„Has not been seeing, but has a look at the picture, a very pretty girl.” The little four sons somewhat said embarrassed. “还没见着呢,不过看看照片,挺漂亮的一个女孩子。”小肆儿有些不好意思地说道。 „Hurries, now pretty girl very marketable, you may probably grasp.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. “赶紧啊,现在漂亮的女孩子可是很抢手的啊,你可要抓紧了。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „But the girls have not spoken now, agrees to meet, when meets.” “可人家女孩子现在还没有发话,同不同意见面,什么时候见面呢。” The little four sons somewhat said depressed. Now continues the village, is nearby several villages, girl who so long as can get married, in the family/home was the matchmaker is lining up to come to introduce the object, the girl is popular now, being on intimate terms, both parties met, must line up to come, you worried is also useless. 小肆儿有些郁闷地说道。现在不止自己村,就是附近几个村子,只要到了可以结婚的女孩子,家里都是媒人排着队地上门介绍对象,女孩子现在吃香了,相亲,男女双方见面,都要排队一个一个地来,你着急也没有用。 The bride's side also think that selects slowly, which ponders over with the family member together appropriately, which chooses to marry. 人家女方还想一个个慢慢地挑,跟家里人一起琢磨哪个最合适,才选择嫁哪个。 Therefore this both parties meet, is very important, parents who so long as the boy can let the bride's side, what naturally is most important is the girl of being on intimate terms is satisfied, this matter ninety percent sure. 所以这个男女双方见面,是很重要的,只要男孩子能让女方的父母,当然最重要的是相亲的女孩子满意的话,这个事情就十拿九稳了。 If the parents of bride's side satisfied, the girl is unsatisfied, is useless, now before was not, was not the arranged marriage, was fastidious free to choose a mate. 要是女方的父母满意了,女孩子不满意的话,也是没有用的,现在不在是以前了,不在是包办婚姻了,讲究自由恋爱。 Although said that this being on intimate terms, cannot be free to choose a mate in the true sense, but the good and evil also wants the daughter to like being good, if oneself daughter does not like, marrying is not for a lifetime happy. 虽然说这个相亲,不能算是真正意义上的自由恋爱,但好歹也要自己女儿喜欢才好,要是自己女儿不喜欢的话,嫁过去一辈子也不会幸福的。 „You asked your father mother to urge the matchmaker, not good wrapped a red packet to the matchmaker, if arrived at front by others, was a pity.” “你叫你爸妈去催催媒人啊,不行给媒人包个红包啊,要是被别人走到前头的,就可惜了。” leaf Rongyao said. Must know that this being on intimate terms both parties meet, basically is the matchmaker arranges, who arranges in front, who arranges in behind, is calculations that the matchmaker said that arranged got certainly the advantage at the front person, once the bride's side were satisfied with that boy, did not have the following person anything matter. 叶荣耀说道。要知道这相亲男女双方见面,基本上都是媒人安排的,谁安排在前面,谁安排在后面,都是媒人说的算,排在前面的人当然是占优势了,一旦女方对那个男孩子满意的话,就没有后面的人什么事情了。 Therefore the leaf glory was called the little four sons to make his parents wrap the red packet to the matchmaker, must know the quality of boy, by matchmaker that opened mouth. 所以叶荣耀才叫小肆儿让他父母给媒人包红包,要知道男孩子的好坏,都是靠媒人的那一张嘴啊。 Must know being on intimate terms time. Only the matchmaker can get the boy to arrive girl home, looks to the girl and girl's family member, the family members of groom's family cannot with the past, only if the bride's side is very satisfied with the boy, immediately must become engaged, both guardians will sit together discussed engagement the matter of bridegroom's gift to bride's family. 要知道相亲的时候。只有媒人才可以领着男孩子到女孩子家,给女孩子和女孩子的家人看的,男方的家人是不能跟过去的,除非女方对男孩子很满意,马上就要订婚了,双方家长才会坐在一起谈订婚的彩礼的事情。 Being on intimate terms time, most important time. The first time is the boy went to the bride's side home, to impression that the bride's side in the family/home makes. Also is the so-called first impression, this is very important. 相亲的时候,最重要的时候。就是男孩子第一次去女方家,给女方家里留下的印象。也就是所谓的第一印象,这是很重要的。 