MTTIR :: Volume #6

#502: Military spouses not easy( asked monthly ticket)


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Matrimonial agency. 婚介所。 Jiang Feng drinks tea, said: Brother Chen, this issue you do not need to worry, because when this miss is young an experience, making her have the special worship complex to your soldier community, can marry the soldier who oneself like, is her long-awaited matter, when the difficulty of military spouse does not daunt her.” 江枫喝了口茶,说道:“陈兄弟,这个问题你不用担心,这姑娘因为年少时的一段经历,让她对你们军人这个群体有着特殊的崇拜情结,能嫁给自己喜欢的军人,是她梦寐以求的事情,所以当军嫂的困难是吓不住她的。” Chen Daqiang curious asking: Is what experiences to make her worship our soldiers?” 陈达强好奇的问道:“是什么经历让她崇拜我们军人的?” Jiang Feng said: „ When she was 11 years old, one day went out to take a walk with mother, finally when her mother telephones, the cell phone was snatched suddenly. 江枫道:“在她11岁那一年,有一天跟母亲出去逛街,结果在她母亲打电话的时候,手机突然被抢。 When the person of robbing runs away, the soldier Elder Brother who wears the military uniform bravely steps forward, three fist two feet then that robber knock down, making her mother bring back the cell phone smoothly. 就在抢劫的人逃窜的时候,一个身穿军装的兵哥哥挺身而出,三拳两脚便把那个抢劫犯打倒在地,让她母亲顺利的拿回了手机。 Then starting from that moment, she then has the special worship complex to your soldier communities, if not the parents is not cruel enough she to endure hardship, perhaps she has become an enlisted woman. ” 便是从那一刻开始,她便对你们军人群体有着特殊的崇拜情结,如果不是父母不忍心她去吃苦,她或许已经成为一名女兵了。” Chen Daqiang hears word felt at ease much, he as the soldier, naturally understands that the military spouse takes husband's soldier occupation as the honor most likely, generally speaking did not understand that soldier professional woman, will not choose to marry the soldier, after all worked as the military spouse too to be bitter. 陈达强闻言安心了不少,他身为军人,自然明白军嫂十有八九都是以丈夫的军人职业为荣,一般来说不理解军人这个职业的女人,是不会选择嫁给军人的,毕竟当军嫂是真的太苦了。 Mr. Chen Ms. Chen hears two to shine, their sons are the soldiers, naturally wants to look for a daughter-in-law who takes the son soldier occupation as the honor comes back, but Grandmaster river calculated the miss, meets this condition very much obviously. 陈父陈母听得两眼发亮,他们的儿子是军人,自然想找一个以儿子军人职业为荣的儿媳妇回来,而江大师推算出来的这个姑娘,很显然就符合这个条件。 Grandmaster river, this miss is listening well, does not know when can arrange them to meet?” Ms. Chen somewhat impatient asking. “江大师,这姑娘听着就不错,不知道什么时候能安排他们见面?”陈母有些迫不及待的问道。 The matter cannot be delayed, I see this girls and her parents now, if smooth, in the afternoon can perhaps arrange your two family members to meet in the evening.” “事不宜迟,我现在就去见见这姑娘和她的父母,如果顺利的话,下午或许晚上就可以安排你们两家人见面。” Jiang Feng this strong action makes Chen three gasp in admiration. 江枫这超强的行动力让陈家三口都为之叹服。 Mr. Chen nods saying: Ok, Grandmaster river you are first busy, we and other good news.” 陈父点头道:“行,那江大师您先忙,我们等您的好消息。” ...... …… The birth of any industry, the back has the reason. 任何一个行业的诞生,背后都是有原因的。 Our country after the new century, with the progress of society, speeding up of rhythm of life, busily the working couples family that at noon as well as at dusk took care of the child is more and more. 我国在进入新世纪后,随着社会的进步,生活节奏的加快,中午以及傍晚时分无暇照顾孩子的双职工家庭是越来越多了。 Therefore, noon holds, the late request and full-time childcare then to arise at the historic moment. 于是,午托、晚托、全托便应运而生。 