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#76: Everyone has its flash/crucial point

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When Xia Lingling watches Wei Xuefeng picture, Mr. Xia Ms. Xia cannot bear the curiosity, the head also follows to collect, wants to have a look at the groom's family short and stout clowns to what degree. 在夏玲玲观看魏雪峰照片的时候,夏父夏母也忍不住好奇心,脑袋也跟着凑过去,想看看男方矮胖丑到了什么程度。 Finally, when sees Wei Xuefeng picture, Mr. Xia Ms. Xia cannot help but silent, the condition of opposite party was true is bad, their daughter that stature look, married him really can be said as a fresh flower inserting on the cow dung. 结果,在看到魏雪峰照片的时候,夏父夏母不由得沉默了,对方的条件属实是差了点,就他们女儿那身材相貌,嫁给他真的可以说是一朵鲜花插在了牛粪上。 river Feng when gives Wei Xuefeng's picture Xia Lingling watches, has observed her look change, he knows that the opposite party definitely is very at once difficult to accept short and stout ugly Wei Xuefeng. 江枫在把魏雪峰的照片递给夏玲玲看的时候,就一直观察她的神色变化,他知道对方一时之间肯定很难接受矮胖丑的魏雪峰。 Sure enough, is seeing that moment of Wei Xuefeng picture, Xia Lingling's look has the sign of collapse faintly, that exclusion from the heart showed completely. 果不其然,在看到魏雪峰照片的那一刻,夏玲玲的神色就隐隐有崩溃的迹象,那股发自内心的嫌弃完全展现了出来。 Regarding this, in river Fengxin also understood, after all the person are the visual animal, only if there is special fondness, otherwise no one will like the ugly male ugly girl. 对此,江枫心中也非常理解,毕竟人都是视觉动物,除非是拥有特殊癖好,否则没人会喜欢丑男丑女的。 Naturally, what this said is the first impression, if together after long time, gradually discovers the other merits of opposite party, thus on liking the opposite party, such example should have much. 当然,这个说的是第一印象,若是经过长时间相处,慢慢发现对方的其他优点,从而喜欢上对方,这样的例子应该还是有不少的。 But by Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling limit 83 points of couple sentiments, should be one of them. 而以魏雪峰与夏玲玲极限83分的夫妻感情,应该就是其中之一。 Two people current couple sentiment is low, mainly had the problem of judging people solely on appearance, suspect this is the normal person metropolis/can problem, don't even go there, so long as after being together, understood each other, couple sentiment naturally can promote. 两人当前夫妻感情低,主要是犯了以貌取人的毛病,这是正常人都会犯的毛病,没什么好说的,只要经过相处,互相了解,夫妻感情自然而然的就能提升上去。 Saw Xia Lingling does not utter a word hands over the cell phone, after river Feng received, said: „Xia Lingling, the stature look of opposite party you also saw, the family circumstances I also told very much clearly you, then I must you tell that was the other merits of opposite party.” 看到夏玲玲一声不吭的把手机递回来,江枫接过后说道:“夏玲玲,对方的身材相貌你也看到了,家境我也跟你说得很清楚了,接下来我要跟你说的,是对方的其他优点。” Hears here, Mr. Xia Ms. Xia as well as Xia Lingling cannot help but one dull, does the opposite party have other merits? 听到这里,夏父夏母以及夏玲玲都不由得一呆,对方还有其他优点？ river Feng sees their expressions, cannot help but laughs in spite of trying not. 江枫看到他们的表情,不由得失笑。 He opens the mouth to discuss that money did not discuss the other merits of groom's family, that is because he was clear compared with anyone, first family circumstances advantage of opposite party not suspending words, Xia three will be will definitely not have that leisurely mood to listen to him to introduce on this short and stout ugly man all sorts of merits. 他之所以一开口就谈钱而不谈男方的其他优点,那是因为他心里比谁都清楚,不先把对方的家境优势给摆出来的话,夏家三口是绝对不会有那份闲心去听他介绍这个矮胖丑男人身上的种种优点。 This actually is also the way things should be, is just like your average person, who special was interested in listening to you there to say own personality good, was good, was filial, the moral behavior was much good...... 