Becauseoneselfaffected the Li Fenlife path, Li Muhas the intensesense of responsibilitytoherat heart, Li Fenis only18 years old, Li Muhopes that shecango out of the rural area, goes to the openvision, to gainsomeexperiencestooutside, is impossibleto makehergo outto worklaboriously, thereforegoes to schoolis the presentbestchoice.
因为自己影响了李芬的人生轨迹,李牧心里对她有强烈的责任感,李芬才十八岁,李牧希望她能够走出农村,到外面去开阔一下眼界、增长一些见识,不可能让她出去辛苦打工,所以上学是眼下最好的选择。Although the privateuniversitysignificanceis notverybig, but the keyis the thresholdis low, canmakeherrealize the pleasure of universitylife, ifstudiesinYanjingorShanghaithisbigcity, toshe is also a promotion.
虽说民办大学的意义不是很大,但关键是门槛低,又能让她体会到大学生活的乐趣,而且如果是在燕京或者沪市这种大城市读书的话,对她自身也是一种提升。Moreover, privateuniversitydoes not have no merit to speak , the good and evilisuniversity, the althoughcountryonstrictdoes not recognize the so-calleddiploma of voluntary school, buttrulygoes to the enterpriseto respond, privateuniversitygraduates, graduates the high schoolis much easier-to-use.
而且,民办大学也并非一无是处,好歹也是大学,虽然国家严格上不承认民办学校的所谓文凭,但真正去企业应聘的时候,民办大学毕业,比高中毕业要好用得多。With the work experience of Li Mu's past life, the privateuniversitystudent'sproportionin the work place is actually very big, after allevery year1 millionlevels of privateuniversitylive the graduationto enter the society, butmost peoplecanfind the work, withLi Fen, ifshelooks forprivateuniversityto have a quitecrediblespecialty, howgraduating the laterwork statusgo to the southfactoryto workdirectlyis much stronger.
以李牧上辈子的工作经验,民办大学的学生在职场中其实占比很大,毕竟每年有百万级的民办大学生毕业步入社会,而这其中大部分人都能找到工作,就拿李芬来说,如果她找一所民办大学读个比较靠谱的专业,毕业之后就业状况怎么都要比直接去南方工厂打工要强得多。Moreover, like the hotel managementandtravelingspecializedthisspecializationquitestrongdomain, the requestto the school recordis ambiguous, so long as the job suited to one's special training is very easyto look for the work, let alone, Li Mucareer in packsnow the relaxedtenhundreds of millionsestimate values, the 3-4yearlaterwill developwhatsituationnot to dareto imagine, when the time comesarranged a dignifiedworktoLi Fen is really relaxed, howmadeherkeepbeing better that the rural areagot marriedprematurely.
而且,像酒店管理、旅游专业这种专业性比较强的领域,对学历的要求非常含糊,只要专业对口就很容易找工作,更何况,李牧现在手里的事业打个包轻松十几亿估值,三四年之后会发展到何种地步更是不敢想象,到时候给李芬安排一个体面的工作实在是太轻松了,怎么都比让她留在农村过早嫁人来的要好。Li Mu's past lifehas workedcompany, the staffwill be divided intothreedifferentfactionson the whole, oneis the academic tyrantfaction of highdiploma, thesepeopleeitherare the domesticfirst-classuniversitymasteranddoctor, eitherisoverseasmBossAcompletes studyto return, thisgroup of peoplemostreceive the companyto think highly , the commoncorepost and leadership managementpostisthisgroup of people are wresting away.李牧上辈子工作过的公司,员工大体上会分为三个不同的派系,一个是高文凭的学霸派,这些人要么是国内一流大学的硕士、博士,要么是海外mba学成归来,这帮人最受公司器重,一般的核心岗位和领导管理岗位都是这帮人在霸占。OnetypelikeLi Muthis, the domesticordinaryundergraduate coursegraduates, has not read the research, the school recorddoes not takeacts, butbasicallycan the haltingheelonownpost, butwantsto crawlagainupward, that is really difficultsuch asto ascend to heaven, technicalpost that particularlyLi Muis engaged, thereforebasicallyisfor several years, stableactuallynottoobigfuture.
