Tang Baoyi understands the meaning in mother words, the person and person truly cannot compare, some people cannot arrive in Rome his entire life, some people were born in Rome directly. 汤宝仪明白母亲话里的意思,人与人确实是不能比的,有的人一生都到不了罗马,有些人直接在罗马出生。 However, regarding the marriage, Tang Baoyi has her own view. 不过,对于婚姻,汤宝仪有她自己的看法。 In her view of marriage, the character must compatible, can wear in like the character that her mother said that if this saying put in the old society that is really reasonable, once that time marriage relations set, that was matter for a lifetime, the character does not gather also can only wear in slowly. 在她的择偶观中,性格必须合得来,像她母亲说的性格可以磨合,这话要是搁在旧社会那确实有道理,那个时候的婚姻关系一旦定下,那就是一辈子的事,性格不合也只能慢慢磨合。 But the marriage of modern people are different, tonight the couple play the poker happily, the tomorrow's quarrel may arrive at the civil administration bureau to divorce. 可现代人的婚姻不一样,今晚夫妻俩才开开心心的打扑克,明天一个争吵可能就到民政局离婚。 The people do not have the escape route time, can compel to lower the head, goes to the giving in opposite party diligently, once had the escape route, who is willing to bow to the opposite party? 人没有后路的时候,才能逼着自己低头,去努力的迁就对方,而一旦有了后路,谁愿意一直向对方低头啊？ Tang Baoyi has not refuted mother's words, but asked: „Mother, should you in the past also many pursuers? You considered stemming from what, finally elected my father? Is my father's condition is best?” 汤宝仪没有反驳母亲的话,而是问道:“妈,你当年应该也有不少追求者吧？那你是出于什么考虑,最终选了我爸？难道是我爸的条件最好？” Ms. Tang was brought back by daughter's question the recollection to the past events, she sighs with emotion: „I am young some time truly many men to pursue me, your father's condition in many pursuers is not best, I settled on his honest duty in the past.” 汤母被女儿的问话勾起了对往事的回忆,她感慨道:“我年轻的时候确实有不少男人追求我,你爸在众多追求者中条件不是最好的,我当年是看中了他的老实本分。” Tang Baoyi said: „This is not good, you have quarrelled I not to know in private, at least is in front of my, you have not quarrelled.” 汤宝仪道:“这不是挺好的吗,私下你们有没有吵过架我不知道,起码当着我的面,你们是从来没吵过架。” Ms. Tang said with a smile: „Must, I be falls short of the best to be better than the worst with your father's marriage, at least for these years I have not regretted to choose him in the past.” 汤母笑道:“总得来说,我跟你爸的婚姻是比上不足比下有余,起码这么多年来我也没有后悔当年选择了他。” Tang Baoyi shows the whites of the eyes saying: „Mother, you had not chosen the condition to be best in the past, how to instigate me to look for the condition best partner now?” 汤宝仪翻了个白眼道:“妈,你当年没有选择条件最好的,怎么现在又怂恿我找条件最好的对象呢？” In Ms. Tang's returns in hand melon seed the tray, sighed: „Now this way of the world changed, the man of honest duty like your father are not many, looks for a condition well always being stronger that the condition is worse.” 汤母把手里的瓜子放回盘子里,叹道:“现在这个世道变了,像你爸这样老实本分的男人已经不多了,找个条件好的总比条件差的要强。” Tang Baoyi: „......” 汤宝仪:“……” ...... …… Next morning. 次日一早。 Tang Baoyi just got out of bed to wash, even the breakfast has not eaten with enough time, receives the call that the paternal grandmother made. 汤宝仪刚起床洗漱完毕,连早餐都还没来得及吃,就接到了奶奶打过来的电话。 A telephone connection, paternal grandmother on asking with a laugh: „Did valuable meter, have the breakfast?” 电话一接通,奶奶就笑呵呵的问道:“宝仪,吃早餐了没？” Tang Baoyi said: „Also no, has the paternal grandmother you eaten?” 