M1979 :: Volume #3

#376: Thought

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Actually does not have any poor person thought and rich person thought that the mind chicken soup of successful study gives. 其实不存在什么穷人思维和富人思维,还是成功学的心灵鸡汤给惯出来的。 The rich person should be what kind, or the poor person should be what kind , the flavors of some frame people. 说富人就应该怎么样,或者说穷人就应该怎么样,有的框人的味道。 Why poorly or why rich, has the reason after all. The opportunity of everyone is different, or the home environment of everyone, the education level is to cause the gap between rich and poor reason. 为什么穷或者为什么富,总归是有原因的。每个人的机遇不一样,或者每个人的家庭环境,教育程度都是导致贫富差距的原因。 Was causes the thought not to be right poorly, thought to causing poorly, this inside causes and effects order, Li He did not stroke clear. 是贫穷导致了思维不对,还是思维不对导致了贫穷,这里面的因果顺序,李和是捋不清的。 For example he knew that an economic truth, understands „spends time-saving” compared with „spend the time to economize”, economically is much more reasonable, but after his revenue increase, cannot change that stingy appearance. 比如他晓得一个经济学道理,明白“花钱来节省时间”要比“花时间来省钱”,在经济上要合理得多,但是他收入上涨以后,还是改变不了那种抠抠搜搜的样子。 Now on what fragrance is also same, not because rich has been able to change the past thought easily. Especially Wang Yulan such person, was a rich person clan, the thought altogether cannot change now, did not need the prospect to have that so-called rich person thought for a lifetime. 现在在何芳身上也是一样,不会因为有钱了就能轻易改变以往的思维。特别是王玉兰这样的人,现在也是富人一族,思维总共是改不了,一辈子也不用指望有那种所谓的富人思维。 However his Li Laoer transits well-off from the poor person, most has the clear understanding to this inside psychology. 但是他李老二从穷人过渡到小康,对这里面的心理是最有清晰的认识的。 If makes him explain some reasons, in his brain will emit ‚asymmetric information’ this word, the asymmetric information caused the poor person to be poorer, the rich person was richer. When he ignorant was once ignorant, like his parents, stands in the low spot, always has the blind spot to the cognition of high place. 如果让他解释一些原因,他脑子里会冒出‘信息不对称’这个词,正是信息不对称导致了穷人越穷,富人越富。他曾经懵懂无知时,像他父母一样,站在低处,总是对高处的认知有盲区。 Is what changed him? 是什么改变了他呢？ Studies, through studying deflation with the cognition disparity and information gap of person 是读书,通过读书缩减与人的认知差距和信息鸿沟 Why therefore this is he in any event supports a viewpoint, the knowledge change destiny. 所以这就是为什么他无论如何都支持一个观点,知识改变命运。 Except for the education, where also has other simply rescues the poor way. 除了教育,哪里还有其他简单的救贫方式。 Any diligent sweat diligently should or uses on studying, the uncouth point said, studying is becomes the best shortcut of rich person. Naturally after the age of the Internet approaches, everyone depends on fragment the knowledge, thinks vastly, everybody thinks that has made up for the information gap, steals does not know, the knowledge is also the tasteful depth. 什么勤奋努力的汗水最好还是用在读书上,俗气一点说,读书是成为富人的最佳捷径。当然随着互联网时代来临之后,每个人都靠碎片化的知识,自以为广博,大家以为都弥补了信息鸿沟,窃不知,知识也是讲究深度的。 After the thing buys, Li He does not need to ask that knows what Fang is not willing to stroll again, any matter that involves spending, she is 100 is not glad, the thing that she buys to the child, she basically has not bought basically, this has not related with money multi- money less/small. 东西买好后,李和不用问都知道何芳是不愿意再逛了,凡是涉及到花钱的事情,她是100个不乐意的,她买的东西基本都是给孩子的,她自己基本没买,这跟钱多钱少是没有关系的。 He leads three women to walk on the avenue, caused many turning head to lead, because of him, his overbearing president fool face, the bystander did not know his details like this, was passer-by armor. Causes nothing but is three pretty women who the passer-by looks askance repeatedly! 