HDLL :: Volume #11

#1094: Is the minor matter, is the important matter ( 3 / 3 )

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On Monday, Yang Yi delivers Xixi and Lan Xin goes to school, after coming back, shortly, Lan Zhoukai then brings Wu Jingjing to come, sadness between their features, looked including Mo Fei, she substitutes for Yang Yi hastily, boils water steeps tea. 周一,杨轶送曦曦和兰馨去上学,回来后,没多久,兰州凯便带着吴静静过来,两人眉目间的忧愁,连墨菲都看了出来,她连忙替下杨轶,去煮水沏茶。 „Did Brother Lan, what important matter leave?” Yang Yi knitting the brows head, cared slightly asked. “兰老哥,出了什么大事？”杨轶微微皱了皱眉头,关心地问道。 Lan Zhoukai usual working style , is the same with his build, steady as Mt. Tai, even if in the business, on the theme park work site has any small issue, he can process calm, has almost not looked for Yang Yi to complain. 兰州凯平时的做事风格,也是跟他的体型一样,稳如泰山,就算生意上、游乐园工地上有什么小问题,他都能淡定地处理,几乎都没有找杨轶抱怨过。 Today this condition, truly is a little unusual. 今天这个状态,确实是有点反常。 „This matter, said that is big......” Lan Zhoukai to sigh to say. “这事,说大不大……”兰州凯叹气说道。 However, has not waited for him saying that side Wu Jingjing then discontentedly then snatched the thread of conversation: „Isn't big? Shouldn't such matter attach great importance to?” 不过,没有等他说完,旁边吴静静便不满地便抢了话头:“还不大啊？这样的事情难道不应该重视起来吗？” „Behind me also wants saying that said small is not small......” Lan Zhoukai to answer. “我后面还想说,说小不小嘛……”兰州凯解释道。 „Actually to have what?” Yang Yi thought more and more felt strange. “究竟是发生了什么？”杨轶越来越觉得奇怪了。 „Also isn't Xin'er? Yesterday I came back, looked at her work, almost gave to visit me silly!” Lan Zhoukai was saying, pulls out his big screen cell phone, turns out a picture to look to Yang Yi that „you look at the diary that she writes, the evaluation of teacher.” “还不是馨儿吗？昨天我回来,看了她的作业,差点把我给看傻了！”兰州凯说着,掏出他的大屏手机,翻出一张照片给杨轶看,“你看她写的这个日记,还有老师的评语。” Lan Zhoukai is also not easy, he has not thought how is good to handle this matter, then presses down did not discuss that last night Lan Xin came back from Chengdu, he kept silent, now after is also and other Lan Xin went to school, to the matter that Yang Yi said. 兰州凯也是不容易,他没想好怎么处理这件事,便按下不谈,昨晚兰馨从蓉城回来,他都只字不提,现在也是等兰馨去上学之后,才跟杨轶说的这事。 From the beginning, Yang Yi also thinks that is only Lan Xin is loaf does not keep a diary or any issue, but he collects to look, is out of control to be shocked. 一开始,杨轶还以为只是兰馨偷懒不写日记或者什么问题,但他凑过去看,也禁不住愣住了。 „This morning my belly was hungry, not having the thing to eat, Xixi does not have the thing to eat, I am very fortunately intelligent, Ha Ha, I am at behind the classroom, took Squad Leader to buy for the small biscuit that Little Branch ate secretly eats! Little Branch does not eat the biscuit, but I think very delicious!” “今天上午我肚子饿了,没有东西吃,曦曦也没有东西吃,还好我很聪明,哈哈,我在教室后面,偷偷拿了班长买给小丫吃的小饼干吃！小丫不吃饼干,但我觉得很好吃呢！” Above is the complete content of diary, naturally, this middle is mixing with various many pinyin, this is only the ending full page that translates. 以上便是日记的全部内容,当然,这中间夹杂着各种很多拼音,这只是翻译过来的完整版。 Sees here, Yang Yi then knows why Lan Zhoukai worried...... 看到这里,杨轶便知道兰州凯为什么发愁了…… The pilferage, this is not good to be familiar with! 小偷小摸,这可不是什么好习惯！ Felt for others, has traded Xixi such words...... Yang Yi thought Lan Zhoukai saw this diary yesterday time, condition that should to collapse. 将心比心,换了曦曦这样的话……杨轶觉得兰州凯昨天看到这篇日记的时候,应该是要崩溃的状态。 My God, in the family|home billions properties, what want what, because you unexpectedly were hungry, runs to steal with others' small biscuit eats? Can the head of Lan Zhoukai not explode? Can Wu Jingjing not have a fit of temper a moment ago? 我的天,家里几十亿的财产,要什么有什么,你居然因为饿了,就跑去偷拿别人的小饼干吃？兰州凯的脑袋能不爆炸吗？吴静静刚才能不发脾气吗？ Also is Lan Zhoukai is calm, last night Lan Xin came back, has not hung to punch her! 也是兰州凯性格沉稳,昨晚兰馨回来,才没有把她吊起来揍一顿！ But on the other hand, Lan Zhoukai said also right, this is not the important matter. Because of the child, would violating this, such mistake, they have not formed the correct world outlook, cannot, because a matter then determined the nature them. 