Mei. 梅家。 Mei beautiful show sits on the single-seat sofa, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei sits on the positive/direct sliver of sofa. 梅丽秀坐在单人沙发上,梅父梅母则坐在正面的长条沙发上。 Is knowing that the famous matchmaker Grandmaster looks for the daughter, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei, although mood respectively one, but they approve the acting as a matchmaker strength of this Grandmaster river. 在知道享誉全国的媒人大师找上自家女儿,梅父梅母虽然心情各一,但他们都认同这位江大师的做媒实力。 Therefore, was urging what object made the daughter speak Grandmaster river to introduce to her. 因此,都催促着让女儿讲讲江大师给她介绍了个什么样的对象。 Mei beautiful show then simple introduced: „Father, mother, listening to Grandmaster river saying that was his fellow villager, the age was like me, 1.76 meters in height, at present is a border guard.” 梅丽秀便简单介绍道:“爸,妈,听江大师说那是他的老乡,年纪跟我一样,身高1米76,目前是一名边防军人。” In Mr. Mei Ms. Mei hears Yanxin „thump”, they were clear about soldier complex in the girl's feeling, since Ms. Mei telephoned in the past was snatched, then after the daughter experienced the heroic bearing of soldier, had very big interest in soldier community. 梅父梅母闻言心中“咯噔”了一下,他们清楚女儿心中的军人情结,自从当年梅母打电话的时候被抢,然后女儿见识了军人的英姿之后,就对军人这个群体产生了很大的兴趣。 After growing up, she likes on with the soldier related thing, for example the military strategy and tactic of research different in time of war. Plays the military simulation game, actively participates to support the activity of soldier, read the related military novel and biography wait/etc. 长大了之后,她就喜欢上跟军人有关的东西,比如研究不同战争时期的军事策略和战术。玩军事模拟游戏,积极参与支援军人的活动,阅读有关军事的小说和传记等等。 Even during the university, the daughters sprouts the idea that has left school to become a soldier, if they did not oppose initially, the daughter currently estimates that was also an enlisted woman. 甚至在大学期间,女儿都萌生过退学去当兵的想法,要是他们当初不反对的话,女儿现在估计也是一名女兵了。 Therefore, hears the daughter to mention after Grandmaster river to the object who she introduced is a border guard, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei felt that some were not wonderful. 所以,听到女儿提到江大师给她介绍的对象乃是一名边防军人后,梅父梅母就感觉有些不妙了。 After all, in soldier complex by their girl's feeling, so long as two people met to glancing, she will perish most likely. 毕竟,以他们女儿心中的军人情结,只要两人见面对上眼了,那她十有八九会沉沦。 May speak an honest remark, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei really does not want to ask a soldier to become the son-in-law, is not they do not like the soldier, because the soldier must protect our homes and defend our country, has no time to care about in the family/home radically. 可说句实在话,梅父梅母是真的不想找个军人当女婿,不是他们不喜欢军人,而是因为军人要保家卫国,根本无暇顾及家里。 Especially becomes the wife to the border guard, not only need bear the heavy burden alone, but must feel alarmed and anxious, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei naturally does not think that the daughter goes to by this pain. They only hope that the daughter can look for an average person, living of couple average undulating is then good. 尤其是给边防军人当媳妇,不仅要独挑重担,还要担惊受怕,梅父梅母自然不想女儿去受这份苦。他们只希望女儿能够找个普通人,然后夫妻俩平平澹澹的过日子就挺好。 The short flash, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei thinks are more. 短短一瞬间,梅父梅母就想了很多很多。 Ms. Mei cannot bear ask: „Unmarried girl, what opinion are you?” 梅母忍不住问道:“闺女,你是什么意见？” Mei beautiful show said: „Mother, you know that I have liked the soldier, Grandmaster river also worthily is the famous matchmaker Grandmaster, to me introduced that the object likes completely according to me, I am not certainly willing to miss this marriage affinity, therefore I want to see the opposite party.” 