„Aunt Liang, you...... What do you mean? Icannot understand.”
“梁姨,您……您这是什么意思?我听不懂。”Calm down! Calm down! Su Linwas personally informingat heartsues itself, mustcalm down, the appearance that pretended unable to understand, asked back that Mother YeLiang Guizhusaid.
沉住气!沉住气!苏林在心里面告诉自己,一定要沉住气来,装作听不懂的样子,反问叶母梁桂珠道。„Whatmeaning? Little Lin, do not playanymindwithyourAunt Liang. Holdsis installingclearlymuddled? Thought that Aunt Liangis goodto deceive?”
“什么意思?小林,可不要和你梁姨玩什么心眼。揣着明白装糊涂是不是?觉得梁姨好糊弄么?”Liang Guizhudoes not get angryinsteadsmiles, partlydependson the sofa, raises head, looks atSu Lin, „justinyour family, Aunt Lianghad scruplesyourface, has not saidthismatterwithyour fathermother. Nowheredoes not haveotherpeople, Little Lin, youandyourElder Sister Zhuthatmatter, thinksreallyAunt LiangIdon't know?”梁桂珠不怒反笑,半靠在沙发上,仰着头,看着苏林,“刚刚在你家的时候,梁姨顾忌你的面子,没有和你爸妈说这事儿。现在这里也没有其他人了,小林,你和你竹姐姐的那点事情,难道真的以为梁姨我不知道么?”„Yes! Aunt Liang, yousaidright. I was Elder Sister Zhuhadrelations. But, IlikeElder Sister Zhu , is also the sinceritywantsto look afterElder Sister Zhufor a lifetime.”
“是!梁姨,你说的没错。我是和竹姐姐有了关系。可是,我是真的喜欢竹姐姐的,也是真心想要照顾竹姐姐一辈子的。”Really! Mother Yeisanythingknows that Su Lin the heartwas immediately cool, butwas also steadfast, Mother Yeanythingknewin any case, do not haveanythingto be goodto cover up. Raising one's headis a blade, necking in is also a blade, might as wellacknowledgedbroadly and level.
果然!叶母是什么都知道的,苏林顿时心就凉了,不过也踏实了,反正叶母什么都知道了,那自己也没什么好遮遮掩掩的。伸头是一刀,缩头也是一刀,还不如坦坦荡荡承认了。„Looks afterXingzhufor a lifetime?”
“照顾星竹一辈子?”Mother Yestands upfrom the sofa, „Little Lin, younowarehalfbigchild, oneselfalsoneed the personto look, wherecanlook afterourfamily/homeXingzhu?”叶母从沙发上站起身来,“小林,你现在自己都还是个半大的孩子,自己都还需要人照顾,哪里能够照顾我们家星竹?”Mother Yesaidactuallyalsoright, the sister and brotherlove are also in the middle of the traditional culturecomparebyfemaleFang Family are repelled, althoughthere arefemalein a big waythreeto hold the gold brick the view, butthatiscompared tomaleFang Family, was taken an oldwifebyownson, the goalwantsto letitbetterattendanceownson.叶母说的其实也没错,姐弟恋也算是传统文化当中比较被女方家里排斥的,虽然有女大三抱金砖的说法,可是那是相对于男方家里来说的,让自己儿子取一个年长的媳妇,目的就是想让其更好的照顾自己的儿子。But the women in Chinagenerallyare„unclecontrol”, likes the oldmatureuncle, thinks that thishas the security sense, the opposite party can also understandownthismakes the personponder over the airtightfemalewill of the people. The phenomenon that in addition the oldmatureuncle'ssuperiorityinmoneyeconomy, causesdomesticold manfewwiveswas quite common.
而中国的女性普遍都是“大叔控”,喜欢比自己年长的成熟大叔,认为这样更加有安全感,对方也更能明白自己这让人琢磨不透的女人心。加上年龄大的成熟大叔在金钱经济上的优势,就使得国内老夫少妻的现象比较普遍了。HoweverSu Lindid not thinknowoneselfwere a child, heunderstandsresponsibilityandduty that ononeselfshouldered, hemustgrow, hewas mature. Mustgoto shouldertheseresponsibilityearnestly.
但是苏林现在可不觉得自己是孩子了,他明白自己身上承担的责任和义务,他要成长,他要成熟。就要去认真地肩负起这些责任来。RegardingYe Xingzhu, Su Linis bounden, rubbedoneto standfrom the sofa, vowed solemnly that saidtoMother Ye: „Aunt Liang, no matteryoubelievewithdo not believe. Ipledged that Iwill certainly look aftergoodElder Sister Zhu, givesherandyouhappystablelife.”
