Mid-Autumn Festival is the day of reunion. 中秋是团圆的日子。 In some Suzhou luxurious villa, slow Xueling also accompanies the parents to drink tea while enjoys looking at the moon. 在苏州某座豪华别墅,徐雪玲也陪着父母一边喝茶一边赏月。 After the parents chatted the words of some gossips, slow Xueling says: „Father, mother, I have a matter to with you discuss.” 跟父母聊了些家长里短的话后,徐雪玲才开口说道:“爸,妈,我有个事要跟你们商量一下。” Ms. Xu asked: „What matter you said!” 徐母问道:“什么事啊你说！” slow Xueling carried the tea to drink one, the undulating said: „I want to divorce.” 徐雪玲端起茶喝了一口,澹澹说道:“我想离婚。” Mr. Xu Ms. Xu hears word do not feel the accident/surprise, the life of after marriage daughter son-in-law, they, when parents is also knows, moreover this first time was not the daughter raised the divorce. 徐父徐母闻言都不觉得意外,女儿女婿的婚后生活,他们当父母的也是知道一些的,而且这也不是女儿第一次提离婚了。 Ms. Xu have mixed feelings saying: „ Tinkling, I gave you to arrange this marriage with your father in the past, although development for company, but is the process is also selective, Qin Siyu the family background background personal ability compares to be a match with you, you in should be able together happy. 徐母心情复杂的说道:“玲玲,当年我跟你爸给你安排了这桩婚姻,虽说是为了自家公司的发展,但也是经过精挑细选的,那秦思宇无论是家世背景还是个人能力跟你都比较般配,你们在一起应该是能够得到幸福的。 Has not thought more than five years passed, you were such as were still the same initially cannot have a liking for the eye mutually, this showed that I was truly mistaken with your father. ” 可没想到五年多过去了,你们仍然是如当初一样互相看不上眼,这证明我跟你爸确实是看走眼了。” 【Stable running many years of novel app, compare favorably with old version to pursue book divine tool, old bookworms using trading source App , huanyuanapp.org】 【稳定运行多年的小说app,媲美老版追书神器,老书虫都在用的换源App,huanyuanapp.org】 slow Xueling said: „Now said that these did not have the significance, this time divorced me to reach an agreement with Qin Siyu, hopes that do not stop again.” 徐雪玲道:“现在说这些也没有意义了,这次离婚我是跟秦思宇商量好了的,希望你们不要再阻拦了。” Mr. Xu sighed: „ Tinkling, I before your mother does not agree with you to divorce, on the one hand is the company develops in the critical moment, cannot have any mistake. On the other hand wants to have a look at your marriages, but also there is a leeway of recalling. 徐父叹了口气道:“玲玲,我跟你妈之前不同意你离婚,一方面是公司发展正在关键时刻,不能出现任何差错。另一方面是想看看你们的婚姻,还有没有挽回的余地。 But now looks like, you two truly are inappropriate, since you have reached an agreement with him, I will not oppose with your mother, does not know that side your husband's family's home to agree. ” 可现在看来,你们两个确实是不合适,既然你跟他已经商量好了,那我跟你妈也不会反对,就是不知道你婆家那边会不会同意。” Sees the father no longer to oppose her to divorce, slow Xueling mood improved finally much, said with ease: „This you could rest assured that Qin Siyu he will be responsible for convincing his parents.” 见父亲不再反对她离婚,徐雪玲心情总算变好了不少,轻松道:“这个你们放心,秦思宇他会负责说服他父母的。” Mr. Xu nods saying: „You truly reached an agreement with Qin Siyu evidently, calculates that you have the foreknowledge, for these years had not wanted the child, only trouble was the division in property!” 徐父点头道:“看样子你跟秦思宇确实是商量好了,也算你们有先见之明,这几年没有要孩子,唯一麻烦的就是财产方面的分割了！” slow Xueling said: „Property division makes the specialized person do, is divided into similar two in any case probably on the line, who are many a point who are few point is also indifferent.” 