On October 9 , 2022, in the afternoon2o'clock.
2022年10月9日,下午二点40。
The Guangxiprovinceprovincial capital, riverFengzhanin the east stationexit, waits for the elder sister who returnsfromHubei.
桂省省城,江枫站在东站出站口,等待从鄂省归来的姐姐。Becauseseveralminutes of trainarrives, in additionoutputtingalsowants the time, thereforeriverFenghas not then been staring at the exit, butopenedbeginningappto look.
因为还有几分钟列车才到站,再加上出站也要点时间,所以江枫便没有一直盯着出站口,而是打开起点app看起了。This, canlookanytime and anywhere, will not disturbothers.
就这点好,随时随地都可以看,而且不会打扰到别人。RecentlyriverFengdiscoverednamed«DiningBig shot»endedthisold book, whatmainlysaidwas the leadrebirthreturns to 2000, thendiscontinued studiessecretly, startsto do businesswith the school expense that the parentsgave, startedfromyoungwhiteQietan, grewstep by step the story of diningbig shot.
最近江枫发现了一本名叫《餐饮大佬》的完本老书,主要讲的是主角重生回到2000年,然后偷偷辍学,拿父母给的学费开始做生意,从一个小小的白切摊做起,一步步成长成餐饮大佬的故事。Althoughwritingresults in the shortcomingto be many, butriverFengverylooksiscrisp, canbe usedto kill the boredtime.
虽然书写得缺点不少,但江枫看得还是挺爽的,可以用来打发一下无聊时间。WhenriverFenglooksfascinated, suddenlynoiseresounds, helooks up, discovered a group ofpassengerfrom the channel, obviously the trainhas arrived.
就在江枫看得入迷的时候,忽然一阵嘈杂声响起,他抬头一看,才发现一大群乘客从通道中走了出来,显然列车已经到站了。riverFengreceives the cell phoneimmediately, the elongatedneckseeks forelder sister'sformtoward the crowd.
江枫当即收起手机,伸长脖子往人群中寻找姐姐的身影。Looked for enough2-3minutes, finallysawform that ownelder sisterthatselectshigh.
看了足足2-3分钟,才终于看到自家姐姐那高挑的身影。Elder sisterriversnow1.66 meters in height, thisheightputin the norththat is ordinary, graspedabsolutelybig. But placed Guangxiprovincenational averageheightatfrom the bottom the firstseveralplaces, withliking a crane among chickensto describe that perhapsis somewhat exaggerating, butin the crowdreallyfewwomanheightcancomparewith the elder sister.
姐姐江雪身高1米66,这身高搁在北方那是再普通不过了,绝对是一抓一大把。但在桂省这个全国平均身高排在倒数前几名的地方,用鹤立鸡群来形容或许有些夸张,但人群中是真的没几个女人身高能跟姐姐相比。At this time, riverXuealsosaw the little brotherinexit, immediatelysaidwithsidethataunt: „Auntie Liu, myyounger brothermetme, Ifirstwalked!”
此时,江雪也看到了等在出站口的小弟,当即跟旁边那位阿姨说道:“柳阿姨,我弟弟来接我了,我就先走了哈!”Auntie Liusighed, said: „Rivermiss, Ifelt that reallyhas the fatewithyou, iflateryoutoourGuizhouprovince, mayprobablycallme, Igoodcompletelyto perform the duties of a host!”
柳阿姨叹了口气,说道:“江姑娘,我感觉跟你是真的有缘分,以后你若是到咱们黔省来的话,可一定要给我打电话,我好尽一尽地主之谊!”riverXuethankedsincerely: „ThanksAuntie Liuyourdeep affection, ifthere is an opportunityto arrive in the Guizhouprovince, Icontact certainly withyou!”
江雪真诚的谢道:“谢谢柳阿姨你的厚爱,如果有机会到黔省,我一定联系你!”Auntie Liunods saying: „Thatturns headIto makemy sonaddyourWeChat, at the appointed timeyourememberadopts!”
柳阿姨点头道:“那回头我让我儿子加你微信,到时你记得通过一下哦!”riverXuewensaidawkwardsaying with a smile: „Good, Iwalked, Auntie Liusaid goodbye!”During the speeches, the riversnowthendrew the suitcaseto brush the ID cardto walk.