他带着三个女人走在大街上,引起了不少的回头率,不是因为他,他这样的霸道总裁傻子脸,外人不知道他底细,也就是个路人甲。引起路人频频侧目的无非是三个漂亮的女人了！ what Fang is the tight-fitting jeans, stretches slenderly two legs worth looking , the stature is appearing sends exquisite. 何芳是紧身的牛仔裤,把两条腿绷得纤细耐看,身材在显得玲珑有致。 The fourth child with hand to rub by long that the wind blew, on the mouth is hung a light smile, making the person heart live kindly. 老四用手撸了撸被风吹起的长,嘴上挂着一个淡淡的微笑,让人心生亲切。 Was long on Lian Laowu, on the face was bringing regardless of when where that happy smiling face, from all sides was upon the jump in place. 就连老五都长开了,脸上带着无论何时何地都那么开心的笑容,在前前后后的地方跑来跑去。 The lunar calendar December 24 made offerings to the kitchen god, was the sacrificial offering stove Monarch's holiday. 农历腊月24日是过小年,是祭祀灶君的节日。 However made offerings to the kitchen god in some northern places on the 23 rd, she made offerings to the kitchen god to dispute in which day with the Li He two people for a long time, finally gained the victory to come to an end by her. 不过在一些北方的地方过小年是在23日,她跟李和两个人在哪一天过小年争执了许久,最终还是以她取得胜利而告终。 „23, the melon-shaped candy sticks, stove Monarch master must ascend the sky.” “23,糖瓜粘,灶君老爷要上天。” The so-called melon-shaped candy, with the sugar that the glutinous millet and malt cook down. 所谓糖瓜,是用黄米和麦芽熬成的糖。 But where lane melon-shaped candy? 可是哪里弄糖瓜呢？ The melon-shaped candy in city and candy store makes her always feel where is not right, the taste was too sweet, inside definitely is the sucrose and alum. 市和糖果店里的糖瓜让她总感觉哪里不对,口味太甜了,里面肯定是蔗糖和白矾。 The authentic melon-shaped candy eats the taste to be slightly sour, crisp and sweet crispy, has a distinct flavor. The middle does not have the honeycomb certainly, in doing, crosses the thick liquid to take 4 hours, in addition must rub the sugar, does completely, at least takes one day. 正宗的糖瓜吃起来口味稍酸,脆甜香酥,别有风味。中间绝没有蜂窝,在做的时候,过浆就需4个小时,此外还需揉糖等,完全做下来,至少需一天。 She along the street strings together lane with the fourth child, two people had finally found the melon-shaped candy in a common small shop front, naturally is filled with joy. 她就和老四沿街串巷,两个人终于在一个不起眼的小店面找到了糖瓜,当然是满心欢喜。 She to these customs is most tasteful, not compared with the person backwardness of these old-fashioned people, these or the visible or invisible custom, is flooding each aspect of the daily life and joyful and sad occasions. 她对这些规矩是最讲究的,一点都不比那些老派的人落后,这些或有形或无形的规矩,充斥着日常生活和大事小情的各个方面。 These art of Li He to what fragrance is really helpless, perhaps in any situation, they will then brave, is restraining his words and deeds. 李和对何芳的这些讲究真的是无奈,说不定在什么场合、什么时候,它们便会冒出来,约束着他的言行。 what Fang said, the custom sometimes is also an education of person, does not have the education to be annoying. 何芳说,规矩有时候也是一个人的教养,没教养才讨人嫌呢。 Li He actually had nothing to say in reply. 李和竟然无言以对。 Aunt who what fragrance lets family/home went home, the will of the people are the meat is long, who does not hope Spring Festival to go home with the family member to reunite, she cannot delay others to celebrate the new year for the family/home. She once wants the aunt dismissing, her already passed the time of childbirth, a person has the hand to have the foot, where important person serves, how to have the guilty conscience. 何芳让家里的阿姨回家了,人心都是肉长的,谁不希望春节回家和亲人团聚,她不能为了自己家里而耽误了人家过年。她一度想把阿姨给辞了,她已经早就过了月子,一个人有手有脚,哪里要人伺候,怎么样都有负罪感。 