„Lying trough, bear the child was really repugnant, if I at the scene, I estimated that could not control my violent temper, compelled to give him certainly two cheeks.” “卧槽了,那熊孩子真是太讨厌了,要是我在现场的话,我估计控制不住我的暴脾气,绝逼要给他两嘴巴子。” „What bear child has to have what guardian bear, these words are really the axiom, from that bear child's actions, looked attitude that again his parents that turns a blind eye, if continues to educate the child in this manner, I can conclude that this bear child grew up is also the social tumor.” “有什么样的熊孩子就有什么样的熊家长,这句话真是至理名言,从那熊孩子的所作所为,再看他父母那视若无睹的态度,要是继续以这种方式教育孩子,那我敢断定这熊孩子长大了也是社会毒瘤。” „Goes by car to run into this bear child really to get angry, I had run into the similar bear child, that journey really makes in the person heart choke with rage.” “坐车遇到这种熊孩子是真的让人冒火,我曾经就遇到过类似这样的熊孩子,那次旅程真的让人心中窝火。” „That wears the young people of mask is really great, particularly goes to the tread that bear child's chair with the similar way, was really venting. Is the following operation a little cannot understand, does that wear the young people understanding that family of three of mask?” “那戴口罩的年轻人真是好样的,尤其是用同样的方式去蹬那熊孩子的椅子,真是太解气了。就是后面的操作有点看不懂,难道那戴口罩的年轻人认识那一家三口？” „Lying trough! I do not have the vertigo, do the young people who that wears the mask seem like Grandmaster river?” “卧槽！我没眼花吧,那个戴口罩的年轻人好像是江大师啊？” „Right, you do not have the vertigo, that truly is Grandmaster river, Grandmaster river makes a move to renovate bear child one, this is really exciting!” “没错,你没眼花,那确实是江大师,江大师出手整治熊孩子一家,这真是大快人心啊！” „Haha, the calculation method that Grandmaster river that fairy measures not uses here, but also is really the anti-aircraft gun hits the fly, bear child one was also „ dying with no regrets”. ” “哈哈,江大师那神鬼莫测的推算手段用在这里,还真是高射炮打苍蝇啊,那熊孩子一家也算是“死而无憾”了。” „Good „ dying with no regrets”, bear the child guardian said that they do not want to become by the fly that the anti-aircraft gun kills! “好一个“死而无憾”,熊孩子家长表示他们不想成为被高射炮打死的苍蝇啊！ ! ” ！” „Loves, some people have stood to govern this bear child, in own lawless even, in public places still this, too under punched.” “喜闻乐见啊,早就该有人站出来治治这种熊孩子了,在自己家无法无天就算了,在公众场合也这样,真的太欠揍了。” „I attempt to substitute front that beautiful woman myself, imagines itself to go by car to encounter this situation, that blood pressure rubs dramatic rise upward, this family of three was too disgusting!” “我尝试着把自己代入前排那个美女,想象自己坐车遇到这种情况,那血压就蹭蹭蹭的往上飙升,这一家三口真的太恶心了！” „Person of hope like Grandmaster river are more, later everyone goes by car to bump into this situation, wants being bold to stand, do not choose to exercise forbearance, because more exercises forbearance the person who these have no sense of shame to be wilder.” “希望像江大师这样的人多一些,以后大家坐车碰到这种情况,要勇于站出来,不要选择忍让,因为越忍让那些不知羞耻的人就越猖狂。” „......” “……” After the video in compartment spreads, the entire net is discussing, everyone hates regarding the bear child's actions, regarding intending to renovate Grandmaster bear child river to shower praises on. 在车厢内的视频流传出去后,全网都在热议,大家对于熊孩子的所作所为非常痛恨,对于出手整治熊孩子一家的江大师都是赞誉有加。 Then the topic extends, everyone discussed importance that the child educated. 然后话题延伸开来,大家讨论起了孩子教育的重要性。 When the entire net discusses, Jiang Feng has arrived in the destination Guizhou province provincial capital. 就在全网热议的时候,江枫已经抵达目的地黔省省城。 ...... …… Marriage, it can be said that in life one of the matters of primary importance. 婚姻,可以说是人生中最重要的事情之一。 No matter the men and women, want to look for a satisfied partner to spend together the life, but actual operation time, regardless of being prudent to the marriage, looks for the partner time wipes brightly the eye, does not have to use many greatly. 不管男女,都想找个满意的对象共度一生,但实际操作的时候,无论对婚姻有多么慎重,找对象的时候把眼睛擦得有多亮,都没多大用。 Has a large part of couples, finally the road of inevitable trend divorce. 有很大一部分夫妻,最终都不可避免的走向离婚之路。 The following is the most common cause of divorce: 以下便是最常见的离婚原因: 1st, affair. 一,婚外情。 The survey found that the affair is the primary reason that causes the marital break-up. 根据调查发现,婚外情是导致婚姻破裂的首要原因。 A side sexual desire is unable to be satisfied, or the enthusiasm between couple gradually abates, induces the blasting fuse of affair, but after the affair exposed the anger and hate became the accelerator of divorce. 一方性欲无法得到满足,或夫妻间的热情逐渐消退,是诱发婚外情的导火索,而婚外情败露后的愤怒和怨恨则成了离婚的加速器。 2nd, economic problem. 二,经济问题。 The divorce rate that it causes is next to the affair. 它导致的离婚率仅次于婚外情。 Love, so long as love affair enough, but the marriage is realistic, needs to consider the raising and parents' of daily necessities as well as child retirement and other issues. 恋爱,只要风花雪月就够了,但婚姻是现实的,需要考虑柴米油盐以及孩子的养育和父母的养老等问题。 Now many girls want to marry a rich man, does not hope that own marriage will be puzzled by the economic reason in the future, many women will always complain that the man has not helped her cross not to need to worry about food or clothing the life. 现在很多女孩都想嫁一个有钱人,就是不希望自己的婚姻将来被经济原因所困扰,很多女人总是会抱怨男人没有让她过上衣食无忧的生活。 So-called lowly couple Pepsi sorrow, so long as experiences not to have the money difficult embarrassed day one time, will realize these words profoundly the meaning. 所谓贫贱夫妻百事哀,只要体验过一次没有钱寸步难行的窘迫日子,才会让人深刻体会到这句话的含义。 Without money, the child is unable to accept the good education and parents unable to enjoy old age in peace, oneself do not have the means to cross on has the life of quality. 没有钱,孩子无法接受好的教育、父母无法安享晚年,自己也没有办法过上有品质的生活。 Many women will often not blame themselves, she will only blame the man not to have the skill to help her cross not to need to worry about food or clothing the life. In economy was beset with problems as well as in pressure and other families the every large or small trivial matters also affected couple's feelings to a certain extent, in turn caused often to quarrel, then kicks up a racket the home ruining by making a lot of noise. 很多女人往往不会责怪自己,她只会怪男人没有本事让她过上衣食无忧的生活。经济上的捉襟见肘以及生活压力等家庭中大大小小的琐事在一定程度上也影响了夫妻的感情,进而导致经常争吵,然后吵着吵着就把这个家给吵散了。 3rd, lacks the communication. 三,缺乏沟通。 The good communication is among the couples lays the foundation of trust, but improves the relationship effectively, then will otherwise increase hate and frustration of both sides. One did not speak all day, shouts loudly even the slander to quarrel to the companion, having misunderstanding, but did not solve is the bad communication methods that in the marriage needs to abandon. 良好的沟通是夫妻间建立起信任的基础,可有效增进感情,反之则会增加双方的怨恨和挫败感。一整天不怎么说话、对伴侣大喊大叫甚至恶语相向,产生误会而不去解决等都是婚姻中需要摒弃的不良沟通方式。 4 th, often quarrelled. 四,经常吵架。 Couple always unavoidably rough, even conniption. 夫妻总免不了磕磕绊绊,甚至激烈争吵。 