On Tuesday , May 2 , 2023. 2023年5月2日,星期二。 After having breakfast, Jiang Feng then driving leads the girlfriend to go to the county city together, peer also has the elder sister and paternal aunt family of four, luckily the Jiang Feng car(riage) is seven, otherwise on drove a car(riage) again. 在吃过早餐后,江枫便开车带着女朋友一起去县城,同行的还有姐姐以及姑姑一家四口,幸好江枫的车是七座,否则就得再开一辆车了。 Embarked from the family/home, after opening for dozen minutes, on high-speed. 从家里出发,开了十几分钟后,就上了高速。 Jiang Chunlian sees that cannot help but to sigh with emotion: „ The development of country was really quick, I before went to Guandong to work, must to the county city go by car, where at that time had any highway, very long one was that type of curving small and narrow rotten muddy road, rained becomes of mud. 江春莲见状不由得感慨道:“国家的发展真是太快了,我以前去粤省打工的时候,都要到县城坐车,那个时候哪里有甚么高速路啊,很长一段都是那种弯曲窄小的烂泥路,一下雨就成泥浆的那种。 Only then enters the district main road is a tattered asphalt road, from the native place to the county city more than 70 kilometers roads, rides the bus service to take 45 hours, wants the human life simply. 只有进入县主干道才是一条破破烂烂的柏油路,从老家到县城不过七十多公里的路,坐班车需要四五个小时,简直是要人命。 Where looks like now, one hour, even opens for one hour not to use a bit faster. ” 哪像现在啊,一个小时就到,甚至开快点连一个小时都不用。” river Xue said with a smile: „The transport construction of our country truly is ten thousand li in a day, when waited for our district to pass the High Speed Rail motorcoach that to be fiercer!” 江雪笑道:“咱们国家的交通建设确实是一日千里,等什么时候咱们县通高铁动车了那就更厉害了！” Jiang Feng shakes the head saying: „Where is so easy, the city has not passed High Speed Rail, although our district population are many, but wants to pass the High Speed Rail motorcoach, in ten years should be hopeless.” 江枫摇头道:“哪有这么容易啊,就连市里都还没通高铁呢,咱们县人口虽然多,但想要通高铁动车,十年内应该是没希望的。” Hears the paternal aunt nephew three people to chat the traffic problem, yellow Lingwei and Cui and his son did not speak, they as the Shenzhen stock market native, have not worried for the transportation. 听到姑侄三人聊交通问题,黄灵薇与崔家父子都不说话,他们作为深市本地人,从来没有为交通而发愁过。 After all developed of Shenzhen stock market transportation, even if takes a broad view at the entire world to be the top ranks. 毕竟深市交通之发达,哪怕是放眼全世界都是属于顶尖行列的。 Chatted, about 10 : 00 am, Jiang Feng one group of arrived at the county city. 一路闲聊,上午 10 点左右,江枫一行人来到了县城。 After looking the place stops the car(riage), Jiang Feng then accompanies paternal aunt and the others to window-shop. 找地方停好车后,江枫便陪着姑姑等人逛起街来。 Said window-shops, is actually Jiang Chunlian's the journey of nostalgia, in the 1990s, Jiang Chunlian's in other little friends with village went to Shenzhen stock market to work together, goes by car each time comes to the county city. 说是逛街,其实是江春莲的怀旧之旅,上个世纪九十年代,江春莲跟村里的其他小伙伴一起前往深市打工,每次坐车都到县城来。 When other car(riage)s, often will also stroll in the county city. 在等车的时候,往往也会在县城逛一下。 That time county city was very small, after communicating times several, Jiang Chunlian to the county city was then familiar. 那个时候的县城很小,来往几次之后,江春莲便对县城熟悉了起来。 After getting married, Jiang Chunlian then rarely comes to the county city, now the revisit, recalled the scene that the past years went south to work, in the heart naturally had taste. 嫁人之后,江春莲便很少到县城来,如今故地重游,回想起当年南下打工的情景,心中自然别有一番滋味。 „Before here, is a stretch of open land, never expected that now unexpectedly became such lively!” “这里以前是一片荒地,没想到现在竟然变得这么繁华了！” „Before this road, has many novel shops, the present was one cannot see.” “这条路以前有很多小说店,现在是一家都看不到了。” „Here was the former county city liveliest place, now is never so expected that lonely.” “这里是以前县城最繁华的地方,没想到现在这么冷清了。” „Here......” “这里……” A Jiang Chunlian each process road, recalls to sigh with emotion, from her recollection, the people also probably is conceivable the 90's county city is what appearance. 江春莲每经过一条路,都回忆感慨一番,从她的回忆中,众人也大概可以想象出九十年代的县城是什么模样。 After strolling for one hour, Jiang Feng looked that the time was also up, then makes noise saying: „Paternal aunt uncle, the cousin elder brother's wife, you are first strolling, I find time to act as a matchmaker to the cousins of my sister-in-law/little aunt family/home first.” 逛了一个多小时后,江枫看时间也差不多了,便出声说道:“姑姑姑父,表哥表嫂,你们先逛着,我抽空去给我小姨家的表妹做个媒先。” „Good, the small maple tree you goes busily!” “好的,小枫你去忙吧！” „Small maple tree, you do not need to manage our, managing the proper business is important.” “小枫,你不用管我们的,办正事要紧。” „Small maple tree, you goes busily, we strolled were good, when you handle matters call us on the line again.” “小枫,你去忙吧,我们自己逛就行了,等你办完事再给我们打电话就行。” The people know that this is Jiang Feng this time the goal to the county city coming, then reaches an agreement, making him hurry to manage the proper business. 众人都知道这是江枫此次到县城来的目的,便纷纷说好,让他赶紧办正事去。 Jiang Feng nods, explains the elder sister to arrange the issue that the paternal aunt they eats meal at noon, leads yellow Lingwei the place that returns to stop, then drives to go to the civil administration bureau. 江枫点了点头,又交待姐姐安排姑姑他们中午吃饭的问题,才带着黄灵薇回到停车的地方,然后开车前往民政局。 ...... …… Civil administration bureau. 民政局。 Ms. Xie went through the divorce procedure for a couple, witnessed departure that respectively two people do not yearn, she cannot help but sighed lightly, said: „Now this age's marriage also is really enough frail, although the new marriage law improved much the difficulty of divorce, but cannot prevent the person who these have a falling out!” 解母又替一对夫妻办理了离婚手续,目睹两人毫不留恋的各自离去,她不由得轻叹了口气,说道:“现在这个年代的婚姻还真是够脆弱的,虽然新的婚姻法把离婚的难度提高了不少,但还是阻挡不住这些感情破裂的人啊！” Nearby follows to sigh with Ms. Xie age close female colleague: „ Yes, the time changed, like our people of father's generation, the marriage is for a lifetime, basically does not certainly have the situation of divorce to appear. 旁边一个跟解母年纪相近的女同事跟着叹道:“是啊,时代变了,像我们的父辈,婚姻一定就是一辈子,基本没有离婚的情况出现。 Arrived our generation, 20 years ago, divorce is also very rare. 到了我们这一辈,在二十年前,离婚的也很少见。 But recently in the ten years, not only the young people divorce like the potluck, starts constantly to grow with we generation of person divorce quantity, really made one sob. ” 可最近这十年来,不仅年轻人离婚如同家常便饭,就连跟我们一辈的人离婚数量也开始不断增长,真是令人唏嘘。” „In our father's generation that age , if divorces, will make one direct to where, is bearing the greatest pressure, therefore, no one will unless it is absolutely essential raise divorces these two characters.” “在我们父辈那个年代,谁要是离婚的话,到哪里都会让人指指点点,承受着莫大的压力,因此不到万不得已,没人会提离婚这两个字。” At this point, Ms. Xie shakes the head saying: „ However now this age, the divorce is the commonly seen matter, everyone's person to the divorce also has no discrimination, among the couples quarrelled toward being not infrequent that our civil administration bureau ran. 