Hundred million spot assets, even if in Central Sea this ultra first-tier city , can be the rich man. 一个亿的现金存款,哪怕在中海这个超一线城市,也能算得上是有钱人了。 But Chen Xi actually does not seem like the consciousness of rich man. 可陈曦却似乎并没有身为有钱人的觉悟。 He is busy doing grocery shopping to prepare food as before every day to wash clothes to tow the region child, complete is a standard house-husband image. 他依旧每天忙着买菜做饭洗衣拖地带孩子,完完全全是一个标准的家庭妇男形象。 Many people had money, the first matter purchases homes, thought that should change a better growth environment to the child. 很多人有钱了,第一件事就是买房,觉得应该给孩子换一个更好的成长环境。 Chen Xi does not consider to trade the issue of house completely, mainly has several reasons. 陈曦完全不考虑换房子的问题,主要有几个原因。 First, before this is he leaves, with Yingying together through the house that buys diligently, therefore he has very deep affection to this house. If meets to cutt, perhaps Chen Xi will therefore also become in history the most flamboyant person who stubbornly resists moving...... 其一,这是他离开之前,和盈盈一起通过努力买下的房子,所以他对这房子有着很深厚的感情。如果遇到强拆,说不定陈曦还会因此成为史上最牛逼的钉子户…… Second, Kangju Neighborhood except for house worn-out a point, the sanitary condition missed a point, peripheral necessary was short of a point, what but also there is not good place? 其二,康居小区除了房子破旧了一点,卫生环境差了一点,周边配套少了一点,还有什么不好的地方吗？ The Kangju Neighborhood inhabitant mostly is not the rich man, therefore usually possibly for frequently some petty small matters quarrelled. 康居小区的住户大都不是什么有钱人,所以平常可能会经常为了一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事儿吵架。 But if really has to have an accident, that in care and help from neighborhood, but is occupied by mansion the rich man in alone alone institute cannot feel. 但如果真的有哪家出了事,那种来自邻里间的关心和帮助,可是住在独栋独院的豪宅里的有钱人所感受不到的。 Being familiar with that very Chen Xi lives here, therefore had not planned must resettle, even repairs has not considered. 陈曦在这里住的很习惯,所以根本就没打算过要挪窝,甚至连重新装修都没有考虑过。 After all, in cave he also lives very comfortable isn't? 毕竟,以前在山洞里他也住的很舒服不是？ However, actually Chen Xi had not discovered, he has fitted into this society now thoroughly. 不过话说回来,其实就连陈曦自己都没有发现,他现在已经彻底融入这个社会了。 Before returning to arrived leaves that feeling. 就像回到了离开前的那种感觉一样。 That is a feeling of named life, every day helping him cross very comfortable. 那是一种名为生活的感觉,让他每天都过的十分舒适。 In the morning, when the little fellow after Aunt Zhang has chatted the video, Chen Xi is then holding her serious asking: „Niannian, do you also want to go to the kindergarten?” 早上,等到小家伙跟张婶聊过视频后,陈曦便抱着她严肃的问道:“念念,你还想不想去幼儿园？” After the little fellows bite the finger was thinking a while, this hesitant saying: „Does not want.” 小家伙咬着手指想了一会儿后,这才犹犹豫豫的说道:“不想去了。” Possibly is she still remembers that initially went to the kindergarten is she strongly requests, therefore immediately somewhat embarrassed saying: „Also can go!” 可能是她还记得当初去幼儿园是她自己强烈要求的,于是立刻又有些不好意思的说道:“也可以去！” Then, she then sneaked in the Chen Xi bosom. 说完,她便钻进了陈曦怀里。 Sees that Chen Xi rubbed her small head with a smile. 见状,陈曦不禁笑着揉了揉她的小脑袋。 Can endure not to go now, has gone beyond the Chen Xi's expectation greatly. 能忍到现在才不想去,已经大大超出陈曦的预料了。 The child the thing is very curious regarding all have not contacted, the kindergarten is also this. 孩子对于一切没有接触过的东西都很好奇,幼儿园也是这样。 Niannian once envied other child to go to the kindergarten, but after when truly she goes, she discovered that the kindergarten is actually not the specially fun place. 念念曾经羡慕别的孩子可以去幼儿园,但真正当她去过后,她才发现幼儿园其实也并不是什么特别好玩的地方。 Plays one time twice, but wants her daily this, possibly to be how greasy? 玩一次两次可以,但要她天天都这样,又怎么可能不腻呢？ The kindergarten that actually Niannian read was good, Teacher Wang was very responsible, their course arrangements were also very scientific, not extremely ultra outline content. 其实念念读的幼儿园还好,王老师很负责,她们的教程安排也十分科学,并没有太过超纲的内容。 Like some kindergartens, the middle shift did not start to teach the child in ten plus-minus method. 