Comes back from river writing the master, river Feng takes a bath, then eats two bowls of mothers to make the good sweet potato syrup, then on the comfortable lying down bed chatted with yellow Lingwei the WeChat. 从江文东家回来,江枫洗个澡,然后再吃两碗母亲煲好的红薯糖水,便舒舒服服的躺床上跟黄灵薇微信聊天。 Since Shenzhen stock market matches yellow Lingwei, regardless of river Feng every day is busy, will find the time to chat with her, now several days of time passes by, two people have chatted very familiar. 自从在深市匹配到黄灵薇之后,江枫每天无论多忙,都会抽出时间来跟她聊天,如今几天时间过去,两人已经聊得很熟悉了。 After river Feng tells yellow Lingwei today's experience, yellow Lingwei on curious asking: „river Feng, I was actually very curious for these days a issue, that is you are young, is the graduate of good university, why thinks that can return to one's old home to work as the matchmaker?” 在江枫把今天的经历告诉黄灵薇后,黄灵薇就好奇的问道:“江枫,这几天我其实挺好奇一个问题,那就是你年纪轻轻的,又是名牌大学的毕业生,为什么会想到要回老家当媒人呢？” river Feng returns to the covered passageway with a smile: „Initially chose to return to one's old home to work as the matchmaker, the primary cause has three probably.” 江枫笑着回复道:“当初之所以选择回老家当媒人,主要原因大概有三个。” Asking that yellow Lingwei coordinates: „Which three? You told that me looks!” 黄灵薇配合的问道:“哪三个？你跟我说说看！” river Feng said: „The first reason, is I looked that the vision of person is actually fierce, what person is what character, is marrying to be happy whom together, I basically can look at nearly perfect.” 江枫说道:“第一个原因,是我看人的眼光其实蛮厉害的,什么样的人是什么样的性格,然后跟谁在一起结婚能够幸福,我基本能看个八九不离十的。” yellow Lingwei said with amazement: „Not? Such fierce?” 黄灵薇惊讶道:“不是吧？这么厉害的吗？” river Feng said with a smile: „Don't you believe? The words that does not believe you send an selfie to come to me, I ensure looks at clearly your character, making you have a look at me to boast.” 江枫笑道:“你不信是吧？不信的话你就给我发张自拍过来,我保证把你的性格看得明明白白,让你看看我到底是不是在吹牛。” yellow Lingwei snort/hum said: „I thought that you want to deceive my selfie said like this, I not on your working as!” 黄灵薇哼道:“我看你是想骗我自拍才这样说的吧,我才不上你的当呢！” Saying that river Feng laughs: „I do not have, should not be unfair to me!” 江枫笑哈哈的说道:“我没有,你可别冤枉我！” yellow Lingwei said: „The selfie does not have in any case, you said quickly what the second reason is?” 黄灵薇说道:“反正自拍是没有的,你快说说第二个原因是什么？” Smiling of river Feng thinks little, he is also hopeless can probably arrive at the selfie of opposite party quickly, said again his here has yellow Lingwei the detail, including most is close to the real image also having, he said that pursues the one small method of opposite party. 江枫不以为意的笑了笑,他也没指望这么快就能要到对方的自拍,再说他这里有黄灵薇的详细资料,包括最接近真实的影像也有,他这么说只是追求对方的一种小手段罢了。 Therefore, river Fenglve crosses the issue of selfie , to continue saying: „ This second reason, is I know , when the matchmaker actually very makes money, now our country men and women proportion has been out of balance seriously, the man wants to marry a wife is more and more difficult, causes price also following when production costs rise, prices rise too of acting as a matchmaker. 于是,江枫略过自拍的问题,继续说道:“这第二个原因,是我知道当媒人其实挺挣钱的,现在我国男女比例已经严重失调,男人想娶个老婆是越来越难了,导致说媒的价格也跟着水涨船高。 For example in the villages of my native place, matchmaker money basically is over ten thousand Yuan, one month only needs to reconcile a couple, that income is not only much stronger than the ordinary office worker, but also is much leisurelier and carefreer. ” 就比如说在我老家的这个乡镇,媒人钱基本都是万元以上,一个月只需要撮合一对夫妻,那收入不仅仅比普通上班族强得多,而且也悠闲得多。” yellow Lingwei said: „Listened to your such saying, working as a matchmaker was truly good, what was that third reason?” 