Leaves for on High Speed Rail of Guangxi province provincial capital, Yang Dongtai and king Tiantian sit abreast in row, two people start from the hypertext fiction, chat the novel type that likes respectively, this same hobby makes two people chat extremely congenially. 开往桂省省城的高铁上,杨东泰与王甜甜并排而坐,两人从网络小说入手,聊各自喜欢的小说类型,这种相同的爱好让两人聊得极为投机。 Originally, king Tiantian had decided with mother, to under stood gets out, then goes home, the person who after all wants to see had seen, does not need to run Guangxi to omit again. 原本,王甜甜跟母亲已经决定,到了下一站就下车,然后打道回府,毕竟想要见的人已经见到了,没必要再跑桂省去。 What has not thought that matchmaker who not only they must see on vehicle, king Tiantian the match object also on the vehicle, both sides chats now such congenially, where is willing the next stand to get out! 可没想到的是,不仅仅她们要见的媒人在车上,就连王甜甜的匹配对象也在车上,如今双方聊得这么投机,哪里舍得下一站下车啊！ When person pain, the time seems incomparably long, but works as the person is joyful, the time becomes very short. 当人痛苦的时候,时间就会显得无比漫长,而当人快乐的时候,时间就会变得非常短暂。 Yang Dongtai and king Tiantian chatted are several hours, prompted Nanning Station to arrive until the broadcast, they seemed to be awakening from a dream, then smiled. 杨东泰与王甜甜一聊就是几个小时,直到广播提示南宁站到了,他们才如梦初醒,然后相视一笑。 Several hours chat, both sides gave the opposite party to make very good impression. 短短几个小时的聊天,双方都给对方留下了非常好的印象。 „Will get out, we walk together, I first give you and aunt arrange the hotel, then puts away the baggage, then goes out to eat a midnight snack together, how do you look?” Yang Dongtai asked. “等会下车了,咱们一起走,我先给你和阿姨安排好住的酒店,然后把行李放好,再一起出去吃点夜宵,你看怎么样？”杨东泰问道。 king Tiantian did not answer to ask back: „Don't you first go to your relative's house?” 王甜甜不答反问道:“你不先去你亲戚家吗？” Through beforehand chat, king Tiantian naturally knows that the tour of Yang Dongtai Guangxi province, is visits relatives, therefore has this one to ask. 通过之前的聊天,王甜甜自然知道杨东泰桂省之行,是来走亲戚的,所以才有此一问。 Yang Dongtai said with a smile: „Visiting relatives is when good, waits to meet me to give my maternal aunt to telephone, her told that tomorrow will see her again.” 杨东泰笑道:“走亲戚什么时候都行,等会我就给我姨妈打个电话,跟她说明天再去见她。” king Tiantian the corners of the mouth bring back wipe the happy expression, Yang Dongtai choice make her feel that oneself received attached great importance, happy saying: „Ok, I first return to the seat to take the baggage.” 王甜甜嘴角勾起一抹笑意,杨东泰的选择让她感觉自己受到了重视,心情愉快的说道:“行吧,那我先回座位拿行李。” Yang Dongtai nods saying: „Un!” 杨东泰点头道:“嗯！” ...... …… After ten minutes, Jiang Feng and the others arrived at the exit. 十分钟后,江枫等人走到了出站口。 At this time near 10 : 00 pm, Jiang Feng has looked to king Tiantian mother and daughter and Yang Dongtai, said: „Time early, I first do not go home, has what situation you again to me the telephone.” 此时已经将近晚上 10 点了,江枫看向王甜甜母女与杨东泰,说道:“时间已经不早,我就先回家了,有什么情况你们再给我电话。” „Good, Grandmaster river said goodbye!” “好的,江大师再见！” „Un, bye!” “嗯,再见！” ...... …… Although some late, but Jiang Feng first arrived at the time of childbirth center to see the wife with the son. 虽然有些晚了,但是江枫还是先到月子中心见了老婆跟儿子。 yellow Lingwei sees the travel-worn husband, gave him a kiss of love, said: „So was late, do you go home to rest and that's the end, how also come to look at us?” 黄灵薇看着风尘仆仆的老公,给了他一个爱的亲吻,才说道:“都这么晚了,你回家休息就是了,怎么还过来看我们？” Jiang Feng is hugging wife's waist, said with a smile: „Since outside comes back, not foresight you with the son one side, always do not get a grip at heart, perhaps sleeps cannot fall asleep.” 