说到这里,解母摇了摇头道:“而现在这个年代,离婚已经是司空见惯的事情了,大家对离异的人也没有什么歧视,夫妻间吵个架就往咱们民政局跑的不在少数。 Before the former new marriage law has not come out, without this month of calm period, that divorce sincere high arrives scary, moreover rises year by year, the divorce bids good-bye like the male and female friend is so simple. ” 像之前新的婚姻法没出来之前,没有这一个月的冷静期,那离婚率真的高到吓人,而且还是逐年上涨,离婚就像男女朋友分手这么简单。” The female colleague said: „My daughter has not been in love, I have started to be worried for her on, turn head I must sharpen vigilance, looks for a good object for her, this civil administration bureau she entered to be enough one time.” 女同事道:“我女儿还没谈恋爱,我都已经开始替她担心上了,回头我得擦亮眼睛,替她物色个好对象,这民政局她进一次就足够了。” Ms. Xie said: „Who said that I was not worried for my son on, he quite had the opinion since childhood, could not control him his father, can his marital important matter listen our, was very difficult to say!” 解母说道:“谁说不是呢,我也替我儿子担心上了,他从小就比较有主见,连他爸爸都左右不了他,他的婚姻大事能不能听我们的,真的很难说啊！” The female colleague sighed: „We ‚completely the human affairs, listen to destiny’, now ‚the life of parents, matchmaker's word’ the time had passed by, the present young people idea is one by one positive, particularly in the marital problem, few young people really hears the word of parents.” 女同事叹道:“咱们‘尽人事,听天命’吧,如今‘父母之命,媒妁之言’的时代早已经过去了,现在的年轻人主意一个比一个正,尤其是在婚姻问题上,没几个年轻人是真的听得进父母之言的。” „That's true, the ship arrives at the bridgehead nature to be straight, now wants again many also useless, got off work!” “确实如此,船到桥头自然直,现在想再多也没用,下班了！” „You first walk, I good to walk this data compilation.” “你先走吧,我把这资料整理好就走。” Ms. Xie nods, gets off work to leave. 解母点点头,下班走人。 Goes downstairs, just went out of the front door, prepares to ride her electric car goes home, young men and women suddenly appear in her front, that good-looking boy is smiling asking: „Aunt hello/you good, can delay your several minutes?” 下楼,刚走出大门,准备去骑她的电动车回家的时候,一对年轻男女忽然出现在她的面前,那位长相帅气的男孩子微笑着问道:“阿姨你好,请问可以耽搁你几分钟时间吗？” Ms. Xie looks at present this to the men and women, the male charm, the female attractiveness, seems like really a match, she worked for twenty years in the civil administration bureau, the men and women who registers count by 100,000 ideas, but also has not seen the couple who the appearance has been a match. 解母看着眼前这对男女,男的帅气,女的漂亮,看起来真的非常般配,她在民政局工作了二十几年,来登记的男女数以十万计,还从没见过长相这么般配的夫妻。 She cannot help but stops the footsteps, the smile said: „You are register? This time has gotten off work, after words please 2 : 30 that you take to register, comes!” 她不由得停下脚步,微笑道:“你们是来登记的吗？这个时间已经下班了哦,你们要登记的话请两点半后再来吧！” Such remarks, yellow Lingwei cannot help but blushes. 此话一出,黄灵薇不由得一阵脸红。 Jiang Feng haha said with a smile: „Aunt you misunderstood, we are not register, or without registers early, this time comes to look for the aunt specially you.” 江枫则哈哈笑道:“阿姨你误会了,我们不是来登记的,或者说没有这么早登记,这次是专门过来找阿姨你的。” Ms. Xie said with amazement: „Comes to look specially my?” 