Happy matrimonial agency. 幸福婚介所。 river Feng looks to sit in front Liu lotus, started the second Polish mediation, saying of speaking frankly: „ Ms. Liu, through your beforehand narration, I listens to you is very truly discontented with oneself woman. 江枫看着坐在面前的刘莲,开始了第二波调解,直言不讳的说道:“刘女士,通过你之前的讲述,我听出你对自己的家婆确实是很不满。 Dislikes the woman to prepare food does not suit your taste, dislikes the woman to manage yields to others you not to have the freedom, complained about the woman, when you pass first month after childbirth has not found more time to help you lead the child, cannot get used to seeing the woman to have child's all sorts of behaviors...... 嫌家婆做饭不合你口味,嫌家婆管得太宽让你没有自由,埋怨家婆在你坐月子的时候没抽出更多的时间帮你带孩子,看不惯家婆带孩子的种种行为…… But stands in my angle, I think that you were wrong! ” 但站在我的角度,我认为你错了！” Liu lotus hears in the heart to refuse to accept, the sinking sound asked: „Grandmaster river, you said that which I was wrong?” 刘莲听得心中不服,沉声问道:“江大师,你说说我错哪了？” river Feng visits her saying: „ You wrong in insufficient respect elder, thinks that the woman pays to all your sorts should be, even disregards woman's payout to home, thought that the attendance is pregnant you as well as your child who pass first month after childbirth is her duty. 江枫看着她道:“你错在不够尊重长辈,还有认为家婆对你的种种付出都是应该的,甚至无视家婆对这个家的付出,觉得照顾怀孕坐月子的你以及你的孩子是她的义务。 The coarse point does not have a feeling grateful heart, this is your mothers'and daughters-in-law's contradictory main causes. ” 说难听点就是没有一颗感恩的心,这便是你们婆媳矛盾的主要根源。” Liu lotus argued: „ Grandmaster river, you said that this saying I do not approve, my big miss, more than 20 years does not have their Kang food not to drink their Kang water, marries to be passed from generation to generation for their Kang Jia, can receive her air/Qi? 刘莲争辩道:“江大师,你说这话我可不认同,我一个大姑娘,20多年来不吃他们康家一口饭没喝他们康家一口水,嫁过来为他们康家传宗接代,难道还要受她的气吗？ I with their types of Kang, this , when the attendance of mother-in-law I shouldn't be? 我怀着他们康家的种,她这个当婆婆的照顾我不是应该的吗？ After child birth, is their Kang Jia people, when this paternal grandmother shouldn't bring? ” 孩子出生后也是他们康家人,她这个当奶奶的不应该带吗？” river Fengdan said with a smile: „ Ms. Liu, the tooth also has with the tongue bumps, lives together under eaves, unavoidably will present some clashes, you as the daughter-in-law, must understand to contain mother -in-law, many small things do not need to argue clearly. 江枫澹笑道:“刘女士,牙齿还有和舌头相碰的时候,同住一个屋檐下,难免会出现一些磕磕碰碰,你作为儿媳,要多理解包容婆婆,很多小事情没有必要非要争论清楚。 Is you who your mother-in-law takes care to be pregnant to pass first month after childbirth, helping you lead the child, is really not her duty. 还有就是你婆婆照顾怀孕坐月子的你,帮你带孩子,真的不是她的义务。 You don't matter with what Kang descendants, after the child grows up, what profits is your becomes mother, rather than this becomes the paternal grandmother, the paternal grandmother who in this world can enjoy grandson Pok has, but really rarely seen. ” 你也别拿什么康家子孙来说事,孩子长大后受益的是你这个当母亲的,而不是她这个当奶奶的,这世上能享孙子福的奶奶不是没有,但真的不多见。” Liu lotus knits the brows: „Did not say that ‚first ten years see the woman, the post- ten years see daughter-in-law’? If when I am difficult she does not take care of me, does not help me lead the child, after waiting, why did she old I take care of her?” 刘莲皱眉道:“不是都说‘前十年看婆,后十年看媳’的吗？如果在我困难的时候她不照顾我,不帮我带孩子的话,等以后她老了我凭什么照顾她啊？” river Fengdao: „ These words are very subjective thing, does not have any reference standard, your mothers and daughters-in-law, looked like her to be very good to you in your mother-in-law for example. But in your opinion, your mother-in-law is not very obviously good to you. 