江枫搂着老婆的腰,笑道:“从外面回来,不先见你跟儿子一面,心里总是不得劲,恐怕睡觉都睡不着。” yellow Lingwei saying with a smile: „On your sweet-talking.” 黄灵薇笑吟吟的说道:“就你嘴甜。” Jiang Feng hehe said with a smile: „I had just tasted, your mouth is sweeter!” 江枫嘿嘿笑道:“我刚刚尝过了,你的嘴更甜！” yellow Lingwei spat his one, then the couple were gentle a meeting, spoke some intimate conversation. 黄灵薇啐了他一口,然后夫妻俩温存了一会,说了些悄悄话。 Probably more than ten minutes, yellow Lingwei said: „Ok, the time, you did not hurry to wash to rest early!” 大概十多分钟,黄灵薇才说道:“行了,时间真不早了,你赶紧回去洗洗睡吧！” Jiang Feng nods, somewhat longing saying: „Your this time of childbirth sat me to feel the suffering, your next month, I can hug you to rest luckily a few days after at the appointed time!” 江枫点了点头,有些恋恋不舍的说道:“你这月子坐得我都感到煎熬了,幸好没几天你就出月了,到时我就可以搂着你睡了！” yellow Lingwei gave him a charming small look, said: „To hug me to rest?” 黄灵薇给了他一个妩媚的小眼神,说道:“只是想搂着我睡？” Jiang Feng blinks, hehe said with a smile: „Naturally continues, long has not eaten the seafood, the mouth is greedy, now wants eating until full well.” 江枫眨了眨眼睛,嘿嘿笑道:“当然不止,已经久不吃海鲜,嘴早就馋了,现在就想好好的饱餐一顿。” yellow Lingwei complexion slightly red saying: „Ok, looked that you display in the good share this period of time, when my next month, enjoyed your seafood feast, making you eat to support.” 黄灵薇脸色微红的说道:“行吧,看你这段时间表现不错的份上,等我出月了,就赏你一顿海鲜大餐,让你吃到撑去。” Jiang Feng haha said with a smile: „This was you says, remembers that multi- preparation fresh abalone, this thing delicacy was juicy, hundred ate does not tire.” 江枫哈哈笑道:“这可是你说得哈,记得多准备点新鲜鲍鱼,这玩意美味多汁,百吃不厌。” „......” “……” The little couple chatted several obscene talks, Jiang Feng left the time of childbirth center, returned west to send the governing river. 小夫妻聊了几句骚话,江枫才离开月子中心,回到了西派御江。 ...... …… Next morning. 次日上午。 Jiang Feng gives king Tiantian and Yang Dongtai respectively telephones, inquired that they to the view of being on intimate terms object, finally was naturally needless saying that both sides expressed very satisfied, at present in further contact. 江枫分别给王甜甜与杨东泰打电话,询问他们对相亲对象的看法,结果自然是不用多说,双方都表示挺满意的,目前在进一步接触当中。 This in the anticipation of Jiang Feng, he is only the routine inquiry. 这都是在江枫的意料当中,他只是例行询问而已。 Then Jiang Feng is then living 3.1 life. 接下来江枫便过着三点一线的生活。 In an instant, from yellow Lingwei since the time of childbirth center 42 days, her time of childbirth life has been able to announce the completion of finally, will then move back to the home to live, only needs to arrive at the time of childbirth center to conduct the rehabilitation training every day on time on the line. 转眼间,距离黄灵薇进入月子中心已经42天了,她的月子生活总算可以宣布结束了,接下来会搬回家里住,只需要每天按时到月子中心进行康复训练就行。 Originally in Bailiang District here rural area, if had the son, waits for the child full moon time, will be many others to choose the celebrating a baby's having lived one month liquor. 原本在百梁县这边的农村,如果生了儿子的话,等孩子满月的时候,不少人家会选择办满月酒。 However, that was the beforehand custom, the person who in recent years chose the celebrating a baby's having lived one month liquor was fewer and fewer. 不过,那都是以前的习俗了,近年来选择办满月酒的人是越来越少了。 The reason is very simple, a banquet office, relative good friend that must deliver the cash as a present, now many couples are present the child to get married, this just conducted wedding few months, conducts the full moon liquor, this type „taking out money” from friends and relatives pocket the behavior, many people cannot wipe the face. 