...... …… Evening cloud Shoujin overflows poorly, milky way silent revolutions jade plate. 暮云收尽溢清寒,银汉无声转玉盘。 Life night is not long, the bright moonlight where will look next year. 此生此夜不长好,明月明年何处看。 ...... …… September 23. 9月23号。 Just crossed 3 : 00 pm, Chen Xi has waited in the kindergarten entrance. 刚过下午 3 点,陈曦就已经等在了了幼儿园门口。 But at this time, he saw outside suddenly the kindergarten the notice board pasted on one brand-new has a vacation the notice. 而这时,他突然看到幼儿园外公告牌贴上了一张崭新的放假通知。 Carefully looks, this understands that is Mid-Autumn Festival arrived. 仔细一看后,这才明白是中秋节到了。 Today unexpectedly is the lunar calendar in August 14, in other words, tomorrow will be Mid-Autumn Festival. 今天居然是农历八月十四,也就是说,明天就是中秋了。 Possibly drifts the too long reason outside, therefore after Chen Xi returns to Earth, has not cared about the issue of time. 可能是在外漂泊太久的缘故,所以陈曦回到地球后,从来都没有在意过时间的问题。 Snaps fingers in a hurry for 500 years. 弹指匆匆五百年。 Regarding Chen Xi, the time were too much, he started numbly. 对于陈曦来说,时间真的太多了,以至于他都开始麻木了。 Originally the little fellow after a day of adjustment, has adapted to the kindergarten rhythm, has not thought that then took a day of class, followed close on must actually put Mid-Autumn Festival. 本来小家伙经过一天的调整,已经重新适应幼儿园节奏了,没想到这才上了一天课,紧跟着却又要放中秋了。 When Mid-Autumn Festival has ended a few days, National Day also this/should arrived. 等到中秋过完没几天,国庆也该到了。 Vacation syndrome. 假期综合征。 Chen Xi thinks to feel the headache...... 陈曦想想都觉得头疼…… Therefore then decided to have a vacation for these days, must result in according to the daily schedule of kindergarten requests her. 所以便决定这几天放假,也必须得按照幼儿园的作息时间来要求她。 After looking has a vacation the notice, Chen Xi near fence that comes arrived his always liking to stand. 看完放假通知后,陈曦来到了他一直以来都喜欢站的围墙边上。 A person of cat like, was away from the fence eagerly was looking at the kindergarten drill ground in the past. 一人一猫像往常那样,隔着围墙眼巴巴的望着幼儿园操场。 However, today the class and grade teacher of little fellow actually does not seem to arrange them to play to the drill ground on, therefore Chen Xi looked for quite a while not to see the form of little fellow. 然而,今天小家伙的班级老师却似乎没有安排她们要到操场上玩,所以陈曦找了半天都没有看到小家伙的身影。 After one hour . 一个小时后。 Delightful ringtone resounded, is on vacation from school. 一阵悦耳的铃声响起,放学了。 Chen Xi stands in the crowd is lining up, just close to the school gate, he saw that the little fellow obediently under the leadership of Teacher Wang has waited in the breathing place. 陈曦站在人群中排着队,刚刚靠近校门,他就看到小家伙已经在王老师的带领下乖乖等候在休息处了。 „Teacher Wang.” “王老师。” Chen Xi politeness called one, Teacher Wang then holds the hand of little fellow to walk immediately. 陈曦礼貌的叫了一声,王老师便立刻牵着小家伙的手走了过来。 Knows the female, it would be better if father. 知女莫如父。 Chen Xi looked down a little fellow, immediately discovers her some were not right, therefore is then frowning to ask: „Teacher Wang, how was this?” 陈曦低头看了一眼小家伙,立刻就发现她有些不对劲,于是便皱着眉头问道:“王老师,她这是怎么了？” Teacher Wang smiles, had not replied with enough time. 王老师笑了笑,还没来得及回答。 At this time, little fellow actually a hand that worked loose Teacher Wang, slightly ran is throwing to the Chen Xi under foot, then closely grasped his leg. 这时,小家伙却一把挣脱王老师的手,小跑着扑到陈曦脚下,然后紧紧的抱住了他的腿。 „Yo, was this is wronged?” “哟,这是受委屈了？” Chen Xi touches the small head of little fellow, squatted down to give to hug her hastily. 