On Sunday , July 31 , 2022. 2022年7月31日,星期天。 Today is Li Xingwen and stretch/open Qiulan conducts the red-letter day of wedding. 今天是李兴文与张秋兰举办婚礼的大喜日子。 In our country, weddings and funerals that is quite tasteful, the manners and customs of each place are different. 在我国,红白喜事那是相当讲究的,每个地方的风俗习惯都不一样。 In Qinghe Town, holds the wedding to have the viewpoints of non- afternoon, the meaning is the bridegroom cannot exceed at noon 12 o'clock the time that the bride meets, once surpasses is inauspicious this time. Simultaneously when the bride goes out cannot set off the firecrackers to see off, only then meets the bride can set off the firecrackers to greet. 在青河镇,举办婚礼有不过午的讲法,意思就是新郎把新娘接回来的时间不能超过中午12点钟,一旦超过这个时间就不吉利了。同时在新娘出门的时候是万万不能放鞭炮相送的,只有把新娘接回来的时候才能放鞭炮迎接。 This mainly to separate out with the funeral, the time of because in Qinghe Town bringing death person climbing mountains is in the afternoon, moreover carries the coffin to start to set off the firecrackers to see off, even coffin everywhere one visit, will have the neighbors of preparation also to set off the firecrackers to see off early. 这主要是为了跟白事区分开来,因为在青河镇送死人上山的时间就是下午,而且一抬棺就开始放鞭炮相送,甚至棺材所到之处,早有准备的邻居们也会放鞭炮相送。 Because of the custom of bridal non- afternoon, men in Qinghe Town, if marries the far point wife, received the hotel on district or the town/subdues the bride one day ahead of schedule, then waited for the marriage to meet on the same day again. 就因为新娘不过午的规矩,青河镇的男人若是娶个远一点的老婆,就得提前一天把新娘接到县里或者镇上的酒店,然后等结婚当天再去接回来。 Naturally, Li Xingwen and stretch/open Qiulan is the neighboring villages, had not naturally been puzzled by this custom. 当然,李兴文与张秋兰是相邻乡镇的,自然没有被这个规矩所困扰。 Li and Zhang have several million net worth, in the respective native place is the honored and popular characters, now two power-and-power unions form the parents of son or daughter-in-law, this wedding banquet naturally managed dramatically, suspended more than 100 tables, was the recent years quite rare magnificent scene. 李家与张家都拥有数百万身家,在各自的乡里都是有头有脸的人物,现在两家强强联合结成亲家,这婚宴办得自然是有声有色,足足摆了一百多桌,算是近年来比较少见的大场面了。 In temporary build stage. 在临时搭建的舞台上。 Bridegroom Li Xingwen is taking the microphone in the publication marriage words expressing feelings: 新郎李兴文正拿着话筒在发表结婚感言: „ Fellow relatives and friends, fellow handsome fellow beautiful women, thank you in this happy day, came for me and stretch/open Qiulan the love specially makes the important testimony. “各位亲朋好友,各位帅哥美女,感谢你们在这个美好的日子里,特意前来为我和张秋兰的爱情做重要的见证。 Without you , there would be no this to let we life-long unforgettable wedding. 没有你们,也就没有这场让我们终生难忘的婚礼。 First must first thank, suffers great hardships the parents who we raise the adult. 首先第一个要感谢的,就是含辛茹苦把我们养大成人的父母。 That moment of us quack falling to the ground, you gave us all loves, taught to speak and teach to walk and teach the knowledge, to teach to cultivate the behavior...... this saying that not, cannot say the father love and maternal love are unable to express in the spoken language. 从我们呱呱落地的那一刻起,您们把所有的爱都给了我们,教说话、教走路、教知识、教做人……这说不尽、道不完的父爱、母爱就是无法用言语来表达的。 Asked the parents to feel relieved, we are a this world's happiest everyone person. ” 请父母们放心,我们将会是这世界上最幸福的一大家人。” At this point, Li Xingwen is holding stretch/open Qiulan the hand, deeply bows toward both parents together. 说到这里,李兴文牵着张秋兰的手,一起朝双方父母深鞠躬。 