„Occupation employing professional mourners person?” Chen Yonggui hears a face to compel ignorant, what occupation is this? He listens not to hear. “职业哭丧人？”陈永贵听得一脸懵逼,这到底是什么职业啊？他连听都没听说过。 Jiang Feng looks at his expression, knows that he does not understand this occupation, then explained: „Uncle Chen, this occupation employing professional mourners person, is the meaning that helps others employ professional mourners, this occupation us does not have, but Guandong that side hundred years ago had.” 江枫看他表情,就知道他不懂这个职业,便解释道:“陈叔,这职业哭丧人,就是帮别人哭丧的意思,这种职业我们这边没有,但粤省那边百年前就有了。” „Helps others employ professional mourners?” Chen Yonggui hears word really broadens the outlook, has not thought in this world really also to have such occupation. “帮别人哭丧？”陈永贵闻言真是大开眼界,万万没有想到这世上竟然还有这样的职业。 The Jiang Feng nod said: „Yes, helping others employ professional mourners, mother of my customer in their side is also known, asking her others who helped employ professional mourners to be many.” 江枫点头道:“是的,帮人家哭丧,我这位客户的母亲在他们那边也算是小有名气,请她帮忙哭丧的人家还蛮多的。” Chen Yonggui after shock, in the heart also had to ban somewhat hesitated, the groom's family mothers can put out 1 million to come to oneself the son to get married one time, this family property to their like this ordinary families, truly was extremely abundant, if his daughter married that is seeks friendships. 陈永贵在震撼过后,心中也有禁有些犹豫了,男方母亲能一次性拿出一百万来给自家儿子结婚,这家底对于他们这样的普通人家来说,确实算是极为雄厚了,他女儿要是嫁过去那是高攀了的。 But listens to the occupation that the groom's family parents were engaged in now, Chen Yonggui brow could not bear wrinkle, this occupation somewhat was truly unlucky! 可现在听了男方父母所从事的职业,陈永贵眉头就忍不住皱起来了,这职业确实有些晦气啊！ As the country dweller, Chen Yonggui did not say that blindly believed, but regarding this matter, somewhat also some taboos. 作为农村人,陈永贵不说有多迷信吧,但对于这种事情,多多少少也会有些忌讳的。 Looks at a face puzzled Chen Yonggui, Jiang Feng enlightening said: „Uncle Chen, actually this matter really does not need extremely to care, fairies type of illusory thing, compared with poor also fearful?” 看着一脸纠结的陈永贵,江枫开导道:“陈叔,其实这种事情真没必要太过在意,神神鬼鬼这种虚无飘渺的东西,难道会比穷还可怕？” Feared poorly Chen Yonggui nods to say with deep feelings: „River matchmakers you said are reasonable, what in does this world have to be able poor more fearful than? Work that can make money legitimately, that is good to work.” 穷怕了的陈永贵深有感触的点头道:“江媒人你说得有道理,这世上还有什么能比穷更可怕？能合法赚钱的工作,那就是好工作。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „ Is this truth, if feared that discriminated, after the marriage , the young couple does not need to treat in the groom's family native place, has the 1 million, settles down a difficulty not to have in the 23 cities of nation the groom's family parents give. 江枫笑道:“就是这个道理,如果怕受歧视的话,结婚后小两口也不用待在男方老家,有男方父母给的这一百万,在全国的二三线城市安家一点难度都没有。 Then, the young couple goes back the groom's family native place at most at holidays, the groom's family parents' effect of occupation on the young couple is not naturally big. 如此一来,小两口顶多就逢年过节回去一下男方老家,男方父母的职业对小两口的影响自然就不大了。 Even turns our Guangxi province to settle down the groom's family, is not good, so long as two people really to glancing, this can discuss. ” 甚至是把男方拐到咱们桂省这边来安家,也不是不行,只要两人真对上眼了,这都是可以商量的。” Chen Yonggui hears two to shine, in the heart suddenly sees the light, slightly somewhat excited saying: „So long as can settle down to our Gui Sheng, that this wedding I facilitate certainly vigorously.” 