MESIS :: Volume #2

#151: Emotion and ethics ( 2 )

„ What is the emotion? The Buddhists said that life eight suffering of life: The birth and death, likes leaving depart, complaining about the hatred meeting, could not ask, five human attributes to be flaming. Is derived to be angry by the eight suffering of life corruptly hates to love the wicked desire crazily. “什么是情感？佛家说,人生八苦:生老病死,爱别离,怨憎会、求不得、五阴炽盛。由八苦衍生出贪嗔痴恨爱恶欲。 The Confucianists said that life eight virtue: The filial piety, respects as a brother, loyally, letter/believes, ritual and righteousness, inexpensive, shame. With moral frame bunch emotion. 儒家说,人生八德:孝、悌、忠、信、礼、义、廉、耻。以道德框束情感。 Daoist School of Thought said: The world is unkind takes the myriad things as the dogs and hay worthless thing, the sage is unkind takes the common people as the dogs and hay worthless thing. Therefore the Heavenly Dao is selfless, the main road not struggles. 道家说:天地不仁以万物为刍狗,圣人不仁以百姓为刍狗。故天道无私,大道无争。 These views, regarding the emotion, thus it can be seen, the emotion can derive the philosophy, the heart study, morals wait/etc.. ” 这些说法,都围绕着情感,由此可见,情感可以衍生出哲学、心学、道德等等。” „How is modern to analyze the emotion? I am divided into four types it: Love, kinship, friendship and bosom friend sentiment.” “那么现代怎么分析情感？我把它分成四种:爱情、亲情、友情、闺蜜情。” „This order has the reason, the love is most complex, therefore I am placed it in the first position. Had words to say was very good: The love is a purity, the friendship is a breadth, but the kinship is a depth. But these sentiments do not distinguish right from wrong, they each other blend, each other transformation. First we said that the bosom friend sentiment, in schoolmate present, the female student does have male bosom friend? Do the male students have the female friend?” “这个顺序是有原因的,爱情最复杂,所以我把它摆在第一位。有句话说的很好:爱情是一种纯度,友情是一种广度,而亲情是一种深度。但这些感情并不是泾渭分明的,它们彼此交融,彼此转变。首先咱们说说闺蜜情,在座的同学里,女生有没有男闺蜜？男生有没有红颜知己？” „Has!” “有！” The students responded. 学生们纷纷回应。 „The bosom friend sentiment is above friendly understanding, love not full condition. They can be promoted the high-rank momentarily, but is not possibly able to obtain „ status” for a lifetime. It mixes with between the love and friendship. ” “闺蜜情是一种友达以上,恋爱未满的状态。他们随时都能够晋级上位,但也可能一辈子都无法得到“名分”。它夹杂在爱情和友情之间。” „Spare tire?” Some female students said. “备胎咯？”有女生说。 „It is not the spare tire, that will only insult the bosom friend sentiment.” Professor Liu shakes the head: „Spare tire is more like the person to leave a way out for oneself, but the bosom friend sentiment is one type real, everyone indispensable emotion. Believes that everyone had such experience, in the life experiences the worrying matter not to tell the family member, the friend who also with most was not better said that but in special an opposite sex with the life told. Usually, this can the person, no matter what you poured out was not the lover exceeds the lover, was not the family member exceeds the family member.” “不是备胎,那只会侮辱了闺蜜情。”刘教授摇头:“备胎更像是人在为自己留后路,而闺蜜情是一种真实的、每个人都不可或缺的情感。相信大家都有这样的体验,生活中遇到烦心事不是跟家人说,也不是跟最要好的朋友说,而是跟生命中一位特殊的异性诉说。通常,这个可以任你倾诉的人不是爱人胜过爱人,不是亲人胜过亲人。” Qin Baobao envies: „I also want male bosom friend.” 秦宝宝羡慕道:“我也想要一个男闺蜜。” Wang Zijin low voice tsukkomi: „You look, other light does to be obstinate and argumentative the King.” 