Turns over to anxiously anxiously, Yao Bo is somewhat excited. 紧张归紧张,姚博还是有些激动。 East own present and Li opposite exchange, this goes back, if told others, perhaps no one believes! 自己现在和李东面对面地交流,这回去要是告诉别人,恐怕都没人相信！ However, excited also on the present, then Yao Bo was not quite excited. 不过,激动也就现在,接下来姚博就不太激动了。 Several words chatted, Yao Bo was sweating profusely, the complexion was red. 几句话一聊,姚博满头大汗,脸色通红。 For example, Li Dong asked him, will the rise that „cell phone paid, have the tremendous impact on the banking industry? How the bank should change, can deal with such change?” 比如说,李东问他,“手机支付的崛起,对银行业会产生多大的影响？银行这边又该如何改变,才能应对这样的变化？” A Yao Bo face embarrasedly, long time does not know how should answer. 姚博一脸讪讪,半晌都不知道该怎么回话。 Also for example, Li Dong asked him, „the emergence of Internet finance, the banking industry may face the mass sacking crises, as the basic unit staff, how you to regard the emerging Internet financial industry?” 又比如说,李东问他,“互联网金融的出现,银行业可能会面临大批裁员危机,作为基层员工,你们又是如何看待新兴的互联网金融产业？” Yao Bo does not know how should reply. 姚博还是不知道该如何去回答。 Several issues chatted, Yao Bo except for awkward was awkward. 几个问题一聊,姚博除了尴尬就是尴尬。 Nearby Li Qing anxious was not good, eats meal cannot eat. 连带着,旁边的李青都紧张的不行,吃饭都吃不下去了。 Chatted several, Li Dong said with a smile suddenly: „ Also ok, has not talked mindlessly. 聊了几句,李东忽然笑道:“还行,没乱吹。 Actually asked that these were the idle talk, the day collapse had the tall person to withstand/top, conversion was I, I was also disinclined to consider these issues. 其实问这些都是废话,天塌了有高个子顶着,换成是我,我也懒得去考虑这些问题。 Similar to the distant place, we act again many, actually the basic unit staff will not consider too many things. 就如同远方这边,我们动作再多,其实基层员工都不会考虑太多的东西。 To them, the wages arrive, have room for rise, the benefits is good, these were enough. 对他们而言,工资到位,有上升空间,福利不错,这些就足够了。 Non- empty boasting on the line, the person who actually my quite repugnant these line of gab. 不浮夸就行,其实我比较讨厌那些夸夸其谈的人。 Always felt oneself are great, the change of the world is grasping in my hand, Earth left me unable to rotate. 总觉得自己多了不起,世界的改变就在我手上掌握着,地球离开了我都无法转动了。 Said that sentence not shy joke, my Li Dong, cannot actually be regarded now anything. 说句不怕人笑话的,就连我李东,现在其实也算不得什么。 I want to change the world actually, may discover finally, actually has me not to have my matter. 我倒是想改变世界,可最后发现,其实有我没我都那么回事。 Practical, naturally, some appropriate understanding things, mastering some new skills are also good. 务实一点好,当然,适当的了解一些东西,掌握一些新技能也不错。 Although the bank said that is almost the secured job, but sometimes not necessarily really this, generally, I suggested certainly, holds back one trick good of preparation to oneself. ” 银行这边虽然说差不多是铁饭碗,可有时候不见得就一定真这样,一般情况下,我个人建议,还是给自己多留一手准备的好。” Yao Bo nods hastily, at this time actually he does not know Li satisfies or is unsatisfied east to the bottom. 姚博连忙点头,这时候其实他也不知道李东到底是满意还是不满意。 Too close to the problem onlooker is clear-headed, Yao Bo, because is extremely anxious, temporarily has not looked. 当局者迷旁观者清,姚博因为太过紧张,暂时还没看出来。 Li Qing actually saw a thing, although Li Dong was cracks a joke said the topic that several, talked about somewhat was also far. 李青其实看出了一点东西,李东虽然是开玩笑似的说了几句,说的话题也有些远了。 