陈永贵听得两眼放光,心中豁然开朗,微微有些激动的说道:“只要能到咱们桂省安家,那这门婚事我一定极力促成。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „ Uncle Chen you do not have the opinion to be good, but the present is fastidious about the freedom of marriage age, cannot as before by the guardian arranged marriage, therefore must trouble Uncle Chen you to call your eldest daughter to communicate this matter, talks clearly with her the situation of male Fang Family. 江枫笑道:“陈叔你没意见就好,不过现在是讲究婚姻自由的年代,不能像以前一样由家长包办婚姻了,所以还得麻烦陈叔你打电话跟你大女儿沟通一下这个事,把男方家的情况跟她说清楚。 If your eldest daughter agrees to be on intimate terms, we conduct again next, does Uncle Chen you look at such line not? ” 如果你大女儿同意相亲,那咱们再进行下一步,陈叔你看这样行不？” Chen Yonggui nods saying: „The river matchmakers you consider thoroughly, that troubles you to wait a bit the moment, I first called to say this situation my eldest daughter.” 陈永贵点头道:“还是江媒人你考虑得周到,那麻烦你稍等片刻,我先打电话跟我大女儿说说这个情况。” „Un, I visit front, goes to bathroom while convenient, Uncle Chen you communicated to call me with oneself daughter and family member again.” “嗯,那我到前面走走,顺便上个厕所,陈叔你跟自己女儿以及家人沟通好了再给我打电话。” „Good.” “好的。” Gazes after Jiang Feng to walk away, Chen Yonggui pulls out the cell phone, eldest daughter Chen Fengmei calls oneself. 目送江枫走远,陈永贵才掏出手机,给自己大女儿陈凤美打了个电话。 A telephone connection, then broadcast eldest daughter's voice: „Father, this time, should you take a walk in the Yongjiang River?” 电话一接通,便传来了大女儿的声音:“爸,这个时间,你应该又在邕江散步了吧？” „Un, takes a walk in the Yongjiang River.” “嗯,是在邕江散步。” The father and daughter chatted several, Chen Yonggui said: „Phoenix beautiful, the father calls you today, has a matter to with you discuss.” 父女俩闲聊了几句,陈永贵才说道:“凤美,爸今天打电话给你,是有件事情要跟你谈一谈。” Chen phoenix beautiful asked: „Father, what matter do you have to me talk?” 陈凤美问道:“爸,你有什么事要跟我谈的？” Chen Yonggui said: „About your matter of lifetime importance, the matchmaker in surnamed Jiang happy matrimonial agency found me a moment ago, said that must introduce an object to you, I looked that the condition of groom's family is truly good, therefore calls to ask your opinion.” 陈永贵道:“是关于你的终身大事的,刚才幸福婚介所的一个姓江的媒人找到我,说要给你介绍个对象,我看男方的条件确实不错,所以就打电话问问你的意见。” This matter obviously comes as a surprise to Chen Fengmei, she said with amazement: „Father, your was also too anxious, I just 23 -year-old, do you want to be on intimate terms to me?” 这事明显出乎陈凤美的意料,她惊讶道:“爸,你这也太急了吧,我才刚刚二十三岁,你就要给我相亲了啊？” Chen Yonggui said: „I know that you are young, I am the plan made yourself discuss that but this just does not run into the condition good object!” 陈永贵道:“我知道你还年轻,原本我是打算让你自己谈的,可这不是刚好遇到条件好的对象嘛！” Chen Fengmei does not have first to refuse, to listen to her father's tone, the condition of groom's family should be good, then said: „Father, groom's family what condition, satisfying you so?” 陈凤美倒也没有第一时间就拒绝,听她爸的语气,男方的条件应该是挺不错的,便说道:“爸,男方什么条件,让你这么满意？” Chen Yonggui said: „The groom's family is Yu Shengren, this year is 25 years old, 1.75 meters in height, is long , the school record is like you, the wages are also similar to you, generally speaking is truly a match with you.” 