汤宝仪道:“还没有呢,奶奶你吃过了没有？” Grandma Tang said: „I have eaten, I made a long story short, last night my friend to me inquired that your situation, wants the great nephew her maternal home to introduce to you, listening to her to introduce that this great nephew's condition was but actually good, does not know that you are willing to add WeChat to chat with him?” 汤奶奶道:“我已经吃过了,那我就长话短说,昨晚我一个朋友向我打听你的情况,想把她娘家的侄孙介绍给你,听她介绍她这个侄孙的条件倒还蛮不错的,不知道你愿不愿意跟他加微信聊聊？” Tang Baoyi has not rejected directly, but asked: „Paternal grandmother, how your friend introduces this maternal home great nephew with you?” 汤宝仪没有直接拒绝,而是问道:“奶奶,你这朋友是怎么跟你介绍她这个娘家侄孙的？” Grandma Tang said: „ Her maternal home great nephew this year is 27 years old, with you same is the dance professionals, he also opened a dance training center, the bishop Latin dance. 汤奶奶道:“她的娘家侄孙今年27岁,跟你一样都是舞蹈工作者,他也开了一个舞蹈培训中心,主教拉丁舞。 His picture I meet WeChat to issue you, grows in paternal grandmother opinion this young fellow calculates, is the peer thinks that you have the common interest, if you are willing to chat with him, I issue my friend your WeChat, making her great nephew add you. ” 他的照片我一会微信发给你,在奶奶看来这小伙子长得还算可以,都是同行想必你们也有共同话题,你要是愿意跟他聊聊,那我就把你的微信号发给我朋友,让她侄孙加你。” Tang Baoyi said: „The paternal grandmother you first send in his picture me show.” 汤宝仪道:“那奶奶你先把他照片发来给我看看。” Grandma Tang said with a smile: „Ok, that first this, you hurry to have the breakfast, I send your WeChat the picture, waited to decide you said one to the paternal grandmother again.” 汤奶奶笑道:“行,那先这样,你赶紧吃早餐,我把照片发你微信,等有决定了你再跟奶奶说一声。” Tang Baoyi said: „Good, Paternal grandmother, I first hung.” 汤宝仪道:“好的,奶奶,那我先挂了哈。” „Un, bye-bye.” “嗯,拜拜。” „Bye-bye.” “拜拜。” After making paternal grandmother's telephone call, Tang Baoyi then starts to have the breakfast. 等挂了奶奶的电话后,汤宝仪便开始吃早餐。 Her breakfast is very simple, a bread, one bottle of milk. 她的早餐很简单,一个面包,一瓶牛奶。 Paternal grandmother's that side movement is also quick, is less than a half minute, sent the picture. 奶奶那边的动作也很快,不到半分钟,就把照片发了过来。 Tang Baoyi selects the picture to look, discovered the man in picture grows very energetic, perhaps in the eyes of others, could be the handsome fellow. 汤宝仪点开照片一看,发现照片中的男人长得挺精神的,或许在其他人的眼里,算得上是帅哥了。 However, graceful who Tang Baoyi actually get does not arrive at the opposite party. 不过,汤宝仪却get不到对方的帅。 The aesthetic this type of thing, was very difficult saying that this was very subjective thing, even if Uncle commander Rujiao( that ancient costume's first beautiful male), some people thought that he general. 审美这种东西,真的很难说,这是很主观的东西,哪怕帅如焦大叔(那位古装第一美男),都有人觉得他长得一般。 Graceful who Tang Baoyi get does not arrive at the opposite party, is very normal matter. 汤宝仪get不到对方的帅,是很正常的事情。 In this world, in ten people have nine at least is the appearance association. 这个世上,十个人中起码有九个是外貌协会的。 To put it bluntly, regardless of the men and women, is the look that the first impression looks. 说白了,无论男女,第一印象看的都是相貌。 These do not care about the look, after being together, understood each other, finally was given to move by the other merits of opposite party, the importance of look will be neglected. 那些不在乎相貌的,都是经过相处,互相了解,最终被对方的其他优点给打动,相貌的重要性才会被忽略。 Tang Baoyi is the normal woman, naturally also likes growing the graceful man obviously, the maternal home great nephew of paternal grandmother friend does not conform to her marriage requirements in look, was overruled by her directly. 