On Saturday , March 11 , 2023. 2023年3月11日,星期六。 The Guangxi province provincial capital, the train station exits. 桂省省城,火车站出口。 Cao Daying is elongating the neck to look around toward the crowd, looked for 2-3 minutes, sees three familiar forms, that is his brother-in-law little aunt as well as younger female cousin Cao Lanzhi. 曹大鹰正伸长脖子往人群中张望,足足看了2-3分钟,才看到三个熟悉的身影,那是他的小叔小婶以及堂妹曹兰芝。 This brother-in-law family of three comes to the provincial capital, is Cao Daying calls to call them. He is also these two days knows from the parental mouth, the brother-in-law little aunt asked the matchmaker to arrange being on intimate terms that side the native place to the younger female cousin unexpectedly. 这次小叔一家三口来省城,是曹大鹰打电话把他们叫来的。他也是这两天才从父母口中知道,小叔小婶竟然在老家那边找媒人给堂妹安排相亲了。 If said acts as a matchmaker, whose comparing favorably with Grandmaster river? 若说做媒,有谁比得上江大师啊？ Therefore, after knowing this news, Cao Daying then gives the brother-in-law to telephone immediately, making him bring the younger female cousin with the little aunt to provincial capital here, he helps invite the matchmaker, looks for a good object to the younger female cousin. 因此,在知道这个消息后,曹大鹰便立刻给小叔打电话,让他跟小婶把堂妹带到省城这里来,他帮请媒人,给堂妹物色个好对象。 Present Cao Daying is today we are no longer as we have been, since he marries after the rich woman simultaneous/uniform beautiful magnificent, the life that this net worth several million rich woman wives every month to him 300,000 spending money, before helping him live, were inconceivable. 现在的曹大鹰已经是今非昔比了,自从他跟富婆齐美华结婚后,这个身家几千万的富婆老婆每个月都会给他30万的零花钱,让他过上了以前难以想象的生活。 A month 300,000, get down in this year is 3.6 million, regarding the average person absolutely was a great sum of money. 一个月30万,这一年下来就是360万,对于普通人来说绝对是一笔巨款了。 Now, he bought a house in the provincial capital, received the provincial capital to live the parents, gives back to the parents to ask a nanny to prepare food to clean hygienic anything. 如今,他在省城买了一套房子,把父母接到省城这边居住,还给父母请了一位保姆做饭打扫卫生啥的。 Therefore, he called a brother-in-law such saying, the brother-in-law then complied happily, this had present one. 所以,他打电话跟小叔这么一说,小叔便高兴的答应下来,这才有了眼前的一幕。 „Brother-in-law, little aunt, little sister.” “小叔,小婶,小妹。” „Big eagle!” “大鹰！” „Big brother!” “大哥！” Cao Daying received the little aunt's in baggage with younger female cousin hand, looked that complained to the brother-in-law: „Brother-in-law, how the Little Sister was on intimate terms such big matter not to say one to me, I just heard my parents to chat this matter, I have not known!” 曹大鹰接过小婶跟堂妹手中的行李,看向小叔埋怨道:“小叔,小妹相亲这么大的事怎么不跟我说一声,要不是我刚好听到我爸妈聊起这事,我还不知道呢！” The brother-in-law took a look at his one eyes saying: „You also blame me, who knows your boy understanding such fierce matchmaker?” 小叔瞅了他一眼道:“你还怪我,谁知道你小子认识这么厉害的媒人啊？” Cao Daying thinks is also, he has not held the wedding with the simultaneous/uniform beautiful magnificent marriage, two people low-key lead(er) card, that side the native place person only knows that he married a rich wife, other knew nothing. 曹大鹰想想也是,他跟齐美华结婚并没有举办婚礼,两人就低调的领证而已,老家那边的人只知道他娶了个有钱的老婆,其他的就一无所知了。 „Good, is my mistake, comes with me, my car(riage) stops in that side.” “好吧,是我的错,跟我来,我的车停在那边。” Brother-in-law somewhat sigh with emotion saying: „Your boy is truly fierce, currently has the room to have the car(riage) in the provincial capital, listening to your father mother saying that house bought for them specially, moreover gave back with the nanny, was really the prospect!” 