陈永贵道:“男方是豫省人,今年25岁,身高1米75,长得也还可以,学历跟你一样,工资也跟你差不多,总的来说跟你确实蛮般配的。” Hears here, Chen Fengmei knows that her father definitely also has as follows. 听到这里,陈凤美知道她爸肯定还有下文。 Because by her the understanding of her father, the groom's family is away from two provinces with her, if the groom's family is only such condition, her father will definitely not agree that she marries, more impossible boasts opposite party condition to be good. 因为以她对她爸的了解,男方跟她隔着两个省呢,如果男方只是这样的条件,她爸肯定不会同意她嫁过去的,更不可能夸对方条件好。 Therefore, if she has not guessed that wrong, the family of groom's family should be well-off. 所以,她如果没有猜错的话,那男方的家境应该是不错的。 Sure enough, her father introduced simply a situation of groom's family, then a voice revolution, said: „ Groom's family, although is also the rural family background, but his family circumstances are stronger than many city slickers, his parents are engaged in some special occupation, these years made a lot of money. 果不其然,她爸简单介绍了一下男方的情况,便话音一转,说道:“男方虽然也是农村出身,但他的家境却比很多城市人都强,他的父母是从事某种特殊职业的,这些年来赚到了不少钱。 Listened to that river matchmaker to tell me, if the groom's family married, his mother will put out 1 million cash to purchase homes to buy the car(riage) to him . Moreover the color tip also came by his mother, regarding our such families, the families of groom's family could be filthy rich! ” 听那位江媒人跟我说,如果男方结婚的话,他母亲会拿出一百万现金给他买房买车,另外彩礼钱也由他母亲来出,对于我们这样的家庭来说,男方的家庭算得上是财大气粗了！” In Chen Fengmei hears Yanxin shakes, she guessed correctly the family of groom's family is definitely well-off, but has not thought that male Fang Family can put out 1 million cash. 陈凤美闻言心中一震,她猜到了男方的家境肯定不错,但也没想到男方家能拿出一百万的现金来。 Chen Fengmei also had self-knowledge, her stature look was only above-average, if the groom's family merely were the well-off family, she confessed that could be joined. 陈凤美也是有自知之明的,她身材相貌只是中等偏上,如果男方仅仅是小康之家,那她自认是配得上的。 But the family circumstances of groom's family have obviously surpassed the better-off level, but the conditions in various groom's family aspects are not worse than her, Chen Fengmei may not have the confidence groom's family to be have a liking for her. 可男方的家境明显已经超过了小康水平,而男方各方面的条件也不比她差,陈凤美可没有信心男方能够看得上她。 Thinks of here, Chen phoenix beautiful sighed: „Father, others have such good family circumstances, where can have a liking for me? Do not use energy white/in vain!” 想到这里,陈凤美叹了口气道:“爸,人家有这么好的家境,哪能看得上我啊？你还是别白费劲了！” Chen Yonggui said: „This is uncertain, what because his mother is engaged is the special occupation, moreover this occupation was discriminated against by many people.” 陈永贵说道:“这可不一定,因为他母亲从事的是特殊职业,而且这份职业是受很多人歧视的。” A Chen Fengmei brow wrinkle, in the mind flashes through some type of wind to comment not the good illegal occupation, but she throws off that idea immediately, asked: „What his mother is engaged is what occupation?” 陈凤美眉头一皱,脑海中闪过某种风评不好的违法职业,不过随即她又把那种想法甩掉,问道:“他母亲从事的是什么职业啊？” Chen Yonggui said: „Listened to river Meiren saying that called the occupation employing professional mourners person.” 陈永贵道:“听江媒人说,叫职业哭丧人。” Chen Fengmei hears to stare: „Occupation employing professional mourners person? In does this world have such occupation?” 陈凤美听得一愣:“职业哭丧人？