Hunan provincial capital. 湘省省城。 Some luxurious villa. 某豪华别墅。 child Lisha said: „Or we directly deliver the cash, making Grandmaster river want to buy anything to buy anything, this did not fear the ritual that delivers is not he likes.” 童丽莎道:“要不咱们直接送现金吧,让江大师想买什么就买什么,这样就不怕送的礼不是他喜欢的了。” Saying that Ke Baoqiang does not know whether to laugh or cry: „Mother, money is truly multipurpose, words that but gives money directly, was too vulgar, can deliver the material object to deliver the material object as far as possible good.” 柯宝强哭笑不得的说道:“妈,钱确实是万能的,但直接送钱的话,还是太俗了,能送实物还是尽量送实物的好。” Xia Yu responsibility proposed: „I thought that can give the thing that some can maintain the value, for example real estate store anything, this delivering must make a move, not custom like giving money.” 夏雨荷提议道:“我觉得可以送一些可以保值的东西,比如说房产商铺啥的,这种送得出手,又不会像送钱一样俗。” child Lisha hears in the eye one bright, saying of approval: „Rain responsibility this proposition is very good, our country from ancient to present, has not liked the real estate with the store, this also delivers has the face.” 童丽莎听得眼中一亮,赞同的说道:“雨荷这个提议很好,咱们国家从古至今,就没有不喜欢房产跟商铺的,这个送得也有面子。” Ke Baoqiang nods saying: „Ok, we deliver the store, this not only maintains the value, but can also have the income, this matter gives mother you to manage.” 柯宝强点头道:“行,那咱们就送商铺,这个不仅仅保值,还能产生收益,这事就交给妈你来办。” child Lisha said: „Since must deliver the store, that best delivers the same place city, such Grandmaster river manages well, I will go to the Guangxi province provincial capital to handle this matter tomorrow, must purchase the store that takes acts to give to Grandmaster river.” 童丽莎道:“既然要送商铺,那最好是送同一座城市的,这样江大师才好管理,那我明天就前往桂省省城办这个事,一定要购置一些拿得出手的商铺送给江大师。” Ke Baoqiang and Xia Yu he nod to reach an agreement. 柯宝强与夏雨荷都点头说好。 After setting the gifting plan, the following three people then discussed some details. 定下送礼方案后,接下来三人便讨论其中的一些细节问题。 ...... …… Tokyo. 日本东京。 At noon Yamomato teacher of 13 in three discusses the poetry culture of China in the office, finally is in three teacher is naturally slightly better, after all in three teacher had once compared notes with many famous experts, in addition the female natural advantage, naturally is not Yamomato 13 can compare in this aspect. 中午山本十三跟三上老师在办公室探讨中国的诗词文化,结果自然是三上老师稍胜一筹,毕竟三上老师曾跟不少名家切磋过,再加上女性的天然优势,在这方面自然不是山本十三能够比拟的。 However, Yamomato 13 can keep up in three reluctantly the rhythm of teacher, this is very good, in three teacher is at least satisfied. 不过,山本十三能勉强跟上三上老师的节奏,这已经很不错了,至少三上老师是满意的。 Discussed one hour of poetry culture, two people feel refreshing, long with three that in the person compares notes the teacher is not face glowing with health. 探讨了一个多小时的诗词文化,两人都感觉神清气爽,已经久不跟人切磋的三上老师更是容光焕发。 „In three teacher, I wants to lead you to go back with my parents in the evening to eat meal together, you introduced that knew to my parents, how doesn't know under your opinion?” “三上老师,晚上我想带你回去跟我父母一起吃顿饭,把你介绍给我父母认识,不知道你意下如何？” In three teacher blinks, saying of showing neither approval nor disapproval: „Yamomato Monarch, I do not have to prepare the present ahead of time, sees your parents' words is too disrespectful!” 