At this time the function of matchmaker came out, after all the man to the bride's side family/home, how cannot for the first time many words, cannot promote itself, in that case, will give the guardian not solid impression of bride's side. 这时候媒人的作用就出来,毕竟男人第一次到女方家,怎么地也不能多话,也不能自己鼓吹自己,那样的话,就会给女方的家长一种不实在的印象。 This depended on the matchmaker, the matchmaker was the two sides receives money, since both parties looked for this matchmaker. Trusts this matchmaker, the words that the matchmaker spoke, the bride's side believes very much. 这就靠媒人了,媒人是两边收钱的,男女双方既然找了这个媒人。就是信任这个媒人,媒人说的话,女方还是很相信的。 So long as the coal person gives you to blow, praised to become a flower you, the bride's side will be very good to your impression, your chance of success was very high. 只要煤人给你多吹吹,把你夸成一朵花,女方对你的印象就会很好,你成功的几率就很高的。 Naturally this premise, you give the money of matchmaker. Compared with high that others give, the person who after all in the rural area is the professional matchmaker, does not want to make money. 当然这个前提,你给媒人的钱。要比别人给的高,毕竟农村里做职业媒人的人,不就是想挣些钱啊。 Therefore , these years, make making money of very matchmaker, because both parties, so long as became. Must to the matchmaker money, the engagement time must , the marriage time must give. 所以说,这些年,做媒人的很挣钱,因为男女双方只要成了。都是要给媒人钱的,订婚的时候要给,结婚的时候也要给。 Even both parties are inadequate, the groom's family must to the matchmaker the laborious money, making him continue to look for the object to own son. 就算男女双方不成,男方还得给媒人辛苦钱,让他继续给自己的儿子物色对象。 Sometimes, feared own son will not speak that side the bride's side, speaking incorrectly words. Needs the matchmaker to look in the , but also wanted the matchmaker to speak some words of praise that side the bride's side, must wrap the red packet. 有时候,怕自己儿子在女方那边不会说话,说错话。需要媒人在边上看着,还要媒人在女方那边多说些好话,也是要包红包的。 A matchmaker talking pair, this income is very objective, the words Yangping district, the luck good words, the matchmaker help discussed that pair of words, the matchmaker has tens of thousands income. 一个媒人给谈成一对的话,这收入可是很客观的,在阳平县这边的话,运气好的话,媒人帮忙谈成一对的话,媒人有好几万的收入。 Naturally this runs into the extravagant family, ordinary circumstances one after next, discussed that pair of words, the matchmaker will have the income of two and 3000 dollars. 当然这是遇到阔绰的家庭,一般情况下下,谈成一对的话,媒人会有两、三千块钱的收入的。 „Un, I went back to say with my parents.” “嗯,我回去跟我爸妈说说。” The little four sons said. After all the little four sons also want to marry a pretty wife, sees a pretty girl rarely, the little four sons also want to try hard, girls catching up. 小肆儿说道。毕竟小肆儿也想娶个漂亮的媳妇啊,难得看到一个漂亮的女孩子,小肆儿也想努力一把,把人家女孩子给追上。 „When the time comes, has what me to help, you gnaw one.” “到时候,有什么我帮忙的,你就啃一声。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. leaf Rongyao also thinks that this little brother can also look for the point to get married and begin a career, is a man mature, to a great extent depends on him to have the marriage. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。叶荣耀也想自己这个小弟也能找点成家立业,一个男人成不成熟,很大程度上取决于他有没有结婚。 Without the man of marriage, in the words of country dweller, is the child of being able to grow up, is, when the child looked that is the big kid looked, the family members and relatives regard the child the same as regard your. 没有结婚的男人,在农村人的话里,是长不大的孩子,是要被当孩子看的,就是大孩子看,家里人和亲戚们都是看待小孩子一样看待你的。 But marriage, was different, you were an Sir, was a family's head of household, must regard an Sir to look you, cannot again with looking at the attitude of child to you. 可是结了婚后,就不一样了,你是大人了,是一个家庭的家主了,要把你当成一个大人看了,不能再用看小孩的态度对你了。 „Un, thanks the glorious elder brother.” The little four sons said. “嗯,谢谢荣耀哥。”小肆儿说道。 „My does not have any matter, this pond must soak several days of water, you for these days the matter that hurried to be busy at you being on intimate terms.