„Oneselfhappygood.”Li Heheartfeltwas happyforhim.
“自己开心就好。”李和由衷的为他高兴。WhatFengLeizhaois the girl in countryside, often/commonJingchuheard, feels the earth-shattering, at present a flower, the personwant the paralysisto fall.
冯磊找的是个乡下的丫头,常静初闻后直感觉天崩地裂,眼前一花,人都要瘫掉了。„Idid not agree!”
“我不同意!”often/commonstatic who alwaysrespects the sonopinion, firsttimehas made the denialto the son.
一向尊重儿子意见的常静,第一次对儿子做出了否定。„Why?”FengLei is not very clear, howattractivegirl, is obedientandsensible, does not know why herold ladymustoppose
“为什么?”冯磊很是不明白,多么漂亮的姑娘,又听话又懂事,不知道她老娘为什么要反对„Marriedgirl of countrysideyourthis whole lifeto preparein the sufferingto boil.”often/commonstaticcome outfrom the countryside, sheunderstands that the pain of countryside, implication of countryside, married a wife in countrysideto mean the whole family that took a wife, wife'sparents, wife'sbrothers and sisters, pulleddoes not shearunceasingly. Hermandiedearly has extricated, cannot the retributionon the son.
“娶了乡下的姑娘你这辈子就准备在苦水里面熬着吧。”常静自己从乡下里出来,她明白乡下的苦,乡下的拖累,娶了一个乡下的媳妇就意味着娶了媳妇的一家子,媳妇的父母,媳妇的兄弟姐妹,扯不断剪不断。她男人死得早算是解脱了,可不能报应在儿子身上。„Iam capable ofmaking money! Ido not needyouto manage!”FengLeitheseyearshave madea lot ofmoney, onbrokeralreadycompletelyindependent, hethinks that oneselfis an adult, heis capable ofhaving the loadto treat as the decision.
“我有能力挣钱!我不需要你管!”冯磊这些年已经挣了不少钱,经纪上已经完全独立,他认为自己已经是个成年人了,他有能力有担当做决定。Hisold ladymakeshimgive uphisbelovedgirl, heishowregardless ofcannotagree.
他老娘让他放弃他心爱的姑娘,他是无论如何也不能同意的。often/commonstatichas cried, „youhave not suffered a loss, had not been swindled, non-stubbornnot? Iamyourold ladyI can also harmyouto be inadequate.”
常静就哭了,“你是没吃过亏,没上过当,非认死理是不?我是你老娘我还能害你不成。”Fengsuddenlyfell into the cold war, atmosphereis a little strange.
冯家一时间陷入了冷战,气氛有点怪异。FengLeizhaoLi Hehelped saying that „youhelpedmesay that myold lady, whyIcannotlook for the countryside? Sheis the countrysidecomes out, does shehold truebyshutting out the countryside.”
冯磊找李和帮着说项,“你帮我说说我老娘,为什么我就不能找乡下的呢?她自己是乡下出来的,她有什么理由嫌弃乡下的。”Li Hesaid,„the words of yourold ladynot necessarilyis right, the rightprobabilitynot necessarilyis bigger than50. Sheanalyzesyourmarital problemtime, will goto considerforyoufrom the innumerablerealisticangles, what onlyflawisrealizesamong you sentiment. Naturally, you were just in loveover six months, oneself must considerwellis right. Youcommunicatewithyourold ladywell, sheleadsyourbrother and sisterto grow upis not easy, undermulti-pardonsshe.”李和道,“你老娘的话未必是对的,对的概率未必大于50。她分析你的婚姻问题的时候,会从无数个现实角度去为你着想,但唯独缺失的是体会你们两个人之间的感情。当然,你们刚谈恋爱才半年多,自己也得好好斟酌斟酌才对。你跟你老娘好好沟通吧,她带你兄妹长大也不容易,多体谅下她。”Thismatterhedoes not wantto mix, twocannot flatter. Healwayssupportsothers'freedom of marriage, butis one's turnhistwoyounger sisters, hemade the so-calledfreedom of marriageget the hell out, includinghis sonandhisunmarried girlmarriage, hethinks that hehad the right and responsibilitymeddles, the reason, was the salt that heateare more than food that theyhad.