小叔有些感慨的说道:“你小子确实厉害,现在在省城都有房有车了,听你爸妈说那房子还是专门给他们买的,而且还给配了保姆,真是出息了！” Cao Daying guides while modest saying with a smile: „I was the luck am good, ran into Grandmaster river this big matchmaker, otherwise my where has today!” 曹大鹰一边带路一边谦虚的笑道:“我算是运气好,遇到了江大师这个大媒人,要不然我哪有今天啊！” The little aunt interposed to ask: „That Grandmaster river who big eagle, you said that is so fierce?” 小婶插话问道:“大鹰,你说的那位江大师,真有这么厉害啊？” Cao Daying nods to say again and again: „Naturally real, the Little Sister should you online the information of crossing the river Grandmaster? Grandmaster river uploads the net is fiercer than!” 曹大鹰连连点头道:“当然是真的,小妹你应该在网上查过江大师的信息了吧？江大师可是比网上传的还要厉害呢！” Saying that Cao Lanzhi quite anticipates: „Truly investigates passed/lived, the net passes on Grandmaster river to be good at the marriage affinity calculating, the marriage that he reconciles is unhappy, does not know that this saying said does have exaggerating.” 曹兰芝颇为期待的说道:“确实查过,网传江大师擅长姻缘推算,他撮合的婚姻就没有不幸福的,也不知道这话说得有没有夸大。” Cao Daying said: „Has not exaggerated, the Little Sister you felt relieved in any case although, has Grandmaster river to act, can look to be most suitable absolutely your object to you , to continue compared with native place these matchmaker hundred times.” 曹大鹰说道:“一点都没有夸大,反正小妹你尽管放心,有江大师出手,绝对能给你物色到最适合你的对象,比老家那些媒人强百倍不止。” During the speeches, had arrived at the parking lot, Cao Daying hits the driving trunk, admits the baggage. 说话间,已经来到了停车场,曹大鹰打开车尾箱,把行李放进去。 The brother-in-law looks at the car(riage) sign, said with amazement: „My goodness, opened to run quickly!” 小叔看着车标,惊讶道:“好家伙,都开上奔驰了！” Cao Daying said with a smile: „Also on several hundred thousand car(riage)s.” 曹大鹰笑道:“也就几十万的车。” The brother-in-law little aunt hears cannot help but to look at each other to smile bitterly, this nephew truly was extraordinary, several hundred thousand regarding their such country dwellers that were the astronomical figures, may before their nephews, not seem like what good money, does not know in old husband's family's home that he married how much money. 小叔小婶听得不由得相视苦笑,这侄子确实是了不得了,几十万对于他们这样的农村人来说那是天文数字,可在他们这侄子面前,似乎不是什么大钱了,也不知道他娶的老婆家里到底有多少钱。 After sitting boards, the brother-in-law family of three carefully size up the decoration in car(riage), they long are so big, rides such luxurious car(riage) for the first time, felt that also is really different, what sat is much more comfortable than these 100,000 car(riage)s. 等坐上车后,小叔一家三口都细细打量车内的装饰,他们长这么大,还是第一次坐这么豪华的车,感觉还真是不一样,坐的是比那些十万的车要舒服得多。 Sees nephew's momentous change, the little aunt cannot bear ask: „Matter that big eagle, my family high virtue must seek marriage, have you raised with that Grandmaster river?” 看到侄子的巨大变化,小婶忍不住问道:“大鹰,我家兰芝要征婚的事情,你跟那位江大师提过了没有？” Cao Daying drives while to return said: „Before I had called Grandmaster river, the words time of because at noon meeting caught up, therefore I made 2 : 00 pm to drink tea with Grandmaster river together, we first went back to finish eating the food, then rested to go to see Grandmaster river.” 曹大鹰一边开车一边回道:“之前我已经给江大师打过电话了,因为中午见面的话时间太赶了,所以我就跟江大师约好了下午 2 点一起喝茶,咱们先回去吃完饭,再休息一下就可以出去见江大师了。” Saying that the little aunt somewhat looks forward to: „Hopes that Grandmaster river can look for a well-off object for my family high virtue.” 