The psychology of person is a very marvelous thing, but guilty this psychology everyone has- this was the high antiquity human evolution adjusts one instinct of community relations. 人的心理是一种很奇妙的东西,而内疚这种心理状态人人都有-这是远古时代人类进化出来调节族群关系的一种本能。 The heart because of came from mainly paying and accepting the imbalance. 心因主要来自于付出和接受的失衡。 When human has the sentiment of compunction, this is reminding people, you should return the opposite party, if in relations, the side is only paying unilaterally, then this is in fact rejecting the return of opposite party, rejects the compensation of opposite party, broke the opposite party to reduce and solve the guilty effort, thus made the compunction in opposite party heart be pent-up unceasingly, finally transform to angrily, started to get rid or flee this relations, finally made both sides suffer injury. 当人类产生内疚之情时,这就是在提醒人们,你该回报对方了,而如果在一段关系中,仅有一方单方面在付出,那么这实际上就是在拒绝对方的回报,拒绝对方的补偿,破了对方化解自己内疚的努力,从而使对方心中的内疚不断郁积,最终转化为愤怒,开始摆脱或是逃离这段关系,最终使双方都受害。 As the most basic emotion, the compunction is presenting of nature, it is reminding us, your relations need to adjust. If you understood that admits own compunction, and helps the opposite party admit his compunction, will then relate natural flowing, natural trend harmony. 作为一种最基本的情感,内疚是大自然的馈赠,它在提醒我们,你的一个关系需要调整了。假若你懂得接纳自己的内疚,并帮助对方接纳他的内疚,那么关系就会自然的流动,自然的走向和谐。 The Yuki situation is also actually same, but she hurts the side, if not make up for the opportunity of opposite party to her, the sentiment of compunction will be pent-up in her heart similarly, will have the pain, lamentation and other negativities, will start self-doubt- psychological disease type of thing is not fake, everyone more or less a little, without whom is completely healthy. 雪里的情况其实也一样,只是她是伤害方,如果不给她弥补对方的机会,内疚之情同样会在她心中郁积,会产生痛苦、悔恨等负面情绪,甚至会开始自我怀疑-心理疾病这种东西不是假的,每个人或多或少都有一点,没谁是完全健康的。 Otherwise some people shrink, some people are self-confident, is this inborn? 不然有的人畏畏缩缩,有的人自信大方,这难道是天生的？ Yuki is two fools is not false, but two fools have the sentiment, she is not a robot, will be guilty, can be painful, is only is not so on the other hand sensitive, but she finished guilty has not made up for the ability of opposite party, the making up way that she can provide was only replaces Nishizaka Takagi to go to the duel probably or fought- Nishizaka Gao Muming obviously was the honest movement youngster, did not have this aspect demand most likely. 雪里是个二傻子不假,但二傻子也是有感情的,她并不是机器人,也会内疚,也会痛苦,只是相对来说不那么敏感,不过她内疚了却没有弥补对方的能力,她能提供的弥补方式大概仅就是代替西坂高木去决斗或是打架了-西坂高木明显是个正派的运动少年,八成没这方面需求。 Therefore Kitahara Shuji is willing to lower the head spoke the gentle words, the good words good language even somewhat urgent wants to make up. This for Nishizaka sister and brother, did not say that coarse words, they to Kitahara Shuji nothing important, is equal to passer-by armor completely, what is truly important is Yuki. 所以北原秀次才愿意低头说软话,好言好语甚至有些急迫的想要弥补一下。这不是为了西坂姐弟,说句难听的话,他们对北原秀次来说没什么重要的,完全等于路人甲,真正重要的是雪里。 He hopes that Yuki happily, the mind is bright like the crystal forever, for this reason he is willing to pay the price. 他希望雪里开开心心的,心灵永远剔透如水晶,为此他愿意付出代价。 