这世上还有这样的职业？” Chen Yonggui somewhat sigh with emotion saying: „This truly is very rare one occupation, if not that river matchmaker raises with me, I do not know that in the world really also has such occupation, wailing specially, is really inconceivable.” 陈永贵有些感慨的说道:“这确实是非常罕见的一种职业,如果不是那位江媒人跟我提起的话,我都不知道世上竟然还有这样的职业,专门代人哭丧,真是不可思议。” Chen Fengmei hears word the brain makes up such a picture immediately: A middle-aged woman of wear mourning dress, before a mourning hall of stranger, cries that to call one rendingly...... 陈凤美闻言立刻脑补出了这样一副画面:一个穿着孝服的中年妇女,在一个陌生人的灵堂前,哭得那叫一个撕心裂肺…… But thinks this middle-aged woman is her mother-in-law, Chen Fengmei cannot bear say: „ Father, this occupation too that anything, I did not say that anything is unlucky, our young people do not believe this in any case. 而一想到这个中年妇女是她的婆婆,陈凤美就忍不住道:“爸,这职业也太那啥了,我也不说什么晦气不晦气,反正我们年轻人也不信这个。 But you just also said that this occupation was discriminated against by many people, that side them, his mother was also discriminated, if I marry, perhaps will also be directed in the back, perhaps this day passes is also no interesting! ” 但你刚刚也说了,这职业是受很多人歧视的,想必在他们那边,他母亲也同样受人歧视,我要是嫁过去的话,恐怕也会被人在背后指指点点,这日子过得恐怕也没什么意思啊！” Chen Yonggui said: „ This you do not need to worry, others river Meiren said that so long as you two to the eye, he can tell the groom's family, making the groom's family settle down to our Gui Shenglai is not good. 陈永贵道:“这个你不用担心,人家江媒人说了,只要你们两个对上了眼,他可以跟男方说,让男方到咱们桂省来安家也不是不行。 Then, the husband's family's home that side you find the time to go back to have a look with him at holidays on the line, but so long as us you do not expose on own initiative, no one knows that your husband's family's home does this work. ” 如此一来,婆家那边你逢年过节抽时间跟他回去看看就行,而我们这边只要你不主动暴露,谁也不知道你婆家是干这种工作的。” In Chen Fengmei hears Yanxin moves, if so, then truly has no influence on her, she cannot help but asked: „Father, you determined that others are willing to leave the hometown to settle down to our Gui Shenglai?” 陈凤美闻言心中一动,如果是这样的话,那对她确实没有什么影响,她不由得问道:“爸,你确定人家愿意离开家乡到咱们桂省来安家吗？” Chen Yonggui said: „We put forward this condition, if the groom's family agrees, that some must discuss, if not agree, that you did feel even?” 陈永贵道:“咱们就提这个条件,男方要是同意的话,那就有得谈,要是不同意的话,那就算了,你觉得呢？” „Un, if so, I do not have the opinion.” “嗯,如果是这样,那我没意见。” „Ok, my told that river matchmaker, has what situation to call you again.” “行,那我这就跟那位江媒人说说,有什么情况再给你打电话。” „Good.” “好的。” ...... …… When Chen Yonggui calls oneself eldest daughter, Jiang Feng also pulled out to make the telephone of Ms. Yuan. 在陈永贵跟自己大女儿打电话的时候,江枫也拔通了袁母的电话。 The telephone connection, has greeted after mutually, Jiang Feng then comes straight to the point saying: „Aunt, me has helped your son look for a right object!” 电话接通,互相打过招呼后,江枫便开门见山道:“阿姨,我这边已经帮你儿子物色到一个合适的对象了！” Ms. Yuan hears word who just returned home one happy, this speed was really fast, asked hastily: „Grandmaster river, troubled you to say the situation of bride's side to me.” 刚回到老家的袁母闻言一喜,这速度还真快,连忙问道:“江大师,麻烦您跟我说说女方的情况。” Jiang Feng complied with one, simple introduced: „ The bride's side is our Gui Shengren, this year is 23 years old, 1.62 meters in height, the stature look is above-average, the school record is like your son, at present works in Guilin, the wages are similar to your son. 江枫应了一声,简单介绍道:“女方是我们桂省人,今年23岁,身高1米62,身材相貌中等偏上,学历跟你儿子一样,目前在桂林工作,工资跟你儿子差不多。 