What our country ancient marriage was tasteful was ‚the life of parents, matchmaker's word’, by modern times, although advocated free to choose a mate, does not need to follow ‚the life of parents again, matchmaker's word’, but in big city in rural area, the forms of many matchmaker. 我国古代的婚姻讲究的是‘父母之命,媒妁之言’,到近代虽然提倡自由恋爱,没必要再遵循‘父母之命,媒妁之言’,但无论是在大城市还是在农村,都不乏媒人的身影。 This primary cause naturally is the market requirement. 这主要原因自然是市场需要。 The rural area hundred beam counties, each village will basically have 1-2 professional matchmakers, but the long-term concurrent job as well as these were prompted by a sudden impulse to the friends and relatives reconcile the matchmaker more! 在百梁县这边的农村,基本上每条村都会有1-2职业媒人,而长期兼职以及那些心血来潮给亲戚朋友撮合一下的媒人就更多了！ As the saying goes, the grove big what bird had, this matchmaker were many will naturally also present some bad apples. 俗话说得好,林子大了什么鸟都有,这媒人多了自然也会出现一些害群之马。 Matchmaker Aunt king in Longshan Village, she from entering the line is the matchmaker to start, only then a goal, that makes the matchmaker money. To gain to the rich matchmaker money smoothly, Aunt king has no work ethics. 龙山村的媒人王婶,她从入行做媒人开始,就只有一个目的,那就是赚媒人钱。为了顺利赚到丰厚的媒人钱,王婶是没有什么职业道德可言的。 The young fellow with village, she does not dare the pit actually, after all everyone lowers the head does not see to raise the head to see, if really miserable she also troubled the person pit. But if other villages even are the young fellows in other villages, Aunt king the pit gets up that is a psychological burden does not have. 同村的小伙子,她倒是不怎么敢坑,毕竟大家低头不见抬头见的,真若把人坑惨了她也麻烦。但若是其它村甚至是其它乡镇的小伙子,王婶坑起来那是一点心理负担都没有。 For example during last spring festival, Aunt king had once reconciled such a marriage, that women who have three children introduced to others first marriage man. 比如说去年春节期间,王婶就曾撮合过这样一桩婚姻,那就是把一个拥有三个孩子的女人介绍给人家一个头婚男人。 This introduction had no issue, so long as talks clearly situation of both sides, if others are willing to accept, no matter others cross finally are happy, matter that does not close your matchmaker. 这介绍原本没什么问题,只要把双方的情况说清楚,人家若是愿意接受,那不管最后人家过得幸不幸福,都不关你媒人的事。 But Aunt king to receive the rich matchmaker money, opened eyes to say directly talks nonsense, had the women of three kids talked into have not given birth to the divorce woman that then practiced trickery this wedding reconciling successfully. 可王婶为了拿到丰厚的媒人钱,直接睁眼说瞎说,把那有三个娃的女人说成是没有生养过的离婚女人,然后瞒天过海的把这桩婚事给撮合成功了。 Now, the three children of woman, keep her mother domestic, she will come back to look once for a while, but that side the groom's family is also confused, does not know others him, when the fool same plays. 现在,那女人的三个孩子,就留在她的娘家养着,她会时不时的回来看一下,而男方那边还一头雾水,不知道人家把他当傻子一样玩。 Because the concealment work of woman does well, currently she has three children's things not to give it away, but also on the successful bosom the child of opposite party, the day crossed temporarily. 由于那女人的隐瞒工作做得不错,目前她拥有三个孩子的事情还没有穿帮,还成功怀上了对方的孩子,日子暂时过得还可以。 However, existence of her three child throughout is the depth bomb, when some day gave it away, that will present anything's consequence, is really hard to anticipate. 但是,她那三个孩子的存在始终是个深水炸弹,等有朝一日穿帮了,那会出现什么的后果,真的难以意料。 Aunt king may, no matter so many, after making this intermediary, she received a sum of extremely rich matchmaker money, including the groom's family to give, there are bride's side to give. 王婶可不管这么多,做成了这个媒后,她可是拿到了一笔极为丰厚的媒人钱,其中有男方给的,也有女方给的。 To make some matchmaker money, Aunt king dares like this pit others. 为了多赚一些媒人钱,王婶就敢这样坑人家。 Now river Fengduan will her source of income, how she be resigned? Naturally is if wants the means to tarnish the reputation of opposite party, like this will have the market that she acts as a matchmaker in the village, will be insufficient to be ruled by river Feng thoroughly. 如今江枫断了她的财路,她岂会甘心？自然是要想办法败坏对方的名声,这样在村里才会有她做媒的市场,不至于会被江枫彻底统治。 