Jadestate.
玉州。XXlifesupermarkets.
XX生活超市。HearshugeZongminginquiry, Jiang Fengsays with a smile: „Honorable persondoes not dareto sayexactly the same as the picture, butdiffers is very small, becausethisis the picture that Imakehermake, explainsspeciallydoes not use the beautifulface.”
听到庞宗明的询问,江枫笑道:“真人跟照片不敢说一模一样,但相差真的很小,因为这是我让她拍的照片,特别交待不用美颜的。”hugeZongmingnodssecretly, he is 29 years old, the parentsseveralyears ago startsto urge the marriagethis year, especiallythese2-3years, the parentsnot onlyurge the marriage, but alsoasked the matchmakerto givehimto introduceseveralobjects.
庞宗明暗暗点头,他今年29岁了,早在几年前父母就开始催婚,特别是这2-3年,父母不仅仅催婚,还请媒人给他介绍了好几个对象。Hedoes not wantto be on intimate terms, buthis parentspersuadedone after another, moreovervowed solemnly saying that buthad a look, ifsatisfiedlookedeverywhere, ifdid not satisfythemnot to compelhim.
他原本是不想相亲的,但他父母轮番劝说,而且信誓旦旦的说,只是去看看,如果满意就处处看,如果不满意他们也不逼他。
The parents the wordsspeaking ofthisshare, hugeZongmingtrulydo not have the meansto reject, thenbraced oneselfto participate inseveralbeing on intimate terms.
父母把话说到这个份上,庞宗明确实没办法拒绝,便硬着头皮去参加了几次相亲。
The matchmaker who the parentsinvitedwas not quite credible, before has not met, praised to probably the bride's sidesplendidlysplendid, the resultmet, said that horrible to look at may be somewhat exaggerating, but the comprehensiveconditiontrulydid not haveone to makehimlookto glance.
只是,父母请的媒人不太靠谱,没见面之前,把女方夸得要多出色有多出色,结果一见面,说惨不忍睹或许有些夸张,但综合条件确实没一个能让他看上眼的。
A neighborauntgavehimto introduceactually a veryoutstandingobject, what a pityhehad a liking forothers, othershave not actually settled onhim, finally can only helplessgiving up.
倒是一个邻居大妈给他介绍了一个非常优秀的对象,可惜他看上了人家,人家却没看中他,最终只能无奈的放弃。Butat presentthisrivermatchmaker'sintroduction, makinghugeZongmingfeel that verycredible, thencontinuesto ask: „Rivermatchmaker, does not know that whatsituationinthismissfamily/homeis?”
而眼前这位江媒人的介绍,让庞宗明觉得挺靠谱的,便继续问道:“江媒人,不知这姑娘家里是什么情况?”„Herfamily/homeis a superbig family......”Jiang Fenghas not concealed, said the Deng99home backgroundsin detail.
“她家是一个超级大家庭……”江枫没有隐瞒,把邓九九的家庭情况详细说了一遍。hugeZongmingmorelistens more surprised, the entire processmouthhas not closed up.
庞宗明是越听越惊讶,整个过程嘴巴就没合拢过。
After Deng99orientation lectures, Jiang Fengsaidwith a smile: „Actually, isyouaftershemarries, the relativewill be more, otherdoes not have the tremendousimpact.”
把邓九九家的情况介绍了一遍后,江枫才笑着说道:“其实,就是你跟她结婚后,亲戚会多一些而已,其他的没多大影响。”hugeZongminghears the corners of the mouthto pull out, thisrelativeis notmany, butismanyto the scarysituation, asking of some of hisworries: „Rivermatchmaker, thismiss, shouldnot bein the legendholds the younger brotherdemon?”
