MOTGAR :: Volume #18

#1703: To man's advice( three / three)

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The mother of Secretary Shen, is busy preparing the lunch with the nannies together, hears the laughing sound from the kitchen unceasingly, the open style kitchen is not suitable to make the Chinese meal, recently since just installed the kitchen fan. 沈秘书的老妈,正忙着和保姆们一起准备午餐,不断从厨房里传来欢笑声,开放式厨房不适合做中餐,最近刚刚安装起抽油烟机。 The simple Italy surface, her mother will not manufacture various types of tastes the noodles sauces, but cooks the noodles unable to stump her, other will have the chef to do, has not been the serving a meal time, is busy processing other food. 只是简单的意大利面而已,她老妈不会制作各种口味的拌面酱,但是煮面条难不住她,其他的会有厨师去做,还没到开饭时间,正忙着处理其他食材。 Dawson father-in-law over 50 years old is, could not have meddled the matter of kitchen, English is not good, as for chatted with Han Xuan, he confessed among two people no common interest. 道森岳父已经五十多岁,插手不了厨房的事情,英语又不是太好,至于和韩宣聊天,他自认两人之间没什么共同话题。 Stands too awkwardly, thinks the thing that with great difficulty can chat, asked suddenly Han Xuan said: „ Did you recently have in the exercise calligraphy? 站在旁边太尴尬,好不容易想到件可以聊的东西,突然问韩宣说:“你最近有在锻炼书法吗？ I remember from the news have seen, said that your calligraphy work is valuable, in the newspaper published a small part, although shoots the specially is not clear that type, possibly is the reporter makes the picture fuzzy intentionally, but can also distinguish clearly, the typeface writes is truly good. ” 我记得从新闻里看见过,说你的书法作品非常值钱,报纸上刊登了一小部分,虽然拍得不是特别清晰那种,可能是记者故意让照片模糊一点点,但也是能清楚分辨,字体写得确实很棒。” Han Xuan naturally cannot tell him, oneself more than one year have not taken the writing brush, how also without exercises truly assiduously to write the character written with a writing brush, publication screened after the Old Man Han abc television station arrives again allows the picture that the newspaper office published, the shift topic to reply: „ Praise thank you, does the mister you also like writing the character written with a writing brush? 韩宣自然不会告诉他,自己已经一年多没拿过毛笔,也没真正刻苦锻炼过如何写毛笔字,刊登的都是经过韩老爷子的abc电视台筛选再到允许报社发表的照片,转移话题回答说:“谢谢您的夸奖,先生你也喜欢写毛笔字吗？ My grandfather and grandfather being all right time likes writing, the couplet that in the new year's celebration family/home uses does not need to take to the streets to buy basically, moreover wants to buy the couplet in United States, the difficulty buying the steamed stuffed bun is bigger, only then the Chinatown before Spring Festival can see. 我爷爷和外公没事时候都喜欢写一写,过年家里使用的对联基本不用上街买,而且想要在美国买对联,难度比买包子还大,只有在春节前的唐人街可以见到。 For a long time had not very taken up the pen, as for value anything, I confessed that has not arrived at that level truly, is Hong Kong these my grandfather grandfather's friends favors me, actually cannot amount to something. ” 挺长时间没动笔了,至于价值什么的,我自认还没真正到达那种水平,是香江那些我爷爷外公的朋友们抬举我,其实上不了台面。” Understands that Han Xuan in polite, Dawson's old father-in-law will not take seriously, he has seen the Han Xuan calligraphy work in the newspaper, really very has the flavor, actually as to be valuable, that is the matter that different people have different views and different people have different views. 明白韩宣是在客气,道森的老岳父可不会当真,他在报纸上见过韩宣的书法作品,确实挺有味道,至于究竟值不值钱,那是仁者见仁、智者见智的事情。 In 1997 the time, Mr. Li in Zhaoji Hong Kong played a slippery fellow, after taking away Han Xuan wrote the calligraphy work, after delivering to the auction room, spent the money to buy it, was plated a gold/metal to that character, later some people want to buy the Han Xuan calligraphy work, had the precedent of reference price to follow. 1997年时候,香江的李兆机先生耍了个滑头,拿走韩宣写得书法作品后,送到拍卖行之后自己又花一大笔钱将它买了回来,算是给那幅字镀了一层金,以后再有人想买韩宣的书法作品,就有了参照价格的先例可循。 Initially some people had not mastered his intention, but Mr. Li Zhaoji truly therefore by Han Xuan remembering, the snowy mountain real estate company enters the Huaxia real estate now at the same time, because of returning to cause Hong Kong of house price big diving not to let off. 当初有些人还没搞懂他的用意,但李兆机先生确确实实因此被韩宣给记住了,雪山地产公司如今进入华夏房地产的同时,因为回归而导致房价大跳水的香江也没放过。 The decision looks for a competent local partner time, his name and real estate company's first appears in the Han Xuan mind, snowy mountain real estate Hong Kong Branch that now two people pool capital to open, stores up the land in the Hong Kong many yellow sections, the short two years pass by, Mr. Li Zhaoji has harvested many. 