Now all are ready, and other river Feng the arrangements ‚looked at main house gate’ this east wind! 如今一切准备就绪,就等江枫安排‘看家门’这股东风了！ ...... …… A week later. 一个星期后。 Wei Mingjie whole face spring breeze came back from the provincial capital! 韦明杰满脸春风的从省城回来了！ Sees the smile that on Wei Mingjie face that cannot stop, river Feng then knows that his hard thing to bring up is completely solved, is naturally happy for him, then next day, arranges him to be on intimate terms with health/guard Yushan directly. 看到韦明杰脸上那止不住的笑容,江枫便知道他那难言之隐是彻底解决了,自然也替他开心,然后第二天,就直接安排他跟卫雨珊相亲。 This being on intimate terms actually goes through the motions, in river Feng told after health/guard Yushan Wei Mingjie's situation, their marital match value turned into 80 / 86, so high current match value, this marriage really thinks that not entirely succeed is difficult. 这次相亲其实只是走个过场而已,在江枫把韦明杰的情况跟卫雨珊说了之后,他们两个的婚姻匹配值就变成了80/86,如此高的当前匹配值,这婚姻真的想不成都难。 The being on intimate terms place to give in to the bride's side, was naturally chosen in the county city. 相亲的地点为了迁就女方,自然是选在了县城。 The groom's families goes on Wei Mingjie as well as his parents, but that side the bride's side is only then health/guard Yushan arrive. 男方这边去的就韦明杰以及他的父母,而女方那边更是只有卫雨珊自己到场。 This is not the bride's side does not respect the groom's family, before arranging two people is on intimate terms, river Feng told clearly Wei Tiande and Sun Fang, this being on intimate terms walked a procedure/program. 这并非是女方不尊重男方,在安排两人相亲之前,江枫就跟韦天德与孙芳说得明明白白了,这次相亲只是走个程序而已。 Meets, eats meal, sends the red packet, one set of flow walks, already quickly to health/guard Yushan work hours. 见面,吃饭,打发红包,一套流程走完,已经快到卫雨珊上班时间了。 Before, river Fengdang surface of both sides was saying just before leaving: „Sister Wei had said a moment ago the day after tomorrow rests, if you agree, I will arrange you to look at the main house gate the day after tomorrow.” 在临走之前,江枫当着双方的面说道:“卫姐刚才已经说了后天休息,如果你们都同意的话,那我后天就安排你们看家门。” Regarding this, both sides agree, then this matter decided. 对于这个,双方都表示同意,然后这事就这么定了下来。 Then health/guard Yushan goes to work, but river Feng driving brings the Wei three Huilongshan Village. 接下来卫雨珊去上班,而江枫则开车带着韦家三口回龙山村。 On the road, river Feng asked with a smile: „Elder Brother, this meeting feeling also?” 在回去的路上,江枫笑着问道:“杰哥,这次见面的感觉还可以吧？” Wei Mingjie nods to say again and again: „Feeling is very good, truly is the type that I like, this time I really must thank you well!” 韦明杰连连点头道:“感觉很好,确实是我喜欢的类型,这次我真的要好好感谢你！” Wei Tiande was also all smiles at this time, eldest son's marital important matter had the whereabouts, it can be said that solved his worry, immediately grateful saying: „Small maple tree, you may really be the obligation people of our family/home!” 韦天德此时也是笑容满面,大儿子的婚姻大事有了着落,可以说是解决了他的一块心病,当即感激的说道:“小枫,你可真是我们家的大恩人啊！” In Sun Fangxin is also full of the gratitude, said: „Yes, if not the small maple tree you, our family/home Ajay really must hit for a lifetime the hoodlum, we do not know how must thank you to be good!” 孙芳心中同样充满感激,说道:“是啊,如果不是小枫你,我们家阿杰就真的要打一辈子光棍了,我们都不知道要怎么感谢你才好！” She was also knows yesterday, originally eldest son 19 years ago because was injured to cause unable accidentally/surprisingly to be humane, no wonder the eldest son never discussed the girlfriend for these years, refused to participate in being on intimate terms. 她也是昨天才知道,原来大儿子早在十九年前就因为意外受伤而导致不能人道,难怪这么多年来大儿子从不谈女朋友,也拒绝参加相亲。 Before she does not understand reason, listened to river Feng enlightening until the eldest son, went to the provincial capital to seek medical help that problem curing, reason revealed that knows to the parents. 以前她一直不明白其中的原因,直到大儿子听了江枫的开导,去省城求医把那毛病给治好了,才把这其中的原因吐露给父母知道。 Therefore, said that river Feng is the obligation person of their family/home, is really not exaggerating. 所以,说江枫是他们家的大恩人,是真的一点都不夸张。 river Feng drives while to say with a smile: „Aunt Uncle Wei wei does not use politely, everyone is village brothers, can help Elder Brother I very be also happy.” 