She is also the rural family background, the father works as the security in the provincial capital, mother serves the orchard at home as well as raises the chicken duck and so on, has the sister and brother four people, she is biggest one, two younger brothers are attending the university at present, the youngest younger sister is attending the high school. 她也是农村出身,父亲在省城当保安,母亲在家伺候果园以及养点鸡鸭之类的,有姐弟四人,她是最大的一个,还有两个弟弟目前在读大学,最小的妹妹在读高中。 The above is she as well as her family's situation. ” 以上就是她个人以及她家里的情况。” Ms. Yuan is also a country dweller, has two sons and one daughter, has the sister and brother four people regarding the bride's side, she is quite satisfied, the girls of this family background are not fragile, moreover can endure hardship, various house jobs is a cinch, such daughter-in-law is she wants. 袁母也是农村人,有两个儿子一个女儿,对于女方有姐弟四人,她是颇为满意的,这种家庭出身的女孩子都不娇气,而且能吃苦,各种家务活更是不在话下,这样的儿媳妇正是她想要的。 Therefore, Ms. Yuan hears to nod to say again and again: „The miss who Grandmaster river, you looks for is good, does not know that you have proposed my occupation with her as well as her family member?” 因此,袁母听得连连点头道:“江大师,您物色的这个姑娘挺好的,不知道您跟她以及她的家人提过我的职业了没有？” Jiang Feng said: „I had told her father the occupation that the aunt you are engaged, her father indicated to accept, but there is a condition.” 江枫道:“我跟她的父亲说过阿姨你所从事的职业了,她的父亲表示可以接受,但有一个条件。” Ms. Yuan asked: „What condition?” 袁母问道:“什么条件？” Jiang Feng said: „Her father hopes that your son can come our Gui Sheng to purchase homes to settle down, which city is unimportant, so long as in Gui Sheng on line.” 江枫道:“她父亲希望你儿子可以来咱们桂省买房定居,在哪座城市不重要,只要是在桂省就行。” Ms. Yuan hears word refreshed should say: „Ok, this absolutely does not have the issue.” 袁母闻言爽快的应道:“可以,这完全没问题。” She also has the reason refreshedly, their native place was repelled, neighbor who has not basically been on good terms, she has planned, after waiting makes money no longer to do this occupation, she leaves the hometown to move to other places to live. 她这么爽快也是有原因的,在老家这边她们一家都受排斥,基本没有交好的邻居,她早就计划好了,等赚够钱不再干这个职业之后,她就离开家乡搬到其他地方生活。 Therefore, even if that side the bride's side does not put forward this request, she will be impossible to purchase homes the hometown by her son, but will be chooses other cities, the farther the better to the hometown, this no one knew that their, their can on the normal life, not use again discriminated. 因此,就算女方那边不提这个要求,她也不可能会让自家儿子在家乡这边买房,而是选择到其他城市去,离家乡越远越好,这样就没有人认识她们一家,她们一家就能过上正常的生活,不用再受歧视了。 But Gui Sheng, was far from the hometown enough, fully conforms to her plan. 而桂省,离家乡足够远了,完全符合她的计划。 The eldest son first settles down to here, later the second son and daughter also settle down to here as far as possible, at the appointed time their can live in the same place city. 大儿子先到这边安家落户,以后二儿子以及女儿也尽量到这边来安家落户,到时她们一家就可以生活在同一座城市了。 Hears Ms. Yuan to comply refreshedly, Jiang Feng then said with a smile: „Aunt you do not have the words of issue, that then I arrange your two family members to see the face-to-face talk to discuss, considering that your two family members leave quite far, strives to assign one time this wedding, when the aunt do you have the time?” 