After more than 20 years of development, noon held, the late request and full-time childcare to spring up everywhere, little several many more than ten 20 near each elementary school in national every large or small city noon held, the late request and full-time childcare, the competition was nothing less than intense. 经过二十多年的发展,午托、晚托、全托早已经遍地开花,在全国大大小小城市的各个小学附近少则几家多则十几二十家午托、晚托、全托,竞争不可谓不激烈。 The parents of Mei beautiful show were engaged in noon hold to have more than ten years. 梅丽秀的父母从事午托已经有十几年了。 Then, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei is engaged in this industry, has very big relations with Mei beautiful show. 说起来,梅父梅母之所以从事这个行业,跟梅丽秀有着很大的关系。 Before, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei had the respective work, at Mei beautiful show kindergarten, because delivered early meets late, but actually no influence on the work of parents. 以前,梅父梅母都有各自的工作,在梅丽秀上幼儿园的时候,因为只是早送晚接,倒没有影响到父母的工作。 However, after Mei beautiful show goes to the elementary school, at noon is on vacation from school must meet to go home to eat meal, this gave Mr. Mei Ms. Mei to bring very big trouble. 然而,等梅丽秀上小学之后,中午放学还得接回家吃饭,这就给梅父梅母带来了很大的麻烦。 At noon they ate the bowl powder or point casually go can handle, but after the child goes to the elementary school, noon must make the lunch ahead of time, then the child is on vacation from school to go to the school to meet to eat meal again, around 2 : 00 pm must send to the school the child. 原本中午他们随便吃碗粉或者点个外卖就可以搞定,可孩子上小学后中午要提前做好午饭,然后孩子放学再去学校把人接回来吃饭,下午 2 点多又要把孩子送去学校。 Without the work, that is but actually indifferent, how to toss about has the time. 如果没有工作,那倒无所谓,怎么折腾都有时间。 But Mr. Mei Ms. Mei had the work at that time, absolutely does not have the time to toss about. 可当时梅父梅母都有工作,根本就没时间这么折腾。 After discussing, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei delivered to near school noon to hold the class Mei beautiful show. 经过商量,梅父梅母就把梅丽秀送到了学校附近的一个午托班。 However, that noon request does not well, the daughter eats there cannot have a good sleep well, a Mr. Mei Ms. Mei such daughter, where giving up makes her suffer hardship. 然而,那家午托做得并不好,女儿在那里吃不好睡不好,梅父梅母就这么一个女儿,哪里舍得让她受罪。 Therefore, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei discussed the decision finally, making Ms. Mei resign leads the daughter specially. 于是,梅父梅母最终商量决定,让梅母辞职专门带女儿。 Ms. Mei is a brain is also flexible, is thinking has one is also a belt/bring, has several is also a belt/bring, then attempts also to meet several noon requests, elected daughter's classmate. 梅母也是个脑子灵活的,想着带一个也是带,带几个也是带,便尝试着也接几个午托,选的还是女儿的同班同学。 Because Ms. Mei looks after quite attentively, moreover eats meal is the schoolmate who her daughter eats anything to give the daughter eats anything, naturally harvested the reputation. 因为梅母照顾得比较用心,而且吃饭更是她女儿吃什么就给女儿的同学吃什么,自然而然的就收获了口碑。 Then, by the second semester, in her daughter class needed noon guardian schoolmate, hopes that Ms. Mei also help/gang leads their children. 然后,到了第二个学期,她女儿班上需要午托的同学家长,都希望梅母也帮带他们的孩子。 Is this, the noon request of Ms. Mei gets bigger and bigger, more does is more specialized, finally is out of control, Mr. Mei also resigns to help long time ago. 就是这样,梅母的午托越做越大,越做越专业,最终一发不可收拾,梅父也早早就辞职回来帮忙。 After Mei beautiful show university graduates, does not go to look for the work, but comes back to operate this with the parents together already the noon request that makes the reputation. 