三上老师眨了眨眼睛,不置可否的说道:“山本君,我没有提前准备礼品,去见你父母的话太失礼了！” Yamomato 13 said with a smile: „Gift on first meeting is very simple, in my office has many, you selected several to be good casually, the key was I wants you to introduce knew earlier to my parents, I now impatient wants to marry to go home you.” 山本十三笑着说道:“见面礼很简单,我办公室里就有不少,你随便挑几件就行了,关键是我想早点把你介绍给我父母认识,我现在已经迫不及待的想把你娶回家了。” After all had just compared notes the poetry culture together, in three teacher then amenable saying: „Good, if Yamomato Monarch you insists, I promise you.” 毕竟刚刚才一起切磋过诗词文化,三上老师便顺从的说道:“好吧,如果山本君你坚持的话,那我就答应你。” Yamomato 13 happy saying: „Thanks in three teacher, my gives my mother to telephone, making her be ready.” 山本十三高兴的说道:“谢谢三上老师,那我这就给我母亲打电话,让她做好准备。” In three teacher shows the tense small expression, very cute saying: „Quite anxious, does not know that your parents can like me?” 三上老师露出紧张的小表情,非常可爱的说道:“好紧张哦,不知道你父母会不会喜欢我？” Yamomato 13 said with a smile: „Relax in three teacher, my parents will certainly like your.” 山本十三笑道:“放心吧三上老师,我父母一定会喜欢你的。” In three teacher said: „Yamomato Monarch you told me your parents' situation, their interest anything told me.” 三上老师道:“那山本君你跟我说说你父母的情况,他们的兴趣爱好什么的都跟我说说。” „Does not have the issue, I first give my mother to telephone, was detailed to say with you.” “没问题,我先给我母亲打个电话,然后再详细跟你说说。” „Good.” “好的。” ...... …… Once some people had spoken such a few words: The world's most perfect life is „lives in the British house, eats the Chinese food, with the US wages, marries the Japanese woman”. 曾有人说过这样一句话:世界上最完美的人生是“住英国房子,吃中国食品,拿美国工资,娶日本女人”。 This saying also really said that has certain truth. 这话说得还真有一定的道理。 According to investigation, the social position of Japanese woman in the Asian minimum level. 据调查,日本女人的社会地位处于亚洲最低水平。 The Japanese women who have not worked before the husband go home must make the food, puts away the taking a bath water and stands in the entrance greets the husband, after saying you laboriously, delivered the slipper, received the coat and briefcase, then served the husband to eat meal, if the food did not meet one's taste to be scolded is certain. 没工作的日本女人在丈夫回家之前要把饭做好,放好洗澡水并站在门口迎接丈夫,道一声您辛苦了后,送上拖鞋,接过外衣及公文包,然后伺候丈夫吃饭,要是饭不合口味挨骂是一定的。 But has the Japanese woman of work also to prepare food, because the Japanese men do not go to the kitchen, preparing food to be late, but cannot be careless absolutely. 而有工作的日本女人也是要做饭的,因为日本男人根本不下厨房,做饭可以晚点,但绝对不能马虎。 No matter the Japanese women do have the work, they must deliver the husband to go to work in the morning, moreover must deliver to the entrance, and bowed saying that said goodbye. 日本女人不管有没有工作,她们早上都要送丈夫上班,而且一定要送到门口,并且鞠躬说一声再见。 Even if the husband has car(riage) unable to travel by vehicle, goes out wants to ride the public transportation. 即使丈夫有车自己也不能搭车,出门要自己坐公交车。 The Japanese love the clean, married Japanese women very much must clean the room every day, the vacuumming plastering, almost cannot see what dust, and they will dress up the family/home in attractive fine. 日本人很爱干净,已婚的日本女人每天都要打扫房间,吸尘抹灰,几乎看不出什么灰尘,并且她们会将家里打扮的漂亮精致。 Such virtuous obedient Japanese woman, asked that which man doesn't want to marry? 这样贤惠听话的日本女人,试问哪个男人不想娶啊？ Japan there is a saying „female three not to have family/home”, after namely the woman is born, its is parents. After growing up gets married, its is a husband. After the husband dies, its is a son. 