江雪闻言尴尬的笑道:“好的,那我走了,柳阿姨再见!”说话间,江雪便拉着行李箱刷身份证走了出去。Auntie Liufollows close onafter that looks that withriverXue who hisyounger brotherwalks away, is really morelooksmorelikes, in the heartdecides, thentoldwell the son, makinghimpursuethismissattentively, lookcanpursue.
柳阿姨紧跟其后,看着跟自家弟弟走远的江雪,真是越看越喜欢,心中打定主意,回头就跟儿子好好说一下,让他用心的追一追这姑娘,看看能不能追到手。
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……Inhelping the elder sisterdraws the suitcaseto go to the road in parking lot, riverFengasked: „Elder sister, whojust the auntwas, looked that youchattedcongeniallywithher.”
在帮姐姐拉着行李箱去停车场的路上,江枫问道:“姐,刚刚那阿姨是谁啊,看你跟她聊得蛮投机的。”Mentionedthis, riverXuecould not bearspit the mortise: „Not to mention, juststartedalsoto think that wasruns into the matchmakerto travel together, is thinking was quite diligenttwomoves, has not actually thought that Auntie Liuwas so interesting, looked for the partnerforownsonunexpectedly.”
一提到这个,江雪就忍不住吐槽道:“别提了,刚开始还以为是遇到媒人同行了,想着跟人好好学两招,却没想到柳阿姨这么有意思,竟然是替自己儿子找对象。”Then, does not needriverFengto inquire,toldaccount, endsaid: „Auntie Liunot onlyaddedmyWeChatwithwantingmycell phone number, added that mustmakeher sonaddmyWeChat, Ido not know how shoulddeal with!”
接着,不待江枫询问,就把事情经过讲述了一遍,末了才说道:“那柳阿姨不仅仅加了我的微信跟要了我的手机号码,还说要让她儿子加我微信,我都不知道该怎么应付了!”riverFengwensaidlaughs saying: „It seems likemyelder sister'scharmalsoreallyenoughbig!”
江枫闻言哈哈大笑道:“看来我姐的魅力还真够大的啊!”riverXuehelplessshaking the head, shifts the topic: „Makesyounot needto meetme, youmustcome, several hundredkilometersroad!”
江雪无奈的摇了摇头,转移话题道:“让你不用来接我,你非得来,几百公里路呢!”riverFengsaid with a smile: „Idlesin any caseis also idling, drivesalso less than fourhours, like thisyououtputwe to go homedirectly, otherwiseyou must drag the suitcaseto take the subwayto catch uptoward the motor station, toss aboutwas also exhausting!”
江枫笑道:“反正闲着也是闲着,开车也就不到四个小时,这样你出站咱们就可以直接回家了,要不然你还得拖着行李箱坐地铁往汽车站赶,折腾来折腾去的也蛮累人的!”riverXueputs out a handto buildhisshoulder, is moved: „Youare goodto the elder sister!”
江雪伸手搭着他的肩膀,感动道:“还是你对姐好!”
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……WhenriverFengsister and brothergo home, isevening's7o'clock.
等江枫姐弟俩回到家的时候,已经是晚上七点钟了。In the family/home, Ms. Jiangpinches the timeto cook, whenriverFengsister and brother'sproficienttime, justcaneat meal.
家里,江母掐着时间炒菜,等江枫姐弟到家的时候,刚好可以吃饭。
The family of five, verylonghave not sat togetherate meal, happyMr. Jiangopenedonebottle of Maotaito drinkwitheldest sonriverflyingespeciallyslowly.
一家五口,已经很久没坐在一起吃饭了,高兴的江父特地开了一瓶茅台酒跟大儿子江飞慢慢喝了起来。Nowfamily'sMaotaihas saveddozensbottles, occasionallyopenedonebottleto drinkis not anything.
如今家里的茅台酒已经存了好几十瓶,偶尔开一瓶来喝已经不算什么事了。ButMs. Jiang, riverXueas well asriverFengthreepeople, thenopenedonebottle of red winesto drink.