But in fact, wants to have a look at Yao Bo vision and experience probably. 可实际上,大概是想看看姚博的眼光和见识。 However, what is somewhat a pity, Yao Bo was only one just graduated after all several years of young people, experienced few, the story were few, something have not actually had the explicit cognitive feeling. 然而,有些可惜的是,姚博毕竟只是一个刚毕业几年的年轻人,经历少,阅历少,有些东西其实并未产生明确的认知感。 Such Yao Bo, although is not peaceful common, can be the outstanding candidate in average person at most. 这样的姚博,尽管不算太平庸,顶多也就算得上普通人中的优秀者。 Naturally, really must be too outstanding, was too flamboyant, said that the sentence is not of pleasant to hear, Yao Bo also not necessarily can have a liking for Li Qing. 当然,真要太优秀了,太牛逼了,说句不好听的,姚博也不见得能看上李青。 Li Qing turns over to disappointedly disappointedly, but is not too accidental/surprised. 李青失望归失望,不过也不是太意外。 She actually wants does not make Yao Bo demonstrate own many abilities, is flamboyant, practical, credible, did not make people not think credibly, almost enough. 她其实想要的不是让姚博展示自己多能耐,多牛逼,务实一点,靠谱一点,不让人觉得不靠谱,差不多就够了。 Obviously, Yao Bo does not know that turns over to not to know, has not spoken at a venture, is credible manifestation. 显然,姚博不知道归不知道,没乱说话,也是靠谱的体现。 Gives him from Li Dong under the stair, can look, Li Dong is good to his impression. 从李东给他台阶下,就能看出来,李东对他印象还行。 Then, Li Chengyuan also asked Yao Bo several. 接下来,李程远也问了姚博几句。 Compared with chatted with Li Dong, Yao Bo wanted relaxed many, replied that also very satisfied Li Chengyuan. 比起和李东聊天,姚博要轻松的多,回答也挺让李程远满意的。 After a while, Li Chengyuan asked that looked at Li Dongyi eyes. 过了一会,李程远问完了,看了李东一眼。 Li Dong sees that to say with a smile: „Convenient words, find a time to shout that the uncle aunt came out to eat meal together.” 李东见状笑道:“方便的话,抽个时间喊伯父伯母一起出来吃顿饭好了。” This saying, the people relax. 这话一出,众人都松了口气。 Li Dong has not opened the person marriage affinity obviously dry/does the matter, if Li Dong thought that Yao Bo is not good, even if Li Qing wants at heart again, will produce hesitant. 李东显然没有干拆人姻缘的事,要是李东觉得姚博不行,李青哪怕心里再愿意,也会产生犹豫。 Now Li Dong does not have the opinion, that happy. 现在李东没意见,那皆大欢喜。 Li Chengyuan saw that looked at Li Dongyi eyes again, Li Dong was somewhat helpless, he knew father's meaning. 李程远见状再次看了李东一眼,李东有些无奈,他知道老爸的意思。 The hesitation moment, Li Dongcai said slightly: „ Brother Yao, you were born in Qingyang, the family member, friend and colleague also in Qingyang. 微微沉吟片刻,李东才道:“姚大哥,你出生在青阳,亲人、朋友、同事也都在青阳。 All personal connections revolve Qingyang. 一切的人脉都围绕着青阳。 Actually according to my idea, where is the same, some Qingyang actually also many opportunities. 其实按照我的想法,哪里都一样,青阳其实也有很多机遇。 However Qingyang after all is a small town , can only be ordinary in the north of the Changjiang River, in the middle and in the nation is common. 不过青阳毕竟是小城,在江北也只能算一般,在中部、在全国更是不起眼。 People strive upward, water toward low spot class/flow. 人往高处走,水往低处流。 If yourself have the idea, in the appropriate situation, I can help slightly busy. 如果你自己有想法的话,适当的情况下,我可以帮点小忙。 You now in banking system work, if not want to jump out of this circle, wants to come the plain to develop, I can help you plan simply, adjusts the plain to work. 你现在在银行系统工作,如果不想跳出这个圈子,想来平川发展,我可以帮你简单谋划一下,调到平川来工作。 