The Tiantian sudden weeping sound shocked everyone immediately. 恬恬突如其来的哭声顿时惊呆了所有人。 Like the weather of June, on one second of colorful Yanggao photo, next second of actually sudden thunderstorms writings. 就像六月的天气一样,上一秒还是艳阳高照,下一秒却突然雷雨大作。 Seriously is Yin clear uncertain, is unable to ponder over. 当真是阴晴不定,根本无法琢磨。 The Elder Brother was also frightened arrived, returned in front of marbles Tiantian hastily, comforts saying: „Do not cry, I give back to you marbles......” 哥哥也是被吓到了,连忙把弹珠放回了恬恬面前,安慰道:“你不要哭,我把弹珠还给你……” However, Tiantian actually disregards radically, the selfish sadness is crying. 然而,恬恬却是根本不管不顾,自顾自的伤心大哭着。 The women are hearing the flash of her weeping sound, flustered stood from the booth. 女人在听到她哭声的一瞬间,就慌慌张张的从卡座里站了起来。 She arrives by the railing to look quickly, discovered Tiantian sits is very sad, on facial color big change that on the cushion cries, enraged comes side arrived Tiantian. 她快步来到围栏旁一看,发现恬恬坐在垫子上哭的很伤心,不禁就面色大变,气冲冲的来到了恬恬身边。 „Treasure, how? Did they bully you? Do not cry, told mother, mother takes responsibility with you......” “宝贝,怎么了？他们欺负你了吗？不要哭,跟妈咪说,妈咪跟你做主……” A woman face loves dearly hugs the bosom Tiantian, then the unceasing neutral tone is comforting. 女人一脸心疼的把恬恬搂进怀里,然后不断的轻声安慰着。 The Elder Brother sees that immediately protests saying: „We have not bullied her!” 哥哥见状,立刻申辩道:“我们没有欺负她！” The younger brother also heard that the sound echoes saying: „We were playing the marbles game a moment ago, without bullying her, was she cries suddenly!” 弟弟也闻声附和道:“我们刚才在玩弹珠游戏,没有欺负她,是她自己突然就哭了！” Although the two brothers usually knock to create a disturbance frequently, but needs to show no external differences, that is unambiguous. 虽然兄弟俩平时经常磕碰打闹,但需要一致对外的时候,那可是一点也不含糊。 Tiantian cries is very sad, after seeing the woman comes, immediately jumps in the woman arms. 恬恬哭的很伤心,看到女人过来后,立刻就扑进了女人怀里。 The women comforted her one, sees Tiantian unable to stop the weeping sound, she then stared two brothers one eyes ruthlessly. 女人安慰了她一阵,见恬恬一直止不住哭声,她这才狠狠的瞪了兄弟俩一眼。 At this time, the little fellow could not tolerate, explained hastily: „Aunt, we have not bullied Tiantian! We are playing the game! She lost oneself was mad cried......” 这时,小家伙也看不过去了,连忙解释道:“阿姨,我们没有欺负恬恬！我们在玩游戏！她输了就把自己气哭了……” The attitude of woman also makes the two brothers feel very suffering. 女人的态度也让兄弟俩觉得很委屈。 After hearing a Niannian such saying, the Elder Brother is pursing the lips the whisper to say immediately: „Yes, is she cannot lose!” 听到念念这么一说后,哥哥顿时就撅着嘴嘀咕说道:“就是,是她自己输不起！” The younger brother possibly thought that this matter are not related with oneself, therefore starts immediately the ugly face toward Tiantian, laughs saying: „Yes, Tiantian cannot lose! Shames......” 弟弟可能觉得这事儿跟自己没关系,于是立刻朝恬恬做起了鬼脸,大笑道:“就是,恬恬输不起！羞羞羞……” Younger brother action is not malicious, on the contrary, this is his good intention. 弟弟这个举动并不是恶意的,相反,这还是他的一片好意。 Because they played the game before time, if who could not lose cried, everyone will make him with such way do not cry again, and stimulated the effort of opposite party in turn. 因为他们以前玩游戏的时候,如果有谁输不起哭鼻子了,大家就会用这样的方式来让他不要再哭,并且依次激发对方的好胜心。 This is among the children commonly used method of goading somebody into action. 这是孩子间常用的激将法。 But in woman opinion, this is actually one type fills with the malicious provocation, therefore gave to explode with rage her immediately. 但在女人看来,这却是一种满怀恶意的挑衅,所以顿时就把她给气炸了。 „The child of your which family/home? How has family education Ah? your parents not to teach you to be together with other little friend?” “你谁家的孩子？有没有家教啊？你父母没教过你应该怎么跟别的小朋友相处吗？” The women point at two brothers one to reprove. 女人指着兄弟俩一通训斥。 The Elder Brother was frightened arrived, sits does not dare to lift on the cushion. 