对于叶星竹,苏林是义不容辞的,蹭地一下就从沙发上站了起来,信誓旦旦地对叶母道:“梁姨,不管你信与不信。我发誓我一定会照顾好竹姐姐的,给她和您幸福稳定的生活。”„Little Lin, are yousoreally definite?”
“小林,你真的这么确定么?”Looks at a Su Linfacesincereexpression. Mother Yesomewhatwas also touched, fewToshiro'ssentimentsaresuchsincere, withoutsocialimpurity, but the realityis the reality, neverwill be the happyworld in youngsterdream.
看着苏林一脸真挚的表情。叶母也有些被触动了,少年郎的感情就是这么真挚,没有一点社会杂质,不过现实就是现实,永远不是少年梦里的美好世界。„JustIalsohad testedyour fathermotherinyour family, Little Lin. Iaskedyou, ifyour fathermotherdid not likeXingzhu, is not willingto letXingzhu, whenyourSu Familydaughter-in-law, what to doyoucan?”
“刚刚我在你家也试探过你爸妈了,小林。我问你,如果你爸妈不喜欢星竹,不愿意让星竹当你们苏家的儿媳妇,你会怎么办?”Liang Guizhuis a mother, shehas tobe discreteforoneselfdaughter'sfutureplans carefully, the malefeared that into the wrongline, the femalefearedmarries the wrongcourt attendant. Issuch a truth.梁桂珠是一个母亲,她不得不为自己女儿的未来谨慎得精打细算,男怕入错行,女怕嫁错郎。就是这么一个道理。Naturally, Liang Guizhu is also a woman, shecan lookto the change of Su Lin from oneselfdaughterYe Xingzhu, Ye Xingzhufell to the enemythoroughlyinSu Linthismire. Anynormalwoman, is the specialsentiment, inherheart can only hold a boyfriend. Can will of the peopleonlyonefist, whereholdmoreemotions?
当然,梁桂珠也是一个女人,她从自己女儿叶星竹对苏林的变化当中看得出来,叶星竹已经彻底沦陷在了苏林这个泥潭里。任何一个正常的女人,都是专情的,她的心里面只能够容纳一个情郎。人心只一拳,哪里容得下更多的情感?Therefore, when a womanplaces a body of manallthoughts. Liang Guizhuknows how to persuadealsouseless.
所以,当一个女人把所有的心思都放在一个男人的身上时。梁桂珠知道,是怎么劝服也没有用的。TodayinterrogatesSu Linatthis timespecially, Liang Guizhu is looking actually also for an answer, shewantsto have a look atthisfrom childhoodto look at the baby of growing up, isonehas the man of acting.
今天特意在这种时候质问苏林,梁桂珠其实也是在寻找一个答案,她想要看看这个自己从小看着长大的小娃娃,到底是不是一个有担当的男人。„Aunt Liang, why will my parentsoppose? Youalsosaw, my motherlikesElder Sister Zhu. My fatheropposesalsojustbecause ofmyyoung. It is not suitabletooearlyto discussthesethings. Aunt Liang, yourworryIunderstand. Iamyoulookto grow up, IandElder Sister Zhu are also severalyears of sentiment, youthought. Will Imaketo injure the Elder Sister Zhumatterto come? Will mygiving upmakeElder Sister Zhusad, makingElder Sister Zhuunhappy? No! Aunt Liang, Elder Sister Zhuismywoman. Iloveher, shealsolovesme. Imustwithherin the same place, everyonenot have the meansto prevent. ItoherIcanall, makingherhappy, looks atherhappysmiling, isIbiggesthappiness.”
“梁姨,我爸妈为什么会反对呢?您也看到了,我妈是十分喜欢竹姐姐的。我爸反对也只不过是因为我的年纪还小。不适合太早谈这些东西。梁姨,您的担心我都懂。我是您看着长大的,我和竹姐姐也是十几年的感情,您觉得。我会做出伤害竹姐姐的事情来么?我会舍得让竹姐姐伤心,让竹姐姐不幸福么?不!梁姨,竹姐姐是我的女人。我爱她,她也爱我。那我就要和她在一起,谁也没有办法阻止。我会给她我可以给的所有,让她幸福,看着她开心的笑着,就是我最大的幸福。”Areheart-to-heart talk, Su Linwelcomes the Mother Yevisionto look straight ahead, hedid not fear that the question of Mother Yeanddoes not believe that histhinksin any caseat heart, will besuchwill do. Elder Sister Zhuishiswoman, without a doubt, Su Linwithownall, even if the life, protectsandprotectsElder Sister Zhu.
