In the morning, 11:20. 上午,十一点二十。 Has had the breakfast, mother and daughter arrive at the teahouse slowly the time, Chen Xi has played the Chinese chess with Old Gu, the two brothers also stacked the building block in the playground. 吃过早饭,母女俩姗姗来到茶馆的时候,陈曦已经跟谷老下起了围棋,兄弟俩也在儿童乐园堆起了积木。 Qin Ruoying just put down the little fellow, she running in the past, laughed is notifying the two brothers. 秦若盈这边刚刚放下小家伙,她就屁颠屁颠的跑过去,大笑着跟兄弟俩打起了招呼。 A day has not seen, when three little things actually like many old friend. 才一天没见,三个小东西却像久违多时的老朋友一样。 Happy after the little fellow has greeted, the Elder Brother immediately is then calling asked her to come in quickly, how they are studying to use the building block to pile the transformer. 高兴的跟小家伙打过招呼后,哥哥便立刻吆喝着叫她快进来,他们正在研究如何用积木堆出变形金刚。 The little fellows see that immediately takes off the shoes, plop one lies on the cushion, side crawling arrived two brothers who then the hands and feet uses. 小家伙见状,立刻就脱掉鞋子,扑通一下趴在垫子上,然后手脚并用的爬到了兄弟俩身边。 Because of yesterday's experience, the little fellow may be self-satisfied today. 因为昨天的经历,小家伙今天可得意了。 Without sitting a while, she then makes the two brothers guess where own yesterday went to play. 没坐一会儿,她便让兄弟俩猜猜自己昨天去什么地方玩了。 The two brothers are also similar to her beforehand situation, parents year to year not in side, therefore outside they rarely go to play. 兄弟俩跟她以前的情况也差不多,父母常年不在身边,所以他们很少去外面玩。 Heard the little fellow to show off was saying yesterday's experience, immediately very much two brothers coordinate opened the small mouth, on the face all was the expression that envied. 听到小家伙炫耀似的说着自己昨天的经历,两兄弟立刻就很配合的张开了小嘴,脸上全是羡慕的表情。 „There ratio here mostly!” “那里比这里大多了！” „Dinosaur! Sand! Labyrinth! Seesaw! Many children!” “恐龙！沙子！迷宫！跷跷板！还有好多小朋友！” „What has! Next time will lead you to play!” “什么都有！下次带你们去玩！” End, the little fellow had not forgotten to pat the chest to guarantee, later must certainly call the two brothers, immediately causes two people one piece to echo. 末了,小家伙还不忘拍着胸膛保证,以后要一定会叫上兄弟俩一路,顿时就引得两人一片附和。 Her unscrupulous showing off, makes nearby Qin Ruoying hear one to shake the head. 她这边肆无忌惮的炫耀,却让一旁的秦若盈听得一阵摇头。 So long as the child had fun what, the novel thing, will unable to bear with show off. 孩子只要有了什么好玩的、新奇的东西,就会忍不住拿出来炫耀。 This is the instinct of human. 这是人类的天性。 Before Niannian, does not have many toys, therefore the toy of two brothers makes her envy. 念念以前没多少玩具,所以兄弟俩的玩具让她十分羡慕。 After she has others no toy, naturally can take to be approved others' envying and by this. 等到她拥有别人没有的玩具后,自然会拿出来以此获得别人的羡慕和认可。 This time toy, had lost toy's significance, but turned into one type to compete and show off, the competitive tool. 这时候的玩具,已经失去了玩具本身的意义,而是变成一种攀比、炫耀、不服输的工具。 Therefore, the guardians will notice frequently the child quarrelled for the toy, whose toy compared with was fun, whose toy were many. 因此,家长们经常会看到孩子为了玩具而争吵,比较谁的玩具好玩,谁的玩具多。 Everyone hopes oneself are outstanding, the healthy trying to outdo others psychology and competitive psychology can promote the child healthily to develop comprehensively, making the child more outstanding. 每个人都希望自己是优秀的,健康的好胜心理和竞争心理可以促进孩子全面健康地发展,让孩子更优秀。 However, the effort cannot strong or does not have the direction, if went astray the direction, will work just the opposite. 但是,好胜心不能过强或者没有方向,如果走错了方向,就会适得其反。 If the guardian does not give the guidance in the correct way, the effort may turn into the vanity very much. 如果家长不以正确的方式给予引导,好胜心就很有可能变成虚荣心。 The vanity excessively pursues the character flaw that the empty table initiates, twisted self-respect. 