MTTIR :: Volume #4

#331: Contradictory

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After attending elder sister's wedding, relatives who next day have not had free time on going home in a hurry, but is idling the paternal aunt and elder brother's wife of being all right with the large unit of Jiang, goes to the imperial capital to play. 在参加完姐姐的婚礼后,次日没有空的亲戚们就匆匆的打道回府,而闲着没事的姑姑、表嫂则跟江家的大部队,前往帝都游玩。 This was the arranged flow, the goal is to lead the paternal grandmother and grandmother these two has not seen any old person of big world to swim a roaming imperial capital, after enabling they for a lifetime went back laboriously, to be able with the same age old man old woman to boast. 这是早就定好的流程,目的是要带奶奶及外婆这两个没见过什么大世面的老人游一游帝都,让辛苦了一辈子的她们回去之后可以跟同龄的老头子老太太吹吹牛。 Therefore, an honored Rolls-Royce drivehead, a luxurious saloon car follows, in tandem drives toward the imperial capital. 于是,一辆尊贵的劳斯莱斯打头,一辆奢侈的房车跟随,一前一后的朝帝都驶去。 All the way, smile on two old face have not stopped, the words appear specially. 一路上,两位老人脸上的笑容就没有停过,话显得特别多。 Regarding their generation, can pay respects to the extraordinary personality deceased remains to the imperial capital, where that really compares to be strong hundred times. 对于她们那一代人来说,能够到帝都瞻仰一下伟人遗容,那真的比去哪里都强百倍。 When Jiang Feng one group of arrive in the imperial capital, in some Fujian Siming state community, the parents who Su Donghe looks at the conniption, in the heart filled reluctantly. 就在江枫一行人抵达帝都的时候,在闽省思明州某住宅小区,苏东河看着激烈争吵的父母,心中充满了无奈。 Tells the truth, his parents' sentiment actually, but once for a while will also quarrel, but reason that quarrelled, came from his grandfather most likely. 有一说一,他父母的感情其实还可以,但时不时的也会吵架,而吵架的原因,十有八九都来自于他的爷爷。 Speaking of his grandfather, middle of Sudong the sentiment was also very complex. 提起他的爷爷,苏东河心情也复杂得很。 His grandfather is a retired teacher, is a person who has the big love, since the 1990s, continuously subsidization poor student silently, and insisted for enough 20-30 years. 他的爷爷是一位退休老师,也是一位有大爱的人,从上个世纪九十年代开始,就一直默默的资助贫困学生,且坚持了足足20-30年。 Does the good, this is the matter that is worth praising, but grandfather's philanthropic undertaking actually caused the repugnance of family member gradually. Because the grandfather does not do the good in the area of competence, but ignores own situation frequently, with all one's heart helps others. 做善事,这原本是值得赞扬的事情,可爷爷的善举却渐渐的引起了家人的反感。因为爷爷不是在能力范围内做善事,而是经常不顾自家的情况,一门心思的去帮助别人。 One did not have the meter/rice to put into the pot, the grandfather is also thinking helped others, whom changed to spread on such husband is not angry? 自家都无米下锅了,爷爷还想着去帮别人,换谁摊上这样的老公不生气？ Therefore, paternal grandmother more than once quarrelled with the grandfather. 于是,奶奶不止一次的跟爷爷争吵。 Each time after quarrel, the grandfather will restrain a point, but often in a while, slips back into old ways, air/Qi the paternal grandmother each time results in the blood pressure on rise dramatically. Most excessive one time, was mother of some financially strapped student the grandfather subsidized had the big sickness, finally the grandfather takes away to donate others to treat an illness the pin money that the paternal grandmother for dozens years hid economically in everyday spending secretly. 每次争吵过后,爷爷就会收敛一点,可往往没过多久,又故态复萌,每次都把奶奶气得血压飙升。最过分的一次,是爷爷资助的某个贫困生的母亲得了大病,结果爷爷把奶奶几十年来省吃俭用藏起来的私房钱偷偷拿去捐给人家治病了。 After this matter is known by the paternal grandmother, air/Qi unable to fall to the ground at the scene, finally nurses hatred, but finally. 这事被奶奶知道后,气得当场倒地不起,最终含恨而终。 Thinks, paternal grandmother's death, may make grandfather " sober " come, finally the grandfather is intense, makes the charity already arrived at " cultivation deviation " the situation, not only does not remain retired wages one hair builds, but also is all right to recycle waste to sell for money to subsidize these poor students. 原本以为,奶奶的死,或许会让爷爷「清醒」过来,结果爷爷变本加厉,做慈善已经到了「走火入魔」的地步,不仅把退休工资一毛不剩的搭进去,还没事出去捡破烂卖钱来资助那些贫困学生。 