解母惊讶道:“专门过来找我的？” Jiang Feng nods, introduces oneself: „Aunt, I called Jiang Feng, was a professional matchmaker, this was my girlfriend. Our times look for you, is heard that your son at present single, wants to introduce an object to him, does not know that the aunt you are interested?” 江枫点了点头,自我介绍道:“阿姨,我叫江枫,是一名职业媒人,这是我女朋友。我们这次过来找你,是听说你儿子目前还是单身,想给他介绍个对象,不知道阿姨你感不感兴趣？” Ms. Xie hears word is quite surprised, his son is only 23 years old, has the matchmaker to walk in? 解母闻言感到非常意外,他儿子才23岁,就已经有媒人找上门来了？ Good, has the matchmaker not to walk in strangely, matchmaker who what is strange walks , is so unexpectedly young. 好吧,有媒人找上门不奇怪,奇怪的是找上门的媒人,竟然如此年轻。 Did the present dating market curl? 现在的婚介市场都这么卷了吗？ „River matchmakers, you such young matchmaker, I also the first time really am saw!” “江媒人是吧,你这么年轻的媒人,我还真是第一次见呢！” The experience that Jiang Feng acts as a matchmaker now is rich, tone of one hear of Ms. Xie, knows that she does not believe saying that his occupational ability, then maintains composure: „ Aunt, do not visit me to be young, after couple who my hand reconciles, for a lifetime perhaps reconciles compared with other matchmakers many. 江枫如今做媒的经验何等丰富,一听解母的语气,就知道她不太相信他的职业能力,便不动声色的说道:“阿姨,别看我年轻,经我手撮合的夫妻,恐怕比其他媒人一辈子撮合的都多。 Even, the daughter of Secretary strict, is the intermediary that I make! ” 甚至,就连严书记的女儿,都是我做的媒呢！” Ms. Xie is the person in system, hears word the spirit inspires immediately, asks: „Secretary strict? Which Secretary strict?” 解母到底是体制内的人,闻言立刻精神一振,问道:“严书记？哪个严书记？” The Jiang Feng smile said: „Which Secretary strict can also have, naturally was our benevolent officials!” 江枫微笑道:“还能有哪个严书记啊,当然是我们的父母官了！” Such remarks, Ms. Xie in the heart shakes immediately, unbelievable saying: „How this...... is this possible?” 此言一出,解母当即心中一震,难以置信的说道:“这……这怎么可能？” These is a long story, actually also in a minute matter. 这些说来话长,其实也就片刻间的事情。 Has others to go downstairs shortly, Jiang Feng then said: „Aunt, here is not the speech place, or we find a place to eat meal, called your son, how did we chat while eating?” 眼看有其他人下楼走出来,江枫便说道:“阿姨,这里不是说话的地方,要不咱们找个地方吃饭,把你儿子也叫过来,咱们边吃边聊怎么样？” If before, Ms. Xie may reject, after may hear Jiang Feng to say the daughter of Secretary strict is also he acts as a matchmaker, she is how regardless of unable to say the rejection. 如果是之前,解母或许会拒绝,可听到江枫说出严书记的女儿也是他做媒的话后,她是无论如何也说不出拒绝的话了。 Then the nod said: „Good, I give my son to telephone immediately, how do we arrive in nearby Ezhuang to eat?” 便点头道:“好的,我马上给我儿子打电话,咱们就到旁边的鹅庄吃怎么样？” Jiang Feng naturally does not have the opinion, said with a smile: „Ok, the aunt you first telephones, we arrive in Ezhuang you.” Then, then to had not said from beginning to end the girlfriend of a few words boards, then opens to 200-300 meters away that Ezhuang. 江枫自然没意见,笑道:“可以,那阿姨你先打电话,我们到鹅庄等你。”说完,便跟自始至终没说过一句话的女朋友上车,然后开向200-300米远的那家鹅庄。 Ms. Xie sees that pulls out the cell phone hastily, liberates to the son telephones. 解母见状连忙掏出手机,给儿子解放打了个电话。 A telephone connection, Ms. Xie then talked about to the son the matter, end said: „Although has not known what that river Meiren said is really false, car(riage) that but drives from their makings, should not be the ordinary matchmaker, can you come to eat meal with them together?” 