江枫道:“这句话是非常主观的东西,没有什么参考标准,比如说你们婆媳,在你婆婆看来她对你已经很不错了。可在你看来,你这婆婆显然对你很不好。 Moreover, this saying to be is actually very unfair to mother -in-law. 而且,这话对婆婆其实是很不公平的。 First ten years see the woman, this requests mother -in-law first ten years to work as the cow to make the horse, bears the burden of responsibility. 前十年看婆,这就要求婆婆前十年要当牛做马,任劳任怨。 Said that coarse, on divorce rate that the present this remains high, perhaps mother -in-law front leg just served you, your back leg the buttocks left the home on the racket. Even does not divorce, some present social still many mothers-in-law until dying the day before, in the attendance descendant, rather than still looked after by the daughter-in-law. 说句难听的,就现在这高居不下的离婚率,或许婆婆前脚刚把你伺候完,你后脚就拍拍屁股离开了这个家。就算不离婚,现在的社会也有很多婆婆直到死的前一天,都还在照顾儿孙,而不是被儿媳照顾。 Therefore, after the so-called, ten years see the daughter-in-law, here also became an empty talk. 因此,所谓的后十年看媳,在这里也就成了一句空话。 Therefore, is the daughter-in-law, must know to feel grateful, mother -in-law helps you are the friendship, rather than the duty, do not take dozens years later you look after the matter that mother-in-law type has not had to regard now payout of mother-in-law. ” 所以,做儿媳的,一定要知道感恩,婆婆帮你是情分,而不是本分,不要拿几十年后你照顾婆婆这种还没发生的事情来看待现在婆婆的付出。” These words, said Liu lotus to be dumbfounded. 这一番话,说得刘莲哑口无言。 river Feng does summarizes finally: „In brief, understood to mother-in-law many one point, many one point of tolerance, she was definitely much better compared with her past mother-in-law to her to you. She raised more than 20 years of sons laboriously, the money of making is to give your wife rather than gives this mother, you should be content!” 江枫做最后总结道:“总之,对婆婆多一分理解,多一分宽容,她对你肯定比她当年的婆婆对她要好得多。她辛辛苦苦养了二十多年的儿子,赚到的钱是交给你这个老婆而不是交给她这个老妈,你该知足了！” Liu lotus mind vibrates, in the look were many wiped the ponder. 刘莲心神震动,神色中多了一抹思考。 river Feng sees that saying: „Ms. Liu, you carefully pondered that I to these words that you spoke, now you first wait to the outside hall, shouted while convenient your husband.” 江枫见状说道:“刘女士,你好好思考一下我跟你说的这番话,现在你先到外面大厅等候,顺便把你老公喊进来。” „Good, Grandmaster river!” Liu Lianying, then got up to push the door to walk. “好的,江大师！”刘莲应了一声,然后起来推门走了出去。 Quick, Kang did not put down then to push the door to walk. 很快,康不平便推门走了进来。 When he sits, river Feng the style that continues him to come straight to the point, said: „ Mr. Kang, in your mother with the mothers and daughters-in-law conflict of wife , you have the unshirkable responsibility. 等他坐好,江枫继续他开门见山的风格,说道:“康先生,在你母亲跟老婆的婆媳冲突中,你负有不可推卸的责任。 Originally your mother with your wife, the stranger who does not know each other, their two turned into the whole family through you, you are playing the extremely important role. 本来你母亲跟你老婆,就是互不相识的陌生人,她们两个是通过你变成了一家人,你在其中扮演着极为重要的角色。 When your mother and wife just presented the contradiction, you should the earliest possible time find the way to solve, rather than only understands to smooth over differences like you, such will only make their relations more and more stiff. 而在你母亲与老婆刚刚出现矛盾的时候,你就应该第一时间想办法去解决,而不是像你那样只懂得和稀泥,那样只会让她们两人的关系越来越僵。 