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#369: Be responsible for for her future

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Moved the beforehand these days, Li Mu and parents rushes about between Haizhou and Jinling frequently, bought various types of household electrical appliances and home furniture, the Father Li Mother Li present consumer attitude had very big promotion compared with before, has eliminated the concept of economizing in this aspect, all of new home from acquired newly, all furniture electrical appliances in old house stayed behind totally no longer move out. 搬家之前的这几天,李牧和爸妈频繁奔波于海州和金陵之间,买各种家用电器、家居家具,李爸李妈现在的消费观念比之前是有了很大的提升,在这方面已经打消了省钱的概念,新家的一切都从新添置,老房子里的所有家具家电都一概留下不再搬走。 Three people work as one, finally moved in the new home in December 24 this day, moves the day of the new home, Mother Li and Li Mu's aunt made the feast at home together, inviting the relative to singe hotpot to the family/home, was the celebration moves on to better things, next morning, Li Mu will then be opening that gl8, carried the parents to return to the countryside native place together. 三口人齐心协力,终于在腊月二十四这天搬进了新房,搬新家这天,李妈和李牧的舅妈一起在家做了顿大餐,邀请亲戚到家里来燎锅底,算是庆祝乔迁,第二天一早,李牧便开着自己那辆gl8,载着爸妈一起回了乡下老家。 The whole families had the family reunion dinner in the Second Uncle family/home, because of the Father Li reason, Second Uncle's living condition had the tremendous changes, in two paternal aunt families/home also under the subsidization of Father Li started the small-scale business, the life also had very distinct improvement. 一家人在二叔家里吃了顿团圆饭,因为李爸的缘故,二叔的生活状况有了翻天覆地的变化,两个姑姑家里也在李爸的资助下做起了小生意,生活也都有了非常明显的改善。 At the session the Second Uncle and Father Li drank a white liquor, could see that his is very happy, is pointing at own pair of children, said: „Year later and other Fen Fen got married, I can also village thoughts, make money to give Xiaobin to build a new home in the future again, when he marries I to complete the task even!” 席间二叔和李爸喝了点白酒,看得出他心情很是不错,指着自己的一双儿女,说:“年后等芬芬嫁人,我也就能了一庄心思,往后多赚点钱给小彬再盖栋新房,等他结了婚我就算完成任务了！” The whole family viewpoint on dining table is similar, no one thought that the Li Fen such early marriage is somewhat not satisfactory, in their opinion, Li Fen has discontinued studies at home, and she has almost not gone to school and girl who goes out to work basically not get married with the village greatly or the reaching an agreement husband's family's home, Li Fen naturally cannot drag, let alone fame of her future husband's family's home in the town will be very bigger, in the family/home will have a flour mill, the family circumstances will be quite rich, becomes famous in the town/subdues. 饭桌上的一家人观点都差不多,没人觉得李芬这么早结婚是不是有些欠妥当,在他们看来,李芬已经辍学在家,同村和她差不多大又不上学、不外出打工的女孩子基本上都结过婚或者说好婆家了,李芬也自然不能拖着,更何况她未来的婆家在镇子上名气很大,家里有个面粉厂,家境相当殷实,在镇上是出了名的。 Li Mu paid attention to look at a Li Fen expression, discovered, when everyone shortly after discussing her wedding, her expression not slightly happy or shy, some were only in the foreheads an anxious look, as if did not prefer. 李牧留意看了一下李芬的表情,发现当大家在议论她不久后的婚事时,她的表情没有丝毫开心或者害羞,有的只是眉宇间一丝愁容,似乎并不情愿。 