而江母、江雪以及江枫三人,则开了一瓶红酒来喝。
After waiting for the liquoroverthreepatrollingvegetables/dishesto cross the five senses, riverFengcaisaid: „Big brother, the elder sister, Imettwocustomersfor these days, tomorrowwill leadyouto visitto act as a matchmakertogether, makes a demonstrationtoyou. Thenreceives the customeragain, Iam responsible forproviding the materialforyou, otherdepended onyouto reconcile!”
等酒过三巡菜过五味之后,江枫才说道:“大哥,姐,我这几天接了两个客户,明天就带你们一起登门说媒,给你们做个示范。回头再接到客户,我就负责替你们提供资料,其他的就靠你们自己来撮合了!”riverFeiwensaidsomewhatdisturbedsaying: „Smallmaple tree, my glib lipsare not very agile, emotional quotient is not very high, but alsoreallyfeared that cannot completethismatter.”
江飞闻言有些忐忑的说道:“小枫,我这嘴皮子不够利索,情商也不够高,还真怕做不好这事。”riverFengsaid with a smile: „Big brother you do not needto worry,acting as a matchmaker is actually very simple, so long ashasboth partiesmaterial, thengood and bad points of both sidesclearsaidclearly, ifboth sidesintendedto arrangethemto be on intimate termsagain, onok!”
江枫笑道:“大哥你不用担心,说媒其实很简单的,只要掌握男女双方资料,然后把双方的优缺点明明白白的讲清楚,若是双方有意再安排他们相亲,也就ok了!”riverXueputs downto say the chopsticks: „Key that thereforethisacts as a matchmaker, is actually material of both sides?”
江雪把筷子放下道:“所以说这做媒的关键,其实就是双方的资料吧?”riverFengnods saying: „Yes, howto do the both sidesmaterial, thenwhomatches in whomtogetherappropriately, thisis the key of acting as a matchmaker, thesedo not needyouto worry. Thereforeacts as a matchmakerto you are very simple, the basicbelt/bringopens mouthon the line , there is nothing to be worried!”
江枫点头道:“是的,如何搞到双方资料,然后谁跟谁搭配在一起合适,这才是做媒的关键,这些都不用你们去操心。所以做媒对于你们来说简单得很,基本带张嘴就行,没什么好担心的!”riverflyingandriverXuehearto nodagain and again.
江飞与江雪听得连连点头。Thisfood, has eaten8 : 00 pmto be loose.
这顿饭,一直吃到晚上 8 点才散。
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……Wei XuefengandXia Lingling'swedding datedecided.
魏雪峰与夏玲玲的婚期定下来了。ActuallyinXia Linglingcomplies with‚to look atmain house gate’that moment, has the preparation that the opposite partymarries, but the sincerity of Weitrulyalsotouchedher, underWei Xuefengis in hot pursuit, two peopledecided the wedding datefinally.
其实在夏玲玲答应去‘看家门’的那一刻,就已经有了跟对方结婚的心理准备,而魏家的诚意确实也打动了她,在魏雪峰穷追不舍下,两人终于把婚期定了下来。
After setting the wedding date, twothenstartto go into action.
定下婚期后,两家便开始行动起来。Firstfirstreorganizes the list that treats.
首先是先整理出请客的名单。Inthislistcontainsrelatives of both sides, to send, friend, schoolmate, the business partnerslightlywait/etc.
这份名单中包含双方的亲戚、发小、朋友、同学、生意伙伴等等。
To reorganize such a treatinglist, regardinganyfamilyis not an easymatter, whichpeople is mainly weighs to invite, whichpeoplemaypleasenot invite, whichpeopledo not needto invite.
想要整理出这样的一份请客名单,对于任何一个家庭来说都不是一件轻松事,主要是衡量哪些人必须请,哪些人可请可不请,哪些人不用请。Whatis most essential, the person who mustinvitecannotomitone.
最关键的是,必须请的人不能遗漏一个。Thisregardinghuman relationsbroadperson, but alsoreallydoes not know that mustdiemanybrain cellsto be good.
这对于交际广阔的人来说,还真不知道要死多少脑细胞才行。Wei, the relative and business partnerand so on, make the parentshandle, Wei Xuefengis only responsible forreorganizingsendssmall, friendas well asschoolmate'streatinglist.