日本有句话叫“女子三界无家”,即女人降生后,其家是父母的。长大出嫁后,其家是丈夫的。丈夫死后,其家是儿子的。 Therefore needs „obeys the father at home, marries to obey the husband, the husband obeys the son deadly”. 所以需“在家从父,既嫁从夫,夫死从子”。 This simply was the ancient China „woman three from” reprint, but China „did not like the fine feminine attire loving armed” and „woman to hold half the sky” the baptism, so-called „feudal evil legacy” has vanished not to have, instead Japan still remained much. 这简直就是是中国古代“妇女三从”的翻版,但中国经过一番“不爱红装爱武装”、“女人能顶半边天”的洗礼后,所谓“封建遗毒”已消失全无,反而日本仍残留了不少。 Li Shuixiu before marrying Japan, actually had also heard the Japanese female social position and home capacity are not high, but young she had also become confused the mind by the so-called love at that time, the vigorous opposition of not Mr. Gu mother, choice resolutely marries Japan. 李水秀在没有嫁到日本之前,其实也听说过日本女性的社会地位以及家庭地位不高,但当时还年轻的她已经被所谓的爱情冲昏了头脑,不顾父母的强烈反对,毅然决然的选择远嫁日本。 Remembered that time, was really air/Qi unbearably, her her parents chose to marry the foreigner, the ideological quite traditional parents are very not happy Japanese, she marries let alone, how did this make the parents be able to accept? 记得那个时候,真的把她父母气得够呛,本来她选择嫁给老外,思想比较传统的父母就已经很不高兴了,更何况她嫁的还是日本人,这让父母如何能够接受得了？ But Li Shuixiu as an only daughter, has grown up in the love of parents, her willful wish marries, the parents actually cannot block her. 可李水秀身为独生女,一直在父母的宠爱中长大,她任性的想要嫁,父母其实是拦不住她的。 Finally, stubborn her parents can only get angry to agree with this transnational wedding, but they said before her similar a few words, that is she will certainly regret. 最终,拗不过她的父母只能黑着脸同意了她这门跨国婚事,但他们都在她面前说了同样的一句话,那就是她一定会后悔的。 Where that time she heard this words, before the parents vowed solemnly directly said that she married right the person, will not regret absolutely. 只是那个时候的她哪里听得进这种话,直接在父母面前信誓旦旦的说她嫁对了人,绝对不会后悔。 However several years later today, Li Shuixiu sits on the rocking chair of balcony, stares at the setting sun of distant place, in the look is disclosing the endless confusedness and regret. 然而几年后的今天,李水秀坐在阳台的摇椅上,凝望着远处的夕阳,眼神中透露出无尽的迷茫和后悔。 Present she realized finally the parents advised initially is right, the culture and society of Japan are very different from her expectation. 现在的她终于意识到父母当初的劝告是对的,日本的文化和社会与她的期望相去甚远。 She has not thought that life after marriage so will be difficult, the husband not only has the androcentrism, has not looked after the household, after he gets off work , the first matter does not go home, but is goes to some taverns and izakaya slightly to think one cup, but also always drinks to drink late at night. 她没有想到婚后的生活会如此艰难,丈夫不仅仅有着大男子主义,还一点都不顾家,他下班后第一件事不是回家,而是去一些酒馆、居酒屋小酌一杯,还总是一喝就喝到深夜。 Therefore, she quarrelled with him has made, but his a few words stopped up her unable to speak, because in Japanese this rare and beautiful flowers country, if the man returned home from work on time, will be considered as the incompetent one performance. 为此,她跟他吵过闹过,但他一句话就堵得她说不出话来,因为在日本这个奇葩国家,如果男人下班准时回家,会被认为是无能的一种表现。 What can she also say? 她还能说啥？ Because the entire Japanese atmosphere is the same, the husband is in the dominant position in home, she is accepting various arrangements passively. 因为整个日本社会的风气都是一样的,丈夫在家中占据着主导地位,她则被动地接受着各种安排。 