小婶有些憧憬的说道:“希望江大师能替我家兰芝物色个家境不错的对象。” Cao Daying said: „This can raise with Grandmaster river, what is main is must look to suit with the person who the Little Sister lives together, in this foundation, if can also look for well-off, that naturally is better.” 曹大鹰道:“这个可以跟江大师提一下,不过最主要的还是要找个适合跟小妹一起过日子的人,在这个基础上如果还能找个家境不错的,那自然是更好。” This saying brother-in-law little aunts expressed the support. 这话小叔小婶都表示赞同。 Cao Lanzhi is listening to the cousins and parents silently discusses her wedding. 曹兰芝默不作声的听着堂哥与父母谈论她的婚事。 After a half hour . 半个小时后。 Cao Daying has brother-in-law communities that arrived at the parents to be. 曹大鹰带着小叔一家来到了父母所在的小区。 Because pinches the meal that the time makes, therefore the person arrives, then can serve a meal directly. 因为是掐好时间做的饭菜,所以人一到,便可以直接开饭了。 The vegetable/dish is the nanny fries, the flavor is very good, one month the wages of 8000 dollars do not have the white bloom. 菜是保姆炒的,味道还是非常不错的,一个月八千块钱的工资没有白花。 A brother-in-law arrival, making Mr. Cao Ms. Cao be very happy. 小叔一家的到来,让曹父曹母感到非常高兴。 They live in this provincial capital, although comfortable, has the nanny to serve is not needing them to work basically, but arrives at a brand-new environment to start to live after all, follows to be entirely different in the native place, many some are not familiar with. 他们在这省城住得虽然舒服,有保姆伺候着基本不用他们做什么事,但毕竟是来到一个全新的环境开始生活,跟在老家截然不同,多少还是有些不习惯的。 Now has the family member to come rarely, they naturally are happy. 如今难得有亲人来,他们自然是高兴不已。 After the vegetable/dish crosses the five senses, brother-in-law Cao Xiaohu then asked: „Big brother, your present body how?” 菜过五味之后,小叔曹小虎便问道:“大哥,你现在身体怎么样？” Mr. Cao is unhealthy, takes a drug in the native place year to year, Cao Daying also not the rich woman marries, every month by father's medical expenses is pressed has not gasped for breath, his then girlfriend shut out him to be poor, could not see the hope with him, therefore bid good-bye with him. 曹父身体不好,在老家的时候就常年吃药,曹大鹰还没有跟富婆结婚的时候,每个月都被父亲的医药费压得喘不过气来,他当时的女友就是嫌弃他穷,跟着他看不到希望,所以才跟他分手的。 Mr. Cao facial expression good saying with a smile: „Big eagle spent a lot of money to ask the expert to help me look, now was better than before.” 曹父气色不错的笑道:“大鹰花不少钱请专家帮我看了,现在比以前好了很多。” Because Mr. Cao is unhealthy, cannot drink, in addition everyone two o'clock must see Grandmaster river, therefore everyone eats meal, has not drunk. 因为曹父身体不好,不能喝酒,再加上大家两点钟还要去见江大师,所以大家都只是吃饭,没有喝酒。 Only eats meal does not drink, how long that this food definitely could not eat, everyone chatted while eating, was less than 20 minutes, this lunch finished. 光吃饭不喝酒,那这顿饭肯定是吃不了多久的,大家边吃边聊,不到二十分钟,这顿午饭就结束了。 ...... …… 2 : 00 pm. 下午 2 点。 Cao Daying led the brother-in-law family of three to see Grandmaster river in some teahouse. 曹大鹰带着小叔一家三口在某茶馆见到了江大师。 Under Cao Daying introduction, both sides greet mutually, then smalltalk. 在曹大鹰的介绍下,双方互相打了个招呼,然后又客套了一番。 After drinking several cups of tea, Cao Daying said: „Grandmaster river, my younger sister's marital important matter, must trouble you!” 等喝了几杯茶后,曹大鹰才说道:“江大师,我小妹的婚姻大事,得麻烦你了！” „Mr. Cao was polite!” “曹先生客气了！” Jiang Feng looks to Cao Lanzhi, asked: „Cao Miss, you first introduced oneself simply, for example age, height, school record, character and hobby and so on.” 