徐雪玲道:“财产分割让专业的人去做,反正大概分成差不多的两份就行,谁多一点谁少一点也无所谓。” Ms. Xu resembled remembered anything, sees the daughter saying: „Tinkling, your time raises divorces me not to oppose with your father, but I must first talk clearly with you, after the divorce, you cannot marry you these pretty boy who look for outside, I will be will not agree absolutely.” 徐母似是想起了什么,看着女儿道:“玲玲,你这次提离婚我跟你爸都不反对,但是我得先跟你说清楚,离婚之后你可不能嫁给你在外面找的那些小白脸,那我是绝对不会同意的。” In the five years, the daughter son-in-law plays after marriage respectively various, this matter actually both sides parents know in heart, but the daughter plays to turn over to play outside, but really must marry outside pretty boy that definitely is incorrect. 这五年多来,女儿女婿婚后各玩各的,这种事情其实双方父母心里都有数,不过女儿在外面玩归玩,但真要嫁给外面的小白脸那肯定是不行的。 slow Xueling knits the brows: „Mother, you also thinks I do look for a properly matched partner?” 徐雪玲皱眉道:“妈,你是不是还想我找个门当户对的对象？” Ms. Xu said: „You are the daughters of Xu, even if not look properly matched, at least must look for favorable, in brief the phoenix male and pretty boy and so on, cannot marry absolutely.” 徐母道:“你是我们徐家的女儿,就算不找门当户对的,至少也要找个条件不错的,总之凤凰男、小白脸之类的,是绝对不能嫁。” Mr. Xu is also such attitude, he said: „ Tinkling, your mother said right, pretty boy with phoenix male and so on truly cannot marry. The pretty boy were not many said that that was by the waste that the woman raised. 徐父也是这样的态度,他说道:“玲玲,你妈说得没错,小白脸跟凤凰男之类的确实不能嫁。小白脸就不多说了,那是靠女人养的废物。 Various the phoenix male aspects are actually much stronger than the pretty boy, but the phoenix male often bears the parents who oneself study( some also to include brothers and sisters to untold hardships, even the entire village and entire family) have the serious guilt. 凤凰男各方面倒是比小白脸强得多,但凤凰男往往对千辛万苦负担自己求学的父母(有的还包括兄弟姐妹,甚至整个村子、整个家族)存在着沉重的负疚感。 Also therefore derives the intense sense of responsibility, thinks that improves their life is wife's unshirkable responsibility, otherwise is „ungrateful”, „will be poked ji beam bone”. Driven by this thought that the benefit of small family/home, wife's mood, was arranged after the entire family's need, once the wife has discontentedly to this inexhaustible subsidizing, small family on inevitable raising storm. 也因此衍生出强烈的责任感,认为改善他们的生活是自己和妻子义不容辞的责任,否则就是“忘恩负义”,会被人“戳嵴梁骨”。在这种思想的驱使下,小家的利益,妻子的心情,就被排在整个家族的需要之后,妻子一旦对这种无穷无尽的贴补有所不满,小家庭就不可避免的掀起风暴。 Moreover the man who the rural area grows up, the regarded men as superior to women feudalistic thinking influence, some had 34 even 78 elder sisters, since childhood witnessed one generation for the country dweller what kind of reckless, for „passes on incense and candle” is, is influenced by what one sees and hears, to oneself bore children, to the wife belly in the sex of baby, were many several points of impractical anticipation. 而且农村长大的男子,不免受到重男轻女的封建思想影响,有的自己就有三四个甚至七八个姐姐,从小目睹了一代代农村人为了“传香火”是怎样的不顾一切,耳濡目染,到了自己生儿育女的时候,对妻子肚子里宝宝的性别,就多了几分不切实际的期待。 If lives to be inferior oneself hope, the parents are disappointed, oneself also think that wife „belly does not make every effort to succeed”, what good point is the persuasion has two children, and what is more to parturient woman sarcastic comments and even the domestic abuse, the tragedy that creates families. 如果生下来不如自己所愿,父母失望,自己也认为妻子“肚子不争气”,好一点的是劝说生二胎,更有甚者对产妇冷言冷语乃至家庭暴力,造成一个又一个家庭的悲剧。 Therefore, the pretty boy with the phoenix male, truly does not marry. ” 所以,小白脸跟凤凰男,确实是嫁不得。” slow Xueling said: „Father, mother, you said extremely was one-sided, did not deny that really had such example, but not all phoenix male were this, even the pretty boy still had good side.” 