Is only the minor matter, but each article accumulates to erupt again, no longer was a minor matter! ” 原本只是小事,可桩桩件件积累起来再爆发,就不再是一件小事了！” Kang does not put down smiles bitterly saying: „I who Grandmaster river, you said understand, but I really do not have the means solution, except for smoothing over differences consoles mutually, really cannot find out what means to make them do not haggle over these goose bumps the minor matters.” 康不平苦笑道:“江大师,你说的我都明白,可我是真的没办法解决,除了和稀泥互相劝解一下,真的想不出有什么办法能够让她们不要计较那些鸡毛蒜皮的小事。” river Feng said: „ It spoke the truth also no wonder you, your I was a man, although I have not married, but mothers and daughters-in-law made one hear that the contradiction of look changes, I have seen. 江枫说道:“其实说起来也怪不得你,你我都是男人,我虽然还没有结过婚,但婆媳这个让人闻之色变的矛盾,我还是见过很多的。 Every so often, the mothers and daughters-in-law had the contradiction, the men do not know that from where urged. 很多时候,婆媳起了矛盾,男人都是不知从何劝起。 Helps mother speak, the wife was not happy. 帮母亲说话吧,老婆不高兴。 Helps the wife speak, fears the wound mother's heart. 帮老婆说话吧,又怕伤母亲的心。 In brief, without the means solution mothers'and daughters-in-law's contradictory man, is the choice does not speak most likely. ” 总之,没办法解决婆媳矛盾的男人,十有八九都是选择不吭声。” Kang does not put down deeply has saying of same feeling: „ Grandmaster river said right, I am such man, each time mother with the wife quarrelled, I do not utter a word. It is not does not want to urge, but is in front of two people not to know that this/should urged from where, only after can waited for them to quarrel, again in secret respectively consoles. 康不平深有同感的说道:“江大师说得没错,我就是这样的男人,每次母亲跟老婆吵架的时候,我都是一声不吭的。不是不想劝,而是当着两人的面根本不知该从何劝起,只能等她们吵完之后,再私下里各自劝解一番。 What a pity has little effect, afterward I was disinclined to urge in secret. ” 可惜收效甚微,后来我连私下里都懒得劝了。” Nod of river Feng understands, „Mr. Kang, after my mediation, believes that your mother should rarely appear with the wife disputed, occasionally they present the dispute time, how you really do not understand to urge, said to them in secret respectively, does not want to pay the high mediation fee/spent again, do not haggle over so many.” 江枫理解的点了点头,“康先生,经过我这次的调解,相信你母亲跟老婆应该很少会出现争执了,偶尔她们出现争执的时候,你实在不懂该怎么劝,私下里就分别对她们说,不想再次付出高昂的调解费,就都别计较那么多。” Kang does not put down hears to reach an agreement again and again. 康不平听得连连说好。 Actually the relationship between mothers and daughters-in-law is not good, can separate the housing definitely to compare under the same eaves to be much better, but river Feng has not put down to Kang mentions this matter, is his home background somewhat is mainly special. 其实婆媳关系不好,能分开居住肯定比同一个屋檐下要好很多,但江枫没有对康不平提这事,主要是他的家庭情况有些特殊。 First, their family/home early dozens years ago moved from Guandong Jiangxi, that side the native place cannot be occupied by the person, if separated the housing, seperately spent to rent a room, this was expenses that did not need completely. 第一,他们家早几十年前就从粤省搬迁到了赣省,老家那边已经不能住人了,若是分开居住,就得另外花钱租房子,这是完全没必要的一笔开销。 Second, Kang did not put down the father to pass away, was only left over mother, making him throw down mother to live, but he led the wife and kid to live, this regarding mother without doubt was a big attack. 第二,康不平父亲已经去世了,只剩下母亲一个人,让他丢下母亲一个人生活,而他带着老婆孩子生活,这对于母亲来说无疑是一个不小的打击。 Therefore, river Feng had not mentioned this matter to him. 所以,江枫一直没对他提过这个事。 The feeling said similarly, river Feng then sitting the mothers and daughters-in-law who waited for in the hall said. 感觉说得差不多了,江枫便把坐在大厅等候的婆媳都叫了进来。 Saw that their family of three sit, river Feng then directly used the broken-down wall ability for them. 看到他们一家三口坐好,江枫便直接对他们使用了破壁能力。 