Li Fen was only years old smaller than one Li Mu, the appearance was good, the character was also good, was a very solid girl, in the impression she went to school on only arrives at one high not on, has hit one year of labor in the county city, after the family/home opened the wholesale department, she comes back to help, if according to the previous life path, she has not gone home, but went south to work with the fellow villager together, 20 raised one's head marries, because own disturbance, had the change by her life path last year , because she kept help at home, in the family/home will move gives her to look for the husband's family's home. Thought , the red fire that because just the Second Uncle recent business makes, opens Qi Family of flour mill, will pick her to be in the future the daughter-in-law. 李芬只比李牧小了一岁,长相还算不错,性格也挺好,是非常实在的一个女孩,印象中她上学只上到高一就不上了,在县城打过一年工,家里开了批发部之后,她才回来帮忙,如果按照前世的轨迹,她并没有回家,而是跟同乡一起去了南方打工,二十出头才结婚,因为自己的干扰,让她的人生轨迹在去年发生了改变,正因为她留在家里帮忙,家里才会动了给她找婆家的念头,也正因为二叔最近生意做的红火,开面粉厂的齐家,才会相中她做未来儿媳妇。 If Li Fen is satisfied with this wedding, Li Mu may not interfere, but he obviously sees Li Fen to would rather not, therefore he did not have the means to be felt relaxed by himself, all these arrive today this step, was affects in secret, oneself should be responsible for her future. 李芬如果对这桩婚事满意,李牧可能也就不会干涉,但他明显看出李芬不太情愿,所以他就没办法让自己释然了,这一切走到今天这一步,都是自己暗中影响,自己理应为她的将来负责。 Therefore, when the whole family was discussing that should Li Fen prepares what dowry, Li Mu suddenly asks Li Fen: „Fen Fen, what do you mean?” 于是,在一家人正讨论该给李芬准备什么嫁妆的时候,李牧忽然问李芬:“芬芬,你自己是什么意思？” Li Fen looked up Li Mu one, she was not very familiar with oneself this cousin, two people one year could not meet several, therefore met somewhat is estranged, may be this somewhat estranged cousin, laptop that oneself a Taiwan had a dream today in comes home gives cannot think, making Li Fen feel extremely flattered, think several times oneself is having a dream, she knew the cousin's university on Yanjing, moreover was fame enormous Renmin University , knows that the cousin had the skill very much, the clothing store that it is said Sir and aunt opened after was he makes money opens, therefore Li Fen to only big. Own one -year-old Li Mu, is filled with worships. 李芬抬头看了李牧一眼,她跟自己这个堂哥并不算很熟悉,两人一年也见不了几次面,所以见面还有些生分,可偏偏是这个有些生分的堂哥,今天来家里就送给自己一台自己做梦的不敢想的笔记本电脑,让李芬受宠若惊,几次都以为自己是在做梦,她知道堂哥在燕京上大学,而且是名气极大的人民大学,也知道堂哥很有本事,据说大爷、大娘开的服装店就是他赚了钱之后开起来的,所以李芬对只大自己一岁的李牧,满心都是崇拜。 But at this moment, when she hears the cousin to ask that own meaning, the Li Fen depressing grievance was stimulated by Li Mu these words at heart suddenly, the family member when takes care of this matter, has almost not solicited her suggestions, her temper is also too supple, does not dare the disobedient parents' meaning, therefore the attitude has been ambiguous, the family member thinks that she tacitly consented, therefore with Qi Family maturity of this wedding step by step advancement, when she wants to reject time discovered, oneself has missed the best time of rejection. 而此时此刻,当她听到堂哥问自己的意思,李芬心里压抑的委屈忽然被李牧这句话激发了出来,家里人在张罗这件事情的时候,几乎没怎么征求她的意见,她性子又太柔,不敢忤逆父母的意思,所以态度一直含含糊糊,家里人以为她是默许了,所以就跟齐家把这桩婚事一步步推进的更加成熟,等她想要拒绝的时候才发现,自己已经错过了拒绝的最佳时机。 As of late, no one has asked her own idea again, these words were asked by the cousin suddenly, Li Fen hesitates the half of the day, has the courage: „Actually I do not want to get married, wants to have a look......” 