王子衿小声吐槽:“你去找啊,别光做嘴强王者。” Qin Baobao sighed: „Elder sister also thinks that as long as with the man who I contact, covets elder sister's beauty.” 秦宝宝叹道:“姐也想啊,可但凡跟我接触的男人,都觊觎姐的美色。” Wang Zijin turns head to look at Qin Ze. 王子衿扭头看秦泽。 Qin Ze said excitedly: „Fart, you must ask that I did agree.” 秦泽激动道:“放屁,你得问问我同不同意。” „We chatted the friendship again, the friendship was the most indispensable emotion, a person can not have the love, even can not have the kinship, but cannot do without the friendship, such will make you feel very lonely. Has the medicine data statistics, the 90 percent autistic people, lacks the friendship to create. Therefore the friendship is a breadth. Meanwhile, the friendship can also transform as the love. The view of boyfriend girlfriend, originates from this.” “咱们再谈谈友情,友情是最不可或缺的情感,一个人可以没有爱情,甚至可以没有亲情,但不能没有友情,那样会让你觉得非常孤独。有医学数据统计,百分之九十自闭症患者,都是缺少友情造成的。所以说友情是一种广度。同时,友情也可以转化为爱情。男朋友女朋友的说法,就来源于此。” Some schoolmate raise hand: „But is not all friendship will transform the love, only among opposite sexes.” 有的同学举手:“但也不是所有友情都会转化成爱情吧,只适用于异性之间。” Professor Liu hē hē smiles: „Was too young, you think how gay partner this word did come?” 刘教授呵呵一笑:“还是太年轻了,你以为基友这个词怎么来的？” Yacketing. 哄堂大笑。 Qin Ze also smiled, this Professor Liu teaches, is truly humorous, there is a depth. The content solid stuff are many. Not like the hypertext fiction that he reads, performing is some rough seas Taotao's parallel imports. 秦泽也笑了,这位刘教授讲课,确实很幽默,也有深度。内容干货很多。不像他看的网络小说,尽是些大浪涛涛的水货。 „As for the kinship, probably was the warmest one sentiment. The love will deteriorate, the friendship will betray, but the kinship is the person for a lifetime the sentiment that is difficult to give up. Lives you to raise the sentiment of your parents, the hand and foot close older and younger brothers elder and younger sister sentiment. It has the reliable blood relationship to involve, is the lifetime fetters. The kinship is sometimes very complex, the certain extent is the transformation of love. Love likely fireworks, brilliant beautiful, actually not necessarily long-time. We often said that among couples seven-year itch. Actually is a love wears down manifestation in long years. At this time, because of child's fetters, overwhelming majority couples will transform the kinship the love. Among elderly married couples, what are more is together and lives like the family member. Being in love that the young lover can be inseparable. The ancients had completely understood that this essence, in their concept, the couple of respecting one another as one would a guest was the most perfect and reasonable pattern.” “至于亲情,大概是最温馨的一种感情了。爱情会变质,友情会背叛,而亲情是人一辈子最难割舍的感情。生你养你的父母之情,手足至亲的兄弟姐妹情。它有着牢固的血缘牵连,是一生的羁绊。亲情有时也很复杂,一定程度是爱情的转化。爱情像烟花,绚烂美丽,却未必长久。我们常说,夫妻之间七年之痒。其实是一种爱情消磨在漫长岁月中的体现。这个时候,因为孩子的羁绊,绝大部分的夫妻会把爱情转化成亲情。老夫老妻之间,更多的是像亲人那样相处、生活。小情侣才会如胶似漆的热恋。古人早就看透这个本质了,在他们观念里,相敬如宾的夫妻才是最完美、合理的模式。” „But......” a Professor Liu thread of conversation revolution, ejects a heavy case bomb: „Kinship will sometimes also transform the love. We are called the taboo love.” “但是......”刘教授话锋一转,抛出一个重磅炸弹:“亲情有时候也会转变成爱情。我们称为禁忌爱情。” In the students resounds low in an uproar. 学生中响起低低的哗然。 This topic was embarrassing, some female students even blush. 这个话题叫人尴尬,有些女生甚至红了脸。 Damn! 