Red package 800, big dragon cigarette two packages, fruit two bags, total value in 1000 over appearances. 红包八百,大龙香烟两包,水果两袋,总价值在一千出头的样子。 This is the invitation intermediary present that Li Xingwen uncle Wang Jincheng sends, basically refers to the standard of Li. 这就是李兴文舅舅王金成送来的请媒礼品,基本是参照李家的标准。 Saw that after river Feng accepts invited the intermediary red packet, Wang Jincheng then with a smile said: „Grandmaster river, I first gives you to brief the situation of our family/home, I am the Dabei town/subdues person, is running a rice noodle shop with my family that hole in the town/subdues, what is principal is the crude material boils the powder. This rice noodle shop I have done for more than ten years, the business also calculates to pass, the family property that accumulates, although does not have the means compared with my brother-in-law family/home, but 100 several hundred thousand always have.” 看到江枫收下请媒红包后,王金成便笑着说道:“江大师,我先给你介绍一下我们家的情况,我是大陂镇人,跟我家那口子在镇上经营着一家米粉店,主打的是生料煮粉。这米粉店我已经干了十几年了,生意还算过得去,攒下的家底虽然没办法跟我姐夫家相比,但一百几十万总是有的。” Li Xingwen interposed in side: „Grandmaster river, this was my uncle was modest, that powder shop that he ran far more than was the business also calculates to pass, radically was in the town/subdues the business on a good powder shop.” 李兴文在旁边插话道:“江大师,这是我舅舅谦虚了,他经营的那家粉店何止是生意还算过得去啊,根本就是镇上生意就好的一家粉店了。” river Feng nods to say with a smile: „Brother Wen, I knew in heart, Uncle Wang you continued!” 江枫点头笑道:“文哥,我心里有数了,王叔你继续说！” Wang Jincheng smiles , to continue saying: „My family that boy 's name is Wang Feng, this year is 28 years old, the ordinary university graduation, the height probably about 172, words here of appearance has the picture, my WeChat sends to you!” 王金成笑了笑,继续说道:“我家那小子名叫王峰,今年28岁,普通的大学毕业,身高大概有172左右,长相的话我这里有照片,我微信发过去给你！” Was saying Wang Jincheng puts out the cell phone operation while said: „At present, my family that boy is running a small tea with milk shop in the provincial capital, but the position of tea with milk shop is not very good, the business is also the same, the average each month net profit on 3,000-4,000 appearances, could not compare others the wages that came out to work also even, but also took the investment risk of failure in vain, was not really cost-effective.” 说着王金成拿出手机一边操作一边说道:“目前,我家那小子在省城经营着一家小小的奶茶店,只是奶茶店的位置不是很好,生意也一般般,平均下来每个月的纯利润也就3,000-4,000的样子,比不上人家出来打工的工资也就算了,还白白承担了投资失败的风险,真是一点都不划算。” river Feng watched Wang Feng's picture, discovered that the person ordinary, is not ugly is not graceful, wears eyeglasses for myopia, looks actually refined. 江枫看了看王峰的照片,发现人长得普普通通,不丑也不帅,戴着一副近视眼镜,看起来倒是斯斯文文的。 Heard a Wang Jincheng such saying, immediately said with a smile: „ Uncle Wang, the words cannot say like this, working generally speaking does not need to take what risk with the wages, but the wages after all are the dead wages, only if working class emperor who these coax flamboyant, otherwise the average person wants by working to get rich radically is the not possible matter. 听到王金成这么一说,当即笑道:“王叔,话也不能这样说,打工的拿工资一般来说是不用承担什么风险,但工资毕竟是死工资,除非是那些牛逼哄哄的打工皇帝,否则一般人想靠打工发财根本是不可能的事情。 But invested to open a shop was different, even if cannot make what money now, but must take the investment risk of failure, once invested successfully, that harvest was still astonishing. ” 可自己投资开店就不一样了,就算现在赚不到什么钱,还要承担投资失败的风险,然而一旦投资成功,那收获也是惊人的。” Li Xingwen also with saying of approval: „Grandmaster river said right, younger male cousin's tea with milk shop has not been in arrears let alone now, but earned to be short of a point. First makes him operate some time, even if cannot make what money, at least still harvested the experience, will wait to invest the time next time again, the consideration will be more comprehensive, the investment success ratio was also higher.” 