黄灵薇说道:“听你这么一说,当个媒人确实挺好的,那第三个原因又是什么呢？” river Feng said: „The third reason, is I enjoys to work as that feeling of matchmaker, thinks that strange men and women, form the couple after my reconciling, is living the happy life of being a happy couple, that feeling was too comfortable, looking like did the big good to be the same.” 江枫说道:“第三个原因,是我享受当媒人的那种感觉,想想一个个陌生男女,经过我的撮合结成夫妻,然后过着夫唱妇随的幸福生活,那种感觉真的太舒服了,就像是做了大善事一样。” yellow Lingwei praised: „Good good, this very positive synergy, young fellow promising.” 黄灵薇赞道:“不错不错,这就非常正能量了,小伙子有前途。” river Feng said: „I told earnestly you, the effect of marital on the life was too big, the good marriage affinity to help the person cross his entire life very happily, even if dies still not regrets, such as Guo Jing with yellow Rong. Not the good marriage affinity can be with one's family broken up and decimated, such as Gongsun Zhi with Qiu Chianchi.” 江枫说道:“我是跟你说认真的,婚姻对人生的影响真的太大了,好姻缘能让人一生都过得非常幸福,即便是死也无憾,如郭靖跟黄蓉。不好的姻缘能让人家破人亡,如公孙止跟裘千尺。” yellow Lingwei said: „You said right, the effect of marital on the life was too truly big, therefore had male to fear that in the ancient times ‚into the wrong line, the female feared marries wrong court attendant’ view. Now the society advocates the equality of the sexes, not only female fearing marries the wrong court attendant, male also feared that marries the wrong wife, if really can helped them find to the person, that also was really the matter of boundless beneficence.” 黄灵薇说道:“你说得对,婚姻对人生的影响确实太大了,所以古代才有‘男怕入错行,女怕嫁错郎’的说法。如今社会提倡男女平等,不仅仅女的怕嫁错郎,男的也怕娶错妻,若是真能帮助他们找到对的人,那还真是功德无量的事。” river Feng said: „Thinks divorce rate that our country grows to ever greater heights , because cannot find to person. If did not have the child time divorces, that influence is not big. If there is a child to divorce again, that will affect the child life, many children took the dishonest means finally, cannot cut off the relations with the parental divorce absolutely.” 江枫说道:“想想我国日益高涨的离婚率,就是因为没能找到对的人。如果还没有孩子的时候就离婚,那影响还没那么大。如果有孩子了再离婚,那将会影响孩子一生,很多孩子最终走上歪路,跟父母离婚是绝对脱不了关系的。” yellow Lingwei said: „That is true, I have the junior middle school schoolmate to study very well, top several that types in class, afterward came under the influence that her parents divorce, the whole person starts to be deliberately bad, not only the academic record suffers a disastrous decline, even the junior middle school has not graduated discontinues studies, such result really makes one sob.” 黄灵薇说道:“的确如此,我有个初中同学原本学习很好,在班上排名前几的那种,后来受到她父母离婚的影响,整个人开始自暴自弃,不仅学习成绩一落千丈,甚至连初中都没毕业就辍学,这样的结果真的让人唏嘘不已。” river Feng said: „Therefore I reconcile one pair now every time, in the heart emerges a sense of achievement.” 江枫说道:“所以我现在每撮合一对,心中就涌现出一股成就感。” yellow Lingwei said with a smile: „First feeling, died the matchmaker who asks for money also to do good” 黄灵薇笑道:“第一次觉得,原来死要钱的媒人也可以做善事” river Feng said: „ My this matchmaker is different from other matchmakers, other matchmakers in acting as a matchmaker, first are good matchmaker money Geiding, their goals only then, even if cheats must reconcile successfully receives the matchmaker money. 江枫说道:“我这媒人跟其他媒人是不一样的,其他媒人在做媒的时候,就已经先把媒人钱给定好了,他们的目的只有一个,哪怕是连蒙带骗也要撮合成功拿到媒人钱。 But I am true considered for both sides, strives to achieve most matches, matchmaker money raises does not raise, making the customer look to the red packet on the line. The goal that this acts as a matchmaker is different, effect naturally also different. ” 而我是真真正正的替双方考虑,力争做到最相配,媒人钱更是连提都不提,让客户看着给个红包就行。