还有一种就像李牧这样,国内普通本科毕业,没读研,学历不怎么拿得出手,不过基本都能在自己的岗位上站住脚跟,但是想再往上爬,那真是难如登天,尤其是李牧从事的技术岗位,所以基本上是多年如一日,稳定却没太大前途。Inhavingonetype, is the facultyorprivateuniversitygraduates, the school recordgold contentis low, is engaged in the postalsocomparing the deviationsupportor the sale, thiskind of personalthoughQidian (Beginning)is slightly lower than others, the postthreshold that becauseis engaged is not high, works hardhas the opportunityto make a result.
在有一种,就是专科或者民办大学毕业,学历含金量低,从事岗位也比较偏向支撑或者销售,这一类人虽然起点比其他人略低一些,但因为从事的岗位门槛不高,努力工作还是有机会做出一番成绩的。ToLi Fen, listens to the matter that Li Mumentionedgoes to school, somewhatyearnedat heart,sheknowsownthiscousinabilitywas not very ordinary, went outto go to schoolforoneself, to himshouldnot bewhatdifficult matter.
对李芬来说,听李牧说起上学的事情,心里也有些向往,她知道自己这个堂哥能力很不一般,供自己出去上学,对他来说应该不算什么难事。However, thinksgoes to school for a year at leastalsoto take10.000 Yuanexpenses, Li Fensomewhatto back down, after allthismoneyto her, isastronomical figures, even if nothingtoLi Mu, butto her was still a hugepsychological burden.
不过,一想到出去上学一年至少也要一万块钱的开销,李芬又有些打退堂鼓,毕竟这钱对她来说,是一个天文数字,即便对李牧来说算不了什么,但对她来说仍是一个巨大的心理负担。Li MuseesORIJEN (long for) of herlookdeep placewithyearning, the rackethershoulder, said: „Decided, Iwentto saywithyour fathermotherlater, the marriagedoes not tie, firstspentto giveyouto make the high schooldiploma, the 7-8monthyouchoosesprivateuniversity that were interested, Ihelpedyouhandleotherthings, in September, youwent to the schoolregistrationdirectly.”李牧看出她眼神深处的渴望与向往,拍拍她的肩膀,说:“就这么定了吧,我待会去跟你爸妈说,婚不结了,先花点钱给你弄个高中毕业证,七八月份你选个自己感兴趣的民办大学,我帮你处理好其他的事情,等到九月份,你就直接去学校报到。”Afterward, Li Musupplementsone: „Does not wantto get marriedearly, going outto go to schoolis the bestsolution.”
随后,李牧又补充一句:“不想这么早结婚,出去上学是最好的解决办法了。”Li Fengratefullooks atLi Mu, nodsgently, sheis not really willingthisto get marriedearly, at present the cousintooneselfsuggestion, trulywas, bestto choose, went outto go to school, experiences the matter that mostcontemporaries who canthinkexperienced, tooneself, nothingwas better than this.李芬感激的看着李牧,轻轻点了点头,她确实不愿意就这样早早嫁人,眼下堂哥给自己的建议,确实是自己能够想到的、最好的选择了,出去上学、去体验大多数同龄人所经历的事情,对自己来说,没什么比这再好了。ButsomeLi Fenalsooneselfworries, shesaid: „Qi Familyis very famousin the town/subdues, in the family/home the relationsare also strong, Qi Daiyongis the playboys who in the town/subduesbecome famous, Ifeared after reneging on a promise, theywill look forfamily'strouble.”
可李芬也有自己的担心,她说:“齐家在镇上很有名,家里关系也硬,齐大勇更是镇上出了名的纨绔子弟,我怕反悔之后他们会找家里的麻烦。”Li Mugaveher a comfortlook, said: „Relax, hasme, theycannot playto spend.”李牧给了她一个安慰的眼神,道:“放心,有我呢,他们玩不出花来。”
A rural enterprisefamily, several millionnet worth are very perhaps fiercein the town/subdues, butplacesin the Haizhouboundary, includingis not, the Li Muworthistheir over hundredtimes, ifreallydaresto look for trouble, draws cashto pound can also poundto fall face downthem.