这其实也是人之常情,就好比你一个普通人,谁特么有兴趣听你在那里说自己性格有多好,多善良,多孝顺,人品多好…… But if this average person changes into these earthshaking great people, that is willing to listen to the person who he said too to be many! 可若是这个普通人换成那些叱咤风云的大人物,那愿意听他说的人就太多了！ Naturally, he can also first discuss that Wei Xuefeng's merit, then discussed the shortcoming. 当然,他也可以先谈魏雪峰的优点,然后再谈缺点。 But does this is actually stupidest, because in front of you blows again well useless, waits for the short and stout ugly these shortcomings to come out, Mr. Xia Ms. Xia definitely meets first rejects. 但这样做其实是最蠢的,因为你前面吹得再好都没用,等矮胖丑这些缺点一出来,那夏父夏母肯定会第一时间拒绝。 By that time, river Feng ejects male Fang Family again is billionaire biggest merit, isn't this hits the face? How do you let Mr. Xia Ms. Xia from the place? Is continues to persist in rejecting, corrected chats again? 到那个时候,江枫再抛出男方家乃是亿万富翁这个最大的优点,这不是打脸吗？你让夏父夏母怎么自处？是继续坚持拒绝,还是改口说再聊聊？ Therefore, river Feng the choice forestalls opponent by a show of strength, first comes out the male Fang Family biggest merit brightly, this had the opportunity that continues to discuss. 所以,江枫的选择是先声夺人,先把男方家最大的优点亮出来,这样才有了继续谈下去的机会。 river Feng since has started to act as a matchmaker, has believed that such a few words, that is ‚is in love is the matters of two people, but the marriage is two families' matters’, therefore facing lowers with Wei Xuefeng current couple sentiment minute/share to 35 Xia Lingling, he on below potent drug, persuades her from the most realistic angle from the beginning directly. 江枫自从开始做媒以来,就一直坚信这样的一句话,那就是‘谈恋爱是两个人的事,但结婚乃是两个家庭的事’,所以面对与魏雪峰当前夫妻感情分低至35的夏玲玲,他一开始就下猛药,直接从最现实的角度去劝说她。 This is not moral kidnapping, discussed that this little raised to the plane of political principle! 这不是什么道德绑架,谈这个就有点上纲上线了！ This plays the dozen of sentimental signs at most, after all river Feng does not thrust the fiery pit the opposite party, but makes her marry trillion rich and powerful people to enjoy happiness, this is the entirely different concept. 这顶多就是打打感情牌而已,毕竟江枫又不是把对方推入火坑,而是让她嫁给亿万富豪享福,这是截然不同的概念。 Because river Feng does not give her in the talk a pressure the words, she will definitely judge people solely on appearance, the surface will not see with Wei Xuefeng directly, not to mention slowly training sentiment and so on! 因为江枫不在谈话中给她一点压力的话,她肯定就会以貌取人,直接连面都不会跟魏雪峰见,更不用说慢慢培养感情之类的了！ Naturally, river Feng cannot choose Xia Lingling, he can also continue to search for Wei Xuefeng, so long as runs several places, believes that can also search for the match value is not lower than Xia Lingling's beautiful woman. 当然,江枫也不是非选择夏玲玲不可,他还可以继续替魏雪峰搜寻,只要多跑几个地方,相信也能搜寻到匹配值不低于夏玲玲的美女。 But river Feng does not need to try, knows, no matter how searches , the beautiful women and Wei Xuefeng's current couple sentiment minute/share are no higher, this is the limit that Wei Xuefeng stature look brings, which beautiful woman the first impression changes to come to be similar. 但江枫不用去试,都知道不管怎么搜寻,美女们与魏雪峰的当前夫妻感情分都高不到哪里去,这是魏雪峰身材相貌带来的限制,第一印象换哪个美女来都差不多。 Mainly looks, is the limit couple sentiment minute/share, this is also the thing that the process is together to promote. 主要看的,还是极限夫妻感情分,这也是经过相处才能提升的东西。 ...... …… river Feng said with a smile: „ Everyone had its flash/crucial point, the peak elder brother is naturally no exception, first to say the school record, the peak elder brother was not that having neither learning nor skill second generation of rich, but was the outstanding student who the top university graduated. Next is peak elder brother person of good, the integrity, good, filial, non- dregs, moral behavior levers. 江枫笑道:“每个人都有其闪光点,峰哥自然也不例外,首先说一下学历,峰哥不是那种不学无术的富二代,而是重点大学毕业的高材生。其次是峰哥这人的性格好,诚信,善良,孝顺,不渣,人品杠杠的。 