虚荣心是过度追求虚表所引发的性格缺陷,也是被扭曲的自尊心。 Even evil clutches that the adults cannot escape the vanity, let alone is the child? 连成年人都逃不过虚荣心的魔爪,更何况是孩子呢？ Qin Ruoying sits when the bar, how is pondering over should give the little fellow adopts the good values, the gate of teahouse suddenly is actually shoved open. 秦若盈坐在吧台,正琢磨着该如何给小家伙树立起良好的价值观时,茶馆的门却突然被人推开了。 Coming the person is pair of mother and daughter. 来人是一对母女。 The age of woman roughly also 30 over, elegant of very appearance. 女人的年纪约莫也就三十出头,打扮的十分雍容华贵。 But most noticeable is actually her little girl. 而最引人注目的却是她身边的小女孩。 The little girl seems like is only also bigger than Niannian on 1 or 2-year-old. 那小女孩看上去也就只比念念大上一两岁。 The small age, actually puts on a selling price to reach as high as tens of thousands dior furs, in the hand is taking a baleniaga satchel. 小小年纪,却穿着一件售价高达好几万的dior皮草,手里则提着一个baleniaga挎包。 On this appearance, at least also 100,000 starts. 就这一身打扮,至少也得十万起步。 Clothes that the rapidness of child body length of body, many this year buys, next year cannot put on again. 小孩子身体长的快,很多今年买的衣服,明年就不能再穿了。 Therefore, when this passes in the winter, in the winter of next year will come again time, 100,000 estimates must throw away carelessly. 因此,等到这个冬天过去,明年冬天再来的时候,十万块估计就得打水漂咯。 Seriously is rich willful. 当真是有钱任性。 The women stood in the entrance sized up an arrangement of teahouse, discovered here, only then Chen Xi after Old Gu two people, this led the daughter to enter the teahouse. 女人站在门口打量了一下茶馆的布置,发现这里只有陈曦跟谷老两人后,这才带着女儿走进了茶馆。 Because Chen Xi sits with Old Gu in the basic right side, the woman then sits left side of arrived directly. 因为陈曦跟谷老坐在入门的右侧,女人便直接坐到了左侧。 Comes is being the guest. 来着是客。 Chen Xi is playing chess with Old Gu, therefore Qin Ruoying then walked from the bar, arrives at side the woman to ask directly: „Hello? What needs to drink?” 陈曦跟谷老正在下棋,于是秦若盈便从吧台后面走了出来,直接来到女人身旁问道:“您好？需要喝点什么吗？” The women take off the coat, hints the child to sit to inside. 女人脱下大衣,示意孩子坐到里面去。 After hearing the Qin Ruoying's words, she then took up the price list on table to look. 听到秦若盈的话后,她这才拿起桌上的价格表看了起来。 „Wuyi'Dahongpao?” “武夷大红袍？” The women looked at the price list, immediately could not bear talk over one, but that tone seemed like somewhat complaining. 女人看了看价格表,顿时就忍不住念叨了一句,但那语气却有些像是在吐槽。 Although her sound is small, was actually stood in nearby Qin Ruoying to omitting a single word listening in ear. 她的声音虽小,却被站在一旁的秦若盈给一字不漏的给听在了耳里。 Qin Ruoying has no response, uses temporarily as has not heard. 秦若盈没有任何反应,权当没有听见。 The women considered. 女人考虑了一下。 After the price list puts on the table, she then slightly obviously helpless saying: „Biluochun.” 把价格表放回去桌上后,她这才略显无奈的说道:“碧螺春吧。” „Good, you wait a bit.” “好的,您稍等。” Qin Ruoying turned around to make tea to her. 秦若盈转身去给她泡茶了。 But the little girl who at this time, the woman brought paid attention to the playground in arrived corner. 而这时,女人带来的小女孩则注意到了墙角的儿童乐园。 After she sees inside three little fellows, immediately raised the head, brings excitedly some to the woman said: „Mother, can I pass to play?” 等到她看到里面的三个小家伙后,立刻就抬起头,带着些许兴奋的对女人说道:“妈咪,我能过去玩吗？” Then, the girl also referred to the playground. 说完,女孩还指了指儿童乐园。 The women have also listened to arrived that side sound, after considering one next, this said to the girl: „Clever, does not go. You do not know them, what to do if they do bully you?” 女人也早已听到了那边的动静,考虑一下后,这才对女孩说道:“乖,不去。你都不认识他们,万一他们欺负你怎么办？” hearing this, the little girl honk draws out the mouth immediately, is not evidently happy. 