原因很简单,酒席一办,亲戚好友那都是要送礼金的,现在不少夫妻都是奉子成婚,这才刚举办婚礼没几个月,又举办满月酒,这种从亲戚朋友口袋里“掏钱”的行为,很多人都抹不开面子。 Therefore, the Jiang Feng three brother and sister have the son, has not conducted the full moon liquor the meaning. 所以,江枫三兄妹生儿子,都没有举办满月酒的意思。 river flying is good with the river snow, if the Jiang Feng celebrating a baby's having lived one month liquor, that really drags in lots of people, does not know that must alarm many to be greatly old, is not true that necessity. 江飞跟江雪还好,要是江枫办满月酒的话,那真的是兴师动众,不知道要惊动多少大老,属实没那个必要。 Moves back to the first evening of living in yellow Lingwei, she keeps one's word, went to the kitchen to prepare big table of sumptuous seafood feasts personally, making the husband who long did not eat the seafood eat ruthlessly, ate that to call juice crossflow, said the delicacy. 在黄灵薇搬回家住的第一个晚上,她言而有信,亲自下厨准备了一大桌丰盛的海鲜大餐,让久不吃海鲜的老公狠狠的饱餐了一顿,吃得那叫一个汁水横流,直呼美味。 ...... …… Some people said, the life seems like a bitter melon, even soaks in the water, provides for in the temple, puts in the mouth, the bitter taste still does not reduce, this is the life bitter essence. 有人说,人生像是一个苦瓜,即使在水中浸泡,在圣殿中供养,放入口中,苦味依然不减,这是人生苦的本质。 Some also say that the life seems like one cup of plain boiled water, putting in the honey is sweet, putting in the salt is salty. 也有人说,人生像是一杯白开水,放入蜂蜜就是甜的,放入盐就是咸的。 Actually, the pain and joy of life, originate from own innermost feelings. 其实,人生的痛苦和快乐,都是来源于自己的内心。 Gives an example, the old mother, the husband passed away early, she brings up two sons stalwartly. 举个例子,有一位老母亲,丈夫去世得早,她一个人含辛茹苦地把两个儿子抚养成人。 The eldest son burns the charcoal, the second son sells the umbrella. 大儿子烧木炭,二儿子卖雨伞。 The old person is worried for son's livelihood daily, rains, she worried that eldest son's charcoal cannot sell ; The clear sky, she worried that second son's umbrella cannot sell. 老人天天为儿子的生计担心,下雨了,她担心大儿子的木炭卖不出去;天晴了,她又担心二儿子的伞卖不出去。 Then, she lives every day in sad and anxious, finally she fell ill. 就这样,她每天都生活在忧愁和焦虑中,终于有一天她病倒了。 Afterward some people enlightened this old mother: „You had the good fortune, regardless of the cloudless day rainy day, were your son's good business.” 后来有人开导这位老母亲:“您太有福气了,无论晴天雨天,都是你儿子的好生意。” The old woman listened, finally transfer sorrow to happily. 老太太听了,终于转忧为喜。 Is small in the story to see from this, painful and joyful is actually manifestation of mentality. 从这则小故事中就可以看出,痛苦与快乐其实就是一种心态的体现。 For example in reality many people not only fears the friend to suffer hardships, and fears the friend to drive Land Rover, has this mentality, thinks that is not painful difficultly. 比如现实中很多人既怕朋友受苦,又怕朋友开路虎,拥有这种心态,想不痛苦都难。 Just like that network catch word: „Saw that you make money to be in arrears compared with me uncomfortably!” 正如那句网络流行语:“看到你赚钱比我亏钱都难受！” Therefore wants to live joyfully, the mentality good is the key. 所以想要活得快乐,心态好是关键。 The mentality is good, then everything is good, the heart relaxes, then everything is peaceful. Assigning to be inferior to the mentality to be good, has a good mentality, was equal to having the happiness. 心态好,则事事好,心放宽,则事事安。命好不如心态好,拥有一颗好心态,等于拥有了幸福。 Treats the life with the positive mentality, everything must as far as possible many think toward the advantage, always do not add sadly to oneself, naturally at heart joyful satisfied. 