徐雪玲道:“爸,妈,你们说得太过于片面了,不否认确实是有这样的例子,但并不是所有凤凰男都是这样的,就算是小白脸也有好的一面。” Ms. Xu took a look at her one eyes saying: „Tinkling, your saying said is not groundless, we cannot a bamboo pole overturn a ship person, but is the key of issue you are capable of that differentiating their differences?” 徐母瞅了她一眼道:“玲玲,你这话说得也不无道理,我们不能一竿子打翻一船人,可问题的关键是你有那个能力去区分他们的区别吗？” slow Xueling undulating said with a smile: „I do not have that ability to differentiate their differences, but in this world has a person definitely to be capable of separating out them.” 徐雪玲澹澹笑道:“我是没那个能力去区分他们的区别,但这世上有个人是绝对有能力把他们区分开来的。” „Who has this ability?” “谁有这个能力？” „Grandmaster river.” “江大师。” Mr. Xu Ms. Xu looked at each other one, saw vacant in opposite party eyes. 徐父徐母对视了一眼,都看到了对方眼中的茫然。 Ms. Xu asked: „Who is this Grandmaster river? When did you start to believe the Grandmaster?” 徐母问道:“这江大师又是谁？你什么时候开始信大师了？” slow Xueling did not feel strange that her parents do not know Grandmaster river, after all Grandmaster river is recent more than one year leaves the pen in the matchmaker fire, but she had gotten married five years ago, the parents do not pay attention to matchmaker matter that are the normal things. 徐雪玲一点都不奇怪她的父母不知道江大师,毕竟江大师是最近一年多才在媒人界火出圈的,而她早在五年前就已经嫁人了,父母不关注媒人界的事那是再正常不过的事情。 Therefore, slow Xueling then introduced simply an acting as a matchmaker personal history of Grandmaster river, hears Mr. Xu Ms. Xu to be dumbfounded, cannot believe in this world really to have such mysterious matchmaker Grandmaster. 于是,徐雪玲便简单的介绍了一遍江大师的做媒履历,直听得徐父徐母目瞪口呆,不敢相信这世上竟然有这么神奇的媒人大师。 Blew the parents shortly, slow Xueling said: „Father, mother, the acting as a matchmaker strength of Grandmaster river, that is mother Yong doubts, when I divorced after Qin Siyu, went to the Guangxi province provincial capital to ask Grandmaster river to go into action, making him help me look to suit my object, Grandmaster river will not disappoint me.” 眼看把父母镇住了,徐雪玲才说道:“爸,妈,江大师的做媒实力,那是母庸置疑的了,等我跟秦思宇离婚后,就去桂省省城请江大师出马,让他帮我物色个适合我的对象,想必江大师是不会让我失望的。” The surprised color in Mr. Xu eyes has not diverged, he sighs with emotion: „Tinkling, if Grandmaster river some really you said that mysteriously, your marriage truly did not need us to worry!” 徐父眼中的惊讶之色还没散去,他感慨道:“玲玲,如果江大师真有你说得那么神奇,那你的婚姻确实不用我们操心了！” In Ms. Xu heart somewhat is slightly excited. 徐母心中稍微有些激动。 In the five years, the daughter crosses after marriage not happily, this is she with the husband together for the marriage affinity that the daughter chooses, finally they have not imagined are so good, this is mother must say that at heart 1 point not guilty that is not possible. 这五年多来,女儿婚后过得不幸福,这是她跟丈夫一起为女儿挑选的姻缘,结果并没有他们想象中那么好,她这个做母亲的要说心里一点都不愧疚那是不可能的。 The daughter 30 over, had not just been in the marriage market of this age luckily, all can start over from the beginning. 幸好女儿也才刚刚三十出头,在这个年代的婚配市场还算不上大龄,一切都可以从头再来。 slow Xueling forked a scrap moon cake to feed in the mouth with the fork, ate while said: „If in any case smooth, perhaps this year can change a son-in-law to you, next year will make you hug the grandchild.” 徐雪玲用叉子叉了一小块月饼送进嘴里,一边吃一边说道:“反正要是顺利的话,或许今年就能给你们换个女婿,明年就让你们抱上外孙了。” Mr. Xu Ms. Xu looked at each other one again, saw the anticipation in opposite party eyes. 徐父徐母再次对视了一眼,都看到了对方眼中的期待。 