„My this gives the bright mirror to telephone.” “我这就给明镜打电话。” Saying, San San Lee puts out the cell phone from the packet package, one side arrives at unmanned position, gives her boyfriend to telephone. 说着,李珊珊从小包包里拿出手机,走到一边无人的位置,给她男朋友打电话。 „You how not in hall and other my parents?” “你怎么没有在大厅等我爸妈啊？” The telephone passed, San San Lee some asked morosely. 电话通了,李珊珊有些不高兴地问道。 Some of San San Lee really vitality/angry, this is the boyfriend with own parents' first meeting, how not to respect the parents to come. 李珊珊真的有些生气了,这是自己男朋友跟自己父母第一次见面,怎么一点都不尊重自己父母来的。 This makes San San Lee feel that does not have the face very much, now San San Lee somewhat regrets. 这让李珊珊觉得很没有面子,现在李珊珊有些后悔了。 If we had known he is such person, San San Lee will not associate with him absolutely. 早知道他是这样的人,李珊珊绝对不会跟他交往。 Now but, the body has given him late, in this belly also has his child, except for recognizing, other San San Lee really not choices. 可是现在已经晚了,身子都给了他了,这肚子里还有他的孩子,除了认了,李珊珊真的没有其它的选择。 „This was not you comes late, my family member some were not happy that my is accompanying in the theater box, ok, should not be angry, I meet you now.” “这不是你们来晚了,我家人都有些不高兴了,我这在包厢陪着呢,好了,你也不要生气了,我现在就下去接你们。” Saying, is wearing the bright mirror to make the telephone call. 说着,戴明镜就挂了电话。 „How to say?” “怎么说？” Sees the daughter to make the call, Li Dayong some asks morosely. 见自己女儿打完电话,李大勇有些不高兴地问道。 Now Li Dayong is very unsatisfied about the groom's family. 现在李大勇对男方很不满意。 Thought that they do not take seriously themselves, later the daughter marries, most likely (80%) must suffer hardships. 觉得他们一点都不重视自己,以后自己女儿嫁过去,也八成要受苦的。 According to Li Dayong impulsive temperament, if other things, he turns head to walk now, but currently Li Dayong has to think, but thinks own daughters had two months of pregnancy , can only endure. 按照李大勇冲动的脾气,要是其它的事情,他现在扭头就走了,可是现在李大勇有心想走,不过想想自己女儿都有两个月的身孕了,也只能忍了。 „Bright mirror said that immediately comes to meet us.” “明镜说了,马上过来接我们。” San San Lee somewhat lacks in resonance said. 李珊珊有些底气不足地说道。 Others said the woman to be fickle, but San San Lee detects now, this man is not worse than the woman, now San San Lee about oneself boyfriends thinks that was somewhat strange. 别人都说女人善变,可李珊珊现在发觉,这男人一点都不比女人差,现在李珊珊对自己男朋友都觉得有些陌生了。 Sympathizes gently, well-mannered, these fine moral characters, oneself present were getting more and more difficult to see from oneself boyfriend. 温柔体贴、彬彬有礼,这些优良的品格,自己现在越来越难从自己男朋友身上看到了。 „We sit there and other meetings.” “我们坐那里等会吧。” leaf Rongyao points at one side of the hall sofa to say. 叶荣耀指着大厅一侧的沙发说道。 Like this type of upscale hotel, in the hall suspends the upscale sofa seat, letting the guest can rest and wait for in the hall the person. 像这种高档的酒店,大厅里都摆有高档的沙发座椅,让客人可以在大厅里休息、等人。 ...... …… After ten minutes, wears the bright mirror to arrive at the hall, sees to sit in San San Lee at the same time, quickly walked. 十分钟后,戴明镜走到大厅,看到坐在一边的李珊珊,就急忙走了过来。 „Shanshan!” “珊珊！” Wore the bright mirror to call out to San San Lee. 戴明镜对李珊珊叫道。 „Bright mirror!” “明镜！” Saw own boyfriend got down finally, San San Lee long shouted the one breath to say. 见到自己男朋友终于下来了,李珊珊长呼一口气说道。 After all oneself parents some are impatient. 毕竟自己父母都有些等的不耐烦了。 „Father and mother, this is my boyfriend wears the bright mirror.” “爸、妈,这是我男朋友戴明镜。” San San Lee is drawing hand that wears the bright mirror to own parental introduced. 李珊珊拉着戴明镜的手对自己父母介绍道。 „Uncle and aunt, hello.” “叔叔、阿姨,你们好。” Wears the bright mirror to say to Li Dayong and his wife politely. 戴明镜礼貌地对李大勇夫妻说道。 „Hello!” “你好！” Li Dayong and his wife nod to say. 李大勇夫妻点点头说道。 This is the first time that two couples saw own this future son-in-law. 