In this kind in primary cause that initiates the couple to quarrel, the housework issue arranged at the first place, washing dishes, cleaned room and other minor matters possibly is „spark”, singed original of anger. 在这类引发夫妻争吵的主要原因中,家务问题排在了首位,洗碗、打扫房间等小事都可能是“星星之火”,燎起愤怒之原。 Next is „fiscal power” issue, how the family manages finances, money should by whom to manage to be easy to have the difference, affects the feelings. If after the quarrel, cannot be settled or found the solution, finally likely the development is the divorce. 其次是“财政大权”问题,家庭如何理财、钱该由谁管理等容易产生分歧,影响感情。如果争吵后迟迟不能达成和解或找到解决方案,最终很可能发展为离婚。 5 th, the stature loses shape. 五,身材走样。 Although this reason sounds very superficial, but indeed is affects the couple feelings the important factor. The body weight increases will cause the attraction to drop, simultaneously harms the self-confidence and self-respect. The time was long, vision „weary” and curiosity defect will cause each other to become estranged, until divorce. 虽然这一原因听起来很肤浅,但的确是影响夫妻感情的重要因素。体重增加会导致吸引力下降,同时损害自信心、自尊心。时间久了,视觉“疲劳”和新鲜感缺失就会导致彼此疏远,直至离婚。 6 th, relationship between mothers and daughters-in-law. 六,婆媳关系。 The relationship between mothers and daughters-in-law is the eternity difficult problem, because of mother-in-law example almost every family that but quarrels with the husband has happened, serious even has made one life, let alone was only the divorce. 婆媳关系是千古难题,因为婆婆而跟丈夫争吵的例子几乎每个家庭都有发生过,严重的甚至闹出过人命,更别说只是离婚了。 7 th, flashes the marriage. 七,闪婚。 This was needless to say much, both sides were only the surface understood that married hurriedly, shortcoming after marriage 11 exposed, without the means accepted, this marriage naturally could not maintain. 这个就不用多说了,双方只是表面了解就匆匆忙忙结婚,婚后缺点一一暴露出来,如果没办法接受的话,这婚姻自然也就维持不下去了。 8 th, psychological imbalance. 八,心理失衡。 When a side felt oneself in the marriage shouldered more responsibility, often meets the innermost feelings is not balanced, the hate gets bigger and bigger like the snowball, finally causes the marital break-up. The couple not only need learn the effective communication, but should also stand in the opposite party angle views the issue, feels for others, assists mutually, this can enjoy the equal harmonious relations. 当一方觉得自己在婚姻中承担了更多责任时,往往会内心不平衡,怨恨就像雪球一样越滚越大,最后导致婚姻破裂。夫妻不仅要学会有效沟通,还应多站在对方角度看问题,将心比心,互相帮扶,这样才能享受平等和谐的关系。 9 th, the husband or wife has the abuse. 九,夫妻一方有恶习。 For example the pornography, the couple has a side to stain, the marital break-up was the time issue. 比如黄赌毒,夫妻有一方沾上,婚姻破裂就是时间问题了。 10 th, domestic abuse. 十,家庭暴力。 The family/home violent divides the physical body and spiritual two types, regardless of which type is pitiful. 家暴分肉体和精神两种,无论哪种都是可悲的。 Zhao Yuanming summarized his cause of divorce, should lack the communication with the ex-wife. 赵元明总结了一下他的离婚原因,应该是跟前妻缺乏沟通。 Originally, Zhao Yuanming's communication skill is good, family member with the patient and patient communicates at least in the hospital, is quite often smooth. 原本,赵元明的沟通能力还是蛮不错的,至少在医院的时候跟患者以及患者家属沟通的时候,往往都比较顺利。 It is not excellent has the dual character, many people when facing the bystander, displaying are very polite, the attitude is good, is cheerful and lively. 不过人都有两面性,很多人在面对外人的时候,表现得都很有礼貌,态度非常好,有说有笑的。 But when facing the most intimate person, the attitude was different, is frequently smelly a face. 但在面对最亲近的人时,态度就不一样了,动辄就臭着一张脸。 