江枫看向曹兰芝,问道:“曹姑娘,你先简单的自我介绍一下吧,比如年龄、身高、学历、性格、爱好之类的。” Cao Lanzhi replied: „I this year am 24 years old, 1.64 meters in height, the high school record, the character comparison dwelling, does not like lively, likes itself treating peacefully, the hobby is quite widespread, pursues the play, to look that the novel, swims and make the dessert, to listen to the music, to play the cell phone mahjong wait/etc.” 曹兰芝答道:“我今年24岁,身高1米64,高中学历,性格比较宅,不喜欢热闹,喜欢自己一个人安静的待着,爱好比较广泛,追剧、看小说、游泳、做甜点、听音乐、玩玩手机麻将等等。” Jiang Feng nods, asked: „What can you have to request to the other half?” 江枫点了点头,又问道:“那你对另一半可有什么要求？” Cao Lanzhi said in a soft voice: „It‘s nothing peculiar requirement, looks pleasing to the eyes, can me good on the line.” 曹兰芝轻声道:“没什么特殊要求,看着顺眼,能对我好就行。” Looks pleasing to the eyes on the line, this seemingly has no request, in fact this is the highest request, because of without the concrete quantitative standard, who knows that what object you can look pleasing to the eyes? 看着顺眼就行,这看似没什么要求,实际上这才是最高要求,因为没有具体的量化标准,谁知道什么样的对象你能看着顺眼？ If changes into other matchmakers, perhaps bumped into this type of marriage seeker object to have a headache. 若是换成其他媒人,碰到这种征婚对象恐怕就要头痛了。 Her mother some worrying added: „The family of best groom's family is well-off, has the room to have the car(riage).” 她母亲有些着急的补充道:“最好男方的家境不错,有房有车。” „Aunt Cao, I does everything possible.” “曹婶,我尽力而为。” Saying, Jiang Feng looks again to Cao Lanzhi, asked: „Cao has Miss, you been in love?” 说着,江枫再次看向曹兰芝,问道:“曹姑娘,你谈过恋爱没有？” Cao Lanzhi slightly was silent, said: „Has discussed one time.” 曹兰芝微微沉默了一下,说道:“谈过一次。” Jiang Feng carried the tea to drink one, Cao Daying helped the tea later continued from above, he begins drinks tea with the brother-in-law silently, talked anything gives the Little Sister with the little aunt. 江枫端起茶喝了一口,曹大鹰随后就帮忙把茶续上,他只是起了个头就跟小叔默默喝茶,谈话什么的就交给小妹跟小婶。 When Cao Daying continues the tea, the Jiang Feng right hand index finger gathers with the middle finger, easement knocked two toward the table on, then looks to Cao Lanzhi , to continue to ask: „Convenience said when discussed that how long discussed that also bids good-bye because of what?” 在曹大鹰续茶的时候,江枫右手食指跟中指并拢,自然弯曲的往桌上敲了两下,然后看向曹兰芝,继续问道:“方便说说是什么时候谈的,谈了多久,又是因为什么而分手的吗？” Cao Lanzhi somewhat awkward saying: „The year before last discussed that discussed for a half year, because of...... because of......” 曹兰芝有些尴尬的说道:“前年谈的,谈了半年,因为……因为……” Her mother expects too much said: „Because was deceived by others, talked to others a half year, does not know others have married, was really as silly as the family/home.” 她母亲恨铁不成钢的接话道:“因为被人家骗了,跟人家谈了半年,都不知道人家已经结婚了,真是傻到家了。” Jiang Feng urged: „Aunt Cao, Cao Miss is not silly, she treats people sincerely, but has a bad husband.” 江枫劝道:“曹婶,曹姑娘不是傻,她是诚心待人,只是遇人不淑而已。” Cao Lanzhi hears word grateful looked at Jiang Feng one, this matter saying got up, must have by mother is complained, but she had not been in love at that time, where understood so many! 曹兰芝闻言感激的看了江枫一眼,这个事一说起来,就少不了被母亲埋怨,可当时她又没谈过恋爱,哪里懂得那么多啊！ The people only then have suffered a loss will grow, this point manifests especially obviously in the sentiment, without the men and women of being in love is quite easily swindled purely, but these eat the men and women who the sentiment has owed, wants to make them be swindled again, the difficulty will assume the geometric series to rise. 人只有吃过亏才会成长,这一点在感情上体现得尤其明显,没谈过恋爱的男女都极为单纯好骗,可那些吃过感情亏的男女,再想让他们上当,难度就会呈几何级数上升了。 