不像一些幼儿园,中班就开始教孩子十以内的加减法了。 The plus-minus method seems like very simple, but in fact is actually the first-grade curriculum that Education Committee arranges, is knowledge that the child of elementary school first grade needs to master. 加减法看似很简单,可实际上却是教委安排的一年级课程,是小学一年级的孩子才需要掌握的知识。 The kindergarten will teach , is not because present many guardians always an misconception, think if own child does not study ahead of time, will lose from the starting point. 幼儿园之所以会教,还不是是因为现在很多家长总有一种错觉,认为自家孩子如果不提前学习,就会输在起跑线上。 Therefore at some guardians' strong requests, many under 4-5 child has been able in the positive numbers 100 and 100 the reciprocal back mindful was incomparable. 所以在一些家长的强烈要求下,许多才四五孩子就已经可以把一百以内的正数、一百以内的倒数背的顺溜无比了。 This also makes the guardians be pleased with oneself, felt own child is most intelligent. 这也让家长们沾沾自喜,觉得自己孩子是最聪明的。 But in fact, these force the result that the child remembers forcefully, rather than the child understands the memory on own initiative the result. 但实际上,这些都是强行逼迫孩子记忆的结果,而非孩子主动理解记忆的结果。 In other words, this educational method is actually wrong!!! 换句话说,这种教育方法其实是错误的！！！ Except for few talents, the normal child before three years old, basically is at the sensation movement thought stage. 除了极少数的天才,正常的孩子在三岁以前,基本都处于感知动作思维阶段。 Three years old to six years old, in specifically thinking in images stage. 三岁到六岁,则处于具体形象思维阶段。 Until after six years old, the child will enter to school age Initial Stage. 直到六岁以后,孩子才会进入到学龄初期。 Such as: Recited the mathematical mnemonics and English word sentence and Tang poem Song jambic verse Three Character Classic and mathematical mnemonics, these belonged to stress that memory study, the premature study not helpfuled but harmful. 诸如:背诵数学口诀、英文单词句子、唐诗宋词三字经、数学口诀,这些都属于强调记忆性的学习,过早学习有害无益。 Why can like this? 为什么会这样？ Because the plasticity of children's brain strongly, makes the child study through the way of mechanical memorizing extremely prematurely, will greatly reduce the plasticity of his brain, thus affects child's imagination. 因为儿童大脑的可塑性极强,过早地让孩子通过死记硬背的方式学习,会大大降低其大脑的可塑性,从而影响孩子的想象力。 Moreover, forcing the memory also to increase child's pressure, reduces child's learning interest, when the child first grade starts to study truly time, tires of the semester suddenly to appear, the child has no interest in study radically. 另外,强迫记忆还会加大孩子的心理压力,降低孩子的学习兴趣,等到孩子一年级真正开始学习的时候,厌学期却突然出现,以至于孩子根本无心学习。 The young brain needs to grow balanced, although premature pure memory growth child's left brain, but actually suppressed the growth of right brain, hinders the comprehensive growth of brain. 年幼的大脑需要均衡发育,过早的单纯记忆虽然发育孩子的左脑,但却抑制了右脑的发育,阻碍大脑的全面发育。 The Chen Xi's idea is actually very simple, that is to give Niannian to build a comfortable happy childhood. 陈曦的想法其实很简单,那就是要给念念打造一个舒适快乐的童年。 He does not request Niannian to go to Qinghua Peking University, therefore compared to the result, Chen Xi cared whether oneself can give Niannian to mold correct values, outlook on life and world outlook. 他又不要求念念非得去清华北大,所以相对于成绩,陈曦更关心自己是否能够给念念塑造出一个正确的价值观、人生观、世界观。 This year three views are correct, comes importantly compared with anything. 这年头三观正确,比什么都来得重要。 Does not do evil and does not violate inexpensively, not Holy Mother, not overflowing sentiment, self-confident, but not proud and strong but is not stubborn, a rights and wrongs minute of clarity, viewing the issue is fair, found that the problem calls the turn, conduct decisive not loathsome...... 不作恶、不犯贱、不圣母、不滥情,自信但绝不自傲、坚强但却不倔强,是非曲直分的清楚,看待问题公正客观,发现问题一言中的,行事果断不拖泥带水…… Ten years of trees, it takes a hundred years to educate people. 十年树木,百年树人。 Chen Xi has heavy responsibilities...... 陈曦任重而道远着呢…… After careful consideration a while, Chen Xi is hugging the little fellow, gentle asking: „Since you do not want to go to the kindergarten, that does not go, is good?” 