What kind of change no matter Jiang Pengji brings to this time, this change also needs the time fermentation to spread, 甭管姜芃姬给这个时代带来怎样的改变,这种改变也需要时间发酵蔓延, When day after day is long, the new thought can replace the people usual old thought slowly. 时日渐长,新思想才能慢慢取代人们惯有的旧思维。 It takes ten several years and even dozens years can erupt, currently the old thought is in the dominant position. 它需要十数年乃至数十年才能爆发出来,目前还是旧思维占据主导地位。 In the people inherent old thought that the man is in charge in the office, makes money to treat with courtesy, the woman is in charge at home, maintains the family, to take care of the child, to care for the parents. 在人们固有旧思维中,男人主外,赚钱应酬,女人主内,维持家庭、照顾孩子、奉养父母。 It seems like the division of labor to be clear, limited the active area and vision of woman actually, lets „treatment of women as inferiors” the thought is more deep-rooted. 看似分工明确,实则限制了女人的活动区域和眼界,让“男尊女卑”的思想更加根深蒂固。 Even if the family background prominent hereditary scholar class expensive/noble female, the life focal point cannot leave the inner apartments, husband, elder and child. 哪怕出身显赫的士族贵女,生活重心也离不开内宅、丈夫、长辈和孩子。 Besides these projects, so-called „madame diplomacy”, the women of quality must help the husband develop the consolidated personal connection in the foreign activity. 除了这些项目,还有所谓的“夫人外交”,贵妇们要帮助丈夫在对外活动中拓展巩固人脉。 Before the pill state rises, under Jiang Pengji the tent/account the numerous feudal official numbers are not many, the single dog and Dean Croats accounted for half. 丸州崛起之前,姜芃姬帐下众臣数量不多,其中单身狗和丁克族占了一半。 After the pill state rises, gold/metal Linge attracted lots of intermediate-level talents for Jiang Pengji, they mostly are married people of getting married. 丸州崛起之后,金鳞阁为姜芃姬吸纳了大量中层人才,他们大多都是成了婚的已婚人士。 The husband went to war or the governance provincial economy by the external assignment, the madames then stays in the pill state. 丈夫被外派打仗或者治理地方经济,夫人们便留在丸州。 The date and time is long, they also thought that the day was somewhat agitated, starts to take a walk gradually mutually. 时日一长,她们也觉得日子有些烦躁了,渐渐开始互相走动。 The best friends of these madames encircle the size to depend on the husband in the position and relations of government, the respective husband relates. 这些夫人的闺蜜圈大小取决于丈夫在官场的地位和关系,各自的丈夫关系好。 The friendship of madames is also good, husband's position is high, the best friend of madames encircles in a big way. 夫人们的交情也好,丈夫的地位高,夫人们的闺蜜圈就大。 Even if were not good before, the four seasons and eight solar terms will also increase the communication, the nature was in the course of contacts familiar. 哪怕之前不好,四时八节也会增加来往,一来二去自然熟悉了。 Before Jiang Pengji attacks yellow is lofty, fellow madames then start to take a walk, when she went to war, each tea party all flowers blooms together. 姜芃姬攻打黄嵩之前,各位夫人便开始走动了,等她打完仗回来,各个茶话会百花齐放。 The tea party is fellow madames demonstrated „diplomatic means” the battlefield, which relations must hit, which relates to want feel alienated, they have an account. The wife's of Han yu family background highest woman of quality among them, the bossed around method is also in them is naturally highest. 茶话会是各位夫人展示“外交手段”的战场,哪家关系要打好,哪家关系要疏离,她们心里都有本账。韩彧的夫人作为她们中间出身最高的贵妇,笼络的手段自然也是她们中最高的。 Although cannot take a liking to these family background poor women at heart, shutting out them is vulgar, in the surface actually displays to be watertight. 尽管心里瞧不上这些出身寒酸的女人,嫌弃她们粗鄙愚蠢,面上却表现得滴水不漏。 The tea party that she makes is also the entire pill state women of quality encircles best thoroughly, various madame which don't envy? 她弄的茶话会也是整个丸州贵妇圈最好最周到的,各家夫人哪个不羡慕？ The bystanders do not know that she and Han the conjugal relation of yu to the freezing point, will look at her to live fine gracefully, naturally can envy their couple couples affectionate, may be called the model. Han madame enjoys the feeling of this stars surrounding the moon, making her have to plant to return to the past feeling. 