Spoke reality words, by peak elder brother's family circumstances, even if long with the runt( in Jin Ping Mei) is the same, are many are the beautiful woman is willing to rush to marry him, but he actually continuously single since, this are why do you know? ” 说句现实点的话,以峰哥的家境,哪怕长得跟武大郎(金瓶梅里的)一样,都多得是美女愿意抢着嫁给他,但他却一直单身至今,这是为什么你知道吗？” Xia Lingling shakes the head, expressed that does not know. 夏玲玲摇了摇头,表示不知。 river Feng then said: „ That is because the peak elder brother does not hope that looks for the pure birth-giving machine to come back, although he was long is bad, the wife but who also wants to marry not just only settled on his money, but can also settle on him. 江枫接着说道:“那是因为峰哥不希望找个纯粹的生育机器回来,他虽然长得是差了点,但也想娶回来的老婆不单只看中他的钱,还能看中他这个人。 If not in the peak elder brother heart has been holding fast at this bottom line, his present child estimate can on the junior middle school, moreover wife's stature face/color price/value will not compare you to be bad absolutely, does not know that you do believe? ” 如果不是峰哥心中一直坚守着这条底线,他现在的孩子估计都可以上初中了,而且老婆的身材颜值绝对不会比你差,不知道你信不信？” This saying Xia Lingling has to believe that she is not willing to marry such man, does not represent other women not to marry. 这话夏玲玲不得不信,她自己不愿意嫁这样的男人,不代表其他女人也不愿意嫁。 Should say should not say that said similarly, river Feng then concluded saying: „Xia Lingling, I know that you are a good girl, knows that can find depending on your condition compared with the peak elder brother leads 100 times of men. But in the marriage leads unable to work as the food to eat, will marry a graceful man not necessarily to be happy, but if will marry a rich character good also to be able you man, when the treasure same will favor, such marriage will be happiest.” 该说的不该说的,都说得差不多了,江枫便收尾道:“夏玲玲,我知道你是个好女孩,也知道凭你自身的条件能够找到比峰哥帅一百倍的男人。但婚姻中帅是不能当饭吃的,嫁个帅的男人也不一定就会幸福,可若是嫁个有钱性格好还能把你当宝一样宠的男人,这样的婚姻才是最幸福的。” At this point, river Feng sets out to say goodbye: „I who ok, should say said similarly, this was my name card, then your family discussed well, then gave me as soon as possible an answer, Ok?” 说到这里,江枫起身告辞道:“好了,该说的我都说得差不多了,这是我的名片,接下来你们一家人好好的商量一下,然后尽快给我一个答复,可以吧？” Xia three hears word also following stands. 夏家三口闻言也跟着站起来。 Mr. Xia received the name card saying: „Good, the river matchmaker, that came back we to reach an agreement contacted with you!” 夏父接过名片道:“好的,江媒人,那回头我们商量好了就联系你！” Ms. Xia said: „Thanks the river matchmaker, was laborious you!” 夏母道:“谢谢江媒人,辛苦你了！” The both sides smalltalk, river Feng then drove to depart. 双方客套了一番,江枫便开车离去。 After river Feng walked, Ms. Xia sighed, said: „Tinkling, how do you think?” 等江枫走了之后,夏母叹了口气,说道:“玲玲,你是怎么想的？” Xia Lingling lowers the head saying: „That person grew is also ugly!” 夏玲玲低着头道:“那人长得也太丑了！” Ms. Xia said: „Person is truly long, but tinkling, you are young, does not know money importantly regarding a family. I marry your father so many years, does not know that had many pain, received many crimes, because also the matter of money quarrelled with your father did not know many frames, even was not because did not give up your several, it is estimated that I have divorced your father!” 夏母道:“人确实长得不行,不过玲玲,你还年轻,不知道钱对于一个家庭到底有多重要。我嫁给你爸这么多年,不知道吃了多少苦,受了多少罪,也因为钱的事情跟你爸吵了不知道多少次架,甚至不是因为舍不得你们几个,估计我跟你爸早就离婚了！” Hears here, Xia Lingling remembered truly often heard the parents to quarrel in childhood, grew up on behind, the number of times that the parents quarrelled reduced slowly. 听到这里,夏玲玲想起小时候确实经常听到父母吵架,也就后面长大了,父母吵架的次数才慢慢减少。 Before she did not know the reason, but listens to mother's meaning now, before quarrelled because of money? 以前她不知道原因,可现在听母亲的意思,以前吵架都是因为钱？
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