover or the hometown finally is warm. Therefore although Yang Guo is disinclined to refute or to correct these person of wrong views, but is listening to such words each time, in the heart always does not think happily. 杨果也不会迷信国内就有多好,但他也不觉得国外就一定是天堂,每年那么多人留学回来,难道他们都不识货,不想留在国外？还不都是在外面呆久了,反而觉得处处不自在,而且还很容易遭遇种族歧视,到最后发现还是家乡温暖。所以杨果虽然懒得反驳或者说纠正这些人错误的看法,但是每次听着这样的话,心中总觉得不开心。 Cultivates the behavior can forget own heritage despite study of it? 做人怎么能数典忘祖呢？ When the waiter serves food, Yang Guo has broken Qin Qiuxia discussed leisurely that the smile said: „Cathy, how tastes the craftsmanship of this cafe.” He also kindly advanced Qin Qiuxia the front Tiramisu cake. 趁着侍者上菜期间,杨果打断了秦秋霞的款款而谈,微笑地说道:“Cathy,尝尝这家咖啡厅的手艺如何。”他还亲切地将提拉米苏蛋糕推到秦秋霞的面前。 Qin Qiuxia ate the thing stance to have the etiquette very much, ate the noodles time fork to use very pleasant with the ladle, reviewed Yang Guo, coped with the present beefsteak, the knife and fork uses somewhat is shoddy. 秦秋霞吃东西的姿态很有礼仪,吃面条时候叉子跟勺子用得非常赏心悦目,反观杨果,对付起眼前的这块牛扒,刀叉使用得就有些拙劣了。 He had to have the western-style food before, but also only then few time eats the experience of thing with the knife and fork like this, for does not make the knife and fork delimit the incisive sound to come in the white porcelain tray, Yang Guo uses energy to cut scattered about this beefsteak. 他以前不是没有吃过西餐,但是也只有寥寥几次这样用刀叉吃东西的经历,为了不让刀叉在白色的瓷盘里划出尖锐的声音来,杨果费劲地将这份牛扒切得七零八落。 The setting sun afterglow diverged at this time, the cafe dark yellow light is joined to the spooky violin sound, the atmosphere appears romantic and warm. But Yang Guo such affective tone has not gone to the careful taste, he was to blush to hurry ugly the beefsteak to finish eating himself in front of now. 夕阳的余晖此时已经散去,咖啡厅暗黄色的灯光配上幽幽的小提琴声,气氛更显得浪漫而温暖。只不过杨果没有那样的情调去细细品味,他现在是红着脸赶紧把自己面前难看的牛扒吃完。 Qin Qiuxia some meaningful glances, had not said the matter with the Yang Guo movement at this time but actually. She carries Cappuccino, has drunk one gently, then takes up meal the arrange, has wiped the lip angle, looks at Yang Guo to ask: „Yang Guo, what are you to make now work?” 秦秋霞这时候倒也有一些眼色,没有拿杨果的动作说事。她端起卡布奇诺,轻轻喝了一口,然后拿起餐布,抹了一下唇角,看着杨果问道:“杨果,你现在是做什么工作呢？” „I now,” Yang Guo think, said that „is the liberal professions!” “我现在,”杨果想了想,说道,“算是自由职业吧！” „Liberal professions?” Qin Qiuxia has been on intimate terms that many times, first time bumped into some people to say one were the liberal professions. Must know that has not worked can also say one are the liberal professions. She has doubts asks: „You want company?” “自由职业？”秦秋霞相亲了那么多次,还是第一次碰到有人说自己是自由职业的。要知道,没有工作也是可以说自己是自由职业的。她疑惑地问道:“那你是想要开一个company吗？” „Has the company? Temporarily does not have this plan.” Yang Guo shakes the head to say. “开公司？暂时没有这个打算。”杨果摇摇头说道。 Qin Qiuxia eyebrow pressed, asked: „Are you all day at home?” Looks at Yang Guo to nod, she pursues asks: „All day in staying family|home, do you guarantee your income? Also wants the parents to provide for? Gnaws the old clan, but in this society most useless crowd!” 秦秋霞眉毛蹙了起来,问道:“那你是整天在家里？”看着杨果点点头,她又追问道:“整天呆家里,你怎么保证自己的income呢？难道还要父母供养吗？啃老族可是这个社会上最无用的人群！” She had realized at this time oneself tone is somewhat heavy, is afraid Yang Guo to become angry out of shame, she hurries saying: „Sorry , I _ don't _ mean _ that......”