汤宝仪是正常女人,自然也喜欢长得帅的男人,奶奶这个朋友的娘家侄孙在相貌这一块明显不符合她的择偶标准,直接就被她否决了。 After making the decision, Tang Baoyi not loathsome, sends the WeChat video to the paternal grandmother directly, after the paternal grandmother puts through the video, then said directly: „Paternal grandmother, he seems like that type that is not I likes, you helped me reject directly, so as to avoid wasted others time.” 做出决定后,汤宝仪也没有拖泥带水,直接给奶奶发微信视频,等奶奶接通视频后,便直接说道:“奶奶,他看起来不是我喜欢的那种类型,你直接帮我拒绝了吧,免得浪费人家的时间。” Grandma Tang said: „This young fellow I looked that is long is also good, but your young people aesthetic is different from our these old fogies, since you cannot have a liking, I helped you push.” 汤奶奶道:“这小伙子我看长得也还行啊,不过你们年轻人的审美跟我们这些老家伙不一样,既然你看不上,那我就帮你推了。” Tang Baoyi said with a smile: „Paternal grandmother, my is not also young, can select again several years, must like facing oneself is good.” 汤宝仪笑道:“奶奶,我这不是还年轻嘛,可以再挑个几年,总得遇到自己喜欢的才行。” Grandma Tang reminded: „24 years old are not young, you may not select excessively, once became the unmarried female, at the appointed time is unfit to take a higher post but unwilling to take a lower one, that was awkward.” 汤奶奶提醒道:“24岁也不年轻了,你可千万别挑过头了,一旦成了大龄剩女,到时高不成低不就的,那就尴尬了。” Tang Baoyi blushes with shame saying: „Knew the paternal grandmother, I strive for three years to marry myself.” 汤宝仪汗颜道:“知道了奶奶,我争取三年内把自己嫁出去。” ...... …… 【Name】 Xu Pengfei 【姓名】许鹏飞 【Age】 29 years old 【年龄】29岁 【Height】 181 cm 【身高】181cm 【Body weight】 76 kg 【体重】76kg 【Family background background】 The rural family background, the parents are the farmers. 【家世背景】农村出身,父母都是农民。 【Character hobby】...... 【性格爱好】…… 【Sentimental experience】 Predecessors...... 【感情经历】前任…… 【Detail】...... 【详细资料】…… 【Current marital match value】 73( couple sentiment 74 + properly matched 72 + family relationships 73) 【当前婚姻匹配值】73(夫妻感情74+门当户对72+家庭关系73) 【Limit marriage match value】 94( couple sentiment 95 + properly matched 93 + family relationships 94) 【极限婚姻匹配值】94(夫妻感情95+门当户对93+家庭关系94) 【Children forecast】...... 【儿女预测】…… Looks in the virtual picture bodyguard Guo Bingbing to match the material of object, Jiang Feng sits in front of the computer the start rap keyboard, some material input computers, then prints. 看着虚拟画面中保镖郭冰冰匹配对象的资料,江枫坐在电脑前噼里啪啦的开始敲击键盘,把其中的一部分资料输入电脑,然后打印出来。 This he does not want to help the bodyguard reconcile actually not personally, but is his bodyguard wants to be a guest performer the matchmaker, oneself bring both sides together for oneself. 这倒不是他不想亲自帮保镖撮合,而是他这个保镖想客串一下媒人,自己替自己牵线搭桥。 After the material prints, Jiang Feng shouts to the entrance: „Ices the ice elder sister, comes.” 等资料打印出来后,江枫对门口喊道:“冰冰姐,进来一下。” Guo Bingbing comes to greet: „Boss.” 郭冰冰进来打招呼道:“老板。” Jiang Feng gives her the material in hand: „This is your material that matches the object, you first look, if told me who needs me to go into action.” 江枫把手中的资料递给她:“这就是你那个匹配对象的资料,你先看一下,如果需要我出马的就跟我说。” Guo Bingbing slightly a little excited receiving material, saying of smiling: „Thanks the boss, I think that I should be able to handle.” 郭冰冰稍微有点激动的接过资料,满脸笑容的说道:“谢谢老板,我想我自己应该是能搞定的。” The Jiang Feng nod said: „Ok, you go, waits for your good news.” 江枫点头道:“行,那你去吧,等你好消息。” ...... …… 2 : 00 pm. 下午 2 点。 Some Jiangnan community. 江南某住宅小区。 A telephone awakens by noise Xu Pengfei who whistling rested greatly. 