魏家这边,亲戚以及生意伙伴之类的,都让父母搞定,魏雪峰只负责整理发小、朋友以及同学的请客名单。Reorganizes the list, after confirminghas not omitted, the start that Wei Xuefengis then overjoyedgives the person on treatinglist11to telephone, his firsttelephonehas hituniversity schoolmatewoofWenjie.
把名单整理出来,确认没有遗漏之后,魏雪峰便满面春风的开始给请客名单上的人一一打电话,他第一个电话是打过大学同学汪文杰。
A telephoneconnection, Wei Xuefengonsaying with a smile of coming straight to the point: „woofless/small, mywedding dateset, beforehad toldyouNew Year's Daythat daymarried, at the appointed timeyoumayprobablyfind the timeto participate inmywedding!”
电话一接通,魏雪峰就开门见山的笑道:“汪少,我的婚期定下了,正是之前跟你说过的元旦那天结婚,到时你可一定要抽时间来参加我的婚礼哈!”woofWenjiesaidwith amazement: „Lyingtrough, your speedalsoreallyenoughquick, happen tomymatteron hand was also busysimilarly, youhelpedmepresentthatmatchmakerGrandmaster, Ialsoaskedhimto act as a matchmakerforme, can lookfindappropriately!”
汪文杰惊讶道:“卧槽,你这速度还真够快的啊,正好我手头的事也忙得差不多了,你帮我引见一下那位媒人大师,我也请他替我做媒,看看能不能找到合适的!”Wei Xuefenghahasaid with a smile: „Presentationnaturallydoes not have the issue, looking forGrandmasterriveracted as a matchmakerthatislooks, whenyouwantto visitto ask the intermediaryto sayonetome.”
魏雪峰哈哈笑道:“引见当然没问题,找江大师做媒那是找对人了,你想什么时候登门请媒就跟我说一声。”woofWenjiepromptlysaid: „Might as wellhitat a later dateday, thatdecidestomorrow, howbeforeyouvisitedto invite the intermediary, whatpresentneedsto prepare, youtellme, so as to avoid being disrespectfulat the appointed time.”
汪文杰当机立断道:“择日不如撞日,那就定明天吧,之前你是怎么登门请媒的,需要准备什么样的礼品,你跟我说一下,免得到时失礼。”Wei Xuefengsaid: „The beforehandtheseinvited the intermediarypresentallaremy fatherprepare, includingtenbottles of Maotaiandtengreat nationshappy, tenboxes of tea...... as well as13800Yuancashred packages, probablywasthese.”
魏雪峰道:“之前的那些请媒礼品全都是我爸准备的,其中有十瓶茅台、十条大国喜、十盒茶……以及一个13800元的现金红包,大概就是这些。”woofWenjiesaid: „Yousaidlike thisIhas several, I make one prepare the present and red packetnow, is lategoes tothat sideyoudirectly, tomorrowwill visitto invite the intermediaryagain.”
汪文杰道:“你这样说我心里就有数了,那我现在就让人准备礼品与红包,晚点就直接去你那边,明天再登门请媒。”Wei Xuefengsaid: „Ok, thatIarrangeonetableto giveyouin the evening the reception!”
魏雪峰道:“行,那晚上我安排一桌给你接风!”Immediately, two peoplechattedseveral, thenmade the telephone call.
随即,两人闲聊了几句,便挂掉了电话。
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……Wufu Town.
五福镇。hugeChunyanis spreading one's wares on the ground for saleto sell the fruit, shedoes not have the facadeon the street, ondikedaytime, usesthreeroundsshipmentmotorcyclesto draw the fruitto the streeton, is casualnear the streetlooks forplaceto opensells.
庞春燕正在摆地摊卖水果,她在街上没有门面,每逢圩日的时候,就用三轮载货摩托车把水果拉到街上,然后随便在街道边上找个地儿开卖。Becausedoes not set up a stalldaily, but the fruitis not easyto preserve, therefore the quantity of hugeChunyaninventoryare not every time many, basiconedikedaycansell-out, even if not be able to sell-outoccasionallywill not remainmany, withgoing homeoneselfwill eatand that's the end.
