„Repugnant, the ruined family woman, is coarse!” “讨厌,败家娘们,多难听啊！” willow Qingqing some do not depend on the place to act like a spoiled brat to say. 柳箐箐有些不依地撒娇道。 However innermost feelings specially sweet, oneself man mentioned the talk between lovers, always makes itself feel happily fully. 不过内心特别地甜,自己男人说起情话,总是让自己感觉满满地幸福。 „That called your ruined family wife to be able!” “那就称你败家媳妇可以了吧！” leaf Rongyao said jokingly. 叶荣耀开玩笑地说道。 „What ruined family wife, was coarse, paid no attention to you.” “什么败家媳妇,难听死了,不理你了。” willow Qingqing honk the mouth was saying. 柳箐箐嘟着嘴说道。 „Vitality/Angry?” “生气了？” „No?” “才没有呢？” „I think that you were angry, scared to death the baby!” “我以为你生气了,吓死宝宝了！” ...... …… In an instant, time to 2017 bumper year 29. 转眼间,时间到了2017年的大年二十九。 In Huaxia, had the New Year supper 28 to start from the bumper year generally, at Huaxia new year's celebration was a day of reunion, some people brothers and sisters were quite many, this year the supper could not arrange, some people arrived at the bumper year 28 to start the New Year supper ahead of time. 在华夏,吃年夜饭一般从大年二十八就开始了,在华夏过年是一个团聚的日子,有些人兄弟姐妹比较多,这年夜饭排不过来,就有人把年夜饭提前到大年二十八就开始了。 As the matter stands, this new year's celebration time, everyone each can have the New Year supper that reunites. 这样一来,这过年的时候,大家每一家都能吃上团圆的年夜饭。 After all now is not before, a respected family lives in a courtyard, currently brothers and sisters each one has the respective family/home, had the New Year supper also to start to line up. 毕竟现在不是以前,一个大家族都住在一个大院子里,现在兄弟姐妹各自都有各自的家,吃年夜饭也开始排起队了。 Because of tomorrow, is eve of the Lunar New Year, must have the New Year supper to own father-in-law family/home, the leaf glory arrives at the bumper year this year supper ahead of time 29. 因为明天,也就是大年三十,要到自己老丈人家吃年夜饭,叶荣耀就把这年夜饭提前到大年二十九了。 This year this year, leaf glory is very very lively, because Elder Sister leaf Rongyao celebrated the new year here. 今年这个年,叶荣耀家很很热闹,因为叶荣耀姐姐一家都在这里过年了。 The mood excellent leaf glory, rare today goes to the kitchen to make the New Year supper personally. 心情大好的叶荣耀,难得今天亲自下厨做年夜饭。 „Does uncle, want me to help?” “舅舅,要不要我帮忙啊？” Zhao Jie enters the kitchen to ask to the leaf glory. 赵婕走进厨房对叶荣耀问道。 „Does not use, the entertainment your schoolmate was good.” “不用,招待好你那位同学就好了。” leaf Rongyao then smiles said to Zhao Jie. 叶荣耀回头笑笑地对赵婕说道。 Said attended the university, the girl with tidying up results , but also is not really false. 都说读大学,女孩子跟整个容似得,还真的一点都不假。 Own this niece read university one year, the whole person changed attractively were many, naturally her facial features changed actually not, was mainly she learns to dress up. 自己这外甥女才读大学一年,整个人都变了漂亮很多了,当然倒不是她脸型变化了,主要是她学会打扮了。 Present young woman, so long as will dress up, the ugly girls can change the beautiful woman, do not say that originally on attractive Zhao Jie, had a vacation, leaf glory is the uncle has almost not recognized. 现在的年轻女人,只要会打扮,丑女都能变美女,更不要说本来就漂亮的赵捷了,放假回来的时候,叶荣耀这个做舅舅的都差点一眼都没有认出来。 It seems like attended the university really to change a person to be many. 看来读大学真的能改变一个人很多。 „He has what is good to entertain, eating without paying drank white dwell is very cheap white/in vain he.” “他有什么好招待的,白吃白喝白住已经很便宜他了。” Zhao Jie face slightly said red. 赵捷脸微红地说道。 Originally winter vacation time, Zhao Jie led a boy, said that was her classmate. 原来寒假的时候,赵捷带回来了一个男孩子,说是她同班同学。 However everyone is well aware, this is Zhao Jie the boyfriend who looks for in the university. 不过大家都心知肚明,这就是赵捷在大学里找的男朋友。 Elder Sister leaf Rongyao and brother-in-law are also very enlightened people, poured has not said anything. 叶荣耀姐姐和姐夫也是很开明的人,倒也没有说什么。 After all if Zhao Jie has not attended the university, starts to look for the boyfriend at her age normally also. 