By the influences of these film and television plays, many people are thought in the ancient times the pregnant woman had a child is lying down, but in fact in the ancient times the pregnant woman was „sits generally has a child”. 受那些影视剧的影响,很多人都以为古代孕妇生孩子都是躺着的,而事实上古代孕妇一般是“坐着生孩子”。 «Various Cause of disease Period of five days Theory that Sui nest Yuanfang and the others wrote Woman Will produce Getting sick Various Period of five days», once had very concrete description to the body posture that at that time the pregnant woman childbirth adopted: „Woman produces, has to sit to lie”, when namely childbirth has the sitting posture, there is a prone position. 隋代巢元方等人撰写的《诸病源候论・妇人将产病诸候》中,对当时孕妇分娩所采取的体位曾有非常具体的描述:“妇人产,有坐有卧”,即分娩时有坐姿,也有卧姿。 But what in the ancient times pregnant woman first choice is the sitting posture childbirth, namely is „vertical childbirth”, except for „sitting”, stand-able style, squatting type and kneeling, is the vertical childbirth. 但古代孕妇首选的是坐姿分娩,即属于“竖式分娩”,除了“坐”,站立式、蹲式、跪式,也都属于竖式分娩。 In other words, in the ancient times the pregnant woman had a child, has „sits lives” and „stands living” and „to kneel living” and „to squat living” and other body posture. 也就是说,古代孕妇生孩子,有“坐着生”、“站着生”、“跪着生”、“蹲着生”等多种体位。 When vertical childbirth at least two midwifery, grasps the waist of pregnant woman from behind. «Various Cause of disease Period of five days Theory» said: „If sits producing, must sit, the approaching person holds to hold the rib waist, holds seizing not to cause the incline, causes along its principle.” 竖式分娩时至少有两人助产,其中一位从后面抱住孕妇的腰。《诸病源候论》称:“若坐产者,须正坐,傍人扶抱肋腰,持捉之勿使倾斜,使儿得顺其理。” Compares the horizontal childbirth, the obvious advantage of vertical childbirth, may greatly reduce the difficult labor. 相比于卧式分娩来说,竖式分娩的优势明显,可大大减少难产。 Tang Dynasty king swallow «Outside Stage Secret and important Produced Young Foreword Theory» directs «Mountain range Duke Controlling one's breathing Side» records: When the person, his younger sister two females, because of the difficult labor die, afterward his daughter-in-law was at the end of pregnancy, then looks for the person of high skill to instruct to the mountain. 唐代王燕《外台秘要・产乳序论》引《峦公调气方》记载:时有一人,其一妹二女,皆因难产而死,后来其儿媳临月,便到山里寻找高人指导。 In this „gynecology and obstetrics expert” according to mountain opinion, this person a room sweep trace, as daughter-in-law's temporary delivery room: „Arrange/Cloth grass three in all directions, the suspension cord is the carpentry graduated arm, high, made to squat to work as the armpit, must depending on working as the graduated arm, below spreads the slow felt, feared becomes an outlaw to accidentally injure it.” 根据山里这位“妇产科专家”的意见,此人将一间屋子收拾干净,作为儿媳的临时产房:“布草三四处,悬绳系木作衡,度高下,令得蹲当腋,得凭当衡,下敷慢毡,恐儿落草误伤之。” When the childbirth uses „stand-able style”, holds cross bar that is hanging, really smooth had the child. 其分娩时采用“站立式”,扶着悬挂起来的横木,果然顺利把孩子生了下来。 This vertical childbirth can see in Chongqing Dazu Rock Carvings. 这种竖式分娩可以在重庆大足石刻中看到。 In „is in labor suffering hardships graciousness” in carved stone, the pregnant woman back is standing a woman, front partly is squatting the midwife is gripping the clothes volume sleeve to prepare to receive. This group of carved stones excavated in Southern Song Dynasty, was the research in the ancient times the important information of pregnant woman childbirth way. 在“临产受苦恩”石刻中,孕妇背后站着一妇,前面半蹲着的接生婆正扎衣卷袖准备接生。这组石刻开凿于南宋,是研究古代孕妇分娩方式的重要资料。 