Because the company of their family/home marries with Qin Jia, for these years developed goes a step further, what only regret was daughter's marriage is not very happy, moreover cannot hug the grandchild. 他们家的公司因为跟秦家联姻,这几年发展是更进一步,唯一遗憾的是女儿的婚姻不够幸福,而且迟迟没能抱上外孙。 If this can make up this regret, they really strove for no other. 这要是能补上这个遗憾,那他们真的就别无所求了。 ...... …… Some Chinese medicine clinic, an old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine is taking the pulse for Zhou Haifeng. 某中医诊所,一位老中医正在为周海锋把脉。 A moment later, the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine receives to reach behind the back, looks meaningfully Zhou Haifeng said: „Young fellow, the woman blows the bone steel knife, you are limited!” 片刻之后,老中医收回手,意味深长的看着周海锋道:“小伙子,女人是刮骨钢刀,你要节制啊！” Zhou Haifeng hears word is quite awkward, he cannot tell the doctor, said that he has not actually bumped the woman, because reflects yellow master the occupation doing this, therefore he can only remain silent. 周海锋闻言颇为尴尬,他总不能告诉医生,说他其实没碰过女人,而是因为鉴黄师的职业给搞成这样,所以他只能保持沉默。 Is good because , the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine selected one, then did not have to say anything again, but mentioned Zhou Haifeng the condition: „You are the human immunodeficiency strength that the Yin deficiency-fire causes prosperously drop, therefore has various ill symptoms, I first prescribe the vice- medicine to you, then matches by the acupunture therapy, must pay attention to the diet, these bad habits and customs must adjust to be good.” 好在,老中医只是点了一句,便没有再多说什么,而是说起了周海锋的病情:“你这是阴虚火旺导致的人体免疫力下降,所以才出现各种身体不适的症状,我先给你开副药,然后再配以针灸治疗,还有要注意饮食,那些不良的生活习惯也要调节过来才行。” Zhou Haifeng asked: „Like my situation, how long must recuperate generally, can get back?” 周海锋问道:“像我这种情况,一般要调养多久,才能恢复过来？” Chinese medical ethics: „You, if actively coordinates to treat, that about three months should be able your body recuperating, if you actively do not coordinate to treat, this time may be difficult to say!” 老中医道:“你如果积极配合治疗的话,那三个月左右应该就可以把你的身体给调养过来了,如果你不积极配合治疗,这个时间可就难说了！” Zhou Haifeng said: „Doctor, I actively will definitely coordinate to treat.” 周海锋道:“医生,我肯定会积极配合治疗的。” The old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine nod said: „Ok, I first make the acupuncture to you, then writes the vice- formula to you, you grasp several medicines to go back to recuperate slowly, when finished eating the medicine, then coming makes me have a look, I according to effect adjustment formula.” 老中医点头道:“行,那我先给你做针灸吧,然后再给你开副药方,你抓几副药回去慢慢调理,等把药都吃完了,再过来让我看看,我会根据效果调整药方。” Since came to the clinic, that must certainly listen to the doctor. 既然来了诊所,那肯定就要听医生的。 Therefore, then the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine then gives Zhou Haifeng to make the acupuncture, used the method of acupuncture point recuperation, the main acupuncture to/clashes, foot three li (0.5 km), Guanyuan, god error and other acupuncture points, to adjust the function of his vitality operation and nervous system, strengthens his body resistivity. 于是,接下来老中医便给周海锋做针灸,采用了穴位调理的方法,主要针刺太冲、足三里、关元、神阙等穴位,以调节他的气血运行和神经系统的功能,增强他的身体抵抗力。 After completing the acupuncture, the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine then gave Zhou Haifeng to write a formula, the essential component had the Chinese angelica, Baishu, Poris cocos and radix astragali, ripe, codonopsis pilosula. These traditional Chinese medicines have the invigorating qi and nourishing blood, to be good for the spleen qi-building, the function of clearing heat and detoxication, can improve Zhou Haifeng the physical condition, enhances his immunity. 