Kang did not put down and Liu Lian's marital match value is this: 原本康不平与刘莲的婚姻匹配值是这样的: 【Current marital match value】 56( couple sentiment 62 + properly matched 68 + family relationships 38) 【当前婚姻匹配值】56(夫妻感情62+门当户对68+家庭关系38) 【Limit marriage match value】 60( couple sentiment 69 + properly matched 71 + family relationships 40) 【极限婚姻匹配值】60(夫妻感情69+门当户对71+家庭关系40) In river Feng used the broken-down wall ability after them, their marital match value then had the tremendous changes, turned into this appearance instantaneously: 在江枫对他们使用了破壁能力后,他们的婚姻匹配值便发生了翻天覆地的变化,瞬间变成了这个样子: 【Current marital match value】 68( couple sentiment 68 + properly matched 68 + family relationships 68) 【当前婚姻匹配值】68(夫妻感情68+门当户对68+家庭关系68) 【Limit marriage match value】 79( couple sentiment 79 + properly matched 79 + family relationships 79) 【极限婚姻匹配值】79(夫妻感情79+门当户对79+家庭关系79) Meanwhile, river Feng looks that three people said: „A moment ago I to the words that you spoke, believes that you also want to be clear, the following time gave your mothers and daughters-in-law, Ms. Liu, what words you had to your woman to say?” 与此同时,江枫看着三人说道:“刚才我跟你们说的话,相信你们也都想清楚了,接下来的时间交给你们婆媳俩,刘女士,你有什么话想对你家婆说的吗？” At this time, because family relationship this rises suddenly presently 30 points, making Liu lotus the impression to the woman have the enormous change, the Qian Jiang maple tree in addition also played a big role to her mediation. 此时,由于当前家庭关系这一项暴涨了30分,让刘莲对家婆的印象也产生了极大的变化,再加上之前江枫对她的调解也起了不小的作用。 Therefore, when river Feng asked that she has what words to the woman said that Liu lotus perhaps is the mood arrived, a face sees the woman to say sincerely: „Mother, sorry, before was I am innocent, making you exhaust oneself!” 因此,当江枫问她有什么话想对家婆说的时候,刘莲或许是情绪到了,一脸真诚的看着家婆道:“妈,对不起,以前是我不懂事,让你受累了！” In reckless Jinhua eyes, this moment daughter-in-law is also the unprecedented pleasantness, saying that her also mood surges: „Mother also has to make the incorrect place, hopes that you take on!” 在胡金花的眼里,这一刻的儿媳也是前所未有的顺眼,她也情绪激荡的说道:“妈也有做得不对的地方,希望你多担待！” Saw that this Kang does not put down is excited the whole body to tremble, he really has a dream thinks that mother lives together in peace and harmony with the wife, now comes true, he felt that these 100,000 dollars spent to really be are worth! 看到这一幕的康不平激动得浑身发抖,他真的做梦都想母亲跟老婆和睦相处,如今梦想成真,他感觉这十万块钱花得真是太值得了！ The following development was needless to say much, the relationship between mothers and daughters-in-law rapid elevating temperatue of vanishing past animosity, was about the dozen minutes, from original looked at one another two to tire, turned into the mothers and daughters-in-law affectionate. 接下来的发展就不用多说了,冰释前嫌的婆媳俩关系快速升温,不过十几分钟,就从原本的相看两相厌,变成了婆媳情深了。 Two people have the so huge transformation, the primary cause naturally is the broken-down wall ability that river Feng uses, next is the words that he mediated, making the mothers and daughters-in-law have the reconsideration respectively. 两人之所以有如此巨大的转变,主要原因自然是江枫使用的破壁能力,其次则是他调解的一番话,让婆媳俩都各自有了反思。 Afterward, Kang does not put down refreshed paying money, the family of three thanked profusely to river Feng, happy departure. 随后,康不平爽快的付钱,一家三口对江枫千恩万谢,才开开心心的离去。 river Feng does not have the too much time to sigh with emotion, he now the time that the marriage mediated centralized in Saturday Sunday two days, more than ten customers waited for him to conduct the marriage to mediate! 江枫没有过多时间感慨,他现在把婚姻调解的时间集中在周六周日这两天,还有十多个客户等着他进行婚姻调解呢！ ...... …… Sunday. 周日。 11 : 30 pm. 晚上11点半。 Some provincial capital sparsely inhabited old street, a sedan that stops in the roadside is having the rhythm is rocking, is only the scope of rocking is not big, if not stare at the car(riage) to look, cannot feel. 省城某条人烟稀少的老街道,一辆停在路边的轿车正在有节奏的晃动着,只是晃动的幅度不大,如果不是盯着车看的话,是感受不到的。 After dozen minutes . 十几分钟后。 The car(riage) stops rocking. 车停止晃动。 Also after separating for several minutes, in the car(riage) the lamp shines, stretch/open Rongying put out a hand to pinch river flying, face charming saying: „You look very honestly, has not thought that is so also bad, bullies me in this place unexpectedly, if seen words......” 又隔了几分钟后,车内灯亮起,张榕莹伸手掐了江飞一把,一脸娇羞的说道:“你这人看着挺老实的,没想到也这么坏,竟然在这种地方欺负我,万一被人看到的话……” river flying a face satisfies, hehe said with a smile: „This time this road where some people will walk, but the vehicles of communication are impossible to pay attention to these, in addition our movements are very light, some people will not definitely discover.” 江飞一脸满足,嘿嘿笑道:“这个时间这条路哪里会有人走啊,而来往的车辆也不可能注意这些,再加上我们的动作都很轻,肯定不会有人发现的。” On stretch/open Rongying the face still remained is wiping the flushed, „, if were discovered, I did not have the face to cultivate the behavior!” 张榕莹脸上仍残留着一抹潮红,“若是被发现,我就没脸做人了！” river flying looks at the heart movement, collected to kiss her one, saying of smiling: „I thought you very excitedly a moment ago!” 江飞看得心动,凑过去亲了她一口,笑眯眯的说道:“我看你刚才挺兴奋的嘛！” „Nonsense, who was excited?” “胡说,谁兴奋了？” stretch/open Rongying shames unceasingly puts out a hand to pinch him, must beg for mercy to stop again and again river Feiqia. 张榕莹羞得不断伸手去掐他,把江飞掐得连连求饶才停下来。 Two people flirted with one another a meeting, river flying earnest saying: „Wife, I wants to return to one's old home to meet my parents, our cannot meet with your one officially, discusses our marital important matter, how do you feel?” 两人打情骂俏了一会,江飞才认真的说道:“老婆,我想回老家把我父母接来,我们一家跟你们一家正式见上一面,商谈一下我们的婚姻大事,你觉得怎么样？” Two people related to develop present this, then naturally must be married, stretch/open Rongying then nodded saying: „I first notified my parents, then agreed on the meeting time, did you look to be able not?” 两人关系已经发展到现在这一步了,接下来自然是要谈婚论嫁,张榕莹便点头道:“那我先跟我父母打个招呼,然后再约定见面时间,你看可以不？” river Feien a sound said: „Sure, that reached an agreement like this, you first with the parents discussed that arranges the meeting time, I go back to meet my parents.” 江飞嗯了一声道:“当然可以,那就这样说好了,你先跟父母商量定好见面时间,我就回去接我父母上来。” stretch/open Rongying nods. 张榕莹点了点头。 Immediately two people were gentle for more than ten minutes, after 0 : 00 am, river Feicai drives to send home her. 随即两人又温存了十多分钟,直到凌晨零点之后,江飞才开车把她送回家。 ...... …… Next day. 次日。 Monday. 星期一。 river Feng after having breakfast, then drives to drive in the Sichuan province direction. 江枫在吃过早餐后,便开车一路朝川省方向驶去。 Before searched for that lily elder sister matched the object, river Feng drives to run many provinces, but the Sichuan province was one of them, he looked for a right object for the white peaceful this official's second generation here. 之前在替那位百合姐搜寻匹配对象的时候,江枫开车跑了不少省份,而川省便是其中之一,他在这里替白子安这个官二代物色到了一个合适的对象。 river Feng this time has two goals: 江枫这次过来有两个目的: First, acts as a matchmaker for white secure. 一,替白子安做媒。 Second, thousand supple, Tamichi, washes the Xiaolan three female searches to match the object for Li along the way. 二,沿途替黎千柔、田路、沐小岚三女搜寻匹配对象。 