因为不是天天出摊,而水果又不易保存,所以庞春燕每次进货的数量都不多,基本一个圩日就能卖完,就算偶尔卖不完也不会剩多少,拿回家自己吃就是了。Hundredbeamcountiesvillagesdikedays, most popularwere9 : 00 amto1 : 00 pmthis time, after crossingthispoint, basicallyalsoonloosedike.
百梁县这边的乡镇圩日,人气最旺的就是上午9点到下午1点这个时间,过了这个点后基本也就散圩了。Therefore, can the fruitsell-out, looks atthistime.
因此,水果能不能卖完,就看这个时间段。Today'sfruitis quite freshdelicious, hugeChunyanstocked with goodsalsocompared withwantedin the pastmany.
今天的水果比较新鲜好吃,庞春燕进货也就比往常要多一点。Starting from8 : 30 am, has soldwill soon disperse the dike the time, shesold the fruitfinally7788, onlyremainsseveralcarambolasnot to sell-out.
从上午 8 点半开始,一直卖到即将散圩的时候,她终于把水果卖了个七七八八,仅剩几个杨桃还没卖完而已。Is thinkingjust rightfor sometimehas not eaten the carambola, thenquits work the preparationto bring back to the family/hometo eat the remainingseveralcarambolassimply.
想着正好有段时间没吃杨桃了,便干脆收摊准备把剩下的几个杨桃带回家吃。WhenhugeChunyanpacks the thingearnestly, a clearsoundpassed on: „Hello, are youhugeChunyanAuntie Pang?”
就在庞春燕埋头收拾东西的时候,一个清亮的声音传了过来:“你好,请问你是庞春燕庞阿姨吗?”hugeChunyangoesfollowing the prestige, discovered that has the two male and one femalethreeyoung peopleto standbeforeherthreerounds of shipmentmotorcycles, butthatyoung fellow of questionis seemingly youngest.
庞春燕循声望去,发现有两男一女三个年轻人站在她的三轮载货摩托车前,而问话的那个小伙子看起来年纪最小。„IamhugeChunyan, whatmatter do youaskmeto have?”
“我就是庞春燕,请问你们找我有什么事吗?”riverFengsaid with a smile: „Hello, Auntie Pang, myname wasriverFeng, came fromQinghe Town of next door, thiswasmy brotherandmyelder sister, our timeslooked foryou, wantsto act as a matchmakerforyou, does not know that youdid facilitateto find a timeto chatwithus?”
江枫笑道:“你好,庞阿姨,我叫江枫,来自于隔壁的青河镇,这是我哥和我姐,我们这次来找你,是想替你做个媒,不知道你方不方便抽个时间跟我们聊一聊?”hugeChunyansuspectedoneselfmisunderstood, the whole facesaidwith amazement: „Acts as a matchmakerforme?”
庞春燕怀疑自己听错了,满脸惊讶道:“替我做媒?”riverFengnods saying: „Yes, Auntie Pangyoudo not visitmeto be young, butIhave mademore than tenintermediariesthis period of time!”
江枫点头道:“是的,庞阿姨你别看我年轻,但我这段时间已经做成十几个媒了!”hugeChunyantidies upto puton the vehicleallthings, shakes the head saying: „Rivermatchmaker, youfound fault the person, youin a big waylooked atme one age, wherealsohad the thoughts of getting married!”
庞春燕把所有东西都收拾好放到车上,摇头说道:“江媒人,你是不是找错人了,你看我都一大把年纪了,哪里还有嫁人的心思啊!”riverFengdao: „ Auntie Pang, Ihad heardmatter that you, youfirst half of lifelivefor others, now the childrengoing outhave worked, does not needyouto take care ofthemagain, was the timeconsidersownlatter half of one's life!
江枫道:“庞阿姨,我听说过你的事,你前半生都是为了他人而活,现在儿女都已经出去工作了,不需要你再来照顾他们,也是时候考虑一下自己的后半生了!After all, the childrencannotaccompanyyouto crossfor a lifetime, theylaterwill also form the respectivefamily, hasownwife and kid to raise, canbe bound by a common destinywithyouaccompaniesfor a lifetimeyour can only beownhusband.
