„Aunt child, I respects your one cup.” Li Yan duan the cup is standing. “婶子,我敬你一杯。”李燕端着杯子站起来。 „Aiya, sits down quickly, sits down, our such several people.” The old woman hurries to press down Li Yan, holds up cup to drink the second half cup, then said, „ my also hard Kuijia he, I for a lifetime was being the hot tempered temperament, the tiger, the Manchurian tiger, a point, the absolute monarch was coming not to be good, few individuals can receive, he , he although started not to be pleasing I, after was the marriage, should make me little not let. “哎呀,快坐下,坐下,咱就这么几个人。”老太太赶忙按下李燕,举起杯子喝下半杯,然后接着道,“我也辛亏嫁着他了,我一辈子都是暴躁脾气,虎啊,东北虎,一点就着,天王老子来了都不行,没几个人能受的了,也就他,他虽然开始不中意我,可是结婚后,该让着我的一点都没少让。 What book in the thing also tries with be reasonable to me, you said that I can be the reasonable person? ” 还试图用什么书上的东西跟我讲道理,你说我能是讲道理的人吗？” This saying said, continues she to smile through tears, nearby several people also smiled. 这话说完,不止她自己破涕为笑,旁边的几个人也跟着笑了。 Say/Way that Li Yan envies, „uncle is really good.” 李燕羡慕的道,“叔叔真好。” „ Once, I have made a determined effort, the nail gives covered with blood that on his arm and face grasp, he moves also motionless, knit the brows, then sighed, said that you kept that long nail to do. “有一次,我发狠了,指甲给他胳膊、脸上抓的血肉模糊,他动也不动,就皱了皱眉,然后叹口气,说你留那么长的指甲干嘛。 Then also said anything, the woman and villain are difficult to raise, you said that is amusing. ” The old woman sighed, „ sometimes I think, the young that meeting, too did not know restraining, he who harmed heaved a sigh daily. 然后又说什么,女人与小人难养也,你说好玩不好玩。”老太太叹口气道,“我有时一想,年轻那会,太不晓得收敛,害的他天天唉声叹气的。 As long as I sensibly, can let him several days later the auspicious day. 但凡我懂事一点,也能让他过几天好日子。 His for a lifetime, short, is the crime, has not enjoyed happiness, I compared with him, my this was near old, but can also present this day. ” 他这一辈子啊,短,遭的全是罪,没享过福,我都比他强,我这临老了,还能过现在这日子。” The eye tears were on own initiative do not come out. 眼泪水又是不自觉的出来了。 The Li He brother and sister have gawked staring, knows that the old woman is not the good stubble, but has not thought that this year the light time temperament so is unexpectedly hot tempered. 李和兄妹俩都愣了愣,都知道老太太不是善茬,可是没想到这年轻时候脾气居然这么暴躁。 „Yeah, drinks.” what Fang helpless shaking the head, has not wiped the tears to the old woman, still was venting in that. “哎,来喝酒。”何芳无奈的摇摇头,也没给老太太擦泪水,仍由着在那发泄。 Ms. Li Yan dai slow vigor, cannot bear the curious say/way, „aunt child, that meeting elder sister is little, you have not thought ....” 李燕待老太太缓了劲,忍不住好奇道,“婶子,那会姐还小,你就没有想过....” „No.” Old woman firm shaking the head, „ is not my affectionate anything, is the person, cannot contrast. “没有。”老太太坚定的摇摇头,“不是我情深什么的,就是人啊,不能对比。 After his father walks, long handsome, long blind, I can be choosy, I but who these people, look at dislike , compared with his father, I no one can take a look, looked on who has the thorn, looked that no one is pleasing to the eyes! 他爸走后,长的俊的,长的瞎的,我还是能挑挑拣拣,但是这些人吧,看的我膈应,和他爸一比起来,我谁都瞅不上,看谁身上都有刺,看谁都不顺眼！ Oneself are clear, this whole life could not meet his father type the man who again can act sloppily by my temper. ” 自己清楚着呢,这辈子再也遇不到他爸这种可以由着我性子胡来的男人了。” This time she drank, emptied now the bottom. 这次她自己喝,空了杯底。 „Eats to order food, day in day out completely thinks some do not have.” what Fang has clamped a fish to the old woman. “吃点菜,一天到晚尽想些有的没的。”何芳给老太太夹了块鱼。 This food, unprecedented Li He first time under the table, he cannot repay first, once the women discussed to crack with the teeth, that was endless. 这顿饭,破天荒的李和第一次先下桌,他赔不起,女人们一旦唠起嗑,那是没完没了。 He can only hear a while to cry in side, a while smiles, was bored, he took the dog mountain climbing lead. 他在旁边只能听见一会儿哭,一会儿笑的,无聊了,他就带着狗爬山头去了。 Arrived under this to the mountain blocks the way from the mountain, how to take one hour, getting down when he sweats profusely, these women just tidied up the tableware. 从山上到到山下这一截路,怎么都需要一个多小时,等他大汗淋漓的下来,这几个女人才刚刚收拾碗筷。 Li Lan is what Fang goes to the airport to meet personally. 李览是何芳亲自去机场接回来的。 Three day of children's Chinese chess competitions, had ended the semi-finals of 32 strong double defeat elimination series, he eight have not entered. 历时三天的儿童围棋比赛,结束了32强的双败淘汰制的小组赛,他连八强都没有入。 Li He thinks the happy meeting, but saw the small cheek that son that loses, he gave to hold. 李和想高兴一会,可是看到儿子那失落的小脸蛋,他还是给憋住了。 Even what Fang also can only like in the innermost feelings, the superficial comfort said, „man real man, we did not cry, what loses did not have at the worst, did we make a fresh start, to look for our insufficiency to be good?” 甚至何芳也只能在内心欢喜一下,表面安慰道,“男子汉大丈夫,咱不哭,输了没什么大不了的,咱们重新开始,多找自己的不足好不好？” „Good.” Li Lan nods is worn out. “好。”李览点头都是有气无力的。 The couple looks to love dearly. 两口子看着心疼。 The Li Lan three days have not bumped the Chinese chess, the couple cheer, finally did not need toward the chess institute. 李览三天都没有碰围棋,两口子欢呼雀跃,终于不用往棋院去了。 However, does not have two days, beam Henian makes the phone call, said that if visits to visit. 但是,没两天,梁贺年打来电话,说要是上门拜访。 „Sorry, this has not will.” Li He has rejected directly, the opposite party does not know in any case the address of own family/home, just saves the dessert. “抱歉,没这个必要了。”李和直接拒绝了,反正对方也不知道自己家的地址,刚好省点心。 beam Henian said, „Mr. Li, I not necessarily compel your son to continue to study the Chinese chess, I make this phone call to be also good for the child.” 梁贺年道,“李先生,我不一定是硬逼着你儿子继续学围棋,我打这个电话也是为孩子好。” „Is the child is good?” Li He was happy, „my son does not want to study now, respects his opinion to be good for him.” “为孩子好？”李和乐了,“我儿子现在不想学了,尊重他的意见就是为他好。” beam Henian sighed, „ Mr. Li, I was really good for the child, you think, the child this time suffered the setback, if cannot face positively, can cast the trauma? 梁贺年叹口气道,“李先生,我真的是为孩子好,你想想,孩子这次遭受了挫折,如果不能积极面对,会不会留下心理阴影? I think you, since loves your son, you do not hope that he is the person of escape? 我想你既然爱你儿子,你也不希望他做个逃避的人吧？ The psychology of child, many that Sir is more vulnerable. ” 小孩子的心理,远比大人脆弱的多。” „That comes.” Li He reported the address. “那来吧。”李和报了地址。 What he has not thought that beam Henian can come is so quick, from making telephone call to the present, considering everything also 40 minutes. 只是他没有想到的是,梁贺年会来的这么快,从挂完电话到到现在,满打满算也就40来分钟。 „Please sit down.” Li He was not happy. “请坐。”李和不怎么高兴。 „Thanks.” beam Henian has not managed the Li He manner, but is the look is seeking for anything in the room. “谢谢。”梁贺年没管李和的态度,而是眼神在屋里寻找着什么。 „Child goes to school today.” Li He knows that he is looking for Li Lan, „has not been on vacation from school.” “孩子今天上学去了。”李和知道他在找李览,“还没放学。” „Sorry, what a bad memory I have.” The beam Henian embarrassed racket forehead , to continue saying that „child display is abnormal, we are also responsible, should many enhancement child's counseling, so that the child can meet head-on positively.” “抱歉,瞧我这记性。”梁贺年不好意思的拍拍脑门,继续道,“孩子这次发挥失常,我们也有责任,应该更多的加强孩子的心理辅导的,以便孩子能够积极迎战。” Li He beckons with the hand saying that „victory and loss is unimportant.” 李和摆摆手道,“输赢不重要。” „To you are unimportant, was very important to the child, tells the sentence truth, he liked the Chinese chess very much.” beam extends new year's greetings the earnest say/way, „he naturally hopes to win, he needs this sense of achievement.” “对你是不重要,可是对孩子很重要,说句实话,他很喜欢围棋。”梁贺年认真的道,“他自然希望能够赢,他需要这种成就感。” „This is the reason that my agrees makes you come.” Li He has neglected son's psychologically healthy, original Li Lan gives up the Chinese chess he being happy that but makes beam extend new year's greetings now several words saying, he turned into the anxiety. “这个就是我肯让你来的原因。”李和一直都忽略了儿子的心理健康,本来李览放弃围棋他是高兴的,可是现在让梁贺年几句话一说,他变成了忧虑。 If the child experienced the failure, was unable to walk from the frustration, is disadvantageous to the growth of child. 如果孩子经历了失败,还不能从挫败感中走出来,对孩子的成长是不利的。 „Mr. Li, I thinks that you also hope your son can become a strong person? Does not hope that he is a person of giving up halfway? If this time he cannot face positively, but has the manner of giving up, the choice evades, to his willpower training is not the good deed.” beam Henian evades the subject of the Chinese chess. “李先生,我想你也希望你儿子能够成为一个坚强的人吧？不希望他做一个半途而废的人吧?如果这次他不能积极面对,而是采取放弃的态度,选择逃避,对他的意志力培养不是好事。”梁贺年避而不谈围棋。 „You talked to him.” Li He sighed, what beam Henian said was right! “那你跟他谈吧。”李和叹口气,梁贺年说的是对的！ Now does not study study the matter of Chinese chess. 现在不是学不学围棋的事情了。 His freely trillion net worth, but still hopes that trains to have the faith the son, has the goal, facing person who difficult does not evade! 他尽管亿万身家,但是依然希望把儿子培养成一个有信念,有目标,面对困难而不逃避的人！ He goes to Li Lan to be on vacation from school, beam extends new year's greetings directly. 他去李览放学,梁贺年直接跟着。 Li Lan comes out from school gate, saw beam Henian first is happy, then lowered the head, the complexion was low-spirited. 李览从校门口出来,看到梁贺年先是高兴了一下,然后又低着头,脸色黯然。 „You go to nearby pizza shop to speak face-to-face.” Li He points at a crossroad shop saying that looks beam extends new year's greetings to draw Li Lan to go, he does not have. “你们去旁边的匹萨店里面谈吧。”李和指着路口的一家店道,看着梁贺年拉着李览进去,他没有跟着。 Stuttered one bowl of sheep's internal organs surface in the gate, smokes two cigarettes, two talented people come out from inside. 在门口吃了一碗羊杂面,抽完两根烟,两个人才从里面出来。 He looks at the time, passed for one hour. 他看时间,已经过去了一个多小时。 „Father, I must continue to study the chess.” “爸爸,我要继续学棋。” This is Li Lan sees the Li He first few words. 这是李览见到李和的第一句话。 Is raising the head, sees his father anxiously. 昂着脑袋,紧张的看着他老子。 „Good, dares to do and has the courage to accept responsibility, struggles to make first diligently.” Li He must encourage. “好啊,敢作敢当,努力争做第一。”李和必须鼓励一下。 Even if 1000 are not glad at heart! 哪怕心里1000个不乐意！