simultaneous/uniformHaoyangis an introvertedandshyperson, YaoRuiqisunlightis lively, made up for his aspectexactlycontinuously, gavehim a happyfantasy- sheshouldbethatperfectgirl who wantsto run into!
齐浩洋是一个内向而且腼腆的人,姚瑞琪的阳光活泼,恰好弥补了他这方面的不住,同时也给了他一个美好的幻想-她应该就是自己想要遇到的那个完美女孩!But does thisworldwherehavewhatperfectexistence? Let aloneis the person.
但这世间哪有什么完美的存在?更何况是人。
The girl who YaoRuiqiis notsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangthinksthatsillysilly, needshimto protect, whatsheveryclearwantisanything!
姚瑞琪并不是齐浩洋认为的那种傻傻笨笨、需要他去保护的女孩,她很清楚自己想要的是什么!Likesimultaneous/uniformHaoyang said that herverymaterial, butpursuematerialyesright! Described a YaoRuiqimore appropriateview, shouldbeherworkingsense of purposeis very strong.
像齐浩洋说的那样,她很物质,但追求物质本身是没错的!描述姚瑞琪更恰当的说法,应该是她做事目的性很强。
The firstmeetingtime, YaoRuiqitrulythought that simultaneous/uniformHaoyangis very graceful, moreoverYaoRuiqialines the unreasoning passion of vastocean is quite curious, thereforeshealines the enthusiasm that the vastoceanshowedto makehimmisunderstandsufficiently!
第一次碰面的时候,姚瑞琪确实觉得齐浩洋挺帅的,而且姚瑞琪对齐浩洋的痴情比较好奇,所以她对齐浩洋表现出了足以让他误会的热情!Naturally, cannotsayis the misunderstanding, because of the YaoRuiqiaffectionateattitude, surpassed the commonfriend to have the criterion that.
当然,也不能说是误会,因为姚瑞琪的亲昵态度,都超出了一般朋友应该有的尺度。Insimultaneous/uniformHao the foreigninnermost feelingslongs for the lovevery much, after before hewas hugged the armis smiling, bends downsupinelybyYaoRuiqi, does not knowat hearthadmanystringsto be movedcarelessly!
齐浩洋内心里还是很渴望爱情的,他只是被姚瑞琪抱着胳膊笑得前俯后仰,心里就不知道有多少根弦被胡乱地拨动了!ButYaoRuiqiagrees withandsimultaneous/uniformHao the oceanachieves the loverfrom the friend, are more, becauseshethought that simultaneous/uniformHaoyangis a goodpotentialstock!
但姚瑞琪同意和齐浩洋从朋友做到恋人,更多的,还是因为她觉得齐浩洋是一个不错的潜力股!YaoRuiqiknowsoneselfwant, iscomfortably and more dignifiedlife, rather thanlikebefore, can only rentingloomydisorderlyChengzhong Village, can only coverowndistressby the prettyclothing.
姚瑞琪知道自己想要的,是更加舒服、更加体面的生活,而不是像之前那样,只能租在阴暗杂乱的城中村,只能靠漂亮的着装来掩盖自己的狼狈。simultaneous/uniformHaoyangsaid that heis a designer( the income of designerdefinitelydoes not miss), moreovercolleaguechanged jobHengdaDesign institute, the treatmentwas super.
齐浩洋说他是一个设计师(设计师的收入肯定不差),而且身边的同事跳槽去了恒达设计院,待遇超级好。
Isn't thisYaoRuiqi the qualifiedpartner who wantsto look for? Had lovedotherwomanas forhimwhole-heartedly? YaoRuiqithought that thisinsteadis the merit, becausethisprovessimultaneous/uniformHaoyangveryunreasoning passion!
