In Huaxia many eyes, no matter outside ten thousand zhang (3.33 m) tall buildings have, outside house to have well how splendid, was inferior broken of own family/home „kennel”. 在华夏很多人眼里,不管外面万丈高楼有多么地好、外面的房子有多么的富丽堂皇,都不如自己家的破“狗窝”。 After all that is truly own, lives can feel at ease there, plants „returning home” feeling. 毕竟那才是真正属于自己的,住在那里自己才能安心,有种“落叶归根”的感觉。 Regardless of Huaxia person outside how aggrieved, returns to own hometown, gets own home, will never raise itself painstakingly, tired, to be wronged these things outside, no doubt is the Huaxia person attaches importance to face is an aspect. 华夏人不论在外面过的多么的憋屈,回到自己的家乡,回到自己的家,从不会提自己在外面苦、累、受委屈这些事情,固然是华夏人好面子是一方面。 What is more important, does not want to make the family member be worried for oneself, the old person, child and wife who let family/home they, think oneself outside good. 更重要的是,就是不想让家里人为自己担心,让家里的老人、小孩、老婆他们,都以为自己在外面过的好. This is also the traditional philosophy of Huaxia many man, the man is a family „the backbone”, having anything is not good, wants to conduct the shoulder, by own family member under blue sky that oneself haunch, is living the worry-free happy life. 这也是华夏很多男人的传统思想,男人是家庭的“顶梁柱”,有什么不好的,都要自己扛着,让自己的家人在自己撑起的一片蓝天下,过着无忧无虑的美好的生活。 Reported remains behind the old people, children and women, thinks of the man in another region, they how unfortunate, but thinks in turn. These are forced to leave native place the men who fight for outside, don't they want the parental wife and children at home they? 很多报道说留守老人、小孩和妇女们,是多么想念远在他乡的男人,她们是多么地不幸,但是反过来想想。那些背井离乡在外面打拼的男人们,难道他们不想在家里的父母妻儿他们吗？ Each man was forced to leave native place to arrive at the strange city, is crossing before completely different life styles, was not familiar with, how helpless, whenever the curtain of night approached, the lonely helpless man, except for in the tattered room, thought of the wife and children and old people in hometown, secretly moved outside, how can also. 每一个男人背井离乡来到陌生的城市了,过着与自己以前完全不同的生活方式,也是多么地不习惯,多么地无奈,每当夜幕来临的时候,寂寞无奈的男人,除了在破烂的房间里,想念远在故乡的妻儿和老人们,暗自伤感外,又能够咋样呢。 Many people said that the man bleeds does not burst into tears, actually these are the bullshits, but most men burst into tears, will not make others know when wife and children parents, actually many men sometimes think of family/home, is hides in the bedding alone, bursts into tears secretly. Will not make anybody know, particularly own family member. 很多人说男人流血不流泪,其实那些都是屁话,只是大多数男人流泪的时候,不会让别人知道而已,其实很多男人有时候想念家里的妻儿父母时,也是自己独自躲在被窝里,暗自流泪的。不会让任何人知道,尤其是自己的家人。 Regarding Huaxia man, when he has not married, perhaps will not think so many, crossing is being the worry-free child life, at this time. Perhaps is in the man life, time that only does not have too many pressures. 对于华夏男人来说,在他还没有结婚的时候,或许不会想那么多,过着还是无忧无虑的孩子般的生活,这个时候。或许是男人一生中,唯一一段没有太多压力的时光。 But when the man marriage of Huaxia, has the child, family formation time, in the mind of this man will fill to this family's responsibility, takes the warmest harbor the home, will perform the maximum effort to maintain this family. 但当华夏的男人结婚,有孩子,成立家庭的时候,这个男人的脑海里就会充满对这个家庭的责任,把这个家作为自己最温暖的港湾,会尽自己最大的努力来维护这个家庭。 The family is a root of man, is this man extension of life, to man. The family is the start of own dream, will be the place that the dream finished, „returning home”, to the man, will die in own family/home is most perfect, after all here will be the final home to return. 家庭是一个男人的根,是这个男人的生命的延续,对男人来说。家庭是自己的梦的开始,也将是自己梦结束的地方,“落叶归根”,对男人来说,死在自己的家里才是最完美的,毕竟这里就是自己最后的归宿。 Naturally has this type in Huaxia „returning home” thought that incessantly is the man, regarding woman. Also is this. 当然在华夏有这种“落叶归根”思想的,不止是男人,对于女人来说。