我去！ The Qin Ze heart said, big bro do you then want the god to launch? Can we change a topic? The thing that this 18 bans, saying must harmonious. I am young, you can withdraw. 秦泽心说,请问大哥你接下来要神展开吗？咱们能换个话题吗？这种十八禁的东西,说出来要被和谐的。我年纪还小,你可以撤回吗。 A Qin Baobao brow wrinkle. 秦宝宝眉头一皱。 The person who „incest in narrow sense refers to the blood relationship has the improper sexual relations. Generalized on incest including the narrow sense, in the rank has the bad person to have the improper sexual relations. Is the five human relationships in the traditional sense because of the sexual relationship, but upheaval, what/anything is the five human relationships: World Monarch pro- master.” Professor Liu spoke with confidence, did not see awkwardly, whole face „this was proper academic exchanges” expression. Is studies abroad worthily returned person outside, the thought is open enough. “狭义上的乱（和谐）伦是指有血缘关系的人发生不正当男女关系。广义上的乱（和谐）伦则是包括狭义在内,辈分上有差的人发生不正当男女关系。是传统意义上的五伦因为性关系而变乱,什么是五伦:天地君亲师。”刘教授侃侃而谈,丝毫不见尴尬,满脸“这是正经的学术交流”的表情。不愧是留洋在外的海归,思想够开放。 The Qin Ze heart said that chaotic five human relationships? This was fierce, has the Sūrya hero? 秦泽心说,乱五伦？这个就厉害了,有日天的英雄吗？ „Taboo love has very glorious history, can have the change each time to its definition, older male and younger female cousins marriage that for example everyone knows, in the ancient times was normal legitimate, was not good in the modern age. But the improper behavior of modern very common teachers and students love and relational hierarchy, cannot be approved and endured in the ancient times. The similarity has the person of blood relationship to have the improper sexual relations, was not approved in any time.” “禁忌爱情有着很悠久的历史,每个时代对它的定义会有变化,比如大家都知道的表兄妹结婚,在古代是正常合法的,在现代则不行。而现代很常见的师生恋、上下级关系的苟且行为,在古代是不能被认同和忍受的。相同点则是有血缘关系的人发生不正当男女关系,在任何时代都不被认可。” „We speak the kinship transformation love behavior on the key point today.” Professor Liu said: „Does not need to feel awkward and embarrassed, this is the academic exchanges.” “咱们今天就重点讲一讲亲情转变爱情的行为。”刘教授说:“不用感觉尴尬和不好意思,这是学术交流。” Some male students raise hand suddenly: „I feel the kinship transformation love behavior, very incredible funny, as long as there is a person of moral principle, will not do that.” 有男生忽然举手:“我觉得亲情转变爱情的行为,非常荒诞滑稽,但凡有伦理道德的人,都不会这么做。” Professor Liu said with a smile: „This conforms to the populace view very much, but this type truly exists now, cannot say is very common, but will not be few. Especially overseas. But in the ancient times, similar phenomenon were many. With for Tang Dynasty that atmosphere opening is famous. Emperor Taizong of Tang once wants to set up the sister-in-law Li Yuanji princess, when Empress. Afterward empress Wu Zetian, Yang Guifei, had taken care of the day family/home fathers and sons. However these, have nothing to do with the content that I must say, for the time being does not raise.” 刘教授笑道:“这很符合大众观,但这种现在的确存在,不能说很普遍,但不会少。尤其国外很多。而在古代,类似的现象不少。就拿以风气开放著称的唐朝来说。唐太宗曾经想立弟媳李元吉的王妃当皇后。还有后来的女帝武则天,杨贵妃,都曾经服侍过天家父子。