庞宗明听得嘴角一抽,这亲戚不是多一些,而是多到吓人的地步,他不禁有些担心的问道:“江媒人,这姑娘,应该不是传说中的扶弟魔吧?”【Underrecommendation, wild fruitreadingpursues the bookreallyeasily-to-use, heredownloadswww.yeguoyuedu.comeveryoneto go to tryquickly.】
【推荐下,野果阅读追书真的好用,这里下载www.yeguoyuedu.com大家去快可以试试吧。】Jiang Fengshakes the head saying: „Boss, this pointyoufelt relievedalthough, ifherfamily/homeis the malefemalefew, the family responsibilitiesare truly heavymustbe above the imagination, butherfamily/homeis the femalemalefew, that is completely different, thisyoushouldunderstand.”江枫摇头道:“老板,这一点你尽管放心,如果她家是男多女少的话,那家庭负担确实重得超乎想象,但她家是女多男少,那就完全不一样了,这个你应该懂的。”hugeZongming was also the yearsabout30people, naturallyunderstood the meaning in Jiang Fengwords, acknowledged that thissayingsaidis reasonable, after without the worry in thisaspect, hethenseriouslyconsidered that was together appropriatewithsuchmiss.
庞宗明也是年近三十的人了,自然明白江枫话里的意思,也承认这话说得有道理,没有了这方面的顾虑之后,他便认真考虑跟这样的姑娘在一起到底合不合适。First, the miss of thisfamily background, can definitely bear hardships and stand hard work, absolutelydoes not have the young ladytemperament, moreovercomparesto be contentregarding the marriage, will not aim too high, makesvarioushouse job and belt/bringchildwait/etc, canhandlewith ease, canlet the man outside relievedstruggle.
首先,这种家庭出身的姑娘,肯定是能吃苦耐劳的,绝对没有大小姐脾气,而且对于婚姻比较知足,不会好高骛远,做各种家务活以及带孩子等等,都能轻松搞定,能让男人在外面安心奋斗。
If there is a mindto observewill discover,suchmissmajorityhas the faithful until death thought that so long asyouare notgo too fartoher, shehas not thoughtmustdivorceyou.
如果有心观察就会发现,这样的姑娘大部分都有从一而终的思想,只要你不是对她太过分,她根本就没想过要跟你离婚。Likecertainwomen, oftennot divorcingthesetwocharacters said that the lifehadslightlyis not smoothtellsyoubye-bye.
不像某些女人,动不动就把离婚这两个字挂在嘴边,生活稍有不顺就跟你说拜拜。Morewantsto favorsectMingyueto think that thismissreallyverysuitableown, immediatelytook a stand: „Themiss who rivermatchmaker, youintroducedIwas very interested.”
越想宠宗明越觉得这姑娘真的挺适合自己的,当即表态道:“江媒人,你介绍的这个姑娘我挺感兴趣的。”
The Jiang Fengsmilesaid: „Sinceis interested, Iarrangeyouto meetin the afternoon, Ok?”江枫微笑道:“既然感兴趣,那我就安排你们下午见面,可以吧?”hugeZongming the first time was was not on intimate terms, hearswordsaid: „Ok, Isubscribe the restaurant, does not know that herhow manypointsdo get off work?”
庞宗明不是第一次相亲了,闻言接话道:“行,那我订餐厅,不知道她多少点下班?”Jiang Fengsaid: „She the lastmorning shift, 5 : 00 pmgets off worktoday.”江枫道:“她今天上早班,下午 5 点下班。”„Does thatdinner timedecidesixpoints?”
“那吃饭时间就定六点?”„Ok.”
“可以。”„Nearbyhas a characteristicsrestaurant, in the afternoonweeatnot to have the issuetothere!”
“附近有一家特色餐厅,下午咱们就到那里吃没问题吧!”„Without the issue, the bossyoulooks at the arrangementon the line.”
“没问题,老板你看着安排就行。”„Good, thatdecided.”
“好,那就这么定了。”Then, two peopleexchanged the telephone, Jiang Fengdroveto depart.
接下来,两人交换了联系电话,江枫才开车离去。
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……Copperstatedistrict.
铜州县。Dragontigerhot pot.
龙虎火锅店。„96, thismuttonvolumeis delicious, youeat.”
“九六,这羊肉卷好吃,你多吃点。”„0, thisduckbloodeats the comparisonto scald the mouth, youand othersitput the coolpointto eatagain.”
“零零,这鸭血吃起来比较烫嘴,你等它放凉一点再吃。”„96, thisbeef meatballdoeswith the freshbeef, canfeel relieved that eats.”
“九六,这牛肉丸都是用新鲜牛肉做的,可以放心吃。”„0, youdo not likeeating the tripe, thisrinsestripeart‚perturbed’, alwaysuses for about 15seconds, tripeveryrefreshing taste that like thisrinses.”