一个电话吵醒了呼呼大睡的许鹏飞。 Fishes out the cell phone from the pillow, sees the name of electricity demonstration, the Xu Pengfei instantaneous spirit inspires, sits the connection telephone say/way: „Hello, Chen.” 从枕头下摸出手机,看到来电显示的名字,许鹏飞瞬间精神一振,坐起来接通电话道:“您好,陈总。” Chen said with a smile: „The convenience store that little permits, you said I have helped carry out, later the work site troubled you to look.” 陈总笑道:“小许,你说的小商店我已经帮忙落实好了,以后工地这边就麻烦你多照顾了。” Xu Pengfei's straightforward saying: „Thanks Chen to look, that side the work site security asked you to be able rest assured that had what situation I to be able the earliest possible time to rush.” 许鹏飞豪爽的说道:“谢谢陈总照顾,工地那边的安全请您放心,有什么情况我会第一时间赶到。” „Un, had little permits your words I to feel relieved, the matter of convenience store I have transferred Manager stretch/open, you came the words of work site to ask him to be good directly.” “嗯,有小许你这句话我就放心了,小商店的事我已经交待过张经理了,你来工地的话直接找他就行了。” „Good, thanks Chen.” “好的,谢谢陈总。” „Is impolite, I did not disturb you.” “不客气,那我就不打扰你了。” „Does not disturb, Chen said goodbye.” “不打扰,陈总再见。” „Bye.” “再见。” After hanging the power failure words, Xu Pengfei then happy cleans the teeth to wash the face. 等挂掉电话后,许鹏飞便高兴的起来刷牙洗脸。 Just Chen who he called, the big boss who did the real estate, had the big estate to begin the Jiangnan, he was under the accident of sorts establishes the relations with Chen. 刚刚给他打电话的陈总,是搞房地产的大老板,在江南这边有个大楼盘要开工,他是机缘巧合之下跟陈总搭上关系的。 The blow-by-blow account does not raise, in brief the result was two people reaches the obvious agreement, the work site only convenience store gave Xu Pengfei to operate, the condition was a work site, if encountered any problem time, Xu Pengfei obtained a help to level. 详细经过就不提了,总之结果是两人达成了心照不宣的协议,工地唯一的小商店交给许鹏飞来运营,条件就是工地如果遇到什么麻烦的时候,许鹏飞就得出面帮忙摆平。 Naturally, after the matter levels, will also have the red packet to take. 当然,把事摆平之后,还会有红包拿的。 At this point, has to propose Xu Pengfei's occupation, he is actually a bludger chief, but is not no brain bludger who that swindling and abducting or kills, specially that bludger chief who he helps person of even Shi. 说到这里,就不得不提一下许鹏飞的职业了,他其实就是一个混混头子,但不是那种坑蒙拐骗或者打打杀杀的无脑混混,他是专门帮人平事的那种混混头子。 On the other hand, wants to help person of even Shi, must have certain position, others will show due respect for the feelings. 话说回来,想帮人平事,也得有一定的江湖地位,人家才会给面子。 Xu Pengfei rural area family background, the book has not read many, can mix in the provincial capital puts on despicable airs, besides him quite astute, the main reason was his new time with right boss. 许鹏飞农村出身,书没读多少,能够在省城混得人模狗样,除了他本人比较精明外,最主要的原因就是他刚出道的时候跟对了老板。 This boss is a Xu Pengfei's great uncle, is with the support of this great uncle, he has the capital to pull up the brothers who one group dares to hit to dare to kill, mixed a roll-call sound in the provincial capital. 这个老板是许鹏飞的一个族叔,正是在这个族叔的支持下,他才有资本拉起了一帮敢打敢杀的兄弟,在省城混出了一点名声。 His present come income , helping person of even Shi everywhere, the help/gang people guard the threshing floor. 他如今的主要收入,就是四处帮人平事,还有帮人看场。 This choice opens the convenience store in the work site, is a Xu Pengfei brand-new attempt. 这次选择在工地开小商店,算是许鹏飞一个全新的尝试。 