以积极的心态去对待人生,凡事都要尽量多朝好处想,不要总是给自己添忧愁,自然心里就会快乐惬意。 These truth, forest Shun understand, even before age 25, he does not know what the pain is. 这些道理,林顺都懂,甚至在25岁以前,他根本不知道痛苦为何物。 However, after forest Shun marries, knows that anything is called the pain. 然而,等林顺结婚之后,才知道什么叫做痛苦。 Marries the woman who a character does not gather to be the wife, that day was too unendurable, forest along thinks radically does not understand why his wife must quarrel with him with the things of these goose bumps all day. 娶一个性格不合的女人做老婆,那日子真的太难熬了,林顺根本就想不明白他的老婆为什么整天要拿那些鸡毛蒜皮的事情跟他争吵。 For example one day, he bought cooked food to go back to eat, finally in eating meal, his wife was smelly a face the cooked food that scolded him to buy there not to have the meat is the bones, scolding him was too stupid, was deceived not to know by others, this has scolded has scolded, for the cooked food of these more than ten 20 dollars scolded him several minutes. 比如说有一天,他买了一个熟菜回去吃,结果在吃饭的时候,他老婆臭着一张脸在那里骂他买的这个熟菜没有肉都是骨头,骂他太蠢了,被人家骗死了都不知道,就这样一直骂一直骂,为了这十几二十块钱的熟菜骂了他好几分钟。 forest Shun really does not want to understand, even if he bought to owe, reminder suddenly not on line? Served a need to be smelly a face to scold him several minutes? 林顺是真的没想明白,就算他买亏了,提醒一下不就行了吗？用得着臭着一张脸骂了他好几分钟？ Also has his wife to forget the belt/bring key for example, then he telephones, he at that time had the matter unable to get out of the way, cannot the earliest possible time go back to give her to open the door, finally is also one of the skull face scolds. 又比如说有次他老婆忘记带钥匙,然后给他打电话的时候,他当时有事走不开,没能第一时间回去给她开门,结果又是噼头盖脸的一顿骂。 The similar matter really has numerous number, forest Shunzhen does not think clearly, what matter had to say no well good? Why frequently can turn hostile to scold him? 类似这样的事情真的多不胜数,林顺真的想不明白,有什么事好好说不行吗？为什么动不动就要变脸骂他呢？ Said that clay figurine still three points of anger, his forest Shun is not the masochism, this bewildered being scolded, one time even if twice, did frequently like this, he cannot certainly bear. 都说泥人尚有三分火气,他林顺又不是受虐狂,这莫名其妙的挨骂,一次两次就算了,经常这样搞,他当然也受不了。 Therefore, the quarrel was inevitable! 于是,争吵就无可避免了！ The marriage is about three years, forest Shun felt that the incomparable heart is tired, at that time was in love, only knows that the wife temperament is not good, but never expected that her temperament difference is in so the situation. 结婚不过三年时间,林顺就感到无比的心累,当时谈恋爱的时候,只知道老婆脾气不好,但没想到她的脾气差到如此地步。 Before has not married, forest Shun „the marriage to «Besieged city» in that is a besieged city, the people outside city want to go , the people in city want to come out” the classical famous saying somewhat thinks otherwise, feels exaggerating. 没结婚之前,林顺对《围城》里那句“婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来”的经典名言有些不以为然,觉得言过其实。 But now, forest Shun felt that this classical famous saying was really writes his at heart. 而现在,林顺感觉这句经典名言真的是写到他的心里去了。 Before without marriage, forest Shun noticed that other couples quarrelled under big crowd of people are red in the face, he really thinks that does not understand why these couples must handle this disgraced matter. 没结婚之前,林顺看到其他夫妻在大庭广众之下吵得面红耳赤,他真的想不明白那些夫妻为什么要做这种丢人的事情。 But forest Shun understands now, the quarrel between couples, is not you do not want to quarrel can not be noisy, like the war between countries, was not a side said that does not want to hit can not hit. 