毕竟如果赵捷没有读大学的话,以她的年龄开始找男朋友也是非常地正常。 Now attended the university, not in love instead is a few, as numerous as the hairs of an ox of being in love. 现在读大学,没有在谈恋爱的反而是少数,谈恋爱的多如牛毛。 Therefore sees the niece to bring home the boyfriend to celebrate the new year, the leaf glory is not surprised. 所以见自己外甥女带男朋友回家过年,叶荣耀一点都不吃惊。 A few years ago, the leaf glory worked as the security in the university, at that time the university student is in love many. 几年前,叶荣耀在大学当保安的时候,那时候大学生谈恋爱的都多的很。 Especially to the evening, pairs of lovers was holding outside the hotel toward in school and hotel, the leaf glory is not silly, was naturally clear that these people must do. 尤其是到了晚上,一对对情侣抱着往学校外面的酒店、旅馆里去,叶荣耀不傻,自然清楚这些人要干嘛。 At that time, is the leaf glory of small security, envied these university students specially. 那时候,还是小保安的叶荣耀,特别羡慕这些大学生。 This attended the university is the matter that moistened! 这读大学是一件多么滋润的事情啊！ At that time the university is the love heaven, do not say that was the male and female more and more open present. 那时候大学就已经是恋爱的天堂了,更不要说是男女越来越开放的现在了。 The university under this atmosphere, oneself this big niece is in love in the university, very normal. 在这种风气下的大学,自己这个大外甥女在大学谈恋爱,也非常地正常。 Moreover that male student, leaf Rongyao looked was satisfied, was not the boy of that glib. 而且那个男生,叶荣耀看了还算满意,不是那种油腔滑调的男孩子。 In leaf glory personal view, the male student of glib, although this person will have the probability of achievement to be higher than the honest male student in the future. 在叶荣耀的个人看法里,油腔滑调的男生,虽然这种人将来会比老实的男生有成就的几率高。 But this male student is most unreliable, particularly regarding the love and marriage , the probability of betrayal wants the far ultra overly cautious and prudent male student. 可是这种男生也是最不可靠的,尤其是对于爱情和婚姻上,背叛的几率要远超老实巴交的男生。 The present girl is very strange lifeform, at the same time is thinking own boyfriend entire life to oneself good, only loves itself, but looks for the boyfriend time, likes looking for the male student of glib. 只是现在的女孩子是很奇怪的生物,一面想着自己的男朋友一生一世对自己好,只爱自己一个人,可是找男朋友的时候,就喜欢找油腔滑调的男生。 The final result, naturally could be imagined, was abandoned, was betrayed is the frequent matter. 最后的结果,自然可想而知了,被抛弃,被背叛是经常的事情。 After several times, or the injuries of several men, these women choose the overly cautious and prudent man marriage finally. 经过几次,或者几个男人的伤害,这些女人最后选择老实巴交的男人结婚。 Because they also know, really for a lifetime to oneself never-ending, to the good man, is these overly cautious and prudent men. 因为她们也知道,真的一辈子对自己不离不弃,对自己好的男人,就是这些老实巴交的男人。 Also does not know that whom the overly cautious and prudent man incurs to annoy, always made the taking over a business hand. 也不知道老实巴交的男人招谁惹谁了,老是给人做接盘手。 Honest and good-natured person of always suffering a loss. 吃亏的总是老实人。 „Ok, here did not need you to help, entertained your male schoolmate well, others were good.” “好了,这里不用你帮忙,好好招待你的那位男同学吧,他人不错。” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 „Uncle, you also thought that opens continuous heavy rain others to be good!” “舅舅,你也觉得张霖雨他人不错啊！” One hear of leaf glory are satisfactory about oneself boyfriend, Zhao Jie said excitedly. 一听叶荣耀对自己男朋友满意,赵捷兴奋地说道。 Own parents are now neither cold nor hot about oneself boyfriend, making Zhao Jie somewhat anxious. 自己父母现在对自己男朋友不冷不热的,让赵捷心里有些不安。 Also does not know do own parents like oneself this boyfriend. 也不知道自己父母到底喜不喜欢自己这个男朋友。 Although said that now advocates the young people freedom of marriage, the opposition arranged marriage. 虽然说现在提倡年轻人婚姻自由,反对包办婚姻。 But parents' opinion is very important, if oneself parents do not satisfy the boyfriend, later each other is very difficult to be together harmoniously. 