梅丽秀说道:“妈,你知道的,我一直都喜欢军人,江大师也不愧是享誉全国的媒人大师,给我介绍对象完全是按我喜好来的,我当然不愿意错过这份姻缘,所以我想见见对方。” Ms. Mei somewhat anxious saying: „ Unmarried girl, you likes the soldier, this we know, incessantly is you, actually I also like the soldier with your father very much. 梅母有些忧虑的说道:“闺女,你喜欢军人,这个我们都知道,不止是你,其实我跟你爸也很喜欢军人。 But likes turning over to like, if you really want to marry a soldier, I too do not approve of your father, because worked as the military spouse too to be really bitter, we made the hope of parents you to enjoy happiness, does not hope that you went to by this pain. ” 但喜欢归喜欢,你要是真想嫁给一位军人,我跟你爸是不太赞同的,因为当军嫂真的太苦了,我们做父母的希望你享福,不希望你去受这份苦。” Mr. Mei also said: „Moreover border guard, not only the guarding environment is bad , compared with the ordinary soldier also has very big risk, I had read the related news before, said is the border guard, in the conflicts of other countries, sacrificed several soldiers.” 梅父也接话道:“而且边防军人,不仅驻守环境恶劣,跟普通军人相比还有很大的风险,我之前看过相关的新闻,说得就是边防军人,在跟其他国家的冲突中,牺牲了好几名军人。” Mei beautiful show smile said: „ Father, mother, I know that you are good for me, I also work as the military spouse is very actually laborious clearly, understands that the border guard compares with the ordinary soldier truly is much more dangerous. 梅丽秀微笑道:“爸,妈,我知道你们是为了我好,我也清楚当军嫂其实很辛苦,也明白边防军人跟普通军人相比确实要危险得多。 However, like drinking coffee, some people like the bitter coffee that drinks does not sweeten, this person is different from the happy definition of person, to me, can marry a soldier, I had felt very happy, the tribulation in life I can face optimistically. 但是,就像喝咖啡一样,有些人就喜欢喝不加糖的苦咖啡,这人跟人的幸福定义是不一样的,对于我来说,能够嫁给一名军人,我就已经感到很幸福了,生活中的磨难我都能乐观去面对。 Therefore, you do not need to be worried for me. 所以,你们不用为我担心。 Also, this is the marriage affinity that Grandmaster river said that basically can equate with the happy these two characters, haven't you Xin Jiang Grandmaster been acting as a matchmaker this strength? ” 再说了,这可是江大师介绍的姻缘,基本上可以跟幸福这两个字划上等号了,你们难道还不相信江大师在做媒这一块的实力？” Daughter these words, said Mr. Mei Ms. Mei to be dumbfounded. 女儿这一番话,说得梅父梅母哑口无言。 They understand that daughter's meaning, summarizes in a proverb is „child non- fish, the happiness of fish of secure?” 他们都明白女儿的意思,用一句俗语来概括就是“子非鱼,安之鱼之乐？” Factor that let alone, Grandmaster river also has to consider, after all others acting as a matchmaker personal history are not false, the reputation does not blow. 更何况,江大师也是不得不考虑的因素,毕竟人家的做媒履历可不是假的,名声也不是吹出来的。 Thinks of here, Ms. Mei sighed, said: „Since you have the preparation, I was not many say anything!” 想到这里,梅母叹了口气,说道:“既然你已经有了心理准备,那我就不多说什么了！” Mr. Mei asked: „How did Grandmaster river say?” 梅父问道:“江大师怎么说？” Mei beautiful show said: „The meaning of Grandmaster river, was makes me come back with you to say one, without the opinion, arranged our two family members to eat meal in the evening together.” 梅丽秀道:“江大师的意思,是让我回来跟你们说一声,如果没有意见的话,就安排我们两家人晚上一起吃顿饭。” Mr. Mei said with amazement: „Does time catch up?” 梅父惊讶道:“时间这么赶？” Mei beautiful show said: „Father, you also knows the vacation that soldier are not many, his time is on leave to visit relatives, only then one month, therefore his parents' meaning, wants to take advantage this month, gave the office his wedding!” 