这种事情他不想去掺合,两头讨不了好。他从来都是支持别人的婚姻自由,但是轮到他两个妹子,他就让所谓的婚姻自由滚蛋了,包括他儿子和他闺女的婚姻,他都认为他有权利和责任去插手,原因嘛,就是他吃的盐比他们吃的饭多。Hefavorstwopeople, thatsupports the freedom of marriage, if not favor, hecan the incarnationbe a dictator.
他看好两个人,那就是支持婚姻自由,如果不看好,他就会化身为独裁者。„Lielder brother, Iaskedyou, myold ladyusuallymostsoldyouto be good, youspokesheoneto listencertainly.”FengLeiis entanglingLi Hetirelessly.
“李哥,我求求你了,我老娘平常最卖你好的,你说话她一准听。”冯磊不厌其烦的缠着李和。„Yeah, has the timeto helpyousearch the rumor.”Is out of controlFengLeiannoying, Li Healsocarelesslyto comply, but this rankwas chaotic, heshouted that often/commonJingjie, FengLeishoutedhiselder brother, FengRuicalledhisuncle.
“哎,有时间帮你探探口风。”禁不住冯磊的缠磨,李和也就胡乱应了,不过这这辈分已经乱了,他喊常静姐,冯磊喊他哥,冯蕊喊他叔。Hewithoften the staticopens the mouth, often/commonstaticon the ill-humoredsay/way, „you are the polished rodcommander, firstsolves itself.”
他跟常静开口,常静就没好气的道,“你自己还是光杆司令呢,先解决自己吧。”Impulsiveunderspokethese words, probablya littleregretted, said with a smile, „Idid not haveothermeanings, do not think. Mymeaning, youwere old, shouldlook for a partner.”
冲动下说完这句话,好像又有点后悔,又笑道,“我没其它意思,你不要多想。我意思是啊,你年龄这么大了,也是该找个对象了。”„Youlook at the office. Ithought that FengLeiis goodwiththatgirlsentiment.”Li HeevenBaire a show, did not wantto say. Hesuddenlydiscovered the appearance that often/commonstaticis angry is very attractive, the prettywomanvitality/angryis calledto sellto sprout/moe, not the prettywomanis angry can only callto playto sprinkle.
“那你看着办吧。我觉得冯磊跟那丫头感情不错。”李和平白惹了一身骚,也不欲多说了。他突然发现常静就连生气的样子都很好看,漂亮的女人生气叫做卖萌,不漂亮女人生气只能叫耍泼。„Sentiment? When the sentiment the foodeats, ishow, hehas not suffered a lossdoes not know the weight.”often/commonstaticstillhas the young girldifficultandbeautiful and flavor, the eyewave flowhopes that inthatclearpupil the tearsdodge, voicesobbing, „beforehandmy familyFengLeiduoare sensible, Isaid that anythingisanything, butyouhave a look, nowunexpectedlyhas sung an opposing tunewithme, mustwithmycounter-. Yousaid,thismaritalwhereis a matter of person? Hethinks oneself infalliblemustmake the decisiontooneself, sooner or latermustregret dead. In the futureyou are also same, looksto bearnot by any meansheavily, implicates, otherwisepressesalsoruns overyou, do not look that youare ramblingnow, is one's turnonyou, youwantto withdrawnot to have the means that criesnot to have the place.”
“感情?感情都当饭吃啊,还是怎么的,他是没吃过亏不晓得轻重。”常静仍有着少女难及的绝美和韵味,眼波流盼之间那晶莹瞳仁中泪光一闪,嗓音哽咽道道,“以前我家冯磊多懂事,我说啥就是啥,可是你看看,现在居然跟我唱反调了,非要跟我反着来。你说说,这婚姻哪里是一个人的事情?他一个人自以为是的非要给自己做决定,早晚要后悔死。将来你也是一样,切莫找负担重的,都是拖累,不然压也压死你,别看你现在逍遥着呢,真轮到你头上,你想脱身都没办法,哭都没地方。”„, Yousaidrational.”Li Heseesoften/commonstaticbewilderedlyhas cried, hurriesBabattleto admit mistakes.