最近这段时间,已经没有人再问过她自己心里的想法了,这句话忽然被堂哥开口问了出来,李芬迟疑半天,还是鼓起勇气来说:“其实我不太想结婚,想出去看看……” Li Fen spoke these words, then anxious lowering the head , the Li Mu's two aunts hear these words, nonchalant beckoning with the hand, said: „What goes out besides working can also do? How many do you have a look at our village the girl who goes out to work to cross well? The Qi Family family condition is much good, you marry their family/home, later anything does not need to worry, I will also be subsidizing you with your father, making you not be looked down upon in the husband's family's home, when the time comes your day definitely passes is in these girls is best.” 李芬说完这句话,便紧张的低下了头,李牧的二婶听到这句话,不经意的摆摆手,说:“出去除了打工还能干什么？你看看咱村出去打工的女孩子有几个过得好的？齐家的家庭条件多好啊,你嫁到他们家,以后什么都不用愁,我跟你爸也会贴补着你,让你在婆家不被人瞧不起,到时候你的日子过得肯定是这些女孩里面最好的。” Li Fen said in a low voice: „But I really want to have a look, long my Jinling only has gone greatly one time, where other have not gone, I do not want to get married......” 李芬低声说:“但是我真的想出去看看,长这么大我连金陵都只去过一次,其他什么地方都没去过,我不想这么早就结婚……” Li Fen is saying, the suffering tears cannot help but drip down, the relatives on table looked, somewhat feels helpless all of a sudden, two aunts awkward the moment, hastily mediated to say with a smile: „Is all right, she felt, must marry others family/home, thinks that feels is not familiar with, before which family/home unmarried girl gets married , can not cry several, marrying was good the moon/month.” 李芬说着,委屈的眼泪不由自主就滴了下来,桌上的亲戚们看了,一下子都有些不知所措,二婶尴尬了片刻,急忙笑着打圆场道:“没事没事,她就是觉得以后要嫁到别人家了,想起来觉得不习惯,谁家闺女出嫁前不得哭几回,嫁过去个把月就好了。” The Li Fen tears the skewer, the sound also choked instantaneously continually: „Mother I really does not want to get married, moreover I do not like that Qi Daiyong......” 李芬的眼泪瞬间连成了串,声音也哽咽起来:“妈我真不想结婚,而且我也不喜欢那个齐大勇……” The Li Mu's two aunts are frowning, the tone also somewhat interrogated her furiously: „Don't you want to get married you not to say early? The matter arrived in this you saying that you do not want to tie, others Qi Family bridegroom's gift to bride's family gave your father, the great masters who made the banquet invited, you said that doesn't tie does not tie?” 李牧的二婶皱着眉头,语气也有些光火的质问她:“你不想结婚你怎么不早说？事都到这份上了你说你不想结,人家齐家的彩礼都给你爸了,做酒席的大师傅都请好了,你说不结就不结了？” Two aunts this scolded, the atmosphere on dining table solidified instantaneously, but after Li Fen was reproven one by two aunts, did not refute not to explain, but lowered the head to keep crying. 二婶这一呵斥,饭桌上的气氛就瞬间凝固了起来,而李芬被二婶训斥一番之后,不反驳也不解释,只是低头哭个不停。 Li Mu said at this time: „Two aunts you first do not get angry, Fen Fen said that does not want to get married definitely also has her own idea, might as well first make her say how she planned, if not marry, she wants to make anything.” 李牧这时候说:“二婶你先别上火,芬芬说不想结婚肯定也有她自己的想法,不如先让她说说她自己怎么打算的,如果不结婚,她想做什么。” Two aunt looks at Li Mu, the tone returned to normal slightly, said: „Little Mu, Fen Fen this girl you do not know, she thinks anything did not say, is the meat, the meat fierce......” 二婶看着李牧,语气稍稍平复了一些,说:“小牧,芬芬这个丫头你不知道,她自己想什么也不说,就是肉,肉得厉害……” Li Mu said: „Made her own say own plan.” 李牧说:“让她自己说说自己的打算吧。” Two aunts then asked Li Fen: „Yourself said, doesn't marry you to do?” 