Supports a belly to get married? 挺着个肚子去嫁人？ Can this make the child build up the sentiment with the stepfather ahead of time? 这样可以让孩子提前跟继父培养感情？ The bold opinion of best friend makes Li Mei hear dumbfoundedly, but the shock turns over to the shock, Li Mei thinks carefully, felt the best friend said is not groundless, she later must get married in any case, the words that marries ahead of time really have the greatest advantage to her. 闺蜜的大胆言论让李梅听得目瞪口呆,不过震惊归震惊,李梅仔细想了想,感觉闺蜜说得也不无道理,反正她以后也是要嫁人的,那提前嫁的话对她来说确实有莫大的好处。 This at once, where to looks for such a to be willing to accept her, is willing good the taking over a business hero to her as well as child's? 只是,这一时之间,到哪里找这样一个愿意接受她,愿意对她以及孩子好的接盘侠呢？ „Consort beautiful, your idea also is really the powerful and unconstrained style, I acknowledged that you said are reasonable, pitifully somewhat is only impractical.” “丽妃,你的想法还真是天马行空,我承认你说得很有道理,只可惜有些不切实际。” Zhao Lifei asked: „Where was impractical?” 赵丽妃问道:“哪里不切实际了？” Li Mei dao: „ First, single mother with pregnant woman, there is a very big difference, wanting the freight bill biological mother to be in love the man who to have, but is willing to be in love with the pregnant woman, perhaps did not have many. 李梅道:“第一,单亲妈妈跟孕妇,还是有很大区别的,愿意跟单亲妈妈谈恋爱的男人有很多,但愿意跟孕妇谈恋爱的,恐怕就没有多少了。 Second, my present belly is visibly pregnant, few month of children will be born, such short time do you let the partner who where I go to look to compatible am willing to take over a business? 第二,我现在肚子已经显怀了,没几个月孩子就会出生,这么短的时间你让我去哪里找合得来又愿意接盘的对象？ Third, even if can find the object who compatibles is willing to take over a business, but can others parents accept such daughter-in-law? I do not think, because the belly child makes with the parents-in-law is heavily engaged, that might as well does not marry, oneself live did not have so many worrying matters. ” 第三,就算能找到合得来又愿意接盘的对象,可人家的父母能接受这样的儿媳妇吗？我可不想因为肚子里的孩子跟公婆闹得不可开交,那还不如不嫁呢,自己一个人生活还没那么多烦心事。” Zhao Lifei said: „You said truly is the quite realistic issue, if before, I will definitely not urge you to look for the partner at this time indulgently, but is now different!” 赵丽妃道:“你说的确实是比较现实的问题,如果是以前,我肯定不会异想天开的劝你在这个时候找对象,但现在不一样了！” Li Mei asked: „What difference now has?” 李梅问道:“现在有什么不一样？” Zhao Lifei said: „Because of a while ago, the WeChat group of our company in some crazy discussion famous matchmaker Grandmaster, the acting as a matchmaker personal history of this matchmaker Grandmaster was really scary, if were not this period of time is busy handling your matter, I have raised present whereabouts matchmaker Grandmaster to invite the intermediary.” 赵丽妃道:“因为前段时间,咱们公司的微信群在疯狂的讨论某位享誉全国的媒人大师,这位媒人大师的做媒履历真是太吓人了,如果不是这段时间忙着处理你的事情,我早就提着礼品去向这位媒人大师请媒了。” Li Mei said with amazement: „Matchmaker Grandmaster? This name is strange enough, the acting as a matchmaker personal history of this matchmaker Grandmaster scary? Let you so esteem about him!” 李梅惊讶道:“媒人大师？这称呼够怪异的,这位媒人大师的做媒履历有多吓人啊？让你对他如此推崇！” Zhao Lifei remembered the acting as a matchmaker personal history of that matchmaker Grandmaster, in the eye still has the exclamation: „ As far as I know, Xiao Min, model/pattern Xiaoli, Principal ancient and Teacher Yu and Aunts Li and other big stars, are the matchmakers who he is. 赵丽妃想起那位媒人大师的做媒履历,眼中仍然有着惊叹:“据我所知,肖敏、范小俪、古校长、俞老师、李姑姑等大明星,都是他做的媒人。 