这是两夫妻第一次见到自己这位未来的女婿。 Sees only this to wear the bright mirror age about 27 and about eight years old, is gathering a short hair, the neckband of white shirt opens wide slightly, the shirt sleeve cuff volume to the arms, reveals the wheat color skin, the eye is profound, bridge of the nose tall very/straight, seems like very charming sunlight. 只见这戴明镜年纪大约二十七、八岁左右,蓄著一头短发,白衬衫的领口微微敞开,衬衫袖口卷到手臂中间,露出小麦色的皮肤,眼睛深邃有神,鼻梁高挺,看上去很帅气阳光。 The first impression, Li Dayong and his wife are very satisfied with this future son-in-law. 第一印象,李大勇夫妻还是对这个未来女婿挺满意的。 „This is my cousin leaf glory.” “这是我表哥叶荣耀。” San San Lee is pointing at the leaf glory to a Li Dayong introduced. 李珊珊指着叶荣耀对李大勇介绍道。 „Cousin, hello/you good!” “表哥,你好！” Wears the bright mirror to say to the leaf glory. 戴明镜对叶荣耀说道。 „Hello!” “你好！” leaf Rongyao looked to wear the bright mirror, nods to say. 叶荣耀看了看戴明镜,点点头说道。 To this future brother-in-law, the leaf glory does not know to favor. 对这位未来表妹夫,叶荣耀不知道看好。 It is not the leaf glory has the opinion to the long charming man, is mainly that the leaf glory always thinks wears bright mirror long one „peach-blossom face”. 不是叶荣耀对长的比自己帅气的男人有意见,主要是叶荣耀总觉的这个戴明镜长的一张“桃花脸”。 It is not depending the man of living. 不是什么靠的住的男人。 The leaf glory somewhat was really worried, oneself cousin can defend this man. 叶荣耀真的有些担心,自己表妹能不能守着这个男人。 However this is the choice of cousin, the leaf glory will only be thinking at heart, will not say, will not make what comment. 不过这是自己表妹的选择,叶荣耀只会在心里想着,不会说出来,更不会提什么意见了。 Can make what comment! 能提什么意见啊！ Own this cousins the child bosom on, said that anything has not used. 自己这个表妹都把孩子怀上了,说什么也没有用了。 Only can hope that this future brother-in-law will treat the cousin to come well. 只能希望这位未来的表妹夫会好好地对待自己表妹来的。 „Uncle, Aunt, my parents they in the theater box, we pass now!” “叔叔,阿姨,我爸妈他们在包厢里等,我们现在过去吧！” Wears the bright mirror they to say to Li Dayong. 戴明镜对李大勇他们说道。 „Good!” “好！” Although Li Dayong some discontented parents of son or daughter-in-law has not gone downstairs to greet itself, but has not said anything, after all these are not most important, the most important thing is, oneself daughter's future happiness. 李大勇虽然有些不满亲家没有下楼迎接自己,可也没有多说什么,毕竟这些都不是最重要的,最重要的是,自己女儿未来的幸福。 So long as their family/home can own daughter good. 只要他们家能对自己女儿好就可以。 After all two old people, later too will not basically communicate. 毕竟两家老人,以后基本上也不会太多来往的。 In Huaxia, has this custom, both parties guardians after marriage, rarely have to take a walk. 在华夏,就是有这种风俗,结婚后的男女双方家长,很少有走动的。 Huaxia has words, stops by calling out „daughter who marries, water that sprinkles.” 华夏有句话,叫住“嫁出去的女儿,泼出去的水。” The parents did not recognize this daughter actually not, but after once the daughter got married, turned over to the husband's family's home the manages, the wife's relatives many did not say anything, took a walk, but also was easy to cause the disaffection of husband's family's home person, thought that you are interfering with the matter of their family/home. 倒不是父母不认这女儿了,而是一旦女儿嫁人后,就归婆家了管了,娘家人是不好多说什么的,走动多了,还容易引起婆家人的不满,觉得你在干涉他们家的事情。 In the thought of country dweller, treats daughter's attitude, basically provided repairs before the wedding, takes care of oneself after marriage, falls ill the treatment to turn over to the husband's family's home, after dying, must bury in the tomb of husband's family's home. 在农村人的思想里,对待女儿的态度,基本上是婚前包修,婚后自理,生病治疗归婆家,死后要埋葬在婆家的墓地。 Huaxia has the concepts of three clans, but the daughter is also not in three clans, the daughter is the person not of the same surname, the traditional ethics said „three clans” referred to the father clan and mother clan, the wife clan, and excluding daughter of getting married. 