梅丽秀道:“爸,你也知道军人的假期不多,他这次休假回来探亲,就只有一个月的时间,所以他父母的意思,是想趁这一个月的时间,把他的婚事给办了！” Ms. Mei quite experienced said: „ This short one month, if were free to choose a mate truly catches up, but if rushed to being on intimate terms that is marrying, that this time also was quite actually normal. 梅母颇有经验的说道:“这短短一个月的时间,如果是自由恋爱确实是赶了点,但如果是奔着结婚去的相亲,那这个时间其实也比较正常。 Moreover brings both sides together to you, but Grandmaster river, by the acting as a matchmaker reputation of Grandmaster river, we can definitely trust, this time does not reduce importantly. ” 而且给你们牵线搭桥的可是江大师,以江大师的做媒口碑,咱们完全可以信任,这个时间缩短一点也不要紧。” Although Mr. Mei does not want to let the daughter, when the military spouse suffers hardships, but daughter, since has made the decision, he will also respect her opinion, will not interfere forcefully, this after all is her marital important matter. 梅父虽然不想让女儿当军嫂受苦,但女儿既然已经做出了决定,他也会尊重她的意见,不会强行干涉,这毕竟是她的婚姻大事。 Therefore, Mr. Mei then pats the plank road: „Such being the case, you give Grandmaster river to answer, making him arrange the time and place that the evening meets.” 于是,梅父便拍板道:“既然如此,那你就给江大师回话,让他安排好晚上见面的时间与地点。” Mei beautiful show smile said: „Good, my called to say Grandmaster river.” 梅丽秀微笑道:“好,我这就打电话跟江大师说。” ...... …… 6 : 00 pm. 下午 6 点。 Some hotel theater box, Chen Daqiang and Mei beautiful show chatted very congenially. 某饭店包厢,陈达强与梅丽秀聊得非常投机。 Mei beautiful show, carries out the task to be interested regarding the daily life and fundamental training of soldier, after Grandmaster river introduced they knew, unceasing opens the mouth inquiry. 梅丽秀对于军人的日常生活、基础训练、执行任务等都非常感兴趣,在江大师介绍他们双方认识后,就不断的开口询问。 But Chen Daqiang also said that listens to her who can say, regarding their soldiers, is the dull things, but Mei beautiful show actually hears with great interest. 而陈达强也把能说的都说给她听,对于他们军人来说,很多都是枯燥无味的东西,但梅丽秀却听得津津有味。 As for Mr. Chen Ms. Chen as well as Mr. Mei Ms. Mei, both sides are making an effort the children of boasts opposite party, moreover praised the unusual sincerity, because they thought that the child of opposite party was truly outstanding. 至于陈父陈母以及梅父梅母,双方都是使劲的夸对方的孩子,而且夸得都非常真心,因为他们本身就觉得对方的孩子确实优秀。 With Mr. Mei Ms. Mei, they truly does not think that the daughter marries a border guard, but they will not deny outstanding of border guard absolutely. 就拿梅父梅母来说,他们确实不太想女儿嫁给一个边防军人,但他们绝对不会否认一个边防军人的优秀。 Even saw that Chen Da builds up strength to disclose faintly the soldier makings, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei felt that in heart incomparable steadfastness, the soldier image of our country, is very credible. 甚至看到陈达强身上隐隐透露出来的军人气质,梅父梅母就感到心中无比的踏实,咱们国家的军人形象,还是非常靠谱的。 In Mr. Chen Ms. Chen eyes, Mei beautiful show stature look is good, likes the soldier so much, outstanding student who 211 universities come out, family's income is also high, if such outstanding miss can marry their sons, their Chen was really the ancestral grave braves the light smoke. 在陈父陈母眼里,梅丽秀身材相貌都不错,又这么喜欢军人,还是一名211大学出来的高材生,家里的收入又高,这么优秀的姑娘要是能嫁给他们儿子,那他们陈家真的是祖坟冒青烟了。 Food, two family members have eaten the evening's almost nine points to finish. 一顿饭,两家人一直吃到晚上差不多九点才结束。 During this period, Jiang Feng takes the matchmaker, with all one's heart he also fulfills responsibility searches the rumor for both sides, but finally is naturally as expected, both sides the leading actor and actress of parental or being on intimate terms, expressed satisfaction. 在此期间,江枫作为媒人,他也尽心尽责的替双方探口风,而结果自然不出所料,双方无论是父母还是相亲的男女主角,都表示满意。 