哥哥被吓到了,坐在垫子上连头都不敢抬一下。 But the younger brother is actually not glad. 但弟弟却不乐意了。 Therefore he straightens one's neck immediately, shouts toward the woman greatly: „We have not bullied her! Is she cannot lose! Cannot lose!” 于是他立刻梗着脖子,朝女人大喊道:“我们没有欺负她！是她自己输不起！输不起！” The expression on younger brother face was also puts in great inconvenience. 弟弟脸上的表情也是委屈极了。 At this moment he looks like the little Eighth Route Army man who would rather die than surrender to be the same, the oath must fight to the end with the evil strength. 此刻他就像是宁死不屈的小八路一样,誓要与邪恶力量斗争到底。 Has not had, the straightforward younger brother does not carry this being unjustly discredited absolutely. 没有就是没有,耿直的弟弟绝对不背这种黑锅。 Then, the woman was really given to explode with rage by him. 这下,女人是真的被他给气炸了。 Because she squats before the two brothers, therefore after hearing younger brother these words, immediately lifts the right hand, a palm of the hand directly toward younger brother's face above fan. 因为她就蹲在兄弟俩面前,所以听到弟弟这番话后,立刻就抬起右手,一巴掌直接朝着弟弟的脸上扇了过来。 The younger brother has not thought that this woman will hit him. 弟弟根本就没想到这女人会打他。 However what is good, this palm of the hand was actually blocked by Qin Ruoying promptly. 不过还好的是,这一巴掌却被秦若盈给及时拦了下来。 Qin Ruoying had come a moment ago, but actually stands had not spoken. 秦若盈刚才就已经过来了,不过却站在旁边一直没有说话。 Saw with own eyes that the women must hit the younger brother, she naturally cannot sit by and do nothing again. 眼见女人都要打弟弟了,她自然不能再坐视不理。 „Their child, among the children has the small friction is very normal, you directly involve as the guardian can only trigger a bigger contradiction......” “他们都还是孩子,孩子之间发生一点小摩擦是很正常的,你作为家长直接介入只能引发更大的矛盾……” Blocks after the palm of the hand of woman got down, Qin Ruoying then frowning adds: „This is not good.” 将女人的巴掌拦了下来后,秦若盈这才皱着眉头补充道:“这样不好。” Among the children has the friction to be contradictory unavoidable, which child hadn't fought in childhood? 小孩子之间发生摩擦矛盾是难免的,哪个孩子小时候没打过架？ Therefore guardian facing this issue time, best or follows " three nots principle ": It is not angry, does not involve, does not fear to suffer a loss. 所以家长面对这个问题的时候,最好还是遵循‘三不原则’:不生气,不介入,不怕吃亏。 This seemingly negative attitude, actually trains the child health interpersonal relationship most basic and simplest, is the most effective method. 这种看似消极的态度,却正是培养孩子健康人际关系最基本、最简单、也是最有效的方法。 The child will be angry, but will not bear a grudge absolutely. 孩子会生气,但绝对不会记仇。 Among the children happened slightly rubs, the guardian intervenes immediately, this behavior is a destructive behavior. 孩子间发生一点小摩擦,家长立即干预,这种行为本身就是一种破坏性的行为。 The seemingly meticulous care, will in fact actually eliminate child's experience to the real life, thus causes the child to lack the setback to experience, making their resistant to compression abilities extremely bad, the psychological bearing capacity is also weaken. 看似无微不至的关心,实际上却会剥夺孩子对真实生活的体验,从而导致孩子缺乏挫折经历,让他们的抗压能力变得极差,心理承受能力也随之减弱。 Because Tiantian cried, the woman was direct the determination is the two brothers bullied Tiantian. 就因为恬恬哭了,女人便直接判定是兄弟俩欺负了恬恬。 The thinking mode of this simple and crude, cannot play any help regarding the growth of child, instead will harm her. 这种简单粗暴的思维方式,对于孩子的成长不会起到任何帮助,反而会害了她。 The name said loves it, harmed it actually. 名曰爱之,实则害之。 The two brothers saw Qin Ruoying to come, immediately like looking for the arrived backer. 兄弟俩一见秦若盈来了,顿时就像找到了靠山一样。 Elder Brother immediately small mouth one shrivelled, followed to cry. 哥哥立马将小嘴一瘪,也跟着哭了起来。 Tiantian will cry, he will also cry. 恬恬会哭,他也会哭。 However, the younger brother still has the spirit of man, returning that does not dread is staring that angry woman. 不过,弟弟却依然有着男子汉的气概,毫不畏惧的回瞪着那怒气冲冲的女人。 „We have not bullied Tiantian!” “我们没有欺负恬恬！” The younger brother mouth is whispering throughout such a few words, this is the origin of his courage. 弟弟嘴里始终嘀咕着这么一句话,这就是他勇气的来源。 The grandfather often said that the person wants just to be good, can stand. 外公常说人要行得正、站得直。 They have not bullied Tiantian, that does not have! 他们没有欺负恬恬,那就是没有！ Little fellow little while also stood, she was away from the railing to pull the Qin Ruoying's lower hem corner, then pursed the lips to mumble: „Mama, we have not really bullied Tiantian......” 小家伙这会儿也站了起来,她隔着围栏扯了扯秦若盈的衣角,然后便撅嘴嘟哝道:“麻麻,我们真的没有欺负恬恬……” „Un, clever.” “嗯,乖。” Qin Ruoying rubbed the head of little fellow, this said to the two brothers: „You apologized with Tiantian.” 秦若盈揉了揉小家伙的脑袋,这才对兄弟俩说道:“你们跟恬恬道个歉吧。” She did not have anything clearly, but looks at Tiantian that suffering appearance, will then suspect the child should not crying with no reason at all, will therefore be these three little fellows does not know obviously, because anything annoyed to cry she. 她并不清楚发生了什么,不过看恬恬那委屈的模样,便猜想孩子应该不会无缘无故的哭,所以显然是这三个小家伙不知因为什么惹哭了她。 Such being the case, that apology should also be. 既然如此,那道歉也是应该的。 The little fellows heard Mother saying that thinks, then said directly: „Tiantian, sorry, do not cry.” 小家伙听到妈妈都这么说了,想了一下,便直接说道:“恬恬,对不起,你不要哭了。” Afterward, the Elder Brother also stopped the weeping sound under the Qin Ruoying's comfort, then slightly obviously suffering saying: „Sorry......” 随后,哥哥也在秦若盈的安慰下止住了哭声,然后略显委屈的说道:“对不起……” Was one's turn the younger brother. 轮到弟弟了。 When Qin Ruoying hints the younger brother with Tiantian apologized, the younger brother is silent. 当秦若盈示意弟弟跟恬恬道歉的时候,弟弟却沉默了。 He sits on the cushion, lowers the head does not know that is thinking anything. 他坐在垫子上,低着头也不知在想些什么。 Qin Ruoying touches his head gently, hints him to calm down. 秦若盈轻轻摸了摸他的头,示意他消消气。 But at this time, the younger brother actually seemed like receives arrived anything exciting as suddenly, the standing up body loudly exclaimed: „We have not bullied her! Why must apologize! I not wrong! I did not apologize!” 但这时,弟弟却像是突然受到了什么刺激似的,站起身子大吼道:“我们没有欺负她！凭什么要道歉！我没有错！我不道歉！” „I did not apologize!” “我不道歉！” Then, the younger brother then stood from the cushion suddenly, ran out of the playground directly. 说完,弟弟便突然从垫子上站了起来,直接冲出了儿童乐园。 Qin Ruoying wants to block him, but does not dare to make an effort, therefore was worked loose by him all of a sudden. 秦若盈想要拦下他,但又不敢太用力,所以被他一下子就挣脱了。 Runs is running, younger brother's tears flowed suddenly. 跑着跑着,弟弟的眼泪突然就流了下来。 Because he really feels very suffering...... 因为他真的觉得很委屈…… The tears blurred his eye, but the younger brother actually depended on the feeling to look for right the direction as before, barefoot wants to run out of the teahouse directly. 眼泪模糊了他的眼睛,但弟弟却依旧凭感觉找对了方向,光着脚就想直接冲出茶馆。 But at this time. 而这时。 A person's shadow appears in the teahouse entrance suddenly, blocked younger brother's way. 一个人影却忽然出现在茶馆门口,挡住了弟弟的去路。 Following close on, the younger brother was feeling that own body suddenly one light, probably flew to be the same. 紧跟着,弟弟就感觉自己的身子忽然一轻,像是飞起来了一样。 The younger brother wipes off the tears of corner of the eye hastily, the discovery was Chen Xi hugs him. 弟弟连忙擦掉自己眼角的泪水,才发现是陈曦抱起了他。 „Lets loose me!” “放开我！” left Yaoyou who the younger brother makes an effort shakes, wanting Chen Xi to put him. 弟弟使劲的左摇右晃,想要陈曦把他放下来。 Looks at this stubborn little thing, Chen Xi smiles at present. 看着眼前这个倔强的小东西,陈曦不禁笑了起来。 Put out a hand to pinch younger brother that to be full of the angry and suffering small face, Chen Xi then hugs him to move toward the playground. 伸手捏了捏弟弟那饱含愤怒和委屈的小脸,陈曦这才抱着他重新走向了儿童乐园。 „Walks, the uncle upholds the justice to you.” “走,叔叔给你主持公道。”