梅丽秀大学毕业之后,也不出去找工作,而是回来跟父母一起经营这家已经打出名声的午托。 Noon holds the maximum cost is the house rent, is the meals. 午托最大的成本支出便是房租,还有就是伙食。 Here has saying that Ms. Mei is really far-seeing, she after managing noon the request makes money, then newly-built community downpayment by elementary school two suites, repair time the house two sets of four-bedroom apartment makes a connection, turns into one set of eight hall to have more than 260 squares big houses. 这里不得不说梅母确实有远见,她在办午托赚到钱后,便在小学旁边新建的住宅小区首付了两套房,装修的时候把两套四房一厅的房子打通,变成一套八房一厅足足有两百六十多平方的大房子。 Now, Mei three then carry out the trust in this big house, altogether picked up more than 100 children, although here pushed, the noon request that but the environment compared with did in other private residences must. 如今,梅家三口便在这套大房子中搞托管,一共接了一百多个孩子,在这里虽然挤了点,但环境比在其他民房搞的午托要强多了。 The house rent saved, the remaining maximum disbursements were the meals, more than 100 child actually meal could not eat how much money, so long as the cuisine arrangement were reasonable, a day the meals of 300 dollars it can be said that had more than enough to spare. 房租省了,剩下最大的支出便是伙食了,一百多个孩子其实一餐也吃不了多少钱,只要菜式安排合理,一天三百块钱的伙食可以说是绰绰有余了。 In addition some assorted expenses, the noon of Mei hold each month gross charge basically to maintain in 10,000 dollars now. 再加上一些杂七杂八的费用,现在梅家的午托每月的总支出基本保持在一万块钱以内。 But charging criterion that their family/home noon holds, one month is 680 dollars, more than 100 children, each month gross income is 70,000 over, except the expenditure, gains more than 60,000 purely. 而他们家午托的收费标准,一个月是680块钱,一百多个孩子,每个月的总收入是七万出头,除去开支,纯赚六万多。 In Nanning this second-tier cities, proper high-income household. 在南宁这种二线城市,妥妥的高收入家庭。 ...... …… On this day, Mei beautiful show gives the father to overcome the hand with mother together, must make more than 100 children's meals, must be a time-comsuming. 这一天,梅丽秀跟母亲一起给父亲打下手,要做一百多个孩子的菜,还是要费一番功夫的。 Mr. Mei after these several years disciplining, has been a qualified master chef, the gas-oven that in the family/home uses is that firepower very big gas-oven that the hotel uses, the speed of such stir-fried dish will be fast. 梅父经过这十几年的磨练,早已经是一名合格的大厨了,家里用的煤气灶都是饭店用的那种火力非常大的煤气灶,这样炒菜的速度才会快。 If with that type of ordinary home gas-oven, is unbearably busy radically. 要是用那种普通的家用煤气灶,根本就忙不过来。 When made similarly, Mei beautiful show had a look at the time to be similar, then washed the hand cleanly, notifies the parents, then raised Wu Tuo to go out to pick up the child together. 等弄得差不多了,梅丽秀看看时间已经差不多了,便把手洗干净,跟父母打了个招呼,便提着一块午托牌出去接孩子去了。 Because is near to the school, is about several minutes, Mei beautiful show then arrived at the school entrance. 因为离学校近,不过几分钟时间,梅丽秀便来到了学校门口。 Quick, the school was then on vacation from school, these wear on the same hat to write the noon to hold the child of name and serial number then gather side Mei beautiful show. 很快,学校便放学了,那些戴着相同帽子上面写着午托名字与编号的孩子便一个个聚集到梅丽秀身边。 The simultaneous/uniform population, Mei beautiful show then lifts the sign to bring home them. 点齐人数,梅丽秀便举着牌子带着他们回家。 Goes home, washes the hands to eat meal, Mei three also follow to eat together. 回到家,洗手吃饭,梅家三口也跟着一起吃。 After the food, rests for 20 minutes, then makes the children sleep. 饭后休息二十分钟,便让孩子们睡觉。 When 2 : 00 pm, quarrelled again the children, then sent them to the school. 