这不就是姚瑞琪想要找的合格对象吗?至于他曾经死心塌地地爱过别的女人?姚瑞琪觉得这反而是优点,因为这证明齐浩洋很痴情啊!Hassuchsense of purpose, YaoRuiqihas been urgingsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangto change jobHengdaDesign institute, urginghimto come to a Guangzhouthisbigcity. Meanwhile, after simultaneous/uniformHao the oceancomes toGuangzhou, shealsoleadshimto look attheseattractivelofttypes the apartment, rentinginexpensive, but is actually in the YaoRuiqicontinuouslylong-awaitedenvironment.
正是带着这样的目的性,姚瑞琪一直在劝齐浩洋跳槽去恒达设计院,劝他来羊城这个一线大城市。同时,齐浩洋来羊城之后,她还带他去看那些漂亮的loft式的公寓,租在了价格昂贵、但却是姚瑞琪一直梦寐以求的环境里。It is no doubt that YaoRuiqialsomoved, two peopleenter being in loveconditionrapidly, enteredin the life of living togetherrapidly!
不用说,姚瑞琪也搬了过来,两人迅速进入热恋状态,也迅速进入了同居的生活中!Asbut, simultaneous/uniformHaoyanginterviewHengdaDesign instituteis repeatedly unsuccessful, the newworkincomeis not ideal, the savingsalsospentsimilarly, YaoRuiqipinnedonsimultaneous/uniformHao the ocean„dream”was shattered, amongtwo people the quarrelwere getting more and more.
可是,随着齐浩洋多次面试恒达设计院未果,新的工作收入不理想,积蓄也花得差不多了,姚瑞琪寄托在齐浩洋身上的“梦想”破灭,两人之间的争吵就越来越多。
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……„Iwiththat time that shevindicates, shehas toldme: Did youthink? The lovemaynot have the friendshipto be long-time!”simultaneous/uniformHaoyangis smiling bitterlyshaking the head, said,„the presentthinks, ifdid not insistat that timemustbe the lover, perhapswe can also become the friendnow.”
“我跟她表白的那时候,她就跟我说过:你想好了吗?爱情可没有友情长久!”齐浩洋苦笑着摇摇头,说道,“现在想起来,如果当时不坚持要做恋人的话,说不定我们现在还能成为朋友。”simultaneous/uniformHaoyang the idea, isjust likemanypeople, after bidding good-bye, is readinggood of other side, but also is thinkingifinitiallywere the friend, was insufficientnot to have the opportunityto seeheragain......
齐浩洋的想法,还是跟很多人一样,分手后还念着另一方的好,还想着当初如果一直是朋友,就不至于没机会再见到她……ButYang Hanshakes the head, does not agree withhisviewpoint: „Likesliking, do not deny the feeling of owninnermost feelings, is really the friend, youvisitherandothershelplesslyin the same place, will yoube resigned?”
但杨涵摇了摇头,不同意他的观点:“喜欢就是喜欢,你不要否认自己内心的感受,真的做朋友,你眼睁睁地看着她和别人在一起,你会甘心?”simultaneous/uniformHaoyangwas shocked, he wordsenergy that did not refuteYang Hanto say. Becausehedrinks the gastric hemorrhage, isbecausesawYaoRuiqisatothers'trident......
齐浩洋愣住了,他没有反驳杨涵说的话的底气。因为他喝得胃出血,也是因为看到了姚瑞琪坐上了别人的三叉戟……
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……YaoRuiqiandothersintogether, in the secondweek that theybid good-bye. simultaneous/uniformHaoyangalsowantsto bring the flowerto look forher, looks at the opportunity of recalling, finallyunder the block of flats that themlives, simultaneous/uniformHaoyangsawYaoRuiqirodeothers'car(riage).
姚瑞琪和别人在一起了,就在他们分手的第二个星期。齐浩洋还想带着花去找她,看有没有挽回的机会,结果在他们以前住的公寓楼下,齐浩洋看到了姚瑞琪坐上了别人的车。Naturally, YaoRuiqinotgreensimultaneous/uniformHaoyang, shealsocalculates that keptlastface countenancetosimultaneous/uniformHaoyang- indeterminingoneselfdo not wantwithsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangin the same place, moreoversheknewrecently after a net worthgoodsecond generation of rich, shebids good-byewithsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangvery muchdecisively, latercomplied with the pursue of second generation of rich.