可现在林顺明白了,夫妻间的争吵,不是你不想吵就能不吵的,就像国与国之间的战争,不是一方说不想打就能不打的。 In brief, three years of marriages, making forest along exhausted, he wants to divorce innumerable, but endured time and time again. 总之,三年的婚姻生活,让林顺身心疲惫,他无数次想要离婚,但一次又一次的忍了下来。 The primary cause, does not think the daughter grows up in the single-parent family. 主要原因,是不想女儿在单亲家庭中长大。 Because forest Shun has read the thread, knows that in child who the single-parent family grows up, is very easy to have this and that problem, serious will affect the child life. 因为林顺看过相关文章,知道在单亲家庭长大的孩子,很容易出现这样那样的问题,严重的会影响孩子一生。 Therefore, has the divorce thought each time time, forest Shun thinks that the cute daughter, then clenches teeth to pinch out that thought. 所以,每次生出离婚念头的时候,林顺想到可爱的女儿,便又咬牙把那念头掐灭。 May live with the person who the character does not gather together was too uncomfortable, when wife because again a petty minor matter in that „roaring filial piety”, forest Shun could not endure finally! 可跟性格不合的人在一起生活真的太难受了,当老婆再一次因为一点鸡毛蒜皮的小事在那“咆孝”的时候,林顺终于忍不下去了！ „Li Jia, we divorces!” forest along tone very tranquil said this him the words that two years ago want to speak. “李佳,我们离婚吧！”林顺语气非常平静的说出了这句他在两年前就想说的话。 Li Jia swept this good-for-nothing husband one eyes, obviously has not thought that some of his unexpectedly courage proposed divorces these two characters, she cannot help but sneers saying: „Good, this was you said that who did not leave who was the dog.” 李佳扫了她这个窝囊废老公一眼,显然没想到他竟然有勇气提出离婚这两个字,她不由得冷笑道:“好啊,这可是你说的,谁不离谁是狗。” forest along undulating say/way: „Daughter turns over to me, the house turns over to me, the vehicle turns over to you, cash person of half, daughter's child support payment does not need you to leave, if you agreed that we will go to the civil administration bureau to fill in the divorce application tomorrow.” 林顺澹澹道:“女儿归我,房子归我,车子归你,现金一人一半,女儿的抚养费不用你出,如果你同意,那明天咱们就去民政局填离婚申请。” Li Jia refreshed should say: „Ok, manages, I do not have the opinion.” The house only gave the downpayment, but must supply for twenty years! 李佳爽快的应道:“行,就这么办,我没意见。”房子只给了首付,还要供二十几年呢！ forest Shun sees her refreshed complying, understands that she has wanted to divorce. 林顺看到她爽快的答应,也明白她早就想离婚了。 Thinks is also, if not want to divorce, but wants to live well, she absolutely not regularly finding fault, is some petty things asks him to quarrel. 想想也是,如果不想离婚,而是想好好过日子的话,那她绝对不会隔三差五的就挑刺,为一些鸡毛蒜皮的事情找他吵架。 After reaching an agreement will go to the civil administration bureau to fill in the divorce application tomorrow morning, two people then no longer exchange, put out the cell phone to look respectively. 在谈好明天上午去民政局填离婚申请后,两人便不再交流,各自拿出手机看了起来。 ...... …… At noon. 中午。 Happy matrimonial agency. 幸福婚介所。 Goes out of the office in Jiang Feng, the preparation goes back accompanies the wife to eat meal together, the matrimonial agency came in a very special female guest person, reason that said that this female guest person is special , because she wears the school uniform, moreover understands at a glance young, on 14 or 15-year-old appearance. 就在江枫走出办公室,准备回去陪老婆一起吃饭的时候,婚介所进来了一位非常特殊的女客人,之所以说这位女客人特殊,是因为她穿着校服,而且一看就知道年纪不大,也就十四五岁的模样。 Saw that this school girl walks, the miss who is responsible for welcoming guests then makes noise to ask: „This schoolmate, whom do you look for?” 