Similarly stood Mr. and Mrs. Li Mingcheng as well as Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Jin song in stage sees that showed the smile, to this marriage they were satisfaction, one getting down face smiled all day quickly stiffly. 同样站在舞台上的李明诚夫妇以及张锦松夫妇见状都露出了笑容,对这门亲事他们都是满意之极,一整天下来脸都快笑僵了。 Li Xingwen continues saying: „Second must thank, is our big matchmaker Grandmaster river.” 李兴文继续说道:“第二个要感谢的,就是我们的大媒人江大师。” Hears Li Xingwen to mention itself, stands river Feng under stage is smiling immediately waving. 听到李兴文提到自己,站在舞台下的江枫当即微笑着挥了挥手。 Li Xingwen spare no effort flattered: „ Fellow friends, our big matchmaker Grandmaster river that may really not be an average person, can calculate a marital present situation of person according to the appearance, only needs a liking for such a, can know the marriage that opposite party passes is happy, is really mysterious incomparable. 李兴文不遗余力的吹捧道:“各位朋友,我们的大媒人江大师那可真不是一般人啊,能根据面相去推算一个人的婚姻现状,只需要看上这么一眼,就能知道对方的婚姻过得幸不幸福,真的是神奇无比。 Here, I must highly recommend Grandmaster river to fellow relatives and friends who have not married, such vision is original, and has the big matchmaker of extraordinary capability, you are worth having. ” 在这里,我要向还未结婚的各位亲朋好友强烈推荐江大师,这样眼光独到且拥有非凡能力的大媒人,你们值得拥有。” The guest on the scene, besides these relational quite near relatives and friends, others does not know that reconciles Li Xingwen and stretch/open Qiulan the big matchmaker is so unexpectedly flamboyant. 在场的宾客,除了那些关系比较近的亲朋好友以外,其他人都不知道撮合李兴文与张秋兰的大媒人居然这么牛逼。 Suddenly discusses spiritedly. 一时间议论纷纷。 Li Xingwen said with a smile: „Has the relatives and friends of marriage intention, can ask in private my matter, in brief without Grandmaster river , there would be no my Li Xingwen today.” 李兴文笑道:“有结婚意向的亲朋好友,可以私下问我这个事,总之没有江大师,就没有我李兴文今天。” At this point, Li Xingwen is holding stretch/open Qiulan the hand, bows toward river Fengshen together. 说到这里,李兴文牵着张秋兰的手,一起朝江枫深鞠躬。 At this moment, in river Fengxin had a feeling of satisfaction, was felt gratefully well. 这一刻,江枫心中生出了一股满足感,被人感恩戴德的感觉是真的不错。 „Third must thank, is my side big beautiful woman, in my opinion she is the world's prettiest woman!” “第三个要感谢的,就是我身边这位大美女,在我看来她就是世界上最漂亮的女人！” Saying of Li Xingwen affection: „Wife, thank you, thank you complies to marry me. Perhaps my is unable to make you the world's richest woman for a lifetime, but, I will use my life, making you the world's happiest woman.” 李兴文深情的说道:“老婆,谢谢你,谢谢你答应嫁给我。也许我这一辈子都无法使你成为世界上最富有的女人,但是,我会用我的生命,使你成为世界上最幸福的女人。” Saying, Li Xingwen also gives stretch/open Qiulan to bow. 说着,李兴文也给张秋兰鞠了一躬。 In stretch/open Qiulan the heart was full of the happiness, visits him lovingly, two people line of sight connection, all perform in do not call the turn. 张秋兰心中充满了幸福,含情脉脉的看着他,两人视线交汇,一切尽在不言中。 Li Xingwen concludes saying: „Finally, thanked all guests again! The plain food, asking everyone to eat to drink. Wish good luck in everything, wishes coming true!” 李兴文收尾道:“最后,再次感谢所有来宾！粗茶淡饭,请大家吃好喝好。祝各位万事如意,心想事成！” Following eating and drinking does not need to show thin. 接下来的吃吃喝喝不必细表。 river Feng in this wedding banquet, harvested more than 100 WeChat good friends again, is the potential customer. 江枫在这场婚宴中,再次收获了一百多名微信好友,都是颇具潜力的客户。 ...... …… Next day. 次日。 Li four bring ultra-large red packages as well as big pile of presents visits to thank the matchmaker after the wedding, when that sound visited to thank the matchmaker after the wedding the day before yesterday Zhu Jia was much bigger, alarmed the friends and neighbors of Jiang directly. 