闻言,小女孩立刻嘟起了嘴,看样子是不高兴了。 The women see that hugs the bosom the child hastily, comforts saying: „We sat a while to go home, mother accompanied you to play, was good?” 女人见状,连忙把孩子搂进怀里,安慰道:“我们坐一会儿就要回家了,妈咪陪你玩,好不好？” „It is not good!” “不好！” The little girls shake the head, immediately shifts to out of the window the head, exhibits one not to want with the stance that you spoke. 小女孩摇了摇头,立刻把脑袋转向了窗外,摆出一副不想跟你说话的架势。 The women do not have the means that after having turned the head and looked at playground one, this said to the girl: „You play......” 女人没办法,转过头又看了儿童乐园一眼后,这才对女孩说道:“那你去玩吧……” „Good!” “好！” Heard mother to agree, little girl immediately happy crawled from her leg, running that then jumped approached the playground. 听到母亲同意了,小女孩立刻高兴的从她腿上爬了过去,然后蹦蹦跳跳的跑向了儿童乐园。 The women also want to say anything, but looks at daughter that exciting appearance, had the ignores she to pass. 女人还想说些什么,但看着女儿那兴奋的模样,也只得放任她过去了。 At this time, Qin Ruoying is carrying the teacup and canteen comes. 这时,秦若盈端着茶杯和水壶过来了。 After she puts down the teacup canteen, the woman then said to Qin Ruoying: „Does child want to play with them together...... is not in the way?” 等到她把茶杯水壶放下后,女人这才对秦若盈说道:“孩子想跟他们一起玩……不碍事儿吧？” „It is not in the way, the child, the person are more is livelier.” “不碍事,孩子嘛,人越多才越热闹。” Qin Ruoying returned to one with a smile, said that then turns around the arrived bar. 秦若盈笑吟吟的回了一句,说完便转身回到了吧台。 Woman as if also some did not feel relieved. 女人似乎还有些不放心。 Thinks after one next, she then takes up the coat, carries the teacup to sit arrived to leave a playground recent booth. 想了一下后,她便拿起大衣,端着茶杯坐到了离儿童乐园最近的一处卡座。 The little girls arrive by the railing, looked at one to lie after the three little fellows of ground pile of building blocks, somewhat disturbed asking: „Can I play with you together?” 小女孩来到围栏旁,看了一眼正趴在地上堆积木的三个小家伙后,才有些忐忑的问道:“我可以跟你们一起玩吗？” hearing this, Niannian lifts the head immediately, grins to say with a smile: „Good oh! however you to take off the shoes to come in!” 闻言,念念立刻抬起脑袋,咧嘴笑道:“好吖！但是你要脱了鞋子才可以进来！” „Good!” “好！” After obtaining Niannian's agreed that the girl then immediately takes off the shoes to walk. 得到念念的首肯后,女孩便立刻脱掉鞋子走了进来。 But after she comes, discovered oneself could not find the position to sit. 可是她进来以后,才发现自己找不到位置可以坐。 Three little fellows are centered on the building block castle, a person sat a direction. 三个小家伙以积木城堡为中心,一人坐了一个方向。 The two brothers lie on the ground, old tall who the buttocks curl upwards, therefore occupied very big topography, making her simply not have the means to push. 兄弟俩趴在地上,屁股翘的老高,所以占据了很大的地势,让她根本没办法挤进来。 Sees that the little fellow pats the two brothers immediately, hints them to make a position come out. 见状,小家伙立刻拍了拍兄弟俩,示意他们让个位置出来。 „You make! Did not have the position!” “你们让一让！没有位置了！” How the two brothers are studying the front door of castle to arrange are good. 兄弟俩正在研究城堡的大门该怎么布置才好。 Heard a little fellow such saying, they recovered finally, squeezed out a position to give the girl hastily. 听到小家伙这么一说,他们才终于回过神来,连忙挤出一个位置让给了女孩。 After the girl sits down, the little fellow as the host, then from pulls out one pile of building blocks to place in front of her immediately behind. 等到女孩坐下以后,小家伙作为东道主,便立刻从身后掏出了一堆积木放在了她面前。 „I called Chen Nian, you can call me Niannian!” “我叫陈念,你可以叫我念念！” The girl looks at the present building block, after hesitant one next, this sweet saying with a smile: „I called Tiantian!” 女孩看着眼前的积木,犹豫了一下后,这才甜甜的笑道:“我叫恬恬！”