( I am not this meaning) 她这时候意识到了自己口气有些重,害怕杨果恼羞成怒,她赶紧说道:“Sorry,I_don’t_mean_that……”（我不是这个意思） „No, no,” Yang Guo said with a smile, „I can understand your meaning, but you possibly misunderstood. Liberal professions that I said that does not represent me not to work completely, I am do to translate this line, can work at home, does not need to go to work.” “没有,没有,”杨果笑道,“我能理解你的意思,不过你可能误会了。我说的自由职业,并不代表我完全没有工作,我是做翻译这一行的,在家也能干活,不需要上班而已。” „Translator, oh!” Qin Qiuxia looking pensive nods saying that „this I understood.” “Translator,喔！”秦秋霞若有所思地点点头说道,“这我就明白了。” She hesitant, then said: „My also several friend, they also make Yang Guo your this line, their salary are not really high, moreover this line tired is very very laborious.” 她犹豫了一下,接着说道:“我也有几个friend啊,他们也是做杨果你这一行的,不过他们的salary真的不高,而且这一行很累很辛苦的。” „Ha Ha, the interest is the result!” Yang Guo said with a smile. “哈哈,兴趣所致嘛！”杨果笑道。 Qin Qiuxia speaks now pays attention to the feeling of Yang Guo, but some Yang Guo at heart unstated criticism, if, their income have not known really really who was high who lowered! Must know that Yang Guo currently moon/month income also has 50,000 to 100,000 such levels! 秦秋霞现在说话蛮注意杨果的感受的,不过杨果心里还是有些腹诽,如果真的算起来,他们两个人的收入还真的不知道谁高谁低呢！要知道,杨果现在月收入也有50000到100000这样的水平了！ Mentioned tired is very very laborious, Yang Guo wanted he he! What work comparing favorably with foreign enterprises has laboriously( what refers to is under same level salary level)? The foreign enterprises want on over ten hours classes every day, sometimes in the weekend must work overtime, but Yang Guo, merely is translates every day for 56 hours, the rest of the time are control by him, moreover if usually have any matter, he can also have a vacation to himself at any time. Mentioned is tired and laborious, both did not have really commeasurably what. 说起很累很辛苦,杨果更是要呵呵了！有什么工作比得上外企辛苦（指的是同等薪资水平下）？外企每天要上十个小时以上的班,有时候周末还得加班,而杨果,每天也仅仅是翻译56个小时,剩下的时间都是由他自己掌控,而且平时如果有什么事,他也可以随时给自己放假。说起累和辛苦,两者真的没有什么可比性的。 Yang Guo discovered that was saying was saying, chatted money this on the one hand, this was also Yang Guo not one of reasons liked being on intimate terms. He remembers before , has looked at a joke, said that is men and women is on intimate terms...... 杨果发现说着说着,又聊到了钱这一方面了,这也是杨果不喜欢相亲的原因之一。他记得以前看过一个笑话,说是一对男女相亲…… The bride's side asked: „Do you have the houses of three-bedroom two health/guard? Do you have the sedan car?” 女方问道:“你有三房两厅两卫的房子吗？你有小轿车吗？” The groom's families replied: „Not......” 男方答道:“没有……” The bride's side complexion changes, stands to strike an attitude to walk. 女方脸色一变,站起来作势要走。 The groom's families said: „I have the alone villa, why can live in the small anteroom? I usually open am a race car, can change into the sedan car?” 男方说道:“俺有独栋别墅,干嘛要住小套房啊？俺平时开得都是跑车,难道还要换成小轿车？” The bride's side buttocks fell, she sweet smiles. 女方屁股又落了下来,她甜甜一笑。 The groom's families then said: „I start an undertaking has mortgaged with the car(riage) villa, now 1 : 00 cash does not have.” 男方接着说道:“我创业的时候把别墅跟车都抵押了,现在一点现金都没有了。” The bride's side fly into a rage, stands saying: „I have the matter, first walked.” 女方勃然大怒,站起来说道:“我有事,先走了。” The groom's families said: „Fortunately, I attained the wind of US to throw, the company went on the market.” 男方说道:“不过还好,我拿到了米国的风投,公司上市了。” Bride's side turn around to sit down, the smile, being on intimate terms then continues. 女方转身坐下,微笑,相亲便继续下去。 The groom's families also said: „Recently the IT market was not booming, the stock breaks the wholesale price, soon stopped the plate.” 