听到袁母爽快的答应下来,江枫便笑道:“阿姨你这边没问题的话,那接下来我就安排你们两家人见面谈一谈,考虑到你们两家人离得比较远,争取一次就把这婚事给定下来,请问阿姨你什么时候有时间呢？” Ms. Yuan said: „I had not received work over the two days, my here can give in to bride's side that side time, so long as told me ahead of time, I can find the time.” 袁母道:“我这两天没有接活,我这边可以迁就女方那边的时间,只要提前跟我说,我都可以抽出时间来。” Jiang Feng said: „Ok, I understood, that meets me to discuss the specific meeting time with the bride's side that side, when arranged the time then called you to say the aunt.” 江枫道:“行,我明白了,那一会我跟女方那边商量一下具体的见面时间,等定好时间了再打电话跟阿姨你说。” „Does not have the issue.” “没问题。” „Un, that this, one will first say again.” “嗯,那就先这样,一会再说。” „Good.” “好的。” ...... …… After a half hour . 半个小时后。 Chen Yonggui said to Jiang Feng: „River matchmaker, I had passed with my eldest daughter ditch, so long as the groom's family is willing to settle down to our Gui Sheng, that this marriage can discuss.” 陈永贵对江枫说道:“江媒人,我已经跟我大女儿沟通过了,只要男方愿意到咱们桂省安家,那这门亲事就可以谈。” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „That absolutely did not have the issue, I had called to mention this matter the mothers of groom's family a moment ago, his mother agreed to your here requests, in which city settled down by you decides.” 江枫笑道:“那就完全没问题了,我刚才已经打电话跟男方的母亲提过这事,他母亲同意你们这边的要求,在哪座城市安家由你们这边说了算。” Chen Yonggui felt the sincerity of male Fang Family earnestly, parents of son or daughter-in-law who were so good to speak, really hit the lantern unable to find, he did not have nothing satisfied, then refreshed saying: „Since male Fang Jia agreed that this condition, that river matchmaker you can arrange our two family members to meet.” 陈永贵切切实实的感受到了男方家的诚意,如此好说话的亲家,真是打着灯笼都找不到,他没什么不满意的,便爽快的说道:“既然男方家同意这个条件,那江媒人你就可以安排我们两家人见面了。” The Jiang Feng nod said: „Ok, when does Uncle Chen you look meets conveniently? That side the groom's families can give in to your here time.” 江枫点头道:“行,那陈叔你看什么时间见面方便？男方那边可以迁就你们这边的时间。” Chen Yonggui thinks, said: „That this Saturday!” 陈永贵想了想,说道:“那就这个星期六吧！” Jiang Feng said: „Ok, that meeting place?” 江枫道:“可以,那见面地点呢？” Chen Yonggui said: „Meeting place decides in this city!” 陈永贵道:“见面地点就定在这座城市吧！” Jiang Feng said: „That decided that I one will say with the groom's family that side.” 江枫道:“那就这么定了,我一会就跟男方那边说。” „Un, that was troublesome the river matchmakers.” “嗯,那就麻烦江媒人了。” „Uncle Chen was polite!” “陈叔客气了！” Then, both sides also chatted, Jiang Feng said goodbye to depart. 接下来,双方又闲聊了一阵,江枫才告辞离去。 Gazes after Jiang Feng to leave, mood excellent Chen Yonggui gives the eldest daughter and spouse respectively telephones, told them the time and place of meeting. 目送江枫离开,心情大好的陈永贵又分别给大女儿以及老伴打电话,把见面的时间与地点告诉她们。 Not only Chen Yonggui was then happy, his spouse also follows happily, but his eldest daughter as the litigant, that is also very excited and anticipation. 这下不仅仅陈永贵高兴,就连他的老伴也跟着高兴,而他大女儿作为当事人,那也是非常激动与期待的。 After all, the family of groom's family, compared with their Chen, that was really is well-off unable to be good, so long as married has 1 million to bring to purchase homes to buy the car(riage) , although has not spoken in detail, but will definitely not be short to the bridegroom's gift to bride's family where went. 毕竟,男方的家境,跟他们陈家相比,那真是好得不能再好了,只要结婚就有一百万拿来买房买车,还有一笔虽然没有详谈,但肯定不会少到哪里去的彩礼。 Comes across such good deed, the Chen family then thinks that is not happy difficultly. 碰到这样的好事,陈家人便是想不高兴都难。