After the Chen family pays up, according to the custom of being on intimate terms gave the red packet. 陈家人结账之后,又根据相亲的规矩给了红包。 After going out of the hotel, Jiang Feng looks to Mei beautiful show, said with a smile: „Mei beautiful show, after my fellow villager high school graduates, becomes a soldier, is( does not calculate on Liennan Ningdu, you who came to stay as well as pass by for the first time shortly) are also idling in any case being all right, otherwise gave me this fellow villager to work as a guide, brought his nightwalking Nanning, had a look at the night scene of our Nanning!” 走出饭店后,江枫看向梅丽秀,笑着说道:“梅丽秀,我这老乡高中毕业后就去当兵,就连南宁都是第一次来(短暂停留以及路过的不算),反正你也闲着没事,要不然就给我这位老乡当个向导,带他夜游南宁,看看咱们南宁的夜景呗！” Mei beautiful show nods, looked that said with a smile to Chen Daqiang: „Words that strong elder brother, does not shut out, do I give you to work as a guide?” 梅丽秀点了点头,看向陈达强笑道:“强哥,不嫌弃的话,我就给你当个向导？” On the Chen Daqiang firm and resolute face was full of the happy expression, being too busy should say: „Does not shut out, you can give me to work as the guide, that is my being honored!” 陈达强坚毅的脸上充满了笑意,忙不迭的应道:“不嫌弃,你能给我当向导,那是我的荣幸！” Two parents see that cannot help but tacit looking at each other, all performed in do not call the turn. 两家的父母见状,不由得默契的对视了一眼,一切尽在不言中。 ...... …… Time of childbirth center. 月子中心。 Jiang Feng and yellow Lingwei, river Xue, Qu Wenhua as well as two moon/month sisters-in-law, immense interest are looking that a little fellow on bed tries hard to turn over/to stand up. 江枫、黄灵薇、江雪、曲文华以及两位月嫂,正兴趣盎然的看着床上的一个小家伙努力翻身。 This little fellow is not others, is the son of Qu Wenhua and river snow. 这个小家伙不是别人,正是曲文华与江雪的儿子。 As the saying goes „three lift four to turn”, child child long/grows to four months of time, starts to understand that turned over/stood up. 俗话说“三抬四翻”,小孩子长到四个月的时候,就开始懂得翻身了。 river Xue after the next month, has not returned to Qu directly, but continues to keep the time of childbirth center ; first, to accompany own sister-in-law yellow Lingwei ; second, to conduct post-natal rehabilitation training. 江雪在出月之后,并没有直接回曲家,而是继续留在月子中心,一是为了陪自己的弟妹黄灵薇,二是为了进行产后的康复训练。 Regarding the woman, the post-natal rehabilitation training is extremely important, can, because is pregnant to have a child to cause the stature of distortion to get back, looked that this rehabilitation training was in place. 对于女人来说,产后的康复训练是极为重要的,能不能把因为怀孕生孩子而导致变形的身材恢复过来,就看这康复训练到不到位了。 Why these female stars resurface in having a child , is the stature that good? 为什么那些女明星在生完孩子后复出,身材还是那么好？ Primary cause in post-natal rehabilitation training. 主要原因就在产后的康复训练。 river Xue anything does not lack now, she does not allow oneself stature to distort, naturally must conduct the rehabilitation training well. 江雪现在什么都不缺,她不允许自己的身材变形,自然要好好的进行康复训练。 Incessantly is she, yellow Lingwei after sitting time of childbirth, will conduct the rehabilitation training. 不止是她,黄灵薇在坐完月子后,也会进行康复训练的。 „This little fellow, turned inside out finally!” “这小家伙,总算翻过来了！” „Now will have stood up from failure, crossed for 2-3 months to crawl again everywhere!” “现在已经会翻身了,再过2-3个月就会到处爬了！” „After will crawl, the tooth wanted to be long!” “等会爬之后,牙齿就要长出来了！” „......” “……” The nephew who after Jiang Feng sees completes to turn over/to stand up, giggle smiles, could not bear give to turn him, teased him saying: „Come, we turn again one time.” 