Because funds the population of poor student to be getting more and more, grandfather's retired wages cannot fill in that bottomless pit with the money of cleaning scraps making, the grandfather do not hesitate to ask the friend to lend money. 因为资助贫困学生的人数越来越多,爷爷的退休工资跟拾荒赚的钱也填不上那个无底洞,爷爷不惜找朋友借钱。 Just started, so long as the grandfather opened the mouth, several thousands, his friends will lend him. 刚开始,只要爷爷开口,万儿八千的,他那些朋友都会借给他。 But were many taking advantage of the number of times, no one is also willing to lend him gradually. 但借得次数多了,渐渐也没人肯借钱给他了。 Therefore, three years ago, grandfather his house selling. 于是,三年前,爷爷把他的房子给卖了。 Sometimes, Dong River suspected that his grandfather is the sage is reincarnated? 真的,苏东河有时候都怀疑他的爷爷是不是圣人转世啊？ " Su Laifu, I throw here to you words today, I am absolutely impossible to take care of your father, does not allow him to be admitted to our home, if you make him live, I move, the home has him not to have me. " 「苏来福,我今天把话给你撂这里了,我是绝对不可能照顾你爸的,也不允许他住进咱们这个家,你要是让他住进来,那我就搬出去,这个家有他没我。」 Ms. Su points at Mr. Su to shout abuse: " Su Laifu, you engages in introspection, do I marry your Su, your father have to our least bit help? We live the difficult time, does he help buy corn one barrel of oil? 苏母指着苏父破口大骂道:「苏来福,你扪心自问,我嫁到你们苏家,你爸有给过我们半点帮助吗？我们生活困难的时候,他帮买过一包米一桶油吗？ We purchase homes needs money the time, has he helped a point? Does the Dong River from the kindergarten to the school expense of university, he help hand over one time? Has given the Dong River the 10 cents living expenses? 我们买房子需要钱的时候,他帮过一分吗？东河从幼儿园到大学的学费,他帮交过一次吗？给过东河一毛钱的生活费吗？ If he does not have this ability, I did not say that the key is he has this ability, but until now actually only helps the bystander not help one of us, now the stroke the life cannot take care of oneself, wants to make me serve him, no way. 如果他没有这个能力,那我就不说了,关键是他有这个能力,可一直以来却只帮外人不帮自家人,现在中风了生活不能自理了,想让我伺候他,门都没有。 His these years are better to oneself son grandsons to others ratio, that makes others take care of him, do not come to obstruct my eye. " 他这些年对别人比对自己的儿子孙子都要好,那就让别人去照顾他,别来碍我的眼。」 Ms. Su these words, scolded Mr. Su not to be on the rise. 苏母这番话,骂得苏父抬不起头来。 To be honest, for these years, mother was irritated after particularly, Mr. Su was also full of the hate to his father, may gives birth to own father after all, now his stroke lost the taking care of oneself ability, as son's him, really can visit him to refuse stubbornly helplessly 说句实在话,这么多年来,尤其是母亲被气死后,苏父对他的父亲也充满了怨恨,可毕竟是生养自己的父亲,如今他中风失去了自理能力,作为儿子的他,难道真能眼睁睁的看着他死不成 ? ？ Mr. Su sighed, saying of looking distressed: " Azhen, I know in your heart to hate, in my heart hates similarly, turns over to hate hatefully, now he turned into this appearance, really looks that helplessly he does die? Such will stab in the back. " 苏父叹了口气,愁眉苦脸的说道:「阿珍,我知道你心中有恨,我心中同样有恨,可恨归恨,如今他变成了这个样子,难道真的眼睁睁看着他去死吗？那样会被人戳脊梁骨的。」 Ms. Su sneers saying: " Stabbed in the back? Did you think now in the ancient times? Marries your Su, no matter how the parents-in-law to me, I must take care of parents to them, is filial piety for a lifetime? 苏母冷笑道:「被人戳脊梁骨？你以为现在是在古代呢？嫁进你们苏家,不管公婆怎么对我,我都要给他们养老送终,孝敬一辈子？ Do not have a dream, the will of the people are the meat is long, I marry your Su, your father, as long as gives me to select the help, I will also be insufficient to dislike this degree to him. 别做梦了,人心都是肉长的,我嫁进你们苏家,你爸但凡给我点帮助,我对他也不至于会反感到这种程度。 I did not prevent you to disburse money to give him before to treat an illness, has done right by he, but he gave up any idea of that is admitted to the home. 我之前不阻止你出钱给他治病,已经对得起他了,但他休想住进这个家。 Those words, the home has me not to have him, has him not to have me, yourself look at the office. " 还是那句话,这个家有我没他,有他没我,你自己看着办。」 Mr. Su heard that the word whole face is helpless, can only look that to sitting the son who did not speak in side, hoping the son can urge his mother, has a look at the room to manoeuvre. 