等到下午 2 点,再把孩子们吵起来,然后送他们去学校。 Looks that children enter the school, Mei beautiful show is about to go home to help clean up time, the youth handsome fellow who looks at some looking familiar appears in her front suddenly. 看着一个个孩子进入学校,梅丽秀正准备回家帮忙打扫卫生的时候,一个看着有些面熟的青年帅哥忽然出现在她的面前。 Beautiful woman hello/you good, can delay your several minutes?” “美女你好,请问可以耽搁你几分钟时间吗?” „Are you Grandmaster river?” Mei beautiful show surprised saying. “你是江大师?”梅丽秀惊讶的说道。 In present this current capacity time, the Guangxi province rose elder brother type of fan several million big nets to be red, so long as the young people in province brush the short video frequently, will know him most likely. 在如今这个流量时代,桂省出了升哥这种粉丝几千万的大网红,全省的年轻人只要经常刷短视频的,十有八九都会认识他。 But Grandmaster river that is the fans broken hundred million matchmaker Grandmasters, does not rise the elder brother to compare in popularity of Guangxi province, Mei beautiful show as a nubile young woman, the nature gave to recognize him quickly. 而江大师那是粉丝破亿的媒人大师,在桂省的知名度那可不是升哥能比的,梅丽秀作为一名适婚女青年,自然很快就把他给认了出来。 The Jiang Feng smile said: Is I, since you know me, that saved introduced oneself, if were convenient we to find a place to sit to chat?” 江枫微笑道:“是我,既然你认识我,那就省了自我介绍了,要是方便的话咱们找个地方坐下来聊聊?” Although Mei beautiful show does not pursue star, celebrity but who sees Grandmaster river this rank, in the heart slightly somewhat is excited, she nods to say immediately: Grandmaster river, side there has the family/home tea with milk shop, or do we sit to there?” 梅丽秀虽然不追星,但见到江大师这种级别的名人,心中还是微微有些激动的,她当即点头道:“江大师,旁边那里有家奶茶店,要不咱们到那里坐坐?” Jiang Feng naturally does not have the opinion, therefore two people then move toward the tea with milk shop together, then a person wanted one cup of tea with milk, then sat in corner chatted. 江枫自然没有意见,于是两人便一起走向奶茶店,然后一人要了一杯奶茶,便坐在角落里聊了起来。 Jiang Feng has not talked circuitously, comes straight to the point to say directly: Beautiful woman, my occupation you are know that I said something to smooth things over you, the goal was to introduce an object to you, didn't know you interested?” 江枫没有绕圈子,直接开门见山道:“美女,我的职业你是知道的,我过来搭讪你,目的就是想给你介绍个对象,不知道你有没有兴趣?” Grandmaster river, you called me the name on the line!” “江大师,你叫我名字就行了!” Mei beautiful show small face slightly red saying: I am the plan excessively was many for two years to look for the partner again, since Grandmaster river you walked in personally, I am interested to the object who you introduced very much.” 梅丽秀小脸微红的说道:“原本我是打算过多两年再找对象的,不过既然江大师你都亲自找上门来了,我对你介绍的对象还是很感兴趣的。” Jiang Feng is not accidental/surprised, the reputation that as he acts as a matchmaker is getting bigger and bigger, when brings both sides together for the customer, does not need to first introduce oneself again as before, even in must reveal two to win customer's trust to the customer when necessary. 江枫对此也不意外,随着他做媒的名声越来越大,在替客户牵线搭桥的时候,也不用再像以前一样要先自我介绍,甚至在有必要的时候还得给客户露两手以取得客户的信任了。 Mei beautiful show, I give you to introduce the material of opposite party.” “梅丽秀,那我给你介绍一下对方的资料。” Mei beautiful show un, then raised up the ear, listens to a Jiang Feng introduced: „ He with me is a fellow villager, with you in the same year, 1.76 meters in height, I were not many as for the look said that at the appointed time you saw know. 梅丽秀嗯了一声,然后竖起耳朵,听江枫介绍道:“他跟我是老乡,跟你同年,身高1米76,至于相貌我就不多说了,到时你看到就知道。 