江枫看着完成翻身后咯咯直笑的外甥,忍不住又把他给翻了回来,逗弄他道:“来,咱们再翻一次。” The little fellows do not cry, on the mouth yi yi, small hand unceasing grabbing thoughtlessly, that appearance seems like is really moe moe dá, making everyone smile. 小家伙也不哭,嘴上吚吚呀呀的,小手不断的乱抓,那模样看起来真的是萌萌哒,让大家都不禁笑了起来。 Passed the moment, the little fellow starts to attempt to turn over/to stand up. 过了片刻,小家伙又开始尝试翻身。 After this thing has turned over/stood up the successful experience, the difficulty of again attempting reduced, few under made him turn unexpectedly successfully! 这玩意有过翻身成功的经验后,再次尝试的难度就降低了,没几下竟然又让他翻成功了！ Jiang Feng sees that also turns him, making him continue to turn. 江枫见状,又把他翻回来,让他继续翻。 yellow Lingwei sees that to smile to say with a smile: „Where has you to become the uncle.” 黄灵薇见状莞尔笑道:“哪有你这么当舅舅的。” Jiang Feng hehe said with a smile: „My this is not training his turning over ability!” 江枫嘿嘿笑道:“我这不是在锻炼他的翻身能力嘛！” Qu Wenhua and river snow with a smile looks, looks at son day-by-day growing up, first time, when parents' they also follow to grow slowly. 曲文华与江雪笑吟吟的看着,看着儿子一天天的长大,第一次当父母的他们也跟着慢慢成长。 Jiang Feng teased a meeting nephew, saw a sleeping soundly son, said: „Wife, I first!” 江枫逗弄了一会外甥,又看了一眼正在熟睡的儿子,说道:“老婆,那我就先出发了！” yellow Lingwei nods saying: „Un, goes, on the road pays attention to the security.” 黄灵薇点头道:“嗯,去吧,路上注意安全。” Jiang Feng complied with one, notifies the elder sister and brother-in-law, then left the time of childbirth center, goes to the train station with a bodyguard hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree together, prepares to sit High Speed Rail to go to the Guizhou province provincial capital. 江枫应了一声,又跟姐姐和姐夫打了个招呼,便离开了月子中心,跟保镖百里梧桐一起前往火车站,准备坐高铁前往黔省省城。 For serveral days, Jiang Feng continuously rushed about for Chen Daqiang and marital important matter of Mei beautiful show, if the time is not tight, actually was a go-between after them, the development that can allow nature to take its course, at their ultra-high marital match value, arriving together was the successful matter. 这些天,江枫一直在为陈达强与梅丽秀的婚姻大事而奔波,如果时间没那么紧张的话,其实在替他们牵线之后,就可以顺其自然的发展,以他们两人的超高婚姻匹配值,走到一起是水到渠成的事情。 However, the time that because Chen Daqiang is on leave is limited, wants to handle this wedding in a short time, the nature strives to be good on his matchmaker. 不过,因为陈达强休假的时间有限,想要在短时间内搞定这门婚事,自然就得他这个媒人出力才行。 After this week „rushing about”, decided their weddings today finally, therefore Jiang Feng then planned that finds the time to run a Guizhou province provincial capital, Li Shuixiu who returns from Japan is a go-between for that. 经过这一个多星期的“奔波”,终于在今天把他们的婚事敲定了,于是江枫便打算抽时间跑一趟黔省省城,替那个从日本归来的李水秀牵线。 ...... …… Leaves for on High Speed Rail of Guizhou province provincial capital, some first-grade place compartment, wears Jiang Feng of mask by to sit in repose with eyes closed on the chairback. 开往黔省省城的高铁上,某个一等座车厢,戴着口罩的江枫靠在椅背上闭目养神。 Because decides to sit High Speed Rail temporarily, therefore has not bought the commercial place, regarding this Jiang Feng does not care, although he now net worth several hundred million, but after all is the child who the ordinary household comes, trip mode not extremely tasteful, the commercial place of High Speed Rail can sit, as soon as the place even second-rate place he can also sit. 因为是临时决定坐高铁,所以没有买到商务座,对此江枫也不在意,他现在虽然身家几个亿了,但毕竟是普通家庭出身的孩子,出行方式没有太过讲究,高铁的商务座能坐,一等座甚至二等座他也能坐。 The present is the lunch break, the passenger in compartment is playing the cell phone either, either is like Jiang Feng is sitting in repose with eyes closed, some quite trapped/sleepy passenger has even fallen asleep. 