On Friday , February 10 , 2023. 2023年2月10日,星期五。 8 : 30 am, eats breakfast dried fish Yulu then to move toward with husband Yang Wei to the hotel not far happy matrimonial agency together. 上午 8 点半,吃过早餐的鲍雨露便跟老公杨伟一起走向离酒店不远的幸福婚介所。 She with the husband is a native of Fujian, 9 : 00 am, her husband after snatching Grandmaster river «Marriage Mediation» appointment qualifications, their couples left to rush to the Guangxi province provincial capital. 她跟老公是闽省人,昨天上午九点,她老公在抢到江大师《婚姻调解》的预约资格后,他们夫妻就动身赶到了桂省省城。 Afterward opened a hotel to settle by the happy matrimonial agency, only waits to come to seek the help of Grandmaster river today. 随后在幸福婚介所旁边开了间酒店安顿下来,只等今天上门寻求江大师的帮助。 At this time, the couple are moving toward the happy matrimonial agency worried, two people have no exchange all the way. 此时,夫妻俩正心事重重的走向幸福婚介所,一路上两人没有任何交流。 Waits to arrive at the happy matrimonial agency time, discovered that the front door is closing, therefore one side couple one person stands, the person in waiting matrimonial agency goes to work. 等来到幸福婚介所的时候,发现大门还是关着的,于是夫妻俩就一人站一边,等待婚介所的人过来上班。 Waited probably for 78 minutes, a disfigured one's face man arrived at the matrimonial agency, sees in the entrance couple, then smiles to greet: „Good morning!” 大概等了七八分钟,一个被毁容的男人来到了婚介所,看到等在门口的夫妻俩,便微笑着打招呼道:“早上好！” „Good morning!” “早上好！” „Good morning!” “早上好！” Yang Wei and Mr. and Mrs. dried fish Yulu also follow to greet. 杨伟与鲍雨露夫妻也跟着打招呼道。 They paid attention to the scarf of Grandmaster river, was naturally clear that who this disfigured one's face man is, knows that his once heroic deed, in the heart admired to him. 他们两人都关注了江大师的围脖,自然清楚这个被毁容的男人是谁,也知道他曾经的英雄事迹,心中对他还是非常佩服的。 Blue Zhihui opens the door while asks: „Two were yesterday books the successful customer?” 蓝志辉一边开门一边问道:“两位是昨天预约成功的客户吧？” Yang Wei nods saying: „Yes, when does Grandmaster river come?” 杨伟点头道:“是的,请问江大师什么时候来啊？” Blue Zhihui said: „Should be quick, in any case before nine points, definitely meets, two first come to sit a meeting!” 蓝志辉道:“应该快了,反正九点前肯定会到的,两位先进来坐一会吧！” Yang Wei and dried fish Yulu express gratitude, then following blue Zhihui entered the happy matrimonial agency. 杨伟与鲍雨露道了声谢,然后便跟着蓝志辉走进了幸福婚介所。 Passing through the gate, the couple are then sizing up this matrimonial agency carefully. 一进门,夫妻俩便细细打量着这家婚介所。 The area of matrimonial agency is not big, but is not small, besides a reception hall, in addition delimited several offices, separated with the frosted glass. 婚介所的面积不算大,但也不算小,除了一个接待大厅以外,另外还划出了几个办公室,都是用磨砂玻璃隔开。 Couple when sizing up the layout of reception hall, then saw that multicolored silk banner that hangs in the most conspicuous position. 夫妻俩在打量接待大厅的布局时,一眼便看到了挂在最显眼位置的那面锦旗。 „A single thread draws those fated to marry together across a thousand li, world matchmaker in side!” “千里姻缘一线牵,人间月老在身边！” The couple savor this to present as a gift the language carefully, somewhat is suddenly lost. 夫妻俩细细品味着这句赠语,一时间有些出神。 ...... …… river Feng arrives at the matrimonial agency time, then saw sat in reception hall that to the couple, then took the lead to greet: „Two guests, good morning!” 江枫来到婚介所的时候,一眼便看到了坐在接待厅中的那对夫妻,便率先打招呼道:“两位客人,早上好！” river Feng the picture has to hang in the reception hall, therefore couple eyes then recognize him. 江枫的照片是有挂在接待大厅的,所以夫妻俩一眼便认出他来。 „Grandmaster river, good morning!” “江大师,早上好！” „In two requests personally, we discussed to the office.” “两位里面请,我们到办公室谈。” „Good.” “好的。” Enters the office to sit, river Fengti met: the water, said with a smile the cup „To avoid presenting Black Dragon/mishap, I must first confirm a status of next two guest, two Gao given names?” 