„Who said that Teacher Wu is not good to me, do not look at the junior middle school time, Teacher Wu often criticizes me, punishes me, actually he is good for me, was only I was too stubbornly disobedient, he was the iron inadequate steel.” “谁说吴老师对我不好的,你不要看初中的时候,吴老师经常批评我,处罚我,其实他都是为我好,只是我太顽劣了,他是很铁不成钢啊。” leaf Rongyao said. The recollection teacher in charge Teacher Wu of time, the gratitude of leaf glorious sincerity she, she controls herself at first frequently, the leaf glory suspected oneself fight, sooner or later will feed in itself the prison. 叶荣耀说道。回想起初中时代的班主任吴老师,叶荣耀真心的感激她,要不是她经常管束自己,叶荣耀怀疑自己跟人打架,早晚会把自己送进监狱。 „You can think, I think Teacher Wu under the dwelling place of the dead knew , will be very happy.” “你能这么想,我想吴老师九泉之下知道了,也会很高兴的。” Chen Haishao feelings said. Who can think, worst student in junior middle school time class, but also remembers the benevolence of own teacher! 陈海哨感触地说道。谁又能想到,在初中时代班里最差的学生,还记得自己老师的恩情呢！ After making Chen Haishao telephone call, leaf Rongyao thinks, gives telephones in wears Wanli of provincial capital work now. 挂掉陈海哨的电话后,叶荣耀想了想,就给现在在省城工作的戴万黎打了个电话。 „Does glorious elder brother, how call me this time?” Telephone that broadcasts wears Wanli the depressed voice. “荣耀哥,怎么这个时间点给我打电话啊？”电话那头传来戴万黎郁闷的声音。 „How to have the matter?” leaf Rongyao has doubts asks. “怎么有事？”叶荣耀疑惑地问道。 „Glorious elder brother, I like you, now am not a landlord, does not need to go to work to work, I must attend class to the student during the daytime.” “荣耀哥,我可不像你,现在就是个地主,不用上班干活,我白天可是要给学生上课的。” wears Wanli said. Originally the leaf glory telephones for time, the time that wears Wanli attended class, usually attended class, wears Wanli will switch off the cell phone ring tone, the furnishing vibrates. 戴万黎说道。原来叶荣耀打电话给来的时候,正是戴万黎上课的时间,平时上课的时候,戴万黎都会把手机铃声关掉,调成振动。 However today attended class, wears Wanli this matter forgetting, to tie a carpophyll glory telephone to come, the cell phone ring tone rang. 不过今天上课,戴万黎把这事情给忘了,结果叶荣耀一个电话过来,手机铃声就响起来了。 Those who most let ten thousand Li Yumen is, his cell phone ring tone is «Wife Is biggest», this made the students in class listen, has not teased oneself this teacher to fear the wife. 最让戴万黎郁闷的是,他的手机铃声是《老婆最大》,这让班级里的学生听了,还不取笑自己这个老师怕老婆啊。 The present university student, does not fear the teacher, student's relations with the teacher, it can be said that teacher student relationship. Also it can be said that the friend relates, sometimes, everyone is impolite. 要知道,现在的大学生,可不怕老师,学生跟老师的关系,可以说是师生关系。也可以说是朋友关系,有时候,大家可是没大没小的。 An own teacher, if were teased by the student is feared the man who wife, does not have the face matter. 自己一个老师,要是被学生取笑是怕老婆的男人,是多么没有面子的事情啊。 „, I forgot you am a teacher. Disturbed you to attend class.” “哦,我都忘了你是老师了。打扰你上课了。” leaf Rongyao said. Is the human affairs is really difficult to predict, oneself and wears Wanli two in the junior middle school time, by the teacher are thought is „Adou who cannot help up”, is „difference lives” in the eyes of teacher, without the student of future. 叶荣耀说道。真的是世事难料啊,自己和戴万黎两个在初中时代,被老师认为是“扶不起的阿斗”,在老师的眼里是“差生”,没有前途的学生。 But who can think for more than ten years later , are wears Wanli, became the teacher of being a teacher by worthy example. 可是谁又能想到十几年后,无论是自己,还是戴万黎,都成为为人师表的老师了。 Also does not know these teachers and schoolmates who junior middle school time know oneself become the visiting professor of Southern Zhejiang University, wears Wanli also becomes the teacher of Southern Zhejiang University. Will have what kind of feelings. 也不知道初中时代的那些老师和同学们知道自己成为浙南大学的客座教授,戴万黎也成为浙南大学的老师。会有何等感想啊。 „Does glorious elder brother, you call me has the matter?” wears Wanli asked. “荣耀哥,你打电话给我有事？”戴万黎问道。 „Teacher in charge Teacher Wu of our junior middle school time passed away, I want to ask that you do want to attend her funeral?” leaf Rongyao asked. “我们初中时代的班主任吴老师过世了,我想问你要参加她的葬礼吗？”叶荣耀问道。 „Did Teacher Wu pass away? She is not very young? Do I want less than 60, how to pass away?” Some wears Wanli accidents/surprises asked. “吴老师过世了？她不是挺年轻的吗？我想都不到六十,怎么过世了？”戴万黎有些意外地问道。 The junior middle school time, same is in the class the famous difference lives with the leaf glory, wears Wanli was also taught and punished by teacher in charge Teacher Wu a lot, therefore is very profound to the impression of teacher in charge Teacher Wu. 初中时代,跟叶荣耀一样是班级里出名的差生,戴万黎也没少被班主任吴老师教训和惩罚,所以对班主任吴老师的印象很深刻。 Perhaps said that the difference lives to studying time these has taught own teacher, the impression is profound. 或许说差生对读书时代那些管教过自己的老师,都印象深刻。 „Gets the liver cancer born.” “得肝癌出世的。” The leaf glory somewhat said deeply. After all once teacher passed away. The leaf glory also somewhat is at heart silent, the person has the sentimental lifeform. So long as each other has been together, regardless of the time passes is remote, suddenly heard the opposite party to pass away, would at heart somewhat heavily, do not say that was once teacher. 叶荣耀有些深沉地说道。毕竟曾经的老师过世。叶荣耀心里也有些沉默,人是有感情的生物。只要彼此相处过,无论时间过去多么久远,突然听到对方过世了,心里总会有些沉重,更不要说是曾经的老师。 „, When the funeral is. I and hypericum will go.” “哦,葬礼是什么时候。我和海棠都会去的。” wears Wanli said. Just like the leaf glory, knows own teacher passed away, as once student, wears Wanli will attend the funeral of teacher, the teacher delivers a final regulation to oneself. 戴万黎说道。跟叶荣耀一样,知道自己老师过世了,作为曾经的学生,戴万黎还是会参加自己老师的葬礼,给自己老师送最后的一程。 „Concrete which day in buries. I am not clear, tomorrow I can pass, asked the specific time, I will inform your.” leaf Rongyao said. “具体的在哪天下葬。我还不清楚,明天我会过去的,问到具体的时间,我会通知你的。”叶荣耀说道。 „Good, the glorious elder brother, you first helps me give the red packet, when I go back also you.” “好,荣耀哥,你先帮我给红包,等我回去的时候还你。” wears Wanli said. In Huaxia, this „weddings and funerals” must wrap the red packet, this is a favor contact important part. 戴万黎说道。在华夏,这“婚丧嫁娶”都是要包红包的,这属于人情往来的重要的一部分。 Regards as important area min state this . Moreover the red packet of this favor contact is very big, one year of favor contact red packet, even some surpass 1/3 of whole family income. 在玟州这一带是非常看重,而且这人情往来的红包都很大,一年的人情往来的红包,甚至有的都超过一家子收入的三分之一。 Moreover the favor contact in min state, not a very good custom, is adds, for example you celebrate the 30 th birthday time, no matter you do prepare a banquet, your close relatives and good friends will give you to wrap a red packet. 而且在玟州的人情往来,还有一个非常不好的风俗,就是添一点,比如你过30岁生日的时候,不管你办不办酒席,你的至亲好友都会给你包个红包。 In the min state rural area, a 30 th birthday, has related near relative to wrap red wants over a thousand generally, if the opposite party gives you to wrap 1000 red packages, when his 30 years old( may also certainly 40 years old, each ten years probably give present in any case a time), you must add 200 in 1000 foundations, like this circulates, behind arriving at this red packet will be getting more and more thick, family's burden will also be getting more and more heavy. 在玟州农村,过个30岁生日,关系近的亲属包红一般都要上千,如果对方给你包一千的红包,等他三十岁(当然也可四十岁,反正每过十年都要送一次礼),你就要在一千的基础上加两百,这样循环下去,到后面这个红包会越来越厚,家庭的负担也会越来越重。 Sometimes in min state many family condition same others, must by borrowing the wallet red packet, maintains the favor contact. 在玟州很多家庭条件一般般的人家,有时候要靠借钱包红包,维持人情往来的。 „Good.” “好。” leaf Rongyao complied, regarding present leaf Rongyao, money is not the issue. 