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. “我这里没有什么事情了,这池塘还要泡几天的水,你这几天还是赶紧去忙你相亲的事情吧。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 This pond just dug, certainly must let the water soaks several days later, again these sewages pulling out, again pours into the new water, can breed fish, the present pond cement taste is too heavy, cannot breed fish. 这池塘刚挖好,肯定是要让水浸泡几天后,再把这些脏水给抽出去,再注入新水,才能养鱼,现在的池塘水泥味太重,是不能养鱼的。 „Good, glorious elder brother, you , if there is matter to call me, I am within call.” The little four son points said. “好的,荣耀哥,你要是有事就给我打电话,我随叫随到的。”小肆儿点点说道。 „Goes, goes, I also wait for you to lead to show me the wife.” leaf Rongyao said with a smile. “去吧,去吧,我还等着你把媳妇领过来给我看看呢。”叶荣耀笑道。 ...... …… Quick that the time passes, new year in January must pass in an instant, the water also immersion of pond was similar, the leaf glory lets loose the strobe of pond, spent the half-day time, gives to bleed off the water of entire pond completely, was this pond was too mainly big, occupied a land area of more than 40 mu. 时间过的很快,转眼新年的正月就要过去了,池塘的水也浸泡的差不多了,叶荣耀放开池塘的闸门,花了半天的时间,才把整个池塘的水全部给放掉,主要是这个池塘太大了,占地四十多亩。 After turning off the strobe, the leaf glory does not need specially the flood water, in this pond has several mouths, ten day and Batiandi, water in this pond will have filled. 关好闸门后,叶荣耀也不需要特意地注入水,这池塘里有好几个泉眼,过个十天、八天地,这池塘的水自己就会满的。 Now what the leaf glory considers, own wife birthday will draw near, oneself should buy what gift to be good for her, tomorrow, will be in January of lunar calendar 28, March 6 of solar calendar, was the wife willow Qingqing 20 th birthday. 现在叶荣耀考虑的是,自己的老婆生日快到了,自己该给她买什么礼物好,明天,也就是农历的正月二十八,公历的3月6号,就是自己老婆柳箐箐20岁的生日了。 Must know that willow Qingqing married the two years, oneself have not accompanied her to celebrate a birthday, has not bought the celebrating a birthday gift for her. 要知道柳箐箐嫁给自己都两年了,自己都没有陪她过过一个生日,也没有给她买过生日礼物。 At that time, oneself bastard even, were not many said that now had been repentant, oneself wife willow Qingqing the birthday to oneself, is significant. 那时候,自己混蛋也就算了,也不多说了,现在自己已经悔悟了,自己老婆柳箐箐的这个生日对自己来说,是意义重大的。 Meanwhile, leaf Rongyao believes that regarding own wife willow Qingqing, the birthday of this year, is the similar significance is significant. 同时,叶荣耀相信,对于自己老婆柳箐箐来说,今年的这个生日,也是同样意义重大的。 Yesterday evening leaf glory had not had a good sleep in the evening, has been considering gave what gift the wife to be good to oneself, by the present has not thought that let the satisfied gift. 昨天晚上叶荣耀一个晚上都没有睡好,一直都在考虑送什么礼物给自己老婆好,到现在都没有想到一个让自己满意的礼物。 Delivers the ring. 送戒指。 This leaf glory has delivered. 这个叶荣耀已经送过了。 Delivers the necklace and bracelet. 送项链、手镯。 leaf Rongyao thought that was too uncouth. 叶荣耀觉得太俗气了。 Gives the cloth dolls and small accessory these things. 送布娃娃、小饰品这些东西。 leaf Rongyao feels too petty, with does not act. 叶荣耀又觉得太小家子气,拿不出手。 leaf Rongyao thinks in any case is very long, has not thought that the wife gives what birthday present to oneself. 反正叶荣耀想了很久,都没有想到给自己老婆送什么生日礼物。 Tomorrow was wife's birthday, the leaf glory really worried very much. 明天就是自己老婆的生日了,叶荣耀真的很着急啊。 If not buy the gift today, the leaf glory was worried own tomorrow does not have the time the wife to buy the gift for oneself, after all tomorrow the wife birthday, the leaf glory will prepare to go to the kitchen to oneself the wife makes table of delicious food, accompanies the wife to celebrate her 20 th birthday. 要是今天不去买礼物的话,叶荣耀担心自己明天没有时间给自己老婆买礼物,毕竟明天自己老婆生日,叶荣耀准备下厨给自己老婆做一桌美味的菜肴,陪自己老婆过她的20岁的生日。 This does grocery shopping and prepares food, has custom-made the cake, but consumes the time very much, where also has, was considered to buy the matter of gift by oneself. 