Naturally, if you want to jump out of this circle, enters the enterprise, or make a small-scale business, I will also lend a hand. 当然,如果你想跳出这个圈子,进入企业,或者自己做点小生意,我也会搭把手。 However I spoke am quite straight, some words I must speak of the position. 不过我这个人说话比较直,有些话我还是要说到位的。 I can do, but pushes your. 我能做的,只是推你们一把。 The success that this world, has not attained without effort, the key looks at itself. 这个世界,没有不劳而获的成功,关键还是看自己。 Yourself try hard, oneself outstanding, that any place could not bury you. 你自己努力,自己优秀,那任何地方都埋没不了你。 However yourself diligently, others are impossible to help you with no reason at all. ” 但是你自己不努力,别人也不可能无缘无故地帮你。” Was saying Li Dong also said with a smile: „ Naturally, the official's second generation second generations of rich regarded as another matter, but I have actually experienced two generations, majority is extremely outstanding, personal character did not say, ability almost few waste materials. 说着李东又笑道:“当然,官二代富二代就另当别论了,不过其实我见识过的二代,大部分都是极其优秀的,品德方面不说,能力方面几乎没几个废材。 Therefore, succeeds often not by the external factor, the key also lies in the internal cause. ” 所以,成功往往不是靠外在因素,关键还在于内因。” Yao Bowen said nods hastily, but Li Qing was somewhat excited. 姚博闻言连忙点头,而李青则是有些激动。 Under the table, Li Qing quickly pushed Yao Bo. 桌底下,李青急忙推了推姚博。 Today Li Dong can comply is so happy, actually also not as Li Qing expected. 李东今天能答应的这么痛快,其实也出乎李青的预料。 Now the opportunity came, has not complied quickly! 如今机会来了,还不赶快答应！ However pushed several, sees Yao Bo not to respond that Li Qing was anxious immediately, pinched his ruthlessly! 不过推了几下,见姚博没反应的,李青顿时急了,狠狠掐了他一下！ Yao Bo holds breath cold air, looks to Li Qing, on the face brings hesitant some. 姚博倒吸一口凉气,看向李青,脸上带着些许犹豫。 Rashly, making him leave Qingyang, he really cannot set firm resolve. 贸然间,让他离开青阳,他真的下不定决心。 Even if Li Dong said the help, he also somewhat hesitates. 哪怕李东说帮忙,他也有些犹豫。 Just like Li Dong said that his parents, family member, friend, Schoolmate, colleague...... 正如李东说的,他的父母,亲人,朋友,同学,同事…… Relations of so many year of operations, almost in Qingyang. 这么多年经营的关系,几乎都在青阳。 Leaves Qingyang suddenly, comes the plain development, really appropriate? 陡然离开青阳,来平川发展,真的合适吗？ But front sits is Li Dong! 可面前坐着的是李东啊！ Yao Bo is not a fool, naturally knows this opportunity rarely. 姚博不是傻子,当然知道这种机会有多难得。 If he is also willing to continue to work in the bank , helping him transfer by the Li eastern relations, did not say is promoted, so long as the plain were actually promoted. 如果他还愿意继续在银行工作,以李东的关系帮他调动,不说升职,只要来了平川其实就是升职了。 Initially, many were admitted to the colleagues in bank to hope that together can divide to the big city. 当初,多少一起考入银行的同事都希望能分到大城市。 The plain in the entire Huaxia is not anything, may in the north of the Changjiang River, this is a provincial capital! 平川在整个华夏不算什么,可在江北,这是省会！ Does not pound several hundred thousand to go, he wants to adjust the plain, is hopeless radically. 不砸个几十万进去,他想调来平川,根本没戏。 Even if Li Dongzhi adjusted the plain him, anything busy did not help, he actually gained. 哪怕李东只把他调来了平川,什么忙都不帮,他其实都赚了。 The key is also, was somewhat towering. 关键还在于,有些突兀了。 , Came the plain by oneself suddenly, he has not been psychologically prepared such. 陡然间,让自己来平川,他没做好这样的心理准备。 