江枫一边开车一边笑道:“韦叔韦婶不用客气,大家都是一个村里的兄弟,能帮到杰哥我也很高兴。” Who if the most grateful river Feng person is, that definitely is Wei Mingjie this litigant, if the parents gave his first life, river Feng could be said as to his second life. 如果说最感激江枫的人是谁,那肯定是韦明杰这个当事人,如果说父母给了他第一条生命,那江枫可以说是给了他第二条生命。 Wei Mingjie has not spoken too thanks words, but took a stand directly: „Small maple tree, I once heard that before your family preparation builds the new house, at the appointed time you only need to prepare the material, the matter of house give me to be good, certainly covers to you attractively.” 韦明杰没有说太多感谢的话,而是直接表态道:“小枫,我之前曾听说你们家准备盖新房子,到时你只需要准备好材料,房子的事交给我就行,一定给你盖得漂漂亮亮的。” Wei Tiande heard that the word echoes to say hastily: „Right, small maple tree, your family's house, our father and son wrapped, you only need to prepare the material, other does not need you to worry.” 韦天德闻言连忙附和道:“对,小枫,你家的房子,我们父子俩包了,你只需要准备好材料,其余的都不用你操心。” river Feng said hastily: „Uncle Wei, Elder Brother, my family builds the house should with my brother-in-law family/home same place, please help not have the issue, but must calculate according to the current price on market.” 江枫连忙道:“韦叔,杰哥,我家盖房子应该是跟我小叔家一起的,请你们帮忙没问题,但一定要按市场价来算。” This Wei and his son definitely can not do, said that river Feng is the obligation person of their family/home, this wages cannot receive, if river Fengfei must, that not give their father and son faces. 这韦家父子肯定是不得干,说江枫乃是他们家的大恩人,这工钱是万万不能收的,若是江枫非要给,那就是不给他们父子面子。 Finally tried every means to persuade, Wei and his son borrowed Jian Jiang the acting as a matchmaker principle of maple tree, when they built the house, river Feng looks wrapped a red packet again to their father and son on OK! 最后好说歹说,韦家父子才借鉴江枫的做媒原则,等他们把房子盖好了,江枫再看着给他们父子包个红包就OK了！ Hears this plan, river Feng also agrees, after all red packet sounds comfortable, moreover wraps many along with his intention, at the appointed time only needs to give the father and son to wrap a red packet according to the current price on market, that did not have the issue. 听到这个方案,江枫也表示同意,毕竟红包这个听起来舒服,而且包多少都是随他的心意,到时只需要根据市场价来给他们父子俩包个红包,那就没问题了。 ...... …… After going home, Wei then starts to go into action, although the bride's side will come to see the main house gate the day after tomorrow, but the relatives of their family/home must certainly inform ahead of time, in addition must arrange to look at main house gate food and wine of that day and so on, the words that does not make ahead of time definitely are without enough time. 回家后,韦家便开始行动起来,虽然后天女方才来看家门,但他们家的亲戚肯定要提前通知,再加上还要安排看家门那天的酒菜之类的,不提前弄的话肯定是来不及的。 Is with the village, and Wei is Aunt king the family/home is staring at with emphasis the goal, therefore Wei one goes into action, Aunt king the family/home then receives the message. 都是同个村的,且韦家又是王婶家重点盯着的目标,所以韦家这边一行动起来,王婶家便收到消息。 Knows that the day after tomorrow the bride's side family/home comes Wei Jia to look at the main house gate, Aunt king family/home of several starts to be ready to fight, the preparation will find an opportunity to incur reproach for somebody to river Feng this matchmaker on the day after tomorrow, Wei this marriage mixing, the defeat defeated the reputation that river Feng acts as a matchmaker while convenient. 知道后天女方家来韦家看家门,王婶一家几口都开始摩拳擦掌,准备后天找个机会给江枫这个媒人上上眼药,把韦家这门亲事给搅和了,顺便败一败江枫做媒的名声。 ...... …… In an instant, arrived at the bride's side to come to Wei Mingjie home to look at the main house gate day. 转眼,就到了女方来韦明杰家看家门的日子。 Although Wei Mingjie before was in the village one of the famous hoodlums, what he was different from other hoodlums, his family condition arranged in the village at the first echelon. 韦明杰之前虽然是村里有名的光棍之一,但他跟其他光棍不同的是,他的家庭条件在村里是排在第一梯队的。 Therefore, health/guard Yushan the family member and relative come to look, is satisfaction. 因此,卫雨珊的家人与亲戚过来一看,都是满意不已。 