华夏有三族的观念,而女儿又不在三族之内,女儿是外姓人,传统伦理所讲的“三族”是指父族、母族、妻族,并不包括出嫁的女儿。 In Huaxia in the ancient times, if a family were implicated, the miss who then marries does not need to be involved, because she is „bystander”. 在华夏古代,如果一个家族遭到连坐,那么嫁出去的姑娘是不必受到牵连的,因为她已经是“外人”了。 ...... …… „Is the parents of son or daughter-in-law Duke, biological woman, please sit down quickly.” “是亲家公,亲家婆吧,快请坐。” Waits for leaf glory several people to enter in the theater box, in the theater box two old people stand, but also is entertains Li Dayong they to say warmly. 等叶荣耀几人走进包厢里,包厢里两位老人站起来,还算是热情招待李大勇他们说道。 „I am San San Lee's father Li Dayong.” “我是李珊珊的父亲李大勇。” Li Dayong nods to say. 李大勇点点头说道。 „Parents of son or daughter-in-law Duke, I am wears Wanli, is the father of bright mirror, this is our first meeting, sits quickly.” “亲家公,我是戴万礼,是明镜的父亲,这是我们第一次见面,快坐。” A 50-year-old middle-aged man entertains to say to Li Dayong warmly. 一位50多岁的中年男子对李大勇热情地招待道。 Can look from this middle-aged man appearance, this is a very successful merchant. 从这位中年男子打扮可以看出来,这是一位挺成功的商人。 „Child's mother-in-law, you also sits.” “亲家母,你也坐。” Puts on the fur, wears the pearl necklace, a woman of high station appearance, the age should also draw Li Xiaohong to sit in the female middle-aged woman over 50 years old to her side. 一位穿着皮草,戴着珍珠项链,一副贵妇人打扮,年纪应该在50岁以上的女子中年妇女也拉着李小红坐到她的身边。 The middle-aged woman who the women of high station dress up, does not need to know, definitely wears mother of bright mirror. 贵妇人打扮的中年妇女,不用想就知道,肯定是戴明镜的母亲。 „Cousin, you sits this.” “表哥,你坐这吧。” No one move to own cousin, San San Lee helped the leaf glory draw the seat, asking the leaf glory to sit down. 没有人招到自己表哥,李珊珊帮叶荣耀拉了拉座位,请叶荣耀坐下。 „I give the parents of son or daughter-in-law under the Duke and biological woman introduction, this is my son-in-law Li Dahang, now is to purchase the director in Huayang Group, this is my daughter wears Mingzhen, goes to work in the City Bank, is a head in subbranch.” “我给亲家公、亲家婆介绍下,这位是我的女婿李大行,现在在华阳集团任采购总监,这是我女儿戴明珍,在市银行上班,是一家支行的负责人。” wears Wanli points is sitting in the position, a pair of male and female introduced that had not set out. 戴万礼指着坐在位置上,一直就没有起身的一对男女介绍道。 Originally this is wears the elder sister and brother-in-law of bright mirror to the men and women. 原来这对男女是戴明镜的姐姐和姐夫。 „Un, hello!” “嗯,你们好！” wears Mingzhen they nods to say to the leaf glory, does not pay attention. 戴明珍对叶荣耀他们点点头说了一声,就不理会了。 That attitude is full of the flavor that despises. 那个态度充满鄙视的味道。 Originally wears Mingzhen on discontented younger brother's girl contact with a countryside, wants to oneself the younger brother to introduce own bank the daughter of vice president. 本来戴明珍就不满自己弟弟跟一个乡下的女孩子交往,原本还想给自己弟弟介绍自己银行的副行长的女儿的。 But who knows, this female university named San San Lee exploded to be pregnant unexpectedly, this disrupted wears Mingzhen the plan completely. 可谁知道,这个叫李珊珊的女大学竟然爆出来怀孕了,这完全打乱了戴明珍的计划。 Even wears Mingzhen suspected that this San San Lee heard anything from younger brother's mouth, is pregnant intentionally, such goal, is forces the younger brother to marry her. 甚至戴明珍怀疑这李珊珊是从弟弟的口里听到了什么,故意怀孕的,这样的目的,就是逼迫自己弟弟娶她。 As the matter stands, she can complete the Cinderella's transformation perfectly to Snow White. 这样一来,她就能完美地完成一个灰姑娘向白雪公主的转变。 Looked in wears Mingzhen, this San San Lee is one has the plans woman very much, is the corrupt adore/admire riches and honor woman. 在戴明珍看了,这李珊珊是一个很有心机的女人,是贪慕富贵的女人。 This woman the younger brother will not bring the advantage to oneself. 这种女人是不会给自己弟弟带来好处的。 Therefore Mr. and Mrs. wears Mingzhen opposes this wedding very much. 