In the ancient times when pregnant woman childbirth, often according to the change of course of childbirth, will adopt the different childbirth ways at the right moment. If Song, the pregnant woman childbirth used the sitting posture much, but will also use other ways. 古代孕妇分娩时,往往会根据产程的变化,适时采取不同的分娩方式。如宋代,孕妇分娩多采用坐姿,但也会使用其他方式。 Song medical scientist Yang Kang Hou in «Ten Produced Theory» said: „Son will want to live, his mother is weary, the long time sits the chair cushion, arrives at its way out”. At this time, must make the pregnant woman adopt the standing posture: „Must use handkerchief one, tying up is a high place, made mother with hand climbing”, then, „bends foot/enough did to sit the shape gently, the vaginal orifice diastole, the son gives birth”. 宋代医学家杨康侯在《十产论》中即称:“儿将欲生,其母疲倦,久坐椅褥,抵其生路”。这时候,就要让孕妇采取站立姿势:“须用手巾一条,拴系高处,令母用手攀之”,然后,“轻轻屈足作坐状,产户舒张,儿即生下”。 The vertical childbirth, was not just the choice of ancient China pregnant woman, the overseas also however. 竖式分娩,并非仅是古代中国孕妇的选择,国外亦然。 If in the ancient Egyptian law eunuches has one to float withers, draws the content is the last years queen to subdue|grams entrust/winding Batrla childbirth scene, the queen uses is in the vertical childbirth „kneeling position”. 如古埃及法老宫里有一幅浮凋,所绘内容是末代女王克委巴特拉分娩场景,女王所采用的便是竖式分娩中的“跪姿”。 Has saying that the woman was too difficult! 不得不说,女人真的太难了！ The ancients regard the pregnant woman childbirth for „is not unclean”, in the early time even abstained that produces at home, the men including husband must avoid. The ancient times cannot go to the hospital to have a child like the present, therefore often must suppose a temporary delivery room, use for the childbirth. 古人视孕妇分娩为“不洁”,在早期甚至忌讳在家生产,包括丈夫在内的男人都得回避。古时可不像现在这样可以去医院生孩子,所以往往要设一间临时产房,供分娩用。 Then, is the delivery room located in? How should arrange? Each dynasty is different. 那么,产房设在哪？该怎么布置？各个朝代是不一样的。 Eastern Han Dynasty king Chong «by Graduated arms Four Taboo» recorded, the Qin and Han dynasties generally were „shed grave” and „a hut bank”, namely the path built thatched shed in the tomb and by, as temporary delivery room. Before the childbirth, moves in which the pregnant woman, after giving birth to the child full moon, can hug the child to go home. 东汉王充《论衡・四讳篇》记载,秦汉时期一般是“舍丘墓”、“庐道畔”,即在坟墓和道路旁边搭一草棚子,作为临时产房。在分娩前,将孕妇移入其中,生下孩子满月后,才可以抱着孩子回家住。 When many mothers in replying child „me inquiry where from comes”, often will say that with such words that „picks in the roadside” flickering child. Investigating its linguistic environment source and course then supposes with the early delivery room in the outdoors is related, the child lives in the temporary delivery room in roadside, is not „picks in the roadside”? 不少母亲在回答孩子“我是从哪来的”提问时,往往会说“在路边捡的”,用这样的话来忽悠小孩子。究其语境源流便与早期产房设于户外有关,孩子生在路边的临时产房内,不就是“在路边捡的”吗？ Temporarily in the delivery room supposes simply, generally ground layer straw and wheat straw, as child's bed, therefore had a child in the ancient times „lying in” and „on grass” and „in grass” and „becoming an outlaw” this kind of name. 临时产房内所设简单,一般地上铺层稻草、麦秸,作为产褥,故古代生孩子有“坐草”、“就草”、“在草”、“落草”这类叫法。 When the straw, the ancient must recite the corresponding incantation, according to Chen Ziming «Woman Comprehensive work Effective prescription Sits Moon gate» „bans the grass law's eighth” strip record, the incantation of Song-Yuan period was: „Iron iron ding-dong, non-public works as, is the king says the copper, said the iron. Getting interest on principal and interest both entirely Mietie, may this so at once.” 在铺草时,古人还要念相应咒语,据陈自明《妇人大全良方・坐月门》“禁草法第八”条记载,宋元时期的咒语为:“铁铁当当,非公所当,是王一言得之铜,一言得之铁。