He knows, Yuki bore very tremendous pressure these days, the surrounding person is discussing her, the online person is discussing her, almost all people are discussing her, praising her person to be many, scolds her person is also many, even there is a lot of sewages to sprinkle to her- how many some people were censured to feel uncomfortable by a person, had the painful or anger, did that change into 100 individuals? Trades in 1000 individuals? Changes into 10,000 individuals? 他知道,雪里在这段时间是承受了很大压力的,周围的人在议论她,网上的人在议论她,几乎所有的人都在议论她,夸她的人多,骂她的人也不少,甚至有大量的污水泼向她-有些人被一个人非议几句都会觉得心里不舒服,产生痛苦或是愤怒的情绪,那换成一百个人呢？换在一千个人呢？换成一万个人呢？ Cared that the Koshien audience only Japan has several million people, being counted the neighboring countries are more, possibly the dislike disliked the Yuki people to surpass 10,000, even 100,000 had the possibility, but what word of praise can these person of mouths have? 关心甲子园的观众仅日本就有几千万人,算上周边各国更多,可能厌恶反感雪里的人都超过了一万,甚至十万都有可能,而这些人嘴里能有什么好话？ The people really can scold the deceased person, but the usual death was not comes that intuitively. 人真是可以骂死人的,只是通常死亡不是来得那么直观。 Naturally, the Yuki natural disposition is quite mindless, the anti-pressure ability is very strong, but she was still bearing the tremendous mind pressure, she had not said, perhaps stupidly arrives cannot say, but she is truly bearing the tremendous mind pressure. If the time can flow backwards, Kitahara Shuji does not allow Suzuki Naki that bastard to contact Yuki absolutely and ensure kicks on her buttocks makes her have many rolls far, will rather accept the consequence that will get angry not to agree that Suzuki Naki will do the matter also to drag Yuki. 当然,雪里本性相当没心没肺,抗压能力还是很强的,但她仍然承受着巨大的心灵压力,她没说,也许傻到说不出来,但她确实承受着巨大的心灵压力。如果时间能倒流,北原秀次绝对不允许铃木乃希那个混蛋接触雪里,保证一脚踢在她屁股上让她有多远滚多远,宁可接受翻脸的后果也不会同意铃木乃希搞事还要拖上雪里。 Waits for him to understand that he has only been able to choose late strives to win diligently, makes these opponents shut up with victories one after another-, if Yuki were defeated, when these people congratulated each other, the mouth will be coarser ten times. 只是等他明白过来已经晚了,那他只能选择努力争取胜利,用一场接一场的胜利让那些反对者闭嘴-如果雪里失败了,那些人弹冠相庆之余,嘴里的话会更难听十倍。 As the boyfriend, protecting the girlfriend is the responsibility of talent, there is no leeway that discussed! 做为男友,保护女友是天赋之责,这没什么商量的余地！ He will make every effort! 他将尽一切所能！ But now Kitahara Shuji tilts the head looks to Yuki, looks expression that her is cheerful, in heart gratified, but...... 而现在北原秀次歪头看向雪里,看着她那重新欢快起来的表情,心中欣慰之极,不过…… Own present is only also higher than Yuki than! 自己现在也只比雪里高一点点啊！ Oneself must with Yuki stand more attractive words, the best height to be high half a head to be better than her? Oneself must as long as one meter more than eight, but another radish girlfriend was also too short, daily makes soup to eat food supplements to her, 自己要和雪里站在一起更好看的话,最好身高要比她高半头才好吧？那自己得长到一米八多,但另一个萝卜头女友又太矮了,天天给她煲汤进补, Doesn't grow perceptibly? Are oneself this/should long height should not be long? A little difficult...... 怎么也不见长呢？那自己是该长身高还是不该长？