这买菜、做菜,定制蛋糕,可都是很耗时间的,哪里还有什么时间,让自己考虑买礼物的事情啊。 Therefore, the wife buys the matter of birthday present for oneself, must handle today. Now quick noon, the leaf glory has not found out a clue. 所以,给自己老婆买生日礼物的事情,就必须在今天搞定。现在都快中午了,叶荣耀还没有想出一个头绪。 Right, the woman most understands the woman, why not oneself ask the woman who oneself know to give advice to oneself. 对了,女人是最了解女人的,自己何不找自己认识的女人给自己参谋参谋呢。 Thinks of here, leaf glorious eye one bright. 想到这里,叶荣耀眼睛不由地一亮。 Right, manages. 对,就这么办。 leaf Rongyao filtered the young girl who oneself knew. 叶荣耀把自己认识的年轻的女孩子过滤了一遍。 king Meng? 王萌？ This girl is too young, was a high-school student, the leaf glory directly excluding. 这个丫头年龄太小,还是个高中生,叶荣耀直接给排除在外了。 Ma Lin, leaf Shuting, Ye Xiaojuan? 马琳、叶舒婷、叶小娟？ Also quick, these three females also by the leaf glory denying, these three females followed quite near oneself wives, if that mouth is lax, asks itself them to refer for oneself the wife buys the matter of birthday present, oneself do not have the face very much. 也很快,这三女也被叶荣耀给否定了,这三女跟自己老婆都走得比较近,要是那个嘴不严,把自己找她们参考给自己老婆买生日礼物的事情,自己岂不是很没面子啊。 Except for these females, the leaf glory discovered oneself knew that relates with the good woman, but also really few. 除了这几个女的,叶荣耀发现自己认识的,关系跟自己不错的女人,还真的没有几个了。 Warm hypericum? 温海棠？ leaf Rongyao also shook the head to deny, this was the junior middle school time has liked the woman, the leaf glory asks her to refer to oneself for oneself the wife buys the birthday present. 叶荣耀也摇摇头否定了,这是自己初中时代喜欢过的女人,叶荣耀找她给自己参考给自己老婆买生日礼物。 How to feel irritable. 怎么都觉得别扭。 As for oneself that several cousins and younger female cousin, although everyone is the relativeness, was jokes aside, the leaf glory related same as them, even the telephone number of opposite party, the leaf glory does not know, do not say asked them to refer to this matter. 至于自己那几个表妹、堂妹的,虽然大家都是亲戚关系,可是说真的,叶荣耀跟她们关系一般般,甚至连对方的电话号码,叶荣耀也不知道,更不要说找她们参考这个事情了。 Knows the young girl who filters one after own mind, leaf Rongyao found, only then a woman can help itself, that is willow Yifei, that young attractive female official. 把自己脑海里认识的年轻女孩子过滤一遍后,叶荣耀发现,只有一个女人可以帮自己,那就是柳亦菲,那个年轻漂亮的女官员。 Thinks of her, the leaf glory puts out the cell phone to dial willow Yifei the telephone number. 想到她,叶荣耀就拿出手机拨通柳亦菲的电话号码。 „Glorious elder brother, how you have free time to give me to telephone, I think that you gave to forget me.” “荣耀哥,你怎么有空给我打电话啊,我以为你都把我给忘了。” In willow Yifei of county party committee office work looked the phone call that the leaf glory makes, went out by own secretary, gate guanhao, after pressing the answering key, said jokingly. 在县委办公室办公的柳亦菲一看叶荣耀打过来的电话,就让自己的秘书出去,把门关好,按了接听键后开玩笑地说道。 Because on willow Yi Phoebe glory small several months, therefore is also like this leaf Shuting, the name leaf glory is the glorious elder brother. 因为柳亦菲比叶荣耀小上几个月,所以也跟这叶舒婷一样,称呼叶荣耀为荣耀哥。 „Goes to work?” “上班没？” leaf Rongyao asked. 叶荣耀问道。 „Went to work good long some time, in the relevant authority, how long new years vacation can, it seems like you not understand the work of authority.” willow Yifei smiles said. “上班都好长一段时间了,在政府部门工作,能有多长的年假啊,看来你不了解政府部门的工作。”柳亦菲笑笑地说道。 „I am not an official, lazy understood.” “我又不是公务员,懒的去了解。” leaf Rongyao said. The leaf glory long is so big, although knows the leading figures of several departments, has almost not actually gone to the authority to handle the matter, naturally the matter of previous police station, is only an accident/surprise. 叶荣耀说道。叶荣耀长这么大,虽然认识好几个部门的领导人物,却几乎没有去过政府部门办过事情,当然上次警察局的事情,只是个意外。 leaf Rongyao contacts most, is the village committee of Taoyuan Village, is this authority, the leaf glory does not know. 叶荣耀接触最多,就是桃源村的村委会,这算不算政府部门,叶荣耀也不知道。