MTTIR :: Volume #4

#315: Bridegroom's gift to bride's family of Jiang


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Jade state. 玉州。 XX life supermarkets. XX生活超市。 Hears huge Zongming inquiry, Jiang Feng says with a smile: Honorable person does not dare to say exactly the same as the picture, but differs is very small, because this is the picture that I make her make, explains specially does not use the beautiful face.” 听到庞宗明的询问,江枫笑道:“真人跟照片不敢说一模一样,但相差真的很小,因为这是我让她拍的照片,特别交待不用美颜的。” huge Zongming nods secretly, he is 29 years old, the parents several years ago starts to urge the marriage this year, especially these 2-3 years, the parents not only urge the marriage, but also asked the matchmaker to give him to introduce several objects. 庞宗明暗暗点头,他今年29岁了,早在几年前父母就开始催婚,特别是这2-3年,父母不仅仅催婚,还请媒人给他介绍了好几个对象。 He does not want to be on intimate terms, but his parents persuaded one after another, moreover vowed solemnly saying that but had a look, if satisfied looked everywhere, if did not satisfy them not to compel him. 他原本是不想相亲的,但他父母轮番劝说,而且信誓旦旦的说,只是去看看,如果满意就处处看,如果不满意他们也不逼他。 The parents the words speaking of this share, huge Zongming truly do not have the means to reject, then braced oneself to participate in several being on intimate terms. 父母把话说到这个份上,庞宗明确实没办法拒绝,便硬着头皮去参加了几次相亲。 The matchmaker who the parents invited was not quite credible, before has not met, praised to probably the bride's side splendidly splendid, the result met, said that horrible to look at may be somewhat exaggerating, but the comprehensive condition truly did not have one to make him look to glance. 只是,父母请的媒人不太靠谱,没见面之前,把女方夸得要多出色有多出色,结果一见面,说惨不忍睹或许有些夸张,但综合条件确实没一个能让他看上眼的。 A neighbor aunt gave him to introduce actually a very outstanding object, what a pity he had a liking for others, others have not actually settled on him, finally can only helpless giving up. 倒是一个邻居大妈给他介绍了一个非常优秀的对象,可惜他看上了人家,人家却没看中他,最终只能无奈的放弃。 But at present this river matchmaker's introduction, making huge Zongming feel that very credible, then continues to ask: River matchmaker, does not know that what situation in this miss family/home is?” 而眼前这位江媒人的介绍,让庞宗明觉得挺靠谱的,便继续问道:“江媒人,不知这姑娘家里是什么情况?” Her family/home is a super big family......” Jiang Feng has not concealed, said the Deng 99 home backgrounds in detail. “她家是一个超级大家庭……”江枫没有隐瞒,把邓九九的家庭情况详细说了一遍。 huge Zongming more listens more surprised, the entire process mouth has not closed up. 庞宗明是越听越惊讶,整个过程嘴巴就没合拢过。 After Deng 99 orientation lectures, Jiang Feng said with a smile: Actually, is you after she marries, the relative will be more, other does not have the tremendous impact.” 把邓九九家的情况介绍了一遍后,江枫才笑着说道:“其实,就是你跟她结婚后,亲戚会多一些而已,其他的没多大影响。” huge Zongming hears the corners of the mouth to pull out, this relative is not many, but is many to the scary situation, asking of some of his worries: River matchmaker, this miss, should not be in the legend holds the younger brother demon?” 庞宗明听得嘴角一抽,这亲戚不是多一些,而是多到吓人的地步,他不禁有些担心的问道:“江媒人,这姑娘,应该不是传说中的扶弟魔吧?” Under recommendation, wild fruit reading pursues the book really easily-to-use, here downloads www.yeguoyuedu.com everyone to go to try quickly.】 【推荐下,野果阅读追书真的好用,这里下载www.yeguoyuedu.com大家去快可以试试吧。】 Jiang Feng shakes the head saying: Boss, this point you felt relieved although, if her family/home is the male female few, the family responsibilities are truly heavy must be above the imagination, but her family/home is the female male few, that is completely different, this you should understand.” 江枫摇头道:“老板,这一点你尽管放心,如果她家是男多女少的话,那家庭负担确实重得超乎想象,但她家是女多男少,那就完全不一样了,这个你应该懂的。” huge Zongming was also the years about 30 people, naturally understood the meaning in Jiang Feng words, acknowledged that this saying said is reasonable, after without the worry in this aspect, he then seriously considered that was together appropriate with such miss. 庞宗明也是年近三十的人了,自然明白江枫话里的意思,也承认这话说得有道理,没有了这方面的顾虑之后,他便认真考虑跟这样的姑娘在一起到底合不合适。 