有点两难…… The Yuki very keen feeling the Kitahara Shuji vision, said to him cheerfully: „Shuji, having you are really good! brave wisdom Onee-chan and Nishizaka felt that was quite happy!” 雪里很敏锐的感受到了北原秀次的目光,乐呵呵向他说道:“秀次,有你真好！英智姐姐和西坂感觉都好高兴！” More importantly you were happy! However Kitahara Shuji had not said that but the smile nods: „We added on finally slightly to them busy, they were impossible to be angry because of the injured matter again secretly.” 重要的是你高兴！不过北原秀次没说,只是微笑点头:“咱们总算给他们帮上了一点小忙,他们不可能再因为受伤的事而偷偷生气了。” „I know that is really good!” Yuki pulled the arm of Kitahara Shuji, talked about with interest: „Before the father and mother was not healthy, this visiting the sick matter was Onee-chan leads me to go, but the Onee-chan your mouth tooth is not clever, will not sweet talk, did everyone to like being angry...... she to be angry.” “我知道,那真好！”雪里挽住了北原秀次的手臂,乐道:“以前老爹和妈妈身体都不好,这种探病的事都是姐姐带我去的,不过姐姐没有你口牙伶俐,不会花言巧语,搞得大家都好生气……她更生气的。” Your older sister that is leads you to quarrel, the fellow is an unreasonable struggle three points of character, is not willing to lower the head is not willing to suffer a loss, but the little guy also supported before not easily- she is a bastard, she really makes best effort to protect Yuki, this point is beyond reproach, she fulfilled the Onee-chan duty. 你姐那是带你去吵架吧,那家伙本来就是无理争三分的性格,又不肯低头不肯吃亏,不过小萝卜头以前也挺不容易的-她就是再混蛋,她真尽了最大努力保护雪里了,这一点无可指责,她履行了姐姐的义务。 The Kitahara Shuji smile said: „Later this matter gave me to come on the line.” He does not fear the trouble, he thought in any case at handling this matter definitely compared with little guy, definitely should not pass on responsibilities. 北原秀次微笑道:“以后这种事交给我来就行了。”他不怕麻烦,反正他觉得在处理这种事上肯定比小萝卜头强,完全应该当仁不让。 Yuki does not have the opinion, but a while, she also grew up to select looking pensive, knows oneself have been receiving the protection. She made an effort to pull an arm of Kitahara Shuji, enclasped in the bosom, almost clutched to be dislocated him, muttered: „I am quite lucky, can have you.” 雪里没意见,但若有所思了一会儿,她也长大点了,知道自己一直受着保护了。她用力扯了一下北原秀次的手臂,在怀里抱紧了,差点把他揪脱臼了,喃喃道:“我好幸运啊,能有你们。” However why do oneself buy the lottery ticket not? The lottery ticket had money to return everyone! 不过自己买彩票为什么一直不中呢？中了彩票就有钱回报大家了！ Kitahara Shuji rubbed the shoulder, helpless said: „Having you is also our luck.” 北原秀次揉了揉肩膀,无奈道:“有你也是我们的幸运。” „We must forever in the same place!” “我们要永远在一起！” „Good, we forever in the same place! Okay in the same place!” Kitahara Shuji this time answered does not have the least bit to hesitate, he is willing to take care of this mentally retarded child for a lifetime, kept out wind and rain for her, enabling her to be able forever cheerful the life like only two. “好,我们永远在一起！好好在一起！”北原秀次这次答得没有半点犹豫,他愿意照顾这弱智儿童一辈子,为她遮风挡雨,让她可以永远像只二哈那样欢快的生活下去。 Yuki is mature, does not need to grow up, this worrying matter he did is good! 雪里没必要成熟,没必要长大,这种烦心事由他来做就好了！ Men, this! 男人嘛,就该这样！ „Right, well in the same place! I later will also be good to you, Shuji!” Yuki also calculates from some perspective very sensibly, but she hesitated a while not to find out to be how good to Kitahara Shuji, can only make an effort to guarantee saying: „I take care of parents to you! Onee-chan, I take care of parents to you!” “对,好好在一起！