“零零,你不是喜欢吃毛肚嘛,这涮毛肚讲究‘七上八下’,总用时大约十五秒左右,这样涮出来的毛肚会非常的爽口好吃。”„96......”
“九六……”„0......”
“零零……”Jiangthreelooks attwosonthatattentiveappearances, thenhas severalat heart, fills the bellyneatly and quickly, thenmakes the Dengsisterseatslowly, thengoes out of the theater box, findsunmannedplace, callsGrandmasterriver.
蒋三看着两个儿子那殷勤的模样,心里便有数了,三下五除二把肚子填饱,然后让邓家姐妹慢慢吃,便走出包厢,找个无人的地方,给江大师打电话。
A telephoneconnection, both sidespolitegreeting, Jiangthreethendirectly soar the subject saying: „Grandmasterriver, isthis, afterseveraldays of being together, my twosons is very satisfied with the Dengsisters, thereforewantsyouto discuss the matter of bridegroom's gift to bride's familywithGrandmasterriver, does not know how manybridegroom's gifts to bride's familytois appropriate?”
电话一接通,双方客气的打过招呼,蒋三便直奔主题道:“江大师,是这样的,经过几天的相处,我那两个儿子对邓家姐妹都很满意,所以想跟江大师你商量一下彩礼的事,不知道给多少彩礼合适?”Jiang Fenghearswordsaid with a smile: „BossJiang, thisyouwaits a bit, Ifirstdiscussedwith the bride's sideguardian,askstheiropinions, had the resultIto callyouagain.”江枫闻言笑道:“蒋老板,这个你稍等一下,我先跟女方家长商量商量,问问他们的意见,有结果了我再打电话给你。”Jiangthreeshouldsay: „Good, Iand othersyourtelephones.”
蒋三应道:“好的,那我等你电话。”
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……Xin'an CountyTaiping TownYongan Village.
新安县太平镇永安村。Dengbigsitsinownentrance, holds a waterYantongguwinterguwinteris smoking the watersmoke, hispresentmoodis entirely different from oneweek ago mood.
邓大坐在自家门口,扶着一个水烟筒咕冬咕冬的抽着水烟,他现在的心情跟一个星期前的心情已经截然不同了。
A week ago, Dengbigobtains„AuntLi” the direction of thismatchmaker, goes toprovincial capitalpleasefamousGrandmasterriverto act as a matchmakerforhisseveralchildren, finallyreallymakeshimpleasantly surprised.
一个星期前,邓大得到“李婶”这个媒人的指点,前往省城请大名鼎鼎的江大师替他的几个儿女做媒,结果真的让他惊喜不已。Now, was introducedbyGrandmasterriver, hisfamily/homesecond child and fifth childBrotherJianghave discussed that the good family financial circumstances of opposite partyto the situation that lettinghimcannotbelieve.
如今,经江大师介绍,他家老二与老五已经蒋氏兄弟谈上了,对方的家境好到让他不敢相信的地步。In the morning, the third childalsocalledto tellhim,Grandmasterriverhas looked for being on intimate termsobjectforher, tomorrowshewill dismiss the laborto come back, plansto participate inbeing on intimate terms.
上午,老三也打电话回来跟他说,江大师已经替她物色好了相亲对象,明天她就辞工回来,准备参加相亲。All conduct incomparablysmoothly, makingDengDazhenhitat hearthappily.
一切进行得无比顺利,让邓大真的打心里高兴。He78years old , has not known that this yearalso many yearsmaylive, athischildrennumber, wantto see that allchildrenget married, normalis the not possiblematter.
他今年已经78岁高龄了,不知道还有多少年可活,以他的儿女数量,想看到所有儿女成家,正常来说是不可能的事情。Hisdesirein the lifetimesaw1/3childrengot marriedsatisfied, butcurrentlyhasGrandmasterriverthisbigmatchmaker, inDengDaxingave birthwiped the hope, perhapshecanlivewas noticing that allchildrendid get married?
原本他的愿望是在有生之年看到三分之一的儿女成家就满足了,不过现在有了江大师这个大媒人在,邓大心中不禁生出了一抹希望,或许他能活着看到所有的儿女成家?WhenDengbigsmokeswhileindulges in flights of fancy, hisoldman-machinesuddenlymade a sound, hepulls out the cell phoneto look, the discoveryis the phone call that Grandmasterrivermakes, cannot help but the spiritinspires.