电话一接通,解母便噼里啪啦的把刚才的事情跟儿子讲了一遍,末了才说道:“虽然还不知道那位江媒人说的是真是假,但从他们两个人的气质以及开的车来看,应该不是普通媒人,你要不要过来跟他们一起吃个饭？” The liberation listens somewhat is also curious, then replied: „Ok, me also got off work, I had a look in the past.” 解放听完也有些好奇,便答道:“行,我这边也下班了,那我就过去看看。” „Un, I first pass, you came to Ezhuang on the line directly!” “嗯,那我先过去,你直接到鹅庄来就行了！” „Knew, I, first hung immediately.” “知道了,我马上到,先挂了。” „Un!” “嗯！” After making the telephone call, Ms. Xie then rides her electric car to go toward Ezhuang. 等挂了电话后,解母便骑上她的电动车朝鹅庄而去。 Another side, yellow Lingwei has been pondering over the acting as a matchmaker skill of boyfriend secretly, prepares Ezhuang time, asked: „Husband, that aunt does not believe ability that obviously you act as a matchmaker, if you do not raise that Secretary strict, what means can with gain her trust?” 另一边,黄灵薇一直在暗暗琢磨着男朋友的做媒技巧,准备到鹅庄的时候,才问道:“老公,那位阿姨明显不太相信你做媒的能力,如果你不提那位严书记的话,要用什么办法去获取她的信任？” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Even if not raise Secretary strict, I still have the means to gain her trust, for example makes her experience the ability of my marriage affinity calculation, this is your husband I acts as a matchmaker biggest depending on, once causes, that really goes smoothly everywhere.” 江枫笑道:“就算不提严书记,我也有办法获取她的信任,比如说让她见识一下我姻缘推算的能力,这是你老公我做媒最大的倚仗,一旦使出来,那真的是无往不利。” yellow Lingwei asked: „Husband, without your marriage affinity calculation ability, that what to do?” 黄灵薇问道:“老公,若是没有你的姻缘推算能力,那怎么办？” Jiang Feng replied: „Inadequate words, then can only depend on the levigation time, regularly looks for her, each time not empty-handed, after three times, no matter she believes your acting as a matchmaker ability, is willing to give you an opportunity.” 江枫答道:“一次不成的话,接下来就只能靠水磨功夫了,隔三差五的去找她,每次都不空手,三次之后,不管她本人是不是相信你的做媒能力,想必都愿意给你个机会的。” yellow Lingwei whispered: „Such was also too troublesome!” 黄灵薇嘀咕道:“那样也太麻烦了！” At this time, the car(riage) has arrived at Ezhuang, the Jiang Feng parking lane: „Is troublesome normal, if the matchmaker has is so good to do, that everywhere was a matchmaker.” 此时,车已经开到鹅庄,江枫停车道:“麻烦是正常的,要是媒人有那么好做的话,那到处都是媒人了。” yellow Lingwei said with a smile: „This but actually is also.” 黄灵薇笑道:“这倒也是。” Two people enter Ezhuang, the service person comes greeting. 两人进入鹅庄,服务员过来招呼。 Jiang Feng said: „We have four people, when the person simultaneous/uniform ordered food again, thanks!” 江枫说道:“我们有四个人,等人齐了再点菜,谢谢！” „Good!” The service people complied with one, then serves tea to two people, then greeted other guests. “好的！”服务员应了一声,然后给两人上茶,便去招呼其他客人了。 Quick, Ms. Xie then arrived. 很快,解母便到了。 Then, the both sides smalltalk, was just good not to have two minutes the food, is advocating the liberation also to rush. 接下来,双方客套了一番,刚把菜点好没两分钟,正主解放也赶到了。 The liberation gets off work to come directly, what therefore puts on is the police clothes, seem very charming. 解放是下班直接过来的,所以穿的是民警衣服,看起来还挺帅气的。 After both sides have greeted mutually, Ezhuang also started to serve food. 双方互相打过招呼后,鹅庄也开始上菜了。 On first what is white Qiee, this is also one of the Ezhuang signature dishes. 首先上的是白切鹅,这也是鹅庄的招牌菜之一。 Then, other vegetables/dishes were also delivered one after another, altogether is the four dishes and one soup. 然后,其他菜也陆续被送了上来,一共是四菜一汤。 After waiting for the vegetable/dish five to be over dark, Ms. Xie cannot bear curious asking: „River matchmaker, you said before daughter of Secretary strict, is the intermediary that you make?” 