母子相生俱蔑铁,急急如律令。” By " Wei , Jin , and Southern and Northern Dynasties " period, the pregnant woman childbirth mostly in own, this perhaps was related with eastern dusk marquis Xiao Baojuan. 到了魏晋南北朝时期,孕妇分娩则大多是在自己家中,这或许与东昏侯萧宝卷有关。 Xiao Baojuan has the custom of everywhere walking randomly, actually does not want to see, each time before the journey, he sends people to drive away the common people of way of passing through, has being in labor pregnant woman's family/home to have the roadside temporarily produces the housing reform to suppose in the family/home. «History of Southern Dynasties under simultaneous/uniform this/Ben Records» records, the pregnant woman has not left the roadside delivery room, finally suffers Xiao Baojuan „to cut open the belly to look at men and women”. 萧宝卷有四处游走的习惯,却又不想让人看到,每次出行之前他就派人驱赶所经之途的老百姓,有待产孕妇之家只好将路边的临时产房改设家里。《南史・齐本纪下》记载,有一孕妇未离开路边产房,结果惨遭萧宝卷“剖腹看男女”。 From now on, had the change in the roadside wild peripheral temporary delivery room custom. 自此,在路边野外设临时产房风俗有了变化。 However, no matter returns alive at home is outside unfamiliar, no matter also kneels is returning alive is sits lives, has not a little changed, was the ancient woman has a child, has really been equivalent to the Gate of Death. 然而,不管是在家里生还是在外面生,也不管是跪着生还是坐着生,有一点始终没有改变的,就是古代女人生孩子,真的相当于过鬼门关。 „Son racing health/life, mother rushed to” these words not to say played. “儿奔生,娘奔死”这句话可不是说着玩的。 The empresses of empress and Kangxi of Western Wei Emperor Emperor Wen of Western Wei died of the difficult labor, it can be imagined in the ancient times the female had a child is a how dangerous matter. 就连西魏皇帝元宝炬的皇后、康熙的皇后都死于难产,可想而知古代女子生孩子是一件多么危险的事情了。 At that time had a child, really met one's fate with resignation, frequently was fates of corpse two lives. 那个时候生孩子,真的是听天由命,动辄就是一尸两命的下场。 If nothing else, solely is a position of the fetus is not positive, can let parturient woman a narrow escape. 别的不说,单单是一个胎位不正,就能让产妇九死一生了。 Even if smooth had the child, the parturient woman has not been out of the danger completely, because must rush to the post-natal bloody collapse and puerperal fever these two checkpoints. 哪怕是顺顺利利的把孩子生下来了,产妇也还没有完全脱离危险,因为还要闯过产后血崩与产褥热这两道关卡。 When the process of childbirth, the placenta and fetal membrane will leave with the birth childbirth of embryo together, if the placenta and fetal membrane cannot the complete childbirth leave, still remained in the womb, then the womb will initiate the massive hemorrhage because of the contraction unsatisfactory. 在分娩的过程中时,胎盘与胎膜会随着胎儿的降生一同娩出,如果胎盘与胎膜未能完整娩出,在子宫之中仍有残留,则子宫会因收缩不佳而引发大出血。 Even if the parturient woman all normal had not had different in the childbirth on the same day, may still because of exhaust the physical strength to cause the immunity in the production process to reduce, and is infected to cause the puerperal fever by the wound. 即便产妇在分娩当天一切正常并未有异,也有可能因在生产过程中耗尽体力而造成免疫力降低,并由创口感染而诱发产褥热。 Under ancient medical condition, parturient woman, once suffered from the child's bed hot radical originally Barbie Q. 在古代的医疗条件下,产妇一旦罹患产褥热基本就芭比Q了。 Even if to the modern age, had a child once the difficult labor, will endanger life. 哪怕是到了现代,生孩子一旦难产,都会危及生命。 Therefore has a child, how really to attach great importance to not being overrated again. 因此生孩子,真的是再怎么重视都不为过。 The first embryo of parturient woman, could not avoid being suffered by the labor pain, the river snow was naturally no exception, but she is good, she starting from that moment of pregnancy, has prepared under the guidance of professional for the production, now finally applies. 