但话又说回来,兰州凯说的也没错,这并不是什么大事。因为小孩子嘛,总会犯这样、那样的错误,她们也没有形成正确的世界观,不能因为一件事情便把她们定性了。 The Yang Yi line of sight looked to the lower extremity, this diary inspected to the teacher, Li Ruolan has also made the response, she has left behind one line of rubrications below. 杨轶视线瞄向了下端,这篇日记是给老师检查的,果然,李若岚也是做出了回应,她在下面留下了一行红字。 „Next time cannot eat with others' snacks, if thought that the belly was hungry, can come to teacher here, the teacher brought the apple, can apportion your half!” “下次可不能拿别人的零食吃咯,如果觉得肚子饿了,可以来老师这里,老师带了苹果,可以分给你一半！” Superficial one line of characters, have comforted Yang Yi immediately a moment ago the somewhat rash thoughts. 轻描淡写的一行字,顿时安抚了杨轶刚才有些毛躁的心思。 Li Ruolan is understands obviously, knows such matter, if processes extremely stiffly, will bring the life to the child possibly the shame feeling that is hard to put behind! 李若岚显然是明白的,也知道这样的事情,如果处理得太过生硬,会给孩子带来一生都可能难以忘却的耻辱感！ Perhaps Lan Xin has not thought to have anything now, if she grows up, was sensible, remembered itself once to be called the office by the teacher, was in front of many person to reprove, making her understand that should not take others secretly or Little Branch snacks, this whole life estimated must carry on the back the heavy psychological burden. 或许兰馨现在还不觉得有什么,她如果长大一些,懂事了,想起自己曾经被老师叫到办公室,当着很多人的面训斥,让她明白不应该偷偷拿别人或者小丫的零食,这辈子估计都要背上沉沉的心理负担。 „Fortunately, Teacher Li has not done such, her evaluation I thought that writes very well, can solve the problem!” Yang Yi explained to Lan Zhoukai and Wu Jingjing that „you looked, she at the same time, told Lan Xin to do this should not, on the other hand, she was also encourages Lan Xin to have such issue, can ask her to help to solve, did not say that constantly the Lan Xin belly hungry was unable like this, gives back the means of having solved the problem, such Lan Xin did not need to be worried that own belly was hungry.” “值得庆幸的是,李老师没有这么做,她的评语我觉得写得很好,也能解决问题！”杨轶跟兰州凯和吴静静解释起来,“你看,她一方面,告诉兰馨这样做是不应该的,另一方面,她也是鼓励兰馨有这样的问题,可以去找她帮忙解决,并不是一昧地说兰馨肚子饿了不能这样这样,还给出了解决问题的办法,这样兰馨也不用担心自己的肚子饿着了。” „Belly was hungry, we can make her bring a thing to go to the school to eat! Again bad, in her schoolbag also has the spending money, goes to the sales store in school also to buy to eat, how wants to take other schoolmate's small biscuit, oh, I do not know how really she thinks!” Wu Jingjing somewhat agitated pats thigh to say. “肚子饿了,我们可以让她带点东西去学校吃嘛！再不济,她书包里也有零花钱,去学校的小卖部也能买吃的,怎么想去拿别的同学的小饼干,唉哟,我真的不知道她怎么想的！”吴静静有些烦躁地拍着大腿说道。 „Static elder sister, you do not worry to get angry, we find the way to solve together.” Mo Fei sees that then has added a hot tea to her, urged, „you drank to make tea first, calm down.” “静姐,你别着急上火,我们一起来想办法解决。”墨菲见状,便给她添了点热茶,劝道,“你先喝点茶,消消气。” „This past matter, made it pass, hasn't the teacher helped us process very well? We do not need to investigate too, actually you looked that Xin'er usually comes back, well, explained that she accepted the direction of teacher, later such will not do.” Yang Yi said with a smile, „you worry to be angry now, instead let the child feel is afraid very much, this had certain influence to her psychologically healthy development.” “这过去的事情,就让它过去了,老师不都已经帮我们处理得很好了吗？我们不用追究太多,其实你看馨儿平时回来,也都好好的,说明她已经接受了老师的指点,以后就不会这么做了。”杨轶笑道,“你们现在着急生气,反而让孩子觉得很害怕,这对她的心理健康发展是有一定影响的。” „This matter, that said that I was worried that she thought the teacher is not serious, our guardians are not serious, at heart is careless, thought that such does very intelligently, if next time bumps into with the present different matter? She is thinking also solves with such means?” Lan Zhoukai does not have Wu Jingjing to worry, but he is also is worried very much, slowly explained own worry to Yang Yi. “这事情,话是这么说,我只是担心,她觉得老师不当一回事,我们家长也不当一回事,心里还是大大咧咧的,觉得这么做挺聪明的,下回要是碰到跟现在不一样的事呢？她是不是也想着用这样的办法来解决？”