李兴文也跟赞同的说道:“江大师说得没错,更何况现在表弟的奶茶店又没亏钱,只是赚得少了一点而已。先让他经营一段时间,就算赚不到什么钱,至少也收获了经验,等下次再投资的时候,考虑就会更加全面,投资成功率也就更高了。” „This truth I understand, I do not worry that now he invests the failure, but is worried about his marital important matter.” “这道理我懂,我现在不担心他投资失败,而是担心他的婚姻大事。” At this point, Wang Jincheng sighed: „Grandmaster river you do not know, my family that boy personality is quite simple-hearted, the public relations are almost zero , compared to be able be said as two extremes with little writing this cousin. If I am not taking care of being on intimate terms for him, I suspect him to be able alone to old.” 说到这里,王金成叹了口气道:“江大师你是不知道,我家那小子性格比较木讷,社交几乎为零,跟小文这个表哥比起来可以说是两个极端。如果我不为他张罗着相亲的话,我都怀疑他能单身到老。” river Feng said: „Uncle Wang does not need to worry, the personality of everyone is different, peak elder brother's character one hear is that solid person, this man is not perhaps romantic, did not understand how to coax the woman to be happy, but he can give the security sense that the woman most wants, this was enough!” 江枫说道:“王叔不必担心,每个人的性格都不一样,峰哥的性格一听就是那种实实在在的人,这种男人或许不浪漫,也不懂得如何哄女人开心,但他能给予女人最想要的安全感,这就足够了！” Wang Jincheng nods, said: „Grandmaster river your vision I am believe that all asked you in any case!” 王金成点了点头,说道:“江大师你的眼光我是相信的,反正一切就拜托你了！” river Feng should say with a smile: „You're welcome, Uncle Wang you and others my news and that's the end!” 江枫笑着应道:“不用客气,王叔你等我消息就是了！” ...... …… Over the following two days, looking like to make to be the same , two customers came to invite the intermediary, one was Li Xingwen sent little Zhou Xiao to rush, one was stretch/open Qiulan cousin what Xu. 接下来两天,就像是约好了一样,又有两位客户上门请媒,其中一个是李兴文的发小周晓奔,一个是张秋兰的表哥何旭。 For successive three days received three customers, has the complicated relations with the first customer Li Xingwen, can see the reputation from here the importance that. 连续三天接待了三个客户,都是与第一个客户李兴文有着千丝万缕的关系,从这里就可以看出口碑的重要性。 Because three customers are concerned with Li, therefore asked the intermediary ritual basically to be consistent, in addition the red packet value about thousand Yuan, was slightly enhanced threshold that invited the intermediary. 因为三个客户都跟李家有关,所以请媒礼基本都保持一致,加上红包价值都在千元左右,算是小小提高了请媒的门槛。 Now river Feng not only has own riding instead of walking car(riage), and search area of marital match value was also expanded the surrounding area 30 li (0.5 km) from the original surrounding area ten li (0.5 km), naturally was easy searched for the suitable goal. 如今江枫不仅拥有了自己的代步车,且婚姻匹配值的搜寻范围也由原来的方圆十里扩张到了方圆三十里,自然是轻而易举的就搜寻到了适合的目标。 Moreover the marital match values of three goals are not low, 81 points, 83 points, 84 points, so high match value, once forms the couple, that definitely is the model couple of being one in a thousand. 而且三个目标的婚姻匹配值都不低,一个81分,一个83分,一个84分,如此高的匹配值一旦结成夫妻,那肯定都是千里挑一的模范夫妻。 After arranging them is on intimate terms, river Feng is 3000 red packet incomes. 在安排他们相亲过后,江枫又是三千块红包进账。 Without a doubt, three customers expressed their attitude with the red packet amount. 毫无疑问,三个客户都用红包数额来表达了他们的态度。 Being on intimate terms is entirely different from free to choose a mate of young people, the men and women who are willing to participate in being on intimate terms, in 100 have 99 to getting married at least. 相亲跟年轻人的自由恋爱是截然不同的,愿意参加相亲的男女,一百个里面起码有九十九个是冲着结婚去的。 Therefore, the men and women who participate in being on intimate terms will observe an unwritten custom basically, that makes to continue the decision with being on intimate terms object downward development in a short time. 因此,参加相亲的男女基本都会遵守一条不成文的规矩,那就是在短时间内做出要不要继续跟相亲对象往下发展的决定。 