产妇的第一胎,都避免不了被阵痛折磨,江雪自然也不例外,不过她已经算是好的了,她从怀孕的那一刻开始,就一直在专业人士的指导下为生产做准备,现在终于是派上用场了。 The front labor pain is quite slight, when close to the production, the labor pain is unendurable, but is good the time of continuing is not long, river Xue on smooth had the child. 前面的阵痛都比较轻微,只是在临近生产的时候,阵痛才难以忍受,不过好在持续的时间并不长,江雪就顺顺利利的把孩子生了出来。 This with these pains was one day and one night parturient women, river Xue is happy. 这跟那些一痛就是一天一夜的产妇来说,江雪已经非常幸福了。 Child's time of birth, to exactly right that Jiang Feng said. 孩子的出生时间,跟江枫说的分毫不差。 Qu Wenhua who the promotion becomes the father was happy that like the child, put out has prepared a good sack red packet, saw the person to send, everyone had the share. 升级当爸爸的曲文华高兴得像个孩子一样,拿出早已准备好的一大袋红包,见人就发,人人有份。 Jiang Feng sees that touched wife's belly, said with a smile: „Wife, now aren't you anxious? You are like my elder sister, does not need to receive too suffers, smooth had the child.” 江枫见状,摸了摸老婆的肚子,笑道:“老婆,现在你不紧张了吧？你跟我姐一样,都不用受太多折磨,顺顺利利的就把孩子生下来了。” yellow Lingwei naturally believes that husband's mysterious predictive ability, she said with a smile: „I like must give an injection now, when the needle has not dug , no matter how to make the psychological construction again, somewhat will be anxious and fear, when the needle really gripped, this anxious with mood of fear, should be able to eliminate.” 黄灵薇自然相信老公的神奇预测能力,她笑着说道:“我现在就像要打针一样,在针还没扎入的时候,不管再怎么做心理建设,都会有些紧张和害怕的,等针真的扎进去了,这股紧张与害怕的情绪,应该就能消除掉了。” Jiang Feng gave her a warm smile, said: „Wife, I accompanies to produce to the delivery room at the appointed time personally, has me to feel relieved in you!” 江枫给了她一个温暖的笑容,说道:“老婆,到时我亲自到产房里面陪产,有我在你就放心吧！” yellow Lingwei hears the facial features to have a smile, has the husband to protect, her anything does not bring to fear. 黄灵薇听得眉眼含笑,有老公呵护着,她什么都不带怕的。 ...... …… As the saying goes „a dynasty was nipped by the snake, ten years fear well rope”, it of disaster is not quite sometimes fearful, what is fearful is it to the serious damage that people cause. 俗话说“一朝被蛇咬,十年怕井绳”,有时候灾祸的本身不太可怕,可怕的是它给人们造成的严重伤害。 33-year-old beam Xiaowei, he receives wound in the sentiment a time, that sentiment wound became very serious consequence to other party, making him no longer believe the love henceforth. 今年33岁的梁小伟,他在感情上就受过一次伤,那次情伤给他造成了非常严重的后果,让他从此不再相信爱情。 beam Xiaowei was born in the ordinary household, because he grows leads the academic record to be good, making him receive the female student to like in the school days extremely, in high two that year then with class flower secretly love. 梁小伟出生于普通家庭,由于他长得帅学习成绩又好,让他在学生时代极受女生喜欢,在高二那一年便和班花偷偷恋爱了。 For two people the same goal tries hard, was admitted to some domestic 985 universities together, during the university two people are „deity volume companion who” the school becomes famous, envy Sha did not know many single dog. 两人为了共同的目标努力,一起考上了国内某个985大学,在大学期间两人是学校出了名的“神仙卷侣”,羡煞了不知道多少单身狗。 beam Xiaowei thinks, after two people university graduates, will work in the same place city, then logical marriage and having child, on ideal life. 原本梁小伟以为,两人大学毕业后,会在同一座城市工作,然后顺理成章的结婚生子,过上理想的生活。 Finally, he guessed the opening, actually cannot guess the ending. 结果,他猜中了开头,却猜不中结尾。 University graduation back rest Xiaowei truly works in the same place city with the first love girlfriend, even two people had been in the situation of being married, the first love girlfriend but who at this critical moment, once did not marry with his pledge of eternal love him, betrayed their love, the choice threw into the arms of some second generation of rich. 