决定找一位有实力的当地合伙人时候,他的名字和房地产公司第一个出现在韩宣脑海中,如今两人合资开设的雪山地产香江分公司,在香江多处黄地段囤积土地,短短两年时间过去,李兆机先生已经收获颇丰。 The first estate of two company joint exploitations, approximately will sell, the person who makes the real estate industry in the new millennium in March officially, must understand that the importance of fund and backer, the human relations are sometimes more important than money...... 两家公司合作开发的第一个楼盘,大约在新千年的三月份就会正式发售,做房地产行业的人,不可能不明白资金和靠山的重要性,人脉关系有时候比钱更加重要…… „ Recently idled bored, asked somebody to buy the set of words paper inkstone from a shop in San Francisco, afterward was all right to write the thing, in the study room in building, you wants to have a look? “最近闲得无聊,托人从旧金山的一家店里买了套笔墨纸砚,后来没事就写写东西,都在楼上的书房里,你想不想看看？ Idles is also idling, I estimated that to serving a meal to return sometime. ” 闲着也是闲着,我估计离开饭还有一段时间。” Hears the words of Mr. Shen, Han Xuan to have a look to tease the child as if played to become addicted Anya, looked that to is preparing Secretary Dawson who went out to buy the diaper, did not have the matter to do in any case, therefore said: „Why no, my grandfather often said that the practice calligraphy needs to exchange to progress much, everyone writes the character written with a writing brush to have the different characteristics, the copy book is dies, the person is actually lives.” 听见沈先生的话,韩宣看看在逗弄小孩似乎玩上瘾了的安雅,又看向正准备出门去买尿布的道森秘书,反正没事情做,于是说:“为什么不呢,我爷爷常说练习书法需要多交流才能进步,每个人写毛笔字都带有不同特点,字帖是死的,人却是活的。” „ These words are very reasonable, from my grandfather's grandfather that generation, was the successful candidate of Qing dynasty, my grandfather's father was also. “这些话很有道理,从我爷爷的爷爷那一辈,就是清朝的进士,我爷爷的父亲也是。 My father arrives at Taiwan with 74 army, broke the relation with the family member, at the point of death cannot see their surface, but has remembered oneself are the scholar aristocratic family, after going to country medium, which day will not practice 100 large characters to be hit by him. 我父亲随着七十四军来到宝岛,跟家人断了联系,临死都没能见到他们的面,但一直记得自己是书香世家,直到上国中之后,哪天不练一百个大字都会被他打。 Afterward was the platform center Calligrapher Association vice-president, did not have two years, because the matter are too many resignation is not dry/does, 后来当了台中书法家协会副主席,没两年因为事情太多才辞职不干了, But one group of old friends are all right converge gather, while you are at it itchy...... ” about the past that segment history, because the standpoint angle is different, the two sides views are also different, the Han Xuan interest is keen, bumped with great difficulty arrives has the relations with the past history, personally has experienced the person of that big migration, closely examined to involve the taboo the topic. 但一帮老朋友们没事都会聚一聚,有空的时候就手痒……”关于当年那段老历史,由于立场角度不同,两边的说法也不一样,韩宣对此兴趣浓浓,好不容易碰到位跟当年历史有关系,亲身经历过那次大迁移的人,追问许多涉及到禁忌的话题。 Similarly, because the standpoint is different, Mr. Shen looked that the angle of matter was also different, has certain deviation, the time already fully over the past 50 years, making Han Xuan most have sigh with emotion a few words is „wants the peace to be good”. 同样,因为立场不同,沈先生看事情的角度也不一样,带有一定的偏向,时间已经整整过去50年,让韩宣最有感慨的一句话是“只要和平就好了”。 In the recent years the separatist was in power, made a big noise, even the media of European United States, often took these at sixes and sevens things to exaggerate, obviously in „drew offset frame”, gradually abated until the recent war dark clouds. 最近几年来独立派掌权,闹出了不小的动静,连欧美国家的媒体们,都经常拿那些乱七八糟的事情夸大其词,明显是在“拉偏架”,直到最近战争阴云才逐渐消退。 ...... …… Goes upstairs to enter a study room. 上楼进入一间书房。 In this period passed by the room that Secretary Shen rested, found her by the crack in a door with the help of Madame Alexis, milked toward the cup in the breast pump. 期间路过沈秘书休息的房间,透过门缝瞧见她正在亚历克西斯女士帮助下,用吸奶器往杯子里挤奶。 Only looked that Han Xuan turned away, such picture is not beautiful, is very easy to destroy his expectation to so wonderful thing, therefore not look to wonderfully, is away from also to have Shen Yutong to greet toward Ms. Alexis simply gets out of the way. 只看一眼韩宣就移开了视线,那样的画面一点都不美,很容易摧毁他对如此美妙事物的憧憬,所以还是不看为妙,简单隔着门朝亚历克西斯女士还有沈语彤打了个招呼就走开。 The reason is, the Snow Mountain Ranch cows also milk like this, will equate both unknowingly, do not look that the man seems strong, but psychological will also be occasionally frail. 