She longs for the independence, wants to pursue own dream at the enterprise, but actually discovered one role in family limit to the traditional housewife image. 她渴望独立,希望在事业上追求自己的梦想,但却发现自己在家庭中的角色局限于传统的家庭主妇形象。 Moreover Japan lacks helps the female mothering and work without hampering the other environment. 而且日本缺乏帮助女性育儿、工作两不误的环境。 In China, in family/home , if there is child, generally is helps raise by the family/home old person, the couple can feel relieved that the work of heart makes money. 在中国,家里如果有小孩,一般都是由家里的老人帮忙带大,夫妻俩可以放放心心的工作赚钱。 But in Japan, the parentage is quite peaceful thinly, after child birth, is raised by mother personally, grandmother, paternal grandmother and other elders little participate to nurture the grandchildren extremely. 但在日本,亲子关系比较澹薄,小孩出生后都是由母亲亲自带大的,姥姥、奶奶等长辈极少参与抚育孙辈。 From the traditional attachment to family and educational concept of Japan, after children marriage, was independent, all want to be solved, especially raises the child to do it yourself, the parents excessively will not intervene. 从日本的传统家庭观念和教育观念来说,子女结婚后就独立了,一切都要自己去解决,尤其养育孩子更要亲力亲为,父母是不会过多地干预的。 Therefore, her studying experience and professional ability were forced to throw after the brain, her forever the can complete housework and child's education occupied. 于是,她的求学经历和专业能力都被迫抛在了脑后,她被永远做不完的家务和孩子的教育所占据。 This is really not the life that she wants! 这真的不是她想要的生活啊！ The tears of lamentation spin in Li Shuixiu eye socket, she regretted that has not obeyed parents' advice, has not given careful consideration to own decision. 悔恨的泪水在李水秀的眼眶中打转,她后悔没有听从父母的劝告,没有慎重考虑自己的决定。 She thinks of the divorce more than once, but her self-respect does not allow her to do that. 她不止一次想到离婚,但她的自尊心又不允许她这么做。 After all initially she before the parents vowed solemnly said that she married right the man, will not regret absolutely, going back that but few years cooked on the divorce ash, even if the parents will not say her anything, she but who was always concerned about face-saving did not have the means to accept this result. 毕竟当初她在父母面前信誓旦旦的说她嫁对了男人,绝对不会后悔,可没几年就离婚灰熘熘的回去,哪怕父母不会说她什么,但一向爱面子的她也没办法接受这种结局。 Therefore, she is actually striving to support in the two years, accurate is that competitive frame of mind is supporting her. 因此,她这两年来其实都是在勉力撑着,准确来说就是那股不服输的心气在支撑着她。 But now, she really soon cannot support, because she discovered a pitiful matter, her husband went off track! Moreover is not in the near future, has gone off track! 可现在,她真的快要支撑不住了,因为她发现了一个可悲的事情,她的丈夫出轨了！而且不是近期,是早就已经出轨了！ This is actually not strange. 这其实一点都不奇怪。 According to the investigation showed, the offtracking rate/lead of Japanese woman Gundam/reaches as high as 49, basically half of females will go off track after marriage, 6 people had once had the thought of offtracking. 根据调查显示,日本女人的出轨率高达49,基本上有一半的女性在婚后都会出轨,还有六的人曾动过出轨的念头。 This data places China simply is inconceivable, but placed Japan to be normal. 这个数据放在中国简直是不可思议,但放在日本却是再正常不过了。 Thinks that even the women have such high offtracking rate/lead, let alone is the inborn lascivious man, the offtracking rate/lead is only high is not absolutely lower than the woman. 想想连女人都有这么高的出轨率,更何况是天生好色的男人呢,出轨率比女人绝对是只高不低。 After discovering the husband goes off track, Li Shuixiu lost heart about this marriage thoroughly, the thought of divorce is more and more intense, but two matters have not solved, makes her not go to carry out the divorce the matter. 