“得,你说道有理。”李和见常静莫名其妙的哭了,慌忙罢战认错。
The individualmarriage of perfect conditionnaturallyis the unification of sentimental, naturalandmarriage, thisis many are in love with the men and womento be long-awaited. However, ifopens eyesto look,candiscover, the love and marriageas ifalwayscannotunifyin the real life.
理想状态的个人婚姻当然是感情、性和婚姻的统一,这是许多爱恋中的男女梦寐以求的。但是,如果睁眼看一看,就可以发现,爱情和婚姻在现实生活中似乎总是不能统一。Healsohadto thinkhimandMabel Cheungbefore, ifMabel Cheungnotthatheavyfamily responsibilities, ifhedoes not havethatheavyfamily responsibilities, hisfirst half of lifecancrossverynatural, at leasttonot buy a newspaperwill be uptight, will not stop smokingto worryfor the no-smoking. Mustknow that his timewage incomeenters into the middle class, butstillcrossespoverty-stricken.
他以前也不是没有想过他和张婉婷,如果张婉婷没有那么重的家庭负担,如果他没有那么重的家庭负担,他的前半生会不会过得很潇洒,起码不会为买一份报纸而拮据,不会为戒烟还是不戒烟而发愁。要知道他那时候的工资收入已经算是迈入中产阶级了,但是依然过得困苦。Naturally, this whole lifehedid not havethisproblem, henowis a local tyrant, hemadeanythingto have the energy.
当然,这辈子他已经不存在这个问题了,他现在是土豪,他做啥都有底气了。„Isaidreasonable.”Inthisissue, often/commonstaticis immodest, shethinks the seasoned person, naturallyknowsall.
“我本来就说的有道理。”在这种问题上,常静一点都不谦虚,她自认为过来人,自然知晓一切。FengLei was often statichere unable to open the breach, the naturehas worked hardonMs.Feng, did not go toXianghe, every dayhelpedMs.Fengsell the rice wine and rice-flour noodle.
冯磊在常静这里打不开突破口,自然在冯老太身上下功夫了,也不去香河了,见天的帮着冯老太去卖米酒和米线。Ms.Feng said that „myclevergrandsonyeah, listens toyourmother, she said that has the truth, whatgoodgirlto be many are, do not go one way to the end.”
冯老太道,“我的乖孙哎,听你妈的吧,她说的不是没道理,好姑娘多的是呢,不要一棵树上吊死了。”„Milk, yousaid that Iwas big? Did somepeopleraisehave saidwifetome?”
“奶,你说我都多大了?有人提过给我说媳妇这茬吗?”Ms.Fengsaid,„thisdoes not have, aboutyouare not big, nobodyraisesto you are very normal.”
冯老太道,“这真没有,左右你不算大,没人给你提很正常。”„Milk, do not deceiveme, youhave a look atWang Xinminto be younger than me one year old, othersmarriedlast year. Moreover our piece, as long asmarried, has the unitto have the work. Iwaslookto understand, mythisdid not have the properworkto be lower than the person.”
“奶,你别骗我了,你看看王新民比我还小一岁呢,人家去年就结婚了呢。而且咱这一片但凡结了婚的,都是有单位有工作的。我是看明白了,我这没正经工作就比人低一等。”Ms.Fengbroke off the fingerlane entranceto marry for these years, severalchildren who has not marriedcalculate, the discoveryalso was really thistruth!
冯老太掰着手指头把巷口里这几年结婚的,没结婚的几个孩子一算,发现还真是这个道理!Butcannotdamagegrandson'sconfidence, is supportingsaying with a smile, „myhousehad, asks a wifenot to be difficulttoyou.”
但也不能打击孙子的信心,强撑着笑道,“咱家房子都有了,给你找个媳妇不难。”„Milk, youhave not lookedto understand that is not the issue of housenon-house, the keyis I do not haveworkformally, whichfamily/homecanhave a liking forme, mythissituationis very special! girl in citywill not look atmyoneeyes, do not raisemarriesme, ifyouwantyourgrandsonto keep bachfor a lifetime, youfollowmy mother.”