二婶便问李芬:“那你自己说,不结婚你想干什么？” Li Fen raised the head: „I want to go out to work.” 李芬抬起头来说:“我想出去打工。” „Works?” Two aunts decline to say without hesitation: „In family/home does not lack you to go out to gain that several hundred Yuan now, what meaning do your one person run outward?” “打工？”二婶毫不犹豫的拒绝道:“家里现在也不缺你出去赚那几百块钱,你一个人往外跑有什么意思？” Li Fen said: „I want to have a look, does not want such muddleheaded marriage.” 李芬说:“我就是想出去看看,不想就这么稀里糊涂的结婚。” Two aunt complexions are very ugly, racket of chopsticks on toward table: „Is your dead girl, in front of so many relatives to make me with your father disgraced intentionally is?” 二婶脸色很是难看,筷子往桌上一拍:“你这个死丫头,当着这么多亲戚的面存心让我跟你爸丢人是不是？” Li Fen by two aunt saying exciting the side walks out, her younger brother Li Bin just wants to pursue, Li Mu stood saying: „I go, you first eat, I urged her.” 李芬被二婶这话刺激的起身边往外走,她弟弟李彬正想去追,李牧站起来说:“我去吧,你们先吃,我劝劝她。” Then, Li Mu walks quickly two steps, had/left the front door to pursue the courtyard, stopped by calling out took the lead is still wiping tears Li Fen. 说完,李牧快走两步,出了大门追出院子,叫住了走在前面还在抹眼泪的李芬。 Nearby Li Fen stops the footsteps, Li Mu arrives, asked her: „How doesn't the food eat?” 李芬停住脚步,李牧走到跟前,问她:“怎么连饭也不吃了？” Li Fen wipes clean tears, said: „I could not convince with my mother.” 李芬擦干净眼泪,说:“我跟我妈根本就说不通。” Li Mu then urged: „The reason that could not convince had not found the solution that enabled each other to accept, you do not want to get married ran counter to her wish, going out to work is not she can accept.” 李牧便劝道:“说不通的原因是还没有找到让彼此都能接受的解决办法,你不想结婚本身就违背了她的意愿,出去打工就更不是她能接受的了。” Li Fen somewhat said indignantly: „Goes out to work can also make money to help out with family expenses, my schoolmates go out to work for a month also to gain 500-600, the factory provides food, one month can send 3-4 toward the family/home hundred, they make me marry Qi Daiyong are not settle on the money of his family/home.” 李芬有些愤愤的说:“出去打工也能赚钱贴补家用,我那些同学出去打工一个月也能赚500-600,工厂包吃住,一个月能往家寄三四百,他们让我嫁给齐大勇不就是看中他家的钱吗。” Li Mu said with a smile: „Now the business of your family wholesale department is so prosperous, does your father mother giving up make you go out to work? Also does not lack that you gain, they want to make you get married do not settle on the money of others family/home, but wants to let your life is better, your mother did not say, after you married, to prevent the husband's family's home looked down upon you, she must continue the subsidy with your father your life.” 李牧笑道:“现在你家批发部的生意这么红火,你爸妈怎么舍得让你出去打工？也不缺你赚的那点,他们想让你结婚也不是看中别人家的钱,只是想让你的生活过的更好一些,你妈不是说了么,你嫁过去之后,为了防止婆家瞧不起你,她跟你爸还得继续补贴你的生活。” Li Fen is getting angry saying: „But I really do not want to get married......” 李芬红着眼说:“可我真不想结婚……” Li Mu nods, said: „You cannot always only say that you do not want to get married, could not say truly effective solution, if your father mother complied with your demand, did not compel you to get married, how does your in the future road walk?” 李牧点点头,说:“你不能总是只说你不想结婚,又说不出真正有效的解决办法,假如你爸妈答应你的诉求,不逼着你结婚,你往后的路怎么走？” Li Fen long time, said hesitant in a low voice: „I do not know, but thinks that in the past south worked, if in the family/home did not open this wholesale department, south I have possibly gone with the schoolmate, after opening this wholesale department, I came back to help, didn't expect they have taken care are making me get married.” 