进入办公室坐好,江枫替两人接了杯水,才笑道:“为了避免出现乌龙,我要先确认一下两位客人的身份,请问两位高姓大名？” „My name was Yang Wei.” “我叫杨伟。” „My name was dried fish Yulu 。” “我叫鲍雨露。” Hears couple's reply, river Feng nods saying: „Un, the status confirmed, what problem two marriages did have?” 听到夫妻俩的回答,江枫点头道:“嗯,身份确认,两位的婚姻出现了什么问题？” Yang Wei somewhat embarrassed asking: „Grandmaster river, does not know how your marriage did mediate collects fees?” 杨伟有些不好意思的问道:“江大师,不知道你这个婚姻调解是怎么收费的？” river Feng said with a smile: „ This must regard the mediation difficulty to collect fees, if the primary difficulty, collects fees 5000, if the intermediate difficulty, collects fees 20,000, if the high-level difficulty, collects fees 100,000. 江枫笑道:“这个得视调解难度来收费,如果是初级难度,收费五千,如果是中级难度,收费两万,如果是高级难度,收费十万。 If the primary difficulty is not continually, collects fees 1000. 如果连初级难度都算不上的,收费一千。 Naturally, if mediated invalid, free! 当然,如果调解无效的话,免费！ As for this mediation difficulty, by me was judged, you first meeting the issue said that I determined the difficulty rank to you again, then you decided that again must accept the mediation. ” 至于这个调解难度,是由我来判断的,你们先把遇到的问题说出来,我再给你们判定难度级别,然后你们再决定要不要接受调解。” Yang Wei hears the secret nod, so long as the decision-making power in their hands, that does not have the issue. 杨伟听得暗暗点头,只要决定权是在他们手上,那就没问题。 dried fish rain and dew does not have the opinion. 鲍雨露也没意见。 river Feng saw two people to tacitly consent, access road/simply said: „Now can say the issue that you come across!” 江枫见两人默许了,便道:“现在可以把你们遇到的问题说出来了！” Yang Wei shot a look at sat in nearby wife one eyes, to river Fengdao: „Grandmaster river, my wife must divorce me, but I do not want to leave, therefore wants to ask you to help mediate.” 杨伟瞥了坐在旁边的老婆一眼,对江枫道:“江大师,我老婆要跟我离婚,可是我不想离,所以想请你帮忙调解一下。” river Feng looks to dried fish rain and dew, „that asked Ms. dried fish to say the reason that you must divorce what was?” 江枫看向鲍雨露,“那就请鲍女士说说你要离婚的理由是什么？” dried fish Yulu looked at the eye to sit in nearby husband, somewhat awkward saying: „Grandmaster river, can I tell you alone?” 鲍雨露看了眼坐在旁边的老公,有些为难的说道:“江大师,我能不能单独跟你说？” river Feng nods, looks to Yang Wei dao: „Did Mr. Yang, first ask you first to sit to the outside hall meets?” 江枫点了点头,看向杨伟道:“杨先生,就先请你到外面大厅先坐一会可以吗？” „Ok!” Yang Wei helpless complied with one, then went out of the office, waits to the reception hall. “可以！”杨伟无奈的应了一声,然后便走出了办公室,到接待大厅去等候。 After Yang Wei leaves, river Fengcai looked that said to dried fish Yulu: „Ms. dried fish, you can say now!” 等杨伟离开后,江枫才看向鲍雨露道:“鲍女士,你现在可以说了！” dried fish Yulu organized a language, said slowly: „I felt that he was really fearful, with him lived together the pressure was big, seems him to stick out suddenly me momentarily chokes to death to be the same.” 鲍雨露组织了一下语言,缓缓说道:“我感觉他实在是太可怕了,跟他生活在一起精神压力非常大,就好像他随时会暴起把我掐死一样。” river Feng look is calm, asks: „Ms. dried fish, what matter he made, making you have such feeling?” 江枫神色波澜不惊,问道:“鲍女士,他做出了什么事情,让你产生了这样的感觉？” In dried fish rain and dew look revealed the hesitant color. 鲍雨露神色中露出了一点犹豫之色。 river Feng watches a person's every mood, immediately encourages saying: „Ms. dried fish, even if unimportant related to the personal privacy, you regard the psychiatrist me on the line, does not need the psychological burden.” 江枫察言观色,当即鼓励道:“鲍女士,就算涉及到个人隐私也不要紧,你把我当成心理医生就行,不必有心理负担。” dried fish Yulu before coming to have been psychologically prepared, at this time is slightly hesitant, hears river Feng encouragement, then clenches teeth saying: „ I married for about three years him, his aspect had some psychological barriers, in being crafstman, what pattern can play, was very normal. 鲍雨露在来之前就已经做好了心理准备,此时不过是稍微犹豫,听到江枫的鼓励,便咬牙说道:“我跟他结婚有将近三年了,他那方面有一些心理障碍,在当手艺人的时候,什么花样都能玩,正常得很。 