原因是,雪山牧场的奶牛们也这样挤奶,不经意间会将两者划上等号,别看男人似乎很坚强,但偶尔心理方面也会非常脆弱。 Gives an example, many male after the wife have a child, in making person matter lost the interest gradually, once he also thinks that is familiar the result that the bored existing life creates, after profound research psychology, Han Xuan wants to understand an interesting matter in one day suddenly. 举个例子,许多男性在妻子生孩子之后,就对造人这件事渐渐失去了兴趣,曾经他也以为那只是过于熟悉、厌倦现有生活造成的结果,直到深刻研究心理学之后,韩宣才在某一天忽然想明白一件有趣的事情。 This and husband participates in the wife production process together, has very big relations. 这和丈夫共同参与妻子生产过程,存在着很大关系。 Now the European United States widely current had „Lamaze painless childbirth law”, this is one type to relax the nervousness of parturient woman having a child time, but with the special breath method, the husband wants when the wife produces, stands participates together. 如今欧美国家广泛流行起了“拉马兹无痛分娩法”,这是一种为了缓和产妇生孩子时候的紧张情绪,而采用的特殊呼吸方法,丈夫要在妻子生产期间,站在旁边共同参与。 The hospital will suggest the having a child time generally, the husband grips in wife's hand that in the labor pain struggles, conducts the synchronized breath with the wife, the modern society concept generally felt, since is a couple, the birth is not a matter of person, therefore does that is also natural. 医院一般会建议生孩子时候,丈夫握住在阵痛中挣扎的妻子的手,和妻子进行同步呼吸,现代社会观念普遍觉得既然是夫妻,生育不是一个人的事情,所以这么做也是理所当然的。 But opinion of Han Xuan actually just right opposite, he wants to understand on that day, thinks after the female has the child, the husband should flee by far, best do not imagine the picture. 但韩宣的意见却正好相反,他在那天想明白了,认为女性生育孩子之后,丈夫应该远远逃离,最好连画面都不要想象。 The husband stands by the obstetric table will truly make the wife feel relieved . Moreover the male can also personally experience, the production process is how difficult, however wife both legs big, the scene of until filling the baby of blood stain living, is not the picture that the husband loves. 丈夫站在产床旁边确实会让妻子感到安心,而且男性也能亲身体会到,生产过程是多么艰辛,然而妻子双腿大张,直到充满血污的婴儿生出来的情景,决不是丈夫喜闻乐见的画面。 In that flash , the female that romantic and lovable impression in the scene day for peace men mind thinking is completely different, thus causes the female mystery to vanish into thin air, will make in the person process to cast the huge shadow in the future. 在那一瞬间,场景和平日男人们脑海里所认为的,女性那种浪漫、可爱印象完全不同,从而导致女性的神秘感烟消云散,在今后造人过程中留下巨大的阴影。 Therefore , truth once sometimes were opened, the happy appearance will vanish into thin air shortly. 所以说,真相有时候一旦被揭开,美好的面目顷刻间化为乌有。 Han Xuan from the psychology specialized paper of Brown University graduation time, was elaborating that in detail this aspect issue, that paper has the widespread investigation foundation. 韩宣从布朗大学毕业时候的心理学专业论文,就在详细阐述这方面问题,那篇论文有着广泛的调查基础。 Some time, whenever some people went to a SOS 24 hours of convenience store, treated the ED Viagra time by the medicine prescription purchase, some sales clerks asked them, has participated female production process, the obtained result surpassed him to imagine, about 46% patients, replied „Yes”. 某段时间内,每当有人去SOS二十四小时便利店,凭借医药处方购买治疗ED的伟哥时候,就有售货员问他们,有没有参与过女性的生产过程,得出的结果超出他想象,大约百分之四十六的患者,都回答说“Yes”。 This paper evokes the extensive discussion, the major hospitals were cancelling afterward let the approach that the husband accompanies, but the production experienced male gynecologists, turned into the society suddenly, the appointment time not professional one, they who the female welcome feared that these doctors have the psychological problem, then later own life was bad. 这篇论文引起广泛讨论,各大医院在后来取消了让丈夫陪同的做法,而生产经验十足的男性妇产科医生们,突然变成了社会上,约会时候最不受女性欢迎的职业之一,她们怕这些医生存在心理方面问题,那么以后自己的生活就糟糕了。 Because of that paper, Han Xuan becomes many male Savior smoothly, develops for a long time, perhaps the snowy mountain pharmaceutical company will therefore lose many profits, but he does not care. 因为那篇论文,韩宣顺利成为许多男性的救世主,长久发展下去,说不定雪山制药公司会因此损失许多利润,不过他并不在意。 After this, he avoids contacting may cause to fantasize about the female the aspect of being shattered, for the following wonderful life consideration, Han Xuan thought the female, regards forever wonderfully peerless „riddle” quite good...... 从此之后,他就避免接触可能会导致对女性幻想破灭的局面,为了接下来的美妙人生考虑,韩宣觉得还是将女性,永远当成一个美妙绝伦的“谜团”比较好…… Please remember this book first round domain name:. 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