也是这样的。 Some serious illness person in the hospital, knew oneself are dying immediately. Will be delivered to the home by own family member oneself, died in own family/home silently. 一些得重病的人在医院里,得知自己马上就要死了。都会让自己的家人把自己送到自己家里,默默地在自己家里死去。 They hope that can before dying, finally has a look at own family/home, the family/home that this is full of the joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, has a look at own family member, until has to close the eyes finally. That is also the end of life. 他们希望能在死之前,最后地看看自己的家,这个充满喜怒哀乐的家,看看自己的家人,直到最后不得不合眼的时候。那也是自己生命的终结。 „Un, Grandfather, my family courtyard is very big, the room are many, you can come momentarily. I think that the thin bamboo thin bamboo also thinks you very much live to us.” “嗯,爷爷,我家院子很大,房间很多,你随时都可以来。我想箐箐也很想你到我们家住的。” leaf Rongyao said, actually the leaf glory also thinks to let the old person, in village such environment good point place, when previous was good to his body some time. 叶荣耀说道,其实叶荣耀也认为让老人,在乡村这样环境好点的地方,待上一段时间对他的身体是非常有好处了。 „Good, some days I have arrived at your granddaughter's husband to live in some time.” “好,过些天我就到你这个孙女婿家住一段时间。” Old Master willow said. Since retiring, Old Master willow in south, was unable to take a walk while oneself, south goes again. 柳老爷子说道。自从退休,柳老爷子就没有在去过南方了,趁着自己还能走动,再去南方吧。 „Brother-in-law, I must arrive at your to go.” The willow tree said. “姐夫,我也要到你那去。”柳兮兮说道。 „Hehe, when you take summer vacation go again.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. Today must go home, leaf glorious is especially happy. “呵呵,等你放暑假再去吧。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。今天就要回家了,叶荣耀心情特好。 ...... …… Motorcoach that leaf Rongyao rides, is the morning 10 o'clock motorcoaches, the leaf glory refuses the Liu family to see off to the station, but sits „old 11” truck unloading first half hour to moving station. 叶荣耀坐的动车,是上午十点50的动车,叶荣耀拒绝柳家人到车站送行,而是坐着“老十一”的车提前半个小时到动车站。 After all the motorcoach is like the airplane, to selecting, walks immediately, not specially and the others, you, if missed the time, can only wait for the next bus service. 毕竟动车和飞机一样,到点了,就立刻走,不会特意地等人的,你要是错过了时间,就只能等下一班车了。 From Capital City to the motorcoach of Yangping district, day of one school grade order, missed the motorcoach of this school grade order, the leaf glory must wait tomorrow, this was the leaf glory is not willing to see. 从京城到阳平县的动车,一天只有一个班次,错过了这个班次的动车,叶荣耀就要等明天了,这是叶荣耀不愿意见到的。 Therefore ahead of time arrives at the station, online buys tickets, time that you require to consider ticketing. 所以提前到动车站,在网上购票,你要考虑取票的时间。 After all the artificial ticket booth, is the automatic ticketing machine, must line up ticketing, if meets person many times, lining up arranges for over a half hour, that is also very normal matter. 毕竟无论是人工售票点,还是自动取票机,都是要排队取票的,要是遇到人多的时候,排队排半个小时以上,那也是非常正常不过的事情。 Because today is not the legal holiday of country, moved the station ticket booth not to have the person of buying a ticket, the leaf glory to arrange actually about ten minutes teams, was one's turn position that automatic ticketing machine that moved the station. 因为今天不是什么国家的法定假日,动车站售票点倒是没有很多买票的人,叶荣耀排了十分钟左右的队,就轮到了动车站的自动取票机的位置。 Now the science and technology was developed, this ticketing can not use the artificial window, can arrive at the automatic ticketing on the airplane ticketing. 现在科技发达了,这取票都可以不用到人工的窗口了,可以到自动取票机上取票。 The operation also very much simply, is under the point ticketing the position, puts the induction region the ID card, will show that your online purchase the information of moving ticket, presses down the printing directly, can print to set out the ticket. 