不过这些,与我要说的内容无关,暂且不提。” „How does kinship transform as the love? Speaking of the psychology angle, there are two reasons: Environment and emotional requisition. The attention, is not the physiological drive. From the objective factor perspective, this kind of phenomenon often exists during not normal or the unhappy family relationship. The single-parent family will initiate Electra and Oedipus complex especially. Is a child lacks manifestation of security sense. Some professors of psychology believe, the child must get rid of Electra and Oedipus complex , the personality can the healthy development. The certain spirits of adult exceptionally and nature exceptionally, is unable to get rid of Electra and Oedipus complex .” “亲情如何转化为爱情？从心理学角度讲,有两种原因:环境和情感需求。注意,并不是生理需求。从客观因素方面来讲,此类现象往往存在于不正常或不幸福的家庭关系之中。单亲家庭尤其会引发恋父恋母情结。是一种孩子缺乏安全感的体现。有心理学专家认为,儿童必须摆脱恋父恋母情结,人格才能健康成长。成人的某些精神异常和性异常,就是无法摆脱恋父恋母情结。” „These are the psychological disease and mental illness, is abnormal, is unhealthy. Electra and Oedipus complex is very common, but has the affair truly, extremely rare. This probability in elder sister and younger brother and older brother and younger sister, will greatly be raised.” Professor Liu said: „Has 2D Hobby?” “这些属于心理疾病和精神疾病,是畸形的,不健康的。恋父恋母情结很普遍,但真正发生不正当关系的,凤毛麟角。这个概率在姐弟、兄妹之间,会大大提升。”刘教授说道:“有二次元爱好者吗？” Immediately a huā lā la piece raises hand, mostly is the male student. 顿时哗啦啦一片举手,大多是男生。 „In the island 2D work, there is named „ younger sis-con” the phenomenon, has almost the half of the country. Looks at similar anime person to discover, younger sister in work has the enormous dependence to elder brother, each bro-con younger sister, does not get on well with others, eccentric. In their world, rarely has other opposite sexes excluding elder brother. elder brother is the entirety of their world, thus forms the intense dependence. If other female student is close to elder brother, they will be angry. younger sister have a common attribute: tsundere. Likes elder brother, does not dare to say. Cares obviously very much, actually must fit out „elder brother in my eyes is only salted fish” stance. Reasons for this include, this is the sentiment that one type was not approved and accepted. ” “在岛国二次元作品中,有个叫做“妹控”的现象,几乎占据半壁江山。看过类似动漫的人可以发现,作品里的妹妹对哥哥都有极大的依赖性,每个兄控妹妹,都是不合群的,孤僻的。她们的世界里,很少有除哥哥之外的其他异性。哥哥就是她们世界的全部,从而形成强烈的依赖性。别的女生如果接近哥哥,她们会非常愤怒。妹妹们还有一个共同的属性:傲娇。喜欢哥哥,偏偏不敢说出来。明明很在乎,却要装成“哥哥在我眼里只是一条咸鱼”的姿态。究其原因,这是一种不被认同、接受的感情。” „I name as it rely on the love sentiment. This truth is also suitable on elder sister and younger brother, if you discovered that the side has relies on elder brother or the elder sister's person very much, then may is bro-con elder siscon.” “我把它命名为依赖性（和谐）爱情。这个道理也适用在姐弟身上,如果你们发现身边有很依赖哥哥或者姐姐的人,那么很有可能就是兄控姐控。” „Writer has said that the novel originates from the life, is higher than the life. The cartoon however, the island 2D work, is also exaggerating. elder siscon younger sis-con in reality, is vague. They likely do not have to realize oneself have such abnormal sentiment, even thought that among the intimate manner with elder brother elder sister is normal.” “有一位作家说过,小说来源于生活,高于生活。漫画亦然,岛国二次元的作品,是夸大的。现实中的姐控妹控,是隐晦的。他们很可能都没意识到自己有这样畸形的感情,甚至觉得和哥哥姐姐之间的亲密举止是正常的。” „Does schoolmate present, have elder siscon younger sis-con? Raises hand to have a look.” Professor Liu cracks a joke to say. “在座的同学,有没有姐控妹控的？举个手看看。”刘教授开玩笑道。 A peace. 一片安静。 Qin Baobao said suddenly: „Nonsense.” 秦宝宝忽然道:“胡说八道。” She very angry appearance. 她很愤怒的样子。
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