After all will participate in being on intimate terms basically is the years summary big men and women, did not permit them flowered 2-3 years like the young people understands the opposite party at their ages slowly. 毕竟会参加相亲的基本都是年纪略大的男女,以他们的年龄已经不允许他们像年轻人一样花个2-3年的时间去慢慢了解对方了。 No matter men and women, when the age turns into the 3 series from 2 prefixes, before heart not again resembles, calmly was so calm. 不管男女,当年龄从二字头变成3字头的时候,心都不会再像以前那么从容淡定了。 ...... …… Shenzhen stock market. 深市。 Some outside the passes town/subdues. 关外某镇。 A Jiang Chunlian face joyful moves the baggage and present toward the vehicle on, tomorrow will be in July 14, since arrived here to work in the early 1990s, and after marrying here, she returned to the number of times of maternal home to be few. 江春莲正一脸欣喜的往车上搬行李以及礼品,明天就是七月十四了,自从上个世纪九十年代初来到这里打工,并远嫁到了这里之后,她回娘家的次数就屈指可数了。 Returning to the maternal home in July 14 one time are did not have. 回娘家过七月十四更是一次都没有。 This year's in July 14, the rare son is willing to accompany her to return to the maternal home together, Jiang Chunlian naturally has the reason to be happy. 今年的七月十四,难得儿子愿意陪她一起回娘家过,江春莲自然是有理由高兴。 This lunar calendar in July 14, is called the ghosts'festival, festival of the fifteenth day of the seventh lunar month, is one of our country very important traditional festivals. 这农历七月十四,又被称为鬼节、中元节,是我国非常重要的传统节日之一。 Our country is bounteous, regional manners and customs are also entirely different, some places decide as the holiday the July 13, in July 14, in July 15 these three days, even also has „13 chickens and 14 ducks, 15 jin (0.5 kg) pork” view. 我国地大物博,各地的风俗习惯也是大不相同,有些地方把七月十三、七月十四、七月十五这三天都定为节日,甚至还有着“十三只鸡、十四只鸭、十五斤猪肉”的说法。 Some areas of Gui Sheng and Guizhou province, even 1 st then starts to celebrate a holiday from July, has crossed to July 14 or in July 15, therefore had in viewpoints of July 14 big new year's celebrations. 还有桂省与黔省的一些地区,甚至从七月初一便开始过节,一直过到七月十四或者七月十五的,因此才有了七月十四大过年的讲法。 Naturally, including more than ten days of festival after all is only a small number of places, like Qinghe Town that Jiang Chunlian is, although also very takes seriously in July 14 this ghosts'festival, but also only passes in July for 14 such day. 当然,连过十几天节的毕竟只是少数地方,就像江春莲所在的青河镇虽然也挺重视七月十四这个鬼节的,但也只过七月十四这么一天而已。 Moves to the trunk to put away the baggage and present, Jiang Chunlian then boards with willow Yan together. 把行李与礼品都搬到后车箱放好,江春莲便与柳艳一起上车。 willow Yan is her son Cui Yuan two months ago a girlfriend who makes, two people have been in the situation of being married at present, this time following son plays together. 柳艳是她儿子崔远两个月前交的一个女朋友,目前两人已经到了谈婚论嫁的地步,这次是跟着儿子一起去玩的。 What driving is son Cui Yuan, after the car(riage) starts leaves, Jiang Chunlian cannot help but secretly sighs. 开车的是儿子崔远,在车启动离开之后,江春莲不由得暗暗叹了口气。 Actually she is thinks that husband Cui Zhiyuan accompanies her to return to the maternal home together, what a pity two people have married for twenty years, her husband only accompanies her to return to a maternal home merely. 其实她是想老公崔志远一起陪她回娘家的,可惜两人已经结婚二十几年了,她老公仅仅只陪她回过一次娘家。 But facing these years wife's relatives' inquiry, Jiang Chunlian naturally must cover for the husband, said that he works busily, not spatial. 而面对这些年来娘家人的询问,江春莲自然要替老公打掩护,说他工作忙,没有空。 But what's the matter, not only Jiang Chunlian were in fact clear, perhaps the wife's relatives also guessed correctly. 可实际上是怎么回事,不仅仅江春莲自己清楚,恐怕娘家人也都猜到了。 She seemingly marries the scenery ten million/countless, in the family/home the asset. 她看似嫁得风光,家里资产过千万。 May know without being told. 可如人饮水,冷暖自知。 In fact she has no right to speak in the home, the financial power wants not to need to think, wealth never over 100,000 this numbers that in her hand grasps. 实际上她在这个家根本没有什么话语权,经济大权更是想都不用想,她手中掌握的钱财从来没超过十万这个数。