The following time, is Jiang Feng was basically asking, Cao Lanzhi answered, when asked all affairs big or small similarly, Jiang Feng changed to the topic Cao Daying, asked: „Does Mr. Cao, how your live to cross after marriage?” 接下来的时间,基本是江枫在问,曹兰芝答,等事无巨细问得差不多了,江枫才把话题转到曹大鹰身上,问道:“曹先生,你这婚后生活过得怎么样？” Cao Daying hears this, the reveal that smile cannot stop comes out, „lived to cross after marriage well, really thanks Grandmaster river you to introduce such a good marriage affinity for me very much.” 曹大鹰一听到这个,那笑容就止不住的露出来,“婚后生活过得非常好,真的很感谢江大师你为我介绍了这么好的一桩姻缘。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Mr. Cao does not need to be polite, this is my labor of duty, you can cross happily, my after marriage is the matchmaker is also happy for you.” 江枫笑道:“曹先生不必客气,这是我的本职工作,你们婚后能够过得幸福,那我这个做媒人的也替你们开心。” Asked Cao Daying life after marriage , after chatting for dozen minutes, Jiang Feng set out to say goodbye. 问完曹大鹰的婚后生活,又闲聊了十几分钟后,江枫才起身告辞。 ...... …… 【Name】 Chen 30,000 【姓名】陈三万 【Age】 30 years old 【年龄】30岁 【Height】 180 m 【身高】180m 【Body weight】 70 kg 【体重】70kg 【Family background background】...... 【家世背景】…… 【Character hobby】...... 【性格爱好】…… 【Sentimental experience】 Does not have 【感情经历】无 【Current marital match value】 68( couple sentiment 66 + properly matched 68 + family relationships 70) 【当前婚姻匹配值】68(夫妻感情66+门当户对68+家庭关系70) 【Limit marriage match value】 80( couple sentiment 86 + properly matched 70 + family relationships 84) 【极限婚姻匹配值】80(夫妻感情86+门当户对70+家庭关系84) Leaves after the teahouse, Jiang Feng then first searches for the match object for Cao Lanzhi, then matched this buddy named Chen 3000, after reading the material of this buddy, in the Jiang Feng heart was somewhat admires to him. 从茶馆离开后,江枫便第一时间替曹兰芝搜寻匹配对象,然后就匹配到了这位名叫陈三万的哥们,在看完这位哥们的资料后,江枫心中对他还是有些佩服的。 Simply speaking, after this buddy university graduates, enters the stock market at 30,000 capital, only used for short three years, then did 30,000 capital more than ten million, became the stock market renowned good powder. 简单来说,这哥们大学毕业后,以三万本金进入股市,只用了短短三年的时间,便把三万本金干到了上千万,成为股市名噪一时的牛散。 At that time, he is only 25 years old, it can be said that was eye-catching and popular, the prestige in village was rising, no one can compare. 那个时候,他才25岁,可以说是风光无限,在村里的声望如日中天,无人能比。 What a pity, the person has the slip horse to lose the hoof, when he is smug, he planted suddenly! 可惜,人有失手马有失蹄,就在他踌躇满志的时候,他突然就栽了！ The concrete process does not relate in detail, was he uses the lever heavy warehouse in any case a stock, finally was taught to cultivate the behavior by Zhuang Jia. 具体经过就不详述了,反正就是他用杠杆重仓了一只股票,结果被庄家教做人。 Perhaps was used to smoothly, perhaps could also not lose, even if the situations are gradually clear at that time, but Chen 30,000 is not willing to accept the facts. 或许是顺风顺水惯了,也或许是输不起,哪怕那个时候形势已经逐渐明朗了,但陈三万还是不愿意接受事实。 For does not explode the warehouse, he sold the house vehicle, but also asked the parents to ask for money, simultaneously brushed exploded the credit card, taking advantage of the friends and relatives, threw to make up the warehouse money completely, bets that getting back money opportunity. 为了不爆仓,他把房子车子都卖了,还问父母要钱,同时刷爆了信用卡,借遍了亲戚朋友,把钱全部投进去补仓,去赌那一丝翻本的机会。 Finally was naturally needless saying that was exploded by banker domineering. 结果自然不用多说,被庄家强势拉爆。 