MTTIR :: Volume #1

#77: Mind impact

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After leaving Xia, river Feng drives to look for the hotel, while is pondering over a moment ago with a Xia Lingling's dialogue. 离开夏家后,江枫一边开车去找酒店,一边思忖着刚才与夏玲玲的一番对话。 Actually some words, he can be needless saying that for example with Xia Lingling's elder brothers matter, this uttered fine words plays the sentimental sign, said coarse is uses the kinship of miss to persuade. 其实有些话,他可以不用说的,比如拿夏玲玲的哥哥们来说事,这说得好听是打感情牌,说得难听是利用人家姑娘的亲情来进行劝说。 Although the ultimate goal is good for the opposite party, but in current definitely gave the girls to create the difficulty. 尽管最终的目的是为了对方好,但在当前肯定给人家姑娘造成了困扰。 In these river Fengxin understands, but he finally chooses does this, for three reasons: 这些江枫心中都明白,但他最终还是选择这样做,原因有三: First, because of Xia Lingling's personality, she strict is not that corrupt adore/admire vanity miss, although she was also fantasizing can marry the big rich and powerful people, but not because the opposite party will be the big rich and powerful people gives up own marriage requirements. 一,是因为夏玲玲的性格,她严格来说不是那种贪慕虚荣的姑娘,她虽然也幻想着能嫁给大富豪,但不会因为对方是大富豪而放弃自己的择偶标准。 If river Feng persuaded from her, said after she married trillion rich and powerful people, what life can on, should not be able to convince her. After all she now is young, without realizing that type has needed money also unable to take anxiously, then lowers the head to find the person everywhere taking advantage of the helplessness that could not have borrowed. 如果江枫从她身上劝说,说她嫁给亿万富豪后能过上什么样的生活,应该是说服不了她的。毕竟她现在还年轻,没有体会过那种急需要钱却又拿不出来,然后四处低头找人借还借不到的无奈。 Therefore, the proper persuasion, is definitely invalid. 所以,正正经经的劝说,肯定是行不通的。 Second, river Feng as the matchmaker, he has the duty to help both parties say the interest relations in aspects says clearly thoroughly, parents who although these words can let the bride's side, but does this is actually the dereliction of duty of matchmaker. 二,江枫作为媒人,他有义务帮男女双方把方方面面的利益关系讲清楚讲透彻,虽然这番话可以让女方的父母来讲,但这样做其实是媒人的失职。 Because this matter makes the matchmaker persuade is very normal, responsibility that this is the matchmaker, no one will hate the matchmaker for this reason. But if takes this matter to push to others parents persuades, that really hurts the heart of bride's side, is completely the irresponsible behavior, river Feng as the professional matchmaker, he cannot certainly make this mistake. 因为这种事情让媒人来劝说是很正常的,这本来就是媒人的职责,没有谁会为此而憎恨媒人。可若是把这种事情推给人家的父母来劝说,那才是真的伤女方的心,完全是不负责任的行为,江枫作为职业媒人,他当然不能犯这个错误。 Third, river Feng believes his pylon load, since Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling's couple sentiment limiting value can be 83 points, the family relationship is as high as 84 minutes, that showed that their two are can be happy together absolutely. 三,江枫相信他的外挂能力,既然魏雪峰与夏玲玲的夫妻感情极限值能达到83分,家庭关系更是高达84分,那证明他们两个在一起是绝对能够幸福的。 Since were clear that this result, that must certainly reconcile with every effort, rather than saw that the bride's side is not good to choose to give up to the first impression of groom's family appearance. 既然清楚这个结果,那肯定是要尽力去撮合,而不是看到女方对男方外貌的第一印象不好就选择放弃。 Said that coarse point words, without his reconciling, Xia Lingling perhaps can also marry a good family, but wants to marry the couple sentiment and family relationship is over 80-minute, the difficulty is enormous! 说句难听点的话,没有他的撮合,夏玲玲或许也能嫁个不错的家庭,但想嫁个夫妻感情以及家庭关系高达80分以上的,难度极大！ After all can reach this value, that is the model couple of being one in a thousand, the model family, this also is really not casual can meet, otherwise the divorce rate of our country will be insufficient to be in so the situation high. 毕竟能够达到这个分值,那都是千里挑一的模范夫妻,模范家庭,这还真不是随随便便就能够遇到的,否则我国的离婚率就不至于会高到如此地步了。 But she meets the dregs male probability is not young, after all can match with her in the look, that is also the out-and-out handsome fellow, such person side seduction are many, having the affair is not strange. 而她遇到渣男的概率也不会小,毕竟能够在相貌上跟她匹配的,那也是不折不扣的帅哥,这样的人身边诱惑多,有外遇也不奇怪。 In brief, without words that river Feng reconciles, whether Xia Lingling this whole life can pass on the happy peaceful life, must get a big question mark. 总之,没有江枫撮合的话,夏玲玲这辈子能否过上幸福安稳的日子,恐怕得打上一个大大的问号。 Above the synthesis, is river Feng chooses the reason that persuaded Xia Lingling from kinship. 综合以上,就是江枫选择从亲情方面劝说夏玲玲的原因。 Even if she current were troubled by, but river Feng also has „telling fortunes by physiognomy” this trump card, when she considered similarly, heightened her confidence to this marriage with „telling fortunes by physiognomy” again, again after being together, discovered that on Wei Xuefeng other flashing temperatures, two people couple sentiments naturally can promote to the perfect condition. 即便她当前受到了困扰,但江枫还有“看相”这个杀手锏,等她考虑得差不多了,再用“看相”来增强她对这门亲事的信心,再经过相处,发现魏雪峰身上的其他闪光点,两人的夫妻感情自然而然的就能提升到理想状态。 Thinks of here, river Feng of feeling at ease then no longer thinks, drives with single-hearted devotion! 想到这里,心安的江枫便不再多想,专心开车！ ...... …… Xia entrance. 夏家门口。 Ms. Xia was planning chatted in the marriage should pay great attention to anything the time with her life experience with the daughter well, a taxi fast opened, stopped in their family/home. 夏母正打算用她的人生经历好好跟女儿谈谈婚姻中应该注重什么的时候,一辆出租车快速的开过来,停在她们家。 Then, the eldest son of next-door neighbor haggard from taxi, arrives in front of them fast, eye red saying: „ Aunt Uncle Xia xia, my father because of the heart failure hospitalization, needs to undergo the heart transplant, the operation fee as well as around the care and other expenses in aspects added to a while ago about 1 million, our family/home really could not collect so much money! 然后,隔壁邻居的大儿子神情憔悴的从出租车上下来,快速走到她们面前,眼睛通红的说道:“夏叔夏婶,我爸前段时间因为心力衰竭住院,需要做心脏移植手术,手术费以及前后护理等各方面的费用加起来要近百万,我们家实在是凑不出这么多钱了！ Without the means that can only return to the village to seek help from everyone, hopes that Aunt Uncle Xia xia you can borrow a sum of money to me, no matter taking advantage of borrows few, our will feel grateful in the heart, later our several brother and sister return certainly this sum of money diligently! ” 没办法,只能回村里来向大家求助,希望夏叔夏婶你们能够借一笔钱给我,不管借多借少,我们一家都会感恩在心,以后我们几兄妹一定努力还上这笔钱！” Xia three hears word cannot help but look at each other in blank dismay. 夏家三口闻言不由得面面相觑。 As the neighbor, before the father who they knew the opposite party, because comfortably is sent to the hospital, has not actually thought that so will be serious, resulted in the heart failure. 作为邻居,他们之前就知道对方的父亲因为不舒服而被送去了医院,却没有想到会这么严重,得了心力衰竭。 Now is so grave as to affect a human life, was together dozens years of neighbor, even the current economic condition of Xia is still ordinary, this busy must probably help. 现在人命关天,又是相处了几十年的邻居,即便夏家的经济条件也一般,这个忙也是必须得帮的。 Therefore considered as Mr. Xia of household head merely is less than three seconds, then sighed: „Army, the situation of our family/home you also knows, can only borrow 20,000 to you, many words we are also helpless!” 