He after the high school graduates then becomes a soldier, until now more than five years, at present is a border guard in security border area. ” 他在高中毕业后便去当兵,至今已经有五年多了,目前是一名保卫边疆的边防军人。” The material of first half, Mei beautiful show hears in the heart not to have the mighty waves, may listen to Grandmaster river to say , the material of half, she spirit inspires immediately, pink and shiny saying: „The ability that Grandmaster river, you acts as a matchmaker lives up to reputation, I most worship is a soldier, if were not my parents were blocking in the past, I currently estimate that was also a protecting our homes and defending our country enlisted woman.” 前半截的资料,梅丽秀听得心中毫无波澜,可听江大师说完后半截的资料,她顿时精神一振,脸色红润的说道:“江大师,你做媒的能力果真是名不虚传,我平生最崇拜的就是军人,如果当年不是我父母拦着的话,我现在估计也是一名保家卫国的女兵了。” The Jiang Feng smile said: „ You two marriage affinity are I calculates, I know you two in definitely to be able together on the happy life. 江枫微笑道:“你们两个的姻缘是我推算出来的,我知道你们两个在一起肯定能过上幸福的生活。 However, this happy definition weighs from the lifetime angle, in this dozens-year marriage, is not definitely problem-free, but needs to experience many misery. 但是,这个幸福的定义是以一生的角度来衡量的,在这长达几十年的婚姻生活中,肯定也不是一帆风顺的,而是需要经历不少苦难。 You are quite understood to soldier community, the military spouse has is difficult you to have several. 你对军人这个群体算是比较了解,军嫂有多难你心里应该是有数的。 Therefore, before arranging your both sides meets, I must remind you seriously, the military spouse is not good to work as, must have selects the preparation of heavy burden alone. ” 所以,在安排你们双方见面之前,我得郑重的提醒你,军嫂不好当,必须要有独自挑重担的心理准备。” Mei beautiful show hears word very earnest saying: Grandmaster river, this you may feel relieved greatly, my very clear military spouse is not easy, but I want to become a determination of military spouse am will not vacillate absolutely, prepared for selected heavy burden psychology alone.” 梅丽秀闻言非常认真的说道:“江大师,这个你大可放心,我非常清楚军嫂的不容易,但是我想成为一名军嫂的决心是绝对不会动摇的,也做好了独自挑重担的心理准备。” The Jiang Feng nod said: Un, you have the psychology to prepare well, because his time is on leave to visit relatives, only then one month of vacation, but the soldier takes false is not easy a time, therefore his parents' meaning, wants to take advantage that this month of vacation, gave the office his wedding.” 江枫点头道:“嗯,你有心理准备就好,因为他这次休假回来探亲,就只有一个月的假期,而军人休一次假不容易,所以他父母的意思,是想趁这一个月的假期,把他的婚事给办了。” Mei beautiful show „”, somewhat embarrassed saying: Grandmaster river, this less than one month on the registration marriage, can catch up? Moreover, as far as I know, the soldier marries must file the report ahead of time, short should such time manage without enough time?” 梅丽秀“啊”了一声,有些不好意思的说道:“江大师,这不到一个月的时间就登记结婚,会不会太赶了点?而且,据我所知,军人结婚都是要提前打报告的,这么短时间应该来不及办吧?” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „ Such short time goes through the marriage registration is not quite realistic, after all you surface have not seen now continually, even if two people fall in love, requires time to build up the sentiment. 江枫笑道:“这么短时间办理结婚登记手续是不太现实,毕竟你们现在连面都还没见呢,哪怕两人一见钟情,也需要一点时间来培养感情的。 However, after you meet , if satisfies, after can first board, buys a ticket! ” 不过,你们见面后如果满意的话,可以先上车后补票嘛!” Mei beautiful show has not made the boyfriend, the facial skin is quite thin, after hearing first boards, buys a ticket words that this type has double meaning, could not bear blushes. 梅丽秀还没交过男朋友,脸皮还是比较薄的,听到“先上车后补票”这种一语双关的话,忍不住就脸红了。 