At that moment, the Chen three Vancze bodies experienced to fall into the feeling of hell from the heaven. 那一刻,陈三万切身体验到了从天堂堕入地狱的感觉。 He from having the room has the automobile body ten million/countless scenery infinitely „finance is greatly old”, turned did not have a thing in the world also bankrupts 1 million foreign loans not to look at passer-by A dog. 他从有房有车身家千万风光无限的“金融大老”,变成了一无所有还倒欠了一百万外债连狗都不愿意多看一眼的路人甲。 That huge psychological dropping variance, making Chen 30,000 almost commit suicide. 那巨大的心理落差,让陈三万差点就轻生了。 Is good reins at the brink of the precipice because of him promptly, does not make that type to evade the realistic coward, but looked for a treatment to be good far away from the hometown but very laborious work is done, made money to repay a debt diligently. 好在他及时悬崖勒马,不做那种逃避现实的懦夫,而是远离家乡找了份待遇不错但非常辛苦的工作做着,努力赚钱还债。 Meanwhile, attacks after this time exploding warehouse, Chen 30,000 also realized his insufficiency, while reconsidering own, starts to concentrate on study the god secrets. 同时,经过这次的爆仓打击,陈三万也意识到了他的不足,在反思自己的同时,也开始潜心研究股神秘笈。 Now, five years pass by, that 1 million debt in him economical in everyday spending as well as under the help of parents must also 7788, moreover research that neglects to eat and sleep after these five years, he has also grasped principles. 如今,五年时间过去,那一百万的债务在他省吃俭用以及父母的帮助下已经还得七七八八了,而且经过这五年来废寝忘食的研究,他也已经悟道了。 At present, he prepares again laborious one year or so, saves 180,000 capital, enters the stock market again, not only need recapture his once glory, but must on several buildings, become the true finance to be greatly old. 目前,他准备再辛苦一年半载,积攒个十万八万本金,就再杀入股市,不仅仅要夺回他曾经的荣耀,还要更上几层楼,成为真正的金融大老。 Although wants to ask this buddy to chat immediately, but the present is his going to work is tied up the time, even if found him to estimate that his also having no free time manages him, therefore Jiang Feng will then bear has not gone to see this future „finance to be greatly old”. 虽然很想马上去找这哥们聊聊,但现在是他上班忙得不可开交的时候,哪怕找到他估计他也没空理他,因此江枫便忍住没有去见这位未来“金融大老”。 Has endured 0 : 00 am, knows that he has gotten off work, Jiang Feng drove to look. 一直忍到凌晨零点,知道他已经下班了,江枫才开车找了过去。 ...... …… The Chen 30,000 present is really tired and trapped/sleepy, should say that in the five years he every day is tired and trapped/sleepy. 陈三万现在真的是又累又困,应该说这五年来他每天都是又累又困。 After all, isn't a day delivers 13-14 hours of going, every day must pull out for at least 2-3 hours to study the god secrets, year after year, how possibly not tired so sleepy day after day? 毕竟,一天送13-14个小时的外卖,每天还要抽至少2-3个小时去研究股神秘笈,如此日复一日年复一年,怎么可能不累不困？ But for the ideal in heart, Chen 31,000 is insisting silently. 但为了心中的理想,陈三万一直默默坚持着。 When one delivers finally only this, Chen 30,000 relaxes secretly, finally can go back to rest. 当把这最后一单送完,陈三万暗暗松了口气,终于可以回去休息了。 From the building, Chen 30,000 is preparing cycles home, the sedan that side that is shining the headlight opens the vehicle door suddenly, a charming youth from the car(riage), smiles to greet to him: „Chen 30,000 gentlemen, hello/you good!” 从楼上下来,陈三万正准备骑车回家的时候,旁边那辆亮着车灯的轿车忽然打开车门,一个帅气青年从车中下来,微笑着对他打招呼道:“陈三万先生,你好！” Chen 30,000 looks at this strange charming youth, asking of doubts: „Do you know me? Are you?” 陈三万看着这位陌生的帅气青年,疑惑的问道:“你认识我？请问你是？” „I called Jiang Feng, was a professional matchmaker, does not know that Mr. Chen you did facilitate with me chat several?” “我叫江枫,是一名职业媒人,不知道陈先生你方不方便跟我聊几句？”