做完针灸后,老中医便给周海锋开了一副药方,主要成分有当归、白术、茯苓、黄芪、熟地、党参等。这些中药具有补气养血、益气健脾、清热解毒的作用,可以改善周海锋的身体状况,提高他的免疫力。 After Zhou Haifeng pays special attention to the medicine, the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine said: „Young fellow, you , if there is condition, goes back to eat some nutritious food, such as the bird nest, shark fin, the turtle meat, auricularia auricula, these food can supplement that the nutrition in within the body, strengthens the physique.” 给周海锋抓好药后,老中医才说道:“小伙子,你要是有条件的话,回去就多食用一些滋补的食物,如燕窝、鱼翅、龟肉、黑木耳等,这些食物可以补充体内的营养,增强体质。” Zhou Haifeng nods saying: „Good, I knew, what that has to want the dietary restriction?” 周海锋点头道:“好的,我知道了,那有什么要忌口的吗？” Chinese medical ethics: „Little eats pungent irritant food on the line.” 老中医道:“少吃辛辣刺激性的食物就行。” This saying Zhou Haifeng is ripe, so long as generally looks at the Chinese medicine, basically must have these words, after he bears in mind, asked: „Doctor, you said a moment ago must change these bad habits and customs, does not know that which habits and customs specifically refers to?” 这话周海锋熟啊,一般只要是看中医,基本都少不了这句话,他记在心里之后,又问道:“医生,刚才你说要改掉那些不良的生活习惯,不知道具体是指哪些生活习惯呢？” „Is the attention adjusts own life style, maintains the sufficient sleep, keeps regular hours, avoids staying up late. Carries on the appropriate movement, strengthens the physique.” “就是注意调节自己的生活方式,保持充足的睡眠,早睡早起,避免熬夜。还有进行适当的运动,增强体质。” At this point, old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine again meaningful saying: „Was I just started saying that with you, the woman blows the bone steel knife, little bump to wonderfully.” 说到这里,老中医再次意味深长的说道:“还有就是我刚开始跟你说的,女人是刮骨钢刀,还是少碰为妙。” „Ok, I remembered!” Zhou Haifeng should say hastily. “行,我记住了！”周海锋连忙应道。 He said that embarrassed he sees the L body of woman now on the gastric disorder, the urgent matter first recuperates his body of that debt, when took care, but perhaps the wound not medicine in psychological recovered! 他都不好意思说他现在看到女人的L体就反胃,当务之急是先调理好他那亏空的身体,等把身体调理好了,或许心理方面的创伤就不药而愈了呢！ Old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine after explaining, then starts to give Zhou Haifeng to get medicine. 老中医在交待完后,便开始给周海锋抓药。 After several minutes, Zhou Haifeng sweeps the code to pay money, then took several medicines to leave the clinic. 几分钟后,周海锋扫码付钱,然后拿着几副药离开了诊所。 Just went out of the clinic, the front surface walks a stature to select also very to be long high pretty woman, if put before he affirms steadily stares at others to look, but now the woman in his eyes is the rouge skeleton, he did not look askance completely, like has not seen the opposite party, selected the beautiful woman to brush past with that high. 刚走出诊所,迎面走来一个身材高挑长得也挺漂亮的女人,要是搁在以前他肯定得目不转睛地盯着人家看,可现在女人在他眼里就是红粉骷髅,他完全是目不斜视,如同没看到对方一样,跟那个高挑美女擦肩而过。 Selects the beautiful woman to turn head high, looks at Zhou Haifeng disappearance slowly in her at present, some of she of suspicion life cannot help but pulled out a small mirror to illuminate from the package illuminated, discovered that on the face really nothing not right place, relaxes. 高挑美女回过头来,看着周海锋慢慢的消失在她眼前,有些怀疑人生的她不由得从包里掏出一面小镜子照了又照,发现脸上真的没有什么不对劲的地方,才松了口气。 