Naturally, Zhao Yuanming is not such person, but he, when facing the wife, his attitude truly not has the patience facing the patient and patient family member. 当然,赵元明不是这样的人,但是他在面对老婆的时候,他的态度确实没有面对患者以及患者家属那么有耐心。 In his opinion, the wife should most understand his person, he is tired in the hospital work enough, going home to relax itself, does not want with go with the wife to communicate with the attitude that the patient communicates. 在他看来,老婆应该是最了解他的人,他在医院工作已经够累了,回到家可以放松一下自己,不想用跟患者沟通的态度去跟老婆沟通。 Lots he, even if did not say, the wife should still understand. 很多东西他就算不说,老婆应该也明白。 But the fact showed, Zhao Yuanming overestimated him with his wife's tacit degree, the young doctor in the hospital is busy that becomes famous, in addition his wife also has oneself work, two people life work and rest are inconsistent, the time of being together are not much. 可事实证明,赵元明高估了他跟他老婆的默契程度,原本年轻医生在医院就是出了名的忙,再加上他老婆也有自己的工作,两人的生活作息不一致,相处的时间并不多。 If the couple communicate arrives, that is but actually indifferent, but if the communication is not in place, continuously for a long time hence, sentiment naturally got down on cold Dan. 如果夫妻俩沟通到位,那倒无所谓,可若是沟通不到位,长此以往,感情自然而然的就冷澹下来了。 Zhao Yuanming, until after the wife divorced summarized at that time, understood among the couples the prompt communication important. 赵元明当时并不懂,直到跟老婆离婚后总结,才明白夫妻间及时沟通到底有多重要。 However, now the marriage has left, the most important thing is his ex-wife turned into others' wife in divorce less than one year, Zhao Yuanming, even to recall does not have the opportunity. 不过,现在婚都已经离了,最重要的是他的前妻在离婚不到一年就变成了别人的老婆,赵元明就算想挽回也没有机会了。 Regarding this, Zhao Yuanming somewhat is slightly regrettable, after all he to ex-wife, there is a sentiment. 对此,赵元明稍微有些遗憾,毕竟他对前妻,还是有感情的。 The sentimental not smooth enterprise is smooth, this saying makes some sense. 都说感情不顺事业顺,这话还是有一定道理的。 After the divorce, Zhao Yuanming uses the thoughts in the work completely, making his surgery more and more do is good, but also receives the administrative offices eldest child's praise repeatedly, it may be said that has boundless prospects. 离婚后赵元明把心思全部用在工作上,让他的手术做得是越来越好,还多次受到科室老大的表扬,可谓是前途无量。 In the afternoon, after completing the last surgery, was tired and hungry Zhao Yuanming washes the hands to change the clothes, then moved toward the parking lot, the preparation drives home to eat meal. 这天下午,做完最后一台手术后,又累又饿的赵元明洗手换衣服,便走向停车场,准备开车回家吃饭。 After Zhao Yuanming married, food and lodging not with parents together, but since he divorces, he went back to eat with the parents together. 原本赵元明结婚后,吃住就不跟父母一起了,但自从他离婚后,他又回去跟父母一起吃了。 Just arrived in front of his riding instead of walking car(riage), then some people notified him: „Hello, Dr. Zhao.” 刚走到他的代步车面前,便有人跟他打招呼道:“你好,赵医生。” Zhao Yuanming looked at the past, the discovery was the charming youth who seemed a little looks familiar, thinks that was his once patient, then also greeted: „Hello!” 赵元明看过去,发现是一个看起来有点面熟的帅气青年,以为是他曾经的病人,便也打招呼道:“你好！” The charming youth introduced oneself: „Dr. Zhao, I called Jiang Feng, the river of Yangtze River, the maple tree of maple leaf, the matchmaker from Guangxi Province Happy Matrimonial agency, wants to you to introduce that a very outstanding object, does not know Dr. Zhao you did facilitate eat meal to chat together?” 