And Xiao Min successfully married into the rich and powerful family, the present is few madames of Guandong Wangshi Group. model/pattern Xiaoli also married some Guandong well-known second generation of rich, the net worth 10 billion rich and powerful people's families/home. Aunt Li, married into the Hong Kong famous Li rich and powerful family. 其中肖敏成功嫁入了豪门,现在是粤省汪氏集团的少夫人。范小俪也嫁给了粤省某个知名的富二代,身家百亿的富豪之家。还有李姑姑,嫁入了香江有名的李氏豪门。 XXX mineral water group Princess Ling marriage, invites the intermediary that this matchmaker Grandmaster makes. 就连XXX矿泉水集团凌公主的婚姻,也是请这位媒人大师做的媒。 This is only I understood the part, according to the hearsay said that many wealthy family juniors and children of high-ranking officials, asked this matchmaker Grandmaster to act as a matchmaker. 这只是我了解到的一部分而已,据小道消息称,还有很多富家子弟以及高干子弟,都请这位媒人大师做媒。 But this matchmaker has the name of Grandmaster , because he most is good at the marriage affinity calculating, to put it bluntly assists to act as a matchmaker in the method of profound studies, he enters the couple who the line reconciles until now, each pair lived on the happy life of couple love, was really results in flamboyant cannot be flamboyant. ” 而这位媒人之所以有大师之称,是因为他最擅长姻缘推算,说白了就是以玄学的手段来辅助做媒,他入行至今所撮合的夫妻,每一对都过上了夫妻恩爱的幸福生活,真是牛逼得不能再牛逼了。” Li Mei listened to compel ignorant, in did this world really have the so flamboyant matchmaker? 李梅听懵逼了,这世上竟然有如此牛逼的媒人？ If were others told her like this, she cannot believe that may say what this saying was she relates the best best friend, in other words was odd she also to believe. 如果是别人跟她这样说,她是万万不能相信的,可说这话的乃是她关系最好的闺蜜,那就是说得再离谱她也不得不信。 After the choice believes the words of best friend, Li Mei also understands why the best friend will urge her to look for the partner at this time, this is not the matter that is possible to achieve, but if can ask that famous matchmaker Grandmaster to go into action, can perhaps give her a big pleasant surprise. 在选择相信闺蜜的话后,李梅也就明白了闺蜜为何会劝她在这个时候找对象了,原本这是不可能做到的事情,可若是能请那位享誉全国的媒人大师出马的话,或许就能给她一个大大的惊喜。 Thinks of here, Li Mei mood cannot bear somewhat excitedly. 想到这里,李梅心情也忍不住有些激动。 She after all is a woman, is a pregnant woman, without the parents did not have the family member, the husband also to turn into the ex-husband, only then Consort Zhao beautiful such related the good best friend. 她毕竟是女人,还是一个怀孕的女人,没有父母没有亲人,老公也变成了前夫,就只有赵丽妃这么一个关系好的闺蜜。 Although she has not had a child, but has a child the difficult problem that faces, she knows something. 她虽然没有生过孩子,但生孩子所面临的难题,她还是略知一二的。 Indeed, before being in labor, she can spend to invite the moon/month sister-in-law to take care of her and child, but does not have the parturient woman who the lover accompanies, after all has regrettably. 诚然,在临产前,她可以花钱请月嫂照顾她以及孩子,但没有爱人陪伴的产妇,终归是有遗憾的。 If really can find a compatibling object, that to her truly is good. 若是真能找到一个合得来的对象,那对于她来说确实是再好不过的了。 „Consort beautiful, you convinced me!” “丽妃,你说服我了！” Consort Zhao beautiful hehe said with a smile: „That and other on Saturday, do we take the present to ask the intermediary to go together? My age was also big, was the time looks for a partner.” 赵丽妃嘿嘿笑道:“那等星期六,咱们就一起提着礼品请媒去？我年纪也不小了,是时候找个对象了。” Li Mei nods saying: „Good, then invited the intermediary on Saturday together, does not know where person this matchmaker Grandmaster was? The present we must discuss, has a look to buy what present to be appropriate.” 