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#295: Pays new year's call to the uncle's family

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Has ended the lunar New Year's Day, must start to pay new year's call, the different places, the order of paying new year's call is different, in the Yangping district, the reason that because generally stands night watch, 1 st does not pay new year's call in January, elder there that goes to the main family many gives some presents, will not pay new year's call officially in January 1 st. 过完大年初一,就要开始拜年的,不同的地方,拜年的顺序是不同的,在阳平县,一般由于守夜的原因,正月初一是不拜年的,最多去本家的长辈那里送些礼品,正式拜年不会在正月初一的。 In January starting from 2 nd, the flow of new year paying new year's call started. 正月初二开始,新年的拜年的流程开始了。 Just like many places, new year pays new year's call to pays respects the father-in-law family/home for the first time, looks like in the Huaxia person, the son-in-law is half stature, the son-in-law asked the father-in-law mother -in-law also to call the parents, the first stand that therefore this paid new year's call absolutely was the father-in-law family/home. 和很多地方一样,新年的第一次拜年都是到拜老丈人家的,在华夏人看来,女婿就是半个儿,女婿叫岳父岳母也是要叫爸妈的,所以这拜年的第一站绝对是老丈人家。 Even if the new year banquet of father-in-law family/home is not placed in 2 nd, this pays new year's call must first arrive father-in-law home, this is unchangeable, otherwise appeared you to be innocent. 哪怕老丈人家的新年酒席不是摆在初二,这拜年也要先到老丈人家,这是不能改变的,要不然就显得你不懂事了。 3 rd started to pay new year's call at will were many, after all nowadays which family/home had an important goods relative, if this according to the rank, according to the custom came, this did obeisance to do obeisance in January 15 unable to do obeisance in the new year. 初三开始拜年就随意多了,毕竟这年头谁家都有一大帮亲戚,这要是按辈分,按规矩来的话,这拜新年拜到正月十五都拜不完的。 Therefore many relatives reached an agreement early, each other staggers, invited in the new year the banquet in turn, your family ate noon, my family ate the evening and ensure each family did not fail. 所以很多亲戚都早早地商量好了,彼此错开,轮流请新年酒席,你家吃中午,我家吃晚上,保证家家不落空。 The leaf glory father-in-law is who does not know, does not know where own father-in-law lives, paid new year's call to the father-in-law is unable to mention. 只是叶荣耀连自己老丈人是谁都不知道,也不知道自己的老丈人家住在哪里,给老丈人拜年就无从说起了。 However cannot the father-in-law pay new year's call to oneself, today the leaf glory prepares to lead own wife to pay new year's call, mother's the uncles in maternal home pays new year's call to oneself. 不过不能给自己老丈人拜年,今天叶荣耀还是准备带着自己的媳妇去拜年,给自己母亲的娘家的舅舅们拜年。 Said that really the leaf glory has more than ten years not to go to several uncle's families , more than ten years have not paid new year's call to the uncles. 说真的叶荣耀已经有十多年没有去自己几个舅舅家了,也有十多年都没有给舅舅们拜年了。 The primary cause was the leaf glory father had a falling out with several uncles, the specific reason seemed like several uncles who were occupied by town/subdues looked down upon the leaf glory father who the rural area came out, then on a banquet, the matter that because drank, got into a deadlock. 主要原因是叶荣耀的父亲跟几个舅舅闹翻了,具体原因好像是自己几个住在镇里的舅舅们看不起农村出来的叶荣耀的父亲,然后在一次酒席上,因为喝酒的事情,闹僵了。 The father of leaf glory is also the unusual stubbornness person, with several brothers in oneself old husband's family's home did not speak starting from that time. 叶荣耀的父亲也是个非常倔脾气的人,从那时候开始就不跟自己老婆家的几个兄弟说话。 But several uncles of leaf glory are also the stubbornness people, without lagging behind the facial skin settles a dispute with the father of leaf glory, such contradiction is longer, particularly after grandfather grandmothers of leaf glory passed away, thoroughly certainly communication. 而叶荣耀的几个舅舅也是个倔脾气的人,也没有拉下脸皮跟叶荣耀的父亲讲和,就这样矛盾越拉越长,尤其是叶荣耀的外公外婆都去世后,就彻底地绝了来往了。 