帅气青年自我介绍道:“赵医生,我叫江枫,长江的江,枫叶的枫,是来自桂省幸福婚介所的媒人,想给你介绍个非常优秀的对象,不知道赵医生你方便一起吃个饭聊一聊吗？” Zhao Yuanming heard that the word responded instantaneously, said with amazement: „Are you Guangxi province that Grandmaster river?” 赵元明闻言瞬间反应过来,惊讶道:“你是桂省那位江大师？” Grandmaster river this matchmaker Grandmaster, he listens hospital these nurses chatted to mention, even he also watched the picture of crossing the river Grandmaster, this also just he felt reason that the opposite party looked familiar. 江大师这个媒人大师,他听医院那些护士们聊天的时候说起过,甚至他还看过江大师的照片,这也是刚刚他觉得对方面熟的原因。 „Originally Dr. Zhao also knows me!” “原来赵医生也认识我啊！” „Had heard so much about you!” “久仰大名了！” Then, two people smalltalk, then boarded to go to some restaurant to eat meal together. 接下来,两人客套了一番,然后才一起上车前往某家餐厅吃饭。 ...... …… After a half hour . 半个小时后。 In the theater box of some restaurant, Jiang Feng chats while eating with Zhao Yuanming. 某餐厅的包厢里,江枫跟赵元明边吃边聊。 Jiang Feng said: „Dr. Zhao, I first gives you to introduce her personal data!” 江枫说道:“赵医生,我先给你介绍一下她的个人资料吧！” Zhao Yuanming nods saying: „Good, you said, I am listening.” 赵元明点头道:“好的,你说,我听着。” Jiang Feng simple introduced: „She is your Guizhou province X city people, is an only daughter, this year is 28 years old, 1.63 meters in height, stature good face/color Zhigao, to have the undergraduate degree, is skilled in the local dialects, standard spoken Chinese , Japanese as well as English X city, once married Japan, the parallel intergrowth has a daughter, last year divorced to lead the child to return to homeland, at present is opening in the provincial capital arrangement one day material shop.” 江枫简单介绍道:“她是你们黔省X市人,是一名独生女,今年28岁,身高1米63,身材好颜值高,拥有本科学历,精通X市的本地方言、普通话、日语以及英语,曾远嫁日本,并生有一个女儿,去年才离婚带着孩子回国,目前正在省城筹备开一家日料店。” Listens to the front introduction, Zhao Yuanming can feel outstanding of opposite party, may hear the opposite party once to marry the Japanese parallel intergrowth a daughter, his brow could not bear wrinkle. 听前面的介绍,赵元明都能感受到对方的优秀,可听到对方曾远嫁日本并生了一个女儿,他的眉头就忍不住皱了起来。 The opposite party have had a marriage, this he does not care, because he has also married, but the opposite party marries is a Japanese, but also has a child, this little that anything. 对方有过一段婚姻,这个他并不在意,因为他也结过婚,可对方嫁的是日本人,还生了孩子,这就有点那啥了。 After all the most people's impression to Japanese are poor, Zhao Yuanming is also one of them. 毕竟大部分国人对日本人的观感都不怎么好,赵元明也是其中之一。 Waits for Jiang Feng to introduce, Zhao Yuanming then cannot bear say: „Grandmaster river, the condition of opposite party is truly good, may be called the talent and beauty, I should not select, but she has a child to the Japanese, marries her must become the father to that Japanese bastard, my time somewhat could not accept!” 等江枫介绍完,赵元明便忍不住说道:“江大师,对方的条件确实很不错,堪称才貌双全,原本我不应该挑的,但她给日本人生了孩子,跟她结婚就得给那个日本崽子当爹,我这一时间有些接受不了啊！” Jiang Feng swallows acid Tang fish of mouth, said: „ Dr. Zhao, I understands your mood, but we view the issue unable is so one-sided, with the fighting age, has the friend who does one's best to help our party in Japan, reviews the domestic traitor to China also to emerge one after another incessantly. 江枫把嘴里的酸汤鱼咽下,说道:“赵医生,我理解你的心情,不过咱们看待问题不能那么片面,就拿抗战年代来说,在日本也有尽心尽力帮助我党的友人,反观国内的汉奸也是层出不穷。 Two relativities, you said that the traitor to China with root common origin is good with us, is these Japanese friends is good? ” 两相对比,你说是跟我们同根同源的汉奸好,还是那些日本友人好？” Zhao Yuanming ate a soup, said: „Grandmaster river, you wants saying that the bloodlines are unimportant, is the cultural identity most important?” 