操作也很简直,就是点下取票位置,把身份证放到感应区域,就会显示你网上购买的动车票的信息,直接按下打印,就能打印出动车票了。 „Thank you, troubled you for several days.” “谢谢你,这些天麻烦你了。” No matter how said, oneself for several days in Capital City, this „old 11” good, after saddle lead horse, the leaf glory is very satisfactory. 不管怎么说,自己这些天在京城,这“老十一”还是不错的,鞍前马后的,叶荣耀还是很满意。 „Mr. leaf, you were polite, can at your service is my being honored, Mr. leaf will come to Capital City to inform me next time, I am within call.” “叶先生,您客气了,能为你服务是我的荣幸,叶先生下次来京城一定要通知我,我随叫随到。” „Old 11” said happily. Can obtain the leaf glory „thanks”, makes „old 11” feel own these days effort has not been in vain. “老十一”高兴地说道。能得到叶荣耀的“谢谢”,让“老十一”觉得自己这些天的努力没有白费。 „Good, this, you also go back.” “好的,就这样,你也回去吧。” leaf Rongyao said, takes the baggage to walk toward the waiting room. 叶荣耀说完,就提着行李往候车室走去。 Through checking and security check, the leaf glory entered moved the station, now 10 : 30, the leaf glory is proposing the company transport, looked for a position to sit in the waiting room waits for a train. 通过检票和安检,叶荣耀进入了动车站,现在才十点半不到,叶荣耀提着小行李,就在候车室里找了个位置坐着候车。 The capital city is the metropolis, in the waiting room can see many foreigners worthily, has the black skin, white skin . Moreover the pretty girl are also many. 京市不愧是大都市,候车室里可以看到很多老外,有黑皮肤的、白皮肤的,而且漂亮的女孩子也很多。 Sits several girls opposite of leaf glory, long very young attractive, naturally this is the result of putting on make-up, after taking off one's jewelry, what kind of, the leaf glory does not know. 就坐在叶荣耀对面的几个女孩子,都长的很年轻漂亮,当然这是化妆的结果,至于卸妆后,到底怎么样,叶荣耀就不知道了。 However young is the woman biggest qualification, the woman wants young, is not the long special ugly that type, by putting on make-up and dressing up, can turn into a big beautiful woman. 不过年轻就是女人最大的本钱,女人只要年轻,不是长的特丑的那种类型,靠化妆和打扮,也是可以变成一个大美女的。 The metropolis girls will dress up very much, the wear, is putting on make-up on face, is not the girls in leaf glorious hometown these small places can compare. 大都市里的女孩子都很会打扮,无论是穿着,还是脸上的化妆,都不是叶荣耀家乡那些小地方的女孩子能比的。 Therefore looks like in many people, the beautiful woman in metropolis specially many, besides the population base of metropolis many, a very important reason, will be the metropolis girl will pack itself specially. 所以在很多人看来,大都市的美女特别地多,除了大都市的人口基数多外,还有一个非常重要的原因,就是大都市里的女孩子特别地会包装自己。 Knows how can appear by oneself specially attractive, regarding present many women, beautiful is three points of day is doomed, seven points by dressing up. 知道怎么才能让自己显得特别地漂亮,对于现在很多女人来说,美丽是三分天注定,七分靠打扮来的。 Also does not know if own wife dresses up like them, does not know that attractively to what degree, the leaf glory thinks on some anticipations. 也不知道自己老婆要是像她们这样打扮的话,不知道会漂亮到何种程度,叶荣耀想想就有些期待。 However thinks own wife is pregnant now, the leaf glory also eliminated the idea of letting own wife heavy powder. 不过一想到自己老婆现在怀孕了,叶荣耀也就打消了让自己老婆化浓妆的想法。 After all what cosmetics, will have the injury to the body, is only the degree of injury is different, the woman of pregnancy, best do not melt the heavy powder, is the pale makeup, little does as far as possible, after all the cosmetics are the chemistry thing, in the baby to woman belly is not good. 毕竟无论是什么化妆品,都会对身体有伤害的,只是伤害的程度不一样而已,怀孕的女人,最好是不要化浓妆,就是淡妆,也尽量少做,毕竟化妆品都是化学用品,对女人肚子里的婴儿不好。 Quick, the notice that in the waiting room transmits the leaf glory to sit the motorcoach of school grade order enters the station to wait for a train, the leaf glory stands the following crowd to line up to examine documents, enters waiting platform and other car(riage)s. 很快,候车室里传来叶荣耀要坐的班次的动车进站候车的通知,叶荣耀站起来跟着人群排队验票,进候车站台等车。 Motorcoach leads can be said as very high on time, 10:50 entire, the motorcoach advances the site, what the leaf glory sits is 07 car(riage) 15 a places. 