Yao Bo knows, own hesitant may make Li Dong not quick, may disappoint Li Qing, may make itself regret...... 姚博知道,自己的犹豫可能会让李东不快,可能会让李青失望,可能会让自己后悔…… However, something, are really not several words can easily decide. 然而,有些事,真的不是几句话就能轻易决定的。 Even if clear(ly) knows, crossed this village possibly not to have this shop, Yao Bo thinks to say in a soft voice: „ Li...... the thing, I have not perhaps been able under to decide temporarily. 哪怕明知道,过了这个村可能没有这个店了,姚博想了想还是轻声道:“李……东子,我暂时恐怕还无法下决定。 After all, this actually is not only my matter. 毕竟,这其实不仅仅是我一个人的事。 No matter others, that side my parents, I actually hope can win their approvals...... ” 别人不管,我父母那边,我其实还是希望能征得他们的同意……” Li Qing immediately annoying, this fool, knows what are oneself saying? 李青顿时大为懊恼,这傻子,知道自己在说什么吗？ Li Dong said with a smile actually: „ This is natural, actually this type decided that I can understand. 倒是李东笑道:“这是当然的,其实这种决定我很能理解。 The different people, there are different handling matters methods. 不同的人,有不同的处事方法。 You now are young, some considerations are actually not mature, when you old, today I may feel your deficient boldness. 你现在还年轻,有些考虑其实是不成熟的,等你年长一些,今天我可能会觉得你缺乏魄力。 After all your story and experience in that whether some decisions, whether can seize the opportunity, should weigh at heart. 毕竟你阅历和经验在那,是否有决定,是否能抓住机会,心里应该早就衡量好了。 For example I dig the person, digs some senior-level management, my liking makes them make the decision generally at the scene. 比如我挖人,挖一些高级管理层,我一般都喜欢让他们当场做决定。 Thus, sometimes can actually test the lots. 这样,有时候其实能考验出很多东西。 However, to you, just shortly after graduation, some situations have not stabilized, this/should and parents discussed must discuss, this/should considered must consider thoroughly. 但是,对于你而言,刚毕业不久,一些情况还没稳定下来,该和父母商量的还得去商量,该自己考虑的还得深入考虑。 Perhaps a decision, will change your life. 也许一个决定,就会改变你的一生。 This life important matter, the multi- consideration are necessary. 这种人生大事,多思量是必要的。 Li Qing, you do not need to urge and anxious, your thoughts actually I understood. 李青,你也不用催促和急切,你们的心思其实我都理解。 However, really came the plain, not necessarily is the good deed. 但是,真来了平川,不见得是好事。 Sometimes, to oneself that tremendous pressure, does not could live is more comfortable, is happier. 有时候,不给自己那么大压力,也许能活的更自在一些,更幸福一些。 You and Yao Bo together in Qingyang diligently, the money, making you live worry-free that is inevitable, the living qualities will also surpass the average person. 你和姚博一起在青阳努力,赚的钱,让你们生活无忧那是必然的,生活品质也会超过普通人。 Came the plain, that is ready that starts from the beginning. 来了平川,那就做好从头开始的准备。 But I, can render your assistance, is extremely limited. ” 而我,能给予你们的帮助,也是极其有限的。” Li Dong words, making Yao Bo relax again. 李东的话,让姚博再次松了口气。 At this time, Li Dong words were very freely experienced, even stood the long generation of angle these, but Yao Bo has not felt again towering. 这时候,李东的话尽管很老成,甚至是站在长一辈的角度上来说这些,可姚博却是没再觉得突兀。 Such Li Dong, conforms to the impression in his mind. 这样的李东,才符合他心目中的印象。 But Li Qing, sees Li Dong is not angry, in addition was said several by Li Dong, has to cease all activities, no longer pinches Yao Bo. 而李青,见李东没有生气,加上被李东说了几句,也只好偃旗息鼓,不再掐姚博。 The following dinner party, is more relaxed than from the beginning. 接下来的饭局,比一开始要轻松一些。 