男方又说道:“不过最近IT市场不景气,股票跌破发行价,快要停盘了。” The bride's side have stood wooden, said: „I have the matter, I want to walk.” 女方木然地站了起来,说道:“我真的有事,我想走了。” The groom's families hurry saying: „My company was acquired by the micro hard company luckily, had hundreds of millions cashes, now can stage a comeback.” 男方赶紧说道:“幸好我的公司被微硬公司收购,有了几亿现金,现在可以东山再起了。” The bride's side flatter however smiles, turns around to sit down, said: „Your quality, always teases others.” 女方媚然一笑,又转身坐下,说道:“你好坏啊,老是逗人家。” At this time two put on the doctor of white coat to run, worked on the groom's family, said crassly: „Your boy ran from the hospital, goes back to take a drug quickly!” 这时候两个穿白大褂的医生跑了进来,抓起男方,骂骂咧咧地说道:“你小子又从医院跑了出来,快回去吃药！” This joke smiles not to be high, but had also reflected the essence that the modern society men and women are on intimate terms, in the final analysis, do not look the income, looked has the room, to look to have the car(riage), sometimes, being on intimate terms or the guardian are bringing, meets asks a monthly salary many such question. 这个笑话笑点不高,但是也是反映了现代社会男女相亲的实质,说到底,还不就是要看收入、看有没有房、看有没有车,有些时候,相亲还是家长带着的,见面就问一个月工资多少这样的问题。 Yang Guo is very repugnant such being on intimate terms, marriage that like this obtains, will also have the sentiment in? Money authorities, was the love unimportant? 杨果很反感这样的相亲,这样得到的婚姻,还会有感情在吗？金钱当道,难道爱情就已经不重要了吗？ Reason that Yang Guo can chat with Qin Qiuxia is so long, except for the Liu Suqin reason, because also Qin Qiuxia has not done like the bride's side in story so undisguisedly. However is unable to be refined eventually, to must talk about money essential issue to come up finally. 杨果之所以能够跟秦秋霞聊这么久,除了刘素琴的原因,还因为秦秋霞并没有像故事中的女方那样做得如此露骨。不过终究是无法脱俗,到最后还是要谈到钱这个关键的问题上来。 Liu Suqin once urged Yang Guo, making him do not say the situation that oneself unmarried gave birth that first being on intimate terms much spoke a word of praise, later waited for the opportunity to be mature, said again slowly. 刘素琴曾经叮嘱杨果,让他不要把自己未婚生子的情况说出去,第一次相亲就多说点好话,以后等时机成熟了,再慢慢说。 But Yang Guo now was really to Qin Qiuxia a not interest, although has been echoing her, but Yang Guo was entirely different from her ideological concept! Chats to chat now, Qin Qiuxia has wanted to correct Yang Guo „mistake” values and professional view, does this make him be willing to continue? 可是杨果现在真的是对秦秋霞没有一点兴趣,虽然一直都在附和着她,但是杨果跟她的思想观念是截然不同的！聊天聊到现在,秦秋霞一直想纠正杨果“错误”的价值观、职业观,这让他怎么愿意继续下去？ Qin Qiuxia person was also, is not considered as that a snobbish woman, she talked about the wages issue time, most is also the hope future object can have the similar acting with her. But she should seek for the companion in her circle, looks for one to have a common goal with her, the speech can speak of the man who goes to together. 秦秋霞其实人也还不错,不算是一个势利的女人,她谈及工资问题的时候,最多也是希望未来的对象能够跟她有着同样的担当。只不过她更应该在自己的圈子里寻找伴侣,找一个跟她志同道合的,说话能说到一块去的男人。 Such being the case, Yang Guo thought that does not need to waste everybody's time, he smiled said with Qin Qiuxia: „Cathy, I have a matter not to know that you did understand.” 既然如此,杨果觉得也没必要浪费大家的时间了,他微笑地跟秦秋霞说道:“Cathy,我有件事不知道你了不了解。” Qin Qiuxia put down the cup, asked strangely: „What matter?” 秦秋霞放下杯子,奇怪地问道:“什么事情？” „I, although has not married, but I had a daughter, now less than one year old, is I am also bringing.” Said these words, Yang Guo saw in Qin Qiuxia the eyes has shown the surprised and unbelievable facial expression. “我虽然没有结过婚,不过我已经有一个女儿了,现在还不满一周岁,都是我在带着。”