毕竟,儿女不能陪你过一辈子,他们以后也会组建各自的家庭,有自己的老婆孩子要养,能跟你相依为命陪你一辈子的只能是自己的丈夫。Therefore, Auntie Pangdo not flatly refuse, looks for the conveniencespeech the place, Ibriefed the situation of groom's familyforyou, ifyoureallydid not wantthatusnot to force, youdid lookare like this good? ”
所以,庞阿姨你别一口拒绝,找个方便说话的地方,我为你介绍一下男方的情况,如果你真不愿意那咱们也不勉强,你看这样行不行?”hugeChunyanlooked atriverFengoneeyes, praised: „Ireallybelievenowactuallyyouwere a matchmaker, the mouth was really cansay, thatline, ifyoudid not shut out, arrivedaunthometo drinkcup of teato chat!”
庞春燕看了江枫一眼,赞道:“我现在倒是真相信你是媒人了,嘴巴真是太会说了,那行吧,如果你们不嫌弃的话,就到阿姨家喝杯茶聊一聊!”riverFengsaid with a smile: „Thatis indeed good, ourcar(riage)sstopinside, Auntie Pangyouguideson the lineby all means!”
江枫笑道:“那敢情好,我们的车就停在旁边,庞阿姨你只管带路就行!”hugeChunyannods, thenboardsto guide.
庞春燕点了点头,便上车带路。
After tenminutes .
十分钟后。hugeChunyanboils waterto make tea, whilegreeted the riverFengthreebrother and sisterto sit down.
庞春燕一边烧水泡茶,一边招呼江枫三兄妹坐下。At this time, the riverfliesriverXue, admirestoownlittle brotherfull of admiration, no wonder the little brothercanin the shortthreemonthsmakes the sodazzlingprogress, thisglib lipsalso are really notgeneralfierce.
此时,无论是江飞还是江雪,都对自家小弟佩服得五体投地,难怪小弟能够在短短三个月的时间取得如此耀眼的成绩,这嘴皮子还真不是一般的厉害。Tradesto bethem, even if clear about the situation of opposite party, does not have the meansin such a short timeto convincethisAuntie Pangto bring homethemto drink tea.
换作他们,哪怕都清楚对方的情况,也没办法在这么短的时间内说服这位庞阿姨带他们回家喝茶。WhenhugeChunyanboils watermakes tea, riverFengoptionalchattedwithhersells the matter of fruit, asked that was laboriousdoes make moneyanything.
在庞春燕烧水泡茶的时候,江枫随意的跟她聊一聊卖水果的事,问一下辛不辛苦赚不赚钱啥的。WhenhugeChunyansoaks the good teaendto come up, riverFengcaistartsto discuss that withher the proper businesssaid: „ Auntie Pang, Ifortheobject who youintroducedisourrural population, this year is 48 years old, samehave one son and one daughter withyou, have started the work.
等庞春燕泡好茶端上来,江枫才开始跟她谈正事道:“庞阿姨,我替你介绍的这个对象是我们村人,今年48岁,跟你一样有一个儿子一个女儿,都已经参加工作了。Heiscompetent that our villagebecomes famous, throughout the yearanythingmakes moneyto do, for examplespoke of the litchi chinensisseason, hepurchases the litchi chinensisforsomebossesin the village, gains a smallprice difference.
他是我们村出了名的能干,一年四季什么赚钱就干什么,比如说到了荔枝季节,他就替一些老板在村里收购荔枝,赚点小小的差价。
A litchi chinensisseasonlater, basicallycangaintens of thousands.
一个荔枝季下来,基本都能赚个好几万。
The litchi chinensisseasonpassed by, then the dragon eyeseasoncame, hewill repeatthisoperation, gains a wave of price differenceagain. Waits forafter the dragon eyeseason, the middlewill have the neutral gearperiod, hewill build the house, blows the walltiling, in briefanythingdoes.
荔枝季过去了,然后龙眼季又来了,他又会重复这个操作,再赚一波差价。等龙眼季过后,中间会有个空档期,他又会替人盖房子,刮墙贴砖,总之什么都干。Thenclose toSpring Festival, will hitbuckheto sellspecially, becauseheis steadfast, the prestigeis also good, anddidso manyyears, hasmanycustomers, Spring Festivalaround about twomonths, cangaintens of thousands.