He has also considered, the work site has several hundred workers, here opens the family/home small store, sells the tobacco and liquor have the drink mineral spring alligator alternanthera melon seed and so on thing, one month makes ten thousand 20,000 is not unusual. 他也是考虑过的,工地有好几百工人,在这里开家小商店,卖烟酒还有饮料矿泉水花生瓜子之类的东西,一个月下来挣个万把两万块都不稀奇。 But this big estate at least competent 2-3 years , is a big income, he prepares to make his parents open a shop. 而这个大楼盘起码能干2-3年,算起来也是一笔不小的收入,他准备让他的爸妈过来开店。 If really makes money, later looks for the opportunity on own initiative, opens several such convenience stores, that did not say makes one's own way, at least on can also on hand loose many. 要是真赚钱的话,以后就主动寻找机会,多开几家这样的小商店,那不说发家致富,至少手头上也能宽松不少。 After washing, Xu Pengfei then gives the father to telephone, told the father the matter of convenience store carefully, end said: „Father, this is the special business, definitely makes money, you first complete the preparatory work to the provincial capital, letting in my mother's family/home chicken duck and so on selling out comes up to help you again.” 洗漱过后,许鹏飞便给父亲打了个电话,把开小商店的事跟父亲仔细说了一遍,末了才说道:“爸,这是独门生意,是肯定赚钱的,你先到省城来做好准备工作,让我妈把家里的鸡鸭之类的卖掉再上来帮你。” Such good condition, even if not understand the people who do business to know that this shop can definitely make money, therefore Mr. Xu is not puzzled, should say directly: „Ok, I will go to the provincial capital tomorrow.” 这么好的条件,哪怕是不懂做生意的人都知道开这店肯定能赚钱,因此许父也不纠结,直接应道:“行,那我明天就去省城。” „Un, you talk clearly with my mother, tomorrow will come up time will call me, I will meet you.” “嗯,那你跟我妈说清楚,明天上来的时候给我打电话,我去接你。” After making the telephone call, Xu Pengfei then goes out prepares to eat a thing, then looks for Manager stretch/open to Chen that big estate, carries out the matter of convenience store. 等挂了电话后,许鹏飞便出门准备吃点东西,然后到陈总那个大楼盘找张经理,落实一下小商店的事。 Just rode his 100,000 riding instead of walking car(riage)s, the cell phone made a sound, Xu Pengfei took up the cell phone to look, the discovery was the strange number, but choice connection. 刚坐上他那辆十万的代步车,手机又响了起来,许鹏飞拿起手机一看,发现是陌生号码,但还是选择接通。 His present size fame, will also a little have the new customer to look to ask him anytime to act to level some terrible business, he naturally cannot resist to answer the strange telephone, only if the harassment telephone of explicit mark. 他现在大小也有点名气了,随时会有新客户找过来请他出面摆平一些麻烦事,他自然不会拒接陌生电话,除非是明确标记的骚扰电话。 A telephone connection, Xu Pengfei then greeted: „Hey, hello/you good!” 电话一接通,许鹏飞便打招呼道:“喂,你好！” In the cell phone transmitted a female sound said: „Hello, are you Xu Pengfei?” 手机中传来了一个女声道:“你好,请问你是许鹏飞吗？” Xu Pengfei should say: „I am Xu Pengfei, are you which? What matter asks me to have?” 许鹏飞应道:“我是许鹏飞,请问你是哪位？找我有什么事吗？” Female sound said: „My name was Guo Bingbing, a little matter wants to meet to chat with you, does not know that you were convenient?” 女声道:“我叫郭冰冰,有点事想跟你见面谈谈,不知道你方便吗？” Xu Pengfei has not complied immediately, but asked back: „Does Miss Guo, what matter you want to discuss with me?” 许鹏飞没有立刻答应,而是反问道:“郭小姐,你想跟我谈什么事？” Guo Bingbing said: „To discuss the matter on sentiment with you, simply speaking wants to introduce an object to you, does not know that you will have the idea of marriage in the near future?” 