李家四口带着了一个超大红包以及一大堆礼品登门谢媒,那动静比前天朱家登门谢媒时还要大得多,直接惊动了江家的左邻右舍。 Without a doubt, the arrival of Li people received the warm entertainment of Mr. Jiang Ms. Jiang. 毫无疑问,李家众人的到来受到了江父江母的热情招待。 „Grandmaster river, yesterday's wedding banquet is really the entertainment inconsiderately, I offers borrowed flowers to Buddha to respect your one cup today, thanked you to introduce that such a good miss was the wife again to me.” “江大师,昨天的婚宴真是招待不周,今天我借花献佛敬您一杯,再次感谢您把这么好的一位姑娘介绍给我做老婆。” „Grandmaster river, I respects your one cup again, wants to look for a satisfied partner to have in present this impetuous age is difficult I am knows that my side has many friends, because had not found to but the person lives the mess the life, but I under your bringing both sides together married such good wife in Grandmaster river fortunately, my whole life will not forget your benevolence!” “江大师,我再敬您一杯,在如今这个浮躁的年代想要找个称心如意的对象有多难我是知道的,我身边就有不少朋友因为没有找到对的人而把生活过得一团糟,而我有幸在江大师您的牵线搭桥之下娶了这么好的老婆,我这辈子都不会忘记您的恩情！” „Grandmaster river, this glass of liquor respects for my wife your, I can marry her am my being honored, but she can marry me is also her luck, but all these are Grandmaster river your merit.” “江大师,这杯酒是替我老婆敬您的,我能娶到她是我的荣幸,而她能够嫁给我也是她的幸运,而这一切都是江大师您的功劳。” „Grandmaster river, I must respect your one cup again......” “江大师,我必须再敬您一杯……” Li Xingwen worthily is the heavy patient of public relations flamboyant sickness, in one liquor table, the words then opens the mouth that toasts comes, does not have the consideration, short is about several minutes, respected river Feng 34 glasses of liquor. 李兴文不愧是社交牛逼症的重度患者,一上酒桌,那敬酒的话便张口就来,都不带考虑的,短短不过几分钟,就敬了江枫三四杯酒。 river Feng luckily what drinks is the beer, otherwise did not need to eat the vegetable/dish, can go upstairs to sleep directly. 幸好江枫喝的是啤酒,否则都不用吃菜了,可以直接上楼睡觉了。 Saw with own eyes that Li Xingwen carries the wine glass once again, river Feng blocks to say hastily: „Good Brother Wen, do not respect me again, my alcohol capacity may compared with not on you, again this one after another does, a meeting may probably lose face.” 眼见李兴文又一次端起酒杯,江枫连忙拦下来道:“行了文哥,你就别再敬我了,我酒量可比不上你,再这样一杯一杯的干下去,一会可就要出丑了。” Li Xingwen laughs, said: „Grandmaster river, the liquor must respect your, but I did, you at will good.” 李兴文哈哈一笑,说道:“江大师,酒还是要敬您的,不过我干了,您随意就好。” river Feng carried the wine glass to bump with him, said with a smile: „Brother Wen you left again you you, this listened to be estranged!” 江枫端起酒杯跟他碰了一下,笑道:“文哥你就别再您啊您的了,这听着都生分了！” Li Xingwen accepts good advice readily saying: „Good, listens your!” 李兴文从善如流道:“好,听你的！” In another side of liquor table, Mr. Jiang and Li Mingcheng also raise glass to bump repeatedly, two men of a similar age are flattering the son of opposite party mutually, chatting is also quite congenial. 在酒桌的另一边,江父与李明诚也是频频举杯相碰,两个年龄相仿的男人互相吹捧着对方的儿子,聊得也是颇为投机。 But Ms. Jiang and Ms. Li are also chatting, two people once for a while drinking glutinous rice sweet wine, the atmosphere is also quite harmonious. 而江母与李母也拉着家常,两人时不时的喝上一口糯米甜酒,气氛也是相当融洽。 As for remaining stretch/open Qiulan, because must be the driver, therefore cannot drink, smiling sitting by the husband , helping drink once for a while but actually, or hands over paper goods anything. 