First, the miss of this family background, can definitely bear hardships and stand hard work, absolutely does not have the young lady temperament, moreover compares to be content regarding the marriage, will not aim too high, makes various house job and belt/bring child wait/etc, can handle with ease, can let the man outside relieved struggle. 首先,这种家庭出身的姑娘,肯定是能吃苦耐劳的,绝对没有大小姐脾气,而且对于婚姻比较知足,不会好高骛远,做各种家务活以及带孩子等等,都能轻松搞定,能让男人在外面安心奋斗。 If there is a mind to observe will discover, such miss majority has the faithful until death thought that so long as you are not go too far to her, she has not thought must divorce you. 如果有心观察就会发现,这样的姑娘大部分都有从一而终的思想,只要你不是对她太过分,她根本就没想过要跟你离婚。 Like certain women, often not divorcing these two characters said that the life had slightly is not smooth tells you bye-bye. 不像某些女人,动不动就把离婚这两个字挂在嘴边,生活稍有不顺就跟你说拜拜。 More wants to favor sect Mingyue to think that this miss really very suitable own, immediately took a stand: The miss who river matchmaker, you introduced I was very interested.” 越想宠宗明越觉得这姑娘真的挺适合自己的,当即表态道:“江媒人,你介绍的这个姑娘我挺感兴趣的。” The Jiang Feng smile said: Since is interested, I arrange you to meet in the afternoon, Ok?” 江枫微笑道:“既然感兴趣,那我就安排你们下午见面,可以吧?” huge Zongming the first time was was not on intimate terms, hears word said: Ok, I subscribe the restaurant, does not know that her how many points do get off work?” 庞宗明不是第一次相亲了,闻言接话道:“行,那我订餐厅,不知道她多少点下班?” Jiang Feng said: She the last morning shift, 5 : 00 pm gets off work today.” 江枫道:“她今天上早班,下午 5 点下班。” „Does that dinner time decide six points?” “那吃饭时间就定六点?” Ok.” “可以。” Nearby has a characteristics restaurant, in the afternoon we eat not to have the issue to there!” “附近有一家特色餐厅,下午咱们就到那里吃没问题吧!” Without the issue, the boss you looks at the arrangement on the line.” “没问题,老板你看着安排就行。” Good, that decided.” “好,那就这么定了。” Then, two people exchanged the telephone, Jiang Feng drove to depart. 接下来,两人交换了联系电话,江枫才开车离去。 ...... …… Copper state district. 铜州县。 Dragon tiger hot pot. 龙虎火锅店。 96, this mutton volume is delicious, you eat.” “九六,这羊肉卷好吃,你多吃点。” 0, this duck blood eats the comparison to scald the mouth, you and others it put the cool point to eat again.” “零零,这鸭血吃起来比较烫嘴,你等它放凉一点再吃。” 96, this beef meatball does with the fresh beef, can feel relieved that eats.” “九六,这牛肉丸都是用新鲜牛肉做的,可以放心吃。” 0, you do not like eating the tripe, this rinses tripe art perturbed, always uses for about 15 seconds, tripe very refreshing taste that like this rinses.” “零零,你不是喜欢吃毛肚嘛,这涮毛肚讲究‘七上八下’,总用时大约十五秒左右,这样涮出来的毛肚会非常的爽口好吃。” 96......” “九六……” 0......” “零零……” Jiang three looks at two son that attentive appearances, then has several at heart, fills the belly neatly and quickly, then makes the Deng sisters eat slowly, then goes out of the theater box, finds unmanned place, calls Grandmaster river. 蒋三看着两个儿子那殷勤的模样,心里便有数了,三下五除二把肚子填饱,然后让邓家姐妹慢慢吃,便走出包厢,找个无人的地方,给江大师打电话。 A telephone connection, both sides polite greeting, Jiang three then directly soar the subject saying: Grandmaster river, is this, after several days of being together, my two sons is very satisfied with the Deng sisters, therefore wants you to discuss the matter of bridegroom's gift to bride's family with Grandmaster river, does not know how many bridegroom's gifts to bride's family to is appropriate?” 电话一接通,双方客气的打过招呼,蒋三便直奔主题道:“江大师,是这样的,经过几天的相处,我那两个儿子对邓家姐妹都很满意,所以想跟江大师你商量一下彩礼的事,不知道给多少彩礼合适?” Jiang Feng hears word said with a smile: Boss Jiang, this you waits a bit, I first discussed with the bride's side guardian, asks their opinions, had the result I to call you again.” 江枫闻言笑道:“蒋老板,这个你稍等一下,我先跟女方家长商量商量,问问他们的意见,有结果了我再打电话给你。” Jiang three should say: Good, I and others your telephones.” 蒋三应道:“好的,那我等你电话。” ...... …… Xin'an County Taiping Town Yongan Village. 新安县太平镇永安村。 Deng big sits in own entrance, holds a water Yantong gu winter gu winter is smoking the water smoke, his present mood is entirely different from one week ago mood. 