就在邓大一边抽烟一边胡思乱想的时候,他的老人机忽然响了起来,他掏出手机一看,发现是江大师打来的电话,不由得精神一振。
A telephoneconnection, the Jiang Fengsoundpassed on, „Deng has, had the lunch?”
电话一接通,江枫的声音就传了过来,“邓老,吃过午饭了吗?”Returning that Dengbigsmilessaid: „Has eaten, did Grandmasterriveryoueat?”
邓大满脸笑容的回道:“吃过了,江大师你吃了没有?”„Ihave also eaten!”
“我也吃过了!”Two peoplesmalltalkseveral, Grandmasterrivermentioned the proper business: „Deng, the Jiangtwobrotherswas togetherwellwithyour familyLaoerfifth child, looks atright the eyevery muchmutually, should thisyouknow?”
两人客套了几句,江大师才说起了正事:“邓老,蒋家两兄弟跟你家老二老五相处得很好,互相都看对了眼,这你应该都知道了吧?”Dengbigis happy: „Knows,theytoldme, thisisGrandmasterriveryourmerit, if notyouhelpsthemintroduce, their this lifetimecould not find the conditionsuchgoodobjectabsolutely.”
邓大高兴道:“知道,她们都跟我说了,这都是江大师你的功劳,如果不是你帮她们介绍的话,她们这辈子是绝对找不到条件这么好的对象。”Jiang Fengsaid with a smile: „Dengdoes not needto be polite, thisisyourtwodaughtersis also outstandingenough, BossJiangcalledmea moment ago, mentionedwithme the issue of bridegroom's gift to bride's family, Icallyou, wantsto discussyourtwodaughters'bridegroom's gifts to bride's familywithyou.”江枫笑道:“邓老不必客气,这也是你两个女儿够优秀,刚才蒋老板给我打电话,跟我提到了彩礼的问题,我打电话给你,就是想跟你商量一下你两个女儿的彩礼。”DengDawensaidto ask back: „Grandmasterriver, youthought how manybridegroom's gifts to bride's familyIdo receive is quite appropriate?”
邓大闻言反问道:“江大师,你觉得我收多少彩礼比较合适?”
The bridegroom's gift to bride's familymust certainlyreceive, thiswasChinainheritedseveral thousandyears of marriagecustoms.
彩礼肯定是要收的,这是中国传承了几千年的婚嫁习俗。However the actual amount of bridegroom's gift to bride's family was quite tasteful, being short in the facewas unattractive, were manywithsellingfemale, discretionacted bashful, the average persondid not understand, onlyhad the matchmaker who the helpbrought both sides together, knows that manybridegroom's gift to bride's familycomparisonsconformed to the currentquotation.
不过彩礼的具体数目就比较讲究了,少了面子上不好看,多了又跟卖女似的,这其中的分寸拿捏,一般人是不太懂的,唯有帮忙牵线搭桥的媒人,才知道多少彩礼比较符合当前的行情。Jiang Fengsaid: „According toourherequotations, the bridegroom's gift to bride's familygenerallyin30,000to100,000, has certainlyratioloworcompared withthishigh, is onlyquitefew.”江枫说道:“按咱们这边的行情,彩礼普遍是在三万到十万之间,当然也有比这个低或者比这个高的,只是比较少而已。”Dengbigthinks,said: „Grandmasterriver, thisbridegroom's gift to bride's familymanyIdo not have the opinion, so long asmytwounmarried girlscancrossare happyIto be well satisfied, the bridegroom's gift to bride's familyyoumadetheirJiang Jialookon the line.”
邓大想了想,说道:“江大师,这彩礼多少我都没意见,只要我两个闺女能够过得幸福我就心满意足了,彩礼你让他们蒋家看着给就行了。”Jiang Fengapprovedonesecretly, said: „Ok, Iunderstood, thatfirstthis, Icallto discussBossJiangwellthisbridegroom's gift to bride's family, turn headarranged the digityouto tellDengagain.”江枫暗赞了一声,道:“行,我明白了,那就先这样,我打电话跟蒋老板好好谈一下这个彩礼,回头定好数字了再跟邓老你说。”„Good, thattroubledGrandmasterriver.”