From the Guangxi province provincial capital to the Sichuan province provincial capital, more than 1200 kilometers, the middle is away from a Guizhou province. 从桂省省城到川省省城,有一千两百多公里,中间隔着一个黔省。 river Feng the present search match range is almost expanding every day, now is not only to cover a city is so simple, but can cover the neighboring two cities. 江枫现在的搜寻匹配范围几乎每天都在扩张,现在不光是笼罩一座城市这么简单,而是可以把相邻的两座城市都笼罩进去。 Therefore, now river Feng the search match efficiency is extremely high. 因此,现在江枫的搜寻匹配效率极高。 Just embarked to arrive at the screw powder place of origin, matched the right object for Tamichi this losing footing female, meaning that not crossing the river maple tree has not stopped, but continued. 刚出发来到螺丝粉发源地,就替田路这个失足女匹配到了合适的对象,不过江枫没有停下的意思,而是继续出发。 After the Guizhou province provincial capital, river Feng for washing Xiaolan this cleanliness/mysophobia female matched the right object. 在经过黔省省城的时候,江枫又替沐小岚这个洁癖女匹配到了合适的对象。 Meaning that river Feng has not stopped similarly , to continue to drive in the Sichuan province provincial capital direction. 江枫同样没有停下的意思,继续往川省省城方向驶去。 11 : 00 pm, river Feng arrives in the Dachuan province provincial capital finally smoothly. 当晚11点,江枫终于顺利抵达川省省城。 Arrives at the scheduled hotel to stop the car(riage) ahead of time, satisfactory eating midnight snack, then returns to the hotel to take a bath the drying up hair, waited for to finish is 12 : 00 am. 来到提前预定的酒店停好车,再美美的吃上一顿夜宵,然后回酒店洗澡吹干头发,等一切忙完已经是凌晨12点了。 Opening an overhead traveling crane spirit was very exhausted, river Feng to the end then rests. 开了一天车原本精神就很疲惫了,江枫倒头便睡。 A night does not have the words. 一夜无话。 Next day. 次日。 9 : 00 am, river Feng gets out of bed to wash, then returned a house to have one bowl of characteristics Sichuan province breakfasts, then drove to directly soar the goal location province female police unit. 上午 9 点,江枫起床洗漱完毕,然后退房出去吃了一碗特色的川省早餐,便开车直奔目标所在地省女子特警队。 river Feng is as follows to the object material that the white peaceful this official's second generation matches: 江枫给白子安这个官二代匹配的对象资料如下: 【Name】 Qiao phoenix 【姓名】乔凤凰 【Age】 28 years old 【年龄】28岁 【Height】 167 m 【身高】167m 【Body weight】 54 kg 【体重】54kg 【Family background background】 Was born in the soldier aristocratic family, the paternal great-grandfather is a communist soldier, sacrificed in the anti-Japanese battlefield. The grandfather has participated in Resist America Aid Korea fight. The father is the provincial military region is greatly old...... 【家世背景】出生于军人世家,曾祖是一名老红军,牺牲在抗日战场上。爷爷参加过抗美援朝战斗。父亲是省军区大老…… 【Character hobby】...... 【性格爱好】…… 【Sentimental experience】 Does not have 【感情经历】无 【Current marital match value】 81( couple sentiment 74 + properly matched 88 + family relationships 81) 【当前婚姻匹配值】81(夫妻感情74+门当户对88+家庭关系81) 【Limit marriage match value】 89( couple sentiment 89 + properly matched 91 + family relationships 87) 【极限婚姻匹配值】89(夫妻感情89+门当户对91+家庭关系87) Without a doubt, the family background of this match object is very prominent, settles down to go beyond compared with it white. 毫无疑问,这个匹配对象的家世是非常显赫的,比之白子安家有过之而无不及。 Through the match material, river Feng can see, this named Qiao Fenghuang miss that is very valiant, is the prestigious female teacher of province female police unit. 通过匹配资料,江枫可以看出,这位名叫乔凤凰的姑娘那是非常彪悍的,乃是省女子特警队的一名威名赫赫的女教官。 This pair, if river Feng reconciles successfully, perhaps that white must these three characters become a buddhist get to know with ‚rake ear’ peacefully! 这一对,若是江枫撮合成功的话,那白子安恐怕就要跟‘耙耳朵’这三个字结缘了！