外人也不知道她和韩彧的夫妻关系将至冰点,瞧她生活得精致优雅,自然会羡慕他们夫妻伉俪情深,堪称楷模。韩夫人享受这种众星拱月的感觉,让她有种回到过去的感觉。 Wants in the Zhejiang county, her tea party to be „contact did not have commoner” initially, the position low and low birth wife receives her invitation the qualifications not to have continually. Now she actually must endure one crowd of levels irregularly, no quality self-control woman attended her tea party. 想当初在浙郡,她的茶话会也是“往来无白丁”,地位低、出身低贱的夫人连收到她请柬的资格都没有。如今她却要忍受一群水平参差不齐,没什么素质涵养的妇人参加她的茶话会。 The rough woman who this, this crowd can only drink like a fish also likes complaining at the tea party own husband, told oneself misery. 这也罢了,这群只会牛饮的粗糙妇人还喜欢在茶话会埋怨自家丈夫,诉说自己的苦难。 As Jiang Pengji more walks is higher, their sufferings were more. 随着姜芃姬越走越高,她们的苦水更多了。 The husband official career was developed, position when production costs rise, prices rise too, almost each household backyard emitted 1-2 looks extremely good concubines. 丈夫仕途发达了,地位水涨船高了,几乎各家各户后院都冒出1-2容色极佳的美妾。 The concubine threatens their main wife position, but also some concubines had the pregnancy, almost must stand in their head excrement urinates. 美妾威胁她们的正室地位,还有的美妾有了身孕,几乎要站在她们头上屙屎撒尿了。 Wife as if found the common interest, chatted endlessly, Madame Han detested. 诸位夫人仿佛找到了共同话题,聊起来就没完没了,韩夫人内心嫌恶得不行。 So vulgar woman, no wonder shut out by the husband old, which man will like without the connotation the yellow-faced old woman of hooligan? 如此粗鄙的女人,难怪年老色衰被丈夫嫌弃,哪个男人会喜欢毫无内涵又泼皮的黄脸婆？ „Last night that little wench spoke frankly the belly to hurt, clearly was gluttonous eats mistakenly the thing, urged the person, being unjust was I must start to her child- my such mapping what? However is an not being able to amount to something concubine, really worked as itself individual.” “昨夜那个小蹄子直说肚子疼,分明是自己贪嘴吃错了东西,偏偏撺掇人,冤枉是我要对她孩子下手-我这么做图个什么？不过是个上不得台面的小妾罢了,真把自己当个人了。” On the mouth is saying caring, the kerchief in hand was actually twisted quickly by her, the eye socket is also red. 嘴上说着不在意,手中的帕子却快被她绞断了,眼眶也是红红的。 „This, lives in Changan Lane that miserably.” Another madame sighed, „mother-in-law is unhappy she, the husband also shut out her, looks at this stance to hold that concubine room high-rank, making her from reducing to the concubine, abdicates to give up one's post to a more qualified person- she is not willing, heard that also worked as the retinue young male servant in Man Residence to slap by mother -in-law, the fan results in the face to be swollen 35. Last night sound was too big, feared that was makes-” “这还算好的,住长安巷那位才是真的惨。”另一位夫人叹道,“婆婆不喜她,丈夫也嫌弃了她,瞧这架势是想扶那妾室上位,让她自贬为妾、退位让贤呢-她不肯,听说还被婆婆当着满府的仆从小厮掌掴了,扇得脸都肿了三五圈。昨夜的动静太大,怕是闹出去了-” These madame life are monotonous, to alleviate lonely, the tea party naturally is kills the time the good channel, they are the tea party patrons, each other was familiar. They one know who as one pleases Changan Lane that wife is, cannot help but sobbed extremely, in the mouth said continually pitifully. 这些夫人生活无聊,为了缓解寂寞,茶话会自然是打发时间的好渠道,她们都是茶话会常客,彼此都熟悉了。她们一听便知道长安巷那位夫人是谁,不由得唏嘘万分,口中连说可怜。 Han yu madame listened to ear Eight Trigrams (gossip), bore a grudge at heart. 韩彧夫人听了一耳朵八卦,心里更怄气了。 These stupid women do not know that what is „skeleton in closet cannot spread”? 这些蠢女人不知道什么叫“家丑不可外扬”？ Said the inner apartments scandal casually everywhere is, gets what one deserves is detested and rejected by the husband. 随随便便将内宅丑闻说得到处都是,活该被丈夫厌弃。 Han madame plans to drink tea to help get over a shock, only listens to the ear to broadcast a voice of strange female. 韩夫人打算喝口茶压压惊,只听耳边传来一个陌生女子的声音。 The sound oriole of opposite party like that is not clear, instead the unpolished rice of some men are hoarse, where has the least bit children child flavor? 