兰州凯没有吴静静那么着急,但他心里也是担心得很,慢慢地跟杨轶解释起了自己的担忧。 Yang Yi was lost in thought that the Lan Zhoukai words are also reasonable. Moreover, in the childhood education book that these words, before letting he remembers, reads a case. 杨轶不禁陷入了沉思,兰州凯的话也有道理。而且,这番话,让他想起以前看的儿童教育书中一个案例。 Although after many years, but Yang Yi has a vivid memory. 虽然时隔多年,但杨轶还是记忆犹新。 The one who said is a teacher of elementary school higher grades, investigated student a to steal with the student b spending money, and has spent, the flower in has bought on the small hamster, this with the student the process of investigation and interrogation, displayed their wisdom and bravery, endures compared with the criminal case. But this teacher is very friendly, she does not want to embarrass student a extremely, then in secret has given the student the money of a corresponding amount, making him give back to student b first secretly, then student a must with oneself spending money, give back to this teacher, student a also complies. 说的是一个小学高年级的老师,调查出学生a偷拿了学生b的零花钱,而且还花掉了,花在了买小仓鼠上面,这个跟学生a调查、审问的过程,斗智斗勇,堪比刑事案件。但这个老师很友善,她不想让学生a太过难堪,便私底下给了学生a相应数额的钱,让他先偷偷还给学生b,然后学生a要用自己零花钱,还给这个老师,学生a也答应了。 If this is the result of story, that happy, the chicken soup taste is full! 如果这个就是故事的结局,那皆大欢喜,鸡汤味十足！ But, afterward, this teacher, when chatted this matter with the student a teacher in charge( this teacher was only teaching classes teacher of this class), astonished discovered that originally student a stole with others' thing, was not a two matter! But his teacher in charge, said many times, even also helps him front money, but refuses to mend despite repeated admonition...... 可是,后来,这个老师在跟学生a的班主任聊起这件事的时候（这个老师只是这个班的任课老师）,才惊愕地发现,原来学生a偷拿别人的东西,并不是一次两次的事情！而他的班主任,也是说了很多次,甚至也帮他垫过钱,但屡教不改…… Such matter, lets narrate that the elementary school teacher of this story fell into confusedly, she thought that she is truly good for this child, but by doing so, it can be said that helps him cover the mistake, perhaps, he will think satisfied, is even more dissolute! 这样的事情,让讲述这个故事的这个小学老师陷入了迷茫,她觉得自己确实是为这个孩子好的,但这样做,也可以说是帮他在掩盖错误,或许,他会觉得心安理得,越发放肆！ Worry of Lan Zhoukai, has happen to hit the mark the main point! 兰州凯的担忧,正好也是切中了要点！ When the Yang Yi ponder, Mo Fei also thought that this is a very major problem, opens the mouth to urge: „Yang Yi, you help Brother Lan and static elder sister think that to Xin'er said that I thought that although is the small issue, but wasn't the old saying says? Slightly steals the needle, to steal the cow greatly? We must attach great importance.” 就在杨轶沉思的时候,墨菲也觉得这是一个很大的问题,也开口劝道:“杨轶,你帮兰老哥、静姐想一下怎么跟馨儿说吧,我觉得虽然是小问题,但古话不是说吗？小来偷针、大来偷牛吗？我们得重视起来。” „Right, Little Yang, you teach the child most to have the means that what to do helping us think!” Wu Jingjing said. “对对,小杨,你教孩子最有办法,帮我们想想怎么办吧！”吴静静说道。 Lan Zhoukai also nods, he and Wu Jingjing sits there, is cloud of gloom dreary atmosphere is filling the air. 兰州凯也点着头,他和吴静静坐在那儿,就是一股愁云惨淡的气氛在弥漫着。 Yang Yi nodded gently, he continued to think some little time, slowly saying: „I, thought that this matter from two angle round trip solutions, first, in the Xin'er diary this matter, we presses the means of teacher, did not raise did not say that making it pass on the past. Second, in does not propose in the foundation of this matter, making me come, I look for Xin'er and Xixi same place, told a story to them, in the story, taught their these truth of manner getting along with people, ok? Do not give the child too many pressures!” 杨轶轻轻地点了点头,他继续想了好一会儿,才慢慢地说道:“我呢,还是觉得,这事情得从两个角度来去解决,第一,馨儿日记里这个事,我们就按老师的办法,不提不说,让它过去就过去了。第二,在不提这件事的基础上,让我来,我找馨儿和曦曦一起,给她们讲一个故事,在故事里,教会她们这些为人处世的道理,好吧？不要给孩子太多的压力！” Lan Zhoukai and Wu Jingjing trustworthy Yang Yi's, moreover listened to his such saying, was at heart steadfaster, hastily joyfully nodded. 兰州凯和吴静静还是信得过杨轶的,而且听他这么一说,心里也踏实很多,连忙欣喜地点了点头。
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