可父母的意见还是非常重要的,要是自己父母不满意自己男朋友的话,以后彼此就很难和谐相处下去。 Even oneself parents also meet did not agree oneself with opening continuous heavy rain in the same place. 甚至自己父母还会不同意自己跟张霖雨在一起。 Side is lives me to raise my parents, side is the boyfriend who like. 一边是生我养我的父母,一边是自己喜欢的男朋友。 Opening the continuous heavy rain is very difficult to choose! 张霖雨真的很难抉择啊！ However if the uncle is satisfied with oneself boyfriend, all were easier to do. 不过如果自己舅舅对自己男朋友满意的话,一切就好办多了。 Going in that now uncle's opinion, oneself parents listen to very much, so long as uncle accepts the boyfriend, oneself parents 80-90% will also accept. 现在自己舅舅的意见,自己父母都很听的进去,只要自己舅舅接受自己男朋友的话,自己父母80-90%也会接受的。 „Person is good, is only this name and character some......” “人是不错,只是这名字和性格有些……” „Some what?” “有些什么啊？” Zhao Jie asked anxiously. 赵捷紧张地问道。 „Actually his name is strange, opens the continuous heavy rain, listening to the resembles to stand the meaning of heavy rain.” “其实他这个名字怪怪的,张霖雨,听着像站着淋雨的意思。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „Ha, the uncle, you were too humorous, is standing the heavy rain, ha, laughed at me!” “哈哈哈,舅舅,你太幽默了,站着淋雨,哈哈哈,笑死我了！” Zhao Jie cannot bear hold the belly to laugh, even smiled the tears. 赵捷忍不住抱着肚子大笑起来,甚至都笑出眼泪了。 „Do not laugh like this, injures the body very much.” “不要这样大笑,很伤身体的。” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 This saying, the leaf glory does not crack a joke. 这话,叶荣耀不是开玩笑的。 Smiles, although may expel sickness the fitness, but must be moderate, must understand suitable death anniversary that smiles. 笑,虽然可祛病健身,但必须适度,必须懂得笑的宜忌。 Smiles although cannot call a jin (0.5 kg) theory two, but since smiling to compare with the good medicine that treats an illness, has quantity massive small division. 笑虽然不能称斤论两,但既然把笑比作治病的良药,就有个量大量小之分。 Right amount beneficial, excessive harmful, moreover often will bring the bitter fruit of foreseeing the following tragedy. 适量有益,过量有害,而且往往会带来乐极生悲的苦果。 As the saying goes „great happiness is sad”, in our real life, this foreseeing the following tragedy matter sometimes happened. 有道是“大喜伤心”,在我们的现实生活中,这种乐极生悲的事时有发生。 A many years of long-cherished wish dynasty comes about, excited incomparable, solid however falls to the ground to perish ; Some own needs to obtain greatest satisfaction, or has any unexpected benefit, smiles doubles with laughter, but suddenly faint. 有的多年夙愿一朝得以实现,兴奋无比,实然倒地而亡;有的自己的需要得到最大程度的满足,或有什么意外收获,笑得前仰后合,而突然昏厥。 Even some played mahjong gathered one accidentally/surprisingly „uniformly”, laughed to turn over to the Yellow Springs face up. 甚至有的打麻将意外地合了一个“清一色”,仰面哈哈一笑归黄泉。 Especially to the senior citizen, various body functions is gradually senile, the disease incidence rate of heart blood vessel of brain is high, or has the old diseases of other systems, must pay attention to the sentiment will to recuperate specially, making it not want the major rises, achieves not only can make own life joyful, should not be wild with joy. 尤其是对老年人来说,身体各项功能逐渐衰老,心脑血管的发病率高,或有其他系统的慢性疾病,要特别注意情志调摄,使之不要大起大落,做到既能使自己的生活充满欢乐,又不要欣喜若狂。 „Oh...... oh......” “噢……噢……” Zhao Jie stops to smile with great difficulty, raised the head asks to the leaf glory: „What did uncle you say the continuous heavy rain some of his personality?” 赵捷好不容易才止住笑,抬头向叶荣耀问道:“舅舅你说霖雨他性格有些什么啊？” „His personality is somewhat soft.” “他性格有些软。” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 It looks like in the leaf glory, this man personality wants hardly. 在叶荣耀看来,这男人性格要硬一点好。 After all a family, basically is the man haunches a family/home, haunches blue sky for own wife and child. 毕竟一个家庭,基本上是男人撑起一个家,为自己的老婆和孩子撑起一片蓝天。 A weak man, is not cannot haunch a family, but comes across the setback, meets the words of matter, the weak man, often cannot undergo the attack. 