等菜过五昧之后,解母才忍不住好奇的问道:“江媒人,之前你说严书记的女儿,就是你做的媒？” Jiang Feng nods, recalls: „ That was last year matter, at that time I on had several extremely outstanding customers on hand, I when looked for the object for that several customers, stumbled upon daughter who Secretary strict with a customer matched, therefore I walked in directly. 江枫点了点头,回忆道:“那是去年的事情了,当时我手头上有好几个极为优秀的客户,我在替那几位客户物色对象的时候,偶然发现严书记的女儿跟其中一位客户蛮相配的,于是我就直接找上门。 However at that time Sister Yan possibly was looked at me to be young, feels credibly, does not use a pretext the idea that she has not married temporarily. 不过当时严姐可能是看我年轻,觉得不靠谱,就推说她暂时没有结婚的想法。 Then, I cross her, is defending to XX yards directly, when her mother Madame strict comes out to do grocery shopping, I aimed at the opportunity to collect her to tell that must for the matter that her daughter acted as a matchmaker. ” 然后,我就越过她,直接到XX大院去守着,等她母亲严夫人出来买菜的时候,我瞅准机会就凑上去跟她说要替她女儿做媒的事。” Ms. Xie hears dumbfoundedly, sighed: „River matchmaker, your courage is very big, afterward? What strict is the wife responded?” 解母听得目瞪口呆,感叹道:“江媒人,你这胆子还真挺大的,后来呢？严夫人是什么反应？” The liberation is observing Jiang Feng silently, with the occupation experience judged that he lies. 解放默默观察着江枫,以职业经验来判断他有没有说谎。 yellow Lingwei is also listening with total concentration, the boyfriend she does not know for the matter that Secretary Yan's daughter acts as a matchmaker, she also wants to know how the boyfriend reconciles this marriage. 黄灵薇也聚精会神的听着,男朋友替严书记女儿做媒的事她也不知道,她也想知道男朋友是怎么撮合这门亲事的。 Jiang Feng said with a smile: „ Madame strict very well spoke, I must introduce that said to her daughter's object, she invited me to eat meal to her family/home warmly. 江枫笑道:“严夫人还是挺好说话的,我把要介绍给她女儿的对象说了一遍,她就热情的邀请我到她家吃饭。 Then sees Secretary strict smoothly, the object who because I introduced was extremely truly outstanding, therefore Secretary strict was quite not only satisfied with Madame strict, before , me told Sister Yan who temporarily does not want to get married, agreed to be on intimate terms. 然后顺利的见到严书记,因为我介绍的对象确实极其优秀,所以不仅严书记跟严夫人极为满意,就连之前跟我说暂时不想结婚的严姐,也同意相亲了。 Therefore, the following matter successed when conditions are ripe. ” 于是,接下来的事情就水到渠成了。” Ms. Xie whole face curious asking: „The daughter who river matchmaker, you give Secretary strict introduced what object, does satisfy Secretary strict the whole families so unexpectedly?” 解母满脸好奇的问道:“江媒人,你到底给严书记的女儿介绍了个什么样的对象啊,竟然让严书记一家人都这么满意？” Jiang Feng ate a soup, shows a faint smile saying: „I introduced that to Sister Yan, is our Guangxi province richest family's son, such a outstanding object, Yan may be how unsatisfied!” 江枫喝了口汤,微微一笑道:“我介绍给严姐的,是咱们桂省首富之子,这么优秀的一个对象,严家怎么可能会不满意啊！” Such remarks, Ms. Xie with liberating mother and child was shocked to result in the mouth to force in a duck egg. 此话一出,解母跟解放母子震惊得嘴巴都可以塞进一只鸭蛋了。 The Guangxi province richest family, that is net worth tens of billions great people, is existence that they cannot contact for a lifetime, at present does this so young matchmaker, have the ability to act as a matchmaker for such character unexpectedly? 桂省首富,那可是身家上百亿的大人物啊,是他们一辈子都接触不到的存在,眼前这位如此年轻的媒人,居然有能耐替这样的人物做媒？