“奶,你还没看明白啊,不是房子不房子的问题,关键是我没正儿八经的工作,谁家能看上咱家,咱家这情况很特殊啊!城里的姑娘根本不会多看我一眼,更不要提嫁给我了,你要是愿意你孙子一辈子打光棍,你就顺着我妈吧。”Ms.Fenglookcomplexlooked atgrandsononeeyes, the situation of herfamily/homeisveryspecial, sheis a widow, herwifeis a widow, twowidows, wherearrive atnot to be of pleasant to hear! Herfamily/homesituation is really not goodto look for the wifeincity, shein the pastwas notbecausewere a widow, gave the sonfrom the countrysideoften/commonJingqu.
冯老太神色复杂的看了孙子一眼,她家的情况是挺特殊的,她是寡妇,她媳妇是寡妇,一门两寡妇,走到哪里也不好听啊!她家这种情况在城里还真不好找媳妇,她当年不就是因为自己是个寡妇,才给儿子从乡下把常静娶了回来。„Yourthisblurts out, moresaid that morehas been unsure, cannot delayyou.”
“你这破嘴,越说越没谱了,耽误不了你。”FengLeiseesMs.Fengto have the loosesign, hurriedandtried harder, otherwisemustwaste all previous efforts, „milk, haven't youunderstoodmy mother'smeaning? Shesaid that ratherIfor a lifetimekeep bachdo not wantmeto marry the countrysidewife! Thisisheroriginal words, bythisyourthisalsohears, the milk, youcannotplanreallymakesyourgrandsonhitfor a lifetime the hoodlum.”
冯磊见冯老太有松动的迹象,赶忙又加了把劲,不然就要前功尽弃,“奶,你还不明白我妈的意思啊?她说宁愿我一辈子打光棍也不要我娶乡下媳妇!这是她原话吧,这你这旁边也听见的,奶,你不能真打算让你孙子打一辈子光棍吧。”„Yourmothercracks a joke.”Ms.Feng was a little really hurried, shewithoften/commonJingchuhalf a lifetime, toohad understood that hertemper, reallypossiblycould achieve. often/commonJingzhicares about the bellyto be full, will not care about the issue that anyheircontinues. Is often staticcannot care, butMs.Fenghas no alternative butto care, FengLeiis the only child in thousandmuplace, ifhas kept bach, thatwascertainly the household! Shecannotbe the criminal of oldFeng!
“你妈开玩笑呢。”冯老太真的有点慌了,她跟常静处了半辈子,太了解她性子了,真可能做得到。常静只在乎肚皮饱不饱,可不会在乎什么子嗣延续的问题。常静可以不在乎,可冯老太不能不在乎啊,冯磊是千亩地里的独苗,要是真的打光棍了,那就是绝了户啊!她不能做老冯家的罪人啊!Theseyearssheholds the wordswith the old ladies of friends and neighbors, whichgirlhaving a look atto be appropriate, is helpingFengLei, mayface to facecomply, introducing. Shemorerecalled that todaymoreis uncomfortable.
这些年她跟左邻右舍的老娘们托过话,看看哪家的姑娘合适,帮着冯磊相一个,可都是当面答应,没有一个给介绍过。她今天越回想越不是滋味。More is more nervous, morewantsto be at heart more chaotic.
越想越慌,越想心里越乱。FengLeiappearance that pretends to cry, „milk, let me tell you, in any caseIno onemarriesexcept forthisgirl. Ifyouwere cruel enoughIto keep bachIto accept fate.”
冯磊装作要哭的样子,“奶,我跟你说,反正除了这姑娘我谁都不娶了。你要是真忍心我打光棍我就认命了。”„Was good, was good, Iwent backto saywithyourmother.”Ms.Fengclenches teeth, it seems like it is the lives, the daughter-in-lawis a countryside, the granddaughter-in-lawis a countrysidedoes not haveanythingat the worst.
“行了,行了,我回去跟你妈说。”冯老太咬咬牙,看来都是命,儿媳妇是乡下的,孙媳妇是乡下的也没什么大不了。
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