说出这句话,杨果看到了秦秋霞的眼睛里露出了惊讶和难以置信的神情。 „This, this......” always speech incessant Qin Qiuxia now does not know that should say anything. “这,这……”一向说话滔滔不绝的秦秋霞现在不知道应该说些什么了。 Yang Guo shows a faint smile, said: „I said that this matter, mainly does not want to hide the truth from you. You looked that we also chat today were so long, such big matter should also make you know, if inappropriate, we later do not need to continue to waste the time again, did you say? Moreover you, if could not accept, I can also understand that this was the way things should be!” Yang Guo saw Qin Qiuxia dilemma, simply has given her under a stair. 杨果微微一笑,说道:“我说这件事呢,主要还是不想瞒着你。你看咱们今天也聊了这么久,这样大的事情也该让你知道,如果不合适,咱们以后也不需要再继续浪费时间,你说是吧？而且你要是接受不了,我也能够理解,这都是人之常情嘛！”杨果看出了秦秋霞的左右为难,干脆给了她一个台阶下。 Qin Qiuxia also manifested the capability and straightforwardness of foreign enterprises work female elite at this time, she tidied up package in the hand, stood, reached out Yang Guo, said: „I admire and appreciate your honest very much, but this is the marital important matter, I do not have the means really...... That. Also asked you to understand.” 秦秋霞这时候也体现出外企工作女精英的干练和豪爽,她收拾一下自己手中的包,站起来,向杨果伸出手,说道:“我很佩服和欣赏你的honest,但这是婚姻大事,我是真的没办法……那个。还请你理解。” Yang Guo hurrying has stood, he was at least higher than Qin Qiuxia two heads. Yang Guo bent down to go with Qin Qiuxia to shake hand, while said with a smile: „Has not related, I can understand.” 杨果赶紧站了起来,他比秦秋霞起码高了两个头。杨果一边俯下身子去跟秦秋霞握手,一边笑道:“没关系的,我能理解。” „That today's this?” Qin Qiuxia went out of the booth, said that „today, it's _ on _ my _ treat( I pay), I know that your man led the child not to be easy.” “那今天就这样？”秦秋霞走出卡座,说道,“今天,it’s_on_my_treat（我买单）,我知道你一个男人带孩子不容易。” Yang Guo just sat down, hurrying has stood, said: „It is not......” 杨果刚刚坐下,又赶紧站了起来,说道:“不是……” „Was good, you did not need to snatch.” Qin Qiuxia the makings of capable woman completely have shown now, Yang Guo has not said that she Yang Guo according to returning to seat, waved heroically, said that „said goodbye, later was predestined friends says goodbye.” She went to the onstage to pay up rashly, only gave Yang Guo to leave behind a back. “行了,你不用抢了。”秦秋霞现在女强人的气质完全展现了出来,杨果没说完,她就将杨果按回座位里,豪迈地挥了挥手,说道,“再见,以后有缘再见。”她不由分说地去了前台结账,只给杨果留下了一个背影。 Yang Guo did not know whether to laugh or cry to stand once more, shook the head, was shouting at heart depressed: „What isn't easy? I am very easy! I rich......” sympathized with by a woman, moreover is on intimate terms also makes the opposite party pay, Yang Guo felt that own small self-respect was a little attacked. 杨果哭笑不得地再次站了起来,摇了摇头,心里郁闷地喊着:“什么不容易啊？我很容易啊！我真的有钱啊……”被一个女人同情了,而且相亲还让对方买了单,杨果感觉到自己的小自尊有点受到了打击。 That this, life first being on intimate terms was also dramatially ends. The Yang Guo right hand cancels is building the coat on shoulder, the left hand is inserting the pocket, slowly went out of the cafe. The dim light of night was strong, on street debauchery, on sidewalk crowded, the noise is so noisy, where has the family|home to be comfortable? 那就这样吧,人生第一次相亲也算是戏剧性地收场了。杨果右手勾着搭在肩膀上的外套,左手插着口袋,慢慢走出了咖啡厅。夜色已浓,街上灯红酒绿,人行道上人来人往,如此喧嚣吵闹,哪有家舒服啊？ Pulls out the cell phone to call Song Zhiwen, the car(riage), although has not arrived, Yang Guo has prepared to greet the blame that the old woman expects too much. 掏出手机呼叫宋志文,车虽然没到,杨果已经准备好要迎接老太太恨铁不成钢的责备了。