动车的准点率可以说是非常高的,十点50整,动车开进站点,叶荣耀坐的是07车15a号座。 Because is the place of departure, in leaf glory compartment time, on seat no one, but the leaf glory is depending on the window position to sit not to have two minutes, another two passengers also arrived. 因为是始发地,叶荣耀上车厢的时候,座位上没有人,不过叶荣耀在靠窗户位置坐好没有两分钟,另外两位乘客也来到了。 Is pair of mother and daughter, old general idea over 40 years old, young general idea 20 over appearances, appearance long also has calculated going, can calculate on beautiful woman. 是一对母女,年龄大的大概四十多岁,年轻的大概二十出头的样子,容貌长的还算过的去,也可以算的上美女。 After all the girl wants young, the skin white spot, the facial features are not bad, so long as dresses up slightly, is very attractive, was beautiful women. 毕竟女孩子只要年轻,皮肤白点,五官不差,只要稍微打扮一下,都很好看,都是美女了。 However this arrives does not have the attraction leaf glory anything vision, but looked at several, remembered the approximate appearance of opposite party be good, after all was away from home, to at own person and matter, and peripheral environment must pay attention, safety first. 不过这到没有吸引叶荣耀什么目光,只是多看了几眼,记住对方的大致的长相就好了,毕竟出门在外,对在自己身边的人和事,以及周边环境都要留意点,安全第一啊。 The quick motorcoach started, idles the bored leaf glory to take up the cell phone, puts on the ear plug to start to watch the movie, the soap opera that the leaf glory this time watches is «Deer and Cauldron». 很快动车就启动了,闲着无聊的叶荣耀就拿起手机,戴上耳塞开始看电影,叶荣耀这次看的电视剧是《鹿鼎记》。 «Deer and Cauldron» is the movie that renowned comedian Zhou Xingxing plays the lead, from beginning to end is full of the comedy style of not making sense, this comedy style, by the present movie critics that was said what this is the obsolete movie, fondness of not suitable present person. 《鹿鼎记》是著名的喜剧演员周星星主演的电影,从头到尾充满无厘头的喜剧风格,这种喜剧风格,被现在的那么影评人们说什么这是过时的电影,不适合现在人的喜好。 However these glory do not understand, does not understand where was obsolete, the leaf glory felt the movie that in any case this Zhou Xingxing makes is attractive, this «Deer and Cauldron», the leaf glory looked at two, likes looking again. 不过这些叶荣耀不懂,也不明白哪里过时了,反正叶荣耀觉得这周星星拍的电影就是好看,这部《鹿鼎记》,叶荣耀都看了两遍了,还是喜欢再看。 ...... …… „Mother, my cell phone did not have the electricity, I went to the washroom went to the sufficient under electricity.” Deng Jie to sitting said in oneself mother. “妈,我手机没电了,我去洗手间的去充下电。”邓婕对坐在自己身边的母亲说道。 In receptacle that the position of motorcoach seat has not charged, only then has the charge place in the washroom of motorcoach, if needs anxiously to the cell phone charge, can only to there charge. 在动车座位的位置是没有充电的插口的,只有在动车的洗手间上才有充电的地方,如果需要急着给手机充电的话,只能到那里充电。 „Goes.” “去吧。” Deng Jie's mother complied with the sound, continued to close one's eyes the rest. 邓婕的母亲应了声,就继续闭着眼睛休息了。 Motorcoach each compartment attachment point will have a washroom, the passenger can go to bathroom or wash the hands, there is an attaching plug, many passenger cell phones did not have the electricity, will go to there charge. 动车每一节车厢连接处都会有一个洗手间,乘客可以上厕所或者洗手,也有电源插头,很多乘客手机没电了,也会去那里充电。 Deng Jie arrives at the washroom, inside plug was being used, but under that person stands gets out, Deng Jie is therefore waiting in the washroom, after all the words, the position of this charge, might be given to occupy by others, the person who after all a compartment, a place of such charge, must use were quite many. 邓婕来到洗手间,不过里面的插座被人用着,不过那个人下一站就下车,邓婕于是就在洗手间等着,毕竟不等的话,这充电的位置,就有可能被别人给占了,毕竟一节车厢,就这么一个充电的地方,要用的人比较多。 „Beautiful woman, your cell phone must charge, right?” About 40 years old, puts on the middle-aged train of police uniform to come while the sheriff, asked to Deng Jie. “美女,你手机是要充电,对吗？”一位四十岁左右,穿着警服的中年列车乘警长过来,向邓婕问道。