“好的,那就麻烦江大师了。”„Is impolite, thisisIshoulddo, thatfirsthung, bye.”
“不客气,这是我应该做的,那就先挂了,再见。”„Un, bye.”
“嗯,再见。”
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After making the telephone call, Jiang FengcallsBossJiangnonstop.
挂了电话后,江枫又马不停蹄的给蒋老板打电话。
A telephoneconnection, Jiang Fengthensaiddirectly: „BossJiang, Ihad just calledto discuss the bride's sidefamily/home the issue of bridegroom's gift to bride's family, the bride's sidefamily/homeonlyhopes that twodaughterscancrosshappily, tobridegroom's gift to bride's familyand so onnorequest, makingyourJiang Jialookon the line.”
电话一接通,江枫便直接说道:“蒋老板,刚刚我已经打电话跟女方家商量过彩礼的问题了,女方家只希望两个女儿能够过得幸福,对彩礼之类的没什么要求,让你们蒋家看着给就行了。”Jiangthreehesitated, asked: „Grandmasterriver, youthoughthow manythisbridegroom's gift to bride's familydoes give is quite appropriate?”
蒋三沉吟了一下,问道:“江大师,那你觉得这彩礼给多少比较合适?”Jiang Fengsaid: „According toat presentourherebridegroom's gift to bride's familyquotations, usuallyis30,000to100,000 , some are lower thanthisnumberorare higher thanthisnumber, looks at the familyconditionspecifically.”江枫说道:“按目前咱们这边的彩礼行情来讲,通常是三万到十万之间,也有一些是低于这个数或高于这个数的,具体也看家庭条件的。”Jiangthreeponderedcarefully, said: „Grandmasterriver, mygives180,000, two360,000, do youfeelthisnumber?”
蒋三仔细思考了一下,说道:“江大师,那我一个给十八万,两个三十六万,你觉得这个数目可以吗?”Reason thatleavestothisnumber, there arereasons in twoaspects:
之所以出到这个数目,有两方面的原因:First, theirJiang Jiadid not say the family circumstanceswell, butalsohasdepositten million/countless, is stronger than manyfamilies, the bridegroom's gift to bride's familygaveobviouslyis shortwas inappropriate, mustbe higher than the ordinarystandardto be good.
一,他们蒋家不说家境有多好,但也有千万存款,比很多家庭都强,彩礼给得少了显然不合适,必须要高于普通标准才行。Second, histwosonsmarryotherstwodaughters, thismarriagewill be doomedto cause the stir, at the appointed time the bridegroom's gift to bride's familywill definitely take the discussion, therefore the bridegroom's gift to bride's familydefinitelycannotbeing short, will otherwise definitely be worn the stingyhat.
二,他两个儿子娶人家两个女儿,这种婚姻注定会引起轰动,到时彩礼肯定会被人拿出来讨论,因此彩礼肯定不能给少了,否则肯定会被人扣上抠门的帽子。Jiang Fenghearswordsaid with a smile: „Sure, thisbridegroom's gift to bride's familydid not comparethesebigcitiesto be bad, canmaketheirsistersmarrysight, notin vain the parentsraising that theirsisterssuffered great hardships.”江枫闻言笑道:“当然可以,这个彩礼不比那些大城市差了,能让她们姐妹嫁得风风光光的,不枉父母把她们姐妹含辛茹苦的养大。”„LianjiangGrandmasteryoualsoapproves, thatthismattersettled.”
“连江大师你也认可,那这事就这么说定了。”„Un, sinceBossJiangyoudiscussed the bridegroom's gift to bride's family, Iwill look atmain house gateonarrangementtomorrow‚’, thenmadethemget marriedas soon as possible, how did youfeel?”
“嗯,既然蒋老板你都谈彩礼了,那我明天就安排‘看家门’,然后让他们尽早结婚,你觉得怎么样?”„Ok, Grandmasterriveryoulooksto manageon the line, ourheredoes not have the opinion.”
“可以的,江大师你看着办就行,我们这边没有意见。”„Good, Iarrangeimmediately.”
“好的,那我马上安排。”
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