然后临近春节,又会专门打灰水籺卖,由于他踏实能干,信誉又好,且又干了那么多年,拥有很多客户,春节前后两个月左右的时间,又能赚个好几万。In brief, oneyearare numerous, gainsmore than ten200,000not to have the issue. ”
总之,一年林林总总下来,赚个十几二十万是没问题的。”riverFengthese words saying,inhugeChunyanmindbasicallyhad the generalimpression of thisman, thatisdiligent, steadfastandcompetent, isperson who canlivewell.
江枫这一番话说完,庞春燕脑海中基本就有了这个男人的大概印象,那就是勤奋、踏实、能干,是个可以好好过日子的人。Therefore, had little interestherto the second marriage, cannot bearmake noiseto ask: „Rivermatchmaker, his wife?”
因此,原本对再婚没多大兴趣的她,也忍不住出声问道:“江媒人,那他的老婆呢?”riverFengwensaidto sigh: „Actuallyheis togetheralsovery wellwithhis wife, onlyhis wifeassigns/lifepitifullythinly, several years agohad the serious illnessto pass away!”
江枫闻言叹了口气道:“其实他跟他的老婆相处得也挺好的,只可惜他的老婆命薄,前几年得重病去世了!”hugeChunyanwhenbeing suddenly enlighted, had the feeling of having same problem, becauseher husband was also several years agohas the serious illnessto pass away, thispersonsoundedtrulygood, butinherheartactuallysomehesitations.
庞春燕在恍然大悟之余,不禁生出了同病相怜的感觉,因为她的老公也是前几年得重病去世了,这人听起来确实不错,但她心中却有些踌躇。After all, after shesince the husbanddied, has not thoughtremarrying, nowhadsuchthoughts, does not know that her soncanacceptwith the daughter.
毕竟,她自从老公死了以后,也没有想过再嫁,如今动了这样的心思,不知道她的儿子跟女儿能不能接受。riverFengwatches a person's every mood, knows that the opposite partyhad been persuadedbyher, butin the heartalsohasotherworries, inhisheart a revolution, thenunderstands that herworryisanything, immediatelyasked: „Auntie Pang, are you worryremarry, feared that yourchildrendon't agree?”
江枫察言观色,知道对方已经被她说动,但心中又有其他顾虑,他心中一转,便明白她的顾虑是什么,当即问道:“庞阿姨,你是不是担心再嫁,怕你儿女不同意啊?”hugeChunyanlookssurprisedlytoriverFeng, the nodsaid: „Rivermatchmakersyouguessed, Ireallyhavethisworry, iftheydo not agree, the goodpersonIwill be impossibleto marry.”
庞春燕惊讶的看向江枫,点头道:“江媒人你猜中了,我确实有这个顾虑,要是他们不同意的话,再好的人我也不可能会嫁的。”riverFengself-confidentsaying: „Auntie Pang, so long asyourselfhavethisthoughts, yourchildren'sissuecangiveme, Iwill convincethemforyou, makingthemdeliveryouto get marrieddelightedly!”
江枫自信的说道:“庞阿姨,只要你自己有这个心思,那你儿女的问题可以交给我,我会替你说服他们,让他们欢欢喜喜的送你出嫁!”hugeChunyanreallydoes not know the self-confidence where hecomes, this becomes mother, does not dareto speaksuchwords.
庞春燕真不知道他哪来的自信,就连她这个当母亲的,都不敢说这样的话。Howeversaw that riverFengis so self-confident, hugeChunyanalsobelieves that hedid not talk irresponsibly, then continuedto inquire that the othersituations of groom's family, the requestwatches the picturewhile convenientand so on.
不过看到江枫如此自信,庞春燕也相信他不是信口开河,便转而继续打听男方的其他情况,顺便要求看一看照片之类的。riverFeng is also taking great painstoldher the situation of groom's familyclearly, concealed nothing whatsoeverincludinggroom's familysomeshortcomings, sayshugeChunyanunceasinglyto nod, reallyhad the thoughtstothismarriage.
江枫也是不厌其烦的把男方的情况明明白白的告诉她,包括男方的一些缺点也是毫不隐瞒,说得庞春燕不断点头,对这门亲事还真动了心思。riverFengsaw to sayhas saidsimilarly, thenset outto say goodbye: „ Auntie Pang, wefirstwalked, thissituationyoucanfirstcommunicatewithyoursondaughter, has a look atthemisanythingresponded.