陈曦摸了摸小家伙的小脑袋,连忙蹲下把她给抱了起来。 The little fellows are hugging the Chen Xi's neck, the small face deeply got buried into on the Chen Xi's shoulder. 小家伙搂着陈曦的脖子,小脸则深深埋进了陈曦的肩膀上。 Patted the back of little fellow gently, Chen Xi then looked to Teacher Wang. 轻轻拍了拍小家伙的后背,陈曦便看向了王老师。 He knows, Teacher Wang will give him a satisfactory confession. 他知道,王老师会给他一个满意的交代。 However, the Teacher Wang following words, made him change the expression slightly. 然而,王老师接下来的话,却让他微微变了表情。 „Mr. Chen, Niannian fought against other little friend in the classroom a moment ago.” “陈先生,念念刚才在教室里跟别的小朋友打架了。” „Does Niannian fight?” “念念跟人打架？” At this moment, the Chen Xi's three views were renovated were the same. 这一刻,陈曦的三观都被刷新了一样。 In his mind, but Niannian this world's most lovable intelligently obedient the most sensible child, moreover she is a girl, how possibly to fight against others? 在他的心目中,念念可是这世界上最可爱最聪明最听话最懂事的孩子,而且她还是女孩子,怎么可能跟别人打架？ Expression Teacher Wang on Chen Xi face has seen too many similar, therefore explains immediately: „Is the hand that she first moves, but was stopped by us quickly......” 陈曦脸上的表情王老师已经见过太多类似的了,于是立刻解释道:“是她先动的手,不过很快被我们制止了……” This redeemed is really Chen Xi being shocked. 得,这回当真是把陈曦给惊呆了。 Therefore, Chen Xi looks at a bosom little fellow immediately, put out a hand to pat her buttocks gently, asked: „Niannian, what the teacher said is real?” 于是,陈曦立刻看了一眼怀里的小家伙,伸手轻轻拍了拍她的屁股,问道:“念念,老师说的是不是真的？” But after Chen Xi asked the words, little fellow selfish lying in his arms, a few words did not say, even the head was disinclined to lift. 可陈曦问完话后,小家伙却自顾自的趴在他怀里,一句话也不说,甚至连脑袋都懒得抬一下。 The attitude that this type does not coordinate, confirmed the words of teacher. 这种不配合的态度,更加证实了老师的话。 However Chen Xi is not that crude guardian, therefore asks immediately: „Can Teacher Wang, tell that me actually what happened?” 不过陈曦也不是那种粗暴的家长,所以立刻就问道:“王老师,能不能跟我说说究竟发生了什么事？” „Naturally, this is my duty.” “当然,这是我的义务。” Teacher Wang is smiling nod, then said on and on: „Before today is Mid-Autumn Festival last day, therefore the school will prepare some moon cakes to the children, in sending the process of moon cake, she hit nearby little friend suddenly, then two people pushed and shoved got up......” 王老师微笑着点了点头,然后娓娓说道:“今天是中秋前的最后一天,所以学校会给小朋友们准备一些月饼,在发月饼的过程中,她突然打了旁边的小朋友一下,然后两人就推搡了起来……” „After Teacher Li sees, immediately gives to pull away them, but we inquired afterward again specific reason time, the Niannian anything words did not say, another actually only knows to weep and wail, said that Niannian hits him......” “李老师看到后,立刻就把他们俩给拉开了,不过事后我们再询问具体原因的时候,念念却什么话都不说,另一个却只知道哭喊,说念念打他……” „After generally this situation, we will inform double Fang Family to be long, hope that comes the correct guidance child by the guardian, after all, the child are most with the time that the guardian is together......” “一般这种情况发生后,我们都会通知双方家长,希望由家长来正确引导孩子,毕竟,孩子跟家长一起相处的时间最多……” About four -year-old children, itself in the exploration with the method that the person interacts. 四岁左右的孩子,本身就在探索与人互动的方法。 This process is similar to the child in study the speech stage, the person was telling together the language of person, is speaking the language of animal to the animal together. 这个过程就如同孩子在学说话阶段,跟人在一起说人的语言,跟动物在一起说动物的语言。 Therefore, the correct demonstration of adult is important. 因此,成人的正确示范就非常重要。 