Drank a tea with milk slow the mood, Scholar Mei beautiful said: Grandmaster river, is married this matter to be able turn head to discuss again, first arranged us to see said at the same time again.” 喝口奶茶缓了缓情绪,梅丽秀才说道:“江大师,谈婚论嫁这种事可以回头再商量,先安排我们见一面再说。” Jiang Feng said: Ok, he with his parents in the provincial capital, you first goes back to say with your parents at present this matter, then I arrange your two family members to eat meal to know in the evening, how do you feel?” 江枫道:“行,他跟他的父母目前就在省城,你先回去跟你父母说一下这个事,然后我安排你们两家人晚上吃顿饭认识一下,你觉得怎么样?” Mei beautiful show said: Ok, Grandmaster river you many told that me the situation of groom's family, I one will go back to discuss this matter with my parents.” 梅丽秀道:“可以,那江大师你多跟我说说男方的情况,我一会就回去跟我父母商量这个事。” Jiang Feng un, picked Chen Daqiang material key told her, then exchanged the contact method with her, departs respectively. 江枫嗯了一声,把陈达强的资料捡重点跟她说了一遍,然后跟她交换了联系方式,才各自离去。 Mei beautiful show takes the noon to hold the sign that goes home, then saw that mother has washed quickly similarly the dish, but the father drags also to come to an end. 梅丽秀拿着午托的牌子回到家的时候,便看到母亲已经把碗快洗得差不多了,而父亲拖地也已经接近尾声。 Mei beautiful show holds the sign to put away the noon, said: Father, mother, you guess I just delivered the children go to the school the time, whom bumped into?” 梅丽秀把午托牌子放好,说道:“爸,妈,你们猜我刚刚送孩子们去学校的时候,碰到谁了?” Ms. Mei washes the last dish puts cleanly puts the bowl quick basket specially, said: Bumped into your beforehand teacher in charge?” 梅母把最后一只碗洗干净放到专门放碗快的篮子,接话道:“是不是碰到你以前的班主任了?” Mei beautiful show shakes the head saying: „It is not, how is you to guess person who cannot guess correctly.” 梅丽秀摇头道:“不是,是一个你们怎么猜也猜不到的人。” Mr. Mei puts toward the bathroom the mop, walks to ask: This does not have the brain headless, who can guess you bump into who?” 梅父把拖把往卫生间一放,走出来问道:“这无头无脑的,谁能猜得中你碰到谁啊?” Mei beautiful show sits to the sofa on, before drinking the mouth , the tea with milk that has not drunk up, said: I just bumped into Grandmaster river in school entrance there!” 梅丽秀坐到沙发上,喝了口之前还没喝完的奶茶,说道:“我刚刚在校门口那里碰到江大师了!” Regarding this name, Mr. Mei Ms. Mei is not strange, Ms. Mei pursues immediately asks: What you said is that Grandmaster river in happy matrimonial agency?” 对于这个名字,梅父梅母可不陌生,梅母当即追问道:“你说的是幸福婚介所的那位江大师?” Mei beautiful show nod said: Yes, is this Grandmaster river, he wants to introduce an object to me.” 梅丽秀点头道:“是的,就是这位江大师,他想给我介绍个对象。” Such remarks, the mood of Mr. Mei Ms. Mei is entirely different. 此话一出,梅父梅母的心情截然不同。 Mr. Mei is in the heart clutches, has to plant the cabbage to immediately by the pig arched the complex emotion. 梅父是心中一揪,有种自家白菜马上就要被猪拱了的复杂心情。 But Ms. Mei is opposite, in her eye shone instantaneously. 而梅母则相反,她眼中瞬间就亮了。 Actually before, Ms. Mei has told the daughter more than once, wants to go to the happy matrimonial agency to ask Grandmaster river to help her look for an object, but the daughter does not want to get married early, rejected. 其实在之前,梅母就不止一次跟女儿说过,想去幸福婚介所请江大师帮她物色个对象,只是女儿不想那么早结婚,才拒绝了而已。 Now Grandmaster river looks to the daughter introduce the object on own initiative, but looks at daughter's meaning, as if also had the intention of looking for the partner, Ms. Mei naturally feels happy. 如今江大师主动找过来要给女儿介绍对象,而看女儿的意思,似乎也有了找对象的意向,梅母自然感到开心。
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