所以作为一家之主的夏父仅仅考虑了不到三秒钟,便叹道:“大军,我们家的情况你也知道,只能借两万给你,多的话我们也无能为力！” Big military news word whole face grateful saying: „Mr. Xia, thanks words I was not many said that bore in mind, then had the matter you to shout one, our several brother and sister were within call!” 大军闻言满脸感激的说道:“夏父,感谢的话我就不多说了,都记在心里,回头有事您喊一声,我们几兄妹随叫随到！” Then, Mr. Xia then WeChat sweeps the code, transferred 20,000 to the army. 接下来,夏父便微信扫码,给大军转了两万。 Then the family of three gazes after the army to continue to go to other home to lend money. 然后一家三口目送大军继续前往别家借钱。 This sudden one, regarding Xia Lingling's mind impact is very big. 这突如其来的一幕,对于夏玲玲的心灵冲击是非常大的。 Before no matter the matchmaker or mother, had importantly importantly in her surface premise money, she listens even, without was too sigh with emotion, she always thinks that money was colored on the line enough, does not need to put in great inconvenience to itself for money. 之前不管是媒人还是母亲,在她面前提钱有多重要多重要,她都只是听听就算,没有太多感慨,她一向认为钱够花就行,没必要为了钱而委屈自己。 Wants she in going to college, to have the extracurricular these so-called successful people to want the package to be itchy initially she, so long as can guarantee to be within call, gives her on each month 30,000 dollars. 想当初她在上大学的时候,就已经有校外的那些所谓的成功人士想要包痒她,只要能保证随叫随到,就每个月给她三万块钱。 Regarding this type, she looks straight at does not bring to look. 对于这种,她连正眼都不带瞧的。 But just this, really took the most realistic class to her. 可刚刚这一幕,真的给她上了最现实的一堂课。 The neighbor big brother to treat an illness to the father, must asking others for help from house to house, this about 1 million medical expenses, in the family/home the estimate probably lose everything begs help from all quarters again everywhere, does not know that can collect this large amount of medical expense enough. 邻居大哥为了给父亲治病,得挨家挨户的求人,这近百万的医疗费用,家里估计得砸锅卖铁再四处求爷爷告奶奶,都不知道能不能凑得够这巨额的医疗费用。 If this matter happens in their family/home, how can also? 若是这种事发生在她们家,又会怎么样？ Thinks of here, Xia Lingling cannot help but startles spirit shivering, she discovered, if this supposition establishes, their family/home estimated that is also at a loss, has to ask others for help to lend money like the neighbor big brother everywhere. 想到这里,夏玲玲不由得激灵灵的打了个冷颤,她发现如果这个假设成立的话,那她们家估计也是束手无策,不得不像邻居大哥一样四处求人借钱。 Even was strove, it is estimated that could not collect so many money to come. 甚至就是去求了,估计也凑不出这么多钱来。 At this moment, Xia Lingling regarding her with Wei Xuefeng's being on intimate terms, did not conflict like before. 这一刻,夏玲玲对于她跟魏雪峰的相亲,再也不像之前那么抵触了。 Ms. Xia sighed: „This army is also very pitiful, heard that a while ago he discussed girlfriend, two people have the plan of marriage, but his father matter, it is estimated that this marriage blows now most likely.” 夏母叹了口气道:“这大军也挺可怜的,听说前段时间他谈了个女朋友,两人已经有了结婚的打算,可现在他爸这事一出,估计这门亲事十有八九是吹了的。” Mr. Xia also follows to sigh: „Day has the unforeseen circumstances, the person has the imminent fortune and misfortune, this matter cannot control artificially, like this type gets sick greatly, once met, only if makes the person of falling ill wait for death, otherwise home basically also with being finished!” 夏父也跟着叹道:“天有不测风云,人有旦夕祸福,这种事情不是人为可以控制的,像这种大病一旦遇上了,除非让生病的人等死,否则这个家基本也就跟着完蛋了！” Xia Lingling silent moment, makes noise saying: „Father, you give that river matchmaker to telephone, said that I am willing to be on intimate terms, try to be together to have a look with the opposite party!” 夏玲玲沉默了片刻,才出声说道:“爸,你给那江媒人打电话吧,就说我愿意相亲,试着跟对方相处一下看看！”
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