叶荣耀答应了,对于现在的叶荣耀来说,钱已经不是什么问题了。 „Did husband, who pass away?” “老公,谁过世了？” willow Qingqing listens is not very clear, opens the mouth to ask. 柳箐箐听不是很清楚,不由地开口问道。 „Is the teacher in charge teacher of my junior middle school time, she must the cancer pass away.” “是我初中时代的班主任老师,她得癌症过世了。” leaf Rongyao said. Although passing away of teacher made glory at heart some uncomfortable, to also had minimal impact, after all is not close, but also without that type lost the close pain. 叶荣耀说道。虽然老师的过世让叶荣耀心里有些不舒服,到也影响不大,毕竟不是至亲,还没有那种失去至亲的痛楚。 „.” “哦。” willow Qingqing complied with the sound, no longer asked that after all the person refuses stubbornly is any good matter, often do not raise, is easy moved. 柳箐箐应了声,也就不再问了,毕竟人死不是什么好事情,不要常提,容易让人伤感。 „Wife, does our family/home have the red packet?” “老婆,咱们家有红包吗？” leaf Rongyao asked. This red packet, is definitely wrapping money with the red packet, such appears the jubilation, the good good luck, no one to take out money directly, such seemed innocent. 叶荣耀问道。这红包,肯定是用红包包着钱的,那样显得喜庆,好彩头,没有人直接掏钱的,那样就显得不懂事了。 „Has, my takes.” “有,我这就去拿。” willow Qingqing said. Red package thing, the rural area in others has, after all usually has anything celebrates the time, can take package of red packages. 柳箐箐说道。红包这个东西,农村人家里都备有的,毕竟平时有什么喜庆的时候,都能拿出来包红包。 However the favor contact in village, is willow Qingqing in processing, the leaf glory usually does not pay attention, others asked themselves to drink, drank, as for must wrap many red packages, willow Qingqing will deliver ahead of time. 不过村里的人情往来,都是柳箐箐在处理的,叶荣耀平时都不怎么关注,别人叫自己去喝酒,就去喝酒,至于要包多少红包,柳箐箐都会提前送过去的。 Living of Teacher Wu in Kuocang Town, the leaf glory is driving Audi q7 car(riage) to Teacher Wu the family/home the time, her main house gate has temporarily built a big tent/account. 吴老师的家住在括苍镇上,叶荣耀开着奥迪q7车到吴老师家的时候,她家门口已经临时搭建了一个大的蓬帐。 Must know that died in min state place person, it can be said that he his entire life liveliest time, even married had not died lively. 要知道在玟州这个地方人死了,可以说是他一生最热闹的时候,连结婚都没有死了热闹。 Sometimes, has saying that the person is very sorrowful, living time, everyone does not understand the filial old person, when the person died, handles the funeral wantonly, showed that own filial, has saying that is a pitifulness. 有时候,不得不说人挺悲哀的,活着的时候,大家都不懂得孝顺老人,等人死了,大肆操办葬礼,来显示自己的孝顺,不得不说是一种可悲。 „Are you?” “你是？” The husband of Teacher Wu has doubts looks to enter the leaf glory of mourning hall. Husband of Teacher Wu to not too many moved, after all since knows what own spouse results was the cancer, the family member has the mental preparation. 吴老师的丈夫疑惑地看着走进灵堂的叶荣耀。吴老师的丈夫到没有太多的伤感,毕竟自从知道自己老伴得的是癌症,家里人已经有思想准备了。 Passing away of Teacher Wu, said to a certain extent, is to one extrication of Teacher Wu, the one extrication of family to Teacher Wu. 吴老师的过世,在某种程度上说,是对吴老师的一种解脱,对吴老师家庭的一种解脱。 After all is the ordinary people, cannot pay the high medical expense, although is the teacher, has good medical benefit, but treats the cancer every so often, must use very expensive import medicine, this kind of medicine, is not within the reimbursement. 毕竟都是普通老百姓,根本就付不起高昂的医疗费用,虽然当老师,有很好的医疗福利,可是治疗癌症很多时候,要用到很昂贵的进口药物,这一类药物,都不在报销之内。 Regarding Teacher Wu the family/home, Teacher Wu this sickness, can say family's savings almost spends completely, two sons of good Teacher Wu, a daughter is very filial, is willing to spend to oneself mother to treat an illness, even if clear(ly) knew unable to cure, will only spoil money, in the family/home took to give Teacher Wu to treat an illness. 对于吴老师家来说,吴老师这病,可以说把家里的积蓄差不多都花尽了,还好吴老师的两个儿子,一个女儿还都很孝顺,都舍得花钱给自己母亲治病,哪怕明知道治不好,只会糟蹋钱,家里还是拿出去给吴老师治病。 