On Saturday , December 31 , 2022. 2022年12月31日,星期六。 9 : 00 am, old friend powder that after eating one bowl wheted the appetite harshly, river Feng then drives to go to Pan Zhou, he must participate in Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling's wedding. 上午 9 点,在吃了一碗酸辣开胃的老友粉后,江枫便开车前往潘州,他要去参加魏雪峰与夏玲玲的婚礼。 From the Pan Zhou of provincial capital of Guangxi province to Guandong, altogether more than 800 li (0.5 km) roads, river Fengkai a about five hours of car(riage), rushed to Wei Villa. 从桂省的省城到粤省的潘州,一共有八百多里路,江枫开了将近五个小时的车,才赶到魏家别墅。 The arrival of river Feng this big matchmaker, naturally received the grand entertainment of Wei, Wei and his son come out to greet together, Mr. Wei Wei Yuanzhou smiles to put out a hand saying: „Grandmaster river, was laborious!” 江枫这个大媒人的到来,自然受到了魏家的隆重招待,魏家父子一起出来迎接,魏父魏元州满脸笑容伸出手道:“江大师,一路辛苦了！” river Feng put out a hand to grasp with him, smiled to respond: „It is not laborious, some time has not seen, Uncle Wei's your change may be big, is seemingly glowing with health, the vigor of whole person was different!” 江枫伸手跟他握了一下,微笑着回应道:“不辛苦,一段时间没见,魏叔你的变化可不小,看起来红光满面的,整个人的精气神都不一样了！” Wei Yuanzhou was praised to laugh by river Feng, the fat on face vibrates unceasingly, „thanks to your, recently went to a worry, the mood was truly much better compared with before!” 魏元州被江枫夸得哈哈大笑,脸上的肥肉不断抖动,“托你的福,最近去了块心病,心情确实比以前好多了！” Wei Xuefeng also puts out a hand to say with a smile at this time: „Grandmaster river, thank you in spite of being very busy to find time to attend my wedding!” 魏雪峰此时也伸出手笑道:“江大师,感谢你百忙之中抽空过来参加我的婚礼！” river Feng put out a hand to grasp with him, looks that the build with before already Wei Xuefeng who changed greatly, said with amazement: „Peak elder brother, did you reduce this period of time at least had 30 jin (0.5 kg)?” 江枫伸手跟他握了一下,看着体型跟之前已经大变样的魏雪峰,惊讶道:“峰哥,你这段时间起码减了有三十斤吧？” Wei Xuefeng excited saying: „Altogether reduced 33 jin (0.5 kg).” 魏雪峰一脸兴奋的说道:“一共减了三十三斤。” river Feng exclaims immediately: „Fierce, this is the love strength!” 江枫当即惊叹道:“厉害,这就是爱情的力量啊！” Mentioned ‚love’ these two characters, in Wei Xuefeng heart was full of the gratitude to river Feng, attitude sincere saying: „This is Grandmaster river your merit, if not you brings both sides together for me, my whole life is impossible to run into likely tinkling such outstanding girl, you are really my obligation person!” 提起‘爱情’这两个字,魏雪峰心中就对江枫充满感激,态度真诚的说道:“这都是江大师你的功劳,如果不是你替我牵线搭桥,我这辈子都不可能遇到像玲玲这么优秀的女孩子,你真的是我的大恩人啊！” river Feng said with a smile: „Peak elder brother spoke discreetly, I also do the matter that should do!” 江枫笑道:“峰哥言重了,我也就做了应该做的事而已！” Wei Yuanzhou interposed: „Grandmaster river, words our father and son of thanks were not many said that your came from far away, has not had the lunch, Xiaofeng you leads Grandmaster river to eat the thing pad pad belly quickly!” 魏元州插话道:“江大师,感谢的话我们父子就不多说了,你这远道而来,想必还没有吃午饭,小峰你快带江大师去吃点东西垫垫肚子！” Wei Xuefeng nods, gives the hand signal of invitation saying: „Grandmaster river, please along with me come.” 魏雪峰点了点头,做了个请的手势道:“江大师,请随我来。” river Feng notifies Mr. Wei, then along with Wei Xuefeng ate meal. 