现在是午休时间,车厢里的乘客要么在玩手机,要么跟江枫一样在闭目养神,有些比较困的乘客甚至已经睡着了。 The entire compartment was very peaceful, these play the hand brusher video, put on the earphone, will not affect others rests. 原本整个车厢都挺安静的,那些玩手机刷视频的,都戴上了耳机,不会影响到别人休息。 When the train arrives in the next stand, after coming up the family of three, all changed! 只是,当列车抵达下一站,上来了一家三口后,一切就变了！ Family of three who comes up newly, male roughly about 35 years old, female 32 or 33-year-old, a 6 or 7-year-old young boy. 新上来的一家三口,男的约摸三十五岁左右,女的三十二三岁,还有一个六七岁的小男孩。 Their seats, in front of Jiang Feng, that young boy were being held by his mother from the beginning, is only this bear child is not very law-abiding, like having the hyperactive wiggled forward, the mouth has not stopped, quarrelled is wanting the cell phone to play. 他们的座位,就在江枫面前,那小男孩一开始是被他妈妈抱着的,只是这熊孩子很不安分,像得了多动症一样扭来扭去,嘴巴也没有停下来过,吵着要手机玩。 From the beginning his mother has not given him the cell phone, he has quarrelled continuously noisily, afterward his mother should be tired, gave him the cell phone. 一开始他妈妈没给他手机,他就一直吵一直闹,后来他妈妈应该是烦了,就把手机给了他。 After having the cell phone, bear the child then proficiently starts brushes the short video, arrives at biggest, once for a while laughing the cell phone sound, the appearance that acts in a completely informal or uninhibited manner makes the passengers in compartment cannot help but frown. 有了手机后,熊孩子便开始熟练的刷短视频,把手机声音开到最大,时不时的哈哈大笑,那旁若无人的模样让车厢里的乘客都不由得皱起了眉头。 However, is away from home, generally, most people hold the multi- incident to be inferior to the mentalities of few incident, so long as is not too excessive, enduring. 不过,出门在外,一般情况下,大部分人都是抱着多一事不如少一事的心态,只要不是太过分,都会忍着。 Said that each bear child's back will have guardian bear, this saying said a point right, this bear child's action, when parents turns a blind eye unexpectedly, has not drunk to stop his meaning. 都说每一个熊孩子的背后都会有熊家长,这话说得一点都没错,这个熊孩子的举动,当父母的竟然视若无睹,没有喝止他的意思。 In this period, some train attendants saw this situation, then walked to remind, they were then motionless did not say a son itchy. 期间,有乘务员看到这个情况,便走过来提醒了一下,然后他们便不动不痒的说了一下儿子。 When the train attendant leaves, bear the child still stuck to one's own way of doing things. 等乘务员一离开,那熊孩子仍然我行我素。 After Jiang Feng since this bear child starts to be noisy, opened the eye, the entire journey witnessed that this family of three treats as the action of family/home the train. 江枫自从这熊孩子开始吵闹后,就睁开了眼睛,全程目睹这一家三口把列车当作自己家的举动。 Jiang Feng has not made noise, is not he fears to stir up trouble, but wants to have a look at these two qualities that is the parents miss to what situation. 江枫没有出声,不是他怕惹事,而是想看看这两个做父母的素质到底差到什么地步。 Quick, bear the child starts with the foot pedal front chair, sees the funny piece in video, laughs, while the courageous tread chair expressed his excitement. 很快,那熊孩子开始用脚蹬前面的椅子,看到视频中的搞笑片断,就一边哈哈大笑,一边勐蹬椅子表达他的兴奋。 Even if this, that two are the guardian, still did not make noise to stop. 哪怕是这样,那两个当家长的,仍然不出声制止。 Finally, after the chair the bear child tread several times repeatedly, sits in a front young woman really could not bear, then sets out to look to that bear child, complexion ugly/difficult to look at saying: „little friend, can you do not pedal my chair, this is the public place, can you peaceful?” 终于,在椅子被熊孩子反复蹬了几次后,坐在前面的一个女青年实在忍不住了,便起身看向那个熊孩子,脸色难看的说道:“小朋友,你能不能不要蹬我的椅子,这是公众场合,你能不能安静一点？”