However this saying just opened the mouth with the aunt, the aunt in great surprise, the tears must come out, asked that has made the mistake any matter. Like this what Fanggeng had guilty, did not raise the matter that dismissed the aunt, her at heart after all was soft. 不过这话刚跟阿姨开口,阿姨大惊,眼泪都要出来了,问是不是做错了什么事。这样何芳更有愧疚了,再也不提辞阿姨的事情,她的心里总归是软着的。 Also this aunt took care of the child, really the intimate post lung, was very appropriate, she did not give up. 再说这阿姨照顾孩子,真的贴心贴肺了,很是得体,她也是舍不得的。 She is thinking digs out Li Laoer two bottles of tips, sufficed aunt's wages. 她想着多抠李老二两瓶酒钱,就够阿姨的工资了。 Li He looks brow that the aunt just before leaving tightens, knows probably the aunt is not glad, others are willing to make money in the Spring Festival. Spring Festival so long as has the visitor, she opens the door to receive a guest has the red package to take. 李和看着阿姨临走时紧锁的眉头,大概知道阿姨是不乐意的,人家愿意在春节多挣钱呢。春节只要有访客,她开门迎客都有红包拿呢。 He shouted toward the aunt, „Sister Jiang, year afterward breakfast.” 他朝阿姨喊,“姜姐,年后来早点啊。” „Good. Good. I 3 rd came” Sister Jiang to turn head to say happily, but also hurriedly changed a statement, „not, no, I 1 st. If in the family/home the guest, a younger sister person cannot be busy.” “好。好。那我初三过来”姜姐回头高兴地说,不过又急忙改口道,“不,不,我初一就来。万一家里来客,妹子一个人忙不来的。” In the employment relations of household management, the young aunt shouted generally old uncle and aunt, meets the small direct name surname, greeted. The aunt when others introduced the employer how generally will inform to call. 在家政的雇佣关系上,年轻阿姨一般喊年龄大的叔叔、阿姨,遇到小的直接称呼姓氏,打个招呼而已。阿姨在别人介绍雇主的时候一般会告知怎么称呼。 She is Yu Dehua said that the nature one shouted Mr. Li and Mrs. Li. 她是于德华介绍过来的,自然一来就喊上了李先生、李太太。 Li He does not matter, what Fang is the opposition, shouted that the big younger sister becomes. 李和是无所谓的,何芳是反对的,喊大妹子就成。 Aunt from starting coy shouted until the present finally freely spoken, her these many years have also made many host families, this gave only different was the respect. This person is very friendly to her, one does not keep up appearances, two do not curse at people, she likes such main family, so long as others give her to respect, she works works especially has the strength. 阿姨从开始的扭扭捏捏到现在终于喊顺口了,她这么多年也做了很多主家,这家给予的唯一不同是尊重。这家人对她很和气,一不摆谱,二不骂人,她就喜欢这样的主家,只要人家给她尊重,她干活做事就是格外的有劲头。 What fragrance starts the general cleaning while time that the child sleeps, the fourth child naturally is not idling, her straightening up fifth child holds the stool to her, she stands on the stool is taking the ash zone of feather duster cleaning roof included angle. 何芳趁着孩子睡觉的功夫开始大扫除,老四自然也不闲着,她拾掇老五给她扶凳子,她站在凳子上拿着鸡毛掸子清扫屋顶夹角的灰层。 After roof cleaning up is clean, she cleans the glass, to wash the bed sheet, to mop the floor...... 屋顶清理干净以后,她又擦玻璃、洗床单、拖地板…… Also forcefully draws the fifth child to help in the clear lampblack machines and microwave oven these kitchens the dirtiest thing. 还强行拉着老五帮着清晰油烟机和微波炉这些厨房里最脏的东西。 The fifth child naturally is not glad, but cannot resist straightening up of fourth child is filled with. 老五自然是满心的不乐意,可是还是抵不住老四的拾掇。 Why she could not reach an agreement did not quarrel with the fourth child now, thought probably the fourth child said right, the two sisters ate without paying daily drink really to become pig white/in vain. She sighed, to prove oneself were not a pig, she was taking cleaning rag to window the glass making an effort head. 她也说不好为什么现在不跟老四吵架了,大概觉得老四说的对吧,姐妹俩天天白吃白喝真的成猪了呢。她叹口气,为了证明自己不是一只猪,她拿着抹布对着窗户的玻璃使足了劲头。
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