一个乡镇企业家族而已,几百万的身家在镇上或许真的很厉害,但放在海州地界内,连个屁都算不上,李牧身价是他们的百倍以上,真要是敢找麻烦,拿钱砸也能把他们砸趴下。BringsLi Fento return to the dining table, Li Muis in front offamilyperson, saidownsolution: ConsultedwithQi Family, the engagementbecame invalid, this/shouldmoneyto retreat of drawing backwent back, this/shouldapologyalsoapologizedtoothers, after allwas the Li Familypersonunilaterallydestroys the agreement, firstsolved the matterwith the Qi Familypersonclearly, thenwaitingyearlaterbegan school, looked for a high schooltoLi Fen, read the highthreesecond halfsemestersdirectly, nowhas entered for this year'scollege entrance examinationwithout enough time, thereforedid not participatesimply, after attaining a high schooldiploma, chose a privateuniversityregistrationdirectly, waitedto begin schoolon the pastreported.
带着李芬回到饭桌上,李牧当着一大家子人的面,说出了自己的解决办法:跟齐家协商,婚约作废,该退的钱退回去,该道歉的也得给人家道歉,毕竟是李家人单方面破坏约定,先跟齐家人把事情解决清楚,然后等年后开学,给李芬找一个高中,直接念高三下半学期,现在已经来不及报名参加今年的高考了,所以索性就不参加,拿到一个高中毕业证之后,直接选一所民办大学报名,等开学就过去报道。Li Mu'sproposed that makesbigtable of relativesdumbfounded, theyhave not thoughtletsdiscontinue studies more than oneyear of Li Fento return to the schoolto attend classagain, no onehas thought that mustdeliveronuniversityher.李牧的提议让一大桌亲戚目瞪口呆,他们谁也没想过让辍学一年多的李芬再回学校上课,更没人想过,要把她送出去上大学。To the middle-aged people in rural area, university is , in a village that incomparablysacred, hard toseeks friendshipsoneyearcantest into2-3university born withgreatly, that is also exerts oneselfto studyto trade, inLi Fenthisinterrupted for 1-2 years, doesn't the college entrance examinationneedto participatecango to universitydirectly? Does universityhavesuchonwell?
对农村的中年人来说,大学是无比神圣、难以高攀的所在,一个村子里一年能考上2-3个大学生就了不起了,那还都是奋发读书换来的,李芬这中间断了1-2,高考也不用参加就能直接去上大学?大学有这么好上?Renmin of Li Mu in the family/homeexplainedgenerally a privateuniversitysituation, hesomeidealizations that privateuniversity said that the goalwas to also letthemapprovesownproposition, moreoverLi MualsoverycleartellingSecond Uncletwoaunts, allexpenses that Li Fenwent to schoolcamebyoneself.李牧跟家里人大概解释了一下民办大学的情况,他把民办大学说的有些理想化,目的也是为了让他们更加认可自己的提议,而且李牧也很明白的告诉二叔二婶,李芬上学的所有费用都由自己来出。
The Second Uncletwoauntssaid that anythingdoes not comply, twoauntssaid: „Little Mu, Fen Fenis not the material of going to school, youmakehergo to schoolarewastemoney, saidagain,thismoneycannotmakeyoucome, Icanhave such bigimprovementwithyourSecond Uncle'spresentlife, but also is your familyhelps, howcanmakeyoudisburse moneyagain......”
二叔二婶说什么也不答应,二婶说:“小牧,芬芬不是上学的料,你让她去上学就是浪费钱,再说,这钱怎么也不能让你来出,我跟你二叔现在的生活能有这么大改善,还都是你们家帮忙,怎么能再让你出钱……”Li Musaid: „Twoaunts, openedthiswholesale departmentto the Second Uncleinitially, ismy father'sidea, ifwere notmy fatherhehadthisthoughts, Fen Fenwas impossibleto go hometo help, becausenow in shemy father'sthoughtgoes home the wholesale departmentto help, hadnowwithQi Familythewedding, if the life of Fen Fenwill havein the future not happily, my father, evenour familycould not passthisridge.”李牧说:“二婶,当初给二叔开这个批发部,是我爸的主意,如果不是我爸他动了这个心思,芬芬也不可能回到家来帮忙,现在她因为我爸的一个念头回到家里的批发部帮忙,也才有了现在跟齐家的这桩婚事,如果将来芬芬的生活过得不幸福,我爸,甚至我们全家心里都过不去这道坎。”Li Muthissayingsaid, the Father Licomplexioninstantaneouslychangedsome.李牧这话说完,李爸的脸色瞬间变了些许。Hehad not consideredfromthisangleissue of Li Fenmarriage, hisalthoughtreatedmanyyearsin the city, butin the thoughtcompares the feudalism, the Li Fenearly marriage, hehad not thought that hasanything is not good, insteadalsothought that shearrived at the nubileage, moreoverin the future the family circumstances of husband's family's homewill be rich, thinks that thisto herwill be a good deed, but, Li Muthese wordsremindedhim, Li Fenworkedoutside the subsidyhome, her parentswill make money not many, the younger brotherwill still studyin the professional school, needsto spend money, if not offer adviceto give the brothersto openthiswholesale department, Li Fenhas workedaffirmativeoutside, butQi Family. Is impossible to take a liking toyounger brother'sfamily circumstances, nowthiswedding, tenhave*by the result that oneselfinfluence subtly.
他从来没从这个角度上考虑过李芬结婚的问题,他虽然在城里待了很多年,但思想中还是比较封建,李芬早婚,他并没有觉得有什么不好,反而也觉得她到了适婚年纪,而且未来婆家的家境殷实,以为这对她来说是件好事,可是,李牧这一席话点醒了他,李芬本来在外打工补贴家用,她爸妈赚钱不多,弟弟还在技校读书,正是需要用钱的时候,如果自己不出主意给兄弟开这个批发部,李芬肯定会一直在外打工,而齐家也不可能瞧得上弟弟的家境,现在这桩婚事,十有*是被自己潜移默化的结果。Thinks the issue, Father Lialsofeels the responsibilityto be significant, ifLi Fenin the futurewhat to dois unhappy? Can oneselfgoing of feelings?
这么想问题,李爸也觉得责任重大,如果李芬将来过的不幸福怎么办?自己心里能过意的去吗?
The answernaturallycannot.
答案自然是不能。Now, the Li Fenattitudewas very clear, shedoes not wantto get married, thatcannotforceher, becausethatistoherlifeis irresponsible.
现在,李芬的态度很明确了,她不想结婚,那就更不能强迫她了,因为那是对她人生的不负责。ThinksLi Mu'sto proposecarefully,Father Lifeelsverygood, the soncanmake moneyheto know,althoughdoes not knowhecanmakehow muchmoney, butputs outseveral10.000 Yuanto studyhesurelynot to have the issueforLi Fen, saidagain, the presenttwoshops, onemonth of incomeseveral hundred thousand, the sondoes not havemoneyto go to schoolforheris, thismoneyradicallyis the fine rain, but, ifcanmakeLi Fengo outto have a lookandgo outto feel, to experience, perhapswill play very important impact on herfuture.
仔细想想李牧的提议,李爸觉得很好,儿子能赚钱他知道,虽然不知道他到底能赚多少钱,但拿出几万块钱供李芬读书他肯定是没有问题,再说,自己现在两家店,一个月收入几十万,儿子没钱自己供她上学就是,这点钱根本就是毛毛雨,但是,如果能让李芬出去看看、出去感受一下、体验一番,或许对她的将来会起到非常重要的影响。Delivers to the bigcityher, totalmakesherin the countrysidemarriagestrongermuch.
把她送到大城市去,总比让她在乡下结婚要强得多。Therefore, Father Lialsosays: „Ithought that thismeansare good, Fen Fengoes outto exercise, like thisis goodtoher.”
于是,李爸也开口说道:“我看这个办法挺好的,芬芬还是出去锻炼一下,这样对她更好。”As soon as the Second Unclelistened toevenFather Lito approve, oneselfput down the chopsticks, twisted the browto thinkfor quite a while, looks atLi Fen, askedher: „Fen Fen, yourself said that nowwhat to do do youwant?”
二叔一听连李爸都赞同了,自己放下筷子,拧着眉头想了半天,看着李芬,问她:“芬芬,你自己说,你现在想怎么办?”Li Fensaid: „Father, Iwantsto go outto go to school, wantsto experienceon the televisionthatuniversitylife, even ifcannotgo outto go to school, Istillwantto go outto work, in briefIwantto go outto see the world, does not wantto stay here , does not wantto get married.”李芬说:“爸,我想出去上学,想体验电视上那种大学生活,就算不能出去上学,我也想出去打工,总之我想出去见见世面,不想留在这里,也不想那么早就结婚。”
The Second Unclesighed, pounded on the table, said: „Thatline, youwantto go to schoolIforyouon, the marriagedoes not tie, Iwill go toQi Familyto draw back the bridegroom's gift to bride's familytomorrow, apologizedtothemagain.”
二叔叹了口气,拍了拍桌子,说:“那行,你想上学我供你上,婚不结了,我明天就去齐家退彩礼,再给他们道个歉。”Li Fenhearsthissaying, feels relievedto cry aloudinstantaneously, Father Liopened the mouthto sayat this time: „Little Mu, since said that money that Fen Fengoes to schoolis under the charge to him, wedo not meddleto inquire.”李芬听到这话,瞬间如释重负哭出声来,李爸这个时候开口道:“小牧既然说了,那芬芬上学的钱就由他来负责,咱们都不要插手过问。”
The Second Unclesaid: „Thathowline, Big brother, Ionemonth can also makeseveral thousandYuannow, onemonthfarmed for twoyearsto makemuchcompared withbefore, went to school the issuenot to haveforFen Fen.”
二叔说:“那怎么行,大哥,我现在一个月也能挣几千块钱,一个月比以前种地两年挣得都多,供芬芬上学一点问题没有。”Father Libeckons with the hand: „Youlistenmy, thesemattersmakeLittle MuhelpFen Fentake care, heunderstandscompared withus.”李爸摆摆手:“你听我的,这些事让小牧帮芬芬张罗,他比咱们都懂。”Li Mualsoaddedat this time: „Is the Second Uncle, thismatteryoudid not needto worry, IhelpedFen Fensolve, nowwemustfirstsolve the Qi Familymatter, ourLi Familywent back on wordinfirst, thereforethismatterwemustsettlewiththemwell, if the opposite partywere unsatisfied, we must undertakecertaineconomic compensation, theyhave not startedto take care of the matter of wedding, tomorrowyouwill goto communicatewiththem, theyspenthow muchmoney, wecompensatedto givethemcompletely, even ifagainmanytospiritcompensationline, moneywas not the issue, but the key cannot be feltoursurnamed Liby the bystandernot. Will handle matters.”李牧这个时候也插话说:“是的二叔,这事你们就不用操心了,我来帮芬芬解决,现在咱们要先把齐家的事情解决好,咱李家食言在先,所以这个事咱们得好好跟他们协商解决,如果对方不满意,咱们也得承担一定的经济赔偿,他们不是已经开始张罗婚礼的事情了吗,明天你去跟他们沟通,他们花了多少钱,咱们全部补偿给他们,哪怕再多给点精神补偿都行,钱不是问题,但关键是不能让外人觉得咱们姓李的不会办事。”
The Second Unclenods: „Ok, Iwill buyon a thingtheirfamily/hometo gotomorrow, chattedwiththemwell.”
二叔点点头:“行,我明天买点东西上他们家去一趟,好好跟他们谈谈。”Father Lisaid: „In tomorrowourdrivingleads the parentsto return to the city, this yearcelebrates the new yearyouto arrive at the cityto go, celebrates the new yearinourfamily/home.”( To be continued.)李爸说:“明天我们开车带着爸妈回城里,今年过年你们都到市里去,在我们家过年。”(未完待续。)
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