江枫跟魏父打了个招呼,便随魏雪峰吃饭去了。 ...... …… 5 : 00 pm, river Feng first customer Li Xingwen arrived, he with Wei is the business partner, river Feng is he introduced to Wei, Wei has the celebration, naturally is must have must invite him. 下午 5 点,江枫的第一个客户李兴文到了,他跟魏家乃是生意合作伙伴,江枫还是他介绍给魏家的呢,魏家有喜事,自然是少不了要请他。 Sees river Feng, Li Xingwen comes to greet immediately: „Grandmaster river, never expected that you arrived quickly!” 看到江枫,李兴文立马过来打招呼道:“江大师,没想到你这么快就到了！” river Feng asked: „Brother Wen, do yourself come? How not to lead your wife to come together!” 江枫问道:“文哥,你自己来的？怎么不带你老婆一起来啊！” Li Xingwen said with a smile: „She currently has the pregnancy, being away from home is not quite convenient, made her treat in home nourishing fetus!” 李兴文笑道:“她现在有身孕,出门在外不太方便,就让她待在家养胎了！” The nod that river Feng understands clearly, has on several bosoms by the couple who in he reconciled the child, now that «Good combination» WeChat group, several pregnant women exchange the pregnant woman to be daily in the group all day, has turned into the valuable mother group quickly. 江枫了然的点头,经他撮合的夫妻中已经有好几个怀上孩子了,现在那《天作之合》微信群,几个孕妇整天在群里交流孕妇日常,都已经快变成宝妈群了。 „Grandmaster river, you mounted the scarf to search for couple days ago one after another again hotly, should your present matrimonial agency business be very good?” “江大师,你前几天接连再次登上围脖热搜,你现在的婚介所生意应该很好吧？” „These days business truly also good, has signed several hundred lists, you, your business now how?” “这几天的生意确实还不错,已经签有几百单了,你呢,你的生意现在怎么样？” „My business is also very good, Boss Wei very looks after my, the present business scale turned one time compared with before least.” “我生意也很好,魏老板挺照顾我的,现在的生意规模比之前起码翻了一倍。” „That is truly good......” “那确实很不错……” ...... …… Pan Zhou here wedding has tasteful. 潘州这边的婚礼是非常有讲究的。 The day before marriage, what must first do is to the new home shop new bed of marriage, this is necessary as male Fang Family. 在结婚的前一天,首先要做的是给结婚的新房铺新床,这是作为男方家必备的。 Making a bed to spread by ‚good luck woman’, this good luck woman refers to the woman who gives birth to many children especially sons, moreover work smooth family happiness. 铺床要由‘好命婆’来铺,这个好命婆就是指生育多个子女特别是儿子的妇女,而且工作顺利家庭幸福的。 Actually this solely is not Pan Zhou, the basic whole country has similar custom. 其实这个不单单是潘州,基本全国各地都有类似的风俗。 Also must ask a pair of young lad to fling about on the bed, indicates the early birth of sons. 还要找一对童子在床上跳来跳去,寓意早生贵子。 Some places, will put new pants on the bed, bridegroom's father „happy thing” will put on this pants the sweet potato, red jujube, peanut, lotus seed, walnut orange, red packet and belt/bring leaf, is indicating greatly richly greatly expensively, blooms a loose leaf( Cantonese trousers and rich unison). 有些地方,会在床上放上一条新裤子,新郎的父亲会把桔子、红包、带叶子的芋头、红枣、花生、莲子、核桃等“喜物”放到这条裤子上,寓意着大富大贵,开枝散叶(粤语裤和富同音)。 Next to new, in the Cantonese, „to new” and to the body unison, the happy pair conducts in own family/home respectively. Must boil the hot water with the pomelo seed leaf and cymbopogon spp, after cool, the rookie washes the face to brush with these water. 其次是冲新,在粤语里,“冲新”和冲身同音,新郎新娘分别在自己的家里进行。要用柚子叶、香茅煮成热水,凉了之后,新人用这些水洗脸擦身。 