我以后也会对你特别好的,秀次！”雪里从某一方面来说也算挺懂事的,只是她沉吟了一会儿没想出该怎么对北原秀次好,只能用力保证道:“我给你养老送终！还有姐姐,我给你们养老送终！” Kitahara Shuji speechless looked at a while Yuki, you affirmed that we will die in front of you? However he thinks carefully, but also really did not say, Yuki became this strongly, not being able to do well to live over 100 years old, putting together the life span also really not necessarily was her opponent, can only nod saying: „That thank you.” 北原秀次无语的看了一会儿雪里,你就这么肯定我们会死在你前面？不过他仔细想了想,还真不好说,雪里壮成这样,搞不好能活一百多岁,拼寿命还真不一定是她的对手,只能点头道:“那谢谢你了。” „All right, Shuji, this is I should do.” The Yuki eye looks to the distant place, said earnestly: „You were old, I am pushing you with the wheelchair, enabling you to play outside daily, I will take care of you.” “没事,秀次,这是我应该做的。”雪里眼睛望向远方,认真说道:“等你们老了,我就用轮椅推着你们,让你们可以天天在外面玩,我会照顾好你们的。” Kitahara Shuji pounded a lower jaw, originally before died, fine Parkinson or rheumatism and so on sickness, this special the wheelchair sat. 北原秀次砸吧了一下嘴,原来自己死前还要得帕金森或是风湿之类的病啊,这特么的轮椅都坐上了。 However is also good, he cracks a joke saying: „Also left you to push us, at the appointed time you also sat the wheelchair, our three competed with the wheelchair.” 不过也行吧,他开玩笑道:“也别你推着我们了,到时你也坐轮椅,咱们三个用轮椅比赛。” „Incorrect, Shuji, Onee-chan lost will definitely be angry. She grows is like the mousie, the arm is so short, transfers not quickly, will definitely collapse completely two defeats to spread dies the cruelest death!” “不行的,秀次,姐姐输了肯定会生气。她长得和小老鼠一样,手臂那么短,转不快,肯定会一败涂地两败涂地肝脑涂地的！” Kitahara Shuji gawked staring, thought back on the magnificent scene of next future old men and two old woman wheelchair car races, felt thin and little that little guy old woman really cannot win- that time also 80 years old, must let her, making her win one time? 北原秀次愣了愣,遥想了一下将来一个老头和两个老太太轮椅飙车的盛景,感觉又瘦又小的那个小萝卜头老太太果然赢不了-那时候也得八十岁了吧,要不要让让她,让她赢一次呢？ He actually really thought a while, but cannot help laughing quickly: „That even, you are pushing us!” 他竟然真想了一会儿,但很快哑然失笑:“那就算了,还是你推着我们吧！” 80 years old do not want to lose to the little guy, even the wheelchair car race still wants to be oppressive she! However forgives her dog's life, after all at that time also that big age. 八十岁也不想输给小萝卜头,就算轮椅飙车也要虐死她！不过还是饶她一条狗命吧,毕竟那时也那么大年纪了。 Yuki makes an effort to nod: „I am definitely pushing you well!” Then she tries the forehead temperature to Kitahara Shuji, asked: „Shuji, are you hot?” 雪里用力点头:“我肯定好好推着你们！”接着她给北原秀次试了试额头温度,问道:“秀次,你热不热？” Kitahara Shuji looked at Sun of space, August is midsummer, the sunlight is very certainly fierce, but the Hyougo prefecture a little good place lies in its both sides seaside, the wind is quite big, in the summer does not calculate to be difficult to suffer, in any case compared with Nagoya was, that damned place the tide was also stuffy and hot. 北原秀次看了看天上的太阳,八月是盛夏,阳光当然很猛,不过兵库县有点好的地方就在于它两面临海,风比较大,夏天不算难挨,反正比名古屋是强多了,那鬼地方又潮又闷又热。 He is somewhat gratified, Yuki more and more likely young girl, although the speech is specially silly, but understood that care person, this is the good deed. He softens the sound said: „I am not hot, are you hot?” 