郭冰冰说道:“想跟你谈谈感情上的事,简单来说就是想给你介绍个对象,不知道你近期有没有结婚的想法？” „Therefore, you are a matchmaker?” “所以,你是媒人？” „Today is my first acting as a matchmaker, does handsome guy give a face?” “今天是我第一次做媒,帅哥给个面子？” „Ok, beautiful woman you now where?” “行吧,美女你现在在哪里？” „I in Jiangnan District XX road XX tea with milk door, you come!” “我在江南区XX路的XX奶茶店门口,你过来吧！” „Happen to I leave not far, you wait a bit, my several minutes.” “正好我离得也不远,那你稍等一下,我几分钟就到。” „Good, I and others you.” “好的,那我等你。” „Un, a meeting.” “嗯,一会见。” „A meeting.” “一会见。” After making the telephone call, Xu Pengfei then drives to hurry to toward the destination. 挂了电话后,许鹏飞便开车朝目的地赶去。 After several minutes, Xu Pengfei stops the car(riage), enters XX tea with milk shops. 几分钟后,许鹏飞停好车,进入XX奶茶店。 At this time, the guest in tea with milk shop are not many, only has four guests, including pair of lover, a male female, Xu Pengfei's vision then locks in that female guest person. 此时,奶茶店中的客人并不多,只有四个客人在,其中有一对情侣,还有一个男的一个女的,许鹏飞的目光便锁定在那个女客人身上。 The female guest person is welcoming his vision, smiles to greet: „permits handsome fellow.” 女客人迎着他的目光,微笑着打招呼道:“许帅哥。” Xu Pengfei confirmed immediately her status, moves toward her while greeted: „Guo beauty.” 许鹏飞当即确认了她的身份,一边走向她一边打招呼道:“郭美女。” „This is the grass jelly that I help you select.” Sees Xu Pengfei to sit before her, Guo Bingbing then gives him to say its Zhongyi Cup tea with milk. “这是我帮你点的烧仙草。”看到许鹏飞坐在她面前,郭冰冰便把其中一杯奶茶递给他道。 Xu Pengfei expresses gratitude, then received that cup of grass jelly, the intubation attracted, just getting out of bed appetite was not very good, drinking this was very comfortable. 许鹏飞道了声谢,便接过那杯烧仙草,插管吸了起来,刚起床胃口不是很好,喝这个还挺舒服的。 „Beautiful woman, your I am unknown, where you obtain my cell phone number, how also to be thinking introduced the object to me?” “美女,你我素不相识,你从哪里得到我的手机号码,又怎么想着给我介绍对象的？” At this time, Guo Bingbing already silently took a look at him, generally speaking the first impression is good, the marriage affinity calculation ability of her family/home boss is really outstanding, gives the object who she chooses truly conforms to her aesthetic appreciation. 此时,郭冰冰已经默默的把他打量了一遍,总的来说第一印象还是不错的,她家老板的姻缘推算能力果然不同凡响,给她挑选的对象确实是符合她的审美。 The experience that Guo Bingbing has not acted as a matchmaker, hears Xu Pengfei's inquiry, temper frank she is also disinclined to talk circuitously, selected bright way directly: „Xu Pengfei, franking, you are my boss introduced that to my, me said introduced the object before to you, actually introduces me, you had a look carefully, how felt me?” 郭冰冰没有做媒的经验,听到许鹏飞的询问,性子直爽的她也懒得绕圈子,直接挑明道:“许鹏飞,实不相瞒,你是我老板介绍给我的,我之前说给你介绍对象,其实是介绍我自己,你仔细看看,觉得我怎么样？” Xu Pengfei hears dumbfoundedly, do act as a matchmaker to oneself? 许鹏飞听得目瞪口呆,还有自己给自己做媒的？ However the shock turns over to the shock, Xu Pengfei is careful took a look at the opposite party, discovered that this miss appearance is not at present attractive, but in the foreheads has a heroic spirit, looks very worth looking. 不过震惊归震惊,许鹏飞还是仔细的把对方打量了一遍,发现眼前这姑娘长相不算漂亮,但眉宇之间有股英气,看起来挺耐看的。 Now is in late March, the Guangxi province weather has started to warm up, Guo Bingbing upper body wears a long sleeve woolen sweater, the lower part of the body wears the jeans, revealed her good stature. 现在已经是三月下旬了,桂省这边的天气已经开始转暖,郭冰冰上身就穿着一件长袖毛衣,下身穿着牛仔裤,露出了她的好身材。 Telling the truth, Xu Pengfei really thought the opposite party is good, making him look a little excited. 有一说一,许鹏飞是真的觉得对方还不错,让他看得有点心动。 () ()