邓大坐在自家门口,扶着一个水烟筒咕冬咕冬的抽着水烟,他现在的心情跟一个星期前的心情已经截然不同了。 A week ago, Deng big obtains Aunt Li the direction of this matchmaker, goes to provincial capital please famous Grandmaster river to act as a matchmaker for his several children, finally really makes him pleasantly surprised. 一个星期前,邓大得到“李婶”这个媒人的指点,前往省城请大名鼎鼎的江大师替他的几个儿女做媒,结果真的让他惊喜不已。 Now, was introduced by Grandmaster river, his family/home second child and fifth child Brother Jiang have discussed that the good family financial circumstances of opposite party to the situation that letting him cannot believe. 如今,经江大师介绍,他家老二与老五已经蒋氏兄弟谈上了,对方的家境好到让他不敢相信的地步。 In the morning, the third child also called to tell him, Grandmaster river has looked for being on intimate terms object for her, tomorrow she will dismiss the labor to come back, plans to participate in being on intimate terms. 上午,老三也打电话回来跟他说,江大师已经替她物色好了相亲对象,明天她就辞工回来,准备参加相亲。 All conduct incomparably smoothly, making Deng Dazhen hit at heart happily. 一切进行得无比顺利,让邓大真的打心里高兴。 He 78 years old , has not known that this year also many years may live, at his children number, want to see that all children get married, normal is the not possible matter. 他今年已经78岁高龄了,不知道还有多少年可活,以他的儿女数量,想看到所有儿女成家,正常来说是不可能的事情。 His desire in the lifetime saw 1/3 children got married satisfied, but currently has Grandmaster river this big matchmaker, in Deng Daxin gave birth wiped the hope, perhaps he can live was noticing that all children did get married? 原本他的愿望是在有生之年看到三分之一的儿女成家就满足了,不过现在有了江大师这个大媒人在,邓大心中不禁生出了一抹希望,或许他能活着看到所有的儿女成家? When Deng big smokes while indulges in flights of fancy, his old man-machine suddenly made a sound, he pulls out the cell phone to look, the discovery is the phone call that Grandmaster river makes, cannot help but the spirit inspires. 就在邓大一边抽烟一边胡思乱想的时候,他的老人机忽然响了起来,他掏出手机一看,发现是江大师打来的电话,不由得精神一振。 A telephone connection, the Jiang Feng sound passed on, Deng has, had the lunch?” 电话一接通,江枫的声音就传了过来,“邓老,吃过午饭了吗?” Returning that Deng big smiles said: Has eaten, did Grandmaster river you eat?” 邓大满脸笑容的回道:“吃过了,江大师你吃了没有?” I have also eaten!” “我也吃过了!” Two people smalltalk several, Grandmaster river mentioned the proper business: Deng, the Jiang two brothers was together well with your family Laoer fifth child, looks at right the eye very much mutually, should this you know?” 两人客套了几句,江大师才说起了正事:“邓老,蒋家两兄弟跟你家老二老五相处得很好,互相都看对了眼,这你应该都知道了吧?” Deng big is happy: Knows, they told me, this is Grandmaster river your merit, if not you helps them introduce, their this lifetime could not find the condition such good object absolutely.” 邓大高兴道:“知道,她们都跟我说了,这都是江大师你的功劳,如果不是你帮她们介绍的话,她们这辈子是绝对找不到条件这么好的对象。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: Deng does not need to be polite, this is your two daughters is also outstanding enough, Boss Jiang called me a moment ago, mentioned with me the issue of bridegroom's gift to bride's family, I call you, wants to discuss your two daughters' bridegroom's gifts to bride's family with you.” 江枫笑道:“邓老不必客气,这也是你两个女儿够优秀,刚才蒋老板给我打电话,跟我提到了彩礼的问题,我打电话给你,就是想跟你商量一下你两个女儿的彩礼。” Deng Dawen said to ask back: Grandmaster river, you thought how many bridegroom's gifts to bride's family I do receive is quite appropriate?” 邓大闻言反问道:“江大师,你觉得我收多少彩礼比较合适?” The bridegroom's gift to bride's family must certainly receive, this was China inherited several thousand years of marriage customs. 彩礼肯定是要收的,这是中国传承了几千年的婚嫁习俗。 However the actual amount of bridegroom's gift to bride's family was quite tasteful, being short in the face was unattractive, were many with selling female, discretion acted bashful, the average person did not understand, only had the matchmaker who the help brought both sides together, knows that many bridegroom's gift to bride's family comparisons conformed to the current quotation. 不过彩礼的具体数目就比较讲究了,少了面子上不好看,多了又跟卖女似的,这其中的分寸拿捏,一般人是不太懂的,唯有帮忙牵线搭桥的媒人,才知道多少彩礼比较符合当前的行情。 