当然,姚瑞琪没有绿了齐浩洋,她还算给齐浩洋留了最后一点颜面-在确定自己不想要和齐浩洋在一起,而且她最近又认识了一个身家不错的富二代之后,她就很果断地跟齐浩洋分了手,之后才答应了富二代的追求。This can only be the seamlesstrail connection......
这只能算是无缝接轨……Butregardingsimultaneous/uniformHaoyang, whatthissituationwithgoing off track to distinguish? Hesadlytodrinkingseveraldays of liquor, drankto spit bloodhimself.
但对于齐浩洋来说,这种情况跟出轨有什么区别?他伤心到喝了几天酒,把自己喝到吐血。Leading a befuddled life as if drunk or dreamingtime, simultaneous/uniformHaoyanghasYaoRuiqicalls, butYaoRuiqihas not come to seehim, buttoldtheircommonfriend- DuBei who initiallyattended the Yang Hanfansconferencetogether.
醉生梦死的时候,齐浩洋有给姚瑞琪打电话,但姚瑞琪没来看他,只是告诉了他们两个的共同朋友-当初一起参加杨涵粉丝见面会的杜蓓。DuBei and boyfriendsideis first handsometo catch upfromPengcheng, sends to the hospitalsimultaneous/uniformHaoyang, after behindhasYang Hanknew the circumstances of the matter, leads the person the situation in emulationvastocean.
杜蓓和男朋友方先俊从鹏城赶来,将齐浩洋送去医院,后面才有了杨涵知情后,带人去看齐浩洋的情况。
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After knowingthese, Yang Hanstartssome to understand why simultaneous/uniformHaoyangsaidYaoRuiqi„material”......
知道这些后,杨涵开始有些能够理解齐浩洋为什么说姚瑞琪“物质”了……ButYang Handid not plan that condemnedYaoRuiqiwithsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangtogether, becausehewas not a judge, did not have the moralsto criticizeothers'hobby, hewas onlylistened tosimultaneous/uniformHaoyangto be verbose, whilesilentlysteaming the goodChinese yam, the additionalmilk and saltpounded the mud.
但杨涵并不打算跟齐浩洋一起谴责姚瑞琪,因为他不是法官,也没有道德批判别人的爱好,他只是一边听着齐浩洋絮絮叨叨,一边默默地将蒸好的山药,加牛奶和盐捣成泥。In addition, the ricealsoboiled, he first abundantfirst halfbowl, dugscrapbutterto go , was filled with the food, the surfacecoveredto pound the goodChinese yammuda moment ago, the seafoodsoy saucedrenchesseveraldrops.
此外,米饭也煮好了,他先盛上半碗,挖一小块黄油进去,再将饭盛满,表面盖上刚才捣好的山药泥,海鲜酱油淋上几滴。„Chinese yammudmixes the food, thought that doespig tripesoup that candrinkthisto raise the stomach.”Yang Han the food and front of souptogetherendarriving in fullvastocean, the fragrance of pepperpig tripesoup, lettingsimultaneous/uniformHaoyang who had not eaten to the fulla moment agoall of a suddenalsogreedy.
“山药泥拌饭,觉得干可以喝点这个养胃的猪肚汤。”杨涵将饭和汤一起端到齐浩洋的面前,胡椒猪肚汤的香味,让刚才没吃饱的齐浩洋一下子又馋了起来。Naturally, suchattractiveswayedplate, mustfirstphotograph.
当然,这么漂亮的摆盘,还是要先拍照。Looks that simultaneous/uniformHaoyangphotographs, directshim to stirwhile convenientgets food downeatsagain, Yang Hanstands on one side, explained his affectionwithsimultaneous/uniformHaoyangslowly.