李梅点头道:“好,那就星期六一起去请媒,不知道这位媒人大师是哪里人？还有礼品咱们也得商量一下,看看买什么礼品合适。” Zhao Lifei said: „That matchmaker Grandmaster is Gui Shengren, opened a matrimonial agency in the Guangxi province provincial capital, we go to his matrimonial agency directly on the line. As for the present, generally speaking is the tobacco and liquor tea and so on, moreover prepares to invite the intermediary red packet again on the line.” 赵丽妃道:“那位媒人大师是桂省人,在桂省省城开了一家婚介所,咱们直接去他的婚介所就行。至于礼品,一般来说都是烟酒茶之类的,另外再备上请媒红包就行。” „That evening is all right we to take a walk, while convenient present preparing.” “那晚上没什么事咱们就逛街去,顺便把礼品给准备好。” „Un, without issue.” “嗯,没问题。” ...... …… 6 : 00 pm. 下午 6 点。 Guangxi province provincial capital. 桂省省城。 Chen Yonggui who in the cheap rented room in some Xixiangtang Chengzhong Village, on the face covers entirely the wrinkle gave himself to put in order three vegetables/dishes: Explodes the peanut, stirs fry the green vegetables, a hot pepper stir fries the meat. 西乡塘某城中村的便宜出租屋里,脸上布满皱纹的陈永贵给自己整了三个菜:一盘炸花生,一盘炒青菜,一盘辣椒炒肉。 In addition has one bowl of rice, two bottles of beer. 另外还有一碗米饭,两瓶啤酒。 Such meals to Chen Yonggui, is a very luxurious meal. 这样的伙食对于陈永贵来说,已经是非常奢侈的一餐了。 Chen Yonggui this year is 51 years old, four children, have started the work except for the eldest daughter, other three children are still studying, two university student high-school students, the family pressure is very big. 陈永贵今年51岁,有四个儿女,除了大女儿已经参加工作,其他三个儿女都还在读书,两个大学生一个高中生,家庭压力还是非常大的。 Chen Yonggui has not read many books, does not have any technology, naturally could not find the treatment good work, at present he works as the security provincial capital here, one month has 3,000-4,000 wages probably. 陈永贵没读过多少书,也没有什么技术,自然找不到待遇好的工作,目前他在省城这里当保安,一个月大概有3,000-4,000块的工资。 Except food and lodging as well as other necessary expenses, even if Chen Yonggui is economical, one month supports also to remain about 2000, enough gives three children's living expenses reluctantly. 除去吃住以及其他一些必要的花销,哪怕陈永贵已经非常节省了,一个月撑死也就剩个两千左右,勉勉强强够给三个儿女的生活费。 Luckily, the present university students have the student loans, in addition the eldest daughter also participated to work, his wife served oneself that small orchard in the native place, raised chicken duck anything again while convenient, can gain to some money somewhat, therefore family's day could also pass by but actually, cannot contribute money. 幸好,现在的大学生都有助学贷款,再加上大女儿也参加工作了,他老婆在老家伺候自家那个小果园,再顺便养点鸡鸭什么的,多多少少也能赚到一些钱,所以家里的日子倒也还过得去,就是攒不了钱罢了。 Chen Yonggui actually very worries, two daughters said booing, this age daughters do not worry to marry, he worries for that two sons. 陈永贵心里其实挺犯愁的,两个女儿倒好说,这年代女儿都不愁嫁,他是为了那两个儿子犯愁。 He has also thought makes what small-scale business, accumulates the wife itself/Ben to two sons, may do business must invest many qualifications generally, this family's economy was a little hard, where he has the boldness to pound to do business the complete family belongings! 他也想过做点什么小生意,给两个儿子攒点老婆本,可做生意一般都要投入不少本钱,这家里的经济原本就有点紧巴巴的,他哪里有魄力把全部家当砸进去做生意啊！ If owed, that consequence was too serious! 万一要是亏了,那后果就太严重了！ He has thought that eldest son also one year graduates on the university, at the appointed time not only family's burden reduces greatly, but also were many a making money main force, he does what small-scale business to do again, does not use like the present is overcautious and indecisive, even if really owed their family/home also to shoulder. 他已经想好了,大儿子还有一年就大学毕业,到时不仅家里的负担大大减轻,还多了一个赚钱的主力,他再搞点什么小生意做,就不用像现在这样瞻前顾后的了,哪怕真的亏了他们家也还扛得住。 Cleared off, ate comfortably Chen Yonggui the meal also two bottles of beer took a toothpick, picked the teeth while pulls out the cell phone that several hundred dollars bought, calls the spouse, asks family's situation. 把饭菜还有两瓶啤酒一扫而光,吃舒坦了的陈永贵拿了根牙签,一边剔牙一边掏出几百块钱买的手机,给老伴打了个电话,问问家里的情况。 Said several minutes, after hanging the power failure words, Chen Yonggui then takes a stroll the digestion. 说了几分钟,挂掉电话后,陈永贵便出去散步消食。 The Chengzhong Village that he lives , is very near from the Yongjiang River, walks also only takes the dozen minutes, he has had the dinner to a here powder step every day. 他居住的这个城中村,距离邕江还挺近的,走路也只需要十几分钟而已,他每天吃过晚饭都会到这里散一下步。 The Yongjiang River is mother river of provincial capital, is the provincial capital famous scenic spot, river course two sides shadowy, the fine scenery, many people like here taking a walk in the evening. 邕江是省城的母亲河,也是省城有名的景点,河道两边绿树成荫,风景优美,很多人晚上都喜欢到这里散步。 On the way to Yongjiang River, Chen Yonggui's cell phone made a sound suddenly, he takes to look, discovered that the number ownership is Yulin, then connection telephone say/way: „Hey!” 在前往邕江的路上,陈永贵的手机忽然响了起来,他拿起来一看,发现号码归属地是老家郁林的,便接通电话道:“喂！” In the cell phone hears a young male voice: „Hello, is Chen Yonggui?” 手机中传来一个年轻的男声:“你好,请问是陈永贵吗？” Chen Yonggui said: „I am Chen Yonggui, who is it?” 陈永贵道:“我是陈永贵,请问你是谁啊？” Young male sound said: „Uncle Chen hello/you good, I called Jiang Feng, was the matchmaker in happy matrimonial agency, I heard that your eldest daughter did not have the object, I had a good customer to introduce to her, does not know that Uncle Chen you did facilitate to meet to discuss this matter?” 年轻男声道:“陈叔你好,我叫江枫,是幸福婚介所的媒人,我听说你大女儿还没有对象,我有个不错的客户想介绍给她,不知道陈叔你方不方便见面谈谈这个事？” Chen Yonggui heard that the word is somewhat surprised, his eldest daughter is only 23 years old, last year the university graduated, without thinking had the matchmaker to walk to probably introduce the object quickly to her. 陈永贵闻言有些惊讶,他大女儿才23岁,去年才大学毕业,没想到这么快就有媒人找上门要给她介绍对象了。 As the saying goes when male greatly marriage female when greatly marries, after the children are grown, what when parents is very difficult to refuse the matchmaker to act as a matchmaker, no matter satisfies the object who the matchmaker said that at least can also many several choices. 俗话说男大当婚女大当嫁,在儿女成年之后,当父母的是很难拒绝媒人说媒的,不管满不满意媒人介绍的对象,至少也可以多几个选择。 Therefore, Chen Yonggui slightly one hesitates, replied: „Meets to chat this matter not to have the issue, but I now not in native place, but provincial capital here.” 因此,陈永贵微一沉吟,就回答道:“见面谈谈这个事情倒没问题,不过我现在不在老家,而是在省城这里。” The Jiang Feng smile said: „Uncle Chen, I in the provincial capital, which position does not know you now, if were convenient I to look for you on the past now.” 江枫微笑道:“陈叔,我也在省城,不知道你现在在哪个位置,要是方便的话我现在就过去找你。” „Convenient, I in the Xixiangtang XX villages, am preparing the waterfront to disperse the step!” “方便,我在西乡塘XX村,正准备到江边散一下步呢！” „This place I know, I pass now immediately, meets us to see in the waterfront!” “这地方我知道,我现在马上过去,一会咱们在江边见吧！” „, Good, I first walk, you arrived at the waterfront to call me again.” “哦,好的,那我先走过去,你到了江边再给我打电话。” „Un, ok, that first this, we, as soon as meets.” “嗯,行,那就先这样,咱们一会见。” „Good, a meeting.” “好,一会见。” ...... …… After a half hour . 