对方的声音不似黄鹂那般清脆,反而有些男子的粗粝沙哑,哪有半点儿女子味道？ She said, „so the man, abandons it.” 她道,“如此男子,弃之也罢。” The wife who hears the sound goes following the prestige, sees only the corner to sit to dress up very simple woman, the attire is not bright. 听到声音的夫人循声望去,只见角落坐着个装扮很朴素的妇女,衣着也不鲜亮。 If not for sits at the session, others also think that is which wet nurse child who serves the person. 若不是坐在席间,旁人还以为是哪个伺候人的奶婆子。 „How to speak?” “怎么如此说话呢？” The females said, „spoke incorrectly? A breaking faith man, the favorite imperial concubine extinguished the wife not saying that whatever also the concubine room made the monster, making the family residence flood the evil influence crooked air/Qi everywhere, so the man, what great achievement can the life have? Abandoned would rather early, remarries to look to have the brain.” 女子道,“难道说错了？一个变了心的男人,宠妾灭妻不说,还任由妾室作妖,令家宅处处充斥着邪风歪气,这般男子,此生能有什么大作为？倒不如早早弃了,改嫁找个有脑子的。” The madames hear the complexion to be bashful. 众位夫人听得面色臊红。 They complained turn over to the complaint, has never thought and left. 她们抱怨归抱怨,从未想过和离啊。 Moreover, that is their husband, where wheel obtains a lesser official madame to make remarks? 另外,那是她们的丈夫,哪里轮得到一个小官夫人评头论足？ A humanity, „good dissolute vixen.” 一人道,“好放肆的泼妇。” „Just now finds this woman right foot to have the vigor.” Another sits in female wife coldly said, „one of the woman seven going are the foul disease, the madame spouts rhetoric with it here, disrupting others family residence is peaceful, tries to find the solution would rather, so as to avoid becomes gets out of class the woman.” “方才瞧见这位妇人右脚有疾。”另一个坐在女子身边的夫人冷冷道,“妇人七去之一为恶疾,夫人与其在这里大放厥词,扰乱旁人家宅安宁,倒不如去想想办法,免得成为下堂妇。” This also calculated the quite polite excuse, but also some people questioned the status of female directly. 这还算比较客气的说辞了,还有人直接质疑女子的身份。 Her dressing up really does not seem to have woman of quality who compels, whose wife even if, it is estimated that is also a lesser official. 她的装扮实在不像是个有逼格的贵妇,哪怕是谁的夫人,估计也是个小官的。 Is wife where of lesser official qualified for participating in this level the tea party? 小官的夫人哪有资格参加这种层次的茶话会？ Although Han Yu wife personality comparison does, but her memory and ability in the woman of quality are very outstanding. 尽管韩彧的夫人性格比较作,但她的记性和能力在贵妇中还是很出众的。 Even if came more than hundred guests, she can shout the status of opposite party accurately, hot wrap/sets daily family activity. 哪怕来了百多客人,她都能准确喊出对方的身份,热乎套家常。 The invitation of tea party is she assigns/life the person to prepare, naturally cannot happen to invite the unknown lesser official madame. 茶话会的请柬都是她命人准备的,自然不会发生邀请名不见经传的小官夫人。 She looks at the female carefully, is trying the invitation that the opposite party and sends out to number. 她仔细瞧了瞧女子,试着将对方和发出去的请柬对上号。 The tea party of Han madame is the pill state women of quality encircles most famous, she was Han Yu wife, the invitation naturally cannot leak wind beautiful jade and the others the female family members. Did to many female family members to turn down, had the female of reply is only the standard third branch school Wei's wife...... is then difficult to be inadequate...... 韩夫人的茶话会是丸州贵妇圈名声最大的,她还是韩彧的夫人,请柬自然不能漏了风瑾等人的女眷。奈何不少女眷都婉拒了,唯一有回复的女子便是典寅校尉的夫人……难不成…… Does not wait for Han madame to make noise to mediate, the wife of standard third branch does not get angry instead smiles, being nitpicking on words clear said/tunnel, „this not Lao Zhuwei was worried, in the family/home has not always gotten out of class the woman, only then gets out of class the husband. If he has the disloyal action, naturally must reporting your majesty, order and leave.” 不等韩夫人出声打圆场,典寅的夫人不怒反笑,咬字清晰地道,“这就不劳诸位担心了,家中历来没有下堂妇,只有下堂夫。倘若他有不忠之举,自然要上奏主公,下令和离的。” Wife also wants to smile. 诸位夫人还想笑。 What gets out of class the husband, what word is this? 什么下堂夫,这是个什么词？