大学毕业后梁小伟跟初恋女友确实在同一座城市工作,甚至两人都已经到了谈婚论嫁的地步,可就在这个关键时刻,曾跟他山盟海誓非他不嫁的初恋女友,背叛了他们的爱情,选择投进了某个富二代的怀抱。 To be honest, knew beam Xiaowei who news collapsed, is unable to bear this attack, thinks that does not understand first love girlfriend well why suddenly changed! 说实话,得知消息的梁小伟崩溃了,根本无法承受这个打击,也想不明白初恋女友好好的为什么突然就变了！ He persists in taking an explanation. 他坚持要一个解释。 Therefore, the first love girlfriend then gave him an explanation, spoke the following a few words to him: 于是,初恋女友便给了他一个解释,给他说了以下一段话: „ Viagra, without going out of campus, I truly heart and soul is loving you, is thinking and you cross for a lifetime. After may go out of the campus starts to be in contact with the society, I know that the beforehand these ideas have ridiculously childish how. “伟哥,在没走出校园的时候,我确实是全心全意的爱着你,想着和你过一辈子。可走出校园开始接触社会之后,我才知道以前的那些想法有多么的幼稚可笑。 By your my such family, we, if marries, the house definitely cannot afford, must rent the house to live. Then two people trying hard works, the economical in everyday spending several years, may accumulate enough an initial deposit of house again. 以你我这样的家庭,咱们要是结婚的话,房子肯定是买不起的,得租房子住。然后两人努力工作,再省吃俭用个几年,才有可能攒够一套房子的首付款。 During this period, we could not have a child, otherwise is not several years, ten years are not necessarily able to collect obtain a downpayment of house. 在此期间,咱们还不能生孩子,否则就不是几年,十年都未必能凑得出一套房子的首付。 Calculates by for ten years, the house bought, two people returned the home loan, while raised the child, then continued economically in everyday spending, contributed money to buy the car(riage). 就以十年来算,房子买下来了,两人又得一边还房贷,一边养孩子,然后继续省吃俭用,攒钱买车。 When the house vehicle had, what if we live is a son, perhaps economical in everyday spending saved the color tip...... the so most lifetime to pass for him, has been economical in everyday spending, such day light was thinks to let my scalp tingles. 等房子车子都有了,如果咱们生的是儿子,恐怕又得省吃俭用的为他存彩礼钱……如此大半辈子过去了,一直都在省吃俭用,这样的日子光是想想都让我头皮发麻。 Viagra, I have really not thought this day, do you understand? ” 伟哥,我真不想过这种日子,你明白吗？” beam Xiaowei hears dumbfounded, from his perspective, two people who so long as fall in love in the same place, even if the life has impoverished, that is also joyful. 梁小伟听得哑口无言,从他的角度来看,只要相爱的两个人在一起,哪怕生活过得清苦一点,那也是快乐的。 But this loved one another 78 years of woman with him, does not think very much obviously like this. 可这个跟他相恋了七八年的女人,很显然不是这样想的。 The so-called love in the face of money, really collapses at the first blow. 所谓的爱情在金钱面前,真的是不堪一击。 Just like some piece that has the satire significance: 正如某个具有讽刺意义的段子: „ A girl following second generation of rich ran, several years later before meeting the boyfriend, the first boyfriend asked her: “一个女孩跟着富二代跑了,几年后遇到了前男友,前男友问她: Are the second generations of rich really better than me? Your stomach is not good, midnight frequently hurts, I go to the market every morning, buys the freshest ginger to sliver the piece to place side you, lets you uncomfortable time holds. My present blade labor caught up with the chef quickly, can he do that for you? 富二代真的比我好吗？你胃不好,半夜经常疼,我每天早上去市场,买最新鲜的姜切成片放在你身边,让你不舒服的时候含着。我现在刀工都快赶上厨师了,他能为你这么做吗？ The reply of girl undulating: He cannot achieve your, but he spent 300,000 to lead me to go to the big hospital to cure my gastric disease. ” 女孩澹澹的回答:他做不到你这样,但他花了30万带我去大医院治好了我的胃病。” Also starting from that moment, beam Xiaowei did not believe the love. 也就是从那一刻开始,梁小伟再也不相信爱情了。 