仔细的考虑一会儿后,陈曦抱着小家伙,温柔的问道:“既然你不想去幼儿园,那就不去了,好不好？” hearing this, the little fellow jumps immediately excitedly, hugs the Chen Xi's neck to say with a smile on giggle: „I do not want to go! Papa is really good! Mua!” 闻言,小家伙立刻就激动的跳了起来,搂着陈曦的脖子就咯咯笑道:“我不想去！粑粑真好！Mua！” She sticks Chen Xi now more and more, naturally is not willing to separate with Chen Xi. 她现在是越来越粘陈曦,当然不愿意跟陈曦分开。 Smiled one, the little fellow suddenly was crooked the head to think, is then pursing the lips to ask: „But...... the teacher said that the Sir must go to work, the child must go to school......, if I do not go to the kindergarten, what I should make?” 笑了一阵,小家伙却突然歪着脑袋想了一下,然后撅着嘴问道:“可是……老师说大人要上班,孩子要上学……如果我不去幼儿园,那我该又做什么呢？” Chen Xi pinched her small nose gently, this said with a smile: „You are young, only needs to eat meal much, grew up a bit faster then it will be alright. The children can be itself the matter that likes doing, therefore Father does not compel you, you like playing, does Father lead you to go to Capital to play to be good?” 陈曦轻轻捏了捏她的小鼻子,这才笑着说道:“你还小,只需要多多吃饭,快点长大就行了。小孩子可以做自己喜欢做的事,所以爸爸也不逼你,你那么喜欢玩,爸爸带你去上京玩好不好？” „Capital where?” “上京在哪里吖？” „Capital is the capital of our country, there has Forbidden City, to have Tiananmen, to have the Great Wall there, wants to have a look?” “上京是我们国家的首都,那里有故宫、有天安门、还有长城都在那里,想去看看吗？” hearing this, the little fellow is brought back the interest by Chen Xi immediately. 闻言,小家伙立刻被陈曦勾起了兴趣。 She stands in shouting that on the Chen Xi's leg jumps: „Must go! Must go! I must look at the Great Wall!” 她站在陈曦的腿上蹦蹦跳跳的喊道:“要去！要去！我要看长城！” Forbidden City and Tiananmen she does not know, but the Great Wall that is she has seen in the children's picture album since childhood, therefore is brought back the interest immediately. 故宫和天安门她不知道,但是长城那可是她从小就在儿童画册里看到过的,所以立刻就被勾起了兴趣。 „We tomorrow, when National Day time, Father can also lead you to go to Capital to look at formation for review and inspection!” “那我们明天就出发,等到国庆的时候,爸爸还可以带你去上京看阅兵式！” „Good!” “好！” Festivals always make one miss more of relatives and close friends. 每逢佳节倍思亲。 Perhaps was infected by the atmosphere of holiday, Chen Xi thinks of own family member suddenly specially. 或许是被节日的气氛所感染,陈曦忽然间特别想念自己的亲人。 Niannian and Yingying, were he only the family member in this world. 念念和盈盈,就是他在这个世界上唯一的亲人了。 The Yingying three years went Capital, since then the message does not have the trace. 盈盈三年前去了上京,从此音讯无踪。 But after these days being together, the little fellow already gradually adapted to Aunt Zhang not in the day. 而经过这段时间的相处,小家伙已经逐渐适应了张婶不在的日子。 So long as there is Father, she will not be scared about any strange thing. 只要有爸爸在,她就不会对任何陌生的事物感到害怕。 Also because of so, after Chen Xi careful consideration one, this decided finally...... 也正是因为如此,陈曦仔细的考虑一番后,这才终于决定…… Was the time leads the little fellow to step seeks for the Yingying's journey. 是时候带着小家伙踏上寻找盈盈的旅程了。 Perhaps is somewhat impulsive, but this sudden decision absolutely will not be wrong. 或许有些冲动,但这个突如其来的决定却绝对不会是错误的。 The child cannot do without mother. 孩子不能没有母亲。 But he, cannot do without the wife. 而他,也不能没有妻子。 Capital. 上京。 We came! 我们来了！ ****** ****** ****** ****** Thank 【In June dyes in July】 ten thousand Bida enjoys! 感谢【六月染七月】万币大赏！ Thank 【Wood 001】 ten thousand Bida enjoys! 感谢【木又001】万币大赏！ Thank 【Xinhua crow hole red maple tree】 ten thousand Bida enjoys! 感谢【新化乌鸦洞的红枫一叶】万币大赏！ I can occasional examination this chapter say. 我会不定时的查看本章说。 Possibly in front of some readers has scolded me, but anti- poisonous high, therefore looks at arrived as before now...... 可能有些读者前面骂过我,但是抗毒高,所以依旧看到了现在…… Therefore, I must you tell that the sound was embarrassed...... 因此,我要跟你说声不好意思了…… So long as because is the difference comments, I will delete the placard + to ban the word permanently, but I will only ban the word, does not know how to lift a ban...... 因为只要是差评,我都会删帖+永久禁言,但是我只会禁言,不知道怎么解禁…… Therefore embarrassed...... 所以不好意思了……