Later wears the new pajamas new slipper, is waiting for above the evening. 之后穿上新的睡衣新的拖鞋,等着晚上上头。 Clash/To indicates newly is washing off the contamination, starts the new life new life. 冲新寓意着洗去污秽,开始新的生活新的人生。 Then both parties comb the hair to the mirror at home respectively, are called above. 然后男女双方各自在家对镜梳头,称为上头。 After above, must drink the syrup, mother holds the syrup that the lotus seed, lily, peanut and red bean in addition egg boils, the rookie must the syrup drink up. 上头之后要喝糖水,母亲捧出莲子、百合、花生、红豆加鸡蛋煮成的糖水,新人要把糖水喝掉。 That side hundred beam counties ‚to new’ and ‚above’ and ‚has not drunk syrup’ such custom, therefore river Feng and Li Xingwen look feel are quite novel, every time conducts one to ask the implication, poured also rose many experiences. 百梁县那边没有‘冲新’、‘上头’、‘喝糖水’这样的风俗,因此江枫与李兴文看得都感觉比较新奇,每进行一项都问一下其中的寓意,倒也涨了不少见识。 ...... …… Next day, New Year's Day. 次日,元旦。 river Feng the following bridegroom fetches the bride together. 江枫跟着新郎一起去接亲。 Sees river Feng this matchmaker, in Xia Jia people heart is the gratitude. 看到江枫这个媒人,夏家人心中都是感激不已。 Since Xia Lingling after Wei Xuefeng on good, the life of Xia family had the tremendous changes. 自从夏玲玲跟魏雪峰好上后,夏家人的生活就产生了翻天覆地的变化。 Now, Xia that several brothers, from laborers of original one month of lead(er) 35,000 wages, have changed to become some ironworks boss who invests 2,000,000-3,000,000. 如今,夏家那几兄弟,已经从原来一个月领三五千工资的打工仔,摇身一变成为投资2,000,000-3,000,000的某铁厂老板了。 Moreover, with the support of Wei, Xia several brothers' business also starts to do enjoys the sight and sound of the wind whipping up the water, one month gets down steadily hundreds of thousands income, four brothers divide equally one person also 30,000-40,000, it may be said that reached the sky in a single bound! 而且,在魏家的支持下,夏家几兄弟的生意也开始做得风生水起,一个月下来稳稳有十几万的收入,四兄弟平分下来一人也有30,000-40,000,可谓是一步登天了！ Was needless to say as for Xia Lingling, husband Wei Xuefeng really her, when the treasure same is favoring, almost granted every request to her, even also exercise diligently lost weight for this reason, achieved remarkable success. 至于夏玲玲本人就更加不用说了,老公魏雪峰真的把她当宝一样宠着,对她几乎是有求必应,甚至还为此努力的锻炼减肥,成效显着。 It can be said that she passes now incomparably is happy, rejoiced that at that time river Feng this matchmaker had not given up her. 可以说,她现在过得是无比幸福,非常庆幸当时江枫这个媒人没有放弃她。 Finally is Mr. Xia Ms. Xia, sees the daughter to marry such well, the sons also brother depends on the younger sister to be expensive, becomes the ironworks boss who invests several million, the couple really thought that the heaven is not thin to them, even if were makes them die now can die content! 最后是夏父夏母,看到女儿嫁得这么好,儿子们也兄凭妹贵,成为投资几百万的铁厂老板,夫妻俩真的觉得老天对他们不薄,哪怕是让他们现在就死都可以瞑目了！ Therefore, the whole families to changing big matchmaker river Feng of their destiny with a feeling grateful heart, noticed that he comes to fetch the bride with the bridegroom together, regarded the most honored guest to entertain him. 因此,一家人都对改变他们命运的大媒人江枫怀着一颗感恩的心,看到他跟新郎一起过来接亲,都把他当成了最尊贵的客人来招待。 ...... …… Custom that if handed down from generation to generation according to Pan Zhou in the ancient times, on bride decorated sedan chair time, should Duke carry by the matchmaker, but now after all was the new times, the female got married does not ride the decorated sedan chair, but rode in a carriage, the person of this custom execution were not many. 如果是按潘州古代传下来的风俗,新娘上花轿的时候,应该是由媒人公背上去的,不过现在毕竟是新时代了,女子出嫁也不坐花轿而是乘车了,这风俗执行的人也就不多了。 Moreover river Feng this ‚matchmaker Duke’ is so young, making him carry bridal also some is not quite obviously appropriate. 而且江枫这个‘媒人公’还这么年轻,让他背新娘显然也有些不太合适。 Is here fetching the bride game has . Moreover the brain hole is very big, but looks for the red shoes basically is the essential repertoire, bumps into that type to be able the bridesmaid who the red shoes hide the thigh root, to be honest wants successfully to look for the difficulty to be very big. 还有就是这边的接亲游戏有很多,而且脑洞都很大,不过找红鞋基本是必不可少的保留节目,碰到那种能把红鞋藏到大腿根的伴娘,说实话想成功找出来难度很大。 However this thing, is Fig. one cheerful, some really people will not be silly must hide the bottom the shoes, otherwise the brothers group really can make to raise the matter of skirt...... 不过这玩意,就是图一乐哈,不会真有人会傻得把鞋藏到底,否则兄弟团真能做出掀裙子的事…… In brief, entire fetching the bride, conducts in the happy talks and laughters. 总之,整个接亲现场,都是在欢声笑语中进行的。 After fetching the bride returns to the groom's family, before the bride crosses the threshold, wants the cross brazier. 接亲回到男家后,新娘入门前,要跨火盆。 The implication of cross brazier expelled the bridal past foul gas, this was also many places has the custom that. 跨火盆的寓意是将新娘过去的污气赶走,这个也是很多地方都有的习俗。 After stepping the brazier, entered the main house gate, then must lift the liquor to lift the tea to respect the ancestor of male Fang Family. 跨了火盆之后,入了家门,则要举酒举茶敬男方家的祖先。 When the happy pair is busy the procedure/program, river Feng receives woof Wenjie call. 在新郎新娘忙着走程序的时候,江枫接到汪文杰的电话。 A telephone connection, woof Wenjie asked: „Grandmaster river, you now where?” 电话一接通,汪文杰就问道:“江大师,你现在在哪里呢？” „I just took the bride to come back with the peak elder brother, you with keen elder sister to which?” “我刚跟峰哥去接新娘回来,你跟敏姐到哪了？” „We have arrived at the snowy peak they to conduct the hotel of wedding!” “我们已经到雪峰他们举办婚礼的酒店了！” „Is so quick, I overtake immediately!” “这么快啊,那我马上赶过去！” „Good, we and others you!” “好的,我们等你！” After making the telephone call, river Feng found Li Xingwen, said: „Brother Wen, we first goes to that side the hotel, I must introduce that two friends give you to know!” 挂了电话后,江枫找到李兴文,说道:“文哥,咱们先去酒店那边,我要介绍两个朋友给你认识！” He is also because Li Xingwen's reason makes contact with woof this line, now leads him to know that should also be. 他也是因为李兴文的缘故才搭上汪总这条线,现在带他认识一下也是应该的。 After ten minutes, river Feng saw woof Wenjie and Xiao Min in the theater box of hotel. 十分钟后,江枫在酒店的包厢里见到了汪文杰与肖敏。 Generally the wedding banquet hall in high-end hotel, will suppose some theater boxes in addition, such convenience arranges some status honored guests. 一般高端酒店的婚宴大厅,都会另设一些包厢,这样方便安排一些身份尊贵的客人。 both sides meet, river Feng praised with a smile: „keen elder sister, this less than half month has not seen, you are brilliant, was getting more and more attractive!” 