Also communicated with her several brothers besides mother of leaf glory outside. leaf Rongyao with his father urogenous, did not communicate with them. 除了叶荣耀的母亲还跟她几个兄弟来往外。叶荣耀跟他父亲一个尿性,就是不跟他们来往。 Is the leaf glory takes a wife, has not invited the uncle. Must know in the rural area, words that which family/home marries. The uncle is biggest, but the leaf glorious father did not invite wife's several brothers. 就是叶荣耀娶媳妇,都没有请娘舅。要知道在农村,谁家结婚的话。娘舅是最大的,可是叶荣耀父亲就是不请自己老婆的几个兄弟。 The mother of leaf glory is very docile woman, family's matter basically is calculation that the father of leaf glory said that also on the stubborn man, finally the three uncles of leaf glory except for letting the person brings the red packet to come. The people have not come. 叶荣耀的母亲是很温顺的女人,家里的事情基本上都是叶荣耀的父亲说的算,也就拗不过自己男人,最后叶荣耀的三个舅舅除了让人带红包过来。人也没有来。 Was must be never in contact with each other. 算是要老死不相往来了。 However the leaf glorious parents passed away, several uncles came, the person hates deadly disappears, the person died, any enmity of but where also coming, some are moved. 不过叶荣耀父母去世的时候,几个娘舅都过来了,人死仇恨消,人都死了,还哪里来的什么仇啊,有些只是伤感而已。 The people biggest sorrow is the life and death two boundless, once bickered with oneself, the person of battle qi two had separated with own Celestial, what remaining is only the regret of living person. 人们最大的悲哀就是生死两茫茫,曾经跟自己斗嘴,斗气的人已经跟自己天人两隔了,剩下的只是活人的懊悔而已。 Since oneself parents had passed away, oneself father also each other disappeared with oneself several uncles' gratitude and grudges. As a nephew, the leaf glory wants, must pay new year's call to own several uncles. 自从自己的父母已经过世后,自己父亲跟自己几个舅舅的恩恩怨怨也彼此消了。作为一个外甥,叶荣耀要,也必须给自己的几个舅舅拜年了。 „Husband, are my clothes good?” “老公,我这一身衣服还行吗？” willow Qingqing said to the leaf glory. This is willow Qingqing marries leaf glory more than one year, goes to the uncle's family to pay new year's call for the first time, somewhat slightly anxious. 柳箐箐对叶荣耀说道。这是柳箐箐嫁给叶荣耀一年多,第一次去舅舅家拜年,不由地有些小小地紧张。 „Very good, is very attractive, my wife is inborn, wearing what clothes is attractive, naturally does not wear the clothes more attractive.” leaf Rongyao smiles said. “很好,很漂亮,我老婆天生漂亮,穿什么衣服都好看,当然不穿衣服更漂亮。”叶荣耀笑笑地说道。 „Hehe. Repugnant.” “呵呵。讨厌。” willow Qingqing smiles a man to say white. 柳箐箐笑笑白了一眼自己男人说道。 „I moved to these presents the vehicle.” “我把这些礼品搬到车上了。” The leaf glory took six bottles of Wuliangye liquor to walk toward the front courtyard, these liquor were not leaf glory buy, was king Bingzhen in the past few days Taoyuan Village time brought specially, there are more than 50 bottles. Has the fine outside wrapping , when lets glorious celebrates the new year to visit relatives the present uses. 说完叶荣耀就拿了六瓶五粮液酒往前院走去,这些酒不是叶荣耀自己买的,是王丙真前些天来桃源村的时候特意带了,有五十多瓶。都有精美外包装,就是让叶荣耀过年走亲戚的时候当礼品用的。 Leaf glory person not the person who is familiar with the guest saying that since king Bingzhen sent, all accepted, this also facilitates itself, new year's celebration time not the present that used to buy anything to pay new year's call again. 叶荣耀这个人也不习惯客道的人,既然王丙真都送来了,也就全收下了,这样也方便自己,过年的时候也不用再去买什么拜年的礼品了。 Pays new year's call the present that in Huaxia gives. Nothing but is the tonic and liquor water, but these years also deliver the cooking oil now popularly, after all this thing, each and every family uses, is not very expensive/noble, is more practical than the liquor. 在华夏拜年送的礼品。无非就是补品和酒水来的,不过现在这些年也流行送食用油了,毕竟这个东西,家家户户都用的着,也不是很贵,比酒实用。 Cooking oil that therefore many families celebrate the new year to receive, one year cannot use up, the present person does not go out to buy the present, that must spend a lot of money after all. 所以很多人家过年收到的食用油,一年都用不完,不过现在的人也不是都出去买礼品的,那毕竟要花不少钱。 