Li Dong talked about the topics of some gossips as far as possible, has not chatted toward the deep place, chats these to be little significance. 李东尽量聊一些家长里短的话题,没有往深处聊,聊那些没多大意义。 But Yao Bo also knows, his some opinions, look like in Li Dong, perhaps is a joke. 而姚博也知道,他的一些见解,在李东看来,也许就是个笑话。 Although he also wants to speak several astonishing remarks, but Yao Bo understands, fires a gun with it randomly, might as well did not say. 尽管他也很想说几句惊人之语,可姚博明白,与其乱放炮,还不如不说。 Before Li Dong, the so-called shocking language, cannot withstand to deliberate. 在李东面前,所谓的惊世之语,都是经不起推敲的。 Food ate for two hours, Yao Bo goes out to pay up on own initiative. 一顿饭吃了两个多小时,姚博主动出去结账。 He walks, Li Chengyuan quickly visits him saying: „What kind of?” 他一走,李程远急忙看着他道:“怎么样？” Li Dong said with a smile: „ Also ok, actually wants the person credibly on the line. 李东笑道:“还行,其实只要人靠谱就行。 It is not that empty boasting, although the courage is not big, may live, actually does not need these rash people. 不是那么浮夸,虽然胆子不大,可过日子,其实不需要那些胆大妄为的人。 Lives steadfastly, in my opinion compares anything to be strong. 踏踏实实地过日子,在我看来比什么都强。 Li Qing should not be too high to his request, some words, Yao Bo, me did not say anything. 李青对他的要求也不要太高,有些话,姚博在,我不好说什么。 You made him come the plain, you think he walked was higher, walked was farther. 你让他来了平川,你想他走的更高,走的更远。 In fact, will result in the incomparably tremendous pressure on you. 实际上,也会对你造成无比巨大的压力。 Once he really flew far, you must follow to be good, do not think that he soared by my Li Dong, how you did not use. 他一旦真的飞远了,你得跟上才行,不要觉得他是靠我李东腾飞的,你就不用怎么样。 This is the fallacy, this matter I have seen, after the parental brothers who some people depend on the wife rise, actually will hold a gratitude at first. 这是谬论,这种事我见过很多,有些人靠着老婆的父母兄弟崛起之后,其实最初都会抱有一股感激之心。 But because wife cannot keep up with the rhythm, often makes some jokes, as well as I am the attitude of your benefactor, final 99% will cause the family disruption. 可因为妻子自身跟不上节奏,往往闹出一些笑话,以及一副我是你的恩人的态度,最后90%九都会导致家庭破裂。 You want to make him come the plain, I did not oppose actually, will help appropriately. 你想让他来平川,我其实不反对,也会适当的帮忙。 May arrive finally, what problem your marriages will have, this I cannot guarantee. 可到了最后,你们的婚姻会出现什么样的问题,这点我不敢保证。 Naturally, if yourself can try hard to keep up with his footsteps and rhythm, these are not the issues. ” 当然,你自己要是能努力跟上他的脚步和节奏,这些都不是问题。” The words that Li Dong spoke, making Li Qing be lost in thought. 李东说的话,让李青陷入了沉思。 But nearby Cao Fang cannot bear say: „ I listen to listen, how to feel that you became the marital expert quickly. 而一旁的曹芳忍不住道:“我听着听着,怎么感觉你都快成婚姻专家了。 The thing, you these where from studies? ” 东子,你从哪学来的这些？” Li Dong said with a smile: „Mother, looked at your saying saying that I am also managing 200,000 staff now, something have not experienced, saw also sees.” 李东笑道:“妈,瞧你这话说的,我如今好歹也管着20万员工,有些事没经历过,见也见多了。” „200,000?” “20万？” Cao Fangleng, long time muttered: „You managed so many people, I have not known that said I am managing you now, managed 200,000 people?” 曹芳愣了一下,半晌才咕哝道:“你都管这么多人了,我还不知道呢,这么说我现在管着你,也就管20万人了？” The people smiled. 众人都不由笑了起来。 The time of speech, others are walking in front, Li Dong and Li Chengyuan fell behind one step. 