他有些欣慰,雪里越来越像个少女了,虽然说话还是特别傻,但懂得关心人了,这是好事。他柔声道:“我不热,你热吗？” „I am quite hot, Shuji!” Yuki nods again and again, but also with the hand air fan, showing is very really hot. “我好热的,秀次！”雪里连连点头,还用手扇风,以示真的很热。 Kitahara Shuji carefully looked at her, on fair face only then blushing of health, the vitality full feeling, on the forehead does not have the perspiration, feeling not like very hot appearance! 北原秀次仔细看了看她,白皙脸儿上只有健康的红晕,元气满满的感觉,额头上也没有汗,感觉也不像很热的样子啊！ He the vigilance, looked around to look immediately, really saw an ice cream shop, asked: „Do you want to eat the ice cream?” 他马上警觉起来,四处看了看,果然看到一家冰激凌店,不由问道:“你想吃冰激凌？” Yuki hopes is looking at him, does not beg, waiting. Her look is that pure, the pupil was black shines, making the Kitahara Shuji flash be somewhat out of sorts, could not help compromise, „it was so hot, eating an ice cream was also good.” 雪里期盼的望着他,也不讨要,就等着。她的眼神是那么纯粹,瞳孔黑得发光,让北原秀次都一瞬间有些失神了,情不自禁就妥协了,“天这么热,吃点冰激凌也好。” Said that he wants to himself cheeks, he is also thinking helps Yuki control the diet, finally forgot unexpectedly- ice cream tall Tanggao heat, even if eats the sweet tube also 200 ~ 250 kilocalories heats, according to the Yuki body weight needs to jog for over a half hour to consume, will otherwise transfer the fat. 说完他就想给自己一个嘴巴子,他还想着帮雪里控制饮食呢,结果不知不觉间竟然忘了-冰激凌高糖高热量,哪怕只是吃个甜筒也有200~250千卡的热量,依雪里的体重需要跑步半小时以上才能消耗掉,不然就会转成脂肪。 His whole life is very probably difficult to reject Yuki any requested, is really the fiasco of life, but he must mean what he says, leading full of enthusiasm Yuki to enter the ice cream desserts shop. 大概他这辈子都很难拒绝雪里的任何要求了,真是人生的大失败,只是他也不能说话不算数,领着兴致勃勃的雪里就进了冰激凌甜品店。 Here decorates elegantly is very very casual, broadcasts gentle jazz, the air conditioning is also opening specially full, comes to make people think from inside to outside one crisp, but Yuki usually does not come to this shop, looks right and left a little curiously, this made Kitahara Shuji also tenderhearted several points- little guy usually managed her very much to be strict, occasionally made her relaxed one not relate! 这里装饰得很典雅很休闲,播放着柔和的爵士乐,空调也开得特别足,进来就让人觉得从里到外的一爽,而雪里平时不太来这种店,左看右瞧有点好奇,这不由让北原秀次又心软了几分-小萝卜头平时管得她很严,偶尔让她轻松一下也没关系吧！ Be not to a precedent! 下不为例！ He directed Yuki to look for a remote corner to sit down, quick the young female student who put on the Victorian era maid to install caught up, the gentle voice asked: „Do two guests, what want?” 他引着雪里找了个偏僻角落坐下了,很快一个穿着维多利亚时代女仆装的小女生赶了过来,柔声问道:“两位客人,想点些什么？” She gave Kitahara Shuji and Yuki the desserts of small parchment conveniently only, but Yuki received cautiously, looks that the color gorgeous picture swallowed saliva fiercely- very delicious appearance, but zero are also many, very probably expensive? 她顺手把小羊皮纸的甜品单给了北原秀次和雪里,而雪里小心翼翼接过,看着颜色绚丽的图片猛吞了一口口水-都很好吃的样子,不过好像零也好多,很贵吧？ She does not select, is waiting for the Kitahara Shuji point, but Kitahara Shuji wants to help she selects a quantity few deal with, even if, but looked the appearance that her saliva must flow, felt came, making her happy one time should be still good? 她也不点,等着北原秀次点,而北原秀次本想帮她点个量最少的应付一下就算了,但看她口水都要流出来的样子,觉得来都来了,让她开心一次应该也行吧？ Be not to a precedent! 下不为例！ „Yuki, you want to eat what point.” Kitahara Shuji thought that this should be the Yuki first appointment, should make concessions, when lets Yuki will understand in the future, can have a very glorious memory. “雪里,你想吃什么点就可以。”北原秀次觉得这应该算是和雪里的第一次约会,应该退让一些,让雪里将来明白过来时,能有个很美好的回忆。 „Can I?” Yuki is startled, is unable to contain one's joy, both eyebrows started to jump. She places on desserts Shan Ping the desktop, then observed a Kitahara Shuji complexion on uppermost single ball Hami melon ice cream shallot same finger white/in vain carefully, discovered that he does not seem angry, the finger delimited five under decisively, changed to one twin...... “我可以点吗？”雪里吃了一惊,然后喜不自禁,两道眉毛都开始一跳一跳了。她把甜品单平放在桌面上,将小葱白一样的手指点在了最上面的一个单球哈密瓜冰激凌上然后小心的观察了一下北原秀次的面色,发现他好像没生气,果断把手指下划了五位,改成了一个双球的…… She looked at Kitahara Shuji again, is no response, decisive under delimits one again, changed to one twin with the egg roll- she looked at Kitahara Shuji again, if Fuyumi here, she thought that almost should take a beating. 她再看了一眼北原秀次,还是没什么反应,再次果断下划一位,改成了一个双球配蛋卷的-她再看了一眼北原秀次,要是冬美在这儿,她觉得差不多该挨揍了。 However Kitahara Shuji thought that the twin + egg roll is also good, today lets her happy, recently was not the psychological imbalance, was makes up, when coaxed the child, was not to a precedent...... 不过北原秀次觉得双球+蛋卷也行,今天让她高兴一下,最近不是心理失衡嘛,算是个弥补,就当哄哄小孩子了,下不为例…… Un, wants three balls? Is also good on today's words! 嗯,又想要个三球的了？就今天的话也行吧！ Changes three ball Ju cup? The component has not missed many, can accept. 改三球巨杯？份量也没差多少,可以接受。 Also changes three ball lover great cups? Hiss...... was this little big? This is two people share! 哦,又改三球情侣巨杯？嘶……这有点大了吧？这是两人份的了！ The ice cream hot pot single meal...... the chocolate was the high heat, this...... was not to a precedent, this time! 冰激凌火锅单人套餐……巧克力更是高热量了,这个……下不为例,就这一次！ The Kitahara Shuji psychology bottom line reduces step by step, finally Yuki submissive finger according to page most bottom, did not speak, waiting. 北原秀次心理底线步步降低,最后雪里低眉顺眼的把手指按在了页面最底部,也不说话,就等着。 Kitahara Shuji struggled a while at heart intensely, sighed the one breath secretly, turned the head to say to the server: „We want this ‚Sur volcano’.” 北原秀次心里激烈斗争了一会儿,暗叹一口气,转头向服务生说道:“我们要这个‘苏尔威亚火山’。” „, What did you say?” The server who the maid installs recovers, lower jaw faint flood red- she looked that Kitahara Shuji looked to be distracted. “啊,您说什么？”那女仆装的服务生回过神来,小腮隐隐泛红-她看北原秀次看走神了。 „We want this!” Kitahara Shuji gives back to the server the desserts only, refers to while convenient to her looks. “我们要点这个！”北原秀次把甜品单还给服务生,顺便指给她看。 The server fulfills the labor of duty hastily, after looking at one, urged: „Main...... is not, the guest, this is four people of meals, the quantity is very big.” 那服务生连忙履行本职工作,看了一眼后劝道:“主……不是,客人,这个是四人套餐,量很大的。” She very has the work ethics actually, but Kitahara Shuji smiles helplessly to her: „Is this, troubled you.” 她倒是挺有职业道德,但北原秀次冲她无奈一笑:“就是这个,麻烦你了。” How four people of meals, came up I is not possible to eat to two! 四人套餐怎么了,上来了我都不一定能吃到两口！ You do not know that what girlfriend I have! 你根本不知道我有个什么样的女朋友！