If nothing else, itself as Wei and his son of young labor contractor, the nature constructs attractively oneself. 别的不说,本身就作为小包工头的韦家父子,自然把自家建得漂漂亮亮的。 The family property of Wei is rich, the food and wine of entertainment guest is also sumptuous enough, this food naturally eats guests and hosts having a good time. 韦家的家底殷实,招待客人的酒菜又够丰盛,这顿饭自然是吃得宾主尽欢。 To 2 : 30 pm about, breaks up. 一直到下午 2 点半左右,才散场。 But before the bride's side departs, Mr. Wei had not naturally forgotten that the most important link, put out has prepared the good red packet, 11 issued the bride's side everyone as well as river Feng this big matchmaker. 而女方离去前,韦父自然没有忘记最重要的环节,拿出早已准备好的红包,一一发给女方这边的所有人以及江枫这个大媒人。 Then both sides the smalltalk, bride's side one group of five talents boarded to depart. 然后双方又客套了一番,女方一行五人才上车离去。 When the car(riage) just started out the Longshan Village village is not far, by a young married woman blocking. 当车刚开出龙山村村口不远,就被一个少妇给拦了下来。 What driving is health/guard Yushan a cousin, opens the glass to ask: „Hello, what matter do you block our car(riage)s to have?” 开车的是卫雨珊的一个堂哥,打开车窗问道:“你好,你拦我们的车是有什么事吗？” The young married women asked: „You were Lailongshan Village Wei Tiande look at the main house gate today right?” 少妇问道:“你们今天是来龙山村韦天德家看家门的对吗？” health/guard the cousin and health/guard Yushan and the others looked at each other one, then nods saying: „We truly are come Wei Jia to look at the main house gate, what matter do you have?” 卫堂哥与卫雨珊等人对视了一眼,然后点头回道:“我们确实是来韦家看家门的,请问你是有什么事吗？” Young married woman look somewhat anxious about has a look, then said low voice: „You by that matchmaker deceiving, the eldest son of Wei Tiande was not the good thing, lived a life of dissipation every kind is skilled, for these years he led many women to come back, but finally after discovering his true colors, packed the baggage to travel at the same night.” 少妇神色有些紧张的左右看看,然后小声说道:“你们被那媒人给骗了,那韦天德的大儿子可不是什么好东西,吃喝嫖赌样样精通,这几年他带了不少女人回来,可最终在发现他的真面目后,都连夜收拾行李跑路了。” Such remarks, in the car(riage) five people of complexions instantaneously changed! 此话一出,车内五人脸色瞬间都变了！ health/guard Yushan listens to know that the opposite party does the matter, she knows Wei Mingjie from suffered from the hard thing to bring up because of accidental/surprised at age 19, does this also visit prostitute? 卫雨珊一听就知道对方是来搞事的,她可是知道韦明杰从19岁那年就因为意外而患上了难言之隐,就这样还嫖？ When really she is the little girl who what does not understand? 真当她是什么都不懂的小女孩呢？ Therefore, putting out cell phone that health/guard Yushan then maintains composure, quietly made a picture to that young married woman. 于是,卫雨珊便不动声色的拿出手机,悄悄的给那少妇拍了一张照片。 However, health/guard Yushan the parents do not know Wei Mingjie's situation, hearing this saying somewhat is doubtful, sits Mr. Wei in vice- harnessing room knits the brows to ask: „Who are you? What evidence you have to prove you said real?” 不过,卫雨珊的父母可不知道韦明杰的情况,听到这话都有些半信半疑,坐在副驾室的卫父皱眉问道:“你到底是什么人啊？你有什么证据证明你说的都是真的？” Young married woman fast saying of: „I am Longshan Village, is not cruel enough to look that you are deceived tell you these matters, is believed by you, I also had the matter first to walk.” Then, no matter the young married woman also the opposite party is anything responded, walks from the alley in roadside on the half step, in an instant vanishes in five people at present. 少妇快速的说道:“我就是龙山村的,不忍心看你们受骗才告诉你们这些事的,信不信由你们,我还有事就先走了。”说完,少妇也不管对方是什么反应,就快步从路边的小路走下去,转眼就消失在五人眼前。 Mr. Wei complexion difficult to look at saying: „This what's the matter? What this woman said is real, what the person of gratitude and grudges has to discredit their family/home with Wei intentionally?” 卫父脸色难看的说道:“这到底怎么回事？这女人说的是真的,还是跟韦家有什么恩怨的人故意抹黑他们家的？” health/guard Yushan said: „The woman discredits intentionally, the specific reason has not known, I call to ask the river matchmaker, having a look at him to know this female.” 卫雨珊说道:“那女人是故意抹黑的,具体原因还不知道,我打个电话问问江媒人,看看他认不认识这个女的。”