看着齐浩洋拍照,也顺便指点一下他要搅拌一下饭再吃,杨涵站在一边,慢悠悠地跟齐浩洋解读起了他这段恋情。„Lovenottowrong, wears the shoesto be the same probably, the shoesare not well-fit, can't yougo to the strangeshoesor the foot? The inappropriatewords, do not needto assembleforcefully, does not needto be swayed by personal gains and losses. Youwallowin the previoussentiment, not onlynoadvantage, will also be injuredbyoneself, will makeyoumisssuitsyourpersontruly!”
“爱情是没有对错的,就好像穿鞋子一样,鞋子不合脚,你不能去怪鞋子或者脚吧?不合适的话,就没必要强行凑合,也没必要患得患失。你沉迷在上一段感情中,不但没有一点好处,还会让自己受伤,也会让你错过真正适合你的人!”
The truthtrulyissuch a truth, simultaneous/uniformHaoyangis notdoes not understand, butis in the person in bureau, is always hardto get over an emotion, is always hard.
道理确实是这样一个道理,齐浩洋也不是不懂,但身在局中的人,总是难以释怀,也总是难以走得出来。„Pastmakesitpass, naturally, cantreatyour, only then, do not thinkwith the newsentimentforgotoldsentiment, does thisistoothers'irresponsibleness.”
“过去的就让它过去,当然,能够治疗你的,只有你自己,不要想着用新的感情来忘掉旧的感情,这样做是对别人的不负责任。”simultaneous/uniformHao the foreignchopsticksstoppedin the food, hesitant, said: „But, the pigeonteacher, what to do can't Ipass?”
齐浩洋筷子停在了饭里,犹豫一下,说道:“可是,鸽老师,我心里过不去怎么办?”„Cannot pass, thatlets itselfcalmlysome time! In this period of time, the learnedloves itselfwell, likesworkingwell, loves the family memberwell. Whenyouthought that youput down, thought that cangofacingthispasttranquilly, candraw the lesson, knowswhatoneselfwantswasanything, thenyouproceededto lookagain.”
“过不去,那就让自己冷静一段时间!在这段时间里,学会好好爱自己,好好爱工作,好好爱家人。什么时候你觉得自己放下了,觉得可以平静去面对这段过去,可以从中吸取教训,也知道自己想要的是什么了,然后你再往前看。”Yang Hanshows a faint smile: „Yourhow longhasn't gone home? How longdoesn't haveto chat with the family memberwell, cares aboutthem?”杨涵微微一笑:“你多久没回家了?多久没有好好地陪家人聊聊天,关心一下他们?”„ISpring Festivalhave gone backonetime, buthas not communicatedwiththem, went back for twodaysto come backGuangzhou.”simultaneous/uniformHao the oceansomewhatsaidashamed.
“我春节回去过一次,但没有怎么跟他们沟通,回去两天又回来羊城了。”齐浩洋有些惭愧地说道。„Thatgoes back, happen, next weekwon't beDragon Boat Festival? Goes backto chatwithyour fathermother, may notsay that your sentimentexperiences, youask that theirphysical conditions, understandsthemusuallyin the situation of home.”Yang Hansaid with a smile, „ourpeople, in the lifecannotonly have the love, cannotbecause of the love, youthinklike madcarefully,besides the love, did not have the parents, the person who did needyouto care about?”
“那就回去一趟,正好,下个星期不是端午节了吗?回去跟你爸爸妈妈聊一聊,不一定要说你这个感情经历,你就问问他们的身体状况,了解一下他们平时在家的情况。”杨涵笑道,“咱们人啊,生活里不能只有爱情,也不能因为爱情就要死要活的,你仔细想想,除了爱情,不是还有爸爸妈妈,还有很多需要你关心的人吗?”simultaneous/uniformHaoyangwas shocked, partly after making a sound, henodssilently.
齐浩洋愣住了,半响后,他才默默地点了点头。„Eats mealquickly, do not wait for the foodto be cool.”Yang Hansaid with a smile, „deferred to the convention, Isangtoyou!”
“快吃饭吧,别等饭凉了。”杨涵笑道,“还是按照惯例,我给你唱首歌吧!”
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