在发现丈夫出轨后,李水秀对这桩婚姻就彻底死心了,离婚的念头是越来越强烈,只是还有两件事没有解决,才让她迟迟没有去落实离婚的事。 The first matter, is child's issue. 第一件事,是孩子的问题。 The child from the birth to the present, is her foot brings, this child she could not give absolutely, the divorce words must take away the child together. 孩子从出生到现在,是她一手一脚带出来的,这个孩子她是绝对割舍不下的,离婚的话就得把孩子一起带走。 The second matter, does not have the face countenance to the parents. 第二件事,就是无颜面对父母。 Initially she spoke fully the words, for these years she called to report the good news and not the bad the parents, this divorced suddenly, how should face the parents is also an issue. 当初她把话说得太满了,这几年来她跟父母打电话都是报喜不报忧,这突然离婚回去,该怎么面对父母也是个问题。 More thinks that heart within, more are agitated, Li Shuixiu was not at home to treat simply, planned to go out for a walk to relax, her husband will not come back in any case early. 越想心中越是烦躁,李水秀索性就不在家待着了,打算出去走走散散心,反正她那个丈夫也不会那么早回来。 ...... …… Some five-star hotel. 某五星级酒店。 Jiang Feng looked at the time, said to two bodyguards: „Ices the ice elder sister, the Chinese parasol tree elder sister, now the time, we do not go out to dine early, what today do you want to eat?” 江枫看了看时间,对两位保镖说道:“冰冰姐,梧桐姐,现在时间也不早了,咱们出去吃饭吧,今天你们想吃点什么？” Hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree said: „Boss you takes responsibility, you want to eat what us to eat anything.” 百里梧桐说道:“老板你作主吧,你想吃什么我们就吃什么。” Guo Bingbing nods saying: „We listen to the boss you.” 郭冰冰点头道:“我们听老板你的。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „The good food that we go out to stroll casually, having a look at Tokyo here to have us to have a liking for the special foods that or other look at the appetite.” 江枫笑道:“那咱们就出去随便逛一逛,看看东京这里有没有我们看得上的特色小吃或者其他看着有食欲的美食。” Hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree and Guo Bingbing naturally does not have the opinion. 百里梧桐与郭冰冰自然没有意见。 Therefore, three people then go out, aimless strolls. 于是,三人便出门,漫无目的的闲逛起来。 Walked probably for more than ten 20 minutes, the Jiang Feng three people saw a snack bar. 大概走了十几二十分钟,江枫三人看到了一家小吃店。 The name of snack bar writes shao, Jiang Feng is not understanding Japanese, but recognized a fever character, then asked: „Hundred li (0.5 km) elder sister, what this snack bar does is what snack?” 小吃店的名字写着焼,江枫不懂日文,只是认出了其中的一个烧字,便问道:“百里姐,这家小吃店做的是什么小吃？” He did not ask casually, his two bodyguards are the elites in army elite, may be called the versatile bodyguard, said language, hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree is proficient in English and Japanese, but Guo Bingbing is proficient in English and German. 他可不是随便问的,他的两位保镖乃是部队精英中的精英,是堪称全能的保镖,就说语言方面,百里梧桐便精通英语和日语,而郭冰冰则精通英语和德语。 Hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree had not replied with enough time, the side madam rushes to reply: „The snack that fellow villager, this snack bar makes is called the writing fever, is one of the Japanese very famous snacks.” 百里梧桐还没来得及回答,旁边就有一位女士抢着回答道:“老乡,这家小吃店做的小吃叫做文字烧,是日本非常有名的小吃之一。” This rushes to answer is not others, Li Shuixiu who the mood comes out to relax agitated. 这位抢着回话的不是别人,正是心情烦躁出来散心的李水秀。 Can run into the motherland compatriot in the foreign country, that is worth the happy matter, at this time Li Shuixiu felt in heart worried dispelled much. 