半个小时后。 Chen Yonggui saw young charming Jiang Feng. 陈永贵见到了年轻帅气的江枫。 After mutual greeting, Chen Yonggui sighs with emotion: „River matchmaker, you are I have seen the youngest matchmaker, yourself discussed that had the object?” 在互相打过招呼后,陈永贵才感慨道:“江媒人,你是我见过最年轻的媒人,你自己谈有对象了吗？” „Uncle Chen, I have married!” Saying, Jiang Feng pulls out the cell phone, adjusts with yellow Lingwei the wedding picture him, gives Chen Yonggui saying: „Uncle Chen you looks, this is my wife.” “陈叔,我已经结婚了！”说着,江枫掏出手机,把他跟黄灵薇的结婚照调出来,递给陈永贵道:“陈叔你看,这就是我老婆。” Chen Yonggui received the cell phone to look, discovered the bride in picture compares these female stars to be pretty, cannot help but gives the thumbs-up, to praise sighed: „River matchmaker, your vision was really certainly, married such a pretty wife unexpectedly, seriously was a perfect match!” 陈永贵接过手机一看,发现照片中的新娘比那些女明星还要漂亮,不由得竖起大拇指,赞叹道:“江媒人,你这眼光真是绝了,竟然娶了这么漂亮的一个老婆,当真是郎才女貌啊！” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Uncle Chen overpraised!” 江枫笑道:“陈叔过奖了！” Two people after the smalltalk, mentioned the proper business. 两人在客套了一番后,才谈起了正事。 Chen Yonggui takes the lead to ask: „River matchmaker, you said that wants your customer to introduce to my eldest daughter, does not know where person your customer is? What makes?” 陈永贵率先问道:“江媒人,你说想把你一个客户介绍给我大女儿,不知道你这位客户是哪里人？做什么的？” The Jiang Feng smile said: „Uncle Chen, I gives you to introduce simply my customer, he is the Henan province Q city person, this year is 25 years old, 1.75 meters in height, the look middle-grade, ordinary university graduates, at present works that side the Q city, the wages are less than 5000.” 江枫微笑道:“陈叔,我给你简单介绍一下我这位客户吧,他是豫省Q市人,今年25岁,身高1米75,相貌中等,普通大学毕业,目前在Q市那边打工,工资不到五千。” At this point, Jiang Feng assigns out Yuan Feng picture, hands over to say the cell phone again: „Uncle Chen, this is the picture of my customer, you first look.” 说到这里,江枫调出袁锋的照片,再次把手机递过去道:“陈叔,这就是我那位客户的照片,你先看一下。” Chen Yonggui nods, received the cell phone to look again, the man in picture really such as river Meiren said that middle-grade look, without river matchmakers like this charming, but is also stronger than the average person, matches with his eldest daughter by the look only. 陈永贵点了点头,接过手机再次看了起来,照片中的男人果然如江媒人说的一样,中等相貌,没有江媒人这样的帅气,但也比普通人强一些,单论相貌跟他大女儿倒蛮相配的。 Works is also a match, his daughter works in Guilin, each month wages are also less than 5000. 就连工作也般配,他女儿在桂林打工,每个月的工资也不到五千。 The age, height and school record are very appropriate. 还有年龄、身高、学历都挺合适的。 Has saying that although at present this river matchmaker is young, the object but who introduced was very credible, the condition of both parties was at least a match. Can compatible as for two people personality, this light looks unable to look, only will then be together has known. 不得不说,眼前这位江媒人虽然年轻,但介绍的对象还是挺靠谱的,至少男女双方的条件是般配的。至于两人性格能不能合得来,这个光看是看不出来的,只有相处过才会知道。 Chen Yonggui gives back to Jiang Feng the cell phone, somewhat regrettable shaking the head said: „River matchmaker, the condition of your customer is truly a match with my eldest daughter, could visit you to use the heart, if the groom's family were our here people, I affirmed that the approval arranged them to meet, but...... was too far!” 