赵元明喝了口汤,说道:“江大师,你是想说血脉不重要,文化认同才是最重要的？” The Jiang Feng nod said: „That is it, this is the reality is not the profound imaginary novel, has some good fork bloodlines to be doomed to soar. Therefore bloodlines non- bloodlines is unimportant, that child in our China growth, studies our Chinese culture, she is our Chinese.” 江枫点头道:“就是这个意思,这是现实又不是玄幻小说,拥有某个牛叉血脉就注定能一飞冲天。所以血脉不血脉的不重要,那个孩子在我们中国成长,学习咱们中国文化,那她就是我们中国人。” Zhao Yuanming after all is an outstanding student, such simple truth he naturally understands, before mentioned some Japanese subconscious then resistances. 赵元明毕竟是高材生,这么浅显的道理他自然懂,之前只是提到日本人下意识的便有些抗拒罢了。 „Un, Grandmaster river you said is reasonable, how doesn't know her character?” “嗯,江大师你说得有道理,不知道她的性格怎么样？” „Her character is very good......” “她的性格还是很好的……” Two people chat while eating, determined that Zhao Yuanming after Li Shuixiu is interested, Jiang Feng then pulls out the cell phone, adjusts the Li Shuixiu latest picture, gives him saying: „Dr. Zhao, this is her picture, do you have a look to conform to your aesthetic standard?” 两人边吃边聊,确定赵元明对李水秀感兴趣后,江枫便掏出手机,把李水秀的最新照片调出来,递给他道:“赵医生,这就是她的照片,你看看符不符合你的审美观？” Zhao Yuanming received the cell phone, looks that brilliant young married woman to the screen, in the eye suddenly one bright. Do the men are the visual animal, the woman grow conform to oneself aesthetic appreciation, really can look. But now Zhao Yuanming is then definite, the young married woman in picture really grew in his aesthetic standard. 赵元明接过手机,看向屏幕中那个光彩照人的少妇,眼中陡然一亮。男人都是视觉动物,女人长得符不符合自己的审美,真的一眼就能看出来。而现在赵元明便非常确定,照片中的少妇真的长在他的审美观上了。 Zhao Yuanming this year is 31 years old, since understanding appreciates the woman, he has not seen has been able to let the woman who his heartbeat speeds up instantaneously, including his former girlfriend and ex-wife, is the process is together the arriving same place slowly, does not fall in love. 赵元明今年31岁了,自从懂得欣赏女人之后,他就没有见过能够让他心跳瞬间加快的女人,包括他的前女友以及前妻,都是经过相处才慢慢的走到一起,并不是一见钟情。 But now, sees the charming young married woman in screen, in Zhao Yuanming heart has a special impulsion, wishes one could to marry to go home her immediately, then handles the matter that each men want to handle! 可现在,看到屏幕中的这个迷人少妇,赵元明心中有股特别的冲动,恨不得立刻把她娶回家,然后做每个男人都想做的事情！ Zhao Yuanming swallows the saliva, longing hands over the cell phone to Jiang Feng, said: „Grandmaster river you really lives up to reputation, you introduced that to my object, I truly like, does not know when can arrange me to meet with her?” 赵元明吞了吞口水,恋恋不舍的把手机递回给江枫,说道:“江大师你真的是名不虚传,你介绍给我的这个对象,我确实非常喜欢,不知道什么时候可以安排我跟她见面？” Jiang Feng received the cell phone to say with a smile: „Today is little too late, Dr. Zhao you in tomorrow what class?” 江枫接过手机笑道:“今天有点晚了,赵医生你明天上什么班？” Zhao Yuanming understands saying: „I will go to work tomorrow normally, in the morning the surgery arranges quite many, at noon not necessarily has enough time, if the arrangement meets, after best is 6 : 00 pm gets off work .” 赵元明心领神会道:“我明天正常上班,上午手术安排得比较多,中午不一定有足够的时间,如果安排见面的话,最好是下午 6 点下班之后。” „That 7 : 00 pm I arrange your two family members to eat meal together, without issue?” “那明天晚上七点我安排你们两家人一起吃饭,没问题吧？” „Naturally does not have the issue!” “当然没问题！”