When the child knows to wrong, may develop to deal with the issue in the social conflict the ability, as well as self-control ability. 当孩子知道对错,才有可能在社交冲突中发展出自己处理问题的能力,以及自我控制能力。 The child under child in normal environment and education, before six years old , the limbs contact and conflict that presents do not have malicious fighting, but to express their then mood! 在正常环境和教养下的孩子下的孩子,六岁以前出现的肢体接触和冲突都不带有恶意殴斗,而是为了表达了他们当时的情绪！ Therefore, when the child exists the use limbs expressed own dissatisfaction, the adult needs as soon as possible to involve the guidance. 所以,当孩子存在使用肢体来表达自己的不满情绪时,成人需要尽早介入引导。 Although the Teacher Wang words saying somewhat tactful, but Chen Xi understood. 王老师的话虽然说的有些委婉,不过陈曦还是听懂了。 Therefore, he can only awkward smiling. 因此,他只能尴尬的笑了笑。 „We had not asked specific reason that fights, therefore after wanting you to go home, can with chat with the child well......” “我们没有问出打架的具体原因,所以希望你回家后能跟跟孩子好好地聊一聊……” Perhaps after is fears Chen Xi goes home, hits the child does not distinguish between right and wrong, therefore, Teacher Wang added hastily: „Niannian is a clever child, I believe that she should receive what grievance, therefore under the impulsion, will vent own disaffection with such not a correct way......” 或许是怕陈曦回家后就不分青红皂白的打孩子,于是,王老师连忙补充道:“念念是个乖孩子,我相信她应该是受了什么委屈,所以才会在冲动之下,用这样一种不正确的方式来发泄自己的不满……” Then, Teacher Wang then traces the back of the head of little fellow gently, then sincere said to the little fellow: „Niannian, your Father came, what had to put in great inconvenience to you to say to your Father, but you must remember, later cannot hit the person surely again, knew?” 说完,王老师便轻轻摸了摸小家伙的后脑勺,然后便语重心长的对小家伙说道:“念念,你爸爸来了,有什么委屈你就跟你爸爸说,但是你要记住,以后千万不许再打人了,知道吗？” The little fellows had not responded. 小家伙没反应。 Chen Xi then swung the waving the hand arm, said in a low voice: „Teacher Wang is speaking to you, clever, wants polite.” 陈曦便摇了摇手臂,低声说道:“王老师在跟你说话呢,乖,要有礼貌。” The little fellows have not gained ground as before, but actually lies in the Chen Xi bosom reluctant un chirp, hinted itself to listen to arrived. 小家伙依旧没有抬头,不过却趴在陈曦怀里不情不愿的嗯叽了一声,示意自己听到了。 „Excuse me, Teacher Wang, I go back to say well her......” “不好意思,王老师,我回去会好好说说她的……” „Doesn't matter, the child was wronged, these responses are normal, after going back, you can chat with her well, but must remember, do not hit her......” “没关系,孩子受委屈了,这些反应都是正常的,回去后你可以好好跟她聊聊,但是要记住,千万不要打她……” „I know, thanks Teacher Wang.” “我知道,谢谢王老师。” Chen Xi nods, to Teacher Wang is also quite grateful. 陈曦点了点头,对王老师也是颇为感激。 Just before leaving before, the little fellow hides in the Chen Xi bosom as before, is not willing to hit one greeting with the teacher. 临走前,小家伙依旧躲在陈曦怀里,连招呼都不愿意跟老师打一个。 Chen Xi does not have the means that this can only hug her to take the road of going home. 陈曦没办法,这才只能抱着她走上了回家的路。 After taking the quite long section of road, Chen Xi then stopped. 走了好长一段路后,陈曦这才停了下来。 He squats on the ground, slowly put from own arm the little fellow. 他蹲在地上,慢慢的把小家伙从自己手臂上放了下来。 Afterward, Chen Xi pinched the little fellow round small face, said with a smile: „Ok, can say now to Father what's the matter?” 随后,陈曦捏了捏小家伙圆嘟嘟的小脸,笑着说道:“好了,现在可以跟爸爸说说怎么回事了吧？” ****** ****** ****** ****** Thank 【Wind blows bra to flutter downward】 10,000 of boss big enjoy! 感谢【风吹奶罩往下飘】老板的一万大赏！ A day two, have one in the evening. 一天两更,晚上还有一更。