双方一见面,江枫就笑着夸赞道:“敏姐,这才小半个月没见,你是光彩照人,越来越漂亮了！” Xiao Min purses the lips to say with a smile: „Grandmaster river your opened mouth more and more can praise the person!” 肖敏抿嘴笑道:“江大师你这张嘴是越来越会夸人了！” river Feng laughs, then for a both sides introduced: „woof, keen the elder sister, this is my fellow villager Li Xingwen, is I after the matchmaker the first customer that meets. Brother Wen, this is woof, is the peak elder brother's university schoolmate, this is keen the elder sister, didn't need me to introduce?” 江枫哈哈一笑,然后替双方介绍道:“汪总,敏姐,这位是我老乡李兴文,也是我当媒人后接的第一个客户。文哥,这位是汪总,也是峰哥的大学同学,这是敏姐,想必就不用我多介绍了吧？” Li Xingwen after entering the theater box sees Xiao Min this big star, in the heart is somewhat shocking, do not look that his family is well-off, big star but who cannot contact Xiao Min this level. 李兴文在进入包厢看到肖敏这个大明星后,心中是有些震惊的,别看他家境不错,但也接触不到肖敏这个层次的大明星。 Let alone Xiao Min this big star has married into the rich and powerful family, is today we are no longer as we have been. 更别说肖敏这个大明星已经嫁入豪门,已是今非昔比了。 But stands that side Xiao Min, was woof of Wangshi Group. 而站在肖敏身边的那位,想必就是汪氏集团的汪总了。 He has not really thought, Grandmaster river must introduce to person who he knows, the position is so unexpectedly astonishing! 他是真的没想到,江大师要介绍给他认识的人,身份地位竟然如此惊人！ Hears river Feng the introduction, Li Xingwen greeted to give regards hastily. 听到江枫的介绍,李兴文连忙打招呼问好。 woof Wenjie saying with a laugh: „Brother Wen does not need to be polite, we are the customers of Grandmaster river, very has the fate!” 汪文杰笑呵呵的说道:“文哥不必客气,咱们都是江大师的客户,也挺有缘分的！” Xiao Min also greets with a smile. 肖敏也笑着打了个招呼。 After both sides polite several, Xiao Min then asked: „Grandmaster river, is your matrimonial agency business good?” 双方客气了几句后,肖敏便问道:“江大师,你的婚介所生意还好吧？” river Feng said with a smile: „Business is good, keen elder sister's your rallying point is really the levers drop, for these days my matrimonial agency must receive 100-200 customers every day, is really busy at running around in circles.” 江枫笑道:“生意好着呢,敏姐你的号召力真是杠杠滴,这几天我的婚介所每天都要接待100-200位客户,忙得真是团团转。” Xiao Min said with a smile sweet: „Capable work more, these customers can walk , is also their good fortunes.” 肖敏嫣然笑道:“能者多劳嘛,那些客户能找上门去,也是他们的福气。” woof Wenjie said: „The matter that Grandmaster river, the customer unbearably busy words some of your many moves of manpower, these does odd jobs gives others to do, you only needed to make final check on the line!” 汪文杰接话道:“江大师,客户多忙不过来的话你就多招一些人手,那些打杂的事就交给别人来做,你只需要做最后的把关就行了嘛！” river Feng said with a smile: „Has been looking for the candidate, has appropriately incurs.” 江枫笑道:“已经在物色人选了,有合适的就招。” woof Wenjie nods, immediately feared treated coldly Li Xingwen, then with he also once for a while chatting several. 汪文杰点点头,随即怕冷落了李兴文,便跟他也时不时的聊上几句。 Quick, the happy pair then changed the clothing to arrive at the hotel, first came to greet with woof Wenjie, Xiao Min these two status honored guests, then welcomed the guest to the hotel entrance. 很快,新郎新娘便换好服装来到了酒店,先过来跟汪文杰、肖敏这两个身份尊贵的客人打过招呼,然后就到酒店门口去迎接客人。 Off topic 题外话 Thank everyone greatly old monthly ticket. 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