句句都是肺腑之言,苏林迎着叶母的目光就直视回去,他不怕叶母的质疑和不相信,反正他的心里就是这么想的,也是会这么去做的。竹姐姐已经是他的女人,毋庸置疑的,苏林会用自己的一切,哪怕是生命,去保护和呵护竹姐姐。„Little Lin, you......”
“小林,你……”At this time, Ye Xingzhuheldonebunch of clothesto walkfrom mother Liang Guizhuroom, happen toalsoheardSu Linjust the sincerewords, heartinsidewarmlyfeeling of care, thiswasYe Xingzhuis unprecedented. A person, cannotletherheartsuchwarm, happinessso.
这个时候,叶星竹抱着一堆衣服从母亲梁桂珠的房间里走了出来,正好也听到了苏林刚刚真挚的话语,心里面一股暖洋洋被人关心爱护的感觉,这是叶星竹前所未有的。从来都没有一个人,能够让她的心这么地暖,这般的幸福。„Elder Sister Zhu!”
“竹姐姐!”Su Linhas turned the head, discovered that Ye Xingzhudoes not knowwhenstoodinown, saw that Ye Xingzhumoved the tearsin the appearance that in the eye socketspun, loved dearlyandfeels attached, ifbecause ofMother Ye, Su Linreallydoes not wantto go forwardhere, cherished one's relativeskisseson the Ye Xingzhuforehead, toldherone, allhad themselves, allwinds and rainsandwere undertakenbyoneselfunfortunately.苏林转过头去,才发现叶星竹不知道什么时候站在了自己的身后,看到叶星竹感动得泪水在眼眶里打转的样子,是又心疼又爱怜,如果不是因为叶母在这里的话,苏林真想上前去,亲亲地亲吻在叶星竹的额头上,告诉她一句,一切都有自己在,所有的风雨和不幸都由自己去承担。„Mother! You...... How can youspeakthesewordswithLittle Lin?”
“妈!你……你怎么能和小林说这些话?”
Before Ye Xingzhualsoheard, motherto the interrogation of Su Lin, reply that althoughjoyfulwas just from the heartinSu Lin, butalsoblamedownmotherto bringtoomanypressurestoSu Lin.叶星竹也听到了之前自己母亲对苏林的质问,虽然欣喜于苏林刚刚发自内心的回答,可是也责怪自己的母亲给苏林施加了太多的压力。„Can't thesewordsmotherssay? Youweremother'sdaughter, mothersaythese, has not thought ofyou. Ai! Reallywas the daughterbigis notown, the daughter of marryingseriouslywas the water that sprinkled, ok! No matter mother alsoyou, youdid lovehowwhat kind of?”
“这些话妈怎么就不能说了?你是妈的女儿,妈说这些,还不都是为你着想。哎!真的是女儿大了就不是自己的,嫁出去的女儿当真就是那泼出去的水,算了!妈也不管你们了,你们爱怎么样怎么样吧?”On the mouthsaid that does not manage, actuallyin the Mother Yeheart was actually secretlynodstoSu Linjustperformance. Su Linhas not evaded the issue, has not been equivocal, does not have a dayto collapse the appearance of fear, butsaid the idea of innermost feelingsbravely, has givenowncommitment, thisisin the Mother Yeheartthinks that has the acting and sense of responsibilityman.
嘴上说是不管了,其实叶母心里面却是对苏林刚刚的表现暗暗点头了。苏林没有逃避问题,也没有闪烁其词,更没有一副天塌下来害怕的样子,而是勇敢地说出了内心的想法,给出了自己的承诺,这才是叶母心中认为一个有担当和责任感的男人。
A manpooranything, mosthas not feareddoes not have the spirit and sense of responsibility. Similar to virtuous of woman is the same, the sense of responsibility of man is also onetypeinherenton the propermoral excellence. Without the man of sense of responsibility, isthreecharacters„is not reasonable”. Asked that in the worldwhichmother, daresto feel relieved that gives not a reasonablemanowndaughter?( To be continued...)
一个男人穷没什么,最怕的就是没有志气和责任感。如同女人的贤惠一样,男人的责任感也是一种与生俱来就应有的美德。没有责任感的男人,就是三个字“不靠谱”。试问天底下哪一个母亲,敢放心把自己的女儿交给一个不靠谱的男人呢?(未完待续。。。)
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