这做媒的目的不一样,效果自然也不一样。” Saying that yellow Lingwei admires: „You are really awesome, the thanking the matchmaker after the wedding ritual that sent from your friend circle can look, your customer is very satisfied to the intermediary that you made. Persisting in doing this, you can certainly become in history the greatest matchmaker.” 黄灵薇佩服的说道:“你太厉害了,从你朋友圈发的谢媒礼就可以看出来,你客户对你做的媒是真的很满意。坚持这样做下去,你一定能成为史上最伟大的媒人。” river Feng said with a smile: „Many thanks the praise, I will try hard.” 江枫笑道:“多谢夸奖,我会努力的。” Two people this chatted, chatted 11 : 00 pm, must rest until yellow Lingwei said good night mutually. 两人这一聊,就聊到了晚上11点,直到黄灵薇要休息了才互道晚安。 ...... …… At noon next day. 次日中午。 Fuhua Hotel. 富华饭店。 Under river Feng's arrangement, river Wendong and Zou little silver coins family member met. 在江枫的安排下,江文东与邹小银两家人见面了。 river Wendong only then a paternal aunt accompanies him to come, but Zou Xiaoyin here person are not many, including Zou Xiaoyin, only came three people merely, one is Ms. Zou, one is the Zou Xiaoyin little aunt. 江文东这边只有一个姑姑陪他来,而邹小银这边的人也不多,包括邹小银在内,也仅仅只来了三个人,一个是邹母,一个是邹小银的小婶。 This being on intimate terms, river Feng was left vigorously, the entire journey was responsible for guiding the topic, cannot be quite delicious including the food. 这一次相亲,江枫算是出了大力了,全程负责引导话题,连顿饭都没能好好吃。 Because river Feng before arranging both sides meets is honest, good bad said ahead of time, therefore this time meets both sides to have the sufficient mental preparation, whom pours has not presented to shut out whose situation. 因为江枫在安排双方见面之前就非常坦诚,好的坏的都提前说了出来,所以此次见面双方都有充足的思想准备,倒也没有出现谁嫌弃谁的情况。 Food finished eating, both sides also chatted are similar. 一顿饭吃完,双方聊得也差不多了。 Then, arrived broke up to send the red packet the link. 然后,就到了散场打发红包的环节。 This sends the red packet, generally is under the charge to the groom's family elders, the parents are sent by the parents, the parents do not send in other elders who come by the accompaniment. 这打发红包,一般都是由男方长辈负责,父母在就由父母打发,父母不在就由陪同而来的其他长辈打发。 This time accompanies, only then a paternal aunt who river Wendong comes, therefore her paternal aunt received this duty not responsibly, 11 gave Zou Xiaoyin three person and river Feng this matchmaker sent a red packet. 此次陪江文东来的只有一个姑姑,所以她姑姑当仁不让的接过了这个任务,一一给邹小银三人以及江枫这个媒人打发了一个红包。 Naturally, this red packet is river Wendong prepares to give the paternal aunt ahead of time, does not need the paternal aunt to disburse money actually. 当然,这红包是江文东提前准备好交给姑姑的,倒是不用姑姑出钱。 Sends the red packet, however east the Hou Jiang article is responsible for paying up, both sides smalltalk several, then depart again respectively. 打发完红包,然后江文东负责结账,双方再客套几句,便各自离去。 river Wendong and his paternal aunt naturally are ride river Feng the car(riage) to go back, after boarding, river Feng then asked: „The eastern Elder Brother, the person you also saw, how feels?” 江文东与他的姑姑自然是坐江枫的车回去,在上车之后,江枫便问道:“东哥,人你也见到了,感觉怎么样？” river Wendong said: „Feeling is good, imagines compared with me is better, my such situation, without the qualifications selected the person, so long as she did not shut out me to be good.” 江文东说道:“感觉还不错,比我想象中要好,我这样的情况,也没资格去挑人了,只要她不嫌弃我就行。” The tool person paternal aunt said: „Person seems like very good, moreover is the Chrysanthemum eldest daughter, truly matches with small east, if the opposite party also agrees, hurries to get married to have a child, your age was big, really could not tow!” 工具人姑姑说道:“人看起来是挺善良的,而且还是个黄花大闺女,跟小东确实蛮相配的,如果对方也同意的话,就赶紧结婚生孩子吧,你们年纪都不小了,真的拖不起了！” river Feng nods, said: „Since eastern Elder Brother you do not have the issue, I believe that the opposite party will not have the issue, waited to go home I to telephone to help you ask!” 江枫点点头,说道:“既然东哥你这边没问题,我相信对方也不会有问题的,等回家了我就打电话帮你问问！”