在异国他乡能够遇到祖国同胞,那是值得高兴的事情,此时李水秀就感觉心中的烦闷都消解了不少。 Although the Chinese has about 1 million population in Japan, but this about 1 million people scatter in each region, so long as does not seek specially, is actually very difficult to run into a compatriot in the life. 尽管中国人在日本有将近百万人口,但这近百万人散落在各地,只要不是专门去寻找,在生活中其实很难遇到一个同胞的。 Even, even if met, if both sides did not speak Chinese, the light from the look, could not distinguish the opposite party is the Japanese or the Chinese compatriot. 甚至,就算是遇到了,如果双方不讲中国话,光从相貌上来看,也分辨不出对方是日本人还是中国同胞。 After all Japan and our country trace back to the origin, the two countries people like do not have the significant difference in appearance just like the westerner. 毕竟日本与我国渊源极深,两国人在长相方面不像跟西方人一样有着明显的区别。 Hears Li Shuixiu to open the mouth, Jiang Feng with both bodyguards knows that runs into the motherland compatriots, on the face showed the pleasantly surprised smile. 听到李水秀开口,江枫与两位保镖都知道是遇到祖国同胞了,脸上都不禁露出了惊喜的笑容。 Jiang Feng greeted immediately: „Elder sister hello/you good, I called Jiang Feng, the river of Yangtze River, the maple tree of maple leaf, from Gui Sheng, does not know how the elder sister did call?” 江枫当即打招呼道:“姐姐你好,我叫江枫,长江的江,枫叶的枫,来自桂省,不知道姐姐怎么称呼？” Li Shuixiu also greeted: „Jiang Feng hello/you good, my name was Li Shuixiu, the native place was the Guizhou province.” 李水秀也打招呼道:“江枫你好,我叫李水秀,老家是黔省的。” Then, hundred li (0.5 km) Chinese parasol tree and Guo Bingbing also greeted to introduce itself respectively. 接下来,百里梧桐与郭冰冰也各自打招呼介绍了自己。 After mutual smalltalk several, Jiang Feng proposed: „Sister Li, we meet in the foreign country rarely, together how might as well have a dinner?” 等互相客套了几句后,江枫才提议道:“李姐,咱们难得在异国他乡遇到,不如一起吃个晚饭怎么样？” Li Shuixiu nods saying: „I just want to say that, I could also be half host here, today runs into the fellow villager rarely, must ask you to eat meal performs the duties of a host.” 李水秀点头道:“我正想说呢,我在这里也算得上是半个东道主了,今天难得遇到老乡,必须得请你们吃顿饭一尽地主之谊。” Jiang Feng asked: „Sister Li immigrates here along with the family member, marries here?” 江枫问道:“李姐是随家人移民到这里的,还是嫁到这里的？” Li Shuixiu said: „I marry here, what Jiang Feng do you want to eat? The Chinese meal you often eat internally, here I do not recommend, might as well taste the local good food?” 李水秀道:“我是嫁到这里的,江枫你们想吃点什么？中餐你们在国内经常吃,在这里我就不推荐了,不如就尝尝本地美食？” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Ok, we also a time come to Tokyo rarely, over the two days also tasted many local good food, the flavor really had its originality, that asked Sister Li you to take responsibility!” 江枫笑道:“行啊,我们也是难得来一次东京,这两天也尝了不少本地美食,味道确实有其独到之处,那就请李姐你作主吧！” Li Shuixiu nods, said: „Good, I know that nearby has a shop to be good . Moreover the price is also materially beneficial, how do we eat to there?” 李水秀点了点头,说道:“那好吧,我知道附近有一家店不错,而且价格也实惠,咱们就到那里吃怎么样？” „Does not have the issue, this writing fever seems like good, does not know that shop that does have this snack? If no, I planned that buys one to taste foods newly in season.” “没问题,这文字烧看起来似乎不错,不知道去的那家店有没有这道小吃？如果没有的话,我打算买一份尝尝鲜。” „Relax, that shop has this snack.” “放心吧,那家店有这道小吃。” „That troubled Sister Li you to guide!” “那就麻烦李姐你带路了！” „It is not troublesome, please come with me!” “不麻烦,请跟我来！”