Even lends money from friends and relatives there, treats an illness to Teacher Wu. 甚至从亲戚朋友那里借钱,给吴老师治病。 Looks that the family member several thousand several thousand places spends every day in the sickness that oneself this cannot cure, Teacher Wu also is very painful, give up treating several times, was being blocked by the family member. 看着家里人每天几千几千地花在自己这治不好的病上,吴老师心里也很痛苦,几次都放弃治疗,都被家里人拦着。 So long as the gleam of hopes, the family member of Teacher Wu clenches teeth not to give up. 只要有一线的希望,吴老师的家人还是咬牙不肯放弃。 Now Teacher Wu walked, to her, is happy, has such filial own children, this was also worth. 现在吴老师走了,对她来说,是幸福的,有这么孝顺自己的子女,这一身也值得了。 Oneself such static walked, no longer to an own child big package, big burden. 自己就这样静静的走了,也不再给自己的孩子一个大包裹,大负担了。 Regarding the children of Teacher Wu, oneself also completely the biggest filial piety, had no qualms in the heart, departure of own mother, to them, is relaxes. 对于吴老师的子女来说,自己也尽了自己最大的孝心了,无愧于心了,自己的母亲的离去,对于他们来说,也算是松了口气。 After all the children have various families, there are own children, the day passes is not wealthy, must train own children, could not pay that high medical expense more and more. 毕竟儿女们也有各种的家庭,也有自己的子女,日子过的也不富裕,也要培养自己的子女,也越来越付不起那个高昂的医疗费用了。 Has to say the poor person unable to fall ill, the long illness does not have the loyal son, has the truth, every so often, the children do not think the filial parents actually not, but was the current economic condition is pressing, radically filial, own child was about unable to support, where can also be able to attend to the old person. 不得不说穷人生不起病,久病无孝子,也不是没有道理的,很多时候,倒不是子女不想孝顺父母,而是经济条件压着了,根本就孝顺不起来啊,自己的孩子都快养不活了,哪里还能顾得上老人呢。 „Teacher king, I am the leaf glory, junior middle school time, is the student of Teacher Wu.” The leaf glory said to oneself front old person. “王老师,我是叶荣耀啊,初中的时候,是吴老师的学生。”叶荣耀对自己面前的老人说道。 This Teacher king, when the leaf glory attended the junior middle school, he teaches 3 rd language teacher, was leaf glory the husband of teacher in charge Teacher Wu. 这位王老师,在叶荣耀读初中的时候,他是教初三的语文老师,也是叶荣耀的班主任吴老师的丈夫。 The leaf glory has the impression to him very much, but more than ten years passed by, is a black hair Teacher king, now are the white bloom gray old people. 叶荣耀对他还是很有印象的,只是十几年过去了,原本还是一头黑发的王老师,现在已经是白花苍苍的老人了。 Anybody is inevitable will die of old age, will die. 任何人都不可避免会老去,会死去。 Why does not know, today here, looks the entrance is setting up white cloth strip, and electronic screen language on mournful thought. 不知道为什么,今天来这里,看着门口立着的白布条,以及电子显示屏上的哀思之语。 leaf Rongyao is always thinking the birth and death of person, vicissitudes of life, some feelings are. 叶荣耀总是想着人的生老病死,悲欢离合,有些感触良深。 „Are you leaf glory?” “你是叶荣耀？” Teacher king somewhat asked surprised. After all junior middle school time, that bad leaf glory in oneself spouse class, Teacher king is also impressive. 王老师有些吃惊地问道。毕竟初中的时候,自己老伴班级里的那个差生叶荣耀,王老师也是印象深刻的。 Fights and fights, the school result is bad, frequently skips classes, by own spouse, came home from school each time, somewhat complained, always said before oneself , the lifetime made the any mistake, arranges such a student, suffers itself. 打架、斗殴,学校成绩差,经常逃课,让自己老伴,每次放学回家,都有些抱怨,老是说自己前辈子是不是做错了什么,安排这么一个学生,折磨自己。 But who can think, oneself spouse passed away, first sees her person, unexpectedly is this junior middle school time, most makes her have a headache, most lets the student who she dislikes. 可是谁又能想到,自己老伴过世了,第一个过来看望她的人,竟然是这种初中时候,最让她头疼,最让她不待见的学生。 These she looks after specially, especially likes „good student”, not to have one by the present. 那些她特别照顾,特别喜欢的“好学生”,到现在都没有一位来。