江枫见该说的都已经说得差不多了,便起身告辞道:“庞阿姨,那我们就先走了,这个情况你可以先跟自己的儿子女儿沟通一下,看看他们是什么反应。Ifyoucansolvethisissuethatwell, ifyoucould not solve, calledme, one side Iwill find the timeto gowiththemto see, thenfound the wayto convincethem. ”
如果你能自己解决这个问题那最好,如果你解决不了的话,就给我打电话,我会抽时间去跟他们见一面,然后想办法说服他们。”hugeChunyannods, said: „Goodrivermatchmaker, Ithenproposewiththemthismatter, haswhatsituationto callyouagain!”
庞春燕点了点头,说道:“好的江媒人,我回头就跟他们提一下这个事情,有什么情况再给你打电话!”„Un, wefirstwalked, Auntie Pangsaid goodbye!”
“嗯,那我们就先走了,庞阿姨再见!”Fromvisitsto leavewith the little brother, riverflyingandriverXueonlywork as themselves an invisible man, two peoplea few wordsdid not say, butis studyinglittle brother'sacting as a matchmakerskillsecretly.
从跟着小弟登门到离开,江飞与江雪都只把自己当个隐形人,两人一句话都不说,只是暗暗学习着小弟的做媒技巧。Sees the little brotherwithAuntie Pang'sdialogue, in the brother and sisterheart some faintcomprehensions, understandwhichangleacts as a matchmaker should from persuade the opposite party.
看完小弟跟庞阿姨的对话,兄妹俩心中都隐隐有些领悟,明白了做媒该从哪个角度去劝说对方。If before today, theyalsotoacting as a matchmakerto know nothing, thenwitnesses the process that the little brotheracted as a matchmakernow, theyregardingacted as a matchmakeralonealreadynotlikebeforeuneasy, buthadownidea.
如果说今天之前他们还对做媒一窍不通,那么现在亲眼目睹了小弟做媒的过程,他们对于独自做媒已经不像之前一样忐忑不安,而是有了自己的想法。However, makesthemhave a headacheonly, isAuntie Pang'schildren, iftheydo not agree with mother to get married and leave, whatanglethatshouldfromconvincethem?
不过,唯一让他们头痛的,就是庞阿姨的儿女,如果他们不同意母亲外嫁,那该从什么角度去说服他们呢?Therefore, on the road, riverflyingthenaskedthisquestion.
于是,在回去的路上,江飞便把这个问题问了出来。riverFengdirectsto saywith a smile: „Big brother, elder sister, iftheydid not agree that mother gets married and leave, that conducted to persuadefromkinship, so long asgraspedthisissue the core, adapted to changing circumstancesagain, shouldbeis not difficultto solve.”
江枫笑着指点道:“大哥,姐,如果他们不同意母亲外嫁的话,那就得从亲情方面进行劝说了,只要把握住这个问题的核心,再随机应变,应该是不难解决了。”riverflyingandriverXuehearlooking pensive.
江飞与江雪都听得若有所思。riverFengadded: „ Actually, the childrendo not want mother to get married and leave, Ianalyzed, hasthreereasonsprobably: First, gossippedshyly;second, to accept mother left itself;third, after to fear mother got married and leave, was bullied.
江枫补充道:“其实,儿女不希望母亲外嫁,我分析了一下,大概有三个原因:一是怕人说闲话,二是接受不了母亲离开自己,三是怕母亲外嫁后受人欺负。So long ascandispeltheirthesemisgivings, basicallydid not have the majorproblem! ”
只要能打消他们的这些顾虑,基本也就没多大问题了!”riverXuecannot help butsighs with emotion: „Smallmaple tree, it seems likeyouthesethreemonths of matchmakershas not really worked aswhite/in vain, variousthingsanalyzerationally, is really enoughfierce.”
江雪不由得感慨道:“小枫,看来你这三个月的媒人还真没白当,各种事情分析得头头是道的,真是够厉害的。”InriverFeixinalsohas endless emotion, is a motherlives, is the differencesobig?
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