But what magic is, betrayed their love in the first love girlfriend, after putting into the arms of some second generation of rich, in a while, the rich and powerful people couple walks to acknowledge as relatives. 而魔幻的是,就在初恋女友背叛了他们的爱情,投入某个富二代的怀抱之后,没过多久,就有一对富豪夫妇找上门来认亲。 Originally this to the rich and powerful people couple is not others, unexpectedly is the beam Xiaowei birth parents. 原来这对富豪夫妇不是别人,竟然是梁小伟的亲生父母。 The plot of this dog blood, with similar that the soap opera performs, in any case is beam Xiaowei, when the hospital was born, by hugging of mistake arising out of chance circumstances wrong. 这狗血的剧情,就跟电视剧上演的差不多,反正就是梁小伟在医院出生的时候,被阴差阳错的抱错了。 What dog blood is, snatched his first love girlfriend's that second generation of rich, was the same year same month and same day was born in the same hospital with him, was he is hugged with beam Xiaowei mistakenly, two people exchanged the status. 更加狗血的是,抢了他初恋女友的那个富二代,跟他是同年同月同日在同一家医院出生,就是他跟梁小伟被抱错了,两人互换了身份。 Originally should does not have any two people of happening together, have the world's most special relations. 本来应该没有什么交集的两人,却拥有了世上最特殊的关系。 Occupies the status regarding this, the fellow but who also robs the first love girlfriend, beam Xiaowei actually does not hate him, first matter of status exchange, that definitely is not his mistake. 对于这个占据自己身份,还抢走自己初恋女友的家伙,梁小伟其实并不恨他,首先身份互换的事,那肯定不是他的错。 Next, snatches girlfriend matter, beam Xiaowei also obtains the clear right and wrong, if his first love girlfriend is really dead set on to him, no one can rob. 其次,抢女朋友这种事情,梁小伟也分得清是非对错,如果他的初恋女友对他真的死心塌地,那谁也抢不走。 Even, so long as the fellow starts to pursue his first love girlfriend, the first love girlfriend first will tell him this matter. 甚至,只要那家伙开始追求他的初恋女友,初恋女友就会第一时间把这事告诉他。 But his first love girlfriends had not mentioned to beam Xiaowei from beginning to end others pursue her matter, that primary responsibility not on the body of that fellow, but on his first love girlfriend. 可从头到尾他的初恋女友都没对梁小伟提到过别人追她的事,那主要责任就不在那个家伙的身上,而是在他的初恋女友身上了。 After becoming the second generation of rich, Hong Xiaowei( is beam Xiaowei, after birth parents recognize each other, beam Xiaowei surname changed, name has not changed) also to locate many girlfriends, but these girlfriends he does not have one is to invest the sentiment, puts up the cash directly, everyone accords to his need. 成为富二代后,洪小伟(就是梁小伟,在跟亲生父母相认后,梁小伟就把姓改了回去,名字没改)也处过很多女朋友,但这些女朋友他没有一个是投入感情的,都是直接砸钱,大家各取所需。 Played for several years later, the parents started to urge the marriage! 玩了几年后,父母开始催婚了！ However, Hong Xiaowei also very resists regarding the marriage, in his opinion with a woman marriage that does not have the sentiment, really does not need completely, wants to reproduce the descendant in any case, the test-tube baby can the meet requirement. 然而,洪小伟对于结婚还挺抗拒的,在他看来跟一个没有感情的女人结婚,真的完全没有必要,反正想要繁殖后代,试管婴儿就可以满足要求。 As for playing poker, so long as you have money, is willing to accompany you to play the poker the pretty woman greatly together, no matter plays three people to fight the landlord, is four people of tractors, is not the issue. 至于打扑克,只要你有钱,大把漂亮女人愿意陪你一起打扑克,不管是玩三人斗地主,还是四人拖拉机,都不是问题。 Also so, why to ask a woman to come back a minute/share of family property? 如此,又何必找个女人回来分家产呢？ Naturally, these words Hong Xiaowei no one had said that urging marriage that but faces the parents, he used the stalling tactics, has used a pretext has not run into the right object. 当然,这些话洪小伟谁也没说,只是面对父母的催婚,他采用了拖字诀,一直推说没有遇到合适的对象。 This drags, drags the present. 这一拖,就拖到了现在。