一个性格软弱的男人,不是不能撑起一个家庭,而是遇到挫折,遇到事情的话,性格软弱的男人,往往经受不起打击。 Also was the anti-pressure ability is bad. 也就是抗压能力差了点。 Naturally also a little, looks like the man weak words in the leaf glory, has no position at home, appearance/allow Mrs. Yi manages strictly. 当然还有一点,在叶荣耀看来男人性格弱的话,在家里就没有什么地位,容易妻管严。 „I know that he is weak, no opinion, I like his, anything listens my, I called him toward east, he does not dare absolutely toward the west.” “我知道他性格弱,没有什么主见,我就喜欢他这点,什么都听我的,我叫他往东,他绝对不敢往西。” A Zhao Jie face happily said. 赵婕一脸得意地说道。 It looks like in Zhao Jie, chooses man who the man must choose to listen to the words, because will marry such man to be bullied by oneself for a lifetime, will not be bullied by him by oneself. 在赵婕看来,选择男人就要选择听自己话的男人,因为嫁给这样的男人一辈子都会被自己欺负,不会让自己被他欺负。 „Hehe, you want to be the empress!” “呵呵,你这是想当女皇啊！” The leaf glory smiles said. 叶荣耀不由地笑笑地说道。 „Uncle, isn't this good?” “舅舅,这样不好吗？” Zhao Jie looks that the leaf glory asked. 赵婕看着叶荣耀问道。 Regarding oneself this skill specially big uncle, Zhao Jie worships very much. 对于自己这个本事特别大的舅舅,赵婕可是很崇拜的。 „It is not not good, but, you can change is very tired.” “不是不好,只是以后你会变的很累。” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 A family must certainly have a pillar, this pillar is to worry about family's big matter, is quite tired. 一个家庭肯定要有一个主心骨,这个主心骨就是要操心家里的大事情,是比较累的。 Later Zhao Jie marries opens the continuous heavy rain this weak man likely, she must hold the broken heart for her later family/home, crossed is quite tired. 以后赵婕嫁给像张霖雨这样性格软弱的男人,她就要为她以后的家操碎心,过的就比较累。 „Even later the day passes is very tired, I like him, chooses him.” “就算以后日子过的很累,我还是喜欢他,选择他。” Zhao Jie definitely said. 赵婕肯定地说道。 „So long as yourself choose, the uncles support you!” “只要你自己选择,舅舅都支持你！” leaf Rongyao said. 叶荣耀说道。 What is happy, two are crossing together happily, is the biggest happiness. 什么是幸福,两个在一起过得开心,就是最大的幸福。 Since oneself this niece likes opening the continuous heavy rain so much, moreover this continuous heavy rain is somewhat soft besides the character, has no other places to make glory not satisfactory. 既然自己这个外甥女这么喜欢张霖雨,而且这张霖雨除了性格有些软以外,也没有什么其它地方让叶荣耀不满意的。 „Thanks the uncle, my parents that side......” “谢谢舅舅,我爸妈那边……” A Zhao Jie face expected that looks the leaf glory said. 赵婕一脸期望地看着叶荣耀说道。 „I felt strange how you run in the kitchen to help me, originally you enter the kitchen to help me are fake, wants me to help you do your parental work is real!” “我就奇怪你怎么跑进厨房要帮我,原来你进厨房帮我是假,要我帮你做你父母工作是真！” A leaf glory face looks speechless Zhao Jie said. 叶荣耀一脸无语地看着赵婕说道。 Gathers her stem is being here. 合着她的梗是在这里啊。 „Uncle, you helps!” “舅舅,你就帮帮忙吧！” Zhao Jiebao the arm of leaf glory is acting like a spoiled brat said. 赵婕抱着叶荣耀的手臂撒娇地说道。 So long as this uncle who has the skill goes into action, oneself parents have not divided a minute of bell to take! 只要自己这个有本事的舅舅一出马,自己父母还不分分钟钟地拿下啊！ „This matter has not resulted in discussed that if your difficulty cannot take, I suspected to your love very much!” “这事情没得商量,如果你们连这点困难都拿不下的话,我对你们的爱情很是怀疑！” leaf Rongyao shakes the head to say. 叶荣耀摇摇头说道。 „Does not help not help, why to suspect that sentiment between I and continuous heavy rain, we fall in love truly, but has made a solemn pledge of eternal love.” “不帮忙就不帮忙,干嘛怀疑我跟霖雨之间的感情,我们是真正的相爱的,可是海誓山盟过的。” Zhao Jie said discontentedly. 赵婕不满地说道。 „, You have the solemn pledge of eternal love, mentioned listens!” “哦,你们还有海誓山盟,说来听听！” leaf Rongyao smiles looks that Zhao Jie said. 叶荣耀笑笑地看着赵婕说道。 Made a solemn pledge of eternal love, it seems like oneself this nephew Nuzhen liked that continuous heavy rain very much. 都海誓山盟了,看来自己这个大外甥女真的很喜欢那个张霖雨了。