所以戴明珍夫妻很反对这婚事。 Child who oneself parents care about this San San Lee belly very much. 只是自己父母都很在意这个李珊珊肚子里的孩子。 Elderly man this was wants to hug the grandson to think insanely, for the grandson, agreed unexpectedly own younger brother married this woman. 老人家这是想抱孙子想疯了,为了孙子,竟然同意自己弟弟娶这个女人了。 „Hehe, that my daughter and son-in-law personality this, do not mind.” “呵呵,那个我女儿和女婿性格就这样,你们不要介意。” wears Wanli somewhat they answered awkwardly to Li Dayong. 戴万礼有些尴尬地对李大勇他们解释道。 Said that really wears Wanli does not like this wedding, wears Wanli has the opinion to San San Lee actually not, actually wears Wanli to San San Lee is very satisfactory. 说真的戴万礼也不怎么喜欢这婚事,倒不是戴万礼对李珊珊有意见,其实戴万礼对李珊珊还是挺满意的。 San San Lee's long attractiveness did not say, but also is very polite, did not consider that her family background words, wears Wanli is willing to have such a daughter-in-law. 李珊珊长的漂亮不说,还很有礼貌,不考虑她的家世的话,戴万礼还是很愿意有这么一个儿媳妇的。 This San San Lee's family background was too but bad , compared with own, missed a big truncation, comes radically not properly matched. 可是这李珊珊的家世太差了,跟自己家比起来,差了一大截,根本就门不当户不对来的。 She bosom on grandson's words, wears Wanli will not agree with this wedding. 要不是她怀上自己孙子的话,戴万礼是不会同意这婚事的。 But now on others bosom own grandson. 可现在人家都怀上了自己的孙子了。 wears Wanli two couples cannot firmly decide, making this San San Lee the child wiping out. 戴万礼两夫妻怎么也下不了狠心,让这李珊珊把孩子给打掉。 What to do doesn't wipe out? 不打掉怎么办？ Only can be married this San San Lee by own son. 只能让自己儿子娶这个李珊珊了。 „All right.” “没事。” Although Li Dayong was very not at heart happy, but has not displayed discontentedly, was the si 、 wushi-year-old person, in this mood control, compared with young people. 李大勇虽然心里很不高兴,但没有表现出不满,都是四、五十岁的人了,这情绪控制上,比年轻人强多了。 After all today the matter of primary importance, is daughter's wedding. 毕竟今天最重要的事情,是自己女儿的婚事。 „This is my nephew leaf glory, is the professor in Southern Zhejiang University.” “这是我的外甥叶荣耀,在浙南大学当教授。” Li Dayong is saying, is pointing at the leaf glory to everyone introduced. 李大勇说着,指着叶荣耀对大家介绍道。 „Southern Zhejiang professor!” “浙南大学教授！” wears Wanli looks surprised the leaf glory said. 戴万礼吃惊地看着叶荣耀说道。 Really has not thought that the leaf glory was so young is the professor. 实在是没有想到叶荣耀这么年轻就已经是大学教授了。 Must know that professor position, may be more flamboyant than what enterprise manager! 要知道大学教授这个身份地位,可比什么企业老总牛逼啊！ After all is the enterprise manager sees the official, must lower the head to bend the back, the racket must dawdle horse comes, but others professor is different, this is the high-level intellectual, is the elite class of country. 毕竟就是企业老总见到官员,都要低头哈腰,拍须遛马来的,可人家大学教授就不一样,这是高级知识分子,是国家的精英阶层。 The officials see the professor, must shout one „such and such professors” to come respectfully. 官员见到大学教授,都要恭敬叫一声“某某教授”来的。 „Hello.” “你们好。” leaf Rongyao sits nods to say. 叶荣耀坐着点点头说道。 Since your daughter and son-in-law put on airs, the leaf glory must put on airs. 既然你女儿、女婿摆架子,叶荣耀也要摆架子了。 You can make 1 st, why I cannot make 15. 你能做初一,为什么我就不能做十五呢。 The leaf glory is clear, oneself uncle came by oneself, is puts on airs, cannot weak the morale of bride's side family/home. 叶荣耀可是清楚,自己二舅让自己过来,就是摆架子来的,不能弱了女方家的士气。 „Father, the professor cannot compare with before now, is not valuable, spends, can get so far as a professor ding-dong, might as well the big group of this postgraduate candidates are valuable.” “爸,现在大学教授跟以前不能比了,已经不值钱了,花点钱,就能弄到一个大学教授当当了,还不如大行这位博士生值钱。” wears Mingzhen disdain looked at a leaf glory, said to own father. 戴明珍不屑地看了一眼叶荣耀,对自己父亲说道。 Isn't a professor? 不就是一个大学教授吗？ Having anything is great, the richness can buy one ding-dong. 有什么了不起的,有钱就能买一个当当。