But once must double cultivate/repair with me, and author is incapable equally short. 可一旦要跟我双修,就跟作者一样短小无力。 The three months of just starting, I also had the patience to enlighten him slowly, even also accompanied him to go to the hospital, what a pity could not solve this problem. 刚开始的三个月,我还有耐心慢慢的开导他,甚至也陪他去过医院,可惜也解决不了这个问题。 As a normal woman, I have the physiological drive, when crosses after him more than one year of brothers lived, I again cannot endure lonely go off track! ” 作为一个正常女人,我也是有生理需求的,在跟他过了一年多的兄弟生活后,我再也耐不住寂寞出轨了！” At this point, dried fish Yulu stopped. 说到这里,鲍雨露停顿了一下。 river Feng asked at the right moment: „Your marriage goes off track, properly speaking should be he divorces you, why is you must divorce him on the contrary? Moreover you added that before he was too fearful, felt that he may stick out suddenly anytime chokes to death you, this what's the matter?” 江枫适时问道:“你婚姻出轨,按理说应该是他跟你离婚,为什么反倒是你要跟他离婚呢？而且你之前还说他太可怕了,感觉他随时有可能会暴起掐死你,这又是怎么回事呢？” dried fish rain and dew look very complex saying: „ After I go off track, has thought is kept in the dark him, until a while ago me when looks for the thing, discovered his secret accidentally. 鲍雨露神色非常复杂的说道:“我出轨之后,一直以为把他蒙在鼓里,直到前段时间我在找东西的时候,无意中发现了他的秘密。 Originally, matter that I go off track, he knows clear, even does not know that he uses what method, the video that even I go off track he has. 原来,我出轨的事情,他知道得一清二楚,甚至不知道他用什么手段,连我出轨的视频他都有。 At that time saw these videos time, in my heart is really the cold air braves. 当时看到那些视频的时候,我心中真的是寒气直冒。 From the marriage to the present, he has not changed to my attitude, this is I am afraid his reason, he knows obviously I went off track, moreover he also collected big pile of evidence, has not called to account me, has not mentioned this matter with me, I do not know that he really did not mind, is feeling suffocated to retaliate me. 从结婚一直到现在,他对我的态度从来没有变过,这正是我害怕他的原因,他明明都知道我出轨了,而且他也搜罗了一大堆的证据,却从来没有责问过我,也从来没跟我提过这事,我不知道他是真的不介意,还是憋着气要报复我。 In brief, I was afraid! 总之,我害怕了！ I want to divorce! ” 我想离婚！” Listens to narration of dried fish rain and dew, river Feng asked again: „You know after his secret, there are has discussed this issue with him candidly?” 听完鲍雨露的讲述,江枫再次问道:“你知道他的秘密之后,有没有跟他开诚布公的谈过这个问题？” dried fish Yulu said: „ Has discussed that I apologized with him on the same day, said oneself do not do right by him, is willing to leave home with only their clothes on their backs. However he actually did not agree, said is not willing to divorce, this excessively is good, even added oneself are willing to mortgage a house to lose the love, making me bring back to the home to come not to have the issue the lover. 鲍雨露道:“谈过,我当天就跟他道歉,说自己对不住他,愿意净身出户。但是他却不同意,说不愿意离婚,就这样过挺好的,甚至还说自己愿意当房遗爱,让我把情夫带回家来住都没问题。 Grandmaster river, this where is the words that the normal person can say, I have also watched many soap operas, the female lord comes across such matter often not to have the good end, I really feared! ” 江大师,这哪里是正常人能说出来的话啊,我也看过不少电视剧,女主遇到这样的事情往往都没有好下场,我实在是怕了！” river Feng nods, said: „I give you to summarize, Ms. dried fish you were worried all that your husband makes now, are camouflaging, wants to retaliate you to go off track with the means that you cannot think, therefore you feel are afraid, wants to hurry to be far away from him, is this meaning?” 江枫点了点头,说道:“我给你总结一下,鲍女士你是担心你老公现在所做的一切,都只是在伪装,是想用你想不到的办法来报复你出轨,所以你心里感到非常害怕,想要赶紧远离他,是这个意思吧？” dried fish Yulu nods to say again and again: „That is it, is living the pressure on be too big with people like him together, I do not fear him to be angry, how after all the wife offtracking husband is angry again is normal. The fearfulness fears his type , is not only not angry, but also encourages you to continue to go off track, even makes you bring back to the home the offtracking object, this trading who comes to be afraid.” 