至于剩下的张秋兰,因为要当司机,所以不能喝酒,就笑盈盈的坐在老公旁边,时不时帮忙倒一下酒,或者递一下纸巾啥的。 This food naturally also eats is guests and hosts having a good time, has continued from noon about 2 : 00 pm, drinks the glowing with health Li Jia talent to say goodbye to depart. 这一顿饭吃得自然也是宾主尽欢,一直从中午持续到下午 2 点左右,喝得红光满面的李家人才告辞离去。 After the Li family departs, Ms. Jiang then link that starts her most to expect- inventorying harvest. 等李家人离去之后,江母便开始了她最期待的环节-盘点收获。 First receives wide attention, is that ultra-large red packet. 首先倍受瞩目的,就是那个超大红包。 Ms. Jiang opens the red packet time goes well excitedly is trembling. 江母拆红包的时候激动得手都在发抖。 After waiting for the red packet to disassemble, Ms. Jiang pulled out four packs of old heads from inside, three packs of ten thousand Yuan seals that are hitting the bank, to celebrate to spread the red the original white seal. 等红包拆开之后,江母从里面掏出了四叠老人头,其中三叠打着银行的万元封条,不过为了喜庆把原本的白色封条涂成了红色。 One pack, lives with the rubber or plastic ring circle slightly meagerly. 还有一叠稍微薄一点的,则用胶圈圈住。 Mr. Jiang looked at the eye to be straight. 江父看得眼睛都直了。 river Feng looked at one, said: „That three packs do not need the number to know that is 30000 Yuan, another pack looked that the thickness should have 7 and 8000 appearances, taking the lucky number is 38000 Yuan.” 江枫看了一眼,说道:“那三叠不用数都知道是30000元,另一叠看厚度应该有七、8千的样子,取吉祥数字就是38000元。” At this moment, Mr. Jiang and Ms. Jiang are the whole face shock. 这一刻,江父与江母都是满脸震惊。 Especially Mr. Jiang, he did before laboriously for a year, including family's orchard, income also about 45. 尤其是江父,以前他辛辛苦苦干一年,包括家里的果园在内,收入也就四五左右。 Now the youngest son made the matchmaker money that two intermediaries received to surpass this digit with ease, making in his heart really have mixed emotions, being able to say was what taste. 如今小儿子做两个媒所收到的媒人钱就轻轻松松超过了这个数字,让他心中真是百感交集,说不出是什么滋味。 Ms. Jiang to obtain accurate number, takes great pains money counting, finally again by her youngest son guessing, truly is 38000 Yuan. 江母为了得到准确的数字,还是不厌其烦的把钱给数了一遍,结果再次被她的小儿子给猜中了,确实是38000元。 Was clear about money number/count, Ms. Jiang also asked: „Has small maple tree, the values of these presents you estimated?” 把钱数清楚了,江母又问道:“小枫,那些礼品的价值你估算过没有？” river Feng nods, said: „Estimated probably, most valuable should be that two bottles of Maotai, I remember that probably wants more than 3000 one bottle, other presents add the estimate also to withstand/top one bottle of Maotai, overall value about 10,000.” 江枫点了点头,说道:“大概估算了一下,最值钱的应该是那两瓶茅台,我记得好像要三千多一瓶,其它礼品加起来估计也顶得上一瓶茅台,总体价值将近一万了。” Mr. Jiang and Ms. Jiang hears word was shocked, this is really the big writing skill! 江父与江母闻言又被震惊到了,这真是好大的手笔啊！ Ms. Jiang is said: „ Initially Li Jia came to invite the intermediary time, the red packet with the present value about 1000, was on intimate terms and looked that afterward the main house gate you took 2000 red packages, yesterday attended others weddings, others not only drew back the red packet that you gave, but also gave you additionally 800, this in addition 3800. 江母不禁算道:“当初李家上门请媒的时候,红包跟礼品价值一千左右,后来相亲、看家门你又收了两千红包,昨天去参加人家的婚礼,人家不仅仅退了你给的红包,还额外给了你八百,这加起来就三千八了。 3800 add on again today, that overall surpassed 50,000, achieved more than 51,000? ” 三千八再加上今天的,那总体岂不是超过了五万,达到了五万一千多？” Calculates here, Ms. Jiang and Mr. Jiang cannot help but look at each other in blank dismay, they really broaden the outlook today. 算到这里,江母与江父不由得面面相觑,他们今天真的是大开眼界了。