Many people others deliver hand over to attain other relative there to pay new year's call the liquor water, tonic and cooking oil this that class present, this can save a lot of money, after all celebrates the new year time, buying these presents is not very really worthwhile, usually also on three and 50 presents, new year's celebration time sold over a hundred, doubled. 很多人都是把别人送的酒水、补品、食用油这类的礼品转手拿到别的亲戚那里拜年,这样可以省下很多钱,毕竟过年的时候,买这些礼品真的很不合算的,平时也就三、五十的礼品,过年的时候都卖上上百了,都翻了一番多了。 This matter, everyone also does not have any tasteful, can understand mutually, actually no issue. 这个事情,大家也没有什么讲究,互相也能理解,倒是没有什么问题。 „How Tingting and haven't Linlin come?” “怎么婷婷和琳琳还没有过来啊？” willow Qingqing has a look at the watch, now quickly to 10 : 00 am, leaf Shuting and Ma Lin has not arrived own home. 柳箐箐看看手表,现在都快到早上 10 点了,叶舒婷和马琳还没有到自己家来。 Must lead leaf Shuting and Ma Lin actually not goes to the uncle's family to pay new year's call together, was mainly noon today did not come back with own man, in the family/home also some so many little fellows must feed at noon, originally wants to ask Aunt Liu to come the help to feed. 倒不是要带叶舒婷和马琳一起去舅舅家拜年,主要是今天中午自己跟自己男人是回不来了,家里还有那么多小家伙中午要喂养,本来是想请刘婶过来帮忙喂养的。 Finally Ma Lin and leaf Shuting these two girls volunteer to do this living, therefore feeds in the family/home today these little fellows lunches gave these two girls exactly. 结果马琳和叶舒婷这两丫头自告奋勇要干这个活,所以今天喂养家里这些小家伙们中午饭的活就交给这两丫头了。 These two girls are far-fetched, now nearly ten points, have not seen the forms of these two girls. 只是这两丫头也太不靠谱了,现在都快十点了,都还没有见到这两丫头的身影。 „All right, is not anxious, possibly they came quickly.” “没事,不急,可能她们很快就来了。” leaf Rongyao smiles said. Now before being different, before the art paid new year's call to as early as possible, present person's evening's activity were too many, If nothing else, this played cards plays all night being not infrequent in the evening, too, many people had not gotten out of bed early. 叶荣耀笑笑地说道。现在不同以前,以前讲究拜年要趁早,现在的人晚上的活动太多了,别的不说,这打牌晚上玩通宵的不在少数,太早了,很多人都还没有起床呢。 Therefore now the person does not pay new year's call before the resembles that early, after all you pass, your relative is still sleeping has the possibility. 所以现在人拜年不在像以前那么早了,毕竟你过去,你的亲戚还在睡觉都是有可能的。 „I feared that the uncle they blame us to go late.” willow Qingqing said. “我怕舅舅他们怪我们去的迟啊。”柳箐箐说道。 „All right, look, didn't they come?” leaf Rongyao points at leaf Shuting and Ma Lin who two females slightly are running in the family/home courtyard to own wife said. “没事的,看,她们不是来了吗？”叶荣耀指着小跑进自己家院子的叶舒婷和马琳两女对自己老婆说道。 „Glorious elder brother, the Tingting elder sister was embarrassed we to get up is too late.” leaf Shuting somewhat embarrassed said to the leaf glory and willow Qingqing. “荣耀哥,婷婷姐不好意思我们起来太晚了。”叶舒婷有些不好意思地对叶荣耀和柳箐箐说道。 „Was this day was too mainly cold, lay down does not want to come out in the bedding, the result looked with the cell phone, around 9 : 00.” Ma Lin somewhat blushes said. “主要是这天太冷了,躺在被窝里都不想出来,结果拿手机一看,都九点多了。”马琳有些脸红地说道。 Too was truly cold over the two days, the words that this morning temperature quick ten degrees below zero, must pay new year's call, the leaf glory does not want to get out of bed. 确实这两天太冷了,这早上的气温都快零下十度了,要不是要拜年的话,叶荣耀也都不想起床了。 „Hehe, ok, in the family/home gave you.” leaf Rongyao smiles said to two females. “呵呵,好了,家里就交给你们了。”叶荣耀笑笑地对两女说道。 „Relax, gave us to be good, you felt at ease to pay new year's call.” Ma Lin pats strikes one's chest to say. “放心,就交给我们好了,你们就安心拜年去吧。”马琳拍拍胸脯说道。 Although Ma Lin and leaf Shuting pat the chest to guarantee, willow Qingqing some did not feel relieved, after confessing some little time, sits in the side of own man, goes the uncle's family to pay new year's call with own man. 虽然马琳和叶舒婷拍着胸部保证,柳箐箐还是有些不放心,交代了好一会儿后,才坐在自己男人的身边,跟自己男人去舅舅家拜年。
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