苏父闻言满脸无奈,只能看向坐在旁边一直不说话的儿子,希望儿子能够劝劝他的母亲,看看有没有回旋的余地。 Dong River sees father's look, shakes the head to say hastily: " Father, your matters, I do not mix. " 苏东河看到父亲的眼神,连忙摇头道:「爸,你们的事,我不掺和。」 Ms. Su is cold the face saying: " Su Laifu, do not count on that the son helps you, today who urges uselessly. " 苏母冷着脸道:「苏来福,你别指望儿子帮你,今天谁来劝都没用。」 Mr. Su does not speak, now the wife in the fit of temper, says again can only have the counter-effect, might as well waited for her to calm down to find the opportunity to discuss with her again, perhaps with wife that hardmouthed tenderhearted temper, the matter also had the favorable turn. 苏父不说话了,现在老婆在气头上,再说下去只会起反效果,还不如等她冷静下来再找机会跟她商量,以老婆那硬嘴心软的性子,或许事情还有转机。 In any case, the father also needs to stay many several days in the hospital, does not worry. 反正,父亲还需要在医院住多几天,不着急。 Dong River sees the parents to stop the quarrel, then slides own room, plays the cell phone how while ponders over to solve this domestic dispute. 苏东河见父母已经停下争吵,便溜回自己的房间,一边玩手机一边思忖着怎么解决这个家庭矛盾。 May think it over, cannot find out appropriate means. 可思来想去,都没能想出一个合适的办法来。 Until sees in the WeChat schoolmate group, some schoolmates mentioned that " Grandmaster river " these three characters, Su Donghe in eye one bright, turns out the Jiang Feng this university schoolmate's telephone number directly, then pulled out to hit. 直到看到微信同学群里,有同学提到「江大师」这三个字,苏东河才眼中一亮,直接翻出江枫这个大学同学的电话号码,然后拔打了过去。 Perhaps, only then his all-resourceful university schoolmate, has the ability help to solve this domestic dispute. 或许,只有他这个神通广大的大学同学,才有能力帮忙解决这种家庭矛盾。 A telephone connection, hears the old schoolmate Jiang Feng laughter: " Old schoolmate, is really an infrequent visitor, graduated for more than one year, this first time was you made my phone call! " 电话一接通,就传来老同学江枫的笑声:「老同学,真是稀客啊,毕业一年多了,这还是你第一次打我电话呢！」 Dong River said with a smile: " Without the means that after who let your " Grandmaster river " graduation, soars, did me to be all right embarrassed makes your phone call, feared that wasted your valuable time. " 苏东河笑道:「没办法,谁让你这位「江大师」毕业后就一飞冲天了呢,搞得我没事都不好意思打你电话,怕浪费你的宝贵时间。」 Jiang Feng modest saying with a smile: " Said that soared was too exaggerating, I also lived hand to mouth to eat, you had the matter to speak frankly, I who can help did not decline. " 江枫谦虚的笑道:「说一飞冲天就太夸张了,我也就混口饭吃而已,你有事直说,能帮得上忙的我绝不推辞。」 " Refreshed, I spoke frankly, this busy also only then you can add on. " 「爽快,那我就直说了,这忙也只有你能帮得上了。」 Saying, Su Donghe then told the situation of their family/home in detail, end said: " Actually, my parents including my irritated paternal grandmother, expressed support for my grandfather's good works from the beginning, what a pity my grandfather did charitable did not consider resources bite off more than can chew, finally caused the repugnance of family member. 说着,苏东河便把他们家的情况详细讲述了一遍,末了才说道:「其实,我父母包括我那被气死的奶奶,一开始对于我爷爷的慈善行为都表示支持,可惜我爷爷做慈善太自不量力了,最终引起了家人的反感。 But my grandfather person not only does not listen to advice, but also is intense, sells including the house that oneself live in made the charity, this considers only others to ignore the approach of one of us, to be honest, without many people can accept. 而我爷爷这人不仅不听劝,还变本加厉,连自己住的房子都卖了做慈善,这只顾别人不顾自家人的做法,说句实在话,没多少人能够接受得了。 Therefore, I actually also very understand my mother. 所以,我其实也挺理解我妈的。 However, on the other hand, my grandfather the stroke paralysis, lives now cannot take care of oneself, I as grandson, cannot look helplessly he dies. 但是,话又说回来,我爷爷现在中风瘫痪,生活不能自理,我作为孙子,也不能眼睁睁的看着他去死。 Not only need take care of my grandfather, cannot hurt my mother's heart, I think it over cannot find out satisfying both sides means that therefore calls you, having a look at your famous Grandmaster river to have means solution this matter? " 既要照顾我爷爷,又不能伤我妈的心,我思来想去都没能想出一个两全其美的办法,所以才打电话给你,看看你这位大名鼎鼎的江大师有没有办法解决这件事？」
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