看到这位女学生走进来,负责迎宾的姑娘便出声问道:“这位同学,请问你找谁啊？” At this time, that young school girl had seen walked Jiang Feng that from the office, in her eye one bright, said: „This elder sister, I am look for Elder Brother Jiang Feng.” 此时,那位年轻的女学生已经看到从办公室走出来的江枫了,她眼中一亮,说道:“这位姐姐,我是来找江枫哥哥的。” Jiang Feng hears word then says, asked: „Does this youngest sister, what matter you ask me to have?” 江枫闻言便接过话来,问道:“这位小妹妹,你找我有什么事吗？” Young female schoolmate look somewhat anxious saying: „Elder Brother Jiang Feng, I called the willow tree the small leaf, I have online seen the Elder Brother your material, knows that you acted as a matchmaker not only fiercely, but also was good at the marriage mediating, I think that...... I thought......” 年轻女同学神色有些紧张的说道:“江枫哥哥,我叫柳小叶,我在网上看过哥哥你的资料,知道你不光做媒厉害,还擅长婚姻调解,我想……我想……” Saw that she somewhat says, Jiang Feng then comforts saying: „Small leaf younger sister, should not be anxious, haven't you eaten meal now? Or we first find a place to eat meal, then chats while eating?” 看到她有些说不出口,江枫便安慰道:“小叶妹妹,你不要紧张,你现在还没吃饭吧？要不咱们先找个地方吃饭,然后边吃边聊好吗？” Willow tree small leaf somewhat embarrassed saying: „Elder Brother Jiang Feng, I am a junior high pupil, without the ability asked you to have the feast, if the Elder Brother did not shut out, I did ask you to have a fast-food?” 柳小叶有些不好意思的说道:“江枫哥哥,我还是一位初中生,没有能力请你吃大餐,如果哥哥不嫌弃的话,那我请你吃个快餐可以吗？” Jiang Feng loses says with a smile: „Small leaf younger sister, where I can make your junior high pupil ask me to eat meal, you want to eat what Elder Brother to ask you to eat!” 江枫失笑道:“小叶妹妹,我哪能让你一个初中生请我吃饭啊,你想吃什么哥哥请你吃！” The willow tree small leaf said earnestly: „That is not good, I have the matter to ask the Elder Brother you to help, where can make the Elder Brother you ask me to eat meal, this food should invite by me.” 柳小叶认真道:“那不行,我还有事要请哥哥你帮忙呢,哪能让哥哥你请我吃饭啊,这个饭应该由我来请的。” Looks at a face earnest willow tree small leaf, Jiang Feng hesitated, said: „Good, but I do not want the fast-food, I want to eat the old friend powder, or the small leaf younger sister you asked me to eat one bowl of old friend powders!” 看着一脸认真的柳小叶,江枫沉吟了一下,说道:“那好吧,不过我不想吃快餐,我想吃老友粉,要不小叶妹妹你请我吃一碗老友粉吧！” Now has a fast-food basically to take 20-30 dollars, but the old friend powder 78 dollars can handle, this regarding a junior high pupil, the economic burden can reduce much. 现在吃个快餐基本都要20-30块钱,而老友粉七八块钱就可以搞定,这对于一名初中生来说,经济负担能减轻不少。 willow Xiaoye nods saying: „Good, Elder Brother Jiang Feng, we eats the old friend powder.” 柳小叶点头道:“好的,江枫哥哥,那咱们就去吃老友粉。” Therefore, Jiang Feng pulls out the cell phone to call the wife, said that at noon does not go back to eat, then moves toward a nearby old friend powder shop with the willow tree small leaf together. 于是,江枫掏出手机给老婆打了个电话,说中午不回去吃,然后便跟柳小叶一起走向旁边的一家老友粉店。 A person wanted one bowl of old friend powders, finds the place of corner to sit. 一人要了一碗老友粉,找个角落的地方坐好。 After eating several powders, willow Xiaoye said: „Elder Brother Jiang Feng, I have the courage to look for you today, wants to ask you to help mediate my parents' marriage, doesn't know to be able?” 在吃了几口粉后,柳小叶才说道:“江枫哥哥,我今天鼓起勇气过来找你,是想请你帮忙调解一下我父母的婚姻,不知道可不可以？” Jiang Feng had just read her material sketchily, is not accidental/surprised regarding her request: „Small leaf younger sister, you first told me, your parents' marriage how?” 江枫刚刚已经粗略看了看她的资料,对于她的请求并不意外:“小叶妹妹,你先跟我说说,你父母的婚姻怎么了？”