Jiang Feng said: According to our here quotations, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family generally in 30,000 to 100,000, has certainly ratio low or compared with this high, is only quite few.” 江枫说道:“按咱们这边的行情,彩礼普遍是在三万到十万之间,当然也有比这个低或者比这个高的,只是比较少而已。” Deng big thinks, said: Grandmaster river, this bridegroom's gift to bride's family many I do not have the opinion, so long as my two unmarried girls can cross are happy I to be well satisfied, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family you made their Jiang Jia look on the line.” 邓大想了想,说道:“江大师,这彩礼多少我都没意见,只要我两个闺女能够过得幸福我就心满意足了,彩礼你让他们蒋家看着给就行了。” Jiang Feng approved one secretly, said: Ok, I understood, that first this, I call to discuss Boss Jiang well this bridegroom's gift to bride's family, turn head arranged the digit you to tell Deng again.” 江枫暗赞了一声,道:“行,我明白了,那就先这样,我打电话跟蒋老板好好谈一下这个彩礼,回头定好数字了再跟邓老你说。” Good, that troubled Grandmaster river.” “好的,那就麻烦江大师了。” Is impolite, this is I should do, that first hung, bye.” “不客气,这是我应该做的,那就先挂了,再见。” Un, bye.” “嗯,再见。” ...... …… After making the telephone call, Jiang Feng calls Boss Jiang nonstop. 挂了电话后,江枫又马不停蹄的给蒋老板打电话。 A telephone connection, Jiang Feng then said directly: Boss Jiang, I had just called to discuss the bride's side family/home the issue of bridegroom's gift to bride's family, the bride's side family/home only hopes that two daughters can cross happily, to bridegroom's gift to bride's family and so on no request, making your Jiang Jia look on the line.” 电话一接通,江枫便直接说道:“蒋老板,刚刚我已经打电话跟女方家商量过彩礼的问题了,女方家只希望两个女儿能够过得幸福,对彩礼之类的没什么要求,让你们蒋家看着给就行了。” Jiang three hesitated, asked: Grandmaster river, you thought how many this bridegroom's gift to bride's family does give is quite appropriate?” 蒋三沉吟了一下,问道:“江大师,那你觉得这彩礼给多少比较合适?” Jiang Feng said: According to at present our here bridegroom's gift to bride's family quotations, usually is 30,000 to 100,000 , some are lower than this number or are higher than this number, looks at the family condition specifically.” 江枫说道:“按目前咱们这边的彩礼行情来讲,通常是三万到十万之间,也有一些是低于这个数或高于这个数的,具体也看家庭条件的。” Jiang three pondered carefully, said: Grandmaster river, my gives 180,000, two 360,000, do you feel this number?” 蒋三仔细思考了一下,说道:“江大师,那我一个给十八万,两个三十六万,你觉得这个数目可以吗?” Reason that leaves to this number, there are reasons in two aspects: 之所以出到这个数目,有两方面的原因: First, their Jiang Jia did not say the family circumstances well, but also has deposit ten million/countless, is stronger than many families, the bridegroom's gift to bride's family gave obviously is short was inappropriate, must be higher than the ordinary standard to be good. 一,他们蒋家不说家境有多好,但也有千万存款,比很多家庭都强,彩礼给得少了显然不合适,必须要高于普通标准才行。 Second, his two sons marry others two daughters, this marriage will be doomed to cause the stir, at the appointed time the bridegroom's gift to bride's family will definitely take the discussion, therefore the bridegroom's gift to bride's family definitely cannot being short, will otherwise definitely be worn the stingy hat. 二,他两个儿子娶人家两个女儿,这种婚姻注定会引起轰动,到时彩礼肯定会被人拿出来讨论,因此彩礼肯定不能给少了,否则肯定会被人扣上抠门的帽子。 Jiang Feng hears word said with a smile: Sure, this bridegroom's gift to bride's family did not compare these big cities to be bad, can make their sisters marry sight, not in vain the parents raising that their sisters suffered great hardships.” 江枫闻言笑道:“当然可以,这个彩礼不比那些大城市差了,能让她们姐妹嫁得风风光光的,不枉父母把她们姐妹含辛茹苦的养大。” Lianjiang Grandmaster you also approves, that this matter settled.” “连江大师你也认可,那这事就这么说定了。” Un, since Boss Jiang you discussed the bridegroom's gift to bride's family, I will look at main house gate on arrangement tomorrow ‚’, then made them get married as soon as possible, how did you feel?” “嗯,既然蒋老板你都谈彩礼了,那我明天就安排‘看家门’,然后让他们尽早结婚,你觉得怎么样?” Ok, Grandmaster river you looks to manage on the line, our here does not have the opinion.” “可以的,江大师你看着办就行,我们这边没有意见。” Good, I arrange immediately.” “好的,那我马上安排。”
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