Immediately she then at heart secret drop gu: „Snort, this fellow definitely was blind, peerless appearance that therefore has not discovered this miss.” 随即她便在心里暗暗滴咕了一句:“哼,这家伙肯定是眼瞎了,所以才没有发现本姑娘的绝世容颜。” Then, she then returns in the mirror the package, then rubbed the somewhat sore waist, entered this reputation very good Chinese medicine clinic. 说完,她便把镜子放回包里,然后揉了揉有些酸痛的腰,走进了这家口碑非常好的中医诊所。 ...... …… In an instant then to National Day. 转眼间便到了国庆。 Qinghe Town Qinghe Hotel, is holding a grand wedding. 青河镇青河大酒店,正在举办一场盛大的婚礼。 Qinghe Hotel, is the Qinghe Town best hotel, does not have one, today holds the wedding in Qinghe Hotel is not others, is Chen Wensheng and Wang Xiumei. 青河大酒店,是青河镇最好的酒店,没有之一,今天在青河大酒店举办婚礼的不是别人,正是陈文盛与王秀美。 Last year Chen Wensheng, made the parents desperate gnawed the old clan, at that time Mr. Chen Ms. Chen is thinking to son last time opportunity, then prepared the present to go to Longshan Village to ask Grandmaster river to have horse caravan her son to act as a matchmaker. 去年的陈文盛,还是个让父母绝望的啃老族,当时陈父陈母想着给儿子最后一次机会,便备上礼品前往龙山村请江大师出马帮她儿子做媒。 Mr. Chen Ms. Chen had not had the high hope, because their sons were really the too waste firewood, said the sentence from the black words, only if the girls were blind, otherwise could not have a liking for their sons. 原本陈父陈母都没抱多大希望,因为他们的儿子真的是太废柴了,说句自黑的话,人家姑娘除非是瞎了,否则都看不上他们的儿子。 But, Grandmaster river really flamboyant, after the help looks for the object, goes into action to help reconcile by mother of Grandmaster river, but finally really made Mr. Chen Ms. Chen too pleasantly surprised! 但,江大师是真的牛逼,在帮忙物色好对象之后,由江大师的母亲出马帮忙撮合,而结果真的让陈父陈母太惊喜了！ Their that suspend the rotten waste son thoroughly, had a liking for Grandmaster river being on intimate terms object who helps look, then under teaching of being on intimate terms object, less than six months is reborn, like changing individual, making Mr. Chen Ms. Chen really be pleasantly surprised. 他们那个彻底摆烂的废物儿子,一眼就看上了江大师帮忙物色的相亲对象,然后在相亲对象的管教下,不到半年时间就脱胎换骨,如同变了个人一样,让陈父陈母真是惊喜之极。 Now, the waste son knew to progress, the daughter-in-law was so also outstanding, Mr. Chen Ms. Chen was happy that does not know own ancestor was surnamed anything! 如今,废物儿子知道上进了,儿媳妇又如此优秀,陈父陈母高兴得都不知道自己祖宗姓什么了！ Therefore, comes Ms. Jiang who again and again attended the wedding, Mr. Chen Ms. Chen that really regarding today expressed gratitude, and regarded the audience most honored guest to entertain Ms. Jiang. 因此,对于今天过来参加婚礼的江母,陈父陈母那真的是一而再再而三的表示感谢,并把江母当成全场最尊贵的客人来招待。 Not is only Mr. Chen Ms. Chen, the parents of bride's side regarding Ms. Jiang this matchmaker, feels grateful, after all their daughters can marry Chen such family, they are also satisfaction. 不仅仅是陈父陈母,女方的父母对于江母这个媒人,也是心存感激,毕竟他们的女儿能嫁到陈家这样的家庭,他们也是满意之极。 This wedding, is it can be said that happy. 这一场婚礼,可以说是皆大欢喜。 The wedding ended the later second day, 9 : 30 am, Mr. Chen Ms. Chen then with the son daughter-in-law together, bringing pig and pig buttocks, to send he, candy, biscuit, fruit, smoke, liquor, tea and other big piles of presents, as well as an ultra-large number red packet, arrives at Jiang to thank the matchmaker after the wedding. 婚礼结束之后的第二天,上午 9 点半,陈父陈母便跟儿子儿媳一起,带着猪头、猪臀、发籺、糖果、饼干、水果、烟、酒、茶等一大堆礼品,以及一个超大号的红包,来到江家谢媒。 What in red packet is 68000 Yuan, really could be said as the great writer in the rural area! 红包里面封的是68000元,在农村真的可以说是大手笔了！