陈永贵把手机还给江枫,有些遗憾的摇头道:“江媒人,你这位客户的条件跟我大女儿确实蛮般配的,看得出来你是用了心的,如果男方是我们这边的人,那我肯定赞成安排他们见个面,但是……太远了啊！” Jiang Feng said with a smile: „Uncle Chen, does not want to make the daughter marry, this is the parents under entire day has one psychology that on the one hand after is fears the daughter to marry, wants to see is not at the same time easy. On the other hand, is worried about the daughter to marry, is wronged in the husband's family's home, the wife's relatives do not have the means first to overtake for her support.” 江枫笑道:“陈叔,不想让女儿远嫁,这是全天下的父母都有的一种心理,一方面是怕女儿远嫁之后,想见一面都不容易。另一方面,是担心女儿远嫁,在婆家受了委屈,娘家人也没办法第一时间赶过去为她撑腰。” Chen Yonggui hears to nod again and again: „River matchmaker, is this truth, only if the condition of groom's family is very good, otherwise is willing to look in the local area.” 陈永贵听得连连点头:“江媒人,就是这个道理,除非男方的条件真的很好,否则都愿意在本地找。” Jiang Feng said: „Uncle Chen, the family circumstances of my customer yes, his mother has also pledged before me, so long as her son marries, his mother puts out 1 million to give the son to purchase homes to buy the car(riage), moreover puts out a color tip again, this condition compared with many families.” 江枫道:“陈叔,我这位客户的家境也是可以的,他母亲在我面前承诺过,只要她儿子结婚,他母亲就拿出一百万给儿子买房买车,另外再拿出一笔彩礼钱,这条件比很多人家都强了。” Chen Yonggui heard, asked: „Does Grandmaster river, what his parents make? This can put out 1 million all of a sudden, the family circumstances are not truly simple!” 陈永贵听得愣了一下,问道:“江大师,他父母是做什么的？这一下子能拿出一百万,家境确实不简单啊！” Jiang Feng looks to a small fishing boat in river, said: „Actually his parents are also the country dwellers, in the family/home was also poor, afterward under his mother accident of sorts entered some industry, after many years of fighting, has the present family property.” 江枫看向江中的一艘小渔船,说道:“其实他父母也是农村人,以前家里也是穷得叮当响的,后来他母亲机缘巧合下进入了某个行业,经过多年的打拼,才拥有现在的家底。” Chen Yonggui hears word heart movement, had a hard life others regarding their types, can form the parents of son or daughter-in-law with 1 million rich and powerful people, it can be said that sought friendships absolutely. 陈永贵闻言心动了,对于他们这种日子过得紧巴巴的人家来说,能够跟百万富豪结成亲家,绝对可以说是高攀了的。 He said before does not want the daughter to marry, what that only aims is only the ordinary household, but the family of this 1 million rich and powerful people, is not naturally one of them. 他之前说不愿意女儿远嫁,那只针对的只是普通家庭,而这种百万富豪的家庭,自然不在其中。 Chen Yonggui took a stand immediately: „River matchmaker, your customer has such good family condition, I naturally do not oppose my daughter to marry, so long as their characters compatible do not have the issue.” 陈永贵当即表态道:“江媒人,你这客户拥有这么好的家庭条件,那我自然不反对我的女儿远嫁,只要他们两个的性格合得来就没问题。” Jiang Feng said: „Uncle Chen, his family condition truly also good, but a little I must result in you talk clearly, occupation that his parents are engaged in now, is many people are unable to accept.” 江枫道:“陈叔,他的家庭条件确实还不错,但有一点我必须得跟你说清楚,他父母现在所从事的职业,是很多人无法接受的。” Chen Yonggui asked: „What his parents are engaged is what occupation? Isn't the illegal occupation?” 陈永贵问道:“他父母从事的是什么职业？不会是违法的职业吧？” Jiang Feng said: „Illegal is actually not illegal, but many people will feel unlucky, because his mother is an occupation employing professional mourners person.” 江枫道:“违法倒是不违法,只是很多人会觉得晦气,因为他母亲是一位职业哭丧人。”