说话的工夫,其他人在前面走着,李东和李程远落后了一步。 Li Chengyuan looked at a front Li Qing, said in a low voice: „What's wrong, doesn't favor?” 李程远看了一眼前面的李青,低声道:“怎么,不看好？” Li Dong shakes the head saying: „ Father, actually I know your meaning. 李东摇头道:“爸,其实我知道你的意思。 But something cannot demand, is not everyone with my same talent. 可有些事强求不得,不是每个人都和我一样天才的。 Yao Bo is actually outstanding, however such person, in the distant place does not dare saying that is completely, that also grasps big. 姚博其实算优秀的,但是这样的人,在远方不敢说全部都是,那也是一抓一大把。 I really must get so far as the distant place him, he the opportunity that is difficult to raise one's head. 我真要把他弄到了远方,他很难有出头的机会。 I because of other reasons, will not give him the special accommodation, perhaps is a young manager not to have the issue, again in the future, depended. 我也不会因为其他的原因,就给他特殊照顾,当个小主管也许没问题,再往后,靠的还是自己。 Me you actually should also understand, the cousin to the present is also the young manager. 我这边你其实应该也有所了解,表哥到现在也就是小主管。 My university schoolmate, with the dormitory, mixing the present is also. 我那个大学同学,同宿舍的,混到现在也是。 Probably these years, mix on Wang Jie slightly good. 这些年,大概也就王杰混的稍微好点。 Arrived distant place, but also not necessarily has his present operation stability. 到了远方,还不见得有他现在的工作稳定。 Actually in my opinion, now is enough, if really wants to come the plain, I can help busy, for example he is at that side the bank, I can recommend to him. 其实在我看来,现在就足够了,真要想来平川,我可以帮点忙,比如说他在银行那边,我可以给他引荐一下。 Finally, develops by he himself. 最后,还是靠他自己发展。 I also hope that Li can have several top talents, can help me share the pressure, but that need ability and loyalty. 我也希望李家这边可以出几个高端人才,可以帮我分担压力,可那需要能力和忠诚。 The distant place is my painstaking care, I will not say that because of the pure family relationship, whom makes go, who is the executive. 远方是我的心血,我不会说因为单纯的家族关系,就让谁进去,谁担任高管。 The family firm, the drawback is very obvious. 家族企业,弊端很明显。 Without that ability, only the mess that the matter changes, you do not think that I will fall into this intertwining in the future? 没有那个能力,只会把事情变的一团糟,你也不想我日后都陷入这种纠结之中吧？ Now shouts a brother-in-law, that is a family member, I can look after some. 现在喊一声姐夫,那是亲人,我可以照顾一些。 Once will enter the distant place in the future, has problems, the family member will probably turn into the personal enemy, this is I extremely undesired one. ” 一旦日后进入远方,出了问题,亲人可能会变成仇人,这是我极不希望看到的一幕。” Li Chengyuan silent a meeting, the slight nod said: „ I understood, sometimes the father is actually hopes that you can be intimate with, you are willing to help busily enough. 李程远沉默了一会,微微点头道:“我懂了,爸有时候其实就是希望你们能亲近一点,你愿意帮点忙就够了。 However...... ” 不过……” Li Chengyuan, scolded suddenly: „ Young brat, you can also blow compared with me now! 李程远顿了一下,忽然骂道:“小兔崽子,你现在比我还能吹！ Spoke to your father, what was no one with your same talent, you talent father I am not clear? 跟你老子说话呢,什么没人跟你一样天才,你是不是天才老子我还不清楚？ Blew with the bystander even, later boasted with me, I kicked you! ” 跟外人吹吹就算了,以后再跟我胡吹,我一脚踢死你！” The helplessness of Li Dong whole face, did I blow? 李东满脸的无奈,我吹了吗？ The fact that I said that said again, even if I really blow, others still believe that others who you blow must believe are good. 我说的事实而已,再说了,我就算真吹,别人也信啊,您吹的别人得信才行。 …… ……