鲍雨露连连点头道:“就是这个意思,跟他这样的人在一起生活精神压力太大了,我不怕他生气,毕竟老婆出轨老公再怎么生气都是正常的。可怕就怕他这种不仅不生气,还鼓励你继续出轨,甚至让你把出轨对象带回家的,这种换谁来都得害怕。” river Fengen, said: „I understood, Ms. dried fish you go out to wait, called your husband, I chatted with him well, first made clear his true idea to say again.” 江枫嗯了一声,说道:“我明白了,那鲍女士你出去等候,把你老公叫进来,我好好跟他谈谈,先搞清楚他的真正想法再说。” dried fish Yulu sets out saying: „Good, that troubled Grandmaster river.” 鲍雨露起身说道:“好的,那就麻烦江大师了。” river Fengdao: „Is impolite.” 江枫道:“不客气。” Quick, dried fish Yulu then called Yang Wei. 很快,鲍雨露便把杨伟叫了进来。 After he sits, saying that river Feng then comes straight to the point: „Mr. Yang, your wife me has told the problem that among you had was clear, I want to ask that what idea Mr. Yang you were? Why encourages the wife to continue to go off track?” 等他坐好后,江枫便开门见山的说道:“杨先生,你妻子已经把你们之间存在的问题跟我讲清楚了,我想问问杨先生你到底是什么想法？为什么鼓励自己老婆继续出轨？” Yang Wei silent moment, said slowly: „Grandmaster river, I have the psychological barrier in that aspect, should my wife also tell you?” 杨伟沉默了片刻,才缓缓说道:“江大师,我有那方面的心理障碍,我老婆应该也跟你讲过了吧？” river Fengdao: „Has said that this example are actually many, mainly must overcome your own psychology.” 江枫道:“讲过了,这种例子其实不少,主要还是得克服你自己的心理。” Yang Wei nods , to continue to tell: „Since I discover my wife goes off track, I with amazement discovered, I have not only been angry, in the heart faintly somewhat is excited. At that time, I know, my psychology truly has problems.” 杨伟点了点头,继续讲述道:“自从我发现我老婆出轨后,我惊讶的发现,我不仅没有生气,心中还隐隐有些兴奋起来。那个时候,我就知道,我的心理确实出了问题。” river Feng asked: „Did Mr. Yang, you attempt to find the psychiatrist in the past?” 江枫问道:“杨先生,那你尝试过去找心理医生了吗？” Yang Wei sighed: „ I have found the psychiatrist, treated some time, but an function does not have. 杨伟叹道:“我找过心理医生,也治疗了一段时间,但一点作用都没有。 I give up treating simply, start to think of every means to photograph surreptitiously the video that the wife goes off track, sees her with other man that anything, excitement that I cannot control. 索性我就放弃治疗,开始费尽心思去偷拍老婆出轨的视频,看到她跟别的男人那什么,我就控制不住的兴奋。 Even from then on, I bring to be the crafstman the video that the wife goes off track, the effect is good. 甚至从那以后,我就把老婆出轨的视频拿来当手艺人,效果非常好。 Originally thinks that can cross like this, actually does not want a while ago my wife I collect gives to turn to look the picture and video that then ruining...... 本来以为可以一直这样过下去,却不想前段时间我老婆把我珍藏的照片与视频都给翻找出来,然后给毁掉了…… Moreover, she must divorce me, I said I really do not mind her to go off track, even can help her look for the right offtracking object, but she is untrustworthy I. 不仅如此,她还要跟我离婚,我都说了我真不介意她出轨,甚至可以帮她物色合适的出轨对象,可她却信不过我。 In me is not knowing what to do time worriedly should, Grandmaster river you increased " Marriage Mediation » project, but I snatch today's appointment qualifications exactly, therefore walked in you to seek help from Grandmaster river, hopes that you can elucidate well my wife, making her believe that my sincerity, do not divorce me. ” 正在我苦恼不知道该怎么办的时候,江大师你新增了《婚姻调解》项目,而我又恰好抢到了今天的预约资格,所以就找上门来向江大师你求助,希望你能够好好开解一下我老婆,让她相信我的真心,不要跟我离婚。” Hears here, river Feng nods saying: „The issue that your couples come across I have been clear, troubles Mr. Yang you first to arrive at the reception hall my ten minutes, I carefully pondered that your marriage mediated side An, will wait to speak in detail with you again.” 听到这里,江枫点头道:“你们夫妻所遇到的问题我都已经清楚了,麻烦杨先生你先到接待大厅等我十分钟,我好好思考一下你们的婚姻调解方桉,等会再跟你们详谈。” „Good, Grandmaster river!” “好的,江大师！”