李芬犹豫半晌,低声说:“我不知道,只是想过去南方打工,如果家里不开这个批发部,我可能已经跟同学去南方了,开了这个批发部之后,我才回来帮忙,没想到他们这么早就张罗着让我结婚。” Li Mu helpless sighing, strengthened a thought at heart: Said that anything cannot let Li Fen reluctant premature getting married. 李牧无奈的叹了口气,心里更加坚定了一个念头:说什么也不能让李芬不情不愿的过早嫁人。 At this moment, he thinks suddenly previous life some quite special the colleague on the work place, a thought then take shape in the brain, immediately asked Li Fen said: „Do you find out to go to school?” 此刻,他忽然想到前世自己在职场上遇到的一些比较特殊的同事,一个念头便在脑中成型,随即问李芬道:“那你想不想出去上学？” „Goes to school?” Li Fen surprise looks at Li Mu: „I high one have not read off left class, what now can on study? Goes back from high from the beginning?” “上学？”李芬诧异的看着李牧:“我高一都没读完就下学了,现在能上什么学？回去从高一开始上？” Li Mu shakes the head, said: „Goes to university directly.” 李牧摇摇头,道:“直接去上大学吧。” „university?” Li Fen is being confused that listens , did oneself this situation, how on possibly result in university? “大学？”李芬更是听的一头雾水,自己这种情况,怎么可能上得了大学？ Li Mu sees her to be puzzled, simply said: „Many private university do not need to participate in the college entrance examination and payment to be able on, said is university, what actually mainly does is training of adult higher school admission examination, but the good and evil differs not in a big way with normal university in the pattern, can experience the study of university, if studies in the school diligently, can attain becomes tests the diploma that the country acknowledged that even if could not test, had these to experience and take a private university diploma, can still find the company to go to work, taking the junior middle school and high school diploma is going to look for the work to be stronger than many.” 李牧见她一脸不解,便道:“很多民办大学是不需要参加高考、交钱就能上的,说是大学,但其实主要做的是成人高考的培训,不过好歹在模式上跟正常大学相差不大,也能体验大学的学习和生活,如果在学校里努力学习,也可以拿到国家承认的成考文凭,就算是考不下来,有了这些经历、拿着一张民办大学的毕业证,也能找到公司上班,比拿着初中、高中毕业证出去找工作要强多了。” Li Fen once had very deep expectation to university, but the family condition was very initially bad, she ahead of time discontinues studies after the high school, then thoroughly eliminated to all expectation and hopes of university, but the Li Mu's words made her ignite a faith, although her many had also heard private university was not credible, but Li Mu said was very critical, the although school was not national acknowledgment regular university, but good and evil in formally with other university not too wide differences, if oneself diligently, taking one will become tests the diploma to own future is to have very big use. 李芬曾经对大学有很深的憧憬,但当初家庭条件很差,她提前从高中辍学之后,便彻底打消了对大学的一切憧憬和希望,不过李牧的话又让她燃起了一丝信念,虽然她多少也听说过民办大学都不怎么靠谱,但李牧说的很中肯,虽然学校不是国家承认的正规大学,但好歹在形式上和其他大学也没有太大差别,如果自己努力的话,拿一个成考文凭对自己将来也是有很大用处的。 Ignites the hope Li Fen soon to realize a serious concern at heart instantaneously, she said: „Words that goes out to go to school, the miscellaneous school fees and living expenses expenses were too big, my parents will definitely not want.” 心里